I really love how the guy on the end kind of lightened the tension between everyone when he made the joke about competing with girls like even I laughed and he seems like a nice person 😭😭❤
@@gerdis3665 being more respectfull unlike others, its actually a sin! but, not be gay, but have homosexual relatioship and other is the sin!, so if you are gay but a christain you should search for resign and live celibacy! we love the sinner not the sin! but nowadays many christians like to judge, but thats also a sin! so u should correct those, not atacck the religion! thank you, God bless you
honestly i think it's not going to change anything, koreans don't have an American or French mentality, there are plenty of mentalities which has been present for centuries and which aren't likely to change so soon
@@grace2128 Could be, could not be. Depends on the person. I personally know many korean ppl who could have been described as racist/sexist/homophobic/bigoted at that age but grew up & changed their mentality once they got educated about the world.
@@infpya Wwo that's a good development, I really hope they change their mentality on these kinds of things because because of their homophobia they are being boycotted by thai people I hope that even if it's little by little their mentality will change because it's too much
Well, to each their own. It's amazing they were quite honest about their opinions, although I don't agree with all of them. I think people should be able to have civilized conversations like this even if we have differing opinions, so this was good to see.
Well, I think it can be quite hard to remain respectful if the person you are talking to thinks you should hide yourself not to offend others. It’s like telling a person that they should keep themselves hidden since I don’t like their looks. Maybe I should just close my eyes then. 🤷🏽♀️
I really like the girl she seems more open minded but was mostly quiet, maybe caz she thought they wouldnt agree with her but im sure she wanted to say smtg more. feel bad for the guy who got hurt when the middle dude said he would cut him off if he was gay lol anyway thanks queenie for another great vid!!💙
Why would you feel bad about an hypothetical situation 😂😂 Even if it came to pass, they're all grown ups, it's okay to reject someone when you don't like them (if they try to make a move obviously).
the guy in the middle was an absolute d*ck. too bad to see that homophobia still perpetuates amongst Korea's young generations. still a veryyyyy long way to go compared to Japan
@@yamiletsoler3464 yeah but to hear a close friend of yours say that they would stop being friends with you just because you were queer is really messed up (as a bisexual myself)
I’m glad that this was a constructive conversation with differing opinions, it really puts into perspective that Korea holds many people with different opinions, same as America. I really hope that people stop hating on the people in the video because this is one of the first videos I’ve seen that is more honest about the reality of Korea, and I worry that the hate people get in this video might be taken into consideration the next time someone makes a video on Korea and others will be wary of being entirely truthful because they’ll be worried about getting hated on. The people who clicked on this video clearly wanted truthful and honest opinions so it’s time to be respectful when disagreeing with them in the comments, please have a little empathy that some people in the video were not raised the same as you and therefore do not have the same knowledge as you about the world and it’s important to treat them with care as well and hope that they will try to make an effort to learn more.
People will always judge others based on their own biases. It doesn’t matter where you are from. Folks should be themselves, always, no matter how others will see them. Stand for what you believe. You will learn things are not always how you see life through different experiences. Only you can change perspective through those. But, never be afraid to be you. Not everyone has to like you, nor do you have to like everyone. It’s ok.
Not rly they just voice their opinions and calmly -unlike usa u can't have ,any other opinion what's right with media, as u will be considered a hater@@AC-ri2ph
Right, I’m bi and I get not agreeing with our lifestyle, just be respectful about it. But saying gay ppl should hide it is so yucky, that’s what a lot of gay people have been doing for literal decades.
@@strudelh I have no problems with the lifestyle as long as they know I'm not. All the gay guys always hit on me, which is the problem when they know I'm not gay. Guys are always horny, so they constantly hit on people, but if their target isn't female, they know that if a man rejects them. the guy being hit on negatively with remarks as are you homophobic and such, whereas if a man hits on a female and the female rejects him, the guy doing the hitting will be looked upon negatively.
@@strudelh I have no problems with the lifestyle as long as they know I'm not. All the gay guys always hit on me, which is the problem when they know I'm not gay. Guys are always horny, so they constantly hit on people, but if their target isn't female, they know that if a man rejects them. the guy being hit on negatively with remarks as are you homophobic and such, whereas if a man hits on a female and the female rejects him, the guy doing the hitting will be looked upon negatively.
thank you for the q&a! this is by far the best one i’ve seen with the most accurate and understandable answers. also about the homophobia, honestly it just shows more like obviously not everyone is on the same page about every single issue and no matter what there will be people who think like that, but the good news is that there are also wonderful people who will accept you or at the very least try to understand you if you put in the same effort.
Seeing a group of friends be honest with each other without arguing or being rude when they disagree is actually really refreshing. I’m sure a lot of us disagree with the guy in the middle with many things and his friends seemed to as well…HOWEVER, notice how they didn’t start arguing? I’m not saying his mindset is right, but, he answered honestly (as he was asked to do) and didn’t try to force his opinion on his friends. I have respect for anyone who is willing to be the odd one out instead of just lying and faking it. When it comes to people like him, I’d much rather them just quietly avoid the lgbtq+ community than to harass them and think about them with hatred nonstop. I’m not at all saying he is RIGHT, I can’t stress this enough. I just really love seeing a group of adults with different views speak to each other LIKE adults, in a respectful manner. If everyone in the world spoke to each other like THIS….the world would be a different place. We’re never going to agree on everything, but we can try to hear others out and try to grow as much as we can. Sadly, especially when it comes from a religious viewpoint; some people simply cannot “accept” gayness. When it comes down to it, I’d rather him carry on as he is, minding his own business instead of protesting or being directly harmful. I hope this makes sense and I really hope my message comes across properly. I’m trying to be as open-minded as possible while explaining because that’s how we should ALL be with each other. We disagree, but we’re still human and we can still communicate with respect. ❤ Thank you for sharing this interview, girl!!! It was really interesting to watch and hear the varying opinions. ❤
That's cause a lot of koreans have no morals. They live in the 1900s still in a lot of ways. When 80% of your society is close minded so you're used to it, you're not gonna cut them off. So of course there are little arguments and everything can be fine. We're more open minded in the USA though so if you're a pos human who refuses the respect of other ppl bc YOU don't agree with it, we will call you out. That won't fly here and we refuse to play nice with people like that.
Aw im so glad u did this. I dated a girl from corea when i was in my late teens. Dating me she was only around black americans n first gen west african Americans. They loved her and she loved them. I asked her what her first impressions were bc in america, a lot of ppl r shy around black folks out of fear. But she said she was shy… but not for the same reasons. She said black ppls perception in corea is that they are cool, ladies men, etc. So it was more starstruck type ish. And that was the first time I heard of a perception of black ppl being widely positive. Ur friends echoing that is so on point. I get the clear skin thing being the main thing. But i do think pale is a positive factor as well. BUT pale has only been popping in corea for like a decade. In the 90s and 00s they were all tan. Like Brazilian type skin. But they still liked it clear. So the pale thing is i think just the beauty standards evolving like anywhere else in the world. When i visit corea i see plenty of tan ppl and ppl married to african immigrants, etc. I think the bottom line is the clear skin/healthy/taking care of yourself. I DO think pale got way popular at the same time. But tan skin is still a preference too. Peace.
The problem is that black people are viewed as concepts and not human beings that are individuals. Positive stereotypes are just as unproductive as negative ones which is why Asian people still don’t interact with Black people
"I don't have a reason, I just don't like it" .... I mean I get it and appreciate his honesty, but personally I hope to always be able to unpack and understand my feelings vs just being told what not to like and being like "ok yeah" when told how to feel/think
This!! Im a christian myself and I don’t personally agree with homosexuality as it goes against God’s teachings but I don’t hate on them either because I get the liberty to believe in God and I get free will. By that, I mean that others also get free will too and I can’t force them to believe in God. I can tell them about Him if they are curious but that’s it. All I can do is respect them as human beings and not condemn them because it’s not my job. Does not mean I support homosexuality itself though. I just won’t treat someone differently for being part of it.
@@Yurina-d9m let me ask you, just out of curiosity really, if you were to be seated in a restaurant and the people lets say in eyesight of you are obviously gay. Be that holding hands, sitting close together or something around those lines, would you get up and move or continue with your day?
@@disorderlymatron5534I personally have and had LGBTQ+ friends. I’ve literally gone right after church with fellow christians to a restaurant where our favorite gay waiter works because he’s such a funny and kind guy. I don’t mind people doing with their life whatever they want. I’m not interested in their sexual or romantic life. This is what I tell judgy christians. Now if they are being extremely sexual in front of my kids (and they don’t even have to be LGBTQ) like twerking, tongue kissing, grabbing each other’s parts (I’ve seen people like that) then obviously I will walk away. This is what I tell judgy christians. You can call yourself a christian and be a bad christian and end up in hell and someone that’s gay, accept Jesus with all their heart, even if it’s right before dying, and go to heaven so don’t judge. hope that helps.
Yeah, i believe in God, been raised in a christian household, so i never understood how others can just freely use that excuse for ‘not agreeing’ with things. Why? Just because some other humans decided that’s how they’re gonna interpret some part of the bible doesn’t automatically make it right. Doesn’t christianity also tell you you have no right to judge others? To be kind to your fellow humans, regardless? Why not focus on that part of religion? Why is it always used to hate on others? When i see stuff like this, even the first reply to the og comment, it’s pretty clear to me that these people are just repeating shit they’ve been told, never took the time to do any kind of research for themselves. You can not like gay people, sure, i don’t understand it but if that’s your opinion go for it, i guess. But don’t use your religion as an excuse, that’s just a way to avoid accountability.
He said, there is misunderstanding and ppl like "clean" skin, so it doesn't have to be white/pale skin. (not always). as a south korean, I agree with him. it's true that many koreans like white, bright, or clean skin (especially about women), but clean skin matters than skin color. Also surely, there are koreans who like darker skin too and many koreans don't have pale skin either! 🙂 and i have darker skin as a SK woman. (but korean women tend to try to have more white/bright skin..) and all skin color should be respected. i think koreans don't discriminate by skin color, but if you have white or clean skin, especially as a woman, many koreans who like white skin will like it. that's all..!
@@seren6cher8ryso basically you said he’s both right & wrong😂let’s be honest east asia mainly likes white skin whether it be for colorism or do to poor farmers being darker from being out the sun & the wealthy being paler mentality they got😭all that trying to add in clean skin shit to that topic was just bs lol
Koreans have fairly light skin by default so people who have darker skin get it by getting tanned which inevitably comes other kinds of sun damage like freckles and uneven skin tone. That's why Koreans think of pale and clear almost equivalently. They come together. If korea had been multi ethnic for some time we would've differentiated those two more clearly but these perceptions are generated by Koreans looking at other Koreans
Given Donggeun's religion, his environment, and how he was raised, I'm not shocked. Korea is very conservative. I actually commend him for being willing to talk openly about how he feels even though we fundamentally disagree. I hope that he doesn't continue to confine himself to these beliefs as he gets older, because anybody has the capacity to find love and be attracted to anybody else, even when you're least expecting it. If he were to ever develop those sorts of feelings later on in life, he'd feel so ashamed. We deserve to celebrate love and be happy and treat people kindly.
Just cause he doesn't share the same open mentality as you do it doesn't mean he is wrong for following what he accepts as the right thing, lgbt people always want to be respected but you can't respect a religion of someone just cause you don't agree, nobody have to accept you, and that's just how life is, there's so many people u don't like also and there will be so many people that won't like you
@@cynthiagauthier8897 do you really think that a some kid really was biological born as homosexual? They just chosen what they prefer as they get older, and why beliefs shouldn't be respected? It means that If I truly believe that I'm a dinosaur so I'm biological Born as one? I don't hate lgbt but why do you have to try to prove to everyone that you're some kind of "special" gender instead of just living as everyone minding your own business. Black people don't go around telling everyone they're black and should be respected as one, they are just humans like everyone and that's why they deserve to be respected as a human being, it is just about YOUR identity so just keep it to yourself, nobody has to look at a man wearing a dress and call him as she just cause he prefer to have relation with man, that's just he's personal life nobody have to know about your personal life and agree with you, everyone is different and we should celebrate the difference but why should not we celebrate or even just respect a opinion or beliefs that doesn't agree with yours?
Being homosexual is not a biological fact it's a way of life, and not everyone has to accept it for there own reasons. As long as we are respectful to each other we can have peace.
The one who didn't support the same sex attraction? Nahh he was just voicing his opinions. I think it was pretty brave of him to be honest. He stood up for his religion when everyone else in the room clearly disagreed.
@@ChicaLocaForever16Yh but if he would want to unfriend gay people simply for that, it would make sense that people who support LGBT would want to unfriend him too I feel?🤷🏻♀️
I love getting their honest perspectives, even if I disagreed with them. I'd rather have honesty. On the question of Gays, I would like to share with your friends from Korea that, as a Christian someone get mixed up on this:discussion. We are called loved everyone as a Christian and not to set ourselves up as anyone's judge and jury..So, it's a Christian's goal to love others as we love ourselves. All people should be welcomed, kept safe and loved etc... I have lived as a Christian my entire life and I have known many Gay people, which include children during my childhood, they were just another friend or neighbor. They were not not picked on and I grew up in Chicago. My mom also thought it was important to be with around people that did not look like you, so I went to a n integrated nursery school, what people call Preschool all the way through to grade school. Even our sports, and hobbies were integrated. So, I have been friends my whole life with friends who were from different nationalities and I love it. As Asian friends goes I've had, Chinese, Japanese, Filipino and I was the manager of a couple of Korean, but I did not know them on a personal level. I actually had more in common with my Asian friends than I did with my Black or White friends because my mom was very education focus and walking the straight and narrow, (a tiger mom) so we shared similar experiences and bond over them. I guess it worked since She and her 4 children all graduated from college. My son is a high achiever too, but I parent very different! I started watching Kdramas about 2 yrs ago and I love them for so many reasons and thus I became interested in the Korean culture and I follow several Korean influencers on TH-cam. I also love seeing people of color or African- Americans living there and sharing their lives and friendships. I can't wait to visit and soak up the different cultures and sites. People are people as long as you lead with respect and love. Thank you for doing this video. I learned so much and your friends seem lovely and open.감사합니다
If S. Koreans discriminate South East Asians for being darker, then we know the real reason. It’s colorism. They connote “being pale” as being “better or more beautiful”. In reality it makes little difference but their society still has discriminatory values. Also I hear they like black people from western countries not really other black people from anywhere else. But that like still doesn’t exclude hidden racism.
Unless you have lived in both countries for long time like myself, you really don't know subtle differences in their attitudes. Not saying some Koreans don't discriminate against South East Asians, but it's not due to their skin tone.
Honestly the answer in regard to the question about pale skin had nothign to do with the question. Having clean clear skin is a diff topic than colorism. So the middle guy is homophobic and he doesn't even know why he's homophobic smh. I'm glad Queenie told the other guy that lgbtqhave standards cuz for someone reason heterosexual men think just cuz their a man they would get chose 😂
He actually has a reason to be homophobic because he is a CHRISTIAN!!! he said that so you should respect his opinion not every body would welcome gays or whatever
I think the kid you are calling homophobic was quite brave to state his real feelings. People say we all have a right to our beliefs but when someone like him says what he really feels he is attacked. I feel he has the right to his opinion just like gays have their rights!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
growing up where gay/lesbian are seen normal and finding out others have so much discussion and inputs on other people's preferences was shocking. Gay relationship are not legal here but nobody cares or reports anything. We just let them be. Going to an all girls school 85% of the girls had lesbian tendencies 😂😂 I think I was the only one asexual lol
Im korean and I have very bright skin since I was born. It's just depends on my genetic. And It's so rude that someone to said white washing things(?) to me. I never heard of 'white washing' in my life so I don't even know the meaning until last year😦. Many east asian has natural pale skin and I like tan skin too. Thank you.
@@keykey7646 He's not lying. I lived in both countries for long time. Many Koreans have skin tones that are whiter than Whites. For example, my wife is Korean, and if you just focus on her skin tone, her skin tone is white. My skin tone is yellow and slightly brownish. But my son's skin tone is relatively white. My wife never used or uses any skin whitening cream, but she is good about applying sun protection cream whenever she goes outside. By the way, she also prefers white color on our house home and bathroom, so it resembles a hospital. Has nothing to do with her racial attitude.
@@keykey7646야. 유튜브와 구글에서 동남아 아기와 한국 아기들 사진 많으니 찾아보고 비교해 봐라. 아기도 화이트워싱한다고 지껄일거냐? 우린 피부색에 대해 자부심 따위 없고 잘 살아왔는데 니가 어느나라 사람인진 몰라도 너희들의 피부색 자격지심에 따른 열등감은 진짜 지긋지긋하다.그냥 한국과 한국인에 관심 끄고 살아주면 안되겠니?
I never understood people who use their religion as an excuse for homophobia. No sin is greater than another, you'll keep friends who lie, cheat, steal and commit infidelity but draw the line at same gendered relationships. If you're going to pick friends and judge people based on one sin, do it for ALL sins. This is why people see Christianity as a joke these days
All sin is sin, but all sins are not equal: John 19:11 Jesus answered: Thou shouldst not have any power against me, unless it were given thee from above. Therefore, he that hath delivered me to thee, hath the greater sin. “And so I tell you, every kind of sin and slander can be forgiven, but blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven. Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but anyone who speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come” (Matthew 12:31-32). According to Jesus, some sins are greater than others. All sins are not the same.
You have right to disagree with someone life style choice. That does not mean you hate the person. Being respectful and kind to one another doesn’t mean, I have accepted your life style. They two different things.
I’m a Christian, but I’m not homophobic. I believe that homosexuality is a sin, but I’m not homophobic just because I don’t support your behavior 😭. I still love you, but it’s my duty as a Christ follower to steer myself in the right direction and not feed into that sin
@@velmalegaspi1741 I never said that one would have to thrust themselves into a homosexual lifestyle just bc their friends have one. But using the name of God to say that gay people should hide their lifestyle bc it offends people IS homophobic and disgusting. That's exactly what the guy in the middle said. How someone lives their life should not affect you in anyway if it has nothing to directly do with you
@@Leidyybug And that's fine. That's not at all what the problem is for anyone who is upset in the comments lol. It's simply him saying that he takes OFFENSE to another person's lifestyle. As a black person I can think of it as a white person not knowing me at all but saying I've offended them or made them mad simply because of my skin color. At the end of the day it's God that passes judgement when death comes, not Christians who preach what they say is the word of God and Jesus
If you wear makeup than you're doing the same thing, right? Essentially? Making yourself look better than you really are? Same deal with hair styling and conditioner and various skin creams. This is the same as that - no worse than wearing makeup, and but nobody sees wearing makeup as problematic because everyone does it, it's normalised. This is just a different method that western people are not used to. And by the way, the 'white' skin thing in Korea comes from a completely different circumstance and history to the traditional western 'racist against people with black skin' thing. The western 'white skin' thing and the Korean 'white skin' thing are not related at all.
@@fransmith3255how is making yourself whiter, making yourself look better ? also it doesn’t matter if those don’t have the exact same roots, at the end of the day It’s about discrimination which is wrong. doesn’t matter if it’s a race matter or a classism matter
@@na-xw8rt You are relating this to western culture and western racism. The Korean wish to look paler has nothing to do with western racism between black and white people. Absolutely nothing!! It's not related at all. It is to do with Korean culture and Korean history. Western culture is not the only culture on Earth and other cultures don't necessarily relate to western culture at all. It's exactly the same principle as wearing makeup - better looking people are treated better. That's discrimination done by makeup. Is makeup discrimination?
@@na-xw8rt Yes. It's rooted in historical classism. So do other countries have classism - just expressed differently. In America classism is much, MUCH worse, right? Classism in America is being accosted and arrested just because people have dark skin. Western prejudices are much MUCH worse than they are in Korea. We don't exactly have the right to judge...
It's crazy to me that people are so bothered by others life choices. (LGBT+) Like if it has no effect on you, why do you care so much?!? I just don't get it 🤦🏽♀️ like let people live their lives & be happy.
First of all, it's not a choice lol. I'm gay and I cannot stand other gay people, too loud, too flamboyant, too in your face, likes to play victim, demand you change your lives to suit them. I'm just a random person who happens to be gay, it's ridiculous how others make gay their entire personality. Then there's all the silly politics that goes with it. It's like a cult. Also gays get away with alot more especially with children which puts the most vulnerable at risk, it needs to be monitored properly, the law needs to be equal. No special privileges.
I know a Korean man who is Christian and have gay friends. He is so kind... but when I first met him, I thought he was homophobic because of his religion. I'm glad I was wrong. BTW he is a famous Korean musical theatre actor.
Great video but my heart broke into pieces when the guy in the middle gave his opinion on gay people. I know it happens but it still shocks me to see it said so coldly and openly.
I agree but its also just bc Korea isn't used to being around lgbtq people and it not as glamorized there as it is in America which btw I have nothing against the lgbtq community I think he was saying that he wasn't comfortable around them and so he doesn't want to make them uncomfortable by making himself be around them I think he was trying to be respectful towards them by not lying and saying that he didn't want to make them uncomfortable by lying and going against his religion and I understand how that can be hurtful its almost like idk if you know this but there is this Japanese Kpop idol who was only 17 or so at the time and was asked if he would do anything gay and he said no bc he wasn't gay and didn't feel comfortable doing anything more then hugging other men ( which is reasonable cause he is straight) and he got nailed in the comments they all said he was being homophobic when he clearly didn't mean to be rude of offensive and to remind you he is only 17/18 at the time and he wasn't fluent in Korean so it was hard for him to word everything correctly then after the fact people started calling him fat and saying he needed to eat less (which wasn't true he was and still id perfectly healthy)I know this is off topic a bit but It just reminded me of him also if you would like to know his name and where to find the video his name is haruto and he is from the group treasure pls make sure to find the whole video bc people made him out to look like a bad guy and he clearly isn't he is a good person and I know bc I have seen how kind he is to everyone I hope you understand my long rant and I hope you look into him i hope you have a nice day/week ❤
@@sunny-my9ngHonestly the lgbt community have got to stop trying to shove things down our throats and they should accept the fact that not everyone will have the same mindset as them. 😊
He wants gay people to hide who they are bc it makes him uncomfortable but straight people partake in PDA, they go to gatherings filled with people and talk about their boyfriends or girlfriends or husbands and wives with no problem. But if a gay person does the same it makes him uncomfortable. He will be alright.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion Respect it Korea is conservative,the lgbt community is not exactly welcomed there, like it is in some countries
@@Queen-bj2wz i really don’t gaf tbh. people being gay does not affect him in any way just how people being straight does not affect him in any way. saying people should hide something as natural as sexuality is insane. like I said he will be alright. it’s because of thinking like this that lgbtq people get harmed.
@@daniellawilson2617 Okay, I've got to ask where you guys are seeing this theory that people of the lgbt community are being harmed As far as I know, some of them are the ones doing the harm,but they play the victim,cuz they know they'll receive immense support if they do so.
the most shocking part of this video was when the guy in the middle said gay people should hide who they are 💀but then he has the audacity to say we're all the same ???
I think that people like him have no awareness about history or the realities of the world, they need to take time to educate themselves, because if their opinion or beliefs are to judge or degrade others for their identity or personal differences that is an issue between them and their God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. Thank God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today Human Rights exist. Which they also enjoy and protect equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
@Jhnkiyvfdc Because he's brainwashed. In his mind he shouldn't have to hide who he is, that would be persecution. But anyone he doesn't like should hide who they are. 💀💀 So individualistic and self centered.
The only way to prove if being gay is natural is to look at animals in how they engage with one another. If they aren’t naturally having relations of the same sex as their own, then why do humans think it’s natural to do so?
Thank you for asking them the questions. Even tho it was a small group it probably did give a good representation of the way most Koreans are. I think it holds true in a lot of countries as a foreigner…be friendly and learn at least some of the language and try to use it. It proves you are interested in meeting part way to communicate.
I liked how they were all honest in their opinions, even if it may have been controversial. I do hope the guy in the middle thinks about why he’s offended at gay people telling him they’re gay though. I hope he gains the understanding that all people have free will and are allowed to love who they love 😊
@@JessAnonymous You’re right. I never said he has to like them. I’m just saying I hope he realizes that people have the right to love who they love, as long as it doesn’t hurt the people involved. And people have the right to free speech and should be able to come out and say they’re gay, if they want to.
@@ang4390Can't y'all just leave him alone,he said his honest opinion respect that and move on Not compulsory everyone must view things the way you do 😊
Without watching the video my guess on pale skin would be that it stems from the joseon dynasty where if you were upperclass you likely had paler skin because you didnt have to work out in the fields so darker skin meant you were of lower class. Even these days you see so many examples of people showing off their wealth & status on tiktok & other social media. Kids these days may not make the same connection consciously but they've just grown up with paler skin often being seen associated with beauty. This is the same with any kind of beauty standard in any country or time period. Why are hour glass figures considered sexy? Beards? Remember when metal corsets were a thing? Everyone has their own beauty standards & thats fine as long as its not discriminatory or harmful (like the metal corsets or mutilating body parts)
@@junz8675 You should watch the video. Cause they said it's not about pale skin, actually. So thanks for confirming that they were capping, I guess lmao.
I am a married woman. When I was single and dating/looking for a life partner I definitely had personality & physical preferences. It doesn’t mean EVERYONE I dated had EVERYTHING that I preferred…..but I still had preferences. This is what my physical preferences were/are; I prefer men with light blue or light green eyes over hazel or brown eyes. I prefer fuller lips over thin lips. I prefer a smaller nose over a big hook-like nose. I prefer clean shaven, smooth skin, scar free/acne free over facial hair, scars and pimples. I prefer straight, white teeth over crooked yellowish teeth. I prefer a tall man (6’3” and over) over a short man. I prefer an athletic, fit man with some muscle tone, over a skinny man or husky man or an overweight man. I prefer broader shoulders over narrow shoulders. I like guys with strong legs with defined calves, over guys that skip leg day. I prefer NO tattoos over tattoos (in fact I hate tattoos and think they’re very ugly-major turn off). I prefer no hair/minimal chest hair over a hairy chest. I prefer a non smoker over a smoker,and a non drug user over a drug user (would never date a guy that smokes, uses drugs). These are ALL physical preferences and I haven’t even touched on personality preferences or living life preferences (prefer employed over unemployed, prefer never married over having an ex wife with kids from a previous partner, prefer no criminal record over being a criminal etc). Why do I prefer these things over others? I don’t know. I am just more attracted to them. I just like them better. It does not mean that a shorter man, with brown eyes and chest hair can’t be a good man, or can’t be a good looking man, or won’t make a good partner or a good father, or be funny…….I just don’t find it as physically/sexually appealing/attractive as the things I prefer. So when people say “Why can’t dark skin be good enough? Why can’t Asians like darker skin just as much as paler/lighter skin?” They’re not saying that people with darker skin can’t look good, or be attractive to people, or do the job that skin is supposed to do on a human body. They simply prefer the LOOK of other shades of skin more than other shades of skin. Just like someone may prefer redheads over blondes…..they just prefer it. It doesn’t mean they thinks blondes have less value as a human being, they just think the coppery red hair is prettier than golden hair (to them). It’s not a reflection of the quality of the person, or the value of a person, or the worth of a person…..it’s just what they find more attractive. There are people that prefer skinny men, that prefer darker skin (I have a white Portuguese friend that has only ever dated, and eventually married, a black guy-it’s just her preference), that like dark chocolate brown eyes, that like beards etc. Why do people get SO “offended” or upset by what other people find attractive?!? Just because you’re not someone’s “ideal type” doesn’t mean you’re not someone else’s ideal type. Be happy in your own body, and stop caring what other people think, or what other people like or dislike. We’re all allowed to have our own preferences and we don’t always have reasons for them. You can like whatever you like……and other people can like whatever they like. Get over it.
@@Twothree8126 a serve a lot of people, especially Spanish people that don’t speak English at all. And I do agree with you, it’s better to learn the language before you go to the country.
hearing the part about how he said gays cannot like their (straight) friend, instead of helping navigate feeling is just sad 😭😭 (especially when feelings always have the chance to develop without them even knowing)
this was interesting but i wish they were actually honest… these are things i really want to know, but you can definitely tell they were holding some things back…
My exact thoughts. especially as a black person ofc we want to know why they don’t like to associate themselves with black people. And I feel like every time we ask them those type of questions they seem to always dodge it or try to say something nice like the guy saying “we just think y’all cool” yea sir I don’t think y’all being honest here. And reason because they couldn’t full y explain why they’re so obsessed with yt skin. Because it’s “clean” that’s still like saying people who are not white must be dirty. it all still contradicts.
@@EllisSkyypage🎉why ate yall obsessed with their preference. Do you prefer yellow or brown skin? & why? Is red skin better than yellow? Do you prefer black above all else? If so isnt that racist? Questions! I have so many😂
@@salty-tomato nobody cares about their preferences its the meaning behind the reason for their preference. usually it’s just flat out racist. and another thing I think a lot of them are kind of stupid to like a group of people All because they’re just yt and pretty. I’ve heard Asians in comments saying they’re scared of black people because we look scary and they want to associate with yt people because they were nice and pretty as if POC people aren’t. They have a serious problem judging a book by its covers. this is why I don’t feel sorry when they get rejected / discriminated by yt people because at that point you had it coming for idolizing them. and I’m not saying to dislike a whole group of yt people but I’m saying that idolizing them is a big insult to the black/ POC community because most of us have been oppressed by them and they actually don’t care about it as long as they make Their parents proud by keeping the fairskin in the family or thinking they’re going to get some sort of privileges by eating the white man/ woman’s a$$. but again you’re right it shouldn’t even matter even if it does come off racist. But I just don’t understand why other races are so obsessed with a group of people who aren’t important AT ALL. You’re not even a speck in the universe important.
This Channel came up out of the blue in my Utube app - but it was so interesting to hear how young Koreans think - I loved listening! I may be a U.K. Mother but I’m never too old to hear what the young generation talk about….. - 🥰🇬🇧
Its kinda sad that he would cut off a friend for being gay, its still the same person as before and being gay does not mean they'd have feelings for you, but ig everyone is entitled to their own opinions, i'd be hurt if someone cut me off for liking the same gender tho lol Im interested to see if any opinions will change in the future, also i'd be sooo scared of military service 🥲
I think many people get annoyed with differing opinions cuz it’s just never the space for those topics .. but when you can create an environment to openly exchange views, it will typically lead to far more constructive discussions. Like in school, when you have different classes for different subjects. It’s much easier to digest challenging information when you can arm your mindset with preparedness! Very good video!
My bro in the middle keeping it real lol. Don't hate on him guys, he's te product of his society just like any of us. You accept gays not bc you're better people than him but bc it's accepted in your country now. If it was just 20 years ago most of you would say the same thing as him. Plus he's a christian and it's forbiden in the bible. Just appreciate the honesty and move on.
No one cares, he can’t use being Christian as a excuse to be homophobic. There’s thousands, even millions of Christian’s who support LGBTQ or have no problem with it. It’s 2024 and it’s more exceptive in Korea, he needs to bfr, that’s why everyone’s hating on him and their right
Girl, I’m proud you didn’t cut off the LGBTQ+ question to save that guy in the middle, so ignorant of him the way he thinks we as a community have to hide from society
It's not ignorant to have a faith and values. Why the always force acceptance that's literally against what you value in life. It's never going to work.
@@niko13613I can disagree on a ideology and a lifestyle that's not natural, that has been statistically proven to produce an increase of STD's and cannot produce life. But i wouldn't go that far to tell people to hide what they chose to indulge in (like sharing they're gay WHEN somebody actually asks them, which I don't think anyone should be asking those type of questions, so I don't think anyone regardless of their sexual orientation should be discussing their sexual lifestyle and tendencies with other people [who are not very close and intimate], somethings are private and is very low class to discuss them in public) but my approach would be more like don't be overly immoral, obnoxious and perverted in front of other people, especially children.
@@yamiletsoler3464 then you are the misaducated one. Because what you are writing in your comment is false. Homoexuality ca be found in many species and do not increase sexual transmissed deseases. What seems to be immoral for you is not for another. You should not mix science with moral belief.
@@yamiletsoler3464how is it not natural? Everything that occurs on this earth is natural. And about that last part, the fact that those terrible things automatically pop into your head when discussing the topic of simply being gay means that you only recognize the negative stereotypes that society pushes onto gay people. Straight people have done and continue to do all you listed but you dont criticize them. Open mindedness and empathy are important.
I'm a bit shocked they are not exploring these things honestly. There is still a lot of bias against people of color - ironically. I think it is true, largely due to the co-opting of hip-hop, that the younger generations are less racist, but there are still racist young Koreans and there are still a lot of older racist Koreans. Dark skin is associated with manual labor, which is looked down on; the three Ds: Dangerous, Dirty and Difficult. Some Koreans, like in many countries, look down on people in such jobs, not just foreigners doing those jobs. The racism against other Asians in those jobs in Korea is pervasive. Korean culture is changing, but has not fully changed. (And, yes, these things exist in pretty much every country to some degree or other.)
I like that the guy in the middle stood unapologetically by his own view point. It made the discussion indeed diverse not just them trying to be camera friendly. I feel it indeed gave a more realistic view of the view of these sensitive topics in the country at this time.
For generations the poor working classes were in the field got tan under the sun, and those who were of the upper class stayed in the shade with their books. Light skin was coveted as a status symbol, the mindset has been passed down. This is not only true historically of Korea, but also in places in europe and america.
Many Westerners don't understand that this was the case even in European countries. In addition, in Korea, many people (now including males) wear sun protection creams assiduously because they all know the harmful effects of being exposed to sunlight.
As a Christian as well we are taught to be accepting and loving of everyone regardless. No sin is greater then the other so if he doesn’t go around gay people because he sees it as a sin not only should he not judge because judging is a sin within it self but he should also self reflect because I’m sure he’s not perfect he probably cusses it’s clear he also judges gay people. You are just as bad. Cutting someone off or fully avoiding them because they are sinning is judging them based off that. we all have our own journey we’re on to be better Christians even he himself is. You can’t play the role of god and judge others when that directly goes against gods word. What you do in the situation instead is pray for them and show them kindness and fair treatment because you are not above anyone. We should be loving and accepting of everyone regardless. If you were to cut off and not talk to any sinner you’d be left with no one on earth. So cutting a person off because they are gay is not only hypocritical but contradicting as well. I hope he learns from this and reads up on what being a Christian truly is because he’s directly thinking and acting against it but uses it as a justification to act that way.
I think that people like him have no awareness about history or the realities of the world, they need to take time to educate themselves, because if their opinion or beliefs are to judge, degrade or murder others for their identity or personal differences that is an issue between them and their God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. Thank God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today Human Rights exist. Which they also enjoy and protect equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
The Bible does not say judging is a sin it’s says to judge righteously and there is a difference between sinning and knowing it’s wrong and changing and embracing your sin like the lgbtq community does
@@melvinakamara7732 “Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly” (John 7:24).” These people are still capable of being prayed for and loved unconditionally. U disregarded everything I said. Every human being is a sinner. No sin is greater than the other. So if you are judging someone for sinning but also sinning yourself that’s indeed not judging correctly because that is hypocritical and contradicting. Jesus didn't teach against judging. He taught against a specific kind of judging. The type of judging he spoke against was a blind, ignorant, hypocritical, self-righteous judging that overlooks one's own faults, failures and sins and only sees faults, failures and sins in other people. And that’s what I was talking about in my comment.
I don’t support lgbtq but i wouldn’t hate on them. i’m definitely not offended when it’s not my life. God wants us to love all people. There’s no reason to be offended over their decision..
Firstly its not a decision lol but also I'm gay and cannot stand other gay people. Too dirty, too flamboyant too in your face. I've never supported it even when it was just lgb. Why group them together? Why not just be a person first who happens to be gay? Why is gay their entire personality, then there's stupid politics that cones with it. No thanks,
Yes there is.... open your bible from time to time. Homosexuality is called out as sin. If you love jesus and love those around you, you'll let them know about your concerns regarding their lifestyle, especially if they identify as a christian brother or sister. All the good you do to other jesus says, you do unto him aswell. That includes not looking away. There is love in being honest to yourself and others.
@@rapidloving I know it’s a sin but I can’t force anybody and all the people around me know that I don’t support it. But I’m also not offended because i don’t want to be bitter towards them, but they’ll know that it’s wrong. That’s that
This hurts as a bisexual girl... Obviously he can't just change his opinion on queer people but he could at least be respectful 😕 I have a homophobic granddad but he still loves and respects me which is fine enough for me. I'm not asking this guy to change his views because for some it's impossible and is literally what they grew up with so it's ingrained in their head, but the least you could do is to not openly show your dislike for queer people
yeah I’m Christian and that is not how a Christian person should treat the lgbtq+ community. if he considers being gay to be a sin he should judge the sin, not the person. i personally don’t think being gay is a sin, but im not the one who should decide if it is or isn’t. hope that all makes sense
@@HalleRGright! i see a lot of hypocrisy about it. people refusing to be friends with gay people yet are friends with people who engage in premarital sex, are immodest, lie, etc etc. even if you consider homosexuality a sin, why is it seen as more grave than any other sin? it’s just pure homophobia honestly
He just has not been exposed to many different types of people. No need to feel hurt by this; he's just one person. I grew up in my junior high and high school hearing racial slur almost every day. If I got so hurt by hearing those racial slurs, I would have just curled up and died. Instead, I worked hard and with a purpose and retired at 47. Don't get hurt; get mad and become the best version of yourself.
About the Christian guy opinion, I know a lot of people will immediately blame Christianity and say that Christians are homophobic and stuff. Because we are living in this era where everyone is kinda forced to show "love" to everything, people tend to be quickly offended if you radically don't agree or "love, appreciate" certain things. One thing I would like to remind as a Christian myself who does not support the lgbtq+ community (Careful, I didn't say I hate you guys) is to not love something doesn't mean literally hate it, just as the lgbtq+ has values in their community, we also have values in ours which is unfortunately opposite to theirs. And I know this subject is very sensitive to discuss but let's just face it because of our different values, we will never agree and that's totally okay, let's just live our lives respecting each other (I know there is hate in both camps). When it comes to the hiding part, having sufficient knowledges about the bible (which we follow the principles to live as righteous as possible), I understand his opinion (I don't necessarily agree with the word chosen "hide") and I can assure it was not from a hateful perspective but from a biblical one. Since we all should tolerate each other, I suggest to not be quick to judgement and hate because of what he said. You are free to disagree respectfully 🤍 May God bless you all❤
Real reason a lot of Koreans prefer light skin: It’s a symbol of wealth. Back in the day, only rich people had pale skin. They could afford skin-whitening creams/makeup and could afford to stay indoors all day. They didn’t have to go outside and had umbrellas to cover themselves and protect themselves from sunlight. The poor people had dark skin because they had to be outside all day, working in the rice fields. They were subjected to the harsh sun without any protection, thus they tanned.
@@Kenzi11505 In Korea, over 99% of the population isn’t black. People born with a browner tint often bleach their skin. Like how light-skinned people tan their skin. People will never be happy wit how they look.
It's surprising how many of the comments have targeted and mocked this person simply because of his views on same-sex relationships and marriage. People need to recognize that not everyone shares the same perspectives, and that's okay. He expressed his religious beliefs openly, which is perfectly valid especially since the host asked for complete honesty. Many people hold similar beliefs due to their faith. As long as someone isn't promoting harm or advocating violence, they shouldn't be "cancelled" or labeled as "bad" for holding different views.
@@pandagaming-dy1gs TBC I’m only replying because your comment is under mine and it’s not clear if you were responding to me or the post in general. I agree with everything you said, I still think that based on Western standards and ideas around masculinity, his would be questioned, and I found the irony funny. He is entitled to feel how he does, you are correct. I didn’t see anyone calling for him to be cancelled or labeled as bad. I certainly wasn’t doing that with my comment. If people feel that way, that’s unfortunate. The whole exchange was cute.
Yeah, my comment was meant to address the post in general. I noticed a lot of comments targeting the guy because of his religious beliefs, which I found odd. I spoke up because it's important to recognize that people have different perspectives, whether that's shaped by their culture, upbringing, or religious beliefs. No hard feelings though!
There are some people in the comments who are passively attacking the middle guy because of his opinion; just because he doesn't accept or like the idea of the gay community doesn't mean he's not open minded or that he's self centered. Y'all should grow up, not everyone supports the community and they should be allowed to voice their opinions. I personally, am against the community but I don't support any form of violence or mistreatment towards them. Everyone has their likes and dislikes, that shouldn't be problem. His beliefs are his, yours are yours so don't go around judging people's beliefs. Some people are ok with keeping gay friends, some are not, and it's okay. Let's not force our beliefs on other people or attack them just because they don't support it. Live your life and let every other person live theirs.
It was a pretty good mood until the homophobia. I loved how everyone else reacted about it, though, lol. EDIT: I didn't mean to start an argument in the comments, damn. Not supporting people for being gay makes you homophobic. It's not your business to tell someone that they should hide it because it "offends" you. You can believe that, but just know that it means that you're homophobic. You don't have to be out doing hate crimes to be homophobic.
How is it homophobia if I don't support it? They can continue their lives like they want to but I just don't support it. So why is it so wrong to not support?
@@misumatchuaIt’s just odd. Do you have a reason for not supporting? (Not religion. That’s a crazy excuse to use to not support the people around you.) Why is loving someone viewed as bad in your eyes? What if it were the only way around? You’re straight-what if people hated you the way they hate queers? How would that make you feel? That your love is criticized world wide just because it isn’t seen as normal.
google the definition of homophobia... Announcing you don't support something is you not liking it. Dislike gay people is literally part of the definition 💀
@@staciii "dislike or predjuce of gay people " She hasn't stated anywhere of disliking gay people. Not supporting something doesn't mean you automatically dislike it.
@@misumatchua he literally said they shouldnt live as they like tho.. he said they should hide it so they don't "offend people" 😭😭 you're lying to urself if that's not homophobia
Ppl mad at the guy in the middle but it’s nice to see he stood on business with his beliefs. He does not have to want to be around gay ppl. It’s not like he hates them or wants them dead. Everyone can feel how they feel. Yall want discussions but don’t want opinions different from yours.
Girl, this is my first time seeing your videos and now I am invested in the saga that is the half second of eye contact you made with that one guy, and that little look to camera you gave. For reference 4:57 - 5:00
I mean.. at least donggeun told his true feelings. A lot of Koreans lie on these videos to seem more accepting to foreigners and then it skews the actual truth of what Koreans think. anyways, I completely support gay people in Korea and I hope they get the right to marry soon. mangocouple are a great representation of a kind, loving gay couple. Please consider supporting them and their fight to get married ❤️
It's quite sad and disappointing how prejudiced and ignorant those guys are about gay people. Religion should never be an excuse for this, some people choose to keep the negative aspects instead of the positive ones.
It is stated in The Bible that God is against homosexuality. Leviticus 18:22 "Do not practice homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman. It is a detestable sin." (NLT) Leviticus 20:13 "If a man practices homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman, both men have committed a detestable act. They must both be put to death, for they are guilty of a capital offense." So that is his faith and there’s no point in him being a Christian if he doesn’t believe in The Word of God. We are taught to abide by The Word and not to pick and choose what suits us.
@@jdpmanagementservices5851 I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34). P.D. I wish you a happy and loving life. ~🌹
@@jdpmanagementservices5851 I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34). P.D.: I wish you a happy and loving life.~🌹
@@jdpmanagementservices5851 I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34). P.D.: I wish you a happy and loving life.~🌹
THIS IS HONESTLYS SUCH A WHOLSOME VIDIO THISS IS SO CUTE (also omg GIRL you ARE STUNNING omg extubixbtgubixiugbexyigbexybigeygbxgb UR LIKE GLOWING😭)✋💗💗🫶🫶
I'm a Christian too and I don't support the LGBTQ community thing but I would for sure be friends with them. Why? Because I don't see people based on what they identify as, I see them as huma beings just like me and respect them as human beings. If my friends came to me and said they are gay, I would be like okay
That's literally supporting LGBT community tho..? It's not like LGBT people want extra support? They just want to be treated like others and that's enough
not agreeing with someone else's way of life but still remianung cordial is one thing but discrimination is a no go for me in terms of the pale skin thing have your preference for lighter skin thats a whatever sandwich but again dont mistreat those with darker skin
they do not prefer dark skinned people in general, if you ever do find an opened minded Korean person to accept you and not think about your skin color they’ve beat their system. Them avoided the question is your answer to that question.
흰피부를 좋아하는건.. 그냥 가설중 하나인데요 조선때도 쓰인 말로 미인을 표현 할 때 대표적인 말이 '백옥같은 피부' , '섬섬옥수' 등이있어요. 그리고 그런 피부나 손을 가진 사람은 '햇빛 아래서 일을 할 필요가 없는 지위가 높은 사람', '양반의 딸로 귀하게 자란 사람' 등 백성들의 동경의 대상 이었다는, 그리고 그 통념이 이어져 내려 왔다는 가설이에요. 한국사회 전반적으로 흰 피부를 동경하는게 분명 있기에 가까운 시기에 만들어진 이상형은 아닐거라 생각해요. 그리고 한국인이 말하는 '와 저사람 되게 하얗고 이쁘다'는 피부의 색도 색이지만 '잡티없이 깨끗한 피부' 를 전제로 하는 경우가 많아요. 위의 가설에 힘이 좀더 실리는 이유죠
I like how honest Donggeun was when asked about the LGBT thing. Many people say they are fine when they are not. If they say they don't agree, there's always the risk that everyone will look down on you. In my opinion, if people don't want to hear an answer they don't want, then don't ask, because this will only create a conflict, because you will not answer according to what others want, but you will answer honestly. Anyway, thanks for the video, it was very nice.😃😉😄
I find the pale skin thing interesting, I recently went to Korea and all their makeup had a very narrow colour range - it was actually too dark for me(im irish) but it was too light or completely lacked any dark skin tones for my friends
The homophobic dude says oh don't come out you make ppl uncomfortable When South Korea’s Supreme Court Affirms Rights of Same-Sex Partners after this vid with few days lmao💀❤
I really love how the guy on the end kind of lightened the tension between everyone when he made the joke about competing with girls like even I laughed and he seems like a nice person 😭😭❤
The korean girl was so cute and respectful! Love her !!
I would’ve liked her speaking her opinion a bit more.
yes her reaction are so funny
The oath at the beginning already has me laughing 😂 you swore them in like a judge to a jury
I wanna know why korean girls cannot swim and drive cars. Please give me an answer.
She even makes him take an oath and when he gives her his opinion honestly, she treats him as wrong for not accepting gay.
The girl is so real, I often look at girls and think “I understand lesbians” too lol girls are too pretty 😭
Jesus is Lord,He died on the Cross for our sins then rose again 3 days later repent.
@@sonic-t8jJesus loves every person on this earth even the peoples who are gay and so on. He made us this way
@@gerdis3665no he didn’t it’s the devil that makes people think it’s right
@@gerdis3665 being more respectfull unlike others, its actually a sin! but, not be gay, but have homosexual relatioship and other is the sin!, so if you are gay but a christain you should search for resign and live celibacy! we love the sinner not the sin! but nowadays many christians like to judge, but thats also a sin! so u should correct those, not atacck the religion! thank you, God bless you
oh sorry for broken english, i'm still learning :P
sht got QUIETTT after the gay question i cant breathe its so funny
😂😂😂
I think it would be cool to do a reunion in like 5 years and see if anyone changed their mentality.
honestly i think it's not going to change anything, koreans don't have an American or French mentality, there are plenty of mentalities which has been present for centuries and which aren't likely to change so soon
@@grace2128 Could be, could not be. Depends on the person. I personally know many korean ppl who could have been described as racist/sexist/homophobic/bigoted at that age but grew up & changed their mentality once they got educated about the world.
@@infpya Wwo that's a good development, I really hope they change their mentality on these kinds of things because because of their homophobia they are being boycotted by thai people I hope that even if it's little by little their mentality will change because it's too much
Yes!!
@@grace2128What is an “American or French mentality”?
Well, to each their own. It's amazing they were quite honest about their opinions, although I don't agree with all of them. I think people should be able to have civilized conversations like this even if we have differing opinions, so this was good to see.
true. i can't agree with you more!!! so good comment..
I agree entirely
Well, I think it can be quite hard to remain respectful if the person you are talking to thinks you should hide yourself not to offend others. It’s like telling a person that they should keep themselves hidden since I don’t like their looks. Maybe I should just close my eyes then. 🤷🏽♀️
Im glad they were not afraid to show their opinions
I really like the girl she seems more open minded but was mostly quiet, maybe caz she thought they wouldnt agree with her but im sure she wanted to say smtg more. feel bad for the guy who got hurt when the middle dude said he would cut him off if he was gay lol anyway thanks queenie for another great vid!!💙
@@XFallen19 Tbh this was a great interview cause everyone showed their true colors so no one can be surprised by anyone's actions in the future lol
Why would you feel bad about an hypothetical situation 😂😂
Even if it came to pass, they're all grown ups, it's okay to reject someone when you don't like them (if they try to make a move obviously).
the guy in the middle was an absolute d*ck. too bad to see that homophobia still perpetuates amongst Korea's young generations. still a veryyyyy long way to go compared to Japan
Middle guy looks gay af
@@yamiletsoler3464 yeah but to hear a close friend of yours say that they would stop being friends with you just because you were queer is really messed up (as a bisexual myself)
I’m glad that this was a constructive conversation with differing opinions, it really puts into perspective that Korea holds many people with different opinions, same as America. I really hope that people stop hating on the people in the video because this is one of the first videos I’ve seen that is more honest about the reality of Korea, and I worry that the hate people get in this video might be taken into consideration the next time someone makes a video on Korea and others will be wary of being entirely truthful because they’ll be worried about getting hated on. The people who clicked on this video clearly wanted truthful and honest opinions so it’s time to be respectful when disagreeing with them in the comments, please have a little empathy that some people in the video were not raised the same as you and therefore do not have the same knowledge as you about the world and it’s important to treat them with care as well and hope that they will try to make an effort to learn more.
People will always judge others based on their own biases. It doesn’t matter where you are from. Folks should be themselves, always, no matter how others will see them. Stand for what you believe. You will learn things are not always how you see life through different experiences. Only you can change perspective through those. But, never be afraid to be you. Not everyone has to like you, nor do you have to like everyone. It’s ok.
I like your profile pic 🤗😁
@@donotSTrAYfromyourdesTINY thanks!
I love the way you styled your hair in this video😊
ahh thank you!! I tried something new hehe🤭
@@queeniequeenit looks so good! Really suits and accentuates your features! You have such a nice side profile as well, glad your showing it off ❤
We foreigners need more of this type video to understand how Koreans think of us and what to expect when we visit S. Korea. Thank you.
I think it's pretty well known how stuck I'm the past korea is
Not rly they just voice their opinions and calmly -unlike usa u can't have ,any other opinion what's right with media, as u will be considered a hater@@AC-ri2ph
the white skin part was iffy but it all went downhill as soon as we got the lgbt+ stuff
Just a straight up dumpster fire.
Right, I’m bi and I get not agreeing with our lifestyle, just be respectful about it. But saying gay ppl should hide it is so yucky, that’s what a lot of gay people have been doing for literal decades.
@@strudelh I have no problems with the lifestyle as long as they know I'm not. All the gay guys always hit on me, which is the problem when they know I'm not gay. Guys are always horny, so they constantly hit on people, but if their target isn't female, they know that if a man rejects them. the guy being hit on negatively with remarks as are you homophobic and such, whereas if a man hits on a female and the female rejects him, the guy doing the hitting will be looked upon negatively.
@@strudelh I have no problems with the lifestyle as long as they know I'm not. All the gay guys always hit on me, which is the problem when they know I'm not gay. Guys are always horny, so they constantly hit on people, but if their target isn't female, they know that if a man rejects them. the guy being hit on negatively with remarks as are you homophobic and such, whereas if a man hits on a female and the female rejects him, the guy doing the hitting will be looked upon negatively.
@@strudelhI’m Ngl I don’t get “not agreeing with our lifestyle.” Because what are gay people doing that straight people aren’t.
Love this video, interesting to see real people with their diverse opinions. Would love a part 2
thank you for the q&a! this is by far the best one i’ve seen with the most accurate and understandable answers. also about the homophobia, honestly it just shows more like obviously not everyone is on the same page about every single issue and no matter what there will be people who think like that, but the good news is that there are also wonderful people who will accept you or at the very least try to understand you if you put in the same effort.
Seeing a group of friends be honest with each other without arguing or being rude when they disagree is actually really refreshing. I’m sure a lot of us disagree with the guy in the middle with many things and his friends seemed to as well…HOWEVER, notice how they didn’t start arguing? I’m not saying his mindset is right, but, he answered honestly (as he was asked to do) and didn’t try to force his opinion on his friends. I have respect for anyone who is willing to be the odd one out instead of just lying and faking it. When it comes to people like him, I’d much rather them just quietly avoid the lgbtq+ community than to harass them and think about them with hatred nonstop. I’m not at all saying he is RIGHT, I can’t stress this enough. I just really love seeing a group of adults with different views speak to each other LIKE adults, in a respectful manner. If everyone in the world spoke to each other like THIS….the world would be a different place. We’re never going to agree on everything, but we can try to hear others out and try to grow as much as we can. Sadly, especially when it comes from a religious viewpoint; some people simply cannot “accept” gayness. When it comes down to it, I’d rather him carry on as he is, minding his own business instead of protesting or being directly harmful. I hope this makes sense and I really hope my message comes across properly. I’m trying to be as open-minded as possible while explaining because that’s how we should ALL be with each other. We disagree, but we’re still human and we can still communicate with respect. ❤ Thank you for sharing this interview, girl!!! It was really interesting to watch and hear the varying opinions. ❤
That's cause a lot of koreans have no morals. They live in the 1900s still in a lot of ways. When 80% of your society is close minded so you're used to it, you're not gonna cut them off. So of course there are little arguments and everything can be fine. We're more open minded in the USA though so if you're a pos human who refuses the respect of other ppl bc YOU don't agree with it, we will call you out. That won't fly here and we refuse to play nice with people like that.
Aw im so glad u did this. I dated a girl from corea when i was in my late teens. Dating me she was only around black americans n first gen west african Americans. They loved her and she loved them. I asked her what her first impressions were bc in america, a lot of ppl r shy around black folks out of fear. But she said she was shy… but not for the same reasons. She said black ppls perception in corea is that they are cool, ladies men, etc. So it was more starstruck type ish. And that was the first time I heard of a perception of black ppl being widely positive. Ur friends echoing that is so on point.
I get the clear skin thing being the main thing. But i do think pale is a positive factor as well. BUT pale has only been popping in corea for like a decade. In the 90s and 00s they were all tan. Like Brazilian type skin. But they still liked it clear. So the pale thing is i think just the beauty standards evolving like anywhere else in the world. When i visit corea i see plenty of tan ppl and ppl married to african immigrants, etc. I think the bottom line is the clear skin/healthy/taking care of yourself. I DO think pale got way popular at the same time. But tan skin is still a preference too.
Peace.
do you mean korea?
I agree. I think the skin lightning companies are pushing this narrative to sell more toxic product.
The problem is that black people are viewed as concepts and not human beings that are individuals. Positive stereotypes are just as unproductive as negative ones which is why Asian people still don’t interact with Black people
The answer to the pale skin question is bs lol.
Completely.
@@and-xl2ey facts
They really think we're dumb 😂
Literally 😭
yeah same goes for the taller guy on his opinion about gays
the way the girl looks at you is so adorable
"I don't have a reason, I just don't like it" .... I mean I get it and appreciate his honesty, but personally I hope to always be able to unpack and understand my feelings vs just being told what not to like and being like "ok yeah" when told how to feel/think
This!! Im a christian myself and I don’t personally agree with homosexuality as it goes against God’s teachings but I don’t hate on them either because I get the liberty to believe in God and I get free will. By that, I mean that others also get free will too and I can’t force them to believe in God. I can tell them about Him if they are curious but that’s it. All I can do is respect them as human beings and not condemn them because it’s not my job. Does not mean I support homosexuality itself though. I just won’t treat someone differently for being part of it.
@@Yurina-d9m let me ask you, just out of curiosity really, if you were to be seated in a restaurant and the people lets say in eyesight of you are obviously gay. Be that holding hands, sitting close together or something around those lines, would you get up and move or continue with your day?
@@disorderlymatron5534I personally have and had LGBTQ+ friends. I’ve literally gone right after church with fellow christians to a restaurant where our favorite gay waiter works because he’s such a funny and kind guy. I don’t mind people doing with their life whatever they want. I’m not interested in their sexual or romantic life. This is what I tell judgy christians. Now if they are being extremely sexual in front of my kids (and they don’t even have to be LGBTQ) like twerking, tongue kissing, grabbing each other’s parts (I’ve seen people like that) then obviously I will walk away. This is what I tell judgy christians. You can call yourself a christian and be a bad christian and end up in hell and someone that’s gay, accept Jesus with all their heart, even if it’s right before dying, and go to heaven so don’t judge. hope that helps.
@@disorderlymatron5534continue with my day .duh.some of us don’t force our opinions
Yeah, i believe in God, been raised in a christian household, so i never understood how others can just freely use that excuse for ‘not agreeing’ with things. Why? Just because some other humans decided that’s how they’re gonna interpret some part of the bible doesn’t automatically make it right. Doesn’t christianity also tell you you have no right to judge others? To be kind to your fellow humans, regardless? Why not focus on that part of religion? Why is it always used to hate on others? When i see stuff like this, even the first reply to the og comment, it’s pretty clear to me that these people are just repeating shit they’ve been told, never took the time to do any kind of research for themselves. You can not like gay people, sure, i don’t understand it but if that’s your opinion go for it, i guess. But don’t use your religion as an excuse, that’s just a way to avoid accountability.
so pale skin equals clean skin? i don’t think he understood the question..
He said, there is misunderstanding and ppl like "clean" skin, so it doesn't have to be white/pale skin. (not always).
as a south korean, I agree with him. it's true that many koreans like white, bright, or clean skin (especially about women), but clean skin matters than skin color. Also surely, there are koreans who like darker skin too and many koreans don't have pale skin either! 🙂 and i have darker skin as a SK woman. (but korean women tend to try to have more white/bright skin..) and all skin color should be respected. i think koreans don't discriminate by skin color, but if you have white or clean skin, especially as a woman, many koreans who like white skin will like it. that's all..!
@@seren6cher8ryso basically you said he’s both right & wrong😂let’s be honest east asia mainly likes white skin whether it be for colorism or do to poor farmers being darker from being out the sun & the wealthy being paler mentality they got😭all that trying to add in clean skin shit to that topic was just bs lol
@@chrisgooden4684 I agree.
@@seren6cher8ryyou said a whole lotta nothing☠️ pale skin doesn’t mean clean skin. It’s doesn’t matter where you’re from that’s a dumb way of thinking
Koreans have fairly light skin by default so people who have darker skin get it by getting tanned which inevitably comes other kinds of sun damage like freckles and uneven skin tone. That's why Koreans think of pale and clear almost equivalently. They come together. If korea had been multi ethnic for some time we would've differentiated those two more clearly but these perceptions are generated by Koreans looking at other Koreans
The oath in the beginning is so funny 😂😂
We need more interviews like this to help deprogramme Koreaboos
please more of these in the future! it’s so entertaining and you really learn how young koreans think, it’s fun to see some variety in opinions 🫶🏻🫶🏻
love your channel, Queenie! i think it's very important for everyone to hear different opinions, so thanks for sharing:))
Given Donggeun's religion, his environment, and how he was raised, I'm not shocked. Korea is very conservative. I actually commend him for being willing to talk openly about how he feels even though we fundamentally disagree. I hope that he doesn't continue to confine himself to these beliefs as he gets older, because anybody has the capacity to find love and be attracted to anybody else, even when you're least expecting it. If he were to ever develop those sorts of feelings later on in life, he'd feel so ashamed. We deserve to celebrate love and be happy and treat people kindly.
Just cause he doesn't share the same open mentality as you do it doesn't mean he is wrong for following what he accepts as the right thing, lgbt people always want to be respected but you can't respect a religion of someone just cause you don't agree, nobody have to accept you, and that's just how life is, there's so many people u don't like also and there will be so many people that won't like you
dunno but be really gives off a**hole vibes and he dgaf
@@Michellen194 religion is a belief while being homosexual is a biological fact. You do not have to respect a belief or an idea. It is not a reality.
@@cynthiagauthier8897 do you really think that a some kid really was biological born as homosexual? They just chosen what they prefer as they get older, and why beliefs shouldn't be respected? It means that If I truly believe that I'm a dinosaur so I'm biological Born as one? I don't hate lgbt but why do you have to try to prove to everyone that you're some kind of "special" gender instead of just living as everyone minding your own business. Black people don't go around telling everyone they're black and should be respected as one, they are just humans like everyone and that's why they deserve to be respected as a human being, it is just about YOUR identity so just keep it to yourself, nobody has to look at a man wearing a dress and call him as she just cause he prefer to have relation with man, that's just he's personal life nobody have to know about your personal life and agree with you, everyone is different and we should celebrate the difference but why should not we celebrate or even just respect a opinion or beliefs that doesn't agree with yours?
Being homosexual is not a biological fact it's a way of life, and not everyone has to accept it for there own reasons. As long as we are respectful to each other we can have peace.
Idk about that one dude. I would have to quietly unfriend him
@@ahgazenity.aliverse Seriously
same haha he's "that" person i would avoid.
same
The one who didn't support the same sex attraction? Nahh he was just voicing his opinions. I think it was pretty brave of him to be honest. He stood up for his religion when everyone else in the room clearly disagreed.
@@ChicaLocaForever16Yh but if he would want to unfriend gay people simply for that, it would make sense that people who support LGBT would want to unfriend him too I feel?🤷🏻♀️
I love getting their honest perspectives, even if I disagreed with them. I'd rather have honesty. On the question of Gays, I would like to share with your friends from Korea that, as a Christian someone get mixed up on this:discussion. We are called loved everyone as a Christian and not to set ourselves up as anyone's judge and jury..So, it's a Christian's goal to love others as we love ourselves. All people should be welcomed, kept safe and loved etc... I have lived as a Christian my entire life and I have known many Gay people, which include children during my childhood, they were just another friend or neighbor. They were not not picked on and I grew up in Chicago. My mom also thought it was important to be with around people that did not look like you, so I went to a n integrated nursery school, what people call Preschool all the way through to grade school.
Even our sports, and hobbies were integrated. So, I have been friends my whole life with friends who were from different nationalities and I love it. As Asian friends goes I've had, Chinese, Japanese, Filipino and I was the manager of a couple of Korean, but I did not know them on a personal level. I actually had more in common with my Asian friends than I did with my Black or White friends because my mom was very education focus and walking the straight and narrow, (a tiger mom) so we shared similar experiences and bond over them. I guess it worked since She and her 4 children all graduated from college. My son is a high achiever too, but I parent very different!
I started watching Kdramas about 2 yrs ago and I love them for so many reasons and thus I became interested in the Korean culture and I follow several Korean influencers on TH-cam. I also love seeing people of color or African- Americans living there and sharing their lives and friendships. I can't wait to visit and soak up the different cultures and sites. People are people as long as you lead with respect and love. Thank you for doing this video. I learned so much and your friends seem lovely and open.감사합니다
Can you share some Korean youtuber recs? Please and thank you.
If S. Koreans discriminate South East Asians for being darker, then we know the real reason. It’s colorism. They connote “being pale” as being “better or more beautiful”. In reality it makes little difference but their society still has discriminatory values. Also I hear they like black people from western countries not really other black people from anywhere else. But that like still doesn’t exclude hidden racism.
Unless you have lived in both countries for long time like myself, you really don't know subtle differences in their attitudes. Not saying some Koreans don't discriminate against South East Asians, but it's not due to their skin tone.
@@YoungYoung-k5uBecause the stereotype of Southeast Asia is that they are poor, right?🤣🤣Don't lie, this has spread outside my country,
@@YoungYoung-k5u Still racism if they think all South East Asian is poor and uncivilized. Colorism is just another form of racism.
He said he would quietly cut him off🤣🤣😭😭
Honestly the answer in regard to the question about pale skin had nothign to do with the question. Having clean clear skin is a diff topic than colorism. So the middle guy is homophobic and he doesn't even know why he's homophobic smh. I'm glad Queenie told the other guy that lgbtqhave standards cuz for someone reason heterosexual men think just cuz their a man they would get chose 😂
he seems like he’s done racist things in the past too, no one just thinks off their head to equate colorism to clear skin 💀
He actually has a reason to be homophobic because he is a CHRISTIAN!!! he said that so you should respect his opinion not every body would welcome gays or whatever
I think the kid you are calling homophobic was quite brave to state his real feelings. People say we all have a right to our beliefs but when someone like him says what he really feels he is attacked. I feel he has the right to his opinion just like gays have their rights!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@josefaocasio1616 That's not....that's not what it means....
@josefaocasio1616 i wouldn't say brave cuz this is a pretty common opinion in korea
growing up where gay/lesbian are seen normal and finding out others have so much discussion and inputs on other people's preferences was shocking. Gay relationship are not legal here but nobody cares or reports anything. We just let them be. Going to an all girls school 85% of the girls had lesbian tendencies 😂😂 I think I was the only one asexual lol
Appreciate the honest answers here. Very interesting.
Im korean and I have very bright skin since I was born. It's just depends on my genetic. And It's so rude that someone to said white washing things(?) to me. I never heard of 'white washing' in my life so I don't even know the meaning until last year😦. Many east asian has natural pale skin and I like tan skin too. Thank you.
don't lie
@@keykey7646 Come to Korea and see it with your own eyes
@@keykey7646 He's not lying. I lived in both countries for long time. Many Koreans have skin tones that are whiter than Whites. For example, my wife is Korean, and if you just focus on her skin tone, her skin tone is white. My skin tone is yellow and slightly brownish. But my son's skin tone is relatively white. My wife never used or uses any skin whitening cream, but she is good about applying sun protection cream whenever she goes outside. By the way, she also prefers white color on our house home and bathroom, so it resembles a hospital. Has nothing to do with her racial attitude.
@@keykey7646야. 유튜브와 구글에서 동남아 아기와 한국 아기들 사진 많으니 찾아보고 비교해 봐라. 아기도 화이트워싱한다고 지껄일거냐? 우린 피부색에 대해 자부심 따위 없고 잘 살아왔는데 니가 어느나라 사람인진 몰라도 너희들의 피부색 자격지심에 따른 열등감은 진짜 지긋지긋하다.그냥 한국과 한국인에 관심 끄고 살아주면 안되겠니?
I never understood people who use their religion as an excuse for homophobia. No sin is greater than another, you'll keep friends who lie, cheat, steal and commit infidelity but draw the line at same gendered relationships. If you're going to pick friends and judge people based on one sin, do it for ALL sins. This is why people see Christianity as a joke these days
All sin is sin, but all sins are not equal: John 19:11 Jesus answered: Thou shouldst not have any power against me, unless it were given thee from above. Therefore, he that hath delivered me to thee, hath the greater sin.
“And so I tell you, every kind of sin and slander can be forgiven, but blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven. Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but anyone who speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come” (Matthew 12:31-32).
According to Jesus, some sins are greater than others. All sins are not the same.
You have right to disagree with someone life style choice. That does not mean you hate the person. Being respectful and kind to one another doesn’t mean, I have accepted your life style. They two different things.
I’m a Christian, but I’m not homophobic. I believe that homosexuality is a sin, but I’m not homophobic just because I don’t support your behavior 😭. I still love you, but it’s my duty as a Christ follower to steer myself in the right direction and not feed into that sin
@@velmalegaspi1741 I never said that one would have to thrust themselves into a homosexual lifestyle just bc their friends have one. But using the name of God to say that gay people should hide their lifestyle bc it offends people IS homophobic and disgusting. That's exactly what the guy in the middle said. How someone lives their life should not affect you in anyway if it has nothing to directly do with you
@@Leidyybug And that's fine. That's not at all what the problem is for anyone who is upset in the comments lol. It's simply him saying that he takes OFFENSE to another person's lifestyle. As a black person I can think of it as a white person not knowing me at all but saying I've offended them or made them mad simply because of my skin color. At the end of the day it's God that passes judgement when death comes, not Christians who preach what they say is the word of God and Jesus
5:17 They literally use whitening shots and whitening filters 😂
If you wear makeup than you're doing the same thing, right? Essentially? Making yourself look better than you really are? Same deal with hair styling and conditioner and various skin creams. This is the same as that - no worse than wearing makeup, and but nobody sees wearing makeup as problematic because everyone does it, it's normalised. This is just a different method that western people are not used to. And by the way, the 'white' skin thing in Korea comes from a completely different circumstance and history to the traditional western 'racist against people with black skin' thing. The western 'white skin' thing and the Korean 'white skin' thing are not related at all.
@@fransmith3255how is making yourself whiter, making yourself look better ? also it doesn’t matter if those don’t have the exact same roots, at the end of the day It’s about discrimination which is wrong. doesn’t matter if it’s a race matter or a classism matter
@@na-xw8rt You are relating this to western culture and western racism. The Korean wish to look paler has nothing to do with western racism between black and white people. Absolutely nothing!! It's not related at all. It is to do with Korean culture and Korean history. Western culture is not the only culture on Earth and other cultures don't necessarily relate to western culture at all. It's exactly the same principle as wearing makeup - better looking people are treated better. That's discrimination done by makeup. Is makeup discrimination?
@@fransmith3255 I said it’s rooted in classism
@@na-xw8rt Yes. It's rooted in historical classism. So do other countries have classism - just expressed differently. In America classism is much, MUCH worse, right? Classism in America is being accosted and arrested just because people have dark skin. Western prejudices are much MUCH worse than they are in Korea. We don't exactly have the right to judge...
Ive been watching Queenie since her 4th video on this journey and she never fails to entertain, I hope she continues growing. 💗
It's crazy to me that people are so bothered by others life choices. (LGBT+) Like if it has no effect on you, why do you care so much?!? I just don't get it 🤦🏽♀️ like let people live their lives & be happy.
First of all, it's not a choice lol. I'm gay and I cannot stand other gay people, too loud, too flamboyant, too in your face, likes to play victim, demand you change your lives to suit them. I'm just a random person who happens to be gay, it's ridiculous how others make gay their entire personality. Then there's all the silly politics that goes with it. It's like a cult. Also gays get away with alot more especially with children which puts the most vulnerable at risk, it needs to be monitored properly, the law needs to be equal. No special privileges.
I know a Korean man who is Christian and have gay friends. He is so kind... but when I first met him, I thought he was homophobic because of his religion. I'm glad I was wrong. BTW he is a famous Korean musical theatre actor.
Great video but my heart broke into pieces when the guy in the middle gave his opinion on gay people. I know it happens but it still shocks me to see it said so coldly and openly.
I agree but its also just bc Korea isn't used to being around lgbtq people and it not as glamorized there as it is in America which btw I have nothing against the lgbtq community I think he was saying that he wasn't comfortable around them and so he doesn't want to make them uncomfortable by making himself be around them I think he was trying to be respectful towards them by not lying and saying that he didn't want to make them uncomfortable by lying and going against his religion and I understand how that can be hurtful its almost like idk if you know this but there is this Japanese Kpop idol who was only 17 or so at the time and was asked if he would do anything gay and he said no bc he wasn't gay and didn't feel comfortable doing anything more then hugging other men ( which is reasonable cause he is straight) and he got nailed in the comments they all said he was being homophobic when he clearly didn't mean to be rude of offensive and to remind you he is only 17/18 at the time and he wasn't fluent in Korean so it was hard for him to word everything correctly then after the fact people started calling him fat and saying he needed to eat less (which wasn't true he was and still id perfectly healthy)I know this is off topic a bit but It just reminded me of him also if you would like to know his name and where to find the video his name is haruto and he is from the group treasure pls make sure to find the whole video bc people made him out to look like a bad guy and he clearly isn't he is a good person and I know bc I have seen how kind he is to everyone I hope you understand my long rant and I hope you look into him i hope you have a nice day/week ❤
Good for him He’s not brainwashed
@@Lllllaaa2_ wdym?
@Lllllaaa2_ why are you so pressed about people in love 💀get a life
@@sunny-my9ngHonestly the lgbt community have got to stop trying to shove things down our throats and they should accept the fact that not everyone will have the same mindset as them. 😊
He wants gay people to hide who they are bc it makes him uncomfortable but straight people partake in PDA, they go to gatherings filled with people and talk about their boyfriends or girlfriends or husbands and wives with no problem. But if a gay person does the same it makes him uncomfortable. He will be alright.
PERIOD
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion
Respect it
Korea is conservative,the lgbt community is not exactly welcomed there, like it is in some countries
@@Queen-bj2wz i really don’t gaf tbh. people being gay does not affect him in any way just how people being straight does not affect him in any way. saying people should hide something as natural as sexuality is insane. like I said he will be alright. it’s because of thinking like this that lgbtq people get harmed.
@@daniellawilson2617 Okay, I've got to ask where you guys are seeing this theory that people of the lgbt community are being harmed
As far as I know, some of them are the ones doing the harm,but they play the victim,cuz they know they'll receive immense support if they do so.
After visiting Korea, can definitely say that they are obsessed with making their skin whiter. It’s sad really…
why sad?
@@uludak8468 Because what is wrong it dark/colored skin?, what's so wrong that they go far and beyond to change it?
@@uludak8468 changing your naturally skin color is sad, same than having plastic surgery to change your natural features.
So they even bleach?😂😂
@@Kim-0-0 and whats wrong with pale skin?
that is what men worldwide attracts the most.
the most shocking part of this video was when the guy in the middle said gay people should hide who they are 💀but then he has the audacity to say we're all the same ???
LMAO fr i wouldnt want a friend like that
Right and he was saying it like as if we were being silly for being scared of ppl like him in Korea
I think that people like him have no awareness about history or the realities of the world, they need to take time to educate themselves, because if their opinion or beliefs are to judge or degrade others for their identity or personal differences that is an issue between them and their God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. Thank God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today Human Rights exist. Which they also enjoy and protect equally.
John 8:7
But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”.
Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
@Jhnkiyvfdc Because he's brainwashed. In his mind he shouldn't have to hide who he is, that would be persecution. But anyone he doesn't like should hide who they are. 💀💀 So individualistic and self centered.
The only way to prove if being gay is natural is to look at animals in how they engage with one another. If they aren’t naturally having relations of the same sex as their own, then why do humans think it’s natural to do so?
Thank you for asking them the questions. Even tho it was a small group it probably did give a good representation of the way most Koreans are. I think it holds true in a lot of countries as a foreigner…be friendly and learn at least some of the language and try to use it. It proves you are interested in meeting part way to communicate.
anytime some person says they were born in 200x i have a heart attack
why
@@elliefavorsi think bc they feel old
I liked how they were all honest in their opinions, even if it may have been controversial. I do hope the guy in the middle thinks about why he’s offended at gay people telling him they’re gay though. I hope he gains the understanding that all people have free will and are allowed to love who they love 😊
And he's allowed to not like who or what he doesn't like
@@JessAnonymous You’re right. I never said he has to like them. I’m just saying I hope he realizes that people have the right to love who they love, as long as it doesn’t hurt the people involved. And people have the right to free speech and should be able to come out and say they’re gay, if they want to.
@@JessAnonymous he doesnt have to like them, he just doesnt have the right to police how others should live
@@golbinnomAnd they also don't have the right to try to force others to like them. 😊
@@ang4390Can't y'all just leave him alone,he said his honest opinion respect that and move on
Not compulsory everyone must view things the way you do 😊
Without watching the video my guess on pale skin would be that it stems from the joseon dynasty where if you were upperclass you likely had paler skin because you didnt have to work out in the fields so darker skin meant you were of lower class. Even these days you see so many examples of people showing off their wealth & status on tiktok & other social media. Kids these days may not make the same connection consciously but they've just grown up with paler skin often being seen associated with beauty.
This is the same with any kind of beauty standard in any country or time period. Why are hour glass figures considered sexy? Beards? Remember when metal corsets were a thing? Everyone has their own beauty standards & thats fine as long as its not discriminatory or harmful (like the metal corsets or mutilating body parts)
exactly. it's a cultural thing for the most part.
Much older than even the joseon dynasty. You find evidence of this beauty standard even in ancient times like the goguyeo kingdom
@@junz8675 You should watch the video. Cause they said it's not about pale skin, actually. So thanks for confirming that they were capping, I guess lmao.
Bur metal wire an mutilating body parts aren't a things now...plastic surgery and whitening creams are, for me that's is mutilation too
so they still live in the times where they were slaves and peasants but now they think they are royalty xD.
Good show! I have been wondering about some of the questions asked and you all gave pretty good answers. Enlightened! Thank you.
Interesting..
I am a married woman. When I was single and dating/looking for a life partner I definitely had personality & physical preferences. It doesn’t mean EVERYONE I dated had EVERYTHING that I preferred…..but I still had preferences. This is what my physical preferences were/are;
I prefer men with light blue or light green eyes over hazel or brown eyes.
I prefer fuller lips over thin lips.
I prefer a smaller nose over a big hook-like nose.
I prefer clean shaven, smooth skin, scar free/acne free over facial hair, scars and pimples.
I prefer straight, white teeth over crooked yellowish teeth.
I prefer a tall man (6’3” and over) over a short man.
I prefer an athletic, fit man with some muscle tone, over a skinny man or husky man or an overweight man.
I prefer broader shoulders over narrow shoulders.
I like guys with strong legs with defined calves, over guys that skip leg day.
I prefer NO tattoos over tattoos (in fact I hate tattoos and think they’re very ugly-major turn off).
I prefer no hair/minimal chest hair over a hairy chest.
I prefer a non smoker over a smoker,and a non drug user over a drug user (would never date a guy that smokes, uses drugs).
These are ALL physical preferences and I haven’t even touched on personality preferences or living life preferences (prefer employed over unemployed, prefer never married over having an ex wife with kids from a previous partner, prefer no criminal record over being a criminal etc).
Why do I prefer these things over others? I don’t know. I am just more attracted to them. I just like them better.
It does not mean that a shorter man, with brown eyes and chest hair can’t be a good man, or can’t be a good looking man, or won’t make a good partner or a good father, or be funny…….I just don’t find it as physically/sexually appealing/attractive as the things I prefer.
So when people say “Why can’t dark skin be good enough? Why can’t Asians like darker skin just as much as paler/lighter skin?”
They’re not saying that people with darker skin can’t look good, or be attractive to people, or do the job that skin is supposed to do on a human body. They simply prefer the LOOK of other shades of skin more than other shades of skin. Just like someone may prefer redheads over blondes…..they just prefer it. It doesn’t mean they thinks blondes have less value as a human being, they just think the coppery red hair is prettier than golden hair (to them).
It’s not a reflection of the quality of the person, or the value of a person, or the worth of a person…..it’s just what they find more attractive.
There are people that prefer skinny men, that prefer darker skin (I have a white Portuguese friend that has only ever dated, and eventually married, a black guy-it’s just her preference), that like dark chocolate brown eyes, that like beards etc.
Why do people get SO “offended” or upset by what other people find attractive?!?
Just because you’re not someone’s “ideal type” doesn’t mean you’re not someone else’s ideal type.
Be happy in your own body, and stop caring what other people think, or what other people like or dislike.
We’re all allowed to have our own preferences and we don’t always have reasons for them.
You can like whatever you like……and other people can like whatever they like.
Get over it.
LMFAO the way he had to face the wall in shame💀🤣🤣🤣
This was so cool and interesting. I was happy to see everyone give their thoughts and not hold back too, really cool!
LOL they really forgot their oath with the pale skin and black questions 🤪
wdym ive seen koreans hang with black ppl. black culture has a big influence on things so they were right about the seeming cool thing
Thank you for this interesting take on Korean culture. Btw, you are BEAU TIFUL.
dude in the middle can kick rocks
Ok so the biggest tip is… “LEARN KOREAN BEFORE GOING TO KOREA…” even if it’s a little.
Thats literally anywhere?
Would you go to America and not be able to speak English?
That would be hella scary for anyone
@@Twothree8126 a serve a lot of people, especially Spanish people that don’t speak English at all. And I do agree with you, it’s better to learn the language before you go to the country.
@@kylie_bb2952 ikr
hearing the part about how he said gays cannot like their (straight) friend, instead of helping navigate feeling is just sad 😭😭 (especially when feelings always have the chance to develop without them even knowing)
this was interesting but i wish they were actually honest… these are things i really want to know, but you can definitely tell they were holding some things back…
My exact thoughts. especially as a black person ofc we want to know why they don’t like to associate themselves with black people. And I feel like every time we ask them those type of questions they seem to always dodge it or try to say something nice like the guy saying “we just think y’all cool” yea sir I don’t think y’all being honest here. And reason because they couldn’t full y explain why they’re so obsessed with yt skin. Because it’s “clean” that’s still like saying people who are not white must be dirty. it all still contradicts.
@@EllisSkyypage🎉why ate yall obsessed with their preference. Do you prefer yellow or brown skin? & why? Is red skin better than yellow? Do you prefer black above all else? If so isnt that racist? Questions! I have so many😂
@@salty-tomato nobody cares about their preferences its the meaning behind the reason for their preference. usually it’s just flat out racist. and another thing I think a lot of them are kind of stupid to like a group of people All because they’re just yt and pretty. I’ve heard Asians in comments saying they’re scared of black people because we look scary and they want to associate with yt people because they were nice and pretty as if POC people aren’t. They have a serious problem judging a book by its covers. this is why I don’t feel sorry when they get rejected / discriminated by yt people because at that point you had it coming for idolizing them. and I’m not saying to dislike a whole group of yt people but I’m saying that idolizing them is a big insult to the black/ POC community because most of us have been oppressed by them and they actually don’t care about it as long as they make Their parents proud by keeping the fairskin in the family or thinking they’re going to get some sort of privileges by eating the white man/ woman’s a$$. but again you’re right it shouldn’t even matter even if it does come off racist. But I just don’t understand why other races are so obsessed with a group of people who aren’t important AT ALL. You’re not even a speck in the universe important.
This Channel came up out of the blue in my Utube app - but it was so interesting to hear how young Koreans think - I loved listening! I may be a U.K. Mother but I’m never too old to hear what the young generation talk about….. - 🥰🇬🇧
Its kinda sad that he would cut off a friend for being gay, its still the same person as before and being gay does not mean they'd have feelings for you, but ig everyone is entitled to their own opinions, i'd be hurt if someone cut me off for liking the same gender tho lol
Im interested to see if any opinions will change in the future, also i'd be sooo scared of military service 🥲
I think many people get annoyed with differing opinions cuz it’s just never the space for those topics .. but when you can create an environment to openly exchange views, it will typically lead to far more constructive discussions. Like in school, when you have different classes for different subjects. It’s much easier to digest challenging information when you can arm your mindset with preparedness! Very good video!
They just outright runaway from the "white skin" question
If they said the truth they would be called racist
This was a GREAT video queenie!! YOUR AMAZING!!!!!😍😍
2:05 bro Don't you think it's disrespectful to be on your phone while he's talking?
Big respect for the christian guy, he wasn't disrespectful and made his belief clear. ❤✝️
My bro in the middle keeping it real lol. Don't hate on him guys, he's te product of his society just like any of us. You accept gays not bc you're better people than him but bc it's accepted in your country now. If it was just 20 years ago most of you would say the same thing as him. Plus he's a christian and it's forbiden in the bible.
Just appreciate the honesty and move on.
No one cares, he can’t use being Christian as a excuse to be homophobic. There’s thousands, even millions of Christian’s who support LGBTQ or have no problem with it. It’s 2024 and it’s more exceptive in Korea, he needs to bfr, that’s why everyone’s hating on him and their right
The guy in the corner was so funny 😂❤
Your friends are so cool ☺️ would love to see more vlogs with them and unilife
Girl, I’m proud you didn’t cut off the LGBTQ+ question to save that guy in the middle, so ignorant of him the way he thinks we as a community have to hide from society
It's not ignorant to have a faith and values. Why the always force acceptance that's literally against what you value in life. It's never going to work.
@@byyrd2194It's ignorant to tell people to hide just because of your faith and values
@@niko13613I can disagree on a ideology and a lifestyle that's not natural, that has been statistically proven to produce an increase of STD's and cannot produce life. But i wouldn't go that far to tell people to hide what they chose to indulge in (like sharing they're gay WHEN somebody actually asks them, which I don't think anyone should be asking those type of questions, so I don't think anyone regardless of their sexual orientation should be discussing their sexual lifestyle and tendencies with other people [who are not very close and intimate], somethings are private and is very low class to discuss them in public) but my approach would be more like don't be overly immoral, obnoxious and perverted in front of other people, especially children.
@@yamiletsoler3464 then you are the misaducated one. Because what you are writing in your comment is false. Homoexuality ca be found in many species and do not increase sexual transmissed deseases. What seems to be immoral for you is not for another. You should not mix science with moral belief.
@@yamiletsoler3464how is it not natural? Everything that occurs on this earth is natural. And about that last part, the fact that those terrible things automatically pop into your head when discussing the topic of simply being gay means that you only recognize the negative stereotypes that society pushes onto gay people. Straight people have done and continue to do all you listed but you dont criticize them. Open mindedness and empathy are important.
I'm a bit shocked they are not exploring these things honestly. There is still a lot of bias against people of color - ironically. I think it is true, largely due to the co-opting of hip-hop, that the younger generations are less racist, but there are still racist young Koreans and there are still a lot of older racist Koreans.
Dark skin is associated with manual labor, which is looked down on; the three Ds: Dangerous, Dirty and Difficult. Some Koreans, like in many countries, look down on people in such jobs, not just foreigners doing those jobs. The racism against other Asians in those jobs in Korea is pervasive. Korean culture is changing, but has not fully changed. (And, yes, these things exist in pretty much every country to some degree or other.)
I like that the guy in the middle stood unapologetically by his own view point. It made the discussion indeed diverse not just them trying to be camera friendly. I feel it indeed gave a more realistic view of the view of these sensitive topics in the country at this time.
For generations the poor working classes were in the field got tan under the sun, and those who were of the upper class stayed in the shade with their books.
Light skin was coveted as a status symbol, the mindset has been passed down. This is not only true historically of Korea, but also in places in europe and america.
Many Westerners don't understand that this was the case even in European countries. In addition, in Korea, many people (now including males) wear sun protection creams assiduously because they all know the harmful effects of being exposed to sunlight.
As a Christian as well we are taught to be accepting and loving of everyone regardless. No sin is greater then the other so if he doesn’t go around gay people because he sees it as a sin not only should he not judge because judging is a sin within it self but he should also self reflect because I’m sure he’s not perfect he probably cusses it’s clear he also judges gay people. You are just as bad. Cutting someone off or fully avoiding them because they are sinning is judging them based off that. we all have our own journey we’re on to be better Christians even he himself is. You can’t play the role of god and judge others when that directly goes against gods word. What you do in the situation instead is pray for them and show them kindness and fair treatment because you are not above anyone. We should be loving and accepting of everyone regardless. If you were to cut off and not talk to any sinner you’d be left with no one on earth. So cutting a person off because they are gay is not only hypocritical but contradicting as well. I hope he learns from this and reads up on what being a Christian truly is because he’s directly thinking and acting against it but uses it as a justification to act that way.
I think that people like him have no awareness about history or the realities of the world, they need to take time to educate themselves, because if their opinion or beliefs are to judge, degrade or murder others for their identity or personal differences that is an issue between them and their God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. Thank God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today Human Rights exist. Which they also enjoy and protect equally.
John 8:7
But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”.
Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
The Bible does not say judging is a sin it’s says to judge righteously and there is a difference between sinning and knowing it’s wrong and changing and embracing your sin like the lgbtq community does
@@melvinakamara7732 “Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly” (John 7:24).” These people are still capable of being prayed for and loved unconditionally. U disregarded everything I said. Every human being is a sinner. No sin is greater than the other. So if you are judging someone for sinning but also sinning yourself that’s indeed not judging correctly because that is hypocritical and contradicting. Jesus didn't teach against judging. He taught against a specific kind of judging. The type of judging he spoke against was a blind, ignorant, hypocritical, self-righteous judging that overlooks one's own faults, failures and sins and only sees faults, failures and sins in other people. And that’s what I was talking about in my comment.
@@melvinakamara7732 that is one of the problems with the Bible : you can find everything and it's contrary.
@@elee522 yet everyone around him is a sinner, every single human is a sinner. But he’s around them? What makes them different?
i get that Donggeun isn’t really careful with what he says and is straight to the point, but i think that’s just how he grew up 😭
Koreans always hide their thoughts and keep you from the truth. I think that he made his point clear is better for the audience.
Grow up
@@salty-tomato grow up?
I don’t support lgbtq but i wouldn’t hate on them. i’m definitely not offended when it’s not my life. God wants us to love all people. There’s no reason to be offended over their decision..
Firstly its not a decision lol but also I'm gay and cannot stand other gay people. Too dirty, too flamboyant too in your face. I've never supported it even when it was just lgb. Why group them together? Why not just be a person first who happens to be gay? Why is gay their entire personality, then there's stupid politics that cones with it. No thanks,
Yes there is.... open your bible from time to time. Homosexuality is called out as sin. If you love jesus and love those around you, you'll let them know about your concerns regarding their lifestyle, especially if they identify as a christian brother or sister. All the good you do to other jesus says, you do unto him aswell. That includes not looking away. There is love in being honest to yourself and others.
@@rapidloving I know it’s a sin but I can’t force anybody and all the people around me know that I don’t support it. But I’m also not offended because i don’t want to be bitter towards them, but they’ll know that it’s wrong. That’s that
@@rapidloving but thank you as well, have a blessed day ❤️
This hurts as a bisexual girl... Obviously he can't just change his opinion on queer people but he could at least be respectful 😕 I have a homophobic granddad but he still loves and respects me which is fine enough for me. I'm not asking this guy to change his views because for some it's impossible and is literally what they grew up with so it's ingrained in their head, but the least you could do is to not openly show your dislike for queer people
yeah I’m Christian and that is not how a Christian person should treat the lgbtq+ community. if he considers being gay to be a sin he should judge the sin, not the person. i personally don’t think being gay is a sin, but im not the one who should decide if it is or isn’t. hope that all makes sense
@@HalleRGright! i see a lot of hypocrisy about it. people refusing to be friends with gay people yet are friends with people who engage in premarital sex, are immodest, lie, etc etc. even if you consider homosexuality a sin, why is it seen as more grave than any other sin? it’s just pure homophobia honestly
He just has not been exposed to many different types of people. No need to feel hurt by this; he's just one person. I grew up in my junior high and high school hearing racial slur almost every day. If I got so hurt by hearing those racial slurs, I would have just curled up and died. Instead, I worked hard and with a purpose and retired at 47. Don't get hurt; get mad and become the best version of yourself.
About the Christian guy opinion, I know a lot of people will immediately blame Christianity and say that Christians are homophobic and stuff. Because we are living in this era where everyone is kinda forced to show "love" to everything, people tend to be quickly offended if you radically don't agree or "love, appreciate" certain things. One thing I would like to remind as a Christian myself who does not support the lgbtq+ community (Careful, I didn't say I hate you guys) is to not love something doesn't mean literally hate it, just as the lgbtq+ has values in their community, we also have values in ours which is unfortunately opposite to theirs. And I know this subject is very sensitive to discuss but let's just face it because of our different values, we will never agree and that's totally okay, let's just live our lives respecting each other (I know there is hate in both camps). When it comes to the hiding part, having sufficient knowledges about the bible (which we follow the principles to live as righteous as possible), I understand his opinion (I don't necessarily agree with the word chosen "hide") and I can assure it was not from a hateful perspective but from a biblical one. Since we all should tolerate each other, I suggest to not be quick to judgement and hate because of what he said. You are free to disagree respectfully 🤍 May God bless you all❤
This 🙏 your comment is perfect bro/sis.
As a Christian, it's 💯 my thought as well 🙏💚
Real reason a lot of Koreans prefer light skin:
It’s a symbol of wealth. Back in the day, only rich people had pale skin. They could afford skin-whitening creams/makeup and could afford to stay indoors all day. They didn’t have to go outside and had umbrellas to cover themselves and protect themselves from sunlight. The poor people had dark skin because they had to be outside all day, working in the rice fields. They were subjected to the harsh sun without any protection, thus they tanned.
@@rosesavocado8557 Watch the video.
But that’s not the case anymore. So why do they still prefer light skin now? There must be some reason other then back in the day…
But what about the people who are born black or with a darker skintone?
@@sunshine333135 Old habits die hard and the grass will always be greener on the other side.
@@Kenzi11505 In Korea, over 99% of the population isn’t black. People born with a browner tint often bleach their skin. Like how light-skinned people tan their skin. People will never be happy wit how they look.
I love how the person that was anti gay could easily be mistaken for a gay man in the west, just based in how he is sitting. 😂
This was tres cute.
It's surprising how many of the comments have targeted and mocked this person simply because of his views on same-sex relationships and marriage. People need to recognize that not everyone shares the same perspectives, and that's okay. He expressed his religious beliefs openly, which is perfectly valid especially since the host asked for complete honesty. Many people hold similar beliefs due to their faith. As long as someone isn't promoting harm or advocating violence, they shouldn't be "cancelled" or labeled as "bad" for holding different views.
@@pandagaming-dy1gs TBC I’m only replying because your comment is under mine and it’s not clear if you were responding to me or the post in general. I agree with everything you said, I still think that based on Western standards and ideas around masculinity, his would be questioned, and I found the irony funny. He is entitled to feel how he does, you are correct. I didn’t see anyone calling for him to be cancelled or labeled as bad. I certainly wasn’t doing that with my comment. If people feel that way, that’s unfortunate.
The whole exchange was cute.
Yeah, my comment was meant to address the post in general. I noticed a lot of comments targeting the guy because of his religious beliefs, which I found odd. I spoke up because it's important to recognize that people have different perspectives, whether that's shaped by their culture, upbringing, or religious beliefs. No hard feelings though!
Not the homophobia 😂😂💀
There are some people in the comments who are passively attacking the middle guy because of his opinion; just because he doesn't accept or like the idea of the gay community doesn't mean he's not open minded or that he's self centered. Y'all should grow up, not everyone supports the community and they should be allowed to voice their opinions. I personally, am against the community but I don't support any form of violence or mistreatment towards them. Everyone has their likes and dislikes, that shouldn't be problem. His beliefs are his, yours are yours so don't go around judging people's beliefs. Some people are ok with keeping gay friends, some are not, and it's okay. Let's not force our beliefs on other people or attack them just because they don't support it. Live your life and let every other person live theirs.
It was a pretty good mood until the homophobia. I loved how everyone else reacted about it, though, lol.
EDIT: I didn't mean to start an argument in the comments, damn. Not supporting people for being gay makes you homophobic. It's not your business to tell someone that they should hide it because it "offends" you. You can believe that, but just know that it means that you're homophobic. You don't have to be out doing hate crimes to be homophobic.
How is it homophobia if I don't support it? They can continue their lives like they want to but I just don't support it. So why is it so wrong to not support?
@@misumatchuaIt’s just odd. Do you have a reason for not supporting? (Not religion. That’s a crazy excuse to use to not support the people around you.) Why is loving someone viewed as bad in your eyes? What if it were the only way around? You’re straight-what if people hated you the way they hate queers? How would that make you feel? That your love is criticized world wide just because it isn’t seen as normal.
google the definition of homophobia... Announcing you don't support something is you not liking it. Dislike gay people is literally part of the definition 💀
@@staciii "dislike or predjuce of gay people " She hasn't stated anywhere of disliking gay people. Not supporting something doesn't mean you automatically dislike it.
@@misumatchua he literally said they shouldnt live as they like tho.. he said they should hide it so they don't "offend people" 😭😭 you're lying to urself if that's not homophobia
Ppl mad at the guy in the middle but it’s nice to see he stood on business with his beliefs. He does not have to want to be around gay ppl. It’s not like he hates them or wants them dead. Everyone can feel how they feel. Yall want discussions but don’t want opinions different from yours.
Girl, this is my first time seeing your videos and now I am invested in the saga that is the half second of eye contact you made with that one guy, and that little look to camera you gave. For reference 4:57 - 5:00
IKR I WAS SENSING IT THE WHOLE VIDEO
I mean.. at least donggeun told his true feelings. A lot of Koreans lie on these videos to seem more accepting to foreigners and then it skews the actual truth of what Koreans think.
anyways, I completely support gay people in Korea and I hope they get the right to marry soon. mangocouple are a great representation of a kind, loving gay couple. Please consider supporting them and their fight to get married ❤️
It's quite sad and disappointing how prejudiced and ignorant those guys are about gay people. Religion should never be an excuse for this, some people choose to keep the negative aspects instead of the positive ones.
It is stated in The Bible that God is against homosexuality. Leviticus 18:22
"Do not practice homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman. It is a detestable sin."
(NLT)
Leviticus 20:13
"If a man practices homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman, both men have
committed a detestable act. They must both be put to death, for they are guilty of a capital offense."
So that is his faith and there’s no point in him being a Christian if he doesn’t believe in The Word of God. We are taught to abide by The Word and not to pick and choose what suits us.
Right, like when he said he’d cut off his friend beside him ive he said he was gay…like what?
@@jdpmanagementservices5851
I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally.
John 8:7
But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”.
Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
P.D. I wish you a happy and loving life. ~🌹
@@jdpmanagementservices5851
I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally.
John 8:7
But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”.
Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
P.D.: I wish you a happy and loving life.~🌹
@@jdpmanagementservices5851
I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally.
John 8:7
But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”.
Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
P.D.: I wish you a happy and loving life.~🌹
i just stumbled across this channel...these questions are gold..i lived there 6 years...changed my life lol
THIS IS HONESTLYS SUCH A WHOLSOME VIDIO THISS IS SO CUTE (also omg GIRL you ARE STUNNING omg extubixbtgubixiugbexyigbexybigeygbxgb UR LIKE GLOWING😭)✋💗💗🫶🫶
thank you hehe🫶🏽🩷
@@queeniequeen AWWW OFCC TYSMMM💗💗🫶🫶
I'm a Christian too and I don't support the LGBTQ community thing but I would for sure be friends with them. Why? Because I don't see people based on what they identify as, I see them as huma beings just like me and respect them as human beings. If my friends came to me and said they are gay, I would be like okay
That's literally supporting LGBT community tho..? It's not like LGBT people want extra support? They just want to be treated like others and that's enough
not agreeing with someone else's way of life but still remianung cordial is one thing but discrimination is a no go for me in terms of the pale skin thing have your preference for lighter skin thats a whatever sandwich but again dont mistreat those with darker skin
I agree with this. especially since people have no control as to what skin tone they are born with
Social, psych approaches and perspectives on circumstances really vary depending on age.
Don't worry. Drama is not everything😊
they do not prefer dark skinned people in general, if you ever do find an opened minded Korean person to accept you and not think about your skin color they’ve beat their system. Them avoided the question is your answer to that question.
Can’t wait to watch🤩🤩
흰피부를 좋아하는건.. 그냥 가설중 하나인데요
조선때도 쓰인 말로 미인을 표현 할 때 대표적인 말이 '백옥같은 피부' , '섬섬옥수' 등이있어요. 그리고 그런 피부나 손을 가진 사람은 '햇빛 아래서 일을 할 필요가 없는 지위가 높은 사람', '양반의 딸로 귀하게 자란 사람' 등 백성들의 동경의 대상 이었다는, 그리고 그 통념이 이어져 내려 왔다는 가설이에요.
한국사회 전반적으로 흰 피부를 동경하는게 분명 있기에 가까운 시기에 만들어진 이상형은 아닐거라 생각해요.
그리고 한국인이 말하는 '와 저사람 되게 하얗고 이쁘다'는 피부의 색도 색이지만 '잡티없이 깨끗한 피부' 를 전제로 하는 경우가 많아요. 위의 가설에 힘이 좀더 실리는 이유죠
3:58 💀💀
My jaw actually dropped💀
right like I'm concerned💀.
I was shook 💀
I like how honest Donggeun was when asked about the LGBT thing. Many people say they are fine when they are not. If they say they don't agree, there's always the risk that everyone will look down on you. In my opinion, if people don't want to hear an answer they don't want, then don't ask, because this will only create a conflict, because you will not answer according to what others want, but you will answer honestly. Anyway, thanks for the video, it was very nice.😃😉😄
To everyone that is reading this, no hate to the guy in the middle, but not all people who are followers of Jesus have the same opinion as him.
I find the pale skin thing interesting, I recently went to Korea and all their makeup had a very narrow colour range - it was actually too dark for me(im irish) but it was too light or completely lacked any dark skin tones for my friends
The homophobic dude says oh don't come out you make ppl uncomfortable
When South Korea’s Supreme Court Affirms Rights of Same-Sex Partners after this vid with few days lmao💀❤