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As a young woman, who is looking for long term relationship, I can say that a woman's view on dating is very different. I do not want to enter in social factors of dating but I can talk about the problem of dating apps itself. I think the problem of dating apps is the companies behind them. They only want profit and they want us to stay on the app. The fact is that there are far more men on dating apps than women, so obviously women are going to naturally get more likes. Also, the reason we do not send likes is not only to related to the tradition of men doing the first move, but also because at some point we get overwhelmed (in a bad sense). Most of the guys I matched with, didn't try to have a conversation or know me better, before they asked me on a date and they would ask me almost right away. I understand it is because they want to increase their chances and it is not their fault tbh. Also, there is the paradox of choice that was mentioned in the video which prevents us to choosing when we are faced with too many choices. Another factor of dating apps is that they will make sure that you do not match with people you want to match with which is why it forces us to keep scrolling. Therefore, they ask us to pay extra if we want to get a match with the actual people we like. Generally, only men will pay for that. However, the biggest problem, that it is very hard to digest as a woman, is that we are considered the product of the dating apps, while men is the customer, the target market. But this is a completely different issue related to the Bumble scandal.

I go out and get women looking at me all the time. In shops, resteraunts, clubs. I go to the gym, I'm considered "very good looking". I get dating apps and get virtually 0 likes or matches and the ones I do get are from women that are from lets just say less desireable women. It's a f*cking scam designed to get you to pay money. I even paid for premium once and still got hardly any matches. I get that women have lots of options but 1 - 2 likes A WEEK?! I hope these apps go bust.

after you gain self conscious and become aware of what matters and what doesnt, life gets way better. good vid bro

Always LOVE your videos/takes on dating! I recently hired a dating coach with plenty of IG "clout" because i just have felt completely stuck in my dating life. Your words and your message is second to none and i appreciate the time you spend on this subject. Not to make out men as the victim here, but i genuinely don't think women understand how difficult it is for men in the dating scene. Me personally, Im trying to completely re-structure my life for the better with hopes to feel better about myself and to also attract a girl i'm actually interested in. Hope you have a great week, Derek.

As a black man on dating apps, I’m mostly cooked

Keep up the work! I’ll be here to the day you get to 1 million subscribers👍🔥

Love your vids! I also make vids on mental health, and a lot of your videos l have inspired mine. I agree with what you said, separate your self-worth from your “sexual marketplace status”. That makes a lot of sense🩷

I'll be honest, im not the guy American girls want because im "Asian". I tried everything. Sure, 5 people actually like me but I didn't like them back... in 20 years+ that I have live here, not 1 single girl that I like Have any interest in me whatsoever..... funny thing is, whenever I go back to the Philippines( I dont even mention Im USA citizen to them, I wear basketball short in PH and I dont even try) alot of young girls my age always wanted me... but in the US, 0. Sure im not tall, handsome, rich but seriously? In a huge state, no one wants me? That is how picky girls are in the US. They cant even fcking cook and their picky as fck

you videos make no sense, man... continue depressive propaganda for beta-males, ok..

This man doesn't just speak to me but he speaks through me. He saying what I've been thinking for years. Keep pushing twin

11:45 - I agreed that the problem is men simping, but the bigger problem is the amount of men that doesn't even realize they are simping.

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Yup People mostly women date for validation or attention no expectations to meet

Yeah I agree with what you said. Dating in 2024 is honestly sad. At the end of the day we all just want someone to love and care about us. Social media and dating apps have made it nearly impossible to find true love. Unfortunately there isn't a lot we can do about it either. It's just the way the world is now. As a single guy who's 26 trying to find a girl to settle down and have a family with, it's rough. At the end of the day we can only keep working on ourselves and trying to find someone to be with but nothing is guaranteed. Sometimes I wish that I grew up before technology. Great video dude!

20 guys at a party stand no chance to one that’s just there. If you try like this kid you’re one of the 20. Just be yourself and the day you forget about trying it’ll happen. You’ll be just there.

I’m a ugly guy just looking for a somewhat skinny girl to start a family with. The dating app has yielded nothing but pain! I’m a chicken when it come to face to face pick ups…. I just want a friend 😔

Pretty simple guys… if u r NOT at 6 ft tall, u will get filter out of most women’s search. Dating apps are for the top 20% of men. Average to below men need to stop wasting time and money on dating apps

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Hookup culture is primarily driven by women. Most men aren't having sex, and it isn't by choice. Women have more options, by and large. What are the implications? Well, they will be extremely picky, giving them the ability to be with the best. This also means that most men aren't getting play. Of course it takes 2 to tango. But if we look at the numbers, more women have more sex given their privilege of being the sexual selectors. Let's make a scenario out of it. 100 men and 100 women are looking to date/hookup. Considering women have more options because their sex is more desired, most of those women will choose the top tier, 5% of men. This means 5 guys will get play from 80-90% of these women. The average amount of sex that has occurred between both sexes is equal, but the true average (median) shows an astonishing disparity. 5 guys slept with the most women, but most men didn't get any play, especially in comparison to the average woman. This goes to show how much that hookup culture is driven by women.

This just goes to show it doesn't matter how much an average guy would try to improve. Women will always have more options than men and will always try to find the next best thing. If you aren't already physically set up to be the best, chances are very slim for you to be the best. Maybe if men didn't bring so much validation and attention to women, their options would dwindle and they would be less picky, but this isn't likely to happen anytime soon considering how many thirsty men are out there.

Dear god................. Most people i know my age (late 20s) are in relationships. Maybe the reason you aren't, is because you're making this strange video complaining on TH-cam. It's laughable.

below average men are invisible

Bruh I am getting likes but the profiles never come up😭

Sex dolls are the perfect replacement for the these narcissistic creatures..

yeah man all these apps are trash, gotta just start talking to chicks irl

Men, don't send any personal info about yourself, phone number, address, where you grew up, these are people seeking identity theft

Tinder is complete trash, waste of money and time this app aggravates me so much!!!!

Yeah even when you're an average girl like a six or a seven, you can still get about a thousand likes within a week. It's really hard. It's really stressful. I think it's smart to not marry someone off a dating site because some of these people are so used to swiping left or right. It seem like it's an addiction and the people that I've met who married someone off a dating app always end up catching them on the app again so I think that's smart. It's supposed to be for entertainment purposes only because it's madness

Idk if I’m average or not or above but, I do get matches and I don’t. The lonely hookups get old guys. Even myself like, not to flex, I’ve had a fair share of hookups on tinder and bumble but MOSTLY tinder. Tinder is a bottomless pit of sadness and loneliness. Hooking up does get old and when you don’t do it you feel odd and think something’s wrong with you but this entire time there’s nobody beside you. The clubbing, the hookups, it’s all just a waste man.

I can tell you from my expierence even if you get on dates its most likely waste of time. You get catfished, some just want a free dinner, a lot of will ghost you after even if you had a good feeling leaving you thinking. You get better treated if you meet somebody in real life who actually likes you a bit before dating.

that' beat fyah in the background.. what is it ? 🎼🎵🎶

Spittin dat crack 🔥 / .. they're predatory.. by nature 🌎

Girls are datable until the age they can join tinder. After that, they’re done until 27 or so.

Which girl would want to date a hombre who can't even say three without rolling his tongue? You want to remain a victime? Then keep your victim mentality.

Women just don’t understand what it’s like trying to date as a man. They can put in 1% effort. They literally can have an empty bio and they’ll still get hundreds of likes

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So. We’re cooked

Simps.. That's the problem. They are ruining dating and over inflating average girls egos.

I'm 5'11, shredded, six pack, top 5% strength on bench press for my weight, 160 pounds, make $100k in the tech sector. I get 1-5 likes per day. Mostly overweight women. Maybe 1-2 decent slightly above average match every week. I've also looks maxed, dress well, tailored my pictures, tested them on photofeeler getting top 20% attractiveness. Like this is me giving 85% investment of time, energy and intensity to get results. I probably could have banged I don't know like at least 1-2 chicks per month, but tbh its not worth it given the low quality of matches. American women are pretty fucked yes. Interestingly, 6' is the standard in America, but not in Europe or Asia. Metric system doesn't have that round number. Its hilarious to think that me being 5'11 disqualifies me by default to most women, even though it's a one inch difference. But yep, exactly. We're competing with everyone. Tate said it best. There is no room for average men anymore. Even above average men. To American women, you're either a Top G or worthless.

Lol if you have no chance it's over for 70% at least

ye is over, 3:00 I disagree. Chad gets chased. Create a profile with chad like antonio, I made it and was getting invites to everything.

Love is a lie

Even though I’ve been sober my whole life, I’ve been listening to rap ever since I was like 10 yrs old. I’m 23 yrs old now and that type of music never got me influenced into doing any of that stuff due to the fact that I enjoy vibing with the artist throughout the song. I use music as a coping mechanism for every bad thing that I go through and the reason why I mainly listen only to rap is because that is my way of having fun without doing the stuff that damages your health. I love listening to the lyrics from each unique artist and especially when it has a good beat. Rap is also like storytelling and I could relate to them in some ways. Y’all can still have fun without doing that stupid stuff and I’m the example of that. Plus I workout 6 days a week while using rap music to benefit my health for the better💪💯.

I have a nice car nice things get 0 dates on Tinder. I am average looking I would say. 6’2 hight and ok body. Sure I get likes and a few messages here and there but after a while nada. Tinder is just after money but it’s obvious it’s a business and it’s in the business of single people it’s best interest then is to keep most users (men) single as long as possible to keep using the app.

This guy always had money in his pocked because is parents gave it to him, so he doesn't understand what is for people that is born in poverty... but victim mentality is not good for you...

Interesting video content. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

We are logically minded though.. like you said.. guys are the pursers. If i never go to a body of water where there are fish, and cast my line.. i wont catch any fish.

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yea but isn't there 50/50 population, where are all these guys coming from, aren't girls alone too?