Oh my GOSH, the baby noises. Pure magic. I'm so proud of you for delegating at work, and asking for help when you're overwhelmed, and your self-awareness around what you can and can't do right now, and honestly, for just Doing the Thing of getting through every day when you've now got a whole other human to care for. Way. To. Go.
Childminder or a nanny means one extra person who loves Rowan in his life - my mum nannied a family for 8/10 years in the 80s and we are still so close. I ended up growing up with 4 older siblings and Faux-grandparents not in my family, and it was brilliant!
I'm a nanny for a family that I've worked for since their now 9 year old was 3.5. This is honestly so true. I love those three kids more than anything consider them family. It has been truly a gift to have had the opportunity to watch these kids grow up and learn. As their mom tells her friends, the kids having a nanny doesn't mean that she loves them less, it means that she loves herself to be able to take time for self-care and career development.
@@ZEERODO 100%! We got to watch all 4 get married, and my mum is just an additional parent! So great that parents can work and then be in a good enough headspace to actually enjoy their kids 😀
Yes my mum and aunt are still in contact with the children of the woman who used to nanny them, they went to their weddings and get the occasional photo of their kids, etc. It’s really sweet.
I echo this. I grew up with two full (very full) time working parents. Being the last one in after school club all the time was pretty sad. But going round to Rae's was lovely. It felt like being with a member of the extended family. She taught me to knit; she recorder Blue Peter episodes on video; she had a gorgeous golden Labrador/greyhound cross called Cleo who I would walk on a second lead whilst she held the first as I wasn't strong enough. That was from ages 7-10 I think so over 15 years ago and I still remember.
My mum went back to work part time when I was 2 months old and then I started going to a childminder when I was 4 months old and while I’m sure it must’ve been hard for her to leave her little baby there, I’m so thankful she did because my childminder is like an bonus granny to me. I honestly couldn’t imagine my life without her. She used to come to all my birthdays with the rest of my family, her home has always felt like a second home and I visit her every time I’m back home now, 24 years later 😁 So while I’m sure it’s so stressful for you now, maybe it helps to see it as an opportunity for him to develop great relationships with other people 😊
I'm from a culture where that's quite normal, it really isn't that unusual to have that one friend you "met" at the child minder's when you were a few months old that you have until the end of primary school. If your kid likes the adults and one or two other kids at their childcare, they're going to be fine.
as a person without children but observing plenty of work mates - once breast feeding is less of a concern, consider including a full day of child minding, even if that means dropping one of the half days. A lot of time is spent on the drop off and pick up, so you save that time. You wont have to interrupt your workflow as much but also.... take 2 hours of that time to get non work stuff done. watch a movie, catch up with a friend, do shopping, have a nap or some bedroom fun times. its okay to use child minding for things other than work, especially if it means the time you get to spend with your kids then becomes way more about them.
Go you for keeping Rowan's face private - it no doubt makes filming harder/you have to be more conscious of what's in shot, but I know he'll appreciate when he's older being able to choose how much of his life is shared online! Also think of the childminding as just another person to love on him, and it also means you can be the best version of yourself since you are able to continue your passions in your work. Sending you support as you all adjust to the new schedule!
I just want to say I am SO HAPPY AS BALLS that you are not showing his face. I mean I bet he is just adorable, but there is too much child exploitation on TH-cam, and i'm glad you are keeping him out of it :)
@@peachxtaehyung Perhaps, but also he can't really consent since he's an infant and part of a parent's job is to provide boundaries until they're old enough to understand and give informed consent themselves. There are no down sides to not showing his face, and it could easily help him avoid mental health or other issues later. I admire Hannah's commitment to this kind of boundary, though of course it'd be great to see his cute lil face.
If you are up for it, I would love some content on the expenses of having a new baby- birth, childminder, diapers, etc- is there anything you are spending more $$ on than you expected and anything you were surprised you didn’t need or you spent less on?
It is expensive. Everything. Having a kid is pretty much in the Millions of dollars once you add all upon. You could travel the whole world with all that money.
The admiration I just have for you is INSANE I can not even comprehend the amount of energy and effort and organisation this takes to come back so soon 😳 so bloody proud to be a Patreon of yours ❤️
@@ZairaBandy but the work time she is going to lose for the child is never coming back either. (I don't wanna speak for Hannah but) working is probably something she enjoys, and finding a balance between that and caring for her baby may very well be what makes her the happiest. Dividing your time between different activities doesn't mean you are missing out on one of them, and the same goes for spending time with your child
If Rowan is often fussy like this and doesn't want to be put down, you might want to try a baby sling or carrier. Many babies just want body contact and a sling frees your hands which allows you to get other stuff done while still giving them what they need.
I’m a childminder! It’s cliche to say, but as soon as the children first enter my home they are family 💕 I care for a group of boys at the moment who are all in one-child households, but they have brothers in each other, it’s the same relationship dynamic and their parents all love it! It’s great to see you back Hannah, and looking amazing may I say!
@@ZairaBandy childminders are similar to nursery in that we offer childcare in the early years, aged 0-5 years, but also to older children if we choose. We are Ofsted registered (the UKs governing body for education) and trained in first aid and safeguarding, as well as a childcare qualification. We work from our homes, with less children than nurseries. We provide education to the early years using a curriculum of our choice, mine is learning through play and experience, so we go on lots of outings to really improve the children’s understanding of the world. Last week we went to the zoo, the farm, the museum, a fun day organised by the council, and we go to a care home once a week and sing nursery rhymes with them (this is my favourite, it enriches the children, they love playing and sharing instruments, but also the residents - a lady with dementia attends and her carers say she’s the most alert around the children). Being a childminder means opening your home to children whose parents are working, giving them a loving and caring environment to learn and grow. Sorry if I’ve rambled, I’m passionate about my job 💕
I worked in childcare for 10 years with the little ones(under 1) I promise you most babies love it! The extra attention and social interaction is all good. And usually makes it easier to transition them to the older classes than if they were home with parents that whole time. Sending lots of good vibes!!
I really respect folks on the internet who make a conscious decision to keep their children private online. So, here’s a little comment of support in case there are any people trying to make you feel bad for it!
But putting a emoticon in front of their faces is annoying. Jessica Kellgren-Fozard does it better. With blur without emoticons. Just being careful not to show the babies face. That’s it.
@@ZairaBandy i would disagree i find the blur a bit unsettling the emoji is just cute. either way i think we should respect anyones decision of how they preserve the privacy of their child even if it isn’t to our precise tastes.
My mum was studying for her general nurses exam when I popped out the sunroof. She had to stay in hospital for a week so decided to crack on with some studying whilst she was healing and had help. Then Christmas came so studying was abandoned. She’d take me to the hospital library to study after Christmas and I was such a chill baby/good sleeper none of the other nurses knew I was there until I screamed for my feed and nappy change. I was very cute so was forgiven. So welcome to doing life with a baby!
💐Please don’t feel bad, Hannah! Remember that it’s two of you and when you’re home juggling work and the baby, your partner is at work doing their thing not juggling a baby. Point being, please don’t feel bad for there being an active teamwork going on- it’s a beautiful thing! Society has taught us women to feel guilt if we’re not doing it all (child-rearing, work, cooking, cleaning, making sure the social life is staying active, planning etc etc). Plus! Getting both of you will do wonders for little one’s secure attachment.
My nanny was the best, her an her husband were our second set of parents and i just can't imagine never having known them! My parents always said how immensely grateful they were, both working full-time demanding jobs, and me being just about 3 month old with a heavy surgery as a baby, to have someone they could trust implicitly to look after me. If you strike gold, nannies can really become indispensable and an integral part of the family, I hope this turns out the same for you!
Hi - was thinking a video with Sierra Scultzie would be interesting - comparing being pregnant / parenting on YTube, working out how much to share of baby and the work / life balance etc I understand the time zone difference making things harder though!
It's really exciting to see you back and a little snippet of your new mum life! I returned to work when our son was 16 weeks so I know how hard that is emotionally because they feel so tiny still and I hated having to put him in childcare etc but needs must! It does get easier as time goes by + I think our son is much more confident socially because of it (whilst also still loving being as close to his Mummy as possible!) 💛
Its really lively to see you and Dan as parents, warmed my heart when you were sitting on the floor with Rowan giggling together while eating breakfast, wish you all the best on your parenting journey
i love that u talk to him like he's an adult, my parents did that with me growing up and it really helped w my vocabulary (now i'm studying creative writing at uni so maybe it had impact there)
Welcome back! I'd love to see similar content you've made in the past (books, productivity, lifestyle, etc.) but with a parenthood twist. Like how those things/habits have changed now. But also I'd love to see those things without the parenthood aspect because you're also your own person. :)
Everyone has partner guilt. My dad had to take annual leave day so my mum could take her general nursing exam when I was about 2 months old. She was still breastfeeding and the exam was an all day thing (she managed to come home for everyone’s lunch). But my dad loved having a day off to catch up on some sport and watch a couple of movies whilst I was passed out on him (he was a great baby bed). Dads like an excuse to not work and have fun with the kids I think
The dream it would be that we didn’t have to work for money but everything is so expensive that parents have to lose time with their child (that will never get back) just because they have to work. It is really sad
The constant juggling is REAL! You’ve so got this though! The mum-guilt that comes with putting my baby in childcare is always something I feel looming over my head, but it’s good for me AND her to have some space, explore new places, meet new people! Wishing you all the best in your return to work!
Ahh how exciting ! I'm currently 7months pregnant , I dont think its hit me yet what my days are going to look like with a new (emotional) human sharing my space 🥴 I cant imagine trying to work and be interrupted constantly!!! You are doing amazing and I commend you! Thank you for sharing your life with us!
Yay Shaaba and Jamie and Hannah, I hope next you have the Kellgren-Fozard family, oooh future playdates between Rupert, n Rowan, How far away is Brighton anyway?
In my country, it is absolutely normal to stay on maternity leave not for 3 months but for 3 YEARS. It is so wild to me that mothers (or birthing parents in general) resume work after just three months after such a huge process in both mind and body.
Look up wonder weeks! They are really hard weeks while baby makes developmental leaps (hence the really good things like smiles). It helps know that it's temporary. I went back to work at 2.5 weeks with my first and 6 weeks with my 2nd/3rd. It is HARD! You do whatever feels best for you.
This is so nice to watch because it is so similar to my experience right now! My baby (first!) is in nursery for 4 afternoons a week and was since he was 4 months (he’s turning 6 months next week). So I know all the things you’re feeling. It’s a juggle and a struggle. I feel you and appreciate you documenting it so I feel not so alone!! X
I can only clap it out for you 👏👏👏👏 it's incredible to see you, please take care of you and yours, we'll be here regardless of however you need to adjust things 💜
Mazel tov and congratulations! Do what you can and it'll all work out. No worries. Take care of yourself hun and give little Rowan some cuddles from all of us. Thank you for sharing this with us! All the baby giggles! 💖
I think childcare part time will be good for him. It's more experiences which have to be good for his brain, plus his mum being creatively fulfilled is gonna lead to a happier mum and a happier baby. He's going to be safe and happy and well looked after with the childminder, plus it's only part time! There's no one way to be a parent that is gonna work for everyone, and it sounds like you have a great plan that's hopefully going to work well for your little family.
Love seeing how you manage work and parenthood!! I'd be curious to know how childcare works in the UK - I'm American and I've heard it's about as expensive as a second rent over here 😭
Make be make Dan work harder, get more money so you can work less and be a stay at home mom and don’t miss important stuff of your kid. Or have a family member help. That would be the better option
@@ZairaBandy I am pretty sure Hannah wants to work. Not everyone wants to be a stay at home parent. Hannah has built a wonderful career and there's nothing wrong with her putting Rowan in part time childcare so she can work part time. Also if Dan picked up more hours he would barely get any time with the baby? How is that fair on anyone?
I'm not really a baby-person, but baby laughs are really just pure joy and the look you had when looking at Dan with Rowan was also so lovely to see :) I have no experience being a parent while also working, it seems stressful and exhausting as hell but seeing moments like that it also seems worth it (at least for you/some people) :)
How about another video reviewing of your last five year plan? I just rewatched it and it was so interesting to notice things you did and things that haven't happened as planned for you and obvs the pandemic affected things, so it would just be interesting to hear you reflect on it
In terms of future content, I’d love to see what you’re doing re sleep/feeding scheduling, baby routine, baby led feeding, etc. I’m 14 weeks pregnant so lapping up all the parenting stuff. Love your videos!! x
The comments have already offered so much support. Your viewers are so nice. Everything I could say has been said. But all the same, congratulations. You've always come off as a kind, caring, compassionate person and seeing you heap all that on a single little human being, your own dear one, is precious and inspiring. Through it all, you are such a lovely mommy, despite the exhaustion and constant demand on your body. All the best.
Welcome back! I'm really excited for the guest eps, I've discovered so many amazing creators through the podcast (come curious has kept me going through your maternity leave) so I'm looking forward to all the new people I get to discover! Rowan's baby noises are the cutest thing on the planet
Oh man, that footage of Dan playing with Rowan. Blimey, you guys have got such good times to come, I'm so excited for you all. Tonight I needed a rest and I walked back into the room to see my husband playing fairies on the floor with our soon to be 2 year old. Great dads and partners are the best ❤️
Welcome back! I am sure I will love any content that decide to make for this channel. I would enjoy reactions or follow ups to some of your videos from during your pregnancy if things turned out differently.
So excited to see you back in my TH-cam life! I’d love to hear more about the experience of participating in local pregnancy/parenting/mommy and me groups. Is that a good way to make new friends who are in the same phase of life as you? What’s that experience been like for you?
Parenting and working is so hard, whether you're trying to do stuff around them or missing them and feeling guilty when they're in childcare. I was lucky enough to afford 9 and a bit months off and it was still really difficult. You're doing brilliantly. Me and my Rowan (11 months) wish you all the best!
Wow you and Dan coparent so well. Watching all these baby Rowan videos made me realise I gave my mum a hard time i was a fussy baby and my mum had a hard time doing the cot transfer too.
This is such helpful content! I’m so excited to have children but totally stumped at how to make it work around mine and my partners careers - super inspired!
Love seeing these kinds of videos, Hannah! Love this mix of productivity/new mum content. Sending good vibes to you, your team and your fam as you all settle into a new routine!
Hi Hannah, it’s so lovely to see your face again! I’d love to hear more about how you chose your child minder. It must be so weird to have to choose a person that you trust with with your baby. So many people on here commented how their nanny is still so important for them and like a family member and that us so wonderful. I would want the same for my kid. At the same time I can imagine the pressure when having to choose that person… And trust them when they are probably a stranger at the beginning.
So good to see you back and don't get mum guilt over how young Rowan is and going to a child minders. I worked in a nursery for years and the youngest we would take was 6 weeks old. Whether mum's would go back to work for financial reasons or mental health reasons doesn't matter. He's in good care and like you said in this video you can't do it all. Modern day tells women you can have it all, career and family life but you can't do it all at the same time. You have to segment your time so you can do your absolute best in each role. If you try and juggle both at the same time neither work or Rowan will recieve the best version of you. There's also that moment that you need to make time for you, not work you or mummy you, just you and putting them in childcare to have that time isn't a reason to feel guilty either. You can't pour from an empty cup. Also love the fact you're not showing him online 💕
I'd love content on childcare, at least musings, I think you would be a strong voice to bring awareness to the crippling childcare costs. Right now it feels like shouting into a void. My husband and I run a small business and have to do most of our work in 2 days a week. The burnout of UK parents is real! Not to be a downer. Loving the pregnancy/baby content 🥰
Just watched the main channel video and this one. I'm SO insanely proud of you and am so happy to see the joy on your face. I would like to see you talk about how your perceptions of Rowan and motherhood have changed since they were born in terms of gender norms/pronouns and so on - maybe as a follow-up to the podcast you did while pregnant 💛
Vídeo idea: your big brain thoughts on motherhood, working, patriarchy, and how that all plays into your experience. Extra brownie points if Sierra Shultzzie features!!
Hahaha The Absolute Rollercoaster Of Emotions is exactly what my husband and I called the whole first year of our 13 months old daughter's life 😂😂 so hard and wonderful and normal and everything in-between. I really liked this vlog! Welcome back!
i would love to see fashion stuff again! i always love your fashion stuff - capsule wardrobes, themed outfits. :) congrats on baby and on a new routine!
Really loving this new era of content creators who don’t show their child’s faces! Always concerns me when people put their child’s entire lives on the internet and how one day it may back fire. Children don’t deserve the nonconsensual scrutiny of the internet
Welcome back Hannah 😁 You’re amazing for juggling all of these responsibilities. Even without seeing his face, Rowan is so adorable haha. I love the vlogs, even just a day in your life type things with or without Rowan! ❤️
Just catching up with this, my kids are 14&11, but my partner's daughter (20) is pregnant and due soon so we'll soon be grandparents and I absolutely cannot wait!! Loved this video Hannah your energy is incredible and you and Dan are a fab team xxx
2 weeks postpartum and defs already low key (or high key 🙃) nervous/dreading the return to work, both from a having to get back into that headspace perspective, and the separation from bub aspect. 💜💜💜
So happy to see you back. I’ve been checking every 2 weeks. It will all come together and run smoothly once you get back in the groove. I can’t wait to see more videos.
I'd love to have a run down of how you managed a holiday abroad with a little one and what you're doing in relation to breast feeding while Rowan is in childcare
Super interesting to see how you are managing back at work, so different to what I experienced as I had to go back to full days a work but also it was a lot later in terms of my babies age. It's interesting how similar it seems in terms of parenting with you partner but so different day to day. Also so tippy hearing you talk about Rowan as my son is called Rowan too 😄🙂
Hey Hanna, as you mentioned Rowan being in a "mood", check out "The Wonder Weeks" by Hettie van de Rijt. It deals with the different development/growing phases of babies and what to expect. Helped us a lot managing the "moody" weeks with our little wonder
You should do a collaboration with Jessica and Claude. Specifically Jessica kellgren fozard as she has a child that is just a little bit older than you and also has multiple chronic conditions and I think it would be interesting to hear both of your thoughts on being new parents with chronic conditions.
Serious respect for how you are juggling everything!! Could you do a video talking about your holiday with a baby.. we are going with a 6 month old in October and already feeling overwhelmed about what we need to take! Any tips and tricks?! X
Watching very eagerly, I'm also self-employed and considering having children in a few years time and trying to juggle makes me so anxious! You're doing such a great job!
I’m also a first time mom easing myself back into work this week, and am watching this video with a possibly nursing / possibly napping baby on my boob (a la 1:15). Makes the world feel small in a good way. Cheers. -L.
I think it's really considerate of Rowan's privacy that you keep his face off camera. It's a small thing, but a lot of parents don't consider their child's internet safety and privacy. You may consider a Maya wrap/sling for being able to hold/feed Rowan and keep your hands free. My sister loved having a Maya wrap for her two youngest. Edit: misspelling
If you don't want to put your kid in childcare, don't. I know it's NEVER that simple and obviously I'm not one to talk given that I don't know all of your circumstances, but darling mama, if you want to be with your baby more, go, be with your baby. He's only a baby for a few seconds, if you need to take a back seat here or even stop for a while, we all get it. Much love ❤️
Good luck with this new, challenging chapter of your life! So exciting to watch you from here, you really are a force of nature!!! Go Hannah!!! Love from Italy xx
When you were hinting at who would be taking over and you said people instead of person I was like what if it’s Jamie and Shaaba and then it was and I am happy
Oh my GOSH, the baby noises. Pure magic. I'm so proud of you for delegating at work, and asking for help when you're overwhelmed, and your self-awareness around what you can and can't do right now, and honestly, for just Doing the Thing of getting through every day when you've now got a whole other human to care for. Way. To. Go.
🥹🥹 thank you
@@morehannah hope your okay
Childminder or a nanny means one extra person who loves Rowan in his life - my mum nannied a family for 8/10 years in the 80s and we are still so close. I ended up growing up with 4 older siblings and Faux-grandparents not in my family, and it was brilliant!
I'm a nanny for a family that I've worked for since their now 9 year old was 3.5. This is honestly so true. I love those three kids more than anything consider them family. It has been truly a gift to have had the opportunity to watch these kids grow up and learn. As their mom tells her friends, the kids having a nanny doesn't mean that she loves them less, it means that she loves herself to be able to take time for self-care and career development.
@@ZEERODO 100%! We got to watch all 4 get married, and my mum is just an additional parent! So great that parents can work and then be in a good enough headspace to actually enjoy their kids 😀
Yes my mum and aunt are still in contact with the children of the woman who used to nanny them, they went to their weddings and get the occasional photo of their kids, etc. It’s really sweet.
I echo this. I grew up with two full (very full) time working parents. Being the last one in after school club all the time was pretty sad. But going round to Rae's was lovely. It felt like being with a member of the extended family. She taught me to knit; she recorder Blue Peter episodes on video; she had a gorgeous golden Labrador/greyhound cross called Cleo who I would walk on a second lead whilst she held the first as I wasn't strong enough.
That was from ages 7-10 I think so over 15 years ago and I still remember.
I really love how you are sharing this journey while also respecting Rowan’s privacy. Take your time to get into a new rythme that works for you! :)
My mum went back to work part time when I was 2 months old and then I started going to a childminder when I was 4 months old and while I’m sure it must’ve been hard for her to leave her little baby there, I’m so thankful she did because my childminder is like an bonus granny to me. I honestly couldn’t imagine my life without her. She used to come to all my birthdays with the rest of my family, her home has always felt like a second home and I visit her every time I’m back home now, 24 years later 😁 So while I’m sure it’s so stressful for you now, maybe it helps to see it as an opportunity for him to develop great relationships with other people 😊
Im also living my baby at a childminder and your words are a balm to my brain! Thanks so much for sharing this’
I'm from a culture where that's quite normal, it really isn't that unusual to have that one friend you "met" at the child minder's when you were a few months old that you have until the end of primary school. If your kid likes the adults and one or two other kids at their childcare, they're going to be fine.
as a person without children but observing plenty of work mates - once breast feeding is less of a concern, consider including a full day of child minding, even if that means dropping one of the half days. A lot of time is spent on the drop off and pick up, so you save that time. You wont have to interrupt your workflow as much but also.... take 2 hours of that time to get non work stuff done. watch a movie, catch up with a friend, do shopping, have a nap or some bedroom fun times. its okay to use child minding for things other than work, especially if it means the time you get to spend with your kids then becomes way more about them.
Go you for keeping Rowan's face private - it no doubt makes filming harder/you have to be more conscious of what's in shot, but I know he'll appreciate when he's older being able to choose how much of his life is shared online! Also think of the childminding as just another person to love on him, and it also means you can be the best version of yourself since you are able to continue your passions in your work. Sending you support as you all adjust to the new schedule!
I just want to say I am SO HAPPY AS BALLS that you are not showing his face. I mean I bet he is just adorable, but there is too much child exploitation on TH-cam, and i'm glad you are keeping him out of it :)
His face is bloody adorable but hard agree
I think you can show the face etc without exploiting them lol
Seconded!
@@peachxtaehyung Perhaps, but also he can't really consent since he's an infant and part of a parent's job is to provide boundaries until they're old enough to understand and give informed consent themselves. There are no down sides to not showing his face, and it could easily help him avoid mental health or other issues later.
I admire Hannah's commitment to this kind of boundary, though of course it'd be great to see his cute lil face.
If you are up for it, I would love some content on the expenses of having a new baby- birth, childminder, diapers, etc- is there anything you are spending more $$ on than you expected and anything you were surprised you didn’t need or you spent less on?
Yeah I’d be keen to explore this!
It is expensive. Everything. Having a kid is pretty much in the Millions of dollars once you add all upon. You could travel the whole world with all that money.
@@ZairaBandy why I don’t have a kid or car and I get to travel 😂
The admiration I just have for you is INSANE I can not even comprehend the amount of energy and effort and organisation this takes to come back so soon 😳 so bloody proud to be a Patreon of yours ❤️
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It is very impressive
But the time with her child that she is going to loose for work is never coming back. So, it’s a bit sad too
@@ZairaBandy but the work time she is going to lose for the child is never coming back either. (I don't wanna speak for Hannah but) working is probably something she enjoys, and finding a balance between that and caring for her baby may very well be what makes her the happiest. Dividing your time between different activities doesn't mean you are missing out on one of them, and the same goes for spending time with your child
Baby laughs come just before the moment you lock yourself in the bathroom to cry. They are a shot of emotional espresso to exhausted parents ❤️
Ha that’s such a good way of describing them!
If Rowan is often fussy like this and doesn't want to be put down, you might want to try a baby sling or carrier. Many babies just want body contact and a sling frees your hands which allows you to get other stuff done while still giving them what they need.
I’m a childminder! It’s cliche to say, but as soon as the children first enter my home they are family 💕 I care for a group of boys at the moment who are all in one-child households, but they have brothers in each other, it’s the same relationship dynamic and their parents all love it!
It’s great to see you back Hannah, and looking amazing may I say!
What is a childminder? What do you do?
@@ZairaBandy childminders are similar to nursery in that we offer childcare in the early years, aged 0-5 years, but also to older children if we choose. We are Ofsted registered (the UKs governing body for education) and trained in first aid and safeguarding, as well as a childcare qualification.
We work from our homes, with less children than nurseries. We provide education to the early years using a curriculum of our choice, mine is learning through play and experience, so we go on lots of outings to really improve the children’s understanding of the world. Last week we went to the zoo, the farm, the museum, a fun day organised by the council, and we go to a care home once a week and sing nursery rhymes with them (this is my favourite, it enriches the children, they love playing and sharing instruments, but also the residents - a lady with dementia attends and her carers say she’s the most alert around the children).
Being a childminder means opening your home to children whose parents are working, giving them a loving and caring environment to learn and grow. Sorry if I’ve rambled, I’m passionate about my job 💕
I worked in childcare for 10 years with the little ones(under 1) I promise you most babies love it! The extra attention and social interaction is all good. And usually makes it easier to transition them to the older classes than if they were home with parents that whole time. Sending lots of good vibes!!
Yeah that’s one of the upsides I’m trying to remember is that he’ll settle with new people better at this younger age than when he’s older
I really respect folks on the internet who make a conscious decision to keep their children private online. So, here’s a little comment of support in case there are any people trying to make you feel bad for it!
But putting a emoticon in front of their faces is annoying. Jessica Kellgren-Fozard does it better. With blur without emoticons. Just being careful not to show the babies face. That’s it.
@@ZairaBandy i would disagree i find the blur a bit unsettling the emoji is just cute. either way i think we should respect anyones decision of how they preserve the privacy of their child even if it isn’t to our precise tastes.
Why do babies need that sort of "privacy"? They all kinda look the same...
My mum was studying for her general nurses exam when I popped out the sunroof. She had to stay in hospital for a week so decided to crack on with some studying whilst she was healing and had help. Then Christmas came so studying was abandoned. She’d take me to the hospital library to study after Christmas and I was such a chill baby/good sleeper none of the other nurses knew I was there until I screamed for my feed and nappy change. I was very cute so was forgiven. So welcome to doing life with a baby!
💐Please don’t feel bad, Hannah! Remember that it’s two of you and when you’re home juggling work and the baby, your partner is at work doing their thing not juggling a baby. Point being, please don’t feel bad for there being an active teamwork going on- it’s a beautiful thing! Society has taught us women to feel guilt if we’re not doing it all (child-rearing, work, cooking, cleaning, making sure the social life is staying active, planning etc etc). Plus! Getting both of you will do wonders for little one’s secure attachment.
My nanny was the best, her an her husband were our second set of parents and i just can't imagine never having known them! My parents always said how immensely grateful they were, both working full-time demanding jobs, and me being just about 3 month old with a heavy surgery as a baby, to have someone they could trust implicitly to look after me. If you strike gold, nannies can really become indispensable and an integral part of the family, I hope this turns out the same for you!
And personally, I’d love to just see more vlogs like this where you show a realistic life with a baby and work and everything. 💕
Hi - was thinking a video with Sierra Scultzie would be interesting - comparing being pregnant / parenting on YTube, working out how much to share of baby and the work / life balance etc
I understand the time zone difference making things harder though!
Yes!
It's really exciting to see you back and a little snippet of your new mum life! I returned to work when our son was 16 weeks so I know how hard that is emotionally because they feel so tiny still and I hated having to put him in childcare etc but needs must! It does get easier as time goes by + I think our son is much more confident socially because of it (whilst also still loving being as close to his Mummy as possible!) 💛
Its really lively to see you and Dan as parents, warmed my heart when you were sitting on the floor with Rowan giggling together while eating breakfast, wish you all the best on your parenting journey
i love that u talk to him like he's an adult, my parents did that with me growing up and it really helped w my vocabulary (now i'm studying creative writing at uni so maybe it had impact there)
Welcome back! I'd love to see similar content you've made in the past (books, productivity, lifestyle, etc.) but with a parenthood twist. Like how those things/habits have changed now. But also I'd love to see those things without the parenthood aspect because you're also your own person. :)
Everyone has partner guilt. My dad had to take annual leave day so my mum could take her general nursing exam when I was about 2 months old. She was still breastfeeding and the exam was an all day thing (she managed to come home for everyone’s lunch). But my dad loved having a day off to catch up on some sport and watch a couple of movies whilst I was passed out on him (he was a great baby bed). Dads like an excuse to not work and have fun with the kids I think
Yeah Dan does often joke to me about making more money so he can be a stay at home dad 😅 very cute
@@morehannah haha the dream
The dream it would be that we didn’t have to work for money but everything is so expensive that parents have to lose time with their child (that will never get back) just because they have to work. It is really sad
The constant juggling is REAL! You’ve so got this though! The mum-guilt that comes with putting my baby in childcare is always something I feel looming over my head, but it’s good for me AND her to have some space, explore new places, meet new people!
Wishing you all the best in your return to work!
Ahh how exciting ! I'm currently 7months pregnant , I dont think its hit me yet what my days are going to look like with a new (emotional) human sharing my space 🥴 I cant imagine trying to work and be interrupted constantly!!! You are doing amazing and I commend you! Thank you for sharing your life with us!
Yay Shaaba and Jamie and Hannah, I hope next you have the Kellgren-Fozard family, oooh future playdates between Rupert, n Rowan, How far away is Brighton anyway?
it's a little over an hour from london on the train
@@user-ge2es2bp2x not too bad at all then by US standards.
Hannah I love how every photo you post on Instagram with Rowan the little yellow hearts have been getting bigger and bigger as he grows 💛💛💛
In my country, it is absolutely normal to stay on maternity leave not for 3 months but for 3 YEARS. It is so wild to me that mothers (or birthing parents in general) resume work after just three months after such a huge process in both mind and body.
Look up wonder weeks! They are really hard weeks while baby makes developmental leaps (hence the really good things like smiles). It helps know that it's temporary. I went back to work at 2.5 weeks with my first and 6 weeks with my 2nd/3rd. It is HARD! You do whatever feels best for you.
As a first time mum with a 10 week old, I cannot tell you how much I appreciated this vlog! Very relatable!
This is so nice to watch because it is so similar to my experience right now! My baby (first!) is in nursery for 4 afternoons a week and was since he was 4 months (he’s turning 6 months next week). So I know all the things you’re feeling. It’s a juggle and a struggle. I feel you and appreciate you documenting it so I feel not so alone!! X
I can only clap it out for you 👏👏👏👏 it's incredible to see you, please take care of you and yours, we'll be here regardless of however you need to adjust things 💜
Mazel tov and congratulations! Do what you can and it'll all work out. No worries. Take care of yourself hun and give little Rowan some cuddles from all of us.
Thank you for sharing this with us! All the baby giggles! 💖
I think childcare part time will be good for him. It's more experiences which have to be good for his brain, plus his mum being creatively fulfilled is gonna lead to a happier mum and a happier baby. He's going to be safe and happy and well looked after with the childminder, plus it's only part time!
There's no one way to be a parent that is gonna work for everyone, and it sounds like you have a great plan that's hopefully going to work well for your little family.
Love seeing how you manage work and parenthood!! I'd be curious to know how childcare works in the UK - I'm American and I've heard it's about as expensive as a second rent over here 😭
It’s very expensive 😥
Make be make Dan work harder, get more money so you can work less and be a stay at home mom and don’t miss important stuff of your kid. Or have a family member help. That would be the better option
@@ZairaBandy I am pretty sure Hannah wants to work. Not everyone wants to be a stay at home parent. Hannah has built a wonderful career and there's nothing wrong with her putting Rowan in part time childcare so she can work part time.
Also if Dan picked up more hours he would barely get any time with the baby? How is that fair on anyone?
I'm not really a baby-person, but baby laughs are really just pure joy and the look you had when looking at Dan with Rowan was also so lovely to see :) I have no experience being a parent while also working, it seems stressful and exhausting as hell but seeing moments like that it also seems worth it (at least for you/some people) :)
How about another video reviewing of your last five year plan? I just rewatched it and it was so interesting to notice things you did and things that haven't happened as planned for you and obvs the pandemic affected things, so it would just be interesting to hear you reflect on it
omg I forgot about that video… might have to do that!!
In terms of future content, I’d love to see what you’re doing re sleep/feeding scheduling, baby routine, baby led feeding, etc. I’m 14 weeks pregnant so lapping up all the parenting stuff. Love your videos!! x
The comments have already offered so much support. Your viewers are so nice. Everything I could say has been said. But all the same, congratulations. You've always come off as a kind, caring, compassionate person and seeing you heap all that on a single little human being, your own dear one, is precious and inspiring. Through it all, you are such a lovely mommy, despite the exhaustion and constant demand on your body. All the best.
I'm really impressed by how you are going about all this. And watching you and Dan parent is just the most precious thing ever
Hannah you NEED to get on the baby sling/carrier bandwagon. Truly life changing for getting stuff done!!!!!!
Welcome back! I'm really excited for the guest eps, I've discovered so many amazing creators through the podcast (come curious has kept me going through your maternity leave) so I'm looking forward to all the new people I get to discover! Rowan's baby noises are the cutest thing on the planet
Oh man, that footage of Dan playing with Rowan. Blimey, you guys have got such good times to come, I'm so excited for you all. Tonight I needed a rest and I walked back into the room to see my husband playing fairies on the floor with our soon to be 2 year old. Great dads and partners are the best ❤️
They really are 💛
Welcome back! I am sure I will love any content that decide to make for this channel. I would enjoy reactions or follow ups to some of your videos from during your pregnancy if things turned out differently.
So excited to see you back in my TH-cam life! I’d love to hear more about the experience of participating in local pregnancy/parenting/mommy and me groups. Is that a good way to make new friends who are in the same phase of life as you? What’s that experience been like for you?
My experience of it has been amazing!! Those women have been such a support these last few months!
Parenting and working is so hard, whether you're trying to do stuff around them or missing them and feeling guilty when they're in childcare. I was lucky enough to afford 9 and a bit months off and it was still really difficult. You're doing brilliantly. Me and my Rowan (11 months) wish you all the best!
Wow you and Dan coparent so well. Watching all these baby Rowan videos made me realise I gave my mum a hard time i was a fussy baby and my mum had a hard time doing the cot transfer too.
This is such helpful content! I’m so excited to have children but totally stumped at how to make it work around mine and my partners careers - super inspired!
Love seeing these kinds of videos, Hannah! Love this mix of productivity/new mum content. Sending good vibes to you, your team and your fam as you all settle into a new routine!
Hi Hannah, it’s so lovely to see your face again! I’d love to hear more about how you chose your child minder. It must be so weird to have to choose a person that you trust with with your baby. So many people on here commented how their nanny is still so important for them and like a family member and that us so wonderful. I would want the same for my kid. At the same time I can imagine the pressure when having to choose that person… And trust them when they are probably a stranger at the beginning.
So good to see you back and don't get mum guilt over how young Rowan is and going to a child minders. I worked in a nursery for years and the youngest we would take was 6 weeks old. Whether mum's would go back to work for financial reasons or mental health reasons doesn't matter. He's in good care and like you said in this video you can't do it all. Modern day tells women you can have it all, career and family life but you can't do it all at the same time. You have to segment your time so you can do your absolute best in each role. If you try and juggle both at the same time neither work or Rowan will recieve the best version of you. There's also that moment that you need to make time for you, not work you or mummy you, just you and putting them in childcare to have that time isn't a reason to feel guilty either. You can't pour from an empty cup.
Also love the fact you're not showing him online 💕
Crazy that I've been following your life since ~2012, 10 years now! Amazing to see you grow from a sex-ed pixie to a glowing mother.
Sending big love as you transition into a new routine and family dynamic! And bravo for maintaining your child’s privacy-so much respect🫡❤️
I think it would be cool to see a video on how your experiences of parenthood and working so far have impacted your understanding of 'productivity'
I'd love content on childcare, at least musings, I think you would be a strong voice to bring awareness to the crippling childcare costs. Right now it feels like shouting into a void. My husband and I run a small business and have to do most of our work in 2 days a week. The burnout of UK parents is real! Not to be a downer. Loving the pregnancy/baby content 🥰
Just watched the main channel video and this one. I'm SO insanely proud of you and am so happy to see the joy on your face. I would like to see you talk about how your perceptions of Rowan and motherhood have changed since they were born in terms of gender norms/pronouns and so on - maybe as a follow-up to the podcast you did while pregnant 💛
Vídeo idea: your big brain thoughts on motherhood, working, patriarchy, and how that all plays into your experience. Extra brownie points if Sierra Shultzzie features!!
Oooh those are some big brain thoughts!!
Hahaha The Absolute Rollercoaster Of Emotions is exactly what my husband and I called the whole first year of our 13 months old daughter's life 😂😂 so hard and wonderful and normal and everything in-between.
I really liked this vlog! Welcome back!
Omg the chunky little hands 🥺 He's just gorgeous. You're smashing it, Hannah xx
i would love to see fashion stuff again! i always love your fashion stuff - capsule wardrobes, themed outfits. :)
congrats on baby and on a new routine!
Had to make lots of changes to my wardrobe to make it nursing friendly so definitely planning videos around that!
Your a rockstar! Multitasking as a parent is a skill, you’ll get there!
Really loving this new era of content creators who don’t show their child’s faces! Always concerns me when people put their child’s entire lives on the internet and how one day it may back fire. Children don’t deserve the nonconsensual scrutiny of the internet
Welcome back Hannah 😁 You’re amazing for juggling all of these responsibilities. Even without seeing his face, Rowan is so adorable haha. I love the vlogs, even just a day in your life type things with or without Rowan! ❤️
Just catching up with this, my kids are 14&11, but my partner's daughter (20) is pregnant and due soon so we'll soon be grandparents and I absolutely cannot wait!! Loved this video Hannah your energy is incredible and you and Dan are a fab team xxx
2 weeks postpartum and defs already low key (or high key 🙃) nervous/dreading the return to work, both from a having to get back into that headspace perspective, and the separation from bub aspect. 💜💜💜
So happy to see you back. I’ve been checking every 2 weeks. It will all come together and run smoothly once you get back in the groove. I can’t wait to see more videos.
Love love that you're keeping Rowan's privacy! ~Family vloggers~ that monetize their kids always give me a bad taste.
I'd love to have a run down of how you managed a holiday abroad with a little one and what you're doing in relation to breast feeding while Rowan is in childcare
I had my baby boy on the 1st May and I hard relate to eating my breakfast on the floor with baby on the play mat!
Super interesting to see how you are managing back at work, so different to what I experienced as I had to go back to full days a work but also it was a lot later in terms of my babies age. It's interesting how similar it seems in terms of parenting with you partner but so different day to day. Also so tippy hearing you talk about Rowan as my son is called Rowan too 😄🙂
Hey Hanna, as you mentioned Rowan being in a "mood", check out "The Wonder Weeks" by Hettie van de Rijt. It deals with the different development/growing phases of babies and what to expect. Helped us a lot managing the "moody" weeks with our little wonder
Very excited for baby and new mom content! So whatever you're willing to share with us would be lovely!!
I'm so excited for vlog/parenting content! I'm on maternity leave with my 8 week old and this sort of content is all I want to consume at the moment 😂
You should do a collaboration with Jessica and Claude. Specifically Jessica kellgren fozard as she has a child that is just a little bit older than you and also has multiple chronic conditions and I think it would be interesting to hear both of your thoughts on being new parents with chronic conditions.
HANNAH! Charity shopping for baby clothes, or baby items haul… we need it!!!! Xx
I'm a viewer who plays pogo so seeing how exciting u were about gofest and Ur shiny was so cute and brought such a smile to my face
Serious respect for how you are juggling everything!! Could you do a video talking about your holiday with a baby.. we are going with a 6 month old in October and already feeling overwhelmed about what we need to take! Any tips and tricks?! X
Love it. Videos Dan perspective on birth and parenting, ur breast feeding journey, ur stoma tho labour, delivery n with baby xx
Watching very eagerly, I'm also self-employed and considering having children in a few years time and trying to juggle makes me so anxious! You're doing such a great job!
I’m also a first time mom easing myself back into work this week, and am watching this video with a possibly nursing / possibly napping baby on my boob (a la 1:15). Makes the world feel small in a good way. Cheers. -L.
I love how rowan was playing your hair, I miss those days. Though mr 9 still asks to brush my hair sometimes 🥰
Even my shorter hair can’t escape the baby pulling!
As much as I want to see the smiles, I am so glad you are not showing his face! Much respect! 🌘🌑🌒
Oh my goodness little rowan he looks adorable I’m so in awe of you for doing this.
Maybe if you do a development calendar for him such as baby sensory play - like a five year plan.
Omg what good guests for the videos!! I didn’t expect to know them already 😄
11:18 Aw, the little stretch of the hand and fingers💕
I think it's really considerate of Rowan's privacy that you keep his face off camera. It's a small thing, but a lot of parents don't consider their child's internet safety and privacy.
You may consider a Maya wrap/sling for being able to hold/feed Rowan and keep your hands free. My sister loved having a Maya wrap for her two youngest.
Edit: misspelling
Doing great mama! Baby wearing is so useful when you have to get things done!
Keep up the good work!! You are very inspiring
You are a powerhouse of a woman and doing an amazing job x
OMG, Hannah. I cried. I am so proud of you.
Yah! Jammie and Shabba!!!!!!!!
I have a 2-month old so I'm interested in the mommy and baby content 😊
Good luck with the work -life balance 🤗
Dan didn't look rusty at all with that camera at all. What a pro.
Rowan is so cute 🥺
If you don't want to put your kid in childcare, don't. I know it's NEVER that simple and obviously I'm not one to talk given that I don't know all of your circumstances, but darling mama, if you want to be with your baby more, go, be with your baby. He's only a baby for a few seconds, if you need to take a back seat here or even stop for a while, we all get it. Much love ❤️
I love your vids, you keep it raw real and authentic!
Congratulations 🎉👏❤️
Good luck with this new, challenging chapter of your life! So exciting to watch you from here, you really are a force of nature!!! Go Hannah!!! Love from Italy xx
When you were hinting at who would be taking over and you said people instead of person I was like what if it’s Jamie and Shaaba and then it was and I am happy