Love Triangles, Poison, & An Innocent Plea | The Suspicious Death of Tom Kolman

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  • @adrienekausner9701
    @adrienekausner9701 ปีที่แล้ว +3800

    My issue is that they took him to court with almost zero evidence. So now, he’s “Not Guilty,” and they have lost any chance of nailing him if new evidence or a new witness appears.

    • @monicabrill5821
      @monicabrill5821 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I agree

    • @heezypeasy8611
      @heezypeasy8611 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Agreed

    • @DestineyAmerie
      @DestineyAmerie ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Gill is.. GILL-Ty!! (Guilty)

    • @katiedarnell2321
      @katiedarnell2321 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Completely agree. I was shocked to hear they were making the arrest just based on a cars headlights looking a little off. They wasted a trial when it could’ve brought proper justice and more information.

    • @vickischwaegel6122
      @vickischwaegel6122 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agree!

  • @notmycircusnotmyclown
    @notmycircusnotmyclown ปีที่แล้ว +965

    I just wonder if Gill posed as someone on that Be Naughty website to lure Tom in and kill him since Gill has a history of posing as someone he isn't

    • @erinturner9618
      @erinturner9618 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      daaamn that’s a great theory 👀

    • @beautifulcorpse8202
      @beautifulcorpse8202 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I def think that what it was! Bc why else would Tom park so far back? He clearly trusted and expected a woman, not his friend. Also even if Gill didn't pose as someone from the website, why would they meet so early in the morning in the gym parking lot? It just wouldn't make sense

    • @maureenmartini5094
      @maureenmartini5094 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Good point!

    • @marlaacolee
      @marlaacolee ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@beautifulcorpse8202then after injecting tom with the drug, he probably unzipped his pants to stage it a bit into looking more suspicious.

    • @beautifulcorpse8202
      @beautifulcorpse8202 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@marlaacolee yes!

  • @magic8ball1982
    @magic8ball1982 ปีที่แล้ว +1982

    He's definitely guilty, but the jury made the right choice. There wasn't enough evidence to prove beyond a reasonable doubt. The police and prosecution dropped the ball by pursuing a trial without the evidence.

    • @xbree_
      @xbree_ ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Sadly I agree. Why in the world did they take that to trial with so little evidence.

    • @goredeer6353
      @goredeer6353 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@xbree_⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰p⁰⁰⁰⁰p⁰p⁰p⁰⁰pp⁰p⁰p😊p

    • @goredeer6353
      @goredeer6353 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@xbree_p

    • @leese82
      @leese82 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Exactly what I was going to say. There are no “coincidences” when it comes to murder (same care, same drug, inside knowledge of health problems), but a person can’t be found guilty on no evidence.

    • @admirallily
      @admirallily ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠@@xbree_maybe because in other cases the masses are yelling at them for not progressing an investigation ast enough. Cops are damned if they do and damned if they don’t. And in all of it people often criticize them no matter what they do. We expect them to be super human and are then surprised that they are regular humans expected to be more than human.

  • @Mochii96
    @Mochii96 ปีที่แล้ว +1158

    The fact his son took his own life after his fathers death.. so very sad. Why do full grown adults commit adultery? Your actions have consequences people!!!

    • @y2m3e.45
      @y2m3e.45 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Just selfish desires

    • @elidagarza8110
      @elidagarza8110 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They hurt everyone else around you

    • @catspaw3092
      @catspaw3092 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The answer is simple DON'T GET MARRIED! OR GET A DIVORCE!

    • @MimiB1974
      @MimiB1974 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Because people are human

    • @oldwomanranting
      @oldwomanranting ปีที่แล้ว

      Human nature and sex is a big part of life. Boundaries r rules by higher brain function yet sex is the enjoyable aspect of the lower brain-survival brain function. The lizard brain rules.

  • @manriqux3
    @manriqux3 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    The fact that Gil was willing to sleep with his “best friend’s” wife tells me that he’d be fine with hurting him in other ways. Poor Tom, Gil was his best friend, but he was not Gil’s best friend 😢

  • @oleic1710
    @oleic1710 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I got chills when she said His 18 year old son took his own life. So heartbreaking:( I really hope justice is served

  • @Legallyblonde1xo
    @Legallyblonde1xo ปีที่แล้ว +577

    Whether he was guilty or not, the prosecution should have never ever brought that case to court with the little amount of evidence that they had. I mean that was utterly stupid I've seen cases with far more evidence not go to court because prosecutors think they don't have enough to secure a conviction and then you have the other side like this case where they have very little it is very up in the air and it's most likely that they're not going to get a conviction and it wasn't even first agree murder it was second, and yet they just say f*** it and drag it to court anyways knowing that it's more likely than not they're going to lose? That was just utterly negligent at best.

  • @nellietwo
    @nellietwo ปีที่แล้ว +777

    I think the jury definitely made the right choice with the evidence they were given. It’s the prosecution’s fault for bringing him to trial on basically nothing. So sad that now he gets to go free and live his life.

  • @maricelasaucedo4977
    @maricelasaucedo4977 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    That fact that he was gonna forgive his wife and take her back is crazy he had such a good heart rip

  • @jlkitz1775
    @jlkitz1775 ปีที่แล้ว +1251

    Adultery opens up SO MANY awful doors 😕. I watched this case on Dateline & I think Gil is responsible. Tom's poor son committing suicide was another horrible consequence of Gil & Linda's actions 😐

    • @kikij2012
      @kikij2012 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Right, its so sad ,

    • @sarahclaireclaire7586
      @sarahclaireclaire7586 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      💯 AGREE

    • @tanyag278
      @tanyag278 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I totally agree he is guilty. Why get rid of his car . The car is a match. I believe in karma so he will get his eventually !!!

    • @taylorkozak8890
      @taylorkozak8890 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's so clear that he did it.. I mean look at the lengths he went to before the murder.. pretending to be in the C.I.A.?? Who does that? People who are UNSTABLE! And he had access to the very drug that killed him! The puzzle pieces fit perfectly.. it really urks me that he was found not guilty! They literally let a killer walk free!! The judicial system is WACK!

    • @emilyashley4820
      @emilyashley4820 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are Gil and Linda still together?

  • @Sleuth23
    @Sleuth23 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    I do believe he did it, but I agree with the court's findings given the evidence. I think that they screwed up their chance by not waiting until more solid evidence was found, so that a solid case could be built.
    Now, like you said, we may never find out. He can never be re-tried.

    • @janinemccartha1811
      @janinemccartha1811 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Kendall Rae. The decision of the jury was really bizarre! I think he was definitely involved in Tom's murder. If he died of natural causes, how could he have had the exact same drug in his autopsy report that was in Gils office? It seems pretty clear to me. Definitely glad you covered this case. I've never heard of it until today. See you soon on your videos, peace, love, Janine Smiley❤

  • @szybake9629
    @szybake9629 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    This story is riveting. Thank you Kendall!! If he crosses the line faking identities (Samantha) and lying about being a CIA agent, then he has proven he will cross normal boundaries. This is so obvious.

  • @danirip1931
    @danirip1931 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Kendall I have lupus and most days I can barely walk to my kitchen most days but I'm always so thankful when I see you put a video up, it helps get me out of my own head and relax. You tell these stories so respectful and calming that it helps take my mind off everything I've got going on. Thank you for another great video!!❤❤

    • @susanandrew6453
      @susanandrew6453 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope your lupus goes into permanent remission: it's an evil illness.

    • @alixbresler1913
      @alixbresler1913 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same I have lupus as welll!!!!!!

    • @danirip1931
      @danirip1931 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​@alixbresler1913 sending love and gentle hugs with positive vibes. I'm sorry you're in a flareup they suck. I'm going on ny 4th wk and with 3 broken ribs and a broken foot from falling from shaking. Lupus can kick rocks lol. Hope you feel better friend ❤

    • @danirip1931
      @danirip1931 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@alixbresler1913I assumed you're in a flareup I'm sorry you didn't say that. I think cus I'm in like a constant flareup I assume other lupus patients are too lol

    • @alixbresler1913
      @alixbresler1913 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love yo uso much for this you’re in my heart thought prayers I am in a flare up too - YOURE GOING TO THRIVE U GOT THIS

  • @josusa1647
    @josusa1647 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Infidelity is so damaging. Linda must be so full of regret. Gill seems like a lunatic the way he was impersonating the CIA and even his own mother. I feel like he did it and it’s sad that he got away with murdering such a good man who was even willing to let his wife decide who she wanted to be with and still remain friends with him.

  • @sweetgirl7229
    @sweetgirl7229 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I was given midazolam right after my surgery and even though I didn't have sleeping apnea, it almost killed me with respiratory depression. If they think it's not the dentist then they should tell us how midazolam got into his system! It's obvious that he did it!

    • @mgreen1206
      @mgreen1206 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Exactly.. I’m a mental health nurse and often give Midaz to sedate patients and there are protocols we have to go through due to the effects of the drug. It’s a great medication when used appropriately but I would not give the medication unless in a hospital setting. Plus if a patient has sleep apnea then we would have to keep an eye on the patients respiratory rate. Plus he could have planned this for a while as he could have siphoned a small amount of Midaz each time he gave Midaz to give a dental patient.

  • @jamie6704
    @jamie6704 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Thanks for staying consistent and reliable. Also, for being a woman with a kind and big heart. You are one of my favorite youtubers for the amount of things you do for others.

    • @KendallRae
      @KendallRae  ปีที่แล้ว +53

      🥲🩵 this made my day, thank you!

    • @LAINA.byoutiful
      @LAINA.byoutiful ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Very well said! 💯🙏🏻💙✨️

    • @jamie6704
      @jamie6704 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@KendallRae of course! Stay golden! ♡

  • @BrookeClyde
    @BrookeClyde ปีที่แล้ว +212

    So frustrating that they took it to trial with the evidence they had. If they would’ve waited, something else may have come up. Now he can’t ever be held accountable.

  • @nickprice7752
    @nickprice7752 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Authorities dropped the ball on this one and it’s sickening. He killed Tom and that’s clear but they should never have taken that case to trial with the evidence they had.. I hope this man gets what’s coming to him

  • @OliviaMarieABC
    @OliviaMarieABC ปีที่แล้ว +241

    I went to school with his daughter and actually went on a date with his (now passed away) son. His daughter, Jill, is absolutely incredible and such a strong and beautiful young woman.

    • @tammyehim1827
      @tammyehim1827 ปีที่แล้ว

      What happened to his son?

    • @OliviaMarieABC
      @OliviaMarieABC ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@tammyehim1827 did you watch the video? He …. himself

  • @aliyahunleashed
    @aliyahunleashed ปีที่แล้ว +99

    why would they not wait to charge him with the murder until they had more legitimate evidence....? what an incompetent prosecution. he definitely did it though.

  • @jessicamazariegos749
    @jessicamazariegos749 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I think Gil is a sociopath who love bombed them both and lured in Linda. He enjoyed the games he played to pull all of the strings and manipulate them. Then when Linda wised up, the game was over. His ego wouldn’t let anyone else win the game so he took out Tom and moved on. He’s the real monster to watch out for

    • @meowmachine9147
      @meowmachine9147 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And monsters like that alwa6s find new victims. Someone married him after Tom's death. Yuk.

  • @True_dancer000
    @True_dancer000 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    In my opinion he did it because during the interview, he denied knowing about the medicine they were talking about but then he ends up having it in his office..?? So he went from “not knowing” to having 2 whole bottles in his office? Make it make sense…

    • @katiedunson5400
      @katiedunson5400 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The idea that he "didn't even know about the medication " was part of what got me. Every dentist knows what midazolam is and is used for. He's guilty and can never be charged again. Sad all around.

  • @TheQuietRiotProductions
    @TheQuietRiotProductions ปีที่แล้ว +365

    I do understand the not guilty verdict but I do believe that he was guilty of the murder of Tom. Even though he was the one having an affair with Tom’s wife I believe he knew deep down that it was Tom who Linda loved and he couldn’t take that. I can imagine him wanting Tom to be jealous of him.

    • @MaryTheresa1986
      @MaryTheresa1986 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly. Getting to share Linda wasn't good enough. He wanted her all to himself. He wanted to be the last man standing.

  • @allyrivait9150
    @allyrivait9150 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’ve fully switched from watching Netflix to just rewatching every single one of your videos 😂 you’re amazing at what you do

  • @SuzieB7283
    @SuzieB7283 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    He is guilty in my eyes! That smug look on his face says “I got away with it!” Ugh! And because they tried him for murder & he was found not guilty, if new evidence came forward, they cannot try him again! What a disgrace! Rip to Tom & many prayers to his family! I feel like had his wife not started this affair, Tom would still be here though!

    • @sandrapisani9225
      @sandrapisani9225 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Of course Tom would still be here, yes, and so would his son :(. Just tragic.

  • @madisonl3401
    @madisonl3401 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Meatball was such a joy!!!!!! Thank you for gracing us with your presence Queen Meaty 🙏😫😍🥰

  • @ToBeLoved121
    @ToBeLoved121 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I just don't understand how a drug only obtained by doctors and dentists AND his exact car being at the scene isn't enough evidence...??

    • @Scrappicat
      @Scrappicat ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That doesn't mean Gil used it or killed him. There's still reasonable doubt. You have to be able to put Gil in that car and that drug in his hand. They couldn't do that. No fingerprints on the bottles and they can't say for sure it was Gil in the SUV.

    • @molly-ki1xb
      @molly-ki1xb ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Scrappicatdid they have any explanation at all for how it ended up in his system and caused his death though?

    • @Scrappicat
      @Scrappicat ปีที่แล้ว

      @@molly-ki1xb I don't know if they did or not.

    • @mgreen1206
      @mgreen1206 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe he is guilty but I don’t think they presented enough evidence. I’m a nurse in Australia 🇦🇺 and work in a government run hospital and we have strict rules that we have to follow but I would think that in places like private dental practices the protocols would not be as strict

  • @cannabiscass
    @cannabiscass ปีที่แล้ว +485

    he got away with murder! that smug look on his face is truly sickening. i hope new evidence comes forward and justice can be served.

    • @Megabot_6000
      @Megabot_6000 ปีที่แล้ว

      no double jeopardy, even if they found new evidence and even if Gil confesses to how he did it, he can't be charged for it again. like OJ Simpson

    • @shadowxoxo
      @shadowxoxo ปีที่แล้ว +81

      He can’t be tried again.

    • @szybake9629
      @szybake9629 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Could they charge him with first degree? Since this charge was 2nd.

    • @Sleepparalysisdemon2
      @Sleepparalysisdemon2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@szybake9629No. Double jeopardy, still.

    • @Shefreaks1997
      @Shefreaks1997 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no retrial is possible? why is that?

  • @kavitadeva
    @kavitadeva ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Watching on the replay 10 hours later. I just want to thank you Kendall for being so calming while covering such painful cases.
    When I hear all you are involved in, I just hope you don't StressOut while you follow your dreams and passions.

  • @mollyplays6009
    @mollyplays6009 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cant stop watching the cat behind kendall it's so busy 😂

  • @lindatakahashi9268
    @lindatakahashi9268 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    What a nightmare with these 3! Did they not see if Tom actually met up with anyone else or even got out of his car? As a nurse, versed is injected, which we usually use to sedate prior to intubating etc. Linda & Gil both had access. Just because none is missing doesn't mean they didn't take it from a patient or only used half on a patient etc. Also, if it was Gil, to inject him properly, I doubt Tom would allow it unless Gil lied & said it was an antibiotic etc. to treat who knows what. The prosecutor blew this whole case, and should of gathered more evidence or hired someone to do a little more investigating. Who knows how many patients any of these 2 was around to administer Versed and etc. It's not considered missing if it's prescribed to a patient and not fully used. Most meds are wasted as only certain amount is prescribed and the rest we waste in a toliet with a witness. They jumped the gun and now there is a murderer walking.

  • @Useeeerrrrr12344
    @Useeeerrrrr12344 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Wow Linda let this man in her life. Her husband and son dead because of her selfish decision. Even though what she did wasn’t illegal, it was definitely heartless. She’s guilty in this.

  • @CosmicSirenMandi
    @CosmicSirenMandi ปีที่แล้ว +60

    IMO Gill got away not with one but two murders. He killed his so-called best friend and his son who ended up killing himself over his father's death 💔 I know in the US at least if they found more evidence that pins him to Tom's murder, they can't re-trial him because double jeopardy laws which will keep him out of prison.

  • @giannafazio1679
    @giannafazio1679 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    as someone from Kingston & ukster county, I can tell you from personal experience, the “proeffsionals” and police work here is always broken. Cases in this county, and area are rarely investigated appropriately. Police and investigators in this area are crooks, and families rarely receive justice. Kingston is practically the ghetto in half the parts these days, which is why I moved. Its terrible, and I cant explain how many cases go unsolved, or taken to court with minimal evidence.

  • @rhondatucker4217
    @rhondatucker4217 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    What's absolutely appalling to me about this case is now he can't ever be charged..... He said himself that he "replaced" those things in the emergency kit..... Those poor kids have no dad now.... And I think he that Linda was going to stay with Tom and end their relationship.... Which I'm still trying to figure out how Tom could be so fine with their relationship..... I can't wrap my head around that.... Not my monkeys, not my circus.... But there's no way I could even forgive someone for cheating..... But that's just me..... Maybe all Tom ever wanted was his own family and that's why he stayed.... It's just a shame that the police and the DA went to court without enough evidence.... Because now he's gotten away with a murder he can never be charged for.....

  • @niniewaewa5147
    @niniewaewa5147 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    The fact that a drug available to a doctor or dentist was found in Tom’s system, one known to have serious consequences for people with sleep apnea, that Gill was so close to Tom and he’d know he had sleep apnea, the extremes Tom went to to save his relationship with Linda including pretending to be his Mom (!) spell GUILTY to me. When was the naughty app installed on Tom’s phone? Maybe Gill did that to make it look like the death was caused by something or someone else. I fully believe Tom is guilty.

    • @itslaylaplays.8869
      @itslaylaplays.8869 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tom is guilty?

    • @Sharletwitch
      @Sharletwitch ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@itslaylaplays.8869obviously they meant Gil and they just mistyped.

    • @christy3d
      @christy3d ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah cause he is very cunning and manipulative obviously

  • @trish1344
    @trish1344 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this is so tragic. especially about Tom’s son. I think it’s very likely Gil killed him, but that they absolutely did not have enough evidence to convict him. This is just so tragic. Tom sounded like a wonderfully kind man. I can’t imagine how his family feels. Sending them all the love in the world.

  • @Emrose93
    @Emrose93 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    They took Gil to court with barely any evidence to begin with.. his poor family have nothing now which is so sad..

  • @LeeLee-cp3rv
    @LeeLee-cp3rv ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Guuurrrrllll you are soooo good at telling a story. I could listen to you talk about anything!

  • @denisejaydub
    @denisejaydub ปีที่แล้ว +226

    i’m just grossed out by the wife. She may have not ended his life but because of the affair she has blood on her hands

    • @jessiejnbaptiste3791
      @jessiejnbaptiste3791 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Exactly. I hope she feel guilty about this

    • @Pumpkin_king1205
      @Pumpkin_king1205 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Just because she had an affair dosnt mean she has blood on her hands

    • @peng7771
      @peng7771 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@Pumpkin_king1205spotted the cheater lol

    • @Pumpkin_king1205
      @Pumpkin_king1205 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peng7771 lol says who? You a random person on the internet that has no idea who I am what I do or literally anything else about me ? Right right right …. You can tell my wife if you want I’ll give you her number

    • @Pumpkin_king1205
      @Pumpkin_king1205 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@angrob22 no not really …. She cheated that’s all she didn’t murder anyone she didn’t do anything else except have an a relationship with another person the person who has blood on their hands is Gil no anyone else

  • @10qwertypoiu
    @10qwertypoiu ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kendall never stop making these couple vids they’re so interesting

  • @lykoslove1053
    @lykoslove1053 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    you're the only true crime TH-camr I watch

    • @terridemaio7334
      @terridemaio7334 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh she's one of many I watch I'm super Hooked

    • @taylorchameleon
      @taylorchameleon ปีที่แล้ว +4

      she's the only one i watch too!

    • @Maria.0.1
      @Maria.0.1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She’s my fav with Stephanie from Rotten Mango and Danielle

    • @terridemaio7334
      @terridemaio7334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Maria.0.1 oh I watch Danielle And Stephanie to

    • @lfmn84
      @lfmn84 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@terridemaio7334 try Emma Kenny. She is amazing as well. Deep dive. Very well done videos.

  • @kybreesy
    @kybreesy ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for covering this case! It took place in my hometown. Still so crazy to us.

  • @Celineb2005
    @Celineb2005 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What a perfect timing. I’ve been sick in bed for the last few days binge watching your videos that I missed out on and just finished the last one 😂
    And Kendall you look gorgeous in todays video! ❤

  • @DeletedCalibrations
    @DeletedCalibrations ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That was a shock to hear they went to trial with no solid evidence. I was expecting to hear they found something else or that it was still an open case. What in the world were they thinking? We can't just go throwing people in prison based on headlights, drugs that weren't touched, and weird behavior. He is definitely suspicious, but there would be so many more false convictions if that were the case.

  • @bananablisss
    @bananablisss ปีที่แล้ว +33

    No one should ever be murdered, but man, what a loss.

  • @kendrajohnson9049
    @kendrajohnson9049 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love watching the cat's position change in the editing. So cute❤

  • @lionelluva
    @lionelluva ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I wish Tom took more of a stand when it came to the affair. It literally cost him his life. Gill is 💯 guilty.

  • @Kejti_kk
    @Kejti_kk ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Happy to have you here with new case 😍😍 I literally went all the way back to your old videos , currently on Marilyn Monroe conspiracy theory 😅that's how much you are missed!!!😂❤️

  • @MeghanBelhumeur
    @MeghanBelhumeur ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Whyyyy would they take him to court without solid evidence??? 🤦‍♀️ terribly frustrating.

  • @vrudolph2735
    @vrudolph2735 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow thank you for covering this case!! I am from Kingston and remember this well. I actually used to work out at that same planet fitness. So insane when the case happened in your town!

    • @vrudolph2735
      @vrudolph2735 ปีที่แล้ว

      And PS- Everyone I know in the community believes That Gil was guilty and got away with murder

  • @Nikki-mx5my
    @Nikki-mx5my ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I did a double take when you mentioned Saugerties, NY. I live in this area and never heard of this case. I now kind of want to research local sources on this whole situation to see what was in the news at the time (if anything). We definitely don’t have a full picture of what happened. I have to wonder why the case was brought to trial with such weak circumstantial evidence. Ulster County is fairly rural, it isn’t as if there’s murder trials happening all the time. I wonder if that creep Gil is still living around here. Oof.

  • @juliawcj111
    @juliawcj111 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Definitely all kinds of crazy was going on here, husband letting wife date best friend, letting her decide who she chooses, Gil pretending to be CIA through Samantha. I feel like I heard about this case years ago, not on a podcast, one of the televised true crime shows. The theory was that Gil showed up in the gym parking lot, as shown on camera, that he had 2 coffees, the coffee for Tom was drugged. The pants unzipped is quite the conundrum. Anybody’s guess on this one! Blessings always Kendall to you, Josh and baby Holly 🌈💜

  • @Goethe2andFro
    @Goethe2andFro ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's really incredible how they figured out it was a vehicle with a light issue and traced it to his old suv. Investigators are amazing!

  • @shandizzleb7609
    @shandizzleb7609 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    That’s terrible they can never prosecute Gill now for Tom’s murder

  • @YepItsMeMsJMC0721
    @YepItsMeMsJMC0721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I lost my mom when I was young because of cancer and *I* have thoughts of ending things. I can’t imagine losing a parent in these circumstances. I can’t even imagine the pain that his son must’ve endured. That breaks my heart. I hope Gil suffers for the rest of his life. The life he doesn’t deserve to have.

  • @kellymaganini9228
    @kellymaganini9228 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    why would they start a trial with practically no evidence? its not like he can be tried again if new evidence comes up.

  • @tiffanyhatfield44
    @tiffanyhatfield44 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The biggest tell I think is the Midazolam being in Tom’s autopsy report and Gil being in possession of that substance and him ADMITTING that he refills the jars when needed. Reasonable doubt? Sure. But the jury overlooking this piece of evidence is truly aggravating. Gil knows about his sleep apnea and he absolutely would’ve known what doses of Midazolam could injure or result in death could occur. I mean is it really that far fetched to put 2 and 2 together and realize that he’s responsible???!

  • @angelinarodriguez3118
    @angelinarodriguez3118 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    U truly have been my escape for many years, thank you for sharing everyone’s story and always finding ways where we the viewers can help

  • @Prettyfeather
    @Prettyfeather ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sad about his son. This family has seen a lot of loss and my prayers go out to them.
    Not enough evidence, wish they would of held off on taking this to court.
    Infuriating to not have justice. Dk if they ever will get it. He didn't deserve to lose his life.

  • @PhDManic
    @PhDManic ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He did say he refills the emergancy kits, and if he knew they'd find it, he would know to change a used vile of midazolam for an unused one, since he is incharge of refilling and it would be immediatly suspicious if there was even a slightly used vile in there. The car light shadow is pretty damning but there's no saying they were parked together just because they happened to be there at the same time and wanted to say hi. Not sure, I do lean more towards suspician though, he went to such weird lengths to break people up, and pretending to be your own mother or work for the cia, he was a bit screw loose about it.

  • @NevadaLamb
    @NevadaLamb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So glad you covered this case!! I just watched the 48 Hours episode on it and got so confused about the events that happened. You made it so clear!

  • @heezypeasy8611
    @heezypeasy8611 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I remember watching his interrogation a while back ago and feeling that he was guilty. I still feel that way.

  • @xarenanotmyrealname4134
    @xarenanotmyrealname4134 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I swear at one point it looked like the kitty was staring at her with full focus like it was paying attention to the case.

  • @cshaffer8258
    @cshaffer8258 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I think Gil found out that Tom’s wife was going to stay with Tom. And I think that pushed him over the edge. Unfortunately, there just wasn’t enough evidence to convict him. Even though he got away with murder, I am very sure he will get put in his place when he arrives to the Pearly Gates!

  • @arlenecastro9149
    @arlenecastro9149 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wonder why linda was never a suspect?? She was the one having an affair

  • @TrueCrime.and.DeathMetal
    @TrueCrime.and.DeathMetal 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always come here for a synopsis of the cases that Crime Weekly is about to cover 😂 just doin my homework. Also your makeup is bomb in this video! Wowowow!

  • @bridgetmay6251
    @bridgetmay6251 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I never knew this happened so close to my hometown 😢 Tom deserved better

  • @kyrarey4977
    @kyrarey4977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely cannot STAND when someone cheats on their partner. Especially when a friend or someone you know knows that you are in a relationship or marriage with a specific person and they either try to flirt with your partner/spouse or actually sleeps with your partner/spouse.

  • @TheBotInGoldBoots
    @TheBotInGoldBoots ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It was gill. He replaced the entire emergency kit, which is why his fingerprints weren't there at all, even though they should have been.

  • @comfortable89
    @comfortable89 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I read “love triangle” and was STILL shocked to hear the love triangle 😭

  • @lindab9916
    @lindab9916 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It may be only circumstantial evidence, but I think Gil is guilty of the murder. He had access to the drugs, his fingerprints may have been wiped off the bottles. His car with the exact headlight scenario was at the scene of the crime at the right time, and of, course, he had motive in wanting to be with Linda. Sad that he did not face justice.

  • @kimberlypainter5169
    @kimberlypainter5169 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So happy to see my notifications pop-up with your channel!!! Between this channel and Mile Higher, you make my overnights much more enjoyable ❤

  • @dinaliz74
    @dinaliz74 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I didn't hear anybody talking about ... tracing his cell phone for location in those morning hours..

  • @beckierooen3349
    @beckierooen3349 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kendall those extensions are working for you girl!!! So gorgeous I am obsessed

  • @olilumgbalu5653
    @olilumgbalu5653 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of the more confusing aspects of this case is how similar Tom and Gil look.

    • @ramonaagachi
      @ramonaagachi 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      exactly, she had a type

  • @michelegleadall2765
    @michelegleadall2765 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omgosshhh I have not seen your uploads in a month idk how your notifications just changed off for me 😢 I love the kittys new bed!!!

  • @Lkjhgf921
    @Lkjhgf921 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m confused on why people are torn? It seems that it was obviously Gil. Can someone tell me why they think it WASN’T him? 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Sleepparalysisdemon2
      @Sleepparalysisdemon2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is NO. definitive evidence that connects him to the crime. Zero. Just because he had an affair, or is a sh****y person, doesn’t mean he killed him. They shouldn’t have taken him to court without evidence. Why do you think he did it? What would your argument be? There was zero evidence tying him to the case. He shouldn’t have been taken to trial. People have said his” smug look”, but no one can base his guilt or innocence based on that.

    • @Shefreaks1997
      @Shefreaks1997 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't understand either. In fact, I can't believe Kendall is not sure he did it.

    • @Sleepparalysisdemon2
      @Sleepparalysisdemon2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Shefreaks1997 There is zero evidence linking him to the murder. Nothing. When you go after a conviction, you can’t convict someone based on your emotions. He may have a crappy person, but that doesn’t mean he committed murder. I can believe she wasn’t sure, there was zero evidence . Personal opinions are one thing, but you can’t take someone to trial because of a feeling.

  • @janetmuniz891
    @janetmuniz891 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Of course there no finger prints in the emergency kit. It's exactly that, AN EMERGENCY KIT. As a dental assistant, in our state, we not only need an emergency kit, but also an epi pen. We have it just in case and in the past 10 years we've never had to use it. However, we HAVE to order a new one every year, because they expire. Hence, no one has had to open the kit. Meaning the medazepam he's using is from different bottle. No sane doctor would use their supply from their emergency kit, makes no sense. Did they check order invoices from the last month? We can't purchase it without his license number.

  • @alisiabakerjb
    @alisiabakerjb ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The saddest part about this case was his son took his life at 18! He was so happy when he was born! Linda will always live with this guilt and feel responsible for both of their deaths. I hope she knows it's not her fault.
    I didn't see the case, but do we know if there was a phone conversation with Tom and Gil the night before or early that morning? I think he was guilty, but there is room for doubt. Had they had something, just one thing to deal the deal, then that would've been great, but there was no DNA or finger prints. Still, I feel like he did do this to him.

  • @leahostrum6055
    @leahostrum6055 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello my favorite TH-camr EVER!!!! Can you cover the 8 passengers please once more comes out about them. Trying to watch it with other TH-camrs and girl you’re better at covering stories 😁😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lovealways729
    @lovealways729 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so easy sometimes to think that chemicals in our body can give us an illusion of love... love is not selfish and cruel...

  • @shawnajataysia
    @shawnajataysia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The fact that he told his wife to hold back on telling his bestfriend the news goes to show what kind of person he was despite what they was putting him thru.

  • @lucbelcher7256
    @lucbelcher7256 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is actually a case where I think there is beyond reasonable doubt.

  • @kathrynvantil6110
    @kathrynvantil6110 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My heart does not go out to Linda!!! She's the cause of this whole situation 😞😞

  • @HillCatPc
    @HillCatPc ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a theory- the husband was also messing around with the other guy. I bet they met there in the back of that parking lot to fool around on many occasions. When the husband threatened to tell everyone that they had been intimate the other guy took him out. Or he just took him out to get him away from his wife. But I do believe they were doing more than just talking in that car. Which is why he didn’t care if the wife continued to see him. Which is why his pants were undone and seat laid back.

    • @Nikki-mx5my
      @Nikki-mx5my ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have to be honest, that thought did cross my mind as well.

  • @lunanovit
    @lunanovit ปีที่แล้ว +2

    watching a case that is so close to my home is absolutely wild

  • @Crystalburns2001
    @Crystalburns2001 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's sad that the son took his life after this happened to his father smh thoughts and prayers for there family my heart breaks for them all 💔💔💔

  • @janedoe7229
    @janedoe7229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is an insane story. From start to finish. I’m not surprised at the not guilty verdict. I am surprised the DA took this to trial with so little evidence.

  • @tsholofelomoipolai4536
    @tsholofelomoipolai4536 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Kendall, I'm loving your hair🎉

  • @katwithcats25
    @katwithcats25 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This case reminds me of the “Michelle “Shelly” Michael” case that took place (in part) at the WV hospital I was trained at back in 2005. I never knew the details beyond paralyzing the victim and setting his house on fire while he was still alive. We even reviewed the medication used in several of my classes since she had access to it as a pediatric nurse.

  • @BooStarr888
    @BooStarr888 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happy birthday meatball. I know she’s a Virgo like me. 🎉❤😊

  • @christinapugh8848
    @christinapugh8848 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tom passed on my birthday. I currently drive a Pathfinder(not back then) and I used to live in that area and would drive to Kingston to go to my dentist. I actually lived there during time of trial & didn’t know it bc I’ve never heard of this case.

  • @jessawhite6429
    @jessawhite6429 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree with the prosecution that it would be a crazy coincidence that if it weren’t Gil it would be someone who drove the same car, with the same light pattern, who also had access to midazolam 🤔 also he sold his car weeks after? SUS.

  • @wolfpack4821
    @wolfpack4821 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I use factor and the meals are bomb! You can select the meals you want out of a whole menu. I personally buy some for the week and freeze some meals for the next week

  • @justinedean1917
    @justinedean1917 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kendall you are such a wonderful story teller the effort you put in and the empathy you have for the victims is amazing thank you 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏

  • @juannaylor6270
    @juannaylor6270 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A topic that you didn't mentioned.
    Drug, typically a drug for any doctor office drugs are tracked, did they checked from the time of death to the time any of this drugs got picked up from the doctors office by the disposal company.

  • @mjob1212
    @mjob1212 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    They took that to trial with barely any physical evidence… but I believe Gil is guilty!

  • @ohsnapitzjaylen6855
    @ohsnapitzjaylen6855 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:37 its the playing with the cat for me I love you Kendall

  • @monicanath4859
    @monicanath4859 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Prayers for Tom’s children and their mothers ❤!