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For me I don't like to be called female because it degrading like I am not a person. I'm an animal? I don't deserve the respect of being a person. To me I view it the same as if you had a child and it was a girl. You call the child girl or it nothing else.
I think some women are offended by the term “female” because usually when it is used, it’s used in a disrespectful or derogatory way. For example some people use it to say “y’all females always...” or “I hate when females...” so it seems degrading.
Also human female adults have a name that we're called. It's women! That female ish is degrading bc it's dehumanizing. Referring to us as females only refers to our sex. When you say female you could be talking about any number of species: female dog, female turtle, female ant. What kind of female? Female humans are women or girls!! So use the right language. Men also use that word to subtitute for the word b****es.
On the topic of physical violence, I think an extension of that conversation should be, if you see signs of physical violence **towards you** leave immediately. To Isi’s point, a person hitting a wall is alarming behavior no doubt, simply because it illustrates a (possible) streak of anger manifested through violence. However, if a person has physically shoved you, firmly grabbed you, or any other aggressive gesture, trust me, more likely than not, it will only progress down the line. Also, please remember that very few instances of domestic violence start with a slap to the face. More often than not, verbal abuse was a precursor, so always check verbal abuse as well. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.
There is a difference and sometimes it doesn't even matter. Case in point I was at a boyfriend's house and he got upset about something-he started cursing, yelling, and throwing things around the bedroom. I waited until he went into the bathroom then i put my shoes on , grabbed my clothes, purse, put my coat on over my night-gown and I was gone. I didn't feel right and I wasn't waiting for what might have been next.
Calisa Hardy Oh wow, yeah, I’d be on high alert after that. If you don’t mind my asking, what was y’all’s subsequent conversation? Did he question your unannounced departure the next day?
@@AmariHetep He called me a few hours later and I explained _why_ I left how I did. He didn't really seem to get it. He kept trying to explain it away like it wasn't that drastic. I know what I experienced.. I'm not crazy. We broke up soon after that.
This video really hit me differently. I just ended a relationship of 3 years. As much as I loved him, we wasn’t on the same wavelength like y’all suggested and over time I began to realize I wanted different things in my relationship. It was long distance on top of that and I need to be with someone going forward who is physically here with me. Moral of the story, DON’T SETTLE SIS.
Happy for you! It's really a tough decision knowing when to leave. Sometimes feelings and emotions get in the way and got u so confused. But better get out earlier, than to stay linger and suffer. My last relationship ended because my partner and I were not on the same wave length. It was hard but worked out for the best. Currently going on 4 years with my new partner
I don't like people calling women "females" because 1.) it feels like b**** version 2 2.) it feels like you're more of an object than an actual person 3.) when I see people use it (usually men) it's used in a commanding/negative way e.g. "I hate it when females...", "If a female does ___ then..." 4.) I don't feel men would like to be generalized by the term "males" However, this is my perspective and others may not feel that way. Let me know, how do y'all feel?
I’m bout to start using “beep beep, beep beep” 😭😂 From my experience though, many of the times people have used the term “Female” to approach me or talk about others to me, it’s been a disrespectful manor which is why I don’t like being called that, basically a history of disrespect is attached to it.
Thank you guys for making this video in such perfect timing. I was second guessing my choice to leave my three and half year relationship due to remembering the good times, but thank you so much for reminding my the remain strong in my boundaries to also acknowledge that I am also a love worth waiting for, therefore I shouldn't settle. God bless you!
it has almost been a year that i got out of a toxic friendship with my boy best friend. i was constantly disrespected. had i known that he was this disrespectful, i would’ve left immediately. however, i was a vulnerable wreck when i met him. i thought he truly cared for me, which he claimed he did. overtime, i could not deal with being disrespected. it was making me question my self worth & respect. never again.
Completely agree with the point of women not putting their hands on men YESSSS I have brothers and wish one of the partners would!! TUH Me being the younger sister doesn't matter I'd fight!!! Ladies pleaseeeee don't have this toxic mentality
This was such a good topic! The boundaries this is soo important even after a relationship. So I believe exes can still be friends (in some cases). So I had this ex-boyfriend from high school and we would still talk and text each other. But it came to a point that he would say stuff that made me uncomfortable and I would tell him how it made me feel and ask him to stop. And he would for a little while but after some time he would do it again. It eventually came to the point where every time we talked I knew he would bring something up to make me uncomfortable. At the point, I realized it’s more than just choosing my boundary now he’s bein outright disrespectful so I made the decision (and told him) that we can’t talk or even be friends. Like Isi said it was a hard decision cause we were really good friends before we got into a relationship so I did feel like I was losing the “2 for 1” but at the end of the day I’m not gonna stand for someone disrespecting me so 🤷🏽♀️
BRROOOOOOO ISI @ 6:00 when you were talking about putting in more work in a friendship than the other person... sis let me tell you....I 👏🏾FELT 👏🏾EVERY 👏🏾WORD 👏🏾OF 👏🏾THAT 👏🏾IN 👏🏾MY 👏🏾SOULLLLL.
Broooo everytime y’all eat, the food looks soooo good and y’all make me want what y’all eating that very second 😫😫😂last time I went out and really bough the chipotle 😂
Thank you guys so much for being so clear and open with us about what a healthy relationship should feel and sound and look like. Because of your videos and the words and help of other people in my life I was able to leave a unhealthy abusive and toxic relationship. Ladies and gentlemen, we know when a man or woman is not good for us. I waited two years and got to the point where my ex put hands on me and put me against a wall and even after I waited two days to breakup. Do not I repeat do not stay in a relationship hoping it'll get better when their are clear signs it won't. Thank you so much, Josh and Isi for all of your help and love for your fans.
I love, more than anything, that u guys are able to talk to each other about this and share it with us. The topic is important and I’m glad that you lets your viewers in on it and your thoughts. I love these eat and chills
Josh I can heavily relate to you on Isi & accountability. My boyfriend & I went through that year one & I was THIS👌🏾close to leaving! It’s gotten so much better now but I wouldn’t wish that on nooobody. Shit is frustrating. Isi you look so gorgeous 😍
This lunchbox cooker thingy is really interesting lol(one of the commercials)! And OFC I freakin' loved you guys' video as always, I'm binge -watching, just got off from work xoxo
And of course this was another QUALITY video !!💯💑 Thanks for these tips which should be daily reminders that we should never settle for less than we deserve!🙏 Relationships / Friendships / Situationships 💖 Isi glowing though! Absolutely Gorgeous 🍯😍
The word 'female" offends me based on how it's used. For example, my boyfriend and I were chilling in my car and a girl pulled up beside us. The way she pulled up in her car was bad because she kept having to reverse like three times just so she could park appropriately. My boyfriend was laughing and making comments, and then he said some females cant drive. I told him not to say that, and he said I didn't include you, I said some. And I said, I don't care...don't say females, just say she can't drive. To me, the word female can sound demeaning based on how someone uses it. Don't generalize us or me.
Can y’all please do an eat and chill about waiting until marriage and other things the Bible talks about that our society typically doesn’t conform to?
When dudes say "female" it's almost always in a dismissive or derogatory tone. I don't personally like it. Women, ladies, girls, queens. Anything you would refer to your mother as is acceptable to me. But if you wouldn't call your mom a female...then 🤷🏾♀️
I have a lot of things I need to ask you about my bf and I wish I could probably have a one on one chat with you to really understand somethings. You hit a lot of points on this video and at some point it was like you were talking to me but then I still want to explain my situation to you and hopefully that would help. Thank you
i personally wouldn’t want to be called “female” or "chick" because it sounds so rudimentary like in science they call animals females and i’m a whole human being
If he cheats, I'm OUT!!!! I don't want to be in a relationship with a man who disregarded how it would make me feel and DECIDED, to have sex with another woman. Period! ------- Love when you two pray and your openness!!! 💕
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Good cuz I was mad y’all didn’t do vlogmas
For me I don't like to be called female because it degrading like I am not a person. I'm an animal? I don't deserve the respect of being a person. To me I view it the same as if you had a child and it was a girl. You call the child girl or it nothing else.
That prayer just got you a subscriber right here👍🏿
I think some women are offended by the term “female” because usually when it is used, it’s used in a disrespectful or derogatory way. For example some people use it to say “y’all females always...” or “I hate when females...” so it seems degrading.
joanneeb or when they want to say something regarding both genders they say “men” and “females”
Exactly and female isn’t only pertaining to humans so I can why that’s offensive
Also human female adults have a name that we're called. It's women! That female ish is degrading bc it's dehumanizing. Referring to us as females only refers to our sex. When you say female you could be talking about any number of species: female dog, female turtle, female ant. What kind of female? Female humans are women or girls!! So use the right language. Men also use that word to subtitute for the word b****es.
@AfroDreamer I can admit that I don't like saying b*tch (excluding talking to my friend girls), so I do use female in a derogatory manner.
T Paris_O yes girl thank you
Josh talks so intelligently! I freakin love it!!
Sarah Jones 🤔
Sarah Jones speaks*
Airi Lamb ah thank you. I knew something was off about that statement
They compliment each other...love their ability to communicate!!!! Love them
On the topic of physical violence, I think an extension of that conversation should be, if you see signs of physical violence **towards you** leave immediately. To Isi’s point, a person hitting a wall is alarming behavior no doubt, simply because it illustrates a (possible) streak of anger manifested through violence. However, if a person has physically shoved you, firmly grabbed you, or any other aggressive gesture, trust me, more likely than not, it will only progress down the line.
Also, please remember that very few instances of domestic violence start with a slap to the face. More often than not, verbal abuse was a precursor, so always check verbal abuse as well.
Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.
Loool thanks speaker.. but seriously thanks 🙏🏿
There is a difference and sometimes it doesn't even matter. Case in point I was at a boyfriend's house and he got upset about something-he started cursing, yelling, and throwing things around the bedroom. I waited until he went into the bathroom then i put my shoes on , grabbed my clothes, purse, put my coat on over my night-gown and I was gone. I didn't feel right and I wasn't waiting for what might have been next.
Calisa Hardy Oh wow, yeah, I’d be on high alert after that. If you don’t mind my asking, what was y’all’s subsequent conversation? Did he question your unannounced departure the next day?
@@AmariHetep He called me a few hours later and I explained _why_ I left how I did. He didn't really seem to get it. He kept trying to explain it away like it wasn't that drastic. I know what I experienced.. I'm not crazy. We broke up soon after that.
Calisa Hardy Whew, chile. Yeah, parting ways was definitely for the best. Glad you knew to get out.
Eat and Chill//religion and spirituality in a relationship
Agreed
I got out of a really toxic relationship 4 months ago and I honestly am so proud of myself and I’m doing so much better 💕
Keep it up boo. I got out 8 months ago. You got this.
Cassidy Brown thank you so much! You got this too ☺️❤️❤️
Proud of you Kara ❤️ keep it up
lexi lovessyouu thank you so much ☺️❤️❤️
And I am proud of you as well sis 😌❤️
No body:
Not a damn body:
Isi: You got me messed up
😂😂
This video really hit me differently. I just ended a relationship of 3 years. As much as I loved him, we wasn’t on the same wavelength like y’all suggested and over time I began to realize I wanted different things in my relationship. It was long distance on top of that and I need to be with someone going forward who is physically here with me. Moral of the story, DON’T SETTLE SIS.
Happy for you! It's really a tough decision knowing when to leave. Sometimes feelings and emotions get in the way and got u so confused. But better get out earlier, than to stay linger and suffer. My last relationship ended because my partner and I were not on the same wave length. It was hard but worked out for the best. Currently going on 4 years with my new partner
I don't like people calling women "females" because
1.) it feels like b**** version 2
2.) it feels like you're more of an object than an actual person
3.) when I see people use it (usually men) it's used in a commanding/negative way e.g. "I hate it when females...", "If a female does ___ then..."
4.) I don't feel men would like to be generalized by the term "males"
However, this is my perspective and others may not feel that way. Let me know, how do y'all feel?
Saw this comment after I commented and you def explained it better than I did 😂
I agree
Totally agree, I feel like it’s used in a derogatory way that’s supposed to be like a cover up for the b word
Definitely
I couldn’t agree more and just realised this is exactly how I felt, I always knew I didn’t like it when ppl said that but I didn’t know why.
The whole time yall having the “beep beep beep beep” discussion I was tickled bc all I could think about was the Roadrunner😂
I feel like female is a softer word for "b**ch" it just sounds negative to me
I definitely thought y’all was playin BUT I AINT COMPLAINTING THO 🤑🤑🤑🤪 we love this quantity of quality videos
Second time watching this “be beep be beep” 😂😂😂
I’m bout to start using “beep beep, beep beep” 😭😂 From my experience though, many of the times people have used the term “Female” to approach me or talk about others to me, it’s been a disrespectful manor which is why I don’t like being called that, basically a history of disrespect is attached to it.
Thank you guys for making this video in such perfect timing. I was second guessing my choice to leave my three and half year relationship due to remembering the good times, but thank you so much for reminding my the remain strong in my boundaries to also acknowledge that I am also a love worth waiting for, therefore I shouldn't settle. God bless you!
“The first bite belongs to the owner” LOLLL😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 ily guys
"if you can't talk about be beep be beep, you shouldn't be doing be beep be beep"😂
Ok so the story about isi playing victim really hit home....I'm gonna go apologize to my man😩
it has almost been a year that i got out of a toxic friendship with my boy best friend. i was constantly disrespected. had i known that he was this disrespectful, i would’ve left immediately. however, i was a vulnerable wreck when i met him. i thought he truly cared for me, which he claimed he did. overtime, i could not deal with being disrespected. it was making me question my self worth & respect. never again.
Him smacking b4 he prayed!!! I- I cannot- 😂😂
Absolutely love your content! Makes me believe that someone who understands me is out there
Josh and Isi, coming through with that consistency
Being with you has helped me raise my frequency..... deep.
That prayer Though I'm wit it💜 😂😂😂😂 I love God!
I want to see Isi pray next eat and chill 😎
Completely agree with the point of women not putting their hands on men YESSSS I have brothers and wish one of the partners would!! TUH Me being the younger sister doesn't matter I'd fight!!! Ladies pleaseeeee don't have this toxic mentality
This was such a good topic! The boundaries this is soo important even after a relationship. So I believe exes can still be friends (in some cases). So I had this ex-boyfriend from high school and we would still talk and text each other. But it came to a point that he would say stuff that made me uncomfortable and I would tell him how it made me feel and ask him to stop. And he would for a little while but after some time he would do it again. It eventually came to the point where every time we talked I knew he would bring something up to make me uncomfortable. At the point, I realized it’s more than just choosing my boundary now he’s bein outright disrespectful so I made the decision (and told him) that we can’t talk or even be friends. Like Isi said it was a hard decision cause we were really good friends before we got into a relationship so I did feel like I was losing the “2 for 1” but at the end of the day I’m not gonna stand for someone disrespecting me so 🤷🏽♀️
These eat and chill always feed my soul...tks guys and welcome back
Nuff love 💘
the questions Isi gives Josh is tempting bro. I get where she coming from, hell she right for askin em. BUT i would go crazy lol
Y’all better go like that other video! Cuz I’m tryna see year 4!!!
Pat' Rose righttt
BRROOOOOOO ISI @ 6:00 when you were talking about putting in more work in a friendship than the other person... sis let me tell you....I 👏🏾FELT 👏🏾EVERY 👏🏾WORD 👏🏾OF 👏🏾THAT 👏🏾IN 👏🏾MY 👏🏾SOULLLLL.
EC Nodding to the prayer like “yeeeees amen”🙏🏾 I felt that
Ayyy just in time. Just got my Chick-fil-A and sat down too ☺️
I agree josh !! THE FIRST BITE BELONGS TO THE OWNER !! My boyfriend takes my food ALLLLL THE TIMEEEEE
Broooo everytime y’all eat, the food looks soooo good and y’all make me want what y’all eating that very second 😫😫😂last time I went out and really bough the chipotle 😂
Thank you guys so much for being so clear and open with us about what a healthy relationship should feel and sound and look like. Because of your videos and the words and help of other people in my life I was able to leave a unhealthy abusive and toxic relationship. Ladies and gentlemen, we know when a man or woman is not good for us. I waited two years and got to the point where my ex put hands on me and put me against a wall and even after I waited two days to breakup. Do not I repeat do not stay in a relationship hoping it'll get better when their are clear signs it won't. Thank you so much, Josh and Isi for all of your help and love for your fans.
Im holding on to memories.
Which is why i stay🤧
YALL ARE MY FAVORITE TH-camRS !!❤️ I LOVE YALL SO MUCH I BEEN WATCHING YALL FOR A LONG TIMEEE🥺!
Try the spicy deluxe with Polynesian sauce 👀
Hell yeah. That is my absolute favorite.
Omg yasss
I love, more than anything, that u guys are able to talk to each other about this and share it with us. The topic is important and I’m glad that you lets your viewers in on it and your thoughts. I love these eat and chills
Yeah we thought yall were playing😂Keep the videos coming, the notification that yall posted made me happy!
Love your hair in this Isi
Chic fillet??? You know this chat is going to be good.
Love you guys and can’t wait for 12 day til Christmas Day
"hella stupid lit" is Isi's phrase tho Josh. Have to admit it
Josh I can heavily relate to you on Isi & accountability. My boyfriend & I went through that year one & I was THIS👌🏾close to leaving! It’s gotten so much better now but I wouldn’t wish that on nooobody. Shit is frustrating. Isi you look so gorgeous 😍
Lol. The first bite does belong to the owner. Lots of sound advice.
The prayer though.. amen 💜
Isi you got a keeper there,Intelligent too.God Bless You Both
I love how you pray in your videos, because I pray with you ❤️
Teach us wise ones!!💕🥰 #JISquad!!!!
No! You put the Chick Fil A sauce on the spicy chicken!!!!!! Thank me later
Aurielle G. Yesss Chick fil a sauce is the best
I loveeeeeee how in tune the two of you areeee....so much beautiful energy 😭💕
omg I couldn't figure out what beebeebe was till the end omg
I would love to see a collaboration with Dearra and Ken on one of your couple videos❤️
Y’all spitting some real stuff in this video👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Surface level on vibrational scale...wow... impressed.
This lunchbox cooker thingy is really interesting lol(one of the commercials)! And OFC I freakin' loved you guys' video as always, I'm binge -watching, just got off from work xoxo
I want the Shabooki, BTW I have no idea if I'm spelling this right 🤦♀️
It took me a hot minute to figure out what "BE BEEP BEEP" meant. Clearly means I am not ready for it 😂💀
What does it mean? I been confused ever since they said it 😂😂😂
@@miikaaah183 sex lol
lmao me too, i was like what is this "be beep beep beep" shit they have going on
Communication is key to a healthy any relationship.
All that was said on here is all FACTS! 💕💯💯💯💯
You ever see the thumb nail and be like isi’s hair is popping so imma click.
Josh you were too funny smacking , Love you guys
your both good people as a couple but most importantly as individuals on this earth
Polynesian is the best sauce thoooo
whoa!!! I just finished eating the same thing!!! But I drank fruit punch mixed with the lemonade. i bought a cookie too!
Love love relationship chit chats
They make me learn
This video was so relatable to me even if I am young.
Totally agree with the first bite!!!😂❤️
That’s uptown lemonade mixed with sweet tea
Man y’all got Chick-fil-A and that’s my favorite place. Save me some
I like this alot y'all
Isi is looking extra tantalizing😍😍😍
I just love y'all. Had me smiling so hard my cheeks hurt now.
And of course this was another QUALITY video !!💯💑 Thanks for these tips which should be daily reminders that we should never settle for less than we deserve!🙏 Relationships / Friendships / Situationships 💖
Isi glowing though! Absolutely Gorgeous 🍯😍
The word 'female" offends me based on how it's used. For example, my boyfriend and I were chilling in my car and a girl pulled up beside us. The way she pulled up in her car was bad because she kept having to reverse like three times just so she could park appropriately. My boyfriend was laughing and making comments, and then he said some females cant drive. I told him not to say that, and he said I didn't include you, I said some. And I said, I don't care...don't say females, just say she can't drive. To me, the word female can sound demeaning based on how someone uses it. Don't generalize us or me.
Talk about time management dynamic how he would be in season and u would be in season after he’s not
I'm a Baltimore Girl, So THAT there, is what we call a Half & Half. Arnold Palmer my behind lol
Gurl forreal, I was like yall mean a half&half...Bmore all day
Omg. Her fit👏🏾
wattttuppp noti gang
Can y’all please do an eat and chill about waiting until marriage and other things the Bible talks about that our society typically doesn’t conform to?
When dudes say "female" it's almost always in a dismissive or derogatory tone. I don't personally like it. Women, ladies, girls, queens. Anything you would refer to your mother as is acceptable to me. But if you wouldn't call your mom a female...then 🤷🏾♀️
My new fave youtube couple♡
Dang this video came right on time lol
I love yall's GOOFY!!!!
I have a lot of things I need to ask you about my bf and I wish I could probably have a one on one chat with you to really understand somethings. You hit a lot of points on this video and at some point it was like you were talking to me but then I still want to explain my situation to you and hopefully that would help. Thank you
Afraid to start over ..YES poor intimacy!!!!
Love you guys❤️❤️❤️
i personally wouldn’t want to be called “female” or "chick" because it sounds so rudimentary like in science they call animals females and i’m a whole human being
At the beep beep beep beep part kt felt like they were talking to us if we were their kids
This was a quality video💚💓💚💓
I love y’all
If he cheats, I'm OUT!!!! I don't want to be in a relationship with a man who disregarded how it would make me feel and DECIDED, to have sex with another woman. Period! ------- Love when you two pray and your openness!!! 💕
Okay haven't even began watching watching it yet and I'm already hungry 😭
Josh and the first bite 😂😂😂😂
Communication is most likely under quality time. Therefore it is one of the 5 love languages written by Dr. Chapman.
Josh repping B.S.A!!!!!!
This was a real good one
Can we please talk about whatever stunt Josh was pulling during the intro, I am dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😂😭😂