I'm going through it right now, some days i feel like it is what it is, others day I feel down bad. Your words are reassuring mate, the best way and only way is FORWARD. See them for who they really are & how disposable u are to them. Your outlook will definitely change. Focus on your self-improvement bruthas
keep pushin through bro; even on the bad days keep the better days in mind and believe that youll get to that point if you keep on improving yourself in every avenue 💯
Honestly plain old rejection is pretty bad but what hurts more is that every chick has a boyfriend. Every chick I ever pursued has had a boyfriend and it is really discouraging to think every girl is taken. There was this girl at my job that was pursuing me hard. I had girls pursue me before but this girl was coming on to me hard. She was younger than me and I could tell she would get nervous around me and she acted like a little girl with a crush. She had bad anxiety and social skills and did not seem very social so I became friends with her. I found her to be very odd but in a cute way and I thought no way this girl has a boyfriend because I can't see her even having friends even because she is so awkward plus the way she was acting obsessed over me made me think there is no way. Lo and behold my coworker tells me she has one and I confront her and she says it's true. I am actually a attractive guy and attract a good amount of women and that really shows you the darkside of dating. Every girl that has ever shown interest towards me has had a boyfriend. Literally every single one. When I first started leveling up I got a huge confidence boost from the amount of female attention I got but I quickly saw the dark side of them by being a higher value male. They would leave their boyfriends for me and if not they will at least want my attention and validation. Why would I want to be with a girl that would do that? Next time a guy better comes along she will do the same to me. I have had girls flirt and stare at me while in their boyfriends arms. This one girl that asked ME out had her boyfriend drop her off on the date and told him it was a "study date". She later revealed to me that was her boyfriend. It's really sad to think about all those dudes that have girlfriends and have no idea their girlfriends see them as low and want another man. Yes I achieved higher status but all I did was focus on the gym. I don't even have a car or a good job. All it took was improving my physique. I am in a unique situation here because I guess I do find success but I also see them for what they are. Really, focus on christian women only bro. They are the only ones worth it. If i could give advice to a christian girl i would say go for christian guys only too. If a man is not a christian then he is likely a degenerate or atleast wants to be. The only girls that won't let their need for attention cloud their morality are christian girls. God is the only one that can keep people in check and if you aren't following God then you are gonna live a sinful life. The reason girls are so unfaithful today is because of opportunities from men that are also chasing sin (premarital sex). I know focusing only on christian women may seem boring because it seems like you are limiting your options but it really is the only solution and this is coming from someone that is considered a "chad". Yes christian women are still women but they want a man that is a man of God and that is rare today. When they find one they will definitely appreciate him. Like how a man would appreciate a girl that is a virgin and traditional. Attracting women at a high level is worthless if those women will only bring you pain and destruction on your path. Be smart and continue leveling up while focusing on actual good women (christian women). Not saying every christian women will be good just like how many christian men are living in sin but you get what I mean. Sorry for the long wall of text but I found your channel a while ago and I see that you are a christian and just wanted to share this with you since I have finally come to the realization that 99% of women aren't worth it. I guess I always knew but I finally accepted it.
During the last four months (almost) I felt heart-broken on and off with a girl (intermittently). I was not used to it... Since late February or anytime in March, after dating her once and being rejected, I eventually stopped texting her and talking to her, and we've only saw each other in the same group. I felt increasingly uncomfortable when I saw her speaking, and almost a week ago I could not repress more my despair, and I acted as a villain. I shared the truth with the other members that I fell in love with her since December. It is like a spiral of emotions, but now my focus is to improve my social skills, change psychologist, and take everything I learned with me. Great video, I love your friendly down to earth vibe. That feeling is a strong motivator as you've said. 😊 ❤
I’d say it’s only derailed me. I try and try to do the self improvement thing but I keep getting pulled back into the void especially when I try to date and keep getting rejected. Everything else in my life is going good on paper though.
I have lived thru some serious painful shit, like unreasonably painful. And hearthbreak still hurt the most, even on second/third/fourts occasion. :D Fifth one was cool tho, she was a bitch-.
Love the vibe of your videos. It’s like a therapy session.
love 🙏🏽
Same here.
You can tell he's a top quality dude
I'm going through it right now, some days i feel like it is what it is, others day I feel down bad. Your words are reassuring mate, the best way and only way is FORWARD. See them for who they really are & how disposable u are to them. Your outlook will definitely change. Focus on your self-improvement bruthas
keep pushin through bro; even on the bad days keep the better days in mind and believe that youll get to that point if you keep on improving yourself in every avenue 💯
I'm a woman and I found this very helpful .
I'm gonna watch this daily till I move past this phase.
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Honestly plain old rejection is pretty bad but what hurts more is that every chick has a boyfriend. Every chick I ever pursued has had a boyfriend and it is really discouraging to think every girl is taken. There was this girl at my job that was pursuing me hard. I had girls pursue me before but this girl was coming on to me hard. She was younger than me and I could tell she would get nervous around me and she acted like a little girl with a crush. She had bad anxiety and social skills and did not seem very social so I became friends with her. I found her to be very odd but in a cute way and I thought no way this girl has a boyfriend because I can't see her even having friends even because she is so awkward plus the way she was acting obsessed over me made me think there is no way. Lo and behold my coworker tells me she has one and I confront her and she says it's true. I am actually a attractive guy and attract a good amount of women and that really shows you the darkside of dating. Every girl that has ever shown interest towards me has had a boyfriend. Literally every single one. When I first started leveling up I got a huge confidence boost from the amount of female attention I got but I quickly saw the dark side of them by being a higher value male. They would leave their boyfriends for me and if not they will at least want my attention and validation. Why would I want to be with a girl that would do that? Next time a guy better comes along she will do the same to me. I have had girls flirt and stare at me while in their boyfriends arms. This one girl that asked ME out had her boyfriend drop her off on the date and told him it was a "study date". She later revealed to me that was her boyfriend.
It's really sad to think about all those dudes that have girlfriends and have no idea their girlfriends see them as low and want another man. Yes I achieved higher status but all I did was focus on the gym. I don't even have a car or a good job. All it took was improving my physique. I am in a unique situation here because I guess I do find success but I also see them for what they are. Really, focus on christian women only bro. They are the only ones worth it. If i could give advice to a christian girl i would say go for christian guys only too. If a man is not a christian then he is likely a degenerate or atleast wants to be. The only girls that won't let their need for attention cloud their morality are christian girls. God is the only one that can keep people in check and if you aren't following God then you are gonna live a sinful life. The reason girls are so unfaithful today is because of opportunities from men that are also chasing sin (premarital sex). I know focusing only on christian women may seem boring because it seems like you are limiting your options but it really is the only solution and this is coming from someone that is considered a "chad". Yes christian women are still women but they want a man that is a man of God and that is rare today. When they find one they will definitely appreciate him. Like how a man would appreciate a girl that is a virgin and traditional. Attracting women at a high level is worthless if those women will only bring you pain and destruction on your path. Be smart and continue leveling up while focusing on actual good women (christian women). Not saying every christian women will be good just like how many christian men are living in sin but you get what I mean. Sorry for the long wall of text but I found your channel a while ago and I see that you are a christian and just wanted to share this with you since I have finally come to the realization that 99% of women aren't worth it. I guess I always knew but I finally accepted it.
i hear you, thank you brother 🙏🏽
Thank you for posting this information, especially your promotion of God to give you strength through the hard times!!!
100% 🙏🏽 appreciate the love
gods light is brightest in the dark. honestly the lowest points of my life like a breakup have made me closer to god
(Heartbreak and rejection is by far the greatest motivator for any man on the planned)
motivator to do what sayori did.
hey man just want to say i really love watching your video. I think it really is the truth
During the last four months (almost) I felt heart-broken on and off with a girl (intermittently). I was not used to it... Since late February or anytime in March, after dating her once and being rejected, I eventually stopped texting her and talking to her, and we've only saw each other in the same group. I felt increasingly uncomfortable when I saw her speaking, and almost a week ago I could not repress more my despair, and I acted as a villain. I shared the truth with the other members that I fell in love with her since December.
It is like a spiral of emotions, but now my focus is to improve my social skills, change psychologist, and take everything I learned with me.
Great video, I love your friendly down to earth vibe. That feeling is a strong motivator as you've said. 😊 ❤
Needed this video today man fr
I've made the most gains when I harnessed past disappointments and let downs.
It's like rocket fuel that burns steady
I’d say it’s only derailed me. I try and try to do the self improvement thing but I keep getting pulled back into the void especially when I try to date and keep getting rejected. Everything else in my life is going good on paper though.
Great insight brother!
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I've been heartbroken alot of time and now is when I draw the line
Haha love that aint thinkin bout you is the background music
haha you caught it
I have lived thru some serious painful shit, like unreasonably painful. And hearthbreak still hurt the most, even on second/third/fourts occasion. :D Fifth one was cool tho, she was a bitch-.