guessin am one thousand one hundredth right now, to watch the vid lol. TH-cam didn't recommend me this channel before so I guess that's justified. I agree with the points, speaking from a white guy's perspective, it is not okay to create stereotypes or judge asian women saying they are submissive or dumb or smart or whatever else, individuals are individuals. For me I always found asian girls more attractive, but face to face i do not really even say this - i would not like to make anyone feel uncomfortable with me, and am slightly scared of being perceived as someone with "a yellow fever" who sees asians as nothing else but objects to satisfy somebody. Probably because I do not feel this way, me having a preference does not imply I think asian girls are merely objects, I see them as the same human as I am or a white girl is. They just look a bt different, and that's what attracts me in practice, not any stereotypes that "they are obedient" or they are always submissive, nobody should be forced to. Thanks for the video, your perspective is sane and you understand the issue very well
Watching this makes me realize Japanese women are a good fit for me but the sexy style of Korean women is hard to resist. I go to Seoul often and it's hard for me to go back to the US. Tokyo is great too. As for Chinese women, there are some hidden beauties in the mainland. Dalian, Harbin, Qingdao, and Chengdu are on my bucket list.
Neoteny is a term used in biology to describe a lifeform that has a reduced speed of maturation, which means that even though they get sexually mature, they will still keep chidlike physcial and mental traits and not reach the same degree of biological "adulthood" as their ancestors. This is neither better or worse than progressing further into 'adulthood', as the transitioning from childlike lifeform to an adultlike lifeform offers both benefits and downsides. One of the biggest benefits is the ability for the brain to keep it's plasticity, which means and increased ability to learn is kept, even in adulthood. This capabilit can simply be observed in children as they can learn things much quicker and effortless than adults. Also is there an increased ability to imaginative. Give a child a toy, and it iwll effortlessly imagine the toy being a real thing doing real things, when in fact it's just a toy that is held in the hands. Similarly to learning, remaining in a more childlike state also makes lifeforms more interested in any form of ''playing' their entire lives, rather than just in their youth. Play is also a youthful trait as it's subconciously aimed on practising things before doing them fpr real in adulthood, so they are prepared for the real world. Curiousity is also one of the traits one of the youthful traits associated and there are endless more traits. However, whereas keeping childlike traits has a lot of positives, it also comes with certain negatives. For example, when the lifeform matures, it usually gets an increased degree of muscle mass, strength and physical ability to fight. Also, agressiveness is practically all adult (mammel) lifeforms will go up. You can cuddle with a baby bear or tiger, but not with an adult as they are much more agressive, as it's the task of the adult to protect itslef and it's children. There are endless more traits and differences between more neotenic (childlike) traits and less neotenic traits. However, this was just an introduction to answer this question *To come back to the topic* Different humans have differnt levels of neoteny in them. Usually looks are already an indicator of this. A babyface for example is a neotenic trait and looking like a primitive face, with a big chin, outward protruding lower area of their face area of their face is generally not neotenic. as thse are mature features. When it comes to attractoin though it is my impression that people are just regularly _attracted to individuals who have a corresponding degree of neoteny in them as they have themselves , whether they are the same race or not_ . However, not all races *on average* have the same degree of neoteny and thus if you find neoteny attractive, it's more likely you will like certain ethnicities that tend to have higher degrees of this neoteny. East asians have ON AVERAGE about the highest degree of neoteny of all people. Other races have lower degrees of neoteny on average , yet of course it's different for each individual. So when white men for eaxmple are attracted to east asians, It usually simply means these white men themselvse are also more neotenic in nature and looks. Usually the more boy-like white guys are into asians than the "primitive" looking ones. On the other hand, east asians that have lower degrees of neoteny will more likely be attracted to men that also have lower degrees of neoteny as well and they might more easily find these in other ethnical groups. However, even though people seek a quite similar level of neoteny, women on average are attracted to slighly less neotenic (and thus more 'primitive') men are often more attracted to more neotenic women. *in short basically* Basically in heterosex - People with high neoteny (boyish men and women) are attracted to people with somewhat similar levels of neoteny , no matter the race - People with low levels of neoteny (mature masculine men and mature feminine woman) are attracted to eachotther, no matter the race Just observe couples in real life. Do the non asian men that date highly asian women usually look more like primitive/brute or more babyfaced guys? It's almost always the babyfaced guys, that are neotenic themselves both feel attracted to asian women and _are_ neotenic themselves too. This is why most non asian women on earth dislike light hair on men, while asian girls generally do like it (cause it's a neotenic trait) manly adult men are attracted to feminine adult females - The man will have broad shoulders, thin waist, relatively slim legs and ass, big robust hands and the female version of maturation involves getting wide hips, which will give the impression of a thin waste. So when you ask a typically very manly looking men which types of women he likes, he will usually describe a man that looks sexually very mature. - High neoteny (more childlike) are bodies that are simply said similar to children. Children are neither muscular like stereotpical men and neither are curvy like stereotypical women. So their bodies tend to be more straight, quite low in muscles, more baby faced, more flat faces (babies have flat faces) etc. While it may sound that asians just have all neotenic traits, this is not true. There are certain neotenic traits that asians do not have, such as larger eyes (more childlike), lighter hair (corresponds with youth as hair gets darker during maturation), ligher eye color. In general being lighter is also neotenic than not neotenic, as the skin alike hair typically darkers as you age. The influence of neoteny even goes as far as influencing the culture you live in. It's not coincidence that southeast asians find things like looking as non primitive and youthful as possible (like boybands) are most attractive. Similarly, they have trains with pikachu. Basically, a lot of things in entertainment are very youthful. Also, in the past they used to dye their face as white as possible, as that is a neotenic trait too. Similarly it can be observed that in anime tv shows, basically ALL traits of neoteny are shown. Sometimes people wonder why asians draw humans with such big eyes. I think it's just because it's neotenic feature, just as having lighter colors of hair. They are just about the only neotenic traits the do not have. However, the culture on itself still values any degree of neoteny, whether they have it themselves or not. NEOTENY AND MBTI It's my impression there are different levels per type too, as intuitives tend to look more neotenic than sensors for example. Sensors often have more mature faces and look mature earlier in life. I do not mean mature as in old (like close to death) but looking like an adult human being. They can be 15 and look 25, whereas the 25 year old intuitive might pass for 20. However, it's not that clear cut as other htings seem to influence it too.
wow. did you write all that by yourself? It's very insightful analysis. as I read ur writing I thought it was so amazing how non asians have more primitive facial structure but they have bigger eyes. and asians have overall neotenic features but they have smaller eyes. what a great balance it is!. so I'm usually attracted to youthful looking people I guess but then people that approach me they're usually more primitive looking people. and i noticed that alot of Arab people also have yellow fever and they have very primitive and mature looking features. one Arab woman explained as a joke that she thinks some Arab men are attracted to Asian women because they subconsciously want to soften their strong primitive traits with their next generation.
Asians have epicanthal folds and monolid. Asians got some of the biggest roundest eyes. th-cam.com/video/cWy4OEOBhjg/w-d-xo.htmlsi=V0G9cuYLY1ykZxC7&t=510
@@intpvamp Well, I recently found out that even the type of small eyes (certain) Asians have _are_ in fact neotenic_ too_ , if they are in fact look small because of them having epicanthic folds . Basically most babies of most ehtnicities before the are born have epicanthic folds (basically during fetal development have them). These folds are common in fetuses of most or all ethnicities, but they often become less prominent as the baby grows and the bridge of the nose develops. My hypothesis is that non asians just 'mature' in a biological sense and the folds disappear as their nose bridge grows, whereas (certain east) Asians keep them which corresponds with their small nose bridges as their nose bridge also tends to be small. And yes, I wrote al that myself. The topic of neoteny is one of my main components for human in my Ti framework (I'm intp) to understand humans. Neoteny explains so many things, why certain groups are more intelligent, yet less physically less developed, why people are attracted to things. It also explains why cultures are the way they are, as in my view a large portion of a culture is just the consequence of the type of people (on average) that live in an area. In mbti terms for example I have the impression that we all evolved differently (different ethnical groups) and that certain types are more common in some racial groups than others, which influence the culture. If you have lots of intps then the culture will eventually reflect that. I am not speaking about culture as in the type of language they speak or the type of religion that was often forced on inhabitants, but more the general vibe of the culture in an area or country. For example, countries with higher neoteny (northern Europe, east Asia) tend to be the safest places, in my idea as a consequence of neoteny. If everyone is a basically a grown child, means they are typically more harmless, just a baby lion is more harmless than a mature one. And to come back to the type of guys that are after you, It's a bit more complicated with men because men basically have 2 strategies of reproduction. They either invest lots of time in 1 women and the offspring that comes with that or they basically want to sleep around as for men that means reproduction without investment of time. They basically make a woman pregnant and then disappear. Now they often have to pay child support, but we have not evolved biologically with child support,as that is fairly new. So basically men like a lot of women, whereas women typically only like a few men. This is because women have only 1 option as strategy of reproduction, which is he one where they riase the child themselves, since for them it is not possible to impregnate men they hardly know and then disappear. So what they go for is _quality_ rather than _quantity_ , meaning they will find lots of women attractive (enough). Also, men remain fertile untill much older, whereas women get less fertile if they get physically older. Also, the health of babies is better when women are younger, whereas the influence of a man's age on the child matters less biologically speaking. This means that youth is attractive for men, as it implies fertility. So neoteny can give the (false) impression of youth, which triggers men to be interested in that. This might explain why all sorts of men are interested in you, as you look young (enough) to be fertile. Most men find on dating apps find about 50% of the women attractive whereas women like 5-10% attractive enough. So if you're a relatively young looking female, there will always be men interested in you.. I must say though I am surprised arab men are interested in you, although my guess is that you do not find them attractive, as I hardly ever see couples of asian women with arab men. Usually like I said, it's the more baby faced, somewhat boyish white men I see in couples with asian women. (basically, both somewhat neotenic). However, it depends on the asian woman of course as some are less neotenic and have higher estrogen expression in their body visible (like curvy shapes, bigger ass etc) Also about them wanting to soften their features with something oppposite is also an interesting topic, as it indeed sometimes seems most people seek both similar traits in their ideal partner as well as oppositional traits. I am trying to work out which traits should be opposite and which traits should generally be the same. So far it seems that masculinity and feminity should be oppositional, as more extremely (biologically) manly men find feminine women attractive, and couples where both are slighly closer to gender neutral will find eachother attractive too. It's about equal opposition. However, like I said, it seems in other traits people seek similarities. There must be a clear formula for this, but I've yet to figure this out.
@@PowerRedBullTypology It's true that I find boyish looking white men attractive. maybe it's becuz they seem more safe and familiar to me. they have level of neoteny that I'm used to. And they also meet the beauty standards in asian countries too. One time I saw a white man in Peter Pan costume and thought he was super attractive. He looked exactly like Peter Pan. we were about the same height and he looked at least 10years younger than his age. I was also attracted to a few middle eastern men but they had more neoteny traits compared to the average middle eastern men. but when I start having deep conversation, asian men are more attractive to me. it's a dilemma 😆I find non eastern asian facial features more attractive but when we start talking i find that eastern asian men are more smooth, good mannered, great at listening and leading the relationship smoothly. It's possible that I don't have much data to come to that conclusion. I'm also very much interested in evolutionary psychology. i bought a thick book about it ages ago and haven't started reading 😆i see your comments on some of the other mbti channels lol.
I'm a bit confused. I thought that you were going over what someone else said about the differences in Asian women. Then you were going to comment on what they said. So is this how you see the differences? If so, then OK, great. I just misunderstood.
Japan has one of the lowest female labor force participation rates among developed countries. you can copy this and do research you will see a lot of sources.
@@intpvamp Only when old people are factored in, due to retired old age in aged society. For general working aged under age 64, South Korea has one of the lowest female labor force participation rate for developed countries. Even lower than Japan. Japan is actually higher than some European countries. Japan also has much higher rate of dual-income households than South Korea. Also, you are getting the stereotypes wrong. Japanese women are perceived as earnest and kindhearted. Korean women are perceived as prone to hysteria. Chinese women are seen as more traditional.
@@user-yq3hj6wq1g Japan has higher income because overall income of the entire country is higher than Korea. you need to do some research. there are literally graphs and data out there comparing japanese and korean wives working hours after marriage. stop writing novel
@@intpvamp South Korea has higher average income. Japan has higher women's labor force participation for working aged under 64. Japan has a higher percentage of married women that are employed than South Korea. This is in accordance with publicly available OECD data.
@@user-yq3hj6wq1g according to international labour organization Japan has one of the biggest working time gap btw men and women. and korea has one of the biggest gender gap pay.
@@intpvamp thanks for answering, but I wonder, how does she know it's love? if I were to compliment her based on her appearance, would she accept it? in Italy I believe this would be perfectly fine, if you do it in austria/germany you would be ghosted immediately :D
@@smilesmile1237 hahaha i think in all Asian countries the compliment would be accepted. I never knew about Austria and Germany. why would they be ghosted for giving compliments?
@@intpvamp If you would say "you have beautiful eyes" she would think bad about you and be like "sorry i dont talk to this kind of guys". instead you would have to say something like "you wear nice earrings, very beautiful". not sure how it is handeled in south korea.😂
@@smilesmile1237 that's ridiculous. 'you have beautiful eyes' or 'you are beautiful' would be appreciated in south korea. if a guy said 'you wear nice earrings' korean women might think he's too shy to compliment on her beauty directly. have u lived in Germany or Austria?
I can only guess here, but if a person has only known white people it is found odd that black people have white inner hands and bottom of their feet. Perhaps, possibly, theat person could be thinking along those lines? Where I grew up we didn't know a single racist person, so i tend to always give the benefit of the doubt. If it isn't that, then I can't think of another innocent reason. But without knowing context and the people involved, i would rather think it was just a stupid attempt at humor rather than being deliberately offensive. Hopefully I'm right, or at least close.
"yellow fever = short sighted way to simplify an attraction, while it's basically the same as if you ask a white guy 'do you prefer brunettes or blondes'. Then why is that not blonde-fever and brunette-fever? Do straight people have gender-fever? You could say that about anything. Do women that like handsome men have 'handsome men fever'? Just becuase something is related ot race, all the logical arguments go overboard and the most negative assumptions are made.
※I am not deleting your comments. youtube is deleting comments randomly and i have no idea what the standards are. hope there is no misunderstanding.
This was interesting. Thank you for the information.
hey glad you liked the info. thanks for watching :)
guessin am one thousand one hundredth right now, to watch the vid lol. TH-cam didn't recommend me this channel before so I guess that's justified. I agree with the points, speaking from a white guy's perspective, it is not okay to create stereotypes or judge asian women saying they are submissive or dumb or smart or whatever else, individuals are individuals. For me I always found asian girls more attractive, but face to face i do not really even say this - i would not like to make anyone feel uncomfortable with me, and am slightly scared of being perceived as someone with "a yellow fever" who sees asians as nothing else but objects to satisfy somebody. Probably because I do not feel this way, me having a preference does not imply I think asian girls are merely objects, I see them as the same human as I am or a white girl is. They just look a bt different, and that's what attracts me in practice, not any stereotypes that "they are obedient" or they are always submissive, nobody should be forced to. Thanks for the video, your perspective is sane and you understand the issue very well
haha you are just as sane as i am ;)
The one child policy is dissolved a long time ago..
Watching this makes me realize Japanese women are a good fit for me but the sexy style of Korean women is hard to resist. I go to Seoul often and it's hard for me to go back to the US. Tokyo is great too.
As for Chinese women, there are some hidden beauties in the mainland. Dalian, Harbin, Qingdao, and Chengdu are on my bucket list.
sounds like you've traveled a lot.
Neoteny is a term used in biology to describe a lifeform that has a reduced speed of maturation, which means that even though they get sexually mature, they will still keep chidlike physcial and mental traits and not reach the same degree of biological "adulthood" as their ancestors. This is neither better or worse than progressing further into 'adulthood', as the transitioning from childlike lifeform to an adultlike lifeform offers both benefits and downsides. One of the biggest benefits is the ability for the brain to keep it's plasticity, which means and increased ability to learn is kept, even in adulthood. This capabilit can simply be observed in children as they can learn things much quicker and effortless than adults. Also is there an increased ability to imaginative. Give a child a toy, and it iwll effortlessly imagine the toy being a real thing doing real things, when in fact it's just a toy that is held in the hands. Similarly to learning, remaining in a more childlike state also makes lifeforms more interested in any form of ''playing' their entire lives, rather than just in their youth. Play is also a youthful trait as it's subconciously aimed on practising things before doing them fpr real in adulthood, so they are prepared for the real world. Curiousity is also one of the traits one of the youthful traits associated and there are endless more traits.
However, whereas keeping childlike traits has a lot of positives, it also comes with certain negatives. For example, when the lifeform matures, it usually gets an increased degree of muscle mass, strength and physical ability to fight. Also, agressiveness is practically all adult (mammel) lifeforms will go up. You can cuddle with a baby bear or tiger, but not with an adult as they are much more agressive, as it's the task of the adult to protect itslef and it's children. There are endless more traits and differences between more neotenic (childlike) traits and less neotenic traits. However, this was just an introduction to answer this question
*To come back to the topic*
Different humans have differnt levels of neoteny in them. Usually looks are already an indicator of this. A babyface for example is a neotenic trait and looking like a primitive face, with a big chin, outward protruding lower area of their face area of their face is generally not neotenic. as thse are mature features.
When it comes to attractoin though it is my impression that people are just regularly _attracted to individuals who have a corresponding degree of neoteny in them as they have themselves , whether they are the same race or not_ . However, not all races *on average* have the same degree of neoteny and thus if you find neoteny attractive, it's more likely you will like certain ethnicities that tend to have higher degrees of this neoteny. East asians have ON AVERAGE about the highest degree of neoteny of all people. Other races have lower degrees of neoteny on average , yet of course it's different for each individual. So when white men for eaxmple are attracted to east asians, It usually simply means these white men themselvse are also more neotenic in nature and looks. Usually the more boy-like white guys are into asians than the "primitive" looking ones.
On the other hand, east asians that have lower degrees of neoteny will more likely be attracted to men that also have lower degrees of neoteny as well and they might more easily find these in other ethnical groups. However, even though people seek a quite similar level of neoteny, women on average are attracted to slighly less neotenic (and thus more 'primitive') men are often more attracted to more neotenic women.
*in short basically*
Basically in heterosex
- People with high neoteny (boyish men and women) are attracted to people with somewhat similar levels of neoteny , no matter the race
- People with low levels of neoteny (mature masculine men and mature feminine woman) are attracted to eachotther, no matter the race
Just observe couples in real life. Do the non asian men that date highly asian women usually look more like primitive/brute or more babyfaced guys? It's almost always the babyfaced guys, that are neotenic themselves both feel attracted to asian women and _are_ neotenic themselves too. This is why most non asian women on earth dislike light hair on men, while asian girls generally do like it (cause it's a neotenic trait)
manly adult men are attracted to feminine adult females - The man will have broad shoulders, thin waist, relatively slim legs and ass, big robust hands and the female version of maturation involves getting wide hips, which will give the impression of a thin waste. So when you ask a typically very manly looking men which types of women he likes, he will usually describe a man that looks sexually very mature.
- High neoteny (more childlike) are bodies that are simply said similar to children. Children are neither muscular like stereotpical men and neither are curvy like stereotypical women. So their bodies tend to be more straight, quite low in muscles, more baby faced, more flat faces (babies have flat faces) etc. While it may sound that asians just have all neotenic traits, this is not true. There are certain neotenic traits that asians do not have, such as larger eyes (more childlike), lighter hair (corresponds with youth as hair gets darker during maturation), ligher eye color. In general being lighter is also neotenic than not neotenic, as the skin alike hair typically darkers as you age.
The influence of neoteny even goes as far as influencing the culture you live in. It's not coincidence that southeast asians find things like looking as non primitive and youthful as possible (like boybands) are most attractive. Similarly, they have trains with pikachu. Basically, a lot of things in entertainment are very youthful. Also, in the past they used to dye their face as white as possible, as that is a neotenic trait too.
Similarly it can be observed that in anime tv shows, basically ALL traits of neoteny are shown. Sometimes people wonder why asians draw humans with such big eyes. I think it's just because it's neotenic feature, just as having lighter colors of hair. They are just about the only neotenic traits the do not have. However, the culture on itself still values any degree of neoteny, whether they have it themselves or not.
NEOTENY AND MBTI
It's my impression there are different levels per type too, as intuitives tend to look more neotenic than sensors for example. Sensors often have more mature faces and look mature earlier in life. I do not mean mature as in old (like close to death) but looking like an adult human being. They can be 15 and look 25, whereas the 25 year old intuitive might pass for 20. However, it's not that clear cut as other htings seem to influence it too.
wow. did you write all that by yourself? It's very insightful analysis. as I read ur writing I thought it was so amazing how non asians have more primitive facial structure but they have bigger eyes. and asians have overall neotenic features but they have smaller eyes. what a great balance it is!. so I'm usually attracted to youthful looking people I guess but then people that approach me they're usually more primitive looking people. and i noticed that alot of Arab people also have yellow fever and they have very primitive and mature looking features. one Arab woman explained as a joke that she thinks some Arab men are attracted to Asian women because they subconsciously want to soften their strong primitive traits with their next generation.
Asians have epicanthal folds and monolid. Asians got some of the biggest roundest eyes.
th-cam.com/video/cWy4OEOBhjg/w-d-xo.htmlsi=V0G9cuYLY1ykZxC7&t=510
@@intpvamp Well, I recently found out that even the type of small eyes (certain) Asians have _are_ in fact neotenic_ too_ , if they are in fact look small because of them having epicanthic folds .
Basically most babies of most ehtnicities before the are born have epicanthic folds (basically during fetal development have them). These folds are common in fetuses of most or all ethnicities, but they often become less prominent as the baby grows and the bridge of the nose develops. My hypothesis is that non asians just 'mature' in a biological sense and the folds disappear as their nose bridge grows, whereas (certain east) Asians keep them which corresponds with their small nose bridges as their nose bridge also tends to be small.
And yes, I wrote al that myself. The topic of neoteny is one of my main components for human in my Ti framework (I'm intp) to understand humans. Neoteny explains so many things, why certain groups are more intelligent, yet less physically less developed, why people are attracted to things. It also explains why cultures are the way they are, as in my view a large portion of a culture is just the consequence of the type of people (on average) that live in an area. In mbti terms for example I have the impression that we all evolved differently (different ethnical groups) and that certain types are more common in some racial groups than others, which influence the culture. If you have lots of intps then the culture will eventually reflect that. I am not speaking about culture as in the type of language they speak or the type of religion that was often forced on inhabitants, but more the general vibe of the culture in an area or country. For example, countries with higher neoteny (northern Europe, east Asia) tend to be the safest places, in my idea as a consequence of neoteny. If everyone is a basically a grown child, means they are typically more harmless, just a baby lion is more harmless than a mature one.
And to come back to the type of guys that are after you, It's a bit more complicated with men because men basically have 2 strategies of reproduction. They either invest lots of time in 1 women and the offspring that comes with that or they basically want to sleep around as for men that means reproduction without investment of time. They basically make a woman pregnant and then disappear. Now they often have to pay child support, but we have not evolved biologically with child support,as that is fairly new. So basically men like a lot of women, whereas women typically only like a few men. This is because women have only 1 option as strategy of reproduction, which is he one where they riase the child themselves, since for them it is not possible to impregnate men they hardly know and then disappear. So what they go for is _quality_ rather than _quantity_ , meaning they will find lots of women attractive (enough). Also, men remain fertile untill much older, whereas women get less fertile if they get physically older. Also, the health of babies is better when women are younger, whereas the influence of a man's age on the child matters less biologically speaking.
This means that youth is attractive for men, as it implies fertility. So neoteny can give the (false) impression of youth, which triggers men to be interested in that. This might explain why all sorts of men are interested in you, as you look young (enough) to be fertile. Most men find on dating apps find about 50% of the women attractive whereas women like 5-10% attractive enough. So if you're a relatively young looking female, there will always be men interested in you..
I must say though I am surprised arab men are interested in you, although my guess is that you do not find them attractive, as I hardly ever see couples of asian women with arab men. Usually like I said, it's the more baby faced, somewhat boyish white men I see in couples with asian women. (basically, both somewhat neotenic). However, it depends on the asian woman of course as some are less neotenic and have higher estrogen expression in their body visible (like curvy shapes, bigger ass etc)
Also about them wanting to soften their features with something oppposite is also an interesting topic, as it indeed sometimes seems most people seek both similar traits in their ideal partner as well as oppositional traits. I am trying to work out which traits should be opposite and which traits should generally be the same. So far it seems that masculinity and feminity should be oppositional, as more extremely (biologically) manly men find feminine women attractive, and couples where both are slighly closer to gender neutral will find eachother attractive too. It's about equal opposition. However, like I said, it seems in other traits people seek similarities. There must be a clear formula for this, but I've yet to figure this out.
@@PowerRedBullTypology It's true that I find boyish looking white men attractive. maybe it's becuz they seem more safe and familiar to me. they have level of neoteny that I'm used to. And they also meet the beauty standards in asian countries too. One time I saw a white man in Peter Pan costume and thought he was super attractive. He looked exactly like Peter Pan. we were about the same height and he looked at least 10years younger than his age. I was also attracted to a few middle eastern men but they had more neoteny traits compared to the average middle eastern men. but when I start having deep conversation, asian men are more attractive to me. it's a dilemma 😆I find non eastern asian facial features more attractive but when we start talking i find that eastern asian men are more smooth, good mannered, great at listening and leading the relationship smoothly. It's possible that I don't have much data to come to that conclusion. I'm also very much interested in evolutionary psychology. i bought a thick book about it ages ago and haven't started reading 😆i see your comments on some of the other mbti channels lol.
I'm a bit confused. I thought that you were going over what someone else said about the differences in Asian women. Then you were going to comment on what they said. So is this how you see the differences? If so, then OK, great. I just misunderstood.
i have no idea what ur saying
I think you are talking about stereotypes. According to real data, Korea has noticeably higher rate of stay at home wife than Japan.
Japan has one of the lowest female labor force participation rates among developed countries. you can copy this and do research you will see a lot of sources.
@@intpvamp Only when old people are factored in, due to retired old age in aged society. For general working aged under age 64, South Korea has one of the lowest female labor force participation rate for developed countries. Even lower than Japan. Japan is actually higher than some European countries. Japan also has much higher rate of dual-income households than South Korea.
Also, you are getting the stereotypes wrong. Japanese women are perceived as earnest and kindhearted. Korean women are perceived as prone to hysteria. Chinese women are seen as more traditional.
@@user-yq3hj6wq1g Japan has higher income because overall income of the entire country is higher than Korea. you need to do some research. there are literally graphs and data out there comparing japanese and korean wives working hours after marriage. stop writing novel
@@intpvamp South Korea has higher average income. Japan has higher women's labor force participation for working aged under 64. Japan has a higher percentage of married women that are employed than South Korea. This is in accordance with publicly available OECD data.
@@user-yq3hj6wq1g according to international labour organization Japan has one of the biggest working time gap btw men and women. and korea has one of the biggest gender gap pay.
so how would I flirt with a south korean woman? 😄😇
they all seem to look like kpop idols but also high standards, so I'm not sure.
women are still women. true love and genuine heart can cross all the boundaries i believe.
@@intpvamp thanks for answering, but I wonder, how does she know it's love? if I were to compliment her based on her appearance, would she accept it?
in Italy I believe this would be perfectly fine, if you do it in austria/germany you would be ghosted immediately :D
@@smilesmile1237 hahaha i think in all Asian countries the compliment would be accepted. I never knew about Austria and Germany. why would they be ghosted for giving compliments?
@@intpvamp If you would say "you have beautiful eyes" she would think bad about you and be like "sorry i dont talk to this kind of guys".
instead you would have to say something like "you wear nice earrings, very beautiful".
not sure how it is handeled in south korea.😂
@@smilesmile1237 that's ridiculous. 'you have beautiful eyes' or 'you are beautiful' would be appreciated in south korea. if a guy said 'you wear nice earrings' korean women might think he's too shy to compliment on her beauty directly. have u lived in Germany or Austria?
the accuracy is very amazing. as expected of a south korean intp. super high iq.
you deserve a hug 🫂😆
I can only guess here, but if a person has only known white people it is found odd that black people have white inner hands and bottom of their feet. Perhaps, possibly, theat person could be thinking along those lines? Where I grew up we didn't know a single racist person, so i tend to always give the benefit of the doubt. If it isn't that, then I can't think of another innocent reason. But without knowing context and the people involved, i would rather think it was just a stupid attempt at humor rather than being deliberately offensive. Hopefully I'm right, or at least close.
hey goatman. it is always nice to have brighter thoughts. i agree :)
"yellow fever = short sighted way to simplify an attraction, while it's basically the same as if you ask a white guy 'do you prefer brunettes or blondes'. Then why is that not blonde-fever and brunette-fever? Do straight people have gender-fever? You could say that about anything. Do women that like handsome men have 'handsome men fever'? Just becuase something is related ot race, all the logical arguments go overboard and the most negative assumptions are made.
💀bsffr it’s not the same as preferring a certain hair colour bro , it’s not a preference if you will only date someone that’s Asian get a grip💀
hahaha that's true. you are really good at writing
@@intpvamp thank you!
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hey June haha you're funny😁
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hey PulseX10N thanks for the 1st comment :)