What he would say when I challenged this was, "you get more of me than anybody else, more than anyone ever has." Like I was supposed to be greatful...and I knew if I pushed it, he'd ghost me and talk to all of them and I'd have to wait several days for him to come back after teaching me my lesson. :/
Grateful for scraps ..possibility of catching std from p ther supplies or random they have sex with..the lies the games..nahlet hum be a ghost and nake sure he is blocked sonje can not haunt you.
I was a comfort toy or a safety blanket. I thought it was a mutual connection but it’s just a source of comfort for him. It’s so demeaning. I was supposed to be the back up for his new gf. He didn’t tell me for months. I was his priority while he was trying to get his ex back, now the cycle has engulfed someone else. I cried for months thinking about how empty things rly were for me.
His ex was still in the picture as a friend. She was clearly stuck. He was still stuck. But for different reasons. By being his friend she signed up for staying stuck and having to watch new women come into his life which made her jealous, but she still cared about him so she questioned him and checked in on him. She thought she had the right to message MY boyfriend and Put as many kisses as she liked. Childish behaviour from her. He was still grieving her and the relationship so he used me. Tried to tweak me to style myself more like her. Wanted me in colours and styles she liked. Which is weird as he said he never fancied her but fancied his other exes and me. Yet he saw get as a little sister and apparently regrets hurting her but would never want her back. We broke up in april when he text her to say he'd heard a song from their relationship and wanted her to listen. He said he was listening to it on repeat and crying at the memories. It still makes me cringe 5 months on. I found evidence of what I questioned him on for 18 months. I was devastated.
I wish my ex narc could see this...you describe exactly all that he does...exactly. He has all these split up attentions...given out to so many people at once. They cannot see.. that it just hurts them from having a true and meaningful relationship. Only being a small percent in...doesn’t get you the rewards of a loving relationship. They are always on the fence edge. Trying to please many at the same time instead of just one...like why would you want that kind of life? Tiring to always be pleasing all these others...if you ask me. Sad existence really sad.
The narc I know said that I was asking for too much and that he couldn’t give me what I wanted, or that he was empty inside and had nothing to give. It was weird, almost like he had been doing it so long that he didn’t know how to stop…but honestly I’m not convinced he wanted to.
It is the ego trip of having a harem of desperate women saying "pick me"... The narc can sit back and bathe in the ego trip...but... The other 23 hours of every day is dead... No connection of substance ..
Bahahaha that is so true. The Narc cheats himself the most and doesn’t realize it. Never feeling any real feelings and being an empty loser. Sounds fun 😝
I was raised in a narcissistic household by two narcissistic parents. I have narcissistic traits that I only use as a defense mechanism against narcissists. I can control my narcissistic traits. I do get narcissistic thoughts but my empathetic traits and common sense override my narcissistic thoughts. Being a Super Empath I can behave like a narcissist to teach them a lesson and again as a way to protect myself from narcissistic people who are up to no good. I have to keep my narcissistic side.
I love the water glass illustration you were right on point. What unaware narcissists don't understand is the fact that even though they appear to be tough and emotionless some people can see the human being underneath all the smoke and mirrors. My covert narcissistic male coworker shows me his human side without realizing it all the time. I can see he tries so hide but he doesn't fool me. Some people are afraid of the narcissistic stare I found out that's one of a handful of ways to find out what the narcissist refuses to say to avoid showing vulnerability. The narcissistic stare can create a emotional and mental connection between the Super Empath and the narcissist. The Super Empath and the narcissist have the best and worst connection considering the two have a lot in common. The Super Empath experienced narcissistic abuse and refuses to be treated like that ever again.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS. THE WORSE FEELING IN THE WORLD IS BEING TOLD BY SOMEONE THAT U LOVE THAT THERE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE ELSE..THE NARCISSTIS THAT I WAS INVOLVED IN HORRIBLY ABUSED ME HE GETS OFF TELLING ME HE IS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE.. IT HURTS SO MUCH. THIS PERSON DESTROYED MY LIFE MY SELF WORTH AND MY SELF ESTEEM.. I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHO I AM. NARCISSISTIC ABUSE IS BRUTAL...
Hope you are ok. I've been through the mill and all these videos help. The thing I can't bear which I began to feel is anger. So I'm reading about Buddha now... if I ever said anything slightly mean in response to his abuse I would apologise. I've found myself angry again and the Buddha for beginners book is really helping me get back to my authentic self a person who hates nastiness can't watch life like violence in film and really just wants to live as best a person as who I can be. I just hope you are okay I've never experienced anything like it and all the time I pray he gets proper help xx
@@Alabamasparra THANK YOU FOR CARING AND SHARING UR STORY. IM SEVERELY TRAUMA BONDED..THE NARCISSISTS WOULD GIVE ME MONTHS AND YEARS OF THE SILENT TREATMENT.. THIS ABUSE HAS BROKE ME DOWN TREMENDOUSLY.AFTER A 5 MONTH SILENT TREATMENT. I WAS HOVERED ON WEDNESDAY.. HE GOT WHAT HE WANTED OUTTA ME KNOW HE IS BACK NOT TALKING TO ME ITS CRUEL I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE SEEN SUCH EVILNESS..IN MY LIFE...
@Demi Gaines: I’m sorry to hear this has happened to you. It will get better. It’s time to take back your power from that man!! I would say pray and talk to God about EVERYTHING that is troubling you right now! You are worth so much more than what that man has told you! Focus on YOU! Who cares if he is with someone else?!? Time to start pouring into yourself again. Self love is the best love!!!🤗🤗🤗
I also dealt with a narcissist that was also a gold digger and a nymphomaniac. So I gave different kinds of supply. So if I didnt have money to buy dinner or gifts or intimate acts in bed, the narcissist would get that from another supply. But I was devalued and later discarded. Because it got supply's that gave everything I gave and used to give. So not having a job helped me and I could eventually walk away and go 'no contact'. Eventhough I lost my savings, myself and my precious time and energy on a lying and cheating and gold digging narcissist. But I'm free and work on my new beginning including a new job.
This was honest and brilliant! I really hope my ex saw this. I do think he tried to do this for a few months, but whenever I couldn't live up to his unreasonable expectations, or tried to hold him accountable. I feel then he really was looking hard for backups. I hope he follows your lead and invests in making himself the person he would've been had he not self abandoned as a child. Oh well, at least I'm away from all that harm!
This is the best way I have EVER heard this explained. Lightbulb went off in my brain. I knew his side chicks were wrong, but I didn't know why til you explained it. Thanks Ben. 😊
My ex admitted he is scared putting all of his eggs in one basket so he has many, but always denied it couldn't even admit it. Now he is writing an autobiography with a ghost writer (again using somewone else's skill to his benefit) and is admitting he is a narcissist - it sure will help the book sell. Would he get therapy though? NO. Would he contact you like I suggested? NO. Does he have multiple supply now that I cut him off? Oh yes...You are very rare for doing the HARD work. Most just get smarter and manipulate better. His motto being: path of least resistance. I choose the hard work as growth doesnt happen in comfort. In therapy now and hopeful of a better future.
This analogy was so straightforward and powerful. Thanks for making it so easy to understand. It puts a lot in perspective for me as I wrap my mind around the relationship I just survived. Much appreciated.
It's Amazing the effort and work you're putting in to change you're life to be s better person and to be good to you're wife or partner, hats off , keep up the great work on your pernal goals and thanks for helping sooo many of us ....
Hi Ben I remember that I had introduced my narassist to my friend at our house warming party the min I left he began to whisper in her ear that he love her. When I told him I saw what he did he denied and said that he will never disrespect me infront my friends... And in end when I discard him she became the new supply. Although he saw her at 3 different parties with 3 different men. Its so insane because he told me that I'm having multiple affairs and will get him sick when he was the sick pervert all along
My ex was 100% like this stole much of my retirement. He wouldn’t get help I left… life is soooo much better!! Sad existence is right. Evil if they don’t get help.
your word are Very powerful and helpful makes me think now if I was just a supply for him. Like we were not gonna go anywhere with me not trusting him anymore because i was done with everything. Thank you for this
So much respect for you Ben. You are doing great. Wish you the best. I can tell you that being vulnerable and honest gives you more respect than everything else. The shame will fade with that. You are a great example . I am not able until now doing this but I am working on that. Thank you so much
I believed my x narcissist when he would be hanging out with an old lady and he said, he was only helping her move he was actually probably sleeping with her I just couldn't believe it because, she was old and mentally unstable and than all the other women because, they were either old, unattractive or, overweight. He was Hot and in his late 30s most of these women were much older than him.
I don't understand the difference between having a spouse, friends, coworkers versus this idea of multiple supply. Mine spent so much time putting everything on me I wished he had a life outside of me. I simply couldn't be his everything.
If one or the other person is a Christian in this trauma bond, the Narcissist is attacking/using one of God’s elect and God’s elect is accepting it. Neither seems to be aware that it is God being offended here the most. * ** Christians, don’t allow a Narcissist to keep you trapped and devalued. Remember your identity is in Christ. How offensive it is to allow another person to treat you as though the work Christ did can be trampled on by such a sick person.***
If they aren't getting therapy, what are the chances that he is 100% with his new person? Can he just suddenly decide to turn over a new leaf? Idk much but I guess he's "happy" his FB states he's "in a relationship " something he has never done before
@Stacey: right now you need to focus on YOU! I know it’s hard but in order for you to heal, your priority needs to be YOU. Forget about him and what he’s doing. I’ve been there so I know what you’re currently experiencing. Pour into yourself. Self love is the best love!!!! 🤗🤗🤗
@Stacey Don’t stark his social media post because you’re never heal from him. Unfriend him and block him because as long as you’re friends with him he knows it and he will post things. Move forward with your life. The new supply is no better than you he’s just using her to get back at you. He want you to think that it’s better with the new supply but it’s not. I’m pretty sure he’s lying to her about you and just hope she will see him for who he really is. Just focus on your well being. We all have been through it. Some worse than others. Mine had got physical and I had to get the police involved and sent him to jail. I have a lifetime protective order on him so he won’t bother me anymore and I don’t care if he does have someone else. But it takes time to get over it. Just take it day by day. Pray and ask God to heal your mind and heart from it and he will. Promise. He did for me and he will do it for you. Peace and blessings to you. ❤️
@Stacey And I’m also going through therapy and it helps me a lot. Meditation is also good. You can do this but please don’t go back because it always get worse and never better.
where are you located I will like to see you in person I’m in deep in this and want to see how I get out without damaging to much do to 3 kids involved
I've seen a kid have the silent treatment, breadcrumbs of love given, hoovered back in and then discarded and repeat. It all makes sense now as to what was happening. Its brutal for the child and they need help to understand it and recover from by professionals as it truly does I affect them I think. It is brutal xx
I’m the child of a narcissist. So when the narcissist alienates the child then the child usually becomes a narcissist, an empath, and/or a codependent. Others become the narcissistic supply, because the child no longer feels safe enough to be close to their narcissistic parent. Later in life the narcissistic parent often loses having their child around them because as an adult the child of a narcissist chooses to stay away from the parent that emotionally abused them, abandoned them, and who was extremely damaging and unhealthy for them to be around. I hope this helps.
Why are Narcs so scared I don’t get it. If they choose to be with someone it’s because they want to. They are monogamous until they get bored it seems. Better move on. Break up. And start with another if that’s the issue. Why have three headaches if you can’t handle one 🤣 I think it’s more ethical to break up and leave. What’s a relationship if based on cheating and pain? But the pattern is the same with all narcs as you said. They feel they own you. Thank you for educating us through your own experiences so we can unmask the narc and either decide to stay willingly or run.. 😊
They are immature emotionally stunted kids they want new toy when they get bored wth old toy..when someone wants toy to play with they want..it's like toy story..Woody and buzz..
Really I just can’t comprehend what u are saying I gave him the best to him and my six children I have no mercy for him the way he hurt me sorry but I’m human not God it’s going to take me a very long time how about meeeeee???can u give me an answer Mr Barc what gives u and others the wright to have new supply Pleeeseee!!!🤥🤮💯👎
My ex couldn't walk down the street without twisting his head around to gawp at women.
I was not created to be a side chick, last choice, backup, plaything, fling, afterthought, or mistress. Not my jam. Never was. Never will be.
Would love to help you on your healing journey. If I can be of help feel free to grab a time here at www.calendly.com/rawmotivations
What he would say when I challenged this was, "you get more of me than anybody else, more than anyone ever has." Like I was supposed to be greatful...and I knew if I pushed it, he'd ghost me and talk to all of them and I'd have to wait several days for him to come back after teaching me my lesson. :/
Grateful for scraps ..possibility of catching std from p ther supplies or random they have sex with..the lies the games..nahlet hum be a ghost and nake sure he is blocked sonje can not haunt you.
Mine said to me once in a row "I've given up talking to so many people for you"
I was like what people????
I was a comfort toy or a safety blanket. I thought it was a mutual connection but it’s just a source of comfort for him. It’s so demeaning. I was supposed to be the back up for his new gf. He didn’t tell me for months. I was his priority while he was trying to get his ex back, now the cycle has engulfed someone else. I cried for months thinking about how empty things rly were for me.
His ex was still in the picture as a friend. She was clearly stuck. He was still stuck. But for different reasons. By being his friend she signed up for staying stuck and having to watch new women come into his life which made her jealous, but she still cared about him so she questioned him and checked in on him. She thought she had the right to message MY boyfriend and Put as many kisses as she liked. Childish behaviour from her. He was still grieving her and the relationship so he used me. Tried to tweak me to style myself more like her. Wanted me in colours and styles she liked. Which is weird as he said he never fancied her but fancied his other exes and me. Yet he saw get as a little sister and apparently regrets hurting her but would never want her back. We broke up in april when he text her to say he'd heard a song from their relationship and wanted her to listen. He said he was listening to it on repeat and crying at the memories. It still makes me cringe 5 months on. I found evidence of what I questioned him on for 18 months. I was devastated.
Block his ass..
I wish my ex narc could see this...you describe exactly all that he does...exactly. He has all these split up attentions...given out to so many people at once. They cannot see.. that it just hurts them from having a true and meaningful relationship. Only being a small percent in...doesn’t get you the rewards of a loving relationship. They are always on the fence edge. Trying to please many at the same time instead of just one...like why would you want that kind of life? Tiring to always be pleasing all these others...if you ask me. Sad existence really sad.
The narc I know said that I was asking for too much and that he couldn’t give me what I wanted, or that he was empty inside and had nothing to give. It was weird, almost like he had been doing it so long that he didn’t know how to stop…but honestly I’m not convinced he wanted to.
Hm sounds like codependency.........
It is the ego trip of having a harem of desperate women saying "pick me"... The narc can sit back and bathe in the ego trip...but... The other 23 hours of every day is dead... No connection of substance ..
Totally.
@@rocachick860 Funny my ex said the exact same thing to me
If any narcissist is going to become self aware then it's nearly always the malignant narcissist.
I do deserve to be a priority.
Yup. Cannot even imagine how many women he has hurt or is messing with in this way. Legions.
I was wondering why they keep their exes and chasing new catches continuously I was wondering why they can't afford to be faithful
THATS EXACTLY WHAT MY LIFE WAS LIKE,AND I WAS NOTHING TO THEM AND I AM SO GLAD I GOT OUT!!!!!!!!!
Glad you are able to get out. You are strong! I wish you the best on your healing.
It was like he was always baiting, playing the just a friend card, seeing who might bite.
There is a saying .........'' If you are running after more than one rabbit at a time, you wont catch any ! ''
Bahahaha that is so true. The Narc cheats himself the most and doesn’t realize it. Never feeling any real feelings and being an empty loser. Sounds fun 😝
Won't be fun when they figure him out and get together and call his rat ass out..being single is hard but it's better than this!!!
I was raised in a narcissistic household by two narcissistic parents. I have narcissistic traits that I only use as a defense mechanism against narcissists. I can control my narcissistic traits. I do get narcissistic thoughts but my empathetic traits and common sense override my narcissistic thoughts. Being a Super Empath I can behave like a narcissist to teach them a lesson and again as a way to protect myself from narcissistic people who are up to no good. I have to keep my narcissistic side.
I love the water glass illustration you were right on point. What unaware narcissists don't understand is the fact that even though they appear to be tough and emotionless some people can see the human being underneath all the smoke and mirrors. My covert narcissistic male coworker shows me his human side without realizing it all the time. I can see he tries so hide but he doesn't fool me. Some people are afraid of the narcissistic stare I found out that's one of a handful of ways to find out what the narcissist refuses to say to avoid showing vulnerability. The narcissistic stare can create a emotional and mental connection between the Super Empath and the narcissist. The Super Empath and the narcissist have the best and worst connection considering the two have a lot in common. The Super Empath experienced narcissistic abuse and refuses to be treated like that ever again.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS.
THE WORSE FEELING IN THE WORLD IS BEING TOLD BY SOMEONE THAT U LOVE THAT THERE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE ELSE..THE NARCISSTIS THAT I WAS INVOLVED IN HORRIBLY ABUSED ME HE GETS OFF TELLING ME HE IS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE..
IT HURTS SO MUCH. THIS PERSON DESTROYED MY LIFE MY SELF WORTH AND MY SELF ESTEEM..
I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHO I AM.
NARCISSISTIC ABUSE IS BRUTAL...
Hope you are ok. I've been through the mill and all these videos help. The thing I can't bear which I began to feel is anger. So I'm reading about Buddha now... if I ever said anything slightly mean in response to his abuse I would apologise. I've found myself angry again and the Buddha for beginners book is really helping me get back to my authentic self a person who hates nastiness can't watch life like violence in film and really just wants to live as best a person as who I can be. I just hope you are okay I've never experienced anything like it and all the time I pray he gets proper help xx
@@Alabamasparra
THANK YOU FOR CARING AND SHARING UR STORY.
IM SEVERELY TRAUMA BONDED..THE NARCISSISTS WOULD GIVE ME MONTHS AND YEARS OF THE SILENT TREATMENT..
THIS ABUSE HAS BROKE ME DOWN TREMENDOUSLY.AFTER A 5 MONTH SILENT TREATMENT. I WAS HOVERED ON WEDNESDAY..
HE GOT WHAT HE WANTED OUTTA ME KNOW HE IS BACK NOT TALKING TO ME ITS CRUEL I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE SEEN SUCH EVILNESS..IN MY LIFE...
@Demi Gaines: I’m sorry to hear this has happened to you. It will get better. It’s time to take back your power from that man!! I would say pray and talk to God about EVERYTHING that is troubling you right now! You are worth so much more than what that man has told you! Focus on YOU! Who cares if he is with someone else?!? Time to start pouring into yourself again. Self love is the best love!!!🤗🤗🤗
Get out, stay out!
I also dealt with a narcissist that was also a gold digger and a nymphomaniac. So I gave different kinds of supply. So if I didnt have money to buy dinner or gifts or intimate acts in bed, the narcissist would get that from another supply. But I was devalued and later discarded. Because it got supply's that gave everything I gave and used to give. So not having a job helped me and I could eventually walk away and go 'no contact'. Eventhough I lost my savings, myself and my precious time and energy on a lying and cheating and gold digging narcissist. But I'm free and work on my new beginning including a new job.
This was really helpful to hear from a narcissist’s perspective the analogy of the water glasses. Great visual! Thanks
This was honest and brilliant! I really hope my ex saw this. I do think he tried to do this for a few months, but whenever I couldn't live up to his unreasonable expectations, or tried to hold him accountable. I feel then he really was looking hard for backups. I hope he follows your lead and invests in making himself the person he would've been had he not self abandoned as a child. Oh well, at least I'm away from all that harm!
Thank you I appreciate it.
Thx for your honesty. Hard to hear but very refreshing & helpful.
This is the best way I have EVER heard this explained. Lightbulb went off in my brain. I knew his side chicks were wrong, but I didn't know why til you explained it. Thanks Ben. 😊
My ex admitted he is scared putting all of his eggs in one basket so he has many, but always denied it couldn't even admit it. Now he is writing an autobiography with a ghost writer (again using somewone else's skill to his benefit) and is admitting he is a narcissist - it sure will help the book sell. Would he get therapy though? NO. Would he contact you like I suggested? NO. Does he have multiple supply now that I cut him off? Oh yes...You are very rare for doing the HARD work. Most just get smarter and manipulate better. His motto being: path of least resistance. I choose the hard work as growth doesnt happen in comfort. In therapy now and hopeful of a better future.
This analogy was so straightforward and powerful. Thanks for making it so easy to understand. It puts a lot in perspective for me as I wrap my mind around the relationship I just survived. Much appreciated.
Your doing it! Thats amazing and incredibly strong. Thanks for being you and sharing your journey of truth 🙏
It's Amazing the effort and work you're putting in to change you're life to be s better person and to be good to you're wife or partner, hats off , keep up the great work on your pernal goals and thanks for helping sooo many of us ....
Hi Ben I remember that I had introduced my narassist to my friend at our house warming party the min I left he began to whisper in her ear that he love her. When I told him I saw what he did he denied and said that he will never disrespect me infront my friends... And in end when I discard him she became the new supply. Although he saw her at 3 different parties with 3 different men. Its so insane because he told me that I'm having multiple affairs and will get him sick when he was the sick pervert all along
Ben that was an excellent illustration of Truth
Thank you for this, it helps me understand what’s happening so i can fight better
Really appreciate you and your channel ✨🦋
Ive seen alot of videos... this hit me HARD.
The water in the glasses = genius
Thank you
Thank you. Would love to help you on your healing journey. If I can be of help feel free to grab a time here at rawmotivations.com/one-on-ones
Thank you for having the courage to share your vulnerability with us. That was a very powerful video!
Thank you. It’s been tough to get more vulnerable
@@RawMotivations you’re doing great. And helping many.
Great video. You break it down like no one else is, Ben. Thank you!
Thank you
Please keep these videos coming! This was SO eye opening. Enlightening. I come here daily to check your new posts. Thank you!
This is awesome you have proved it's doable with determination keep moving
Just now I thought I will light a candle + include you in my prayers from now on for ur work ur doing 4 urself & many others too 👍 🙏
Hi 👋 sorry your going through this . I understand 😞😞❤️🙏🏽
Hello Ben thanks for describing the specifics about so called bad and good SUPPLY toxic...
Happy to help
My ex was 100% like this stole much of my retirement. He wouldn’t get help I left… life is soooo much better!! Sad existence is right. Evil if they don’t get help.
Bravo Ben God Bless...
your word are Very powerful and helpful makes me think now if I was just a supply for him. Like we were not gonna go anywhere with me not trusting him anymore because i was done with everything. Thank you for this
Thank you ❤️
So much respect for you Ben. You are doing great. Wish you the best. I can tell you that being vulnerable and honest gives you more respect than everything else. The shame will fade with that. You are a great example . I am not able until now doing this but I am working on that. Thank you so much
Really great insights 🙌
Hello Ben. Thank you!!
My exes were the best .Thank you🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Ben ❤️
Thank you for this explanation. It really helped put "things" into perspective! God bless you!
Thank you
He is not gonna be faithful to anyone.
Thank you! ❤️
Super helpful
I believed my x narcissist when he would be hanging out with an old lady and he said, he was only helping her move he was actually probably sleeping with her I just couldn't believe it because, she was old and mentally unstable and than all the other women because, they were either old, unattractive or, overweight. He was Hot and in his late 30s most of these women were much older than him.
Wow
I don't understand the difference between having a spouse, friends, coworkers versus this idea of multiple supply. Mine spent so much time putting everything on me I wished he had a life outside of me. I simply couldn't be his everything.
Keep fingers crossed for you, you are an inspiration!
If one or the other person is a Christian in this trauma bond, the Narcissist is attacking/using one of God’s elect and God’s elect is accepting it.
Neither seems to be aware that it is God being offended here the most.
* ** Christians, don’t allow a Narcissist to keep you trapped and devalued. Remember your identity is in Christ. How offensive it is to allow another person to treat you as though the work Christ did can be trampled on by such a sick person.***
AMEN!!!
I don't see a link is there another way I can contact you??
Yes it’s in the description. Here you go www.calendly.com/rawmotivations
It could be because, they helped him supply his drug addiction.
And isnt it just a matter of you actually falling in love? Rather than an aspect of a narcissist wanting to change?
If they aren't getting therapy, what are the chances that he is 100% with his new person? Can he just suddenly decide to turn over a new leaf? Idk much but I guess he's "happy" his FB states he's "in a relationship " something he has never done before
@Stacey: right now you need to focus on YOU! I know it’s hard but in order for you to heal, your priority needs to be YOU. Forget about him and what he’s doing. I’ve been there so I know what you’re currently experiencing. Pour into yourself. Self love is the best love!!!! 🤗🤗🤗
@Stacey Don’t stark his social media post because you’re never heal from him. Unfriend him and block him because as long as you’re friends with him he knows it and he will post things. Move forward with your life. The new supply is no better than you he’s just using her to get back at you. He want you to think that it’s better with the new supply but it’s not. I’m pretty sure he’s lying to her about you and just hope she will see him for who he really is. Just focus on your well being. We all have been through it. Some worse than others. Mine had got physical and I had to get the police involved and sent him to jail. I have a lifetime protective order on him so he won’t bother me anymore and I don’t care if he does have someone else. But it takes time to get over it. Just take it day by day. Pray and ask God to heal your mind and heart from it and he will. Promise. He did for me and he will do it for you. Peace and blessings to you. ❤️
@Stacey And I’m also going through therapy and it helps me a lot. Meditation is also good. You can do this but please don’t go back because it always get worse and never better.
@@tracylee6099 I am not friends with him on or off fb ...been no contact but it hurts
@@tracylee6099 ty 🙏 and I don't see him trying to come back this time
where are you located I will like to see you in person
I’m in deep in this and want to see how I get out without damaging to much do to 3 kids involved
Www.Rawmotivations.Com/breakthrough
What made you choose to stop seeking supply?
You didn't mention why you need multiple supplies??
Do you think thought fuel is a thing?
So when narcissist’s alienates the children do the children become the new supply?
I've seen a kid have the silent treatment, breadcrumbs of love given, hoovered back in and then discarded and repeat. It all makes sense now as to what was happening. Its brutal for the child and they need help to understand it and recover from by professionals as it truly does I affect them I think. It is brutal xx
I’m the child of a narcissist. So when the narcissist alienates the child then the child usually becomes a narcissist, an empath, and/or a codependent. Others become the narcissistic supply, because the child no longer feels safe enough to be close to their narcissistic parent. Later in life the narcissistic parent often loses having their child around them because as an adult the child of a narcissist chooses to stay away from the parent that emotionally abused them, abandoned them, and who was extremely damaging and unhealthy for them to be around. I hope this helps.
Why are Narcs so scared I don’t get it. If they choose to be with someone it’s because they want to. They are monogamous until they get bored it seems. Better move on. Break up. And start with another if that’s the issue. Why have three headaches if you can’t handle one 🤣
I think it’s more ethical to break up and leave. What’s a relationship if based on cheating and pain? But the pattern is the same with all narcs as you said. They feel they own you.
Thank you for educating us through your own experiences so we can unmask the narc and either decide to stay willingly or run.. 😊
They are immature emotionally stunted kids they want new toy when they get bored wth old toy..when someone wants toy to play with they want..it's like toy story..Woody and buzz..
Supply my ass!!!
Really I just can’t comprehend what u are saying I gave him the best to him and my six children I have no mercy for him the way he hurt me sorry but I’m human not God it’s going to take me a very long time how about meeeeee???can u give me an answer Mr Barc what gives u and others the wright to have new supply Pleeeseee!!!🤥🤮💯👎
U chose to have a new supply how 😷 all of u !!!do uuu realise what uuuu put ur partners through sorry all of u narcs are evil 👿💯