Hang in there dude , I can totally relate to your story and so does everyone that’s married. Marriage is no doubt a job to make it work to find each other’s happiness. Stay strong things will get better.
James, You shared so I’ll share. I don’t want to pile on when you’re at a vulnerable place in your life but what struck me and your story was how are you allowed it’s relationship between Stacy and your son disintegrate. You’re the man and head of your household. Example: when you said your son said that essentially you had to choose between him or Stacy in who’s sleeping in the bed you didn’t stand up for Stacy. For strong marriages nothing should come between you and Stacy. Business, race cars, and yes even your kids. Don’t get me wrong I would take a bullet for my kid but as head of my household my wife always knows that I have her back and my kids know that and in return they know that we will always be there for them
Unfortunately I always have my wife’s back also. But topically it only causes issues if I don’t embarrassingly sit on my hands until I hear her ask for help!!!! Otherwise I’m a Chauvinist and interfering with her issues. And if she was acting just like the kid? Yes getting into that would likely be unwanted trouble. I have multiple marriages and sometimes you gotta stay back. Or all hell may break loose?
Man don’t feel like you “lied” to any of us because as men we all want the outside world to think our marriages/private relationships are all hunky dory, even when they’re really not. I’m going through the same thing myself after 25 years of marriage. My son and I go racing on the weekends or hunting during hunting season and my wife stays at home and sleeps most of the time. I’m at that point now to where I’m ready to put a stop to it because it is not getting any better no matter what I do. So please don’t feel like you’ve lied to us and however it turns out between y’all is y’all’s business but however that may be I wish y’all nothing but the best and my son and I will continue to follow you no matter what. Just keep keeping it real brother, that’s what I like about you man. Later….
Not to be that guy, if your wife is spending to much time sleeping while missing out on things she once enjoyed it could be her chemistry is all wacky. Maybe it's depression! Or hell my wife was asleep more then she was awake, turns out she had a thyroid issue!!!!! Took the meds and spunky young acting wife back in just a couple weeks! Don't just write it off man! Go seek help even if she don't feel like ! Trust me if yall have love its way worth the time spent trying to find out what's the issue. I hope this gets to you and hopefully yall will do it and figure out what this problem is, address it and live happily ever after!!!!! Good luck man!
Reaper I don't care what anyone says about you... your a stand up guy..keep your head up bro.. I never once thought it according to the videos you were goin through this..yall looked like the perfect couple..I wish yall nothing but the best I hope whatever happens is best for you both!!!!
Your life is no ones business but yours, what you share is your choice , people will always judge , but watching you over the years - you speak your mind and always have. That’s your true nature. Your stories I guarantee have touched someone else’s life and have helped them. Continue to keep it real. Wishing you, Stacy and Brantley the best.
Much respect James, we kinda could already tell on the RT66 trip. Stay strong and focused. We the real fans are there for you. Now let's get that red reaper winning. #respect #honestly.
Thank you for your transparency. We are traveling the same road at the moment. After 23 years we have been separated now 6 months and things unfortunately aren't going well either. So similar situation and to hear someone else going thru it gave me some inspiration to reach out and let you know you're not alone. If you ever need an ear to vent your thoughts hit me up. Keep grinding Goad and keep your eyes on actions not words.
I went through 10 years of the emotional rollercoaster with the mother of my son. Going through life wondering which girl she is going to be in the morning is hell. I eventually realized she had borderline personality disorder. She would never face it so it pushed me to break it when my son was eight months old. I watched her and her friends pack up and leave my home with my son in diapers. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do but it was going to drive me to the edge of my breaking point where I was going to get into or cause big trouble. Blaming yourself and thinking you did something wrong and you can fix it is a vicious cycle. Please go get the book “Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking your life back when Someone you care about has Borderline Personality Disorder. This book will help you understand the confusion and desperation you feel. Best wishes James.
Keep your head up brother!!! Thank you for all that you do for your fans and don't ever feel like you lied to us. Hope all goes well and my prayers are out for you and your family 🙏 ❤ 💙.
My heart breaks for you all and you haven't lied you are a private person and you have a family to protect. It sounds like that she's suffering from change of life, mid life crisis, depression, etc. Those hormones can have the adverse affects on you. Everything happens for a reason don't be so hard on yourself you can't control everything remember this always, "If it is to be set it free if it's meant to be it will come back to me." My guess is that depression took over when you all weren't able to conceive and that may be when the jealousy came in. I wish my family and I was closer to help you just to be a friend and an extra family to help when you needed they would love it and Brantley would have some friends too. My prayers are with you.
Man. I appreciate this. I'm dealing with the very same thing ut sounds like. I make excuses for her actions. I beg for change. I take the blame im given by her. She smiles. I'm the asshole. And life goes on. Her life,not mine. Thanks for the help man. I didn't really see it until my 20 year old boy was murded at the end of 2019. Life just too damn short to be miserable. Thanks man
I've got alot of respect for you and dealing with stuff for years being strong keeping your head straight being a true family man and not falling off the deep end of old habits because of stress your a fckin strong person shit like that most people can't handle specially after past shit before that went on but holy shit man you're staying strong and got a plan going another great kid there thanks for putting the videos out and there all are great! It wasn't lieing it's friggin hard to deal with some stuff and hard to turn a storm into a bright sunny day hope things work out witch way for the best ! Thanks for videos keep the tires lit up on the black top !
Good luck to the both of you. Ya'll have been through a TON of stuff, and I hope it works out for the best, whatever that might be. As someone who has struggled for years with depression and extreme hormonal imbalances, I understand that many days seem like a major effort just to get through the day, and for women, that deal is likely much worse. Thankfully for me, I have got a handle on things with medication and the help of a good therapist. That route (if you haven't already done that), might help you guys, or it might not. Thanks for keeping it real. I think I can safely say that all your fans want you both to succeed and be happy.
Hang in there James ! happiness is priceless and your right , life is way to short to be in a perpetual argument . your awesome for putting Brantley first . keep your head up buddy .
There’s afew of us that’s been, Or are still In this situation and even less speak will speak of it. You and Brently go get them on the track mate. Go Red Reaper!!
Keep your head up James, keep pushing forward and things will work themselves out in one way or another! Focus on yourself for a change, looking forward to seeing you racing again brother!
Hey dude thanks for being real. Things don't always work out the way you plan. Keep your head up, take care of your son and appreciate every day the Good Lord blesses you with. God bless you and stay strong brother.
That wasn't a lie reaper that was protecting your family brother I'm sorry your going thru this it will get better either way just do your thing and raise that boy us Tru fans are behind you 100%
Thank you for sharing and being so open , one day at a time brotha , if you don,t take care of your own mental well being , you certainly can,t be there for you son , or your wife , it sounds to be from what you have shared that she is right in the middle of the mesopause deal that woman suffer from at that certain age in there lives . Again thanks I have enjoyed your videos of late .
I understand exactly what you are going through it sounds like my life almost word for word. Your rite it won't change till they want it to I've been goiing through it for going on 20 years it's rough. Wish you best of luck. This is the first time I've said it also.
Honestly buddy just looking from the outside in it sounds like she takes her life for granted, I really don't think she understands how many wife's wish they had and can do the things she was able to having a life with someone who tries to give her a good life.....I definitely know what you mean when shit goes bad it really goes. I always tell my wife with me it's not every time it rains it pours it's more like every time it rains in under Niagara falls wondering when to look up....if it's meant to be it will work out and if not hell with it just do you. Everyone knows alot of people go thru the same thing so just ride your train and see where ya end up
Relationships are one of the most difficult things in life. I met my girl when I was 21...fast forward 37 years..two sons..a grand-daughter and grand-son..still together. You will make it work Reaperman!!
We love both u guys. Appreciate ur ALWAYS honesty.. I know EXACTLY what ur going through .. I have a wife and couple children that aren’t hers. Do what u need to do brother, we love both of yas
Man I have been and I am still in those shoes keep your head up and follow up with what you belive I love watching you both on the channel and stuff but don't ever second guess your self were only human... hope it all works well for you guys keep on pushing thru
Its a tough spot to be I went through a similar thing couple years back got to the point where I told my boss not to give me any days off cause it was so miserable at home
James, you gotta do what is best for you now. I have been in the exact same situation, and when you come to that realization, you gotta do what is best for you. For those who have been through it, it was somewhat easy to see. I bet we will see the true James now. Keep your head up, you know how to keep yourself ahead. You know what to do, you buckle down and we will support ya!
Good for you .sorry your going through that bs. I'm going through the same bs I been with mine 27 years and my wife hates me and I don't know why.. life goes on right..
There's few things on planet worse than feeling out of place, and uncomfortable at home. The one place where no one should be able to get you. It will literally kill ya. One foot in front of the other. Its the easiest/hardest thing to do sometimes. You got this. Love ya reaper.
Gotta look out for that little boys happiness foremost. No child needs to be in a hostile environment. But if its ment to be she will get life figured out and things will get better.
Man this video got me. I appreciate the honesty James. At the same man. You don't owe us anything in my personal opinion. Your as real as the race night you were at when the drivers said did you test. You said nope...gonna test it right here! The same guy that it killed him to show Brantley both burnt up race cars. Man I promise a man built like you on the inside is gonna be alright.
James I’m very sorry to hear this but you have to take care of you and that little man , don’t dare worry about anyone thinking you have lied or anything else you did what you felt was right and that’s all that matters, I wish y’all the best in the world and if it’s ment to be it will be , much love and respect from Mississippi my brother
U and your kid`s healthy is the most important thing! I`ve always say with sad and bad things comes good things! Be strong and keep fighting!..Best regards from Andreas/Sweden
Hope everything works out for you and your family I know that you are a busy person but maybe you should take some time off to hopefully help work everything out all of your fans will be here for you no matter what happens in the long run best of luck to you in everything you do
It takes a lot of nuts to come out and talk about all that dude. You’re a really cool guy James. I enjoy all of your content, things do change bro and you will get to a better place man. I highly respect you man.
Keep your head brother an keep moving forward if it’s meant to be it will be proud that you are doing what your doing I was in the same boat a couple years ago an I’ve done more in the last couples years then the ole time I was married so keep your head up an keep pushing much respect to you brother
Yo brother I just tripped over one of the car racing videos and you were racing some guy who just thought he,d beat you and he was so big on him and he didn't take you seriously and ended up loosing then I seen the pushing video were you lost then this video and the only reason I kept watch was I could see your real and not phoney. So I've only watched 3 videos on this channel and half way through this video I subscribed. Because you being a real person and a person who can tell a good story . I don't mean story as in made up fiction story ,I mean your good talking and your a guys guy like me and anyways I never knew who your girl was and anything about what you just talked about but I subbed because you reminded me of me and because it's hard to find good real people like you . Your very relatable ,and you wear your life on your sleeve and I really like that. Anyways I,m starting to babble .I'm looking forward to watching more racing videos . Not into that soap opera shit anyways . You take care and don't change you. I hope you have a good year and peace and love from , Toronto Canada.
I'm.so sry man life and relationships are very hard maybe it's time for a big break or maybe it's time to move on your a great dude I love hearing your chats and rambles on yt noone else on hear tells life like it is don't worry about you thinking you lied it's your personal life and nobody's business unless you tell us but I'm always behind ya your a stand-up dude and this is just another pothole in the road and I know you will get through it I wish I was closer I would help ya out driving lol or anything else I'll be praying for ya brother I hope things get better.
Damn man, sorry to hear that. Maybe she has some issues that she is dealing with and need to talk to a psychologist or some counseling. Hope everything works out for you.
I’ve haven’t been following you very long….hell, I didn’t even put 2 & 2 together to know that you were on a popular show . I followed you because one of your TH-cam videos that a friend of mine shared & I totally agree with your ideas & views on many topics today . With that being said…..brother, doesn’t it feel good to get that off of your chest !? Prayers for y’all !
Thank you for being upfront with us all, much respect to u as u didn't need to say Anything to us but being the real open book person u are I understand why u did an it don't surprise me, as more an more time goes by since the 405 show Came on tv it's become more an more clear who is who , who is real an who is putting on a front, i just wanted to say thankyou for takin time outta ur day every week to give us fans behind the scenes content, along with so much more , I could relate with a lot of what u just said an watching ur videos gives me hope that hard work an being a real person will payoff someday
Don't feel bad. I went through the exact same thing with my ex wife. It turned out that she is Bi-Polar. She should get checked for it. My ex would never go to counseling or Dr or take her meds. We went through nasty divorce where I did not see my 2 girls for over 2 years. I was in a near fatal car accident and when she found out my TBI won't get better she left me. She left me for dead in the hospital after 5 years when I got CHF from bronchitis, separated and got back together after 6 months. So I sympathize bud, but it will get better. Focus on you and your boy.
One step at a time brother, it's all about life and what you do with yours. A lot of respect to you and how you are accepting and overcoming your challenges. Stay focused and keep moving forward.
I came off testosterone the same way & it will flat line you for sure. Your trials & tribulations help me. My wife had a full hysterectomy, without stable hormones its rough.Keep your head up.Thanks for sharing everything.
We will be pulling for you and Brantley. Hopefully everything will get figured out for the best. Getting back on the track and having a happy son will be the best decision you ever made. His happiness, at the end of the day, has to be a focus!! Wishing you the best!
Always remember your happiness is your responsibility not anyone else’s I went through the exact same thing you have been going through for 20 years you’ll never be able to change someone keep focusing on Brantley and the other things in life that matter make you happy
Feel for u boss hang in there. A+ for putting in the effort now days no one does anymore and give up right away on each other. The little guy is the most important thing cant have him dealing with hostility and seeing adults fighting it will do alot of harm to him in the long run. Gotta get rid of toxic energy in your life
Just glad to see your at peace with it all man shit is a hard pill to swallow knowing when enough is enough ! Can’t wait to see the red reaper ripping !!!!
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Hang in there dude , I can totally relate to your story and so does everyone that’s married. Marriage is no doubt a job to make it work to find each other’s happiness. Stay strong things will get better.
James, You shared so I’ll share.
I don’t want to pile on when you’re at a vulnerable place in your life but what struck me and your story was how are you allowed it’s relationship between Stacy and your son disintegrate.
You’re the man and head of your household.
Example: when you said your son said that essentially you had to choose between him or Stacy in who’s sleeping in the bed you didn’t stand up for Stacy.
For strong marriages nothing should come between you and Stacy. Business, race cars, and yes even your kids.
Don’t get me wrong I would take a bullet for my kid but as head of my household my wife always knows that I have her back and my kids know that and in return they know that we will always be there for them
Unfortunately I always have my wife’s back also. But topically it only causes issues if I don’t embarrassingly sit on my hands until I hear her ask for help!!!! Otherwise I’m a Chauvinist and interfering with her issues. And if she was acting just like the kid? Yes getting into that would likely be unwanted trouble. I have multiple marriages and sometimes you gotta stay back. Or all hell may break loose?
Fucking priceless "I say we go get a dog". "
"Done". Lol
Man don’t feel like you “lied” to any of us because as men we all want the outside world to think our marriages/private relationships are all hunky dory, even when they’re really not. I’m going through the same thing myself after 25 years of marriage. My son and I go racing on the weekends or hunting during hunting season and my wife stays at home and sleeps most of the time. I’m at that point now to where I’m ready to put a stop to it because it is not getting any better no matter what I do. So please don’t feel like you’ve lied to us and however it turns out between y’all is y’all’s business but however that may be I wish y’all nothing but the best and my son and I will continue to follow you no matter what. Just keep keeping it real brother, that’s what I like about you man. Later….
Not to be that guy, if your wife is spending to much time sleeping while missing out on things she once enjoyed it could be her chemistry is all wacky. Maybe it's depression! Or hell my wife was asleep more then she was awake, turns out she had a thyroid issue!!!!! Took the meds and spunky young acting wife back in just a couple weeks! Don't just write it off man! Go seek help even if she don't feel like ! Trust me if yall have love its way worth the time spent trying to find out what's the issue. I hope this gets to you and hopefully yall will do it and figure out what this problem is, address it and live happily ever after!!!!! Good luck man!
Reaper I don't care what anyone says about you... your a stand up guy..keep your head up bro.. I never once thought it according to the videos you were goin through this..yall looked like the perfect couple..I wish yall nothing but the best I hope whatever happens is best for you both!!!!
The wound starts healing at the moment it’s happened, chin up and focus, racecar is good therapy!!
Your life is no ones business but yours, what you share is your choice , people will always judge , but watching you over the years - you speak your mind and always have. That’s your true nature. Your stories I guarantee have touched someone else’s life and have helped them. Continue to keep it real. Wishing you, Stacy and Brantley the best.
Much respect James, we kinda could already tell on the RT66 trip. Stay strong and focused. We the real fans are there for you. Now let's get that red reaper winning. #respect #honestly.
Damnit man.. this brought back so many memories of me and my ex. Good luck to you and Stacy, I hope you both find the peace you're looking for
Really sorry to hear this man,and I hope everything works out for y’all.
Thank you for your transparency. We are traveling the same road at the moment. After 23 years we have been separated now 6 months and things unfortunately aren't going well either. So similar situation and to hear someone else going thru it gave me some inspiration to reach out and let you know you're not alone. If you ever need an ear to vent your thoughts hit me up. Keep grinding Goad and keep your eyes on actions not words.
I went through 10 years of the emotional rollercoaster with the mother of my son. Going through life wondering which girl she is going to be in the morning is hell. I eventually realized she had borderline personality disorder. She would never face it so it pushed me to break it when my son was eight months old. I watched her and her friends pack up and leave my home with my son in diapers. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do but it was going to drive me to the edge of my breaking point where I was going to get into or cause big trouble. Blaming yourself and thinking you did something wrong and you can fix it is a vicious cycle. Please go get the book “Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking your life back when Someone you care about has Borderline Personality Disorder. This book will help you understand the confusion and desperation you feel. Best wishes James.
I have been where you are, mine ended badly. But it turned into the best thing that could have happened. Prayers for you and yours.
As a papa raising a Granddaughter by myself. I can relate. Wish you all the luck and sorry about your relationship.
Been there, done that and got the t-shirt brother. This ain't a test run in life, this is it. All the best from New Zealand mate.
Keep your head up brother!!! Thank you for all that you do for your fans and don't ever feel like you lied to us. Hope all goes well and my prayers are out for you and your family 🙏 ❤ 💙.
Keep your head up brother! It is always darkest before the dawn. You got this!
My heart breaks for you all and you haven't lied you are a private person and you have a family to protect. It sounds like that she's suffering from change of life, mid life crisis, depression, etc. Those hormones can have the adverse affects on you. Everything happens for a reason don't be so hard on yourself you can't control everything remember this always, "If it is to be set it free if it's meant to be it will come back to me." My guess is that depression took over when you all weren't able to conceive and that may be when the jealousy came in. I wish my family and I was closer to help you just to be a friend and an extra family to help when you needed they would love it and Brantley would have some friends too. My prayers are with you.
Man. I appreciate this. I'm dealing with the very same thing ut sounds like.
I make excuses for her actions. I beg for change. I take the blame im given by her. She smiles. I'm the asshole. And life goes on.
Her life,not mine.
Thanks for the help man. I didn't really see it until my 20 year old boy was murded at the end of 2019. Life just too damn short to be miserable.
Thanks man
Reaper your a BOSS, keep your head up man, you'll turn a corner, things will be alright brotha.
Much luv from BUFFALO N.Y.
Prayers for you and Stacey.. Thanks for sharing this story. Very few people are as real as you reaper. That's why your loved by us.
I've got alot of respect for you and dealing with stuff for years being strong keeping your head straight being a true family man and not falling off the deep end of old habits because of stress your a fckin strong person shit like that most people can't handle specially after past shit before that went on but holy shit man you're staying strong and got a plan going another great kid there thanks for putting the videos out and there all are great! It wasn't lieing it's friggin hard to deal with some stuff and hard to turn a storm into a bright sunny day hope things work out witch way for the best ! Thanks for videos keep the tires lit up on the black top !
Good luck to the both of you. Ya'll have been through a TON of stuff, and I hope it works out for the best, whatever that might be. As someone who has struggled for years with depression and extreme hormonal imbalances, I understand that many days seem like a major effort just to get through the day, and for women, that deal is likely much worse. Thankfully for me, I have got a handle on things with medication and the help of a good therapist. That route (if you haven't already done that), might help you guys, or it might not.
Thanks for keeping it real. I think I can safely say that all your fans want you both to succeed and be happy.
No worries brother, takes a lot to admit fault on both ends. Keep your head up and feet on the ground
Hang in there James ! happiness is priceless and your right , life is way to short to be in a perpetual argument . your awesome for putting Brantley first . keep your head up buddy .
There’s afew of us that’s been, Or are still
In this situation and even less speak will speak of it. You and Brently go get them on the track mate. Go Red Reaper!!
Man I hope it all works out prayers 🙏
Been-there-done-that going through a lot of the same thing so don't feel bad this is life and we carry on
Keep your head up James, keep pushing forward and things will work themselves out in one way or another! Focus on yourself for a change, looking forward to seeing you racing again brother!
Hey James keep your head up and keep moving forward. Praying for you and your family. Can’t wait to see you at the track
I'm sorry to hear about this I hope you three can work this out family is everything
Hey dude thanks for being real. Things don't always work out the way you plan. Keep your head up, take care of your son and appreciate every day the Good Lord blesses you with. God bless you and stay strong brother.
That wasn't a lie reaper that was protecting your family brother I'm sorry your going thru this it will get better either way just do your thing and raise that boy us Tru fans are behind you 100%
Thank you for sharing and being so open , one day at a time brotha , if you don,t take care of your own mental well being , you certainly can,t be there for you son , or your wife , it sounds to be from what you have shared that she is right in the middle of the mesopause deal that woman suffer from at that certain age in there lives . Again thanks I have enjoyed your videos of late .
Dam that sucks brother
🙏🏾 for you and your family
Wishing y’all the best
I understand exactly what you are going through it sounds like my life almost word for word. Your rite it won't change till they want it to I've been goiing through it for going on 20 years it's rough. Wish you best of luck. This is the first time I've said it also.
Honestly buddy just looking from the outside in it sounds like she takes her life for granted, I really don't think she understands how many wife's wish they had and can do the things she was able to having a life with someone who tries to give her a good life.....I definitely know what you mean when shit goes bad it really goes. I always tell my wife with me it's not every time it rains it pours it's more like every time it rains in under Niagara falls wondering when to look up....if it's meant to be it will work out and if not hell with it just do you. Everyone knows alot of people go thru the same thing so just ride your train and see where ya end up
This sounds just about like how my marriage was going that’s why I ended it and haven’t looked back since. Good luck. Things will get better. 😎
Sending prayers Brother. Keep your head up everything will work itself out.
Relationships are one of the most difficult things in life. I met my girl when I was 21...fast forward 37 years..two sons..a grand-daughter and grand-son..still together. You will make it work Reaperman!!
Man I pray everything works out! And yes kids especially at his age right now have to come 1st!
We love both u guys. Appreciate ur ALWAYS honesty.. I know EXACTLY what ur going through .. I have a wife and couple children that aren’t hers. Do what u need to do brother, we love both of yas
Good luck man. I hope y'all get everything worked out
Prayers for everything you are going through. I hope it all works out right
I've been through the same things change keep your head up you will it through it all!
I feel your pain. My Exwife was the same way. Took me a few years to get myself together and now I've got the best life.
Thanks for sharing. Prayers with a of you to be happy!!
Sorry to hear this brother. Been there. Prayers are with you all. Good luck moving forward.
Man I have been and I am still in those shoes keep your head up and follow up with what you belive I love watching you both on the channel and stuff but don't ever second guess your self were only human... hope it all works well for you guys keep on pushing thru
Its a tough spot to be I went through a similar thing couple years back got to the point where I told my boss not to give me any days off cause it was so miserable at home
Man im just gonna send you a big hug and send sum 💜& good vibez✌
James, you gotta do what is best for you now. I have been in the exact same situation, and when you come to that realization, you gotta do what is best for you. For those who have been through it, it was somewhat easy to see. I bet we will see the true James now. Keep your head up, you know how to keep yourself ahead. You know what to do, you buckle down and we will support ya!
I’m so sorry bud.. Prayer helps and God will make it all better.. Prayers sent from me..
I'm so sorry to hear about this, my thoughts and prayers are with Stacy and yourself.
Good for you .sorry your going through that bs. I'm going through the same bs I been with mine 27 years and my wife hates me and I don't know why.. life goes on right..
Been through it, keep your head up!
There's few things on planet worse than feeling out of place, and uncomfortable at home. The one place where no one should be able to get you. It will literally kill ya. One foot in front of the other. Its the easiest/hardest thing to do sometimes. You got this. Love ya reaper.
Hey mate keep your spirits up I hope everything works out for you. Best wishes to you and your family.
I’m sorry James😞 I hope things get better for you guys. Life is not easy- always a roller coaster. Keep your head up❤️
Peace from Australia mate 🇦🇺
Good luck 👍
Gotta look out for that little boys happiness foremost. No child needs to be in a hostile environment. But if its ment to be she will get life figured out and things will get better.
You have not lied James. Ups and downs in relationships are hard. Sending up prayers for you and her.
Man this video got me. I appreciate the honesty James. At the same man. You don't owe us anything in my personal opinion. Your as real as the race night you were at when the drivers said did you test. You said nope...gonna test it right here! The same guy that it killed him to show Brantley both burnt up race cars. Man I promise a man built like you on the inside is gonna be alright.
Goodluck mate, going through a similar thing, but I'm not selling t-shirts. Cheers.
I hope yall can work this out brother 🙏
James I’m very sorry to hear this but you have to take care of you and that little man , don’t dare worry about anyone thinking you have lied or anything else you did what you felt was right and that’s all that matters, I wish y’all the best in the world and if it’s ment to be it will be , much love and respect from Mississippi my brother
✝️🙏 praying for you brother it will all work out
U and your kid`s healthy is the most important thing! I`ve always say with sad and bad things comes good things! Be strong and keep fighting!..Best regards from Andreas/Sweden
Sounds like my relationship with my wife and I. It's rough man best of luck to you man
Damn Mr Goad!!! I'd love to be able to sit down with you, I know you hear it from everyone though. You are a helluva man!!!!
Been there done that and I kept hanging on because I thought it was the right thing to do, good luck to you
Hope everything works out for you and your family I know that you are a busy person but maybe you should take some time off to hopefully help work everything out all of your fans will be here for you no matter what happens in the long run best of luck to you in everything you do
Hey man it's all good...you got too b happy too and worry about your boy!! Hope it all works out for you
best of luck to both of you in this crazy journey of life..and can't wait to see reaper behind the wheel again !!!!!
It takes a lot of nuts to come out and talk about all that dude. You’re a really cool guy James. I enjoy all of your content, things do change bro and you will get to a better place man. I highly respect you man.
God bless you brother will be praying for you all.
Keep your head brother an keep moving forward if it’s meant to be it will be proud that you are doing what your doing I was in the same boat a couple years ago an I’ve done more in the last couples years then the ole time I was married so keep your head up an keep pushing much respect to you brother
Thanks for sharing your truth with us James stay strong bub
Wishing the best for both of you!!
Yo brother I just tripped over one of the car racing videos and you were racing some guy who just thought he,d beat you and he was so big on him and he didn't take you seriously and ended up loosing then I seen the pushing video were you lost then this video and the only reason I kept watch was I could see your real and not phoney. So I've only watched 3 videos on this channel and half way through this video I subscribed. Because you being a real person and a person who can tell a good story . I don't mean story as in made up fiction story ,I mean your good talking and your a guys guy like me and anyways I never knew who your girl was and anything about what you just talked about but I subbed because you reminded me of me and because it's hard to find good real people like you . Your very relatable ,and you wear your life on your sleeve and I really like that. Anyways I,m starting to babble .I'm looking forward to watching more racing videos . Not into that soap opera shit anyways . You take care and don't change you. I hope you have a good year and peace and love from , Toronto Canada.
I'm.so sry man life and relationships are very hard maybe it's time for a big break or maybe it's time to move on your a great dude I love hearing your chats and rambles on yt noone else on hear tells life like it is don't worry about you thinking you lied it's your personal life and nobody's business unless you tell us but I'm always behind ya your a stand-up dude and this is just another pothole in the road and I know you will get through it I wish I was closer I would help ya out driving lol or anything else I'll be praying for ya brother I hope things get better.
Damn man, sorry to hear that. Maybe she has some issues that she is dealing with and need to talk to a psychologist or some counseling. Hope everything works out for you.
Sorry to hear that Reaper. But thanks for sharing. God bless
Reaper everything will work out brother. Keep your head up and hang in there
I’ve haven’t been following you very long….hell, I didn’t even put 2 & 2 together to know that you were on a popular show .
I followed you because one of your TH-cam videos that a friend of mine shared & I totally agree with your ideas & views on many topics today .
With that being said…..brother, doesn’t it feel good to get that off of your chest !?
Prayers for y’all !
Thank you for being upfront with us all, much respect to u as u didn't need to say Anything to us but being the real open book person u are I understand why u did an it don't surprise me, as more an more time goes by since the 405 show Came on tv it's become more an more clear who is who , who is real an who is putting on a front, i just wanted to say thankyou for takin time outta ur day every week to give us fans behind the scenes content, along with so much more , I could relate with a lot of what u just said an watching ur videos gives me hope that hard work an being a real person will payoff someday
Don't feel bad. I went through the exact same thing with my ex wife. It turned out that she is Bi-Polar. She should get checked for it. My ex would never go to counseling or Dr or take her meds. We went through nasty divorce where I did not see my 2 girls for over 2 years. I was in a near fatal car accident and when she found out my TBI won't get better she left me. She left me for dead in the hospital after 5 years when I got CHF from bronchitis, separated and got back together after 6 months. So I sympathize bud, but it will get better. Focus on you and your boy.
Godbless brother! And peace be with you n yours,,
One day at time love ya man keep your head up .
Mr James im sorry to hear the things going on but keep kicken brother.... Prayers from one okie to another
One step at a time brother, it's all about life and what you do with yours. A lot of respect to you and how you are accepting and overcoming your challenges. Stay focused and keep moving forward.
Sorry to hear it brother wish y'all the best I've been there and done that .unless uve been there u don't understand the mental stress of it js
Sorry to hear James, hopefully things work out for everyone.
I came off testosterone the same way & it will flat line you for sure. Your trials & tribulations help me. My wife had a full hysterectomy, without stable hormones its rough.Keep your head up.Thanks for sharing everything.
We will be pulling for you and Brantley. Hopefully everything will get figured out for the best. Getting back on the track and having a happy son will be the best decision you ever made. His happiness, at the end of the day, has to be a focus!! Wishing you the best!
Sounds rough James. I hope everything works out for you.
Always remember your happiness is your responsibility not anyone else’s I went through the exact same thing you have been going through for 20 years you’ll never be able to change someone keep focusing on Brantley and the other things in life that matter make you happy
Peace be with you both !!
Stay safe !!
Feel for u boss hang in there. A+ for putting in the effort now days no one does anymore and give up right away on each other. The little guy is the most important thing cant have him dealing with hostility and seeing adults fighting it will do alot of harm to him in the long run. Gotta get rid of toxic energy in your life
Just glad to see your at peace with it all man shit is a hard pill to swallow knowing when enough is enough ! Can’t wait to see the red reaper ripping !!!!