How To Make Her See You As An Alpha After Acting Like A Beta
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 มิ.ย. 2024
- How to romantically attract a woman so she sees you as an alpha after acting like a beta.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who for several months acted like a beta male to a woman he has been dating. He was needy, clingy and pushed for a relationship way too soon. He also constantly sought her attention and validation so he could feel secure in his own manhood. Then he found my work and started implementing it. She has become more attracted and is starting to pursue more, but he wants to know if it’s possible for her to perceive him as an alpha despite the fact he’s acted like a beta male for most the the 6 months they have been dating.
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just do your thing, work out more, dress better, make better friends, better hobbies, and more money, and more importantly to never care about what others think of you, be unapologetic without being an ass, and stay true to your word
Just never call yourself an “alpha”. People will run away from you
Haha ...nothing says I'm not something more than verbally pleading that you are that something.
True Alphas don't call themselves " Alpha " they know they are, they let others talk about their achievements and status, true Alphas never have to explain themselves.
I am alpha. Please start running...
A king who feels the need to remind people he is a king is indeed no king
So true. Don’t even try to explain yourself to people.
Women fall in love slowly over time.
Women also fall out of love slowly over time. That means you have to really really constantly screw up for a woman to fall out of love.
Women never love you. They love what you can do for them
Trippin'
True
Give her more freedom than she really wants WITHOUT AN ATTITUDE. She'll begin to pursue.
im struggling with this cause i mostly have a monotone voice without even realizing
@@raulcastillo9600 Stop caring about it. Stop perceiving the monotone and it will eventually disappear. Reality is yours. Perceive different.
@Red NLS true
What if she don’t pursue? Some women don’t pursue they like to have that pride thing. Where they claim they don’t want a man. I’ve seen that too
@@Sip28what more life evidence do you want for you to walk away? Pride? Big red flag!
“ let the best girl win” 💯 confidence
Corey thank you for all of your help. I felt down and out 4 years ago after my last breakup. With your book and videos I know have a better job, I’m about to marry the woman of my dreams and have an amazing daughter. Guys it works. Read the book 15 times and keep reading throughout your relationship. We are all built to be alphas, Corey just helps bring out the lion 🦁 that’s in you. Best wishes my friend!!
let's go man, share the love and happiness . wish you the best
Right on brother. Good for you Harold. Thanks for sharing.
What book????
@@jrodriguez79804% man
@jrodriguez7980 he has 2 I think. I know 1 percent man is the main one
I met a gal online a few months ago.
Whenever I feel that I'm backsliding (I tend to reveal too much too soon), I watch Coach Corey videos.
I follow his principles and immediately she responds positively.
coach over here literally saving lives.
"it will bloom when its ready to bloom" - cuteeee
Great Stuff Corey. Staying on the principles always pays off!
Cory, I appreciate you and your work. Learning a lot from your book.
If your're looking for a relationship there better be more than her wanting to "rip off your clothes and tearing up your pelvis" if there is no connection or common ground even the best sex won't keep it going.
You need both ideally. Sex seems to be a super important thing to most people, it’s not for me personally but a lack of experience is not good in the long term. You can get away with it for a little while but eventually if you aren’t doing what she wants then she’ll just get it elsewhere. Even if there is a connection and love yous have been said. You’ve gotta be able to bang her with confidence otherwise it won’t last.
Thank you for explaining energy in such a way that everyone understands
Great work Corey. I can speak from experience that what you teach works. Thanks man.
It feels like Corey is getting younger instead of older with each passing year. Truly aging like a fine wine.
Yes. I always think about this. I just turned 30 and I’ve been a student since for almost 10 years now.
@@rayneivillarreal3002 is advice working for you with keeping a satisfying relationship? I am curious
Corey's got the black man gene 🤷🏾♂️, he physically gets older but he still looks young for his age
Het got leaner, that's why. Being lean > everything else
Coach always on point with the timing
A great overall summary of your work!
ok the practice squad mention was excellent.
" The grind is my rest "
Never stop being masculine, don't let our ancestors down, they're looking down on us, let's do our best.
"Practice squad" 😂😂😂
I've had long periods of acting like a beta with a girl, before I found corey's work. She always ended up leaving me or we just weren't having sex...for MONTHS. Even if she said she liked my behavior and I was doing everything she wanted. Why? I'm doing everything she asks. I'm always available. She always said "I'm just not in the mood lately." Ya think? Because I was acting like a pussy.
Part of the problem is huge insecurity that if you dont always see her when she wants or do what she asks you will lose her. That's the root of all these issues and it comes down to self-worth. If you have problems with this stuff you need to work on your limiting beliefs.
Corey has been huge in helping these areas.
Great points and I would also add there’s a fear of losing her and just generally not taking the role of the man that you need to be in the relationship. I made these mistakes with my ex and essentially pushed her into the arms of another guy. Brutal. But we live and learn.
We’ve gotta learn confidence, boundaries, and communication if we want to have even a chance of keeping her around. And definitely never smother her with attention like being clingy and always available. And what she wants during sex you’ve gotta be able to deliver otherwise you’re toast. A man with a lack of sexual experience is a highly unattractive man in the long term.
Love the videos!
Tell her you caught an STI from some chick and might have given it to her. Sorted. Emotions, options, drama. She'll be in love with you all over again.
@@favoredbygod7318 Yes 😆
😂😂😂
@@DarkAlan lol
@@DarkAlan they aren’t all for the sewers, just the ones that everybody wants.
🤣🤣🤣
NEVER ASK A WOMAN “WHERE YOU STAND!!”🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
just atarted 3% Man!! Awesome!! it came today and will be my motivational reading
Dude, James Bond and Jason Bourne personality. They are who they are and don’t apologize for it.
I agree with Corey. BUT, if you want something exclusivity and it’s been 5 months and she’s still seeing other guys, I’d break it off.
She has a fearful avoiding attachment. He has an Anxiety attachment. Will never work, she will constantly pull away from fear of loosing he independence and send his Anxiety through the roof.
Coach !!! Your womenese voice is INTOXICATING.
The word intoxicating is derived from your book.
I have read your book 23 times.
"Courageous man goes for what they like" and yet we're told not to show who/what we want. Its crazy how many nuances there are to being a man. Whereas a woman is simply allowed to be whatever, do whatever, act however without any implications. Like a "cat" as you put it. And it's all just fun and cute, only they're not cats. They are humans with the capacity to think, feel, rationalize and be critical. But no one wants to see fault in their behavior, that's why they flip flop, having multiple guys that pay for their meals, have a dozen options, get paid for flashing their body, service thousands of sad lonely ppl online. I've even seen ppl pay just to text a woman. And NOBODY is saying shit about it lol
Where are the self correcting women coaches that are telling woman to stop this behavior? None. Only women coaching MEN on how to read women lol. They're allowed to act however while men continue to struggle criticizing their own needs.
This happens because there are looser men who support it, and there will always be these guys. So just accept that this is part of our reality now. We’re not going back to the 1950’s, technology has changed. You just have to worry about yourself, not about “society” as a whole. Just worry about yourself, improve, get stronger, wealthier, more intelligent, more attractive, so that you have options. Don’t reward these bad women and you wont have a problem with them. Focus on what you want.
Sometimes watching other content creators from the redpill is tricky. You end with a negative, doom and gloom feeling. In a way it’s similar to the women who end up being strong femenists, believing that all men are shit. It’s just on the other end of the spectrum.
There are still many good, normal women. Coach Corey delivers a good, positive, useful message. Forget about the other stuff, it doesn’t even matter.
@@Carloss86pyI second this.
Red pill was meant to be all about truth and reality but it got so twisted with butthurt men out there blaming women for everything.
It is like f~ isim who hate men but the other way around.
There are women who go for fked up men and end up turning bitter and hurt, and then there are men who go for the wrong women then turn to fked up red pill cult where women are seen as the problem.
Essence of f-inism was to simply bring equality. Essence of red pill was to simply bring awareness and be able to see reality from multiple angles. However, both sides turned to hatred and resentment
Great stuff
Best advice ever- worked with my ex, now she's the one trying to come back! But, options are open.
How did you attract her back? Not sure if I want my ex back, but she rejected me and I’ve been applying 3% man and focusing on myself and purpose. Just want the last laugh.
@@user-rg7vo8ho3iDoing nothing
This is a game changer!
i bought your book 8 years ago and have been in a relationship with the woman of my life ever since. whenever i feel her becoming a little cool towards me, i go back to the book and it fucking works like magic!!! thank you for saving me from giving up on my dreams, one of them being in a fulfilling relationship with a beautifull and kind woman. every man should by your book!!! it is the best thing i have done in my life!
What is more often the case? That you back off a little bit or that you make her more heard and understood ?
And how does her being cold show up to you in most cases? Is it her reaching out less? Is it her talking less or being less happy or affectionate when you meet or talk?
So it works ?? I am married and will it work for me ?
I need to watch this video!
The greatest dating coach & philosopher of all time. Much needed in this age of poisonous misinformation.
Corey! Get on the Playing with Fire podcast!
The guy should just move on because she'll always see him as a weakling- even if he changes, it'll come off as being pretentious.
Usually I agree, but to make her fall in love is quick: hot and cold games + drama I love you I hate you.. 3 days and she is inlove. Women get addicted for roller coster drama and you are the dealer, that's all. It's not a slow process. It can be super fast.
Bedford Falls 😂 🙌
This video like the other ones would never get old.... Kudos Corey...👍
TQ FOR THIS :)
She needs to "feel" that he's willing to walk if HE'S not satisfied with the relationship. That'll never happen because she knows that "THE THIRST IS REAL!!! Lol!! He's definitely got oneitis!
I look weird on my profile picture haha. Just noticed that. But women trust a man who isn’t so critical about themselves and doesn’t take themselves to seriously. A man who she feels safe with and protected. He’ll protect her. But does his best to look good and to be a good man.
My guy, if she acts like this... leave her alone, not until she comes back 2 days later, forever, what are this silly high school games???
Men should have this behavior come naturally, however we've been so conditioned that we need Cory to set us straight. Thanks Coach.
We learn or perish!
To give myself discipline, I began forcing myself to do 50 push ups (2x25) to start my day, everyday. My muscles are shaking as I'm writing this haha. I'm sore. But it's worth it. 👌
Edit: I also start to hit the gym in 2 weeks, since it's winter over here, and there is not much to do outside when it's -30 haha. Keep it one step at the time guys. And be compassionate with yourselves.
Keep going, you'll get better. I got up to 100 a day. It starts to become quite easy.
@@theoriginaljubjub1996 Yes it does after a while. I'm at 60 now, 2x30. Slowly but surely
So, how is it going for you?
Dude cannot write cause his arms got so big (I really hope so!) 😅
Do a movie analysis of “Hitch”
Best master ever
I’m cringing so hard when Corey’s reading his message
15:25 Alphas are sure of themselves, confident, and go for what they want. They're not timid, they're courageous - they don't care about failure, and understand that failure is just a part of life. You've got to get through the no's and the failures to learn the lessons so you can refine your approach and get better.
God bless brother
I just found u :)
Btw all the content i have seen is true.
Lance is still going to get the Gyrados right?
Coach how would you deal with women with anxious attachment issues? Giving them too much space might actually make them seek out the attention they missed out from other guys.
Idk I have been regressing to this clingy, desperate personality & I felt I've pushed someone special away. I will keep my distance without being a d about it but I also have my first consultation with a therapist tomorrow.
I really need to get out of my head. It is affecting other relationships & my work. These feelings for 1 person aren't worth it even though its nothing to do with them. It's me.
Relatable
So how you doing now ?? 😢
1st to watch..1st to comment.. All the way from Pretoria
Mfana ke mfana!
Lol o nna kae boss waka
I got your book snd read it 3 times, I stopped texting the girl I’m interested in and after a few weeks, I reached out to her. She asked how I’ve been and she said haven’t heard from you and thought I found another woman. Crazy , now how should I handle that ??
Why are you texting her all the time. You should have used texting to setup dates, nothing else.
Good video!
Corey is the OG rizzard
(This is why you need to read the book 10-15 times)
If you start out Beta & she chooses to be with you then that's what she's signing up for.
You're just a time filler or she wants you for resources. But if you start to become Alpha she will view it as a joke.
But if you start out Alpha from the beginning & it's not an act then she will respect you.
And if you start to become Beta then she will lose that respect & will monkeybranch you because that's not what she signed up for
@@rambojohnj.6117 It's simple psychology. Women need a strong man to lead them. Women respond to what they respond to, and coping instead of correcting behavior leads you to the same conclusion. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting the same result. Take it from me who has driven all my former loves away because I did not correct my behavior. Difference between enthusiam and affection and neediness and clinginess.
@@rambojohnj.6117 No woman wants to be treated like a goddess. Needy men treat women like a goddess. They want to be treated like a human being. You have a lot to learn.
@@rambojohnj.6117 Call it games, women are used to needy boys who can't take no for an answer and put her on a pedestal. She's not going to be attracted to you if you display the same qualities as the other 50 simps she has in her DMs and that approach her. Take some things with a grain of salt but generally Corey is dead on and you either learn the easy way or the hard way take your pick
Rambo brother, you have a theory of what the world “should be like”, you’re not thinking about how the world actually is. So you wont listen. This is what you should do: Go out and try your theory out. See if it works as it does in your mind. If it works, great. If it doesn’t work, hopefully you realize that you have a bad theory that doesn’t work in reality and at that point you might be open to try something else.
Alpha is a mindset and mindsets change
If a woman is trying to put you in the friend zone and begins to talk to you differently, should you just ignore the change and continue talking to her as her lover vs her friend?
Take break between…stop giving to much attention to her…and behave like you don’t care if she likes you or not
No. State your terms. Tell her you're only interested in seeing her in a romantic way and that friendship doesn't work for you. If she refuses and insists on friendship then you need to politely walk away "Give me a call if you change your mind" and then you go no contact until she's ready to meet you on your terms. If she doesn't contact you then you will never speak to her again. No calls, no texts, no happy birthdays, nothing
That’s awesome you work with trans clients I’m a trans guy who has been listening to you for the last couple years and your advice has helped a lot. It could have helped pre transition too when I was a beta mamma’s “boi” lesbian, would’ve saved 5 years of confusion with my ex. I’m now educating all my feminist friends and most of the women agree right out the bat it’s the feminist men who have the toughest time which I get. Anyways thanks Coach Corey appreciate your content.
CCW is great. I myself am a gay man and recommend CCW to all my gay friends.
17:29 mis-spoke but the message is clear
Corey when are you gonna do a podcast with Richard Copper?
Isn't Richard more of a red pill guy?
You should do a video on Prince Harry and Megan Markle and the dynamic between them
Rich people problems..we can't relate 😅
Okay but how long do you play this game until just committing and getting the needs met that you want. In the context after already dating for years.
You need to read the book more. They're not games. They are the rules of the game. Most guys are looking for the finish line. You can't be. There will always be more work to do. If you're going in hungry it will eventually manifest in your behavior.
Damn.. i miss the old intro song
Dont seek validation but being appreciated is cool. Jus live your life unless you like these games
This mans insecurity story has me laughing while shaking my head lol. Be unapologetically you and have a take it or leave it attitude
Mr Corey or another man with experience , i have a question? If you as a man know what you want and tell the things as real as possible with women, a thing as i want a family you are direct that you want her to be the mother of youre children is that bad?? She asked me what do i seek, ive always been good attracting woman, but at some point in my relations i noticed i was fucking up because i cared too much of my partners problems than mine and that always play backfire, an ex confessed me something like that and it opened my eyes, feminism is cancer in relationship dynamics, doesnt matter age , education or social status, thanks in advance if someone can guide me with theire experience if to be this direct is bad
If she isn't with you today, then being THAT direct is bad. Lessons we learn through trial and error.
I told her to maintain some distance after she friendzoned me. Did do the right thing? She thinks I'm being hurt after she rejected me. Besides I felt like being exploited in this platonic relationship
There is a way out of the friend zone but trust me it’s not worth it. Lol I’ve done it twice but let me tell you I am not proud of how I went about it. Go after the best friend and be all over her in front of the girl who friendzone. Eventually you will end up with them both. But you will turn these two friends against each other so be prepared for chaos, my friend.
@@FamousDotComsounds ideal!
@@FamousDotCom bruuuuuuuh
I heard if you eat different foods. ❤
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Coach did you shave? You look about mid 30s
It's his green juice that did it
I'd love to read that book but it's £33 in UK.
It’s free to read on my website
I am not into masculine men. A man who doesnt delete the dating apps if i ask him to, belongs to history! Masculinity is not behaving like a jerk, but being man enough to provide for your woman and make her feel safe, listen to her worries and support her. Masculinity is taking responsibility for your actions and accepting your mistakes, apologising when needed and feeling a lot if responsibility for your family. This is my opinion as a woman!
Exactly! On the other hand, femininity is tending to your man’s needs, letting him be the leader of the family unit, not emasculating him, not insulting him by dressing inappropriately, not flirting with other guys, and not having the “I am the table” attitude (that’s not femininity). We have to work together.
Feminity is also making your man a sandwich, giving him a shoulder rub, having a beer ready for him after work and being available sexually.
Otherwise, what are you bringing to the relationship?
Why are you so concerned with what Masculinity is when you don't even like it? "I am not in to masculine men"
Nicoleta Kay You made absolutely no sense. I call bullshit your "not into masculine men". So you prefer feminine beta boys? I highly, highly doubt that.
Everything you just described are traits of a masculine man. I think you’re confusing masculinity with the fuckbois you’ve dealt with. There’s a difference.
Now he includes trans in his videos 🙂this guy will do anything to get sales!!
Bills gotta be paid. Walmart, malls, and amusement parks haven't stop selling to Trans people, why should he?
Take her parachuting, jump out pull your shut and wait for her on the ground. If she want to be with you, she will just follow you. If she doesn't then at least had a great day.
Forget about it and find a new one.
Good video, coach. Now get a haircut, ya damn hippie! 😁
What about Sigma males?
What about them? Some sigma qualities are masculine, others can appear beta or just weird. James Bond has sigma qualities, so does the main character in Drive. Those two characters are very different with women and how they project themselves.
Didn't think you would ignore biological reality and pander to the alphabet crowd....
Women are just complicated period
its all a test.
Number 1
Make more money
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"I have many trans clients as well" - really, I bet you don't. I would bet my house on it.
I would think it's best to start over with a new chick...
Not really The Strong Independent I need a Man thins is baked into the culture, so Ados BW have been taught not to trust BM from the jump. What gets them in trouble is they will have a baby with who sexually excites them the most, then who would make a good father imo.
A lot of trans talk.... weird
Gotta keep those book sales coming in
Neediness is like being a crack addict begging for money haha
Makes the woman go mmmmm ummmmm I don't know man
Move on. Simpel.
If you want to be exclusive with this girl just tell her. If She doesn't want two, then bye bye baby
She should bring it up
Lmfao