It does indeed! But not completely if you are also “hooked” on self! If you are aligned those feelings are there but you are capable (willing and able) to align your behaviors with yourself (truth). It’s a wonderful experience, really!!🖤
But if you stay, you will be mentally and emotionally destroyed. If you leave it will be bad for a while then turn into confidence and good lesson for the future
I have listened to many of your presentations and your underlying theme seems to be if you know what you want you can get what you want.We enter relationships with no idea how we wish to be treated and get hurt when things go wrong.I love how you are able to tease out the issues and explain them in plain language.
Hello Ms Susan, could you please make a video regarding “falling in love with a “damaged” guy? I was in a relationship with a man whose been divorced for three years, but still is afraid to love again, yet he dates to try to feel and give love. This experience left me a mess bc I fell hard for him and had to pull out. Thank you.
A deflector sounds like they are potentially a narcissist. Can't work with someone who can't admit where they are wrong and don't have any sense of perspective about their own strengths/weaknesses/virtues/vices.
Ms. Susan, I’ve run across a saying that goes “men fall in love in your absence while you fall in love in their presence”, which I have found to be true. For me though, I start to like a guy more the more we talk. If he’s “busy” for days at a time or a week, I find myself feeling disconnected from him and liking him less. This sucks for me because it’s a lose lose. If I want to talk to him everyday, I don’t give him a chance to miss my absence, but at the same time I’m liking him more. Then when he does become too busy and can’t talk, I lose the connection but he seems to be more interested when he comes back after a few days.What’s the balance? How is anyone able to find love like that?
The point is it isn't supposed to be like your example. When you have a good, fair and balanced situation your example is a non-factor. There is no 'waning' from both sides (upon closeness or distance). There is simply mature understanding that you are committed friends - regardless of busy periods. TBH, anything less than above is just degrees of what leads to game -playing and rarely ends in a success.
What kind of Men are you dealin' with? I'm Huge about Communication. I can't stand when Women go distant from me, which many do these days. It's Women who are the ones prone to distancing themselves.
Susan, you are simply amazing and so wise. Thank you for your videos. They have helped me to grow so much and to find a sense of clarity. I feel like I am forever indebted to you. ❤
I have a question Susan : do you think you can make us a video regarding why do we still love people who do not love us back ??????? i love your work , you are awesome in every way .
Nice to know the rhyme and reason for the weirdness out there and to see I am not the only one going through this.. Clarity lights the way out of the jungle.
I admire your way of thinking more & more after every video , & your simple easy way in dissecting the diffrence , i'm not in relationship but you make me think & feel diffrently thank youuuuu7
What if I have been the confused one and have reached clarity through your videos? I have game played out of fear with a current interest. Do I just state my truth as far as what I would like going forward or state this after I have changed my behavior, thus reinforcing my words. Will I come off as flaky or disingenuine if I suddenly state what I want and my boundaries after being the one playing hot and cold. Your videos have been a mirror to me and I am tired of the exhaustion it takes to guard myself. You have been a God send. Thanks
Hi Susan. For your own sake, I would confess would you just realized. If an apology is necessary I would suggest you get one. Make your commentaries short and sweet. Forget what they're thinking of you. Consider what you were doing for yourself. I wish you a brilliant 2018.
Hi Susan, thanks for another awe inspiring video. As usual full of clarity & insight. It's your videos that taught me that the one I was intending to invest in, the one that withheld love & dished it out like a treat or prize for "behaving well", is not confused but is actually a game player. And this video kind of cinched it :). Thanks again. You have helped me more than you'll ever know
Hi Susan - I just came across your content and I can't tear myself away from your TH-cams! Your advice is spot on and fantastic! I was wondering if you could do a TH-cam for those of us going through a divorce and re-entering the dating world. I am 39 and want to have children and would love to know the best and fastest way to approach finding a partner that wants the same thing before my biological time has run out. Thanks Susan!
Hi Susan! I have a suggestion for a future video - haven’t seen it covered on your channel yet.How to handle dating in the workplace? Should it be avoided? If we are to proceed, how would you handle it?Many thanks and wishing you the best in this new year!
Hey Susan I just found your channel and I’m so happy I did. You have already helped me so much , but one question I have for you is, how do I get younger men 25-30 to truly pursue me ? I have men that show interest in me but always expect me to do the chasing. So I pull away and they do the same. I’m always the one putting in the effort and making time. I don’t ever feel that is reciprocated
Hi Susan. I’ve recently been dumped out of a seven year relationship. I thought I had found the woman I wanted to settle down with. She decided to move to the town over to attend her last years at college and all was well for the first few months. But three months in and she went from telling me how much she loved me to not wanting to be in the relationship anymore. She’s undergone a complete personality change and I’m just not sure what to do. All of this behavior is unlike her and I’m just looking for some advice on what to do. Thanks
Hi Susan. I’ve heard so much about this thing where people say that we are attracted to people who remind us of our most difficult parent, or a person who fits within our deep seated ‘complexes’ (which have to do with our behaviour with our parents). I don’t get it. I don’t get along with my parents well, so why the hell would I choose a partner who’s fundamentally like them? Can you make a video on elaborating the same?
If a woman were to have two men at hand, one says he has love for her but is not in love with her, and the other is in love and learning to love “regularly, ‘I guess you could say’” which does she choose? Considering long term as well?
You should choose neither and work on yourself .....your not only cheating on both men but your cheating on yourself by thinking this is completely ok to do when in fact your only doing damage all 3 of you . How would you feel if I guy you liked alot was dating him and you found out he was seeing other girls on the side deciding who he is gonna pick behind your back you would feel betrayed .......my saying is simple treat others how you want to be treated!!!!!!
I've been the confused before. When I was with girls who were clear and healthy. I didn't know how to feel passion. I fall for the game players or the confused people like myself. I've learned this is avoidance attachment.
Another lovely post from Susan : ) All I will say is all the most well-adjusted 'enough' of us are looking for is the same /similar in a prospective partner! It's the only element allowing us a chance in any relationship. As soon as you start dealing what Susan highlights, but on a * pathological / severe core -damage level *...then you can incur some SERIOUS emotional injuries on your 'love' journey (esp. if both of you are a mess, lol!) And frankly, that is what a load of us do. I'm at the age where i know relationships are simply lotteries - no matter how skilled or clever you are. What you look to do, with experience, is stack the cards 'more' in your favour - as you hopefully learn from your mistakes (and those who have tested you :) Happy New Year, Susan!
Very informative Susan thank you for this. I am not in a steady relationship but can you please do a video as to why we or the universe keep sending us people who nice, kind and fall in love with us but we do not want. It's exhausting having to date multiple people within a year who likes me alot and me not feeling any or if I feel one something else seriously is off or missing and me not finding what I want and back to the drawing broad again. I'm wondering if am too picky or do I have to settle just to find love?
Heres the deal. Playing the player and breaking the bloated ego is the key to getting a player to stop f*ing around with people emotions..... Confused! Me nah! Bring it on. Deflectors(I hate em coz even players don't hurt this bad)
A deflector -can that also mean someone who is deflecting the obvious attraction they feel? in one of your videos you mentioned how a strong attraction can make some people go completely clueless and mute. (that is what my experience has been, it may look like hot/cold but it is just self-preservation)
Susan I recently started watching your videos about younger man dating older woman. I'm a younger man n love with a older woman. What if the age is a 20 year difference? Is that too old? I have so many questions. Anyway love your videos I'm subbing!
Just love her. You could die first, ironically. Meghan Trainor and John Legend song. " I'm Going to Love You Like I'm Going to Lose You." (A beautiful, beautiful song). P.S. Susan-UR BEAUTY FULL 2!♥️
You go for it! If its 20 years difference it doesn't matter. The heart and soul know chemistry and magnetism and don't collect calendars or birthday cards. Let everyone know how it's going. Cougars need encouragement.🐱
Is the deflector usually aware of what they are doing? Do they know that they are confused but just blaming it all on their partner, perhaps to buy themselves time?
Yeah I agree. My sister is a deflector and will be single for life because aside frome just wanting tall, dark and handsome with six figures and abs, she is profession specific. Finds everyones flaw while identifying herself as flawless. Saying there are "no good guys out there," and feels deserving of only the best
I've been dating a very beautiful girl but it's been so hard to figure out what she wants. Everything was going so great in the beginning and then she pulled back. She later told me she wanted a relationship and didn't think I wanted one. I told her she should have said something because that's what I wanted too. A week later I tried to meet up with her to talk about everything and she said she didn't want to talk anymore and I was pressuring her. I have tried to be patient and kind the whole time. It was the most confusing situation I have ever been in lol. I haven't heard from her in a few days now. She also said I text her too much but I only text her to see if she can get together. So confusing lol.
If she is such a beautiful girl like you say, she might well be a narcissist, crazy for attention! You said it was great in the beginning, then she blew you off, accusing you for something you hadn't done! You had shown your interest in her and dated her. She falsely blamed you, which is gaslighting, to make you feel guilty and indebted! These are tactics of manipulation to make you feel crazy about her, desperate! She is only in love with herself and this is a game she is playing with you and lots of other guys, to treat you like her slave, like a doormat! Walk away and never look back. But be careful, though, that if you ignore her, she will contact you again. But don't fool yourself, it will be only for her ego, not because she cares. She will just break your heart. Forget about her, move on and try not to focus on external perfection of beauty. Find out if she is as beautiful inside, too, next time.
Yep. Dealing with a super game player narcissist troublemaker millennial flirty co worker. A former pageant winner in my state. Dating a guy in the office who has a trust fund and an Audi but flirting with me. Shows visible anger when I ignore and have ignored her. Gave me her number only to ghost me twice. None of the messages were asking her out. Just have a nice weekend or asking about interior design of my condo. Nothing. Her making inquiries about my weekends and inferring she is bored with hers. But this is nitroglycerin. This is the workplace. I do not date in the workplace. I will not fall to a sexual harassment policy for being stupid. I never mix personal and professional.All the guys in the office hover near her cube. I stay away on purpose. But to enforce that discipline has been hard with those ice blue eyed Kardashian come hither stares and her approaching me twisting her hair asking for my help. Being alone and single has worn on me a bit. But your advice today made me think of this situation and maintaining my resolve. Lest I become Polish Miss Connecticut barbecue.
Wouldn't want her after being someone in my office anyway, lol. The narc in her just likes to 'know' she can get any man. Not even worth a jump -off. Forget this super - shallow , super - tease , she's playing with you.
are what you call players what others call commitmentphobes? You don't seem to have any information on CP's but other dating coaches have a lot of talks about them. Why is that? I enjoyed this video as well as lots of other ones of yours. Thank you.
Hi Todd, there seems to be a lot of buzzwords these days for neglectfull partners and bad dating behavior. Some of these words are interchangeable. But the character traits are consistent, and very hard to correct unless person that wants to do so.
Susan there is this site where men say woman who are not virgins are not worth marrying. What do you say to that? They say women who are not virgins are concubines.
The problem is when you like and are hooked on a person in particular, all sensible advice about dating goes out the window
Ironic, isn't it?
I agree :(
Susan Winter oh wow you replied haha 2 years later I find out
It does indeed! But not completely if you are also “hooked” on self! If you are aligned those feelings are there but you are capable (willing and able) to align your behaviors with yourself (truth). It’s a wonderful experience, really!!🖤
Omg facts... You loose all logic and reason...
You are very wise. Sadly so far there’s no cure for being in love with a confused mess. Even when you walk away you feel like shit.
For a while...
@@Anonymous-hz2xw totally
But if you stay, you will be mentally and emotionally destroyed. If you leave it will be bad for a while then turn into confidence and good lesson for the future
Susan, you never fail to impress with the power of your deep, brilliant intellect.
Just from the title, I can tell you’re about to blow my mind, Susan 👏
Umm I don't know thanks. I hope in a good way😊
I have listened to many of your presentations and your underlying theme seems to be if you know what you want you can get what you want.We enter relationships with no idea how we wish to be treated and get hurt when things go wrong.I love how you are able to tease out the issues and explain them in plain language.
I appreciate that comment, Anne. Thank you
Hello Ms Susan, could you please make a video regarding “falling in love with a “damaged” guy? I was in a relationship with a man whose been divorced for three years, but still is afraid to love again, yet he dates to try to feel and give love. This experience left me a mess bc I fell hard for him and had to pull out.
Thank you.
A deflector sounds like they are potentially a narcissist. Can't work with someone who can't admit where they are wrong and don't have any sense of perspective about their own strengths/weaknesses/virtues/vices.
Ms. Susan, I’ve run across a saying that goes “men fall in love in your absence while you fall in love in their presence”, which I have found to be true. For me though, I start to like a guy more the more we talk. If he’s “busy” for days at a time or a week, I find myself feeling disconnected from him and liking him less. This sucks for me because it’s a lose lose. If I want to talk to him everyday, I don’t give him a chance to miss my absence, but at the same time I’m liking him more. Then when he does become too busy and can’t talk, I lose the connection but he seems to be more interested when he comes back after a few days.What’s the balance? How is anyone able to find love like that?
yes Susan! Your opinion on this! :)
The point is it isn't supposed to be like your example. When you have a good, fair and balanced situation your example is a non-factor. There is no 'waning' from both sides (upon closeness or distance). There is simply mature understanding that you are committed friends - regardless of busy periods.
TBH, anything less than above is just degrees of what leads to game -playing and rarely ends in a success.
A. Alexander You are looking for a gay friend or a free shrink, not a sexual Man. You must provide something a Man wants in the over 40 dating dance.
What kind of Men are you dealin' with? I'm Huge about Communication. I can't stand when Women go distant from me, which many do these days. It's Women who are the ones prone to distancing themselves.
Susan, you are simply amazing and so wise. Thank you for your videos. They have helped me to grow so much and to find a sense of clarity. I feel like I am forever indebted to you. ❤
Thank you Sarah!
On point Susan ! Love your advice at the ending !!
I have a question Susan : do you think you can make us a video regarding why do we still love people who do not love us back ??????? i love your work , you are awesome in every way .
Excellent. Writing this down now. Thanks!
I love Susan so much. I watch her videos every single day ❤️💯💕💜
Nice to know the rhyme and reason for the weirdness out there and to see I am not the only one going through this.. Clarity lights the way out of the jungle.
Truly!
Another great video thanks Susan. I always learn something new and useful from you. Thank you so much - you're brilliant AND beautiful 😊🌹
Yes gives exactly the balances on the topics and maintain technical terms.
I admire your way of thinking more & more after every video , & your simple easy way in dissecting the diffrence , i'm not in relationship but you make me think & feel diffrently thank youuuuu7
What if I have been the confused one and have reached clarity through your videos? I have game played out of fear with a current interest. Do I just state my truth as far as what I would like going forward or state this after I have changed my behavior, thus reinforcing my words. Will I come off as flaky or disingenuine if I suddenly state what I want and my boundaries after being the one playing hot and cold. Your videos have been a mirror to me and I am tired of the exhaustion it takes to guard myself. You have been a God send. Thanks
Hi Susan. For your own sake, I would confess would you just realized. If an apology is necessary I would suggest you get one. Make your commentaries short and sweet. Forget what they're thinking of you. Consider what you were doing for yourself. I wish you a brilliant 2018.
Thanks Susan! You did a wonderful job of differentiating these 3 types of people and lets us all know what to be on the lookout for. Happy New Year!
Erika Gardner thanks Erika. Glad you liked this video
Erika Gardner oh. And Happy New Year to you.
Hi Susan, thanks for another awe inspiring video. As usual full of clarity & insight. It's your videos that taught me that the one I was intending to invest in, the one that withheld love & dished it out like a treat or prize for "behaving well", is not confused but is actually a game player. And this video kind of cinched it :). Thanks again. You have helped me more than you'll ever know
Erika Gardner thanks for your thoughtful comment.
Susan Winter You're very welcome Susan!
The confused, indeed 🖤 I feel the best way of going forward is indeed clarity/alignment!🖤
You are absolutely brilliant, Susan! Thank you !
Hi Susan - I just came across your content and I can't tear myself away from your TH-cams! Your advice is spot on and fantastic! I was wondering if you could do a TH-cam for those of us going through a divorce and re-entering the dating world. I am 39 and want to have children and would love to know the best and fastest way to approach finding a partner that wants the same thing before my biological time has run out. Thanks Susan!
candice004 Your biological clock ran out 10 years ago. Your best time to have kids was 20 years ago. Your mother never told you the truth?
That’s some pretty powerful, well spoken perspectives...thx!
I really like the word skill set. That's exactly what that is.
and "the antidote to confusion is CLARITY." kind of genius.
BTW, what do you think of the book Attached?
God bless you thank you for telling me that he is not a player he is confused. I actually feel better about it now thank you!
and than when you are confused and they are confused than it becomes 1 big cluster fu$$
Hi Susan! I have a suggestion for a future video - haven’t seen it covered on your channel yet.How to handle dating in the workplace? Should it be avoided? If we are to proceed, how would you handle it?Many thanks and wishing you the best in this new year!
Incredibly well said. I was wondering if you have any live seminars or talks to attend. That would be awesome to do. Thanks.
Hey Susan I just found your channel and I’m so happy I did. You have already helped me so much , but one question I have for you is, how do I get younger men 25-30 to truly pursue me ? I have men that show interest in me but always expect me to do the chasing. So I pull away and they do the same. I’m always the one putting in the effort and making time. I don’t ever feel that is reciprocated
Great video!
The Confused...Well, that explains so much of my Dating History right there. I don't attract deflectors and players.
Hi Susan. I’ve recently been dumped out of a seven year relationship. I thought I had found the woman I wanted to settle down with. She decided to move to the town over to attend her last years at college and all was well for the first few months. But three months in and she went from telling me how much she loved me to not wanting to be in the relationship anymore. She’s undergone a complete personality change and I’m just not sure what to do. All of this behavior is unlike her and I’m just looking for some advice on what to do. Thanks
Ty for this video ❤️❤️❤️
Love this thanks for reminding me of self empowerment
Hi Susan. I’ve heard so much about this thing where people say that we are attracted to people who remind us of our most difficult parent, or a person who fits within our deep seated ‘complexes’ (which have to do with our behaviour with our parents). I don’t get it. I don’t get along with my parents well, so why the hell would I choose a partner who’s fundamentally like them? Can you make a video on elaborating the same?
Hi Meg. All of this happens unconsciously.
Idk about all of that myself.
If a woman were to have two men at hand, one says he has love for her but is not in love with her, and the other is in love and learning to love “regularly, ‘I guess you could say’” which does she choose? Considering long term as well?
You should choose neither and work on yourself .....your not only cheating on both men but your cheating on yourself by thinking this is completely ok to do when in fact your only doing damage all 3 of you . How would you feel if I guy you liked alot was dating him and you found out he was seeing other girls on the side deciding who he is gonna pick behind your back you would feel betrayed .......my saying is simple treat others how you want to be treated!!!!!!
Sounds right.
I am rather slick.
I've been the confused before. When I was with girls who were clear and healthy. I didn't know how to feel passion. I fall for the game players or the confused people like myself. I've learned this is avoidance attachment.
Do the players ever really love ? And how do they deal with rejection ?
Another lovely post from Susan : ) All I will say is all the most well-adjusted 'enough' of us are looking for is the same /similar in a prospective partner! It's the only element allowing us a chance in any relationship. As soon as you start dealing what Susan highlights, but on a * pathological / severe core -damage level *...then you can incur some SERIOUS emotional injuries on your 'love' journey (esp. if both of you are a mess, lol!) And frankly, that is what a load of us do.
I'm at the age where i know relationships are simply lotteries - no matter how skilled or clever you are. What you look to do, with experience, is stack the cards 'more' in your favour - as you hopefully learn from your mistakes (and those who have tested you :)
Happy New Year, Susan!
Beej J thanks for sharing your insight. And Happy New Year to you as well.
Susan, you are what i call a true 'spirit' : ) Thank you and keep doing you...! x
So sweet. Thank you. Happy 2018!!!
Very informative Susan thank you for this. I am not in a steady relationship but can you please do a video as to why we or the universe keep sending us people who nice, kind and fall in love with us but we do not want. It's exhausting having to date multiple people within a year who likes me alot and me not feeling any or if I feel one something else seriously is off or missing and me not finding what I want and back to the drawing broad again. I'm wondering if am too picky or do I have to settle just to find love?
"confusion doesn't have to be yours."
Heres the deal. Playing the player and breaking the bloated ego is the key to getting a player to stop f*ing around with people emotions..... Confused! Me nah! Bring it on. Deflectors(I hate em coz even players don't hurt this bad)
A deflector -can that also mean someone who is deflecting the obvious attraction they feel? in one of your videos you mentioned how a strong attraction can make some people go completely clueless and mute. (that is what my experience has been, it may look like hot/cold but it is just self-preservation)
When we stop thinking we own people then and only then will relationships be giving a chance to work!!
But HOW do we discern the difference when first beginning to interact with these types of people??
Claudia I think that we try to help these guys see the light. It’s because we are the caretakers or nurturers.
Susan I recently started watching your videos about younger man dating older woman. I'm a younger man n love with a older woman. What if the age is a 20 year difference? Is that too old? I have so many questions. Anyway love your videos I'm subbing!
Hi Frost Bite. Here's some great advice (an entire section of articles on older women and younger men) www.susanwinter.net/articles/
Just love her. You could die first, ironically. Meghan Trainor and John Legend song. " I'm Going to Love You Like I'm Going to Lose You." (A beautiful, beautiful song). P.S. Susan-UR BEAUTY FULL 2!♥️
You go for it! If its 20 years difference it doesn't matter. The heart and soul know chemistry and magnetism and don't collect calendars or birthday cards. Let everyone know how it's going. Cougars need encouragement.🐱
Is the deflector usually aware of what they are doing? Do they know that they are confused but just blaming it all on their partner, perhaps to buy themselves time?
Most of the time, NO. It's an unconscious habit that they've learned it gets them what they want.
And Brandi, that's why it's so hard to get them to stop deflecting.
Yeah I agree. My sister is a deflector and will be single for life because aside frome just wanting tall, dark and handsome with six figures and abs, she is profession specific. Finds everyones flaw while identifying herself as flawless. Saying there are "no good guys out there," and feels deserving of only the best
Got rid of the game player but he still try to keep in touch😡
Is that part of the game?
Ms. Peaches You’re obviously enamored by the attention. Look in the mirror
Yup a confused male is who I dealt with for 3yrs.. he says I don't know when asked certain questions and I believe him now..
Gorgeous Guru Goddess...🌷💃🌈SHALOM
I've been dating a very beautiful girl but it's been so hard to figure out what she wants. Everything was going so great in the beginning and then she pulled back. She later told me she wanted a relationship and didn't think I wanted one. I told her she should have said something because that's what I wanted too. A week later I tried to meet up with her to talk about everything and she said she didn't want to talk anymore and I was pressuring her. I have tried to be patient and kind the whole time. It was the most confusing situation I have ever been in lol. I haven't heard from her in a few days now. She also said I text her too much but I only text her to see if she can get together. So confusing lol.
Chillmaster It’s over man, let her go
If she is such a beautiful girl like you say, she might well be a narcissist, crazy for attention! You said it was great in the beginning, then she blew you off, accusing you for something you hadn't done! You had shown your interest in her and dated her. She falsely blamed you, which is gaslighting, to make you feel guilty and indebted! These are tactics of manipulation to make you feel crazy about her, desperate! She is only in love with herself and this is a game she is playing with you and lots of other guys, to treat you like her slave, like a doormat! Walk away and never look back. But be careful, though, that if you ignore her, she will contact you again. But don't fool yourself, it will be only for her ego, not because she cares. She will just break your heart. Forget about her, move on and try not to focus on external perfection of beauty. Find out if she is as beautiful inside, too, next time.
Super interesting. I'm lucky to have been married for a long time but I think you're fascinating! 😄😘🌟
Can confused people become unconfused and find clarity? Or is that wishful thinking?
I think this girl I was trying to talk to was a combination of deflecting and confused and ended up playing me without trying to
Please make a vid of girls who are players, feel like I just got played but I'm still naive to red flags
Yep. Dealing with a super game player narcissist troublemaker millennial flirty co worker. A former pageant winner in my state. Dating a guy in the office who has a trust fund and an Audi but flirting with me. Shows visible anger when I ignore and have ignored her. Gave me her number only to ghost me twice. None of the messages were asking her out. Just have a nice weekend or asking about interior design of my condo. Nothing. Her making inquiries about my weekends and inferring she is bored with hers. But this is nitroglycerin. This is the workplace. I do not date in the workplace. I will not fall to a sexual harassment policy for being stupid. I never mix personal and professional.All the guys in the office hover near her cube. I stay away on purpose. But to enforce that discipline has been hard with those ice blue eyed Kardashian come hither stares and her approaching me twisting her hair asking for my help. Being alone and single has worn on me a bit. But your advice today made me think of this situation and maintaining my resolve. Lest I become Polish Miss Connecticut barbecue.
Yes Christopher just maintain your composure. Women like that only just want you to be their victim. Stay composed even a bit arrogant
Wouldn't want her after being someone in my office anyway, lol. The narc in her just likes to 'know' she can get any man. Not even worth a jump -off.
Forget this super - shallow , super - tease , she's playing with you.
Christopher Mais I would hover with the other guys if I were you. You are making yourself more attractive to her by distancing yourself.
are what you call players what others call commitmentphobes? You don't seem to have any information on CP's but other dating coaches have a lot of talks about them. Why is that? I enjoyed this video as well as lots of other ones of yours. Thank you.
Hi Todd, there seems to be a lot of buzzwords these days for neglectfull partners and bad dating behavior. Some of these words are interchangeable. But the character traits are consistent, and very hard to correct unless person that wants to do so.
Thank you so so much, that was very helpful! Guys are behaving very weird these days
I would love to do one on one with you Capricorns are in the house🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟😎👈
I think im the confused and reacting
I am part of the confused..
Thankfully I wouldn't know. I haven't dated in years, and I have no interest in dating now. Single and celibate forever!
Susan there is this site where men say woman who are not virgins are not worth marrying. What do you say to that? They say women who are not virgins are concubines.
Why do you care what they say?
Olympia Elda I care because this man is ruining men’s minds.