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I think we should stop using the term nice guy

I can back up Hispanics/latinas for being reliable matches 😂. My collision point is if they’d then emphasize having “traditional values” which basically meant “guy pays for everything forever”

All this energy and potential waiting to unlock something great. Maybe us guys should forget women and get together and build something awesome.

Low key it’s fun saying no to people

I'm cooked.

Yes, do these things, but don’t do it to be more attractive to women because their checklist never ends.

I understand having lived my teens and early 20s in Europe, and already close to 20 years ago, makes me a bit (or more than a bit) unqualified to comment, but I'll give my 2 cents anyway, and I'll probably end up being long-winded... My point of view on what you say is it might be very true in your area, or online, but it doesn't have to be like this everywhere. When we become wise to the big differences that separate us from women, we sometimes forget that we still have much more in common than that. And what I mean is that women are also sometimes sick of games, sick of living like every single one of their peers, ticking off checklists about guys and counting green and red flags. Sometimes girls want a joyride just like us, and they're simply not that into calculating and judging every single step of the way. What really pays off, aside from "grinding" (not really sure what you mean by that anyway, is that referring mostly to content producing, investing, working..?) is being and exploring yourself in an unashamed, courageous way. And this means both doing what you like, studying what you like, but also pursuing the girls you like! And I don't mean simping (though as I argued under another video, it's not necessarily always bad, if I understand the term as "complimenting" and "spending time on") but really just "making your moves on the board" to make a girl your girl. Sure, at young ages it probably won't last long, sure you will spend some money (not if you find unconventional girls like I was saying), but the point is you will live, you will gain valuable experience, and you will "learn how to love": the most important thing to gain experience in, is heartbreak and love. And waiting till some fabled "time when you're ready" means you will not have that valuable experience and you'll be worse off. So I recommend not even asking yourself IF you want a girlfriend. Just try to get a girlfriend you LIKE. And if it turns out she was not right, try again. And again. And again!

What we all want to know is if Rachel knows now... 🥲

Total waste of time (especially for an ugly guy like me) and it makes you look pathetic.

As a 38 year old, I'm maybe a bit of "distance" from this term and what it means. On one hand, I see "simping" as flirting, but a one-sided kind, which by the way always existed, it's nothing new. On the other maybe it is indeed a new "epidemic", thanks to social media kind of promoting it. Still, I think I used social media to actually start some good relationships with women quite often, and I think SOME "simping" was always involved. I think it's about how one does it.

Simps should be in jail

As someone that read Dr. Glover’s “no more Mr nice guy” what I realized is that to men need to love themselves as who they are just as they are. If you’re a nice person, continue to be nice. A woman might like a “bad boy” but that is what she deems attractive. She’s just one woman that’s all it’s not a reflection of your capabilities. Most women I know who are in loving relationships are not with men who aren’t kind or aren’t nice. Only emotionally damaged woman seek men that are emotionally unavailable themselves. What Dr. Glover essentially says in his book, is that a nice guy is “codependent” meaning they put a girl on a pedestal and continually chase women even when being rejected. That is why, at the slightest moment that a woman doesn’t like you for who you are or stops trying to make the relationship work, you quickly change your attraction for her and go for someone that chooses you as you are. To men out there, there’s nothing wrong with being nice. A nice person is sociable and cares about others, but be direct in what you want. I genuinely believe that most nice men, aren’t nice because they want something in return, but because they’re genuinely nice. Lastly, the most important thing. “Nice guys” aren’t actually nice they label themselves as nice. That is, genuinely being nice is a good trait to have. As a guy that is around a lot of woman due to being in school, internship, and work (children’s center) that are all women dominated the most memorable woman I know are those that behave and do nice things for me. People really don’t realize just how great it feels for someone to just be nice and kind to others. It’s not the hot women, the over confident, or the women that is playful that is the most memorable, but the ones that are truly nice and do nice things for me that I remember the most. For example, I had a woman in my class give me an anime figure and another at my workplace bring a Starbucks drink unprompted. I’ll never forget these woman and would be with them romantically if they were available.

Simp channel

What if you dont want to have sex until you’re married

You are the next big self improvement TH-camr.

Factus after factus

In addition, lots of guys simp nowadays when it comes to romance is they often struggle with lack of intimacy.

Don't worry cause even Tupac got nailed with that "Too Nice" BS.

Just discovered your channel. Gave me several wake up calls!

your videos motivated me to get back on my shit keep up the consistency on the videos man

You speaking the truth

Gems on gems. Appreciate the consistent advice brother 🫡

I sent a friend request to a woman and we started talking, she saw my pics and I told her that if she doesn't find me attractive she can block me but she said I'm very attractive and we kept talking back and forth for 3 days and the conversation got very sexual and she would tell me all the stuff that she's going to do to me and after this conversation I had high hopes that I'm gonna get laid, all went well until out of the blue she said I don't want to do anything with you and said bye and blocked me with two texts no genuine reason, this happend yesterday and I'm still confused why would someone do something so immature. I feel kinda heartbroken but it is what it is, NEVER CATCHING FEELINGS AGAIN

That’s y I like establishing the friends with benefits relationship. A GF drains too much energy out of me at this moment.

I got tinder 2 days ago got 16 likes 1 super like tho I think it was an accident and 1 match but they never responded I’m so confused

Sometimes, a type 1 nice guy could transition into type 2 due to abuse like family turmoil, bullying, etc. An innocent mindset could turn into a ticking bomb if he's not aware of the reality that people really don't have your best interest at heart.

My girlfriends aren't allowed to have friends. Or family. They're actually not allowed to leave the house. All 5 of them.

Well I’m too ugly and short for a girlfriend, but this was an interesting insight

Your channel is great, I like the rawness and the insights you share! Keep it up been supporting since 1k

It's not only about looks, I was dating smaller guys, guys that earned less money than me, also overweight, skinny, whatever, I was looking for a male vibe, a good collection and a good heart and dude, was I disappointed.. A lot of man simply lack personal development.. They behave like kids..a lot of them are still unable to realize, name or process their current emotional state they're in, they're bad at communication.. I would never fall for the good looking guy in the long run if there's nothing more...maybe at first sight and for sexual attraction, but what keeps a relationship going is character Women can choose, yeah, but you know how disappointing it is when you realize again and again and again that this dude just wants you to get to bed whereas you're looking for sth serious Casual dating was invented by man and is benefiting them. It's always dangerous for women to have casual sex and mostly disappointing. I know some women who think about following the 4B movement, so it's not like women are happy with nowadays dating scene, but they don't even consider any place on earth to provide "better" man. Are you getting that?! Passport guys a looking for submissive women they can control, like having a 50ies fetish You wanna tell me that is a modern grown up relationship? That is a resistance of nowadays requirements men are not willing to achieve/develop like I mentioned above.. Men like to be superior and to be in control.. Nowadays they have to bring more to the table than in the 50ies..back than his word was the law and if he didn't have the best in mind for her he could always put pressure on her cause she knew without him she would be nothing and have nothing That's nothing favorable I'm happy for every truly in love couple, but I'm surely not jealous of anybody who is dependent on the good will of another person. Not gonna happen. Guys should ask themselves what's important for everyday life apart from money and house maintenance, why should a woman want to spend time with you without needing you to provide? That's the point.. Women developed their masculine side to compete in modern job world, men resisted to develop their feminine side for centuries and even fight it in modern world, as long as this continues it's not a match

everyone needs to realize that girls that are insecure go on these apps just to get attention and validation with no intent of building a relationship. The right girl will come your way. meet girls through your hobbies. find yourself a 5. girls that are 10's are a lost cause.

The most eye-opening video I’ve seen in a long time

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Be a leader, be desisive, don't be afraid to disagree with her, don't be a doormat.

C’mon guys! Asian dudes are not struggling with dating. All women love Asian guys and they are dominating so stop with the misinformation. Say positive and truthful things about Asian men, as opposed to untruthful negative things

I was in the friend zone years ago. I was 20 years old when I met her and she was 23. This was in 2005. There was no social media back then, not even smart phones. So I had to learn the hard way. Youngsters these days are blessed to have these kinds of things. But for those who still fall in the friend zone, it’s not the end of the world. It might be the best lesson you’ll ever have in relationships. I know I learned my lesson and haven’t fallen into that again. How did I leave the friend zone? I just walked away. I finally found my balls and I stopped answering her calls and texts. At times I was tempted to text but I stood my ground. She looked for me for the next two years after I stopped talking to her. She even sent me a friend request on Facebook but I didn’t accept her. By then I was so over her and I was having the time of my life. I struggled with other aspects but overall I had overcome the friend zone crap.