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As an INTP wife I go to another room to send my husband a couple of outdated philosoraptor memes to create a romantic atmosphere beforehand. Gotta keep the marriage strong
As an INTP, you will never know If I got kidnapped for 18 hours or if I just got too distracted and didn’t touch my phone for a full day. Also I love the videos Frank!
I honestly don't understand how other people do it. I've been trying for years now to become better at replying to...anyone via any medium and I have yet to learn the secret.
I'm always on Phone tho but I don't open to chat others 😭I always watching TH-cam or reading and they can't call me cause if I'm reading I airplane mode my phone
@@naso.r1129 Of course! English isn’t my 1st language, but: Gray eyes may appear to “change color” from gray to blue to green depending on clothing, lighting, and mood (which may change the size of the pupil, compressing the colors of the iris). Eyes look more blue/gray/green for the same reason as the sky appears to have different shades of blue :) it depends on the light
Me and my INTP girlfriend once had a discussion about how love works and its effect on a person psychologically, and go as far as talking about neuroscience, and also discussed how we became together by discussing from facial features, to how our parents nurture style influenced our preferences. Yeah... we're being nerds.
I'm an INTP female and my bf is INTJ. We had a conversation that lasted multiple hours at the beginning of our relationship (that we both refused to label as a relationship for the first year, it was purely a way to quell our lust and unavoidable desire to procreate based on evolutionary traits 😂) about how love was a construct created by codependent people who were incapable of being confident and comfortable on their own. Add a spicy dash of mommy/daddy issues mixed in for flavor. We discussed the idea we as humans are attracted to the pheromones of individuals that have significantly different genomes than ourselves to enhance the likelihood of finding a mate that was genetically sound when mixed with our own. Anyways we've been together for eight years and both finally caved to the idea that love is real. I love him...damn it 😒
I once explained to this guy I was constantly chatting with and then suddenly stopped and disappeared that the reason he missed me and thought I was someone special was due to the separation anxiety he got after his habit of constantly talking to me was cut off at once.
As an INTP dude with an INTP partner, I can confirm that the vast majority of our collective chat history (that isn't asking where someone is meant to be or who's cooking dinner) is either outdated memes that would make no sense to anyone else, or bizarre references to conversations we've had previously about hyper-specific topics, and exactly zero small talk. We literally just yeet memes at each other as a love language. Before we moved in together, we'd go days or weeks at a time without a dot of communication too.
@@Tess-to8hy lol that is more than enough contact for an INTP! Also as an INTP, you inherently know the other INTP is just staring at the void absorbing knowledge or hyperfixating on a project that'll get half-finished, there's no "this is not committed" that comes into question. We're the ultimate in low maintenance in that we'd prefer you not indulge in maintenance, it tastes like hovering. The flip side of the coin is that we will happily stay up to 3am on a breathless daisy-chain of nerdy topics segueing from one to the next, and that's all the conversation we need for a while. We've been together for 14 years now, so seems to have worked out alright!
We texts exactly like that. It contains mostly memes or about games or even about science stuffs and brainstorm in the middle of the night. He's the best one i found rn who matches my vibe -intp
As an INTP with an ESTP husband I asked him if I was like this when we were dating to which he very lovingly but bluntly replied "Yes." He said that he didn't understand what I was saying most of the time because I spoke too fast and I seemed to know random tidbits of trivia for everything (I was afraid of awkward silences so I desperately tried to come up with conversation starters so he wouldn't think I was as socially inept as I am). He then told me that after a short period of time he started to think my vast trivia knowledge was cute and fascinating so he decided to keep me since I'd be a constant source of entertainment for him. 😁
Isn't it great being a trivia god? I'm getting married today and we had a party last night on the roof of my future brother-in-law's house where we are having the ceremony. He's an ENTJ and kept playing random 80's and 90's songs trying to stump me on name of band and song. Half the time I gave him the album and the year within a couple years as well plus stories about the song. Another guy that tried to play too was having his mind blown.
@@rogerhuggettjr.7675 Congratulations on your wedding! 🥳 🥂🍾 and yeah, being a trivia master is awesome! Your comment actually reminds me of when my aunt got married in the beginning of the month and her bachelorette party was at a male strip show and every time they started a new song I would lean over and tell my mother (ISFP) the name and band of the song before they even started singing. She looked so impressed 😁. Also we were both too shy to ask for lap dances (and on medication so we can't have "liquid courage"), but our aunt and her other bridesmaids certainly enjoyed themselves that night 😅
😂 my bf said something similar the other day. My bf is an infp, and said that my logical reasoning balances him out when he’s upset about something and being irrational. He also says he’s learned more from being with me than he probably ever would have had we not been together. We’ve been together for almost 11 years and we’re both content with not being married yet. Not because we don’t want to be, but because we don’t see the need to rush things because we’re both just as committed regardless of rings and a piece of paper. We get this question a lot 😒 I like a lot of things but in particular I’m a transportation infrastructure nerd mostly focused on trains. It’s all connected through. 🧐
As an intp girl, I admit I would only be satisfied in a relationship if I was able to talk about nerdy things with my SO. In my case there would be less physics and more history and biology, but still.
As an INTP man, I cannot stand history and biology, way too much memorization for me. I'll stick to physics. Though for conversations, I like to talk philosophy and morals, or just really abstract questions. My favorite is one involving time travel and using it to illustrate determinism.
As a wasted ENTP, why is this relatable *cries* but more to the politics within the history and... oh well I guess I will trap anyone smart enough to catch my -brokenness- interest in endless tangents even in front of their bathroom door-- btw did you know that lightnings can be used to make nitrogen-potassium fertilizers for free while also be possibly engineered as subscription-free music player? Also I guess I have forgotten about how to make strikethroughs in youtube comments, that sucks how it's different from other social media...
I'm an ENTP and I totally get this. I can't imagine myself being a couple with an S user who'll be bored or annoyed from any kind of theoretical talk in a minute or less.
It warms my heart as an INTP female that someone gets me like Frank in this video...and then also there's chance that I can be a girlfriend 😉. That "disappear for 6 weeks thing, not answering all the texts for days, and 3 hr naps" are 100% real tho.😆
Find an ISFP partner. They'll make you dinner and clean the house before joining you for the 3-hour nap! Of course, my fiancée often takes longer than the 3 hours leaving me time to youtube for a few more hours without judgement.
Let me tell you, that even if I had several attractive extraverted girl friends , for me as an INTP INTP women are very attractive. Why ? Honesty , high grade of consciousness, really low on narcissistic level and good humour. I ended up with an INFJ woman, who has similar traits. When I was young it was different. So don't undervalue yourself,please!
"Would you still love me if I was a worm?" 😂 I loved when Normal girlfriend looked at INTP with the puzzled look. Wow, INTP girlfriend has a lot on her mind! Hilarious! 🙌🤣
I object! My personal hygiene is beyond reproach. It does take a lot for me to dress up beyond a t-shirt though. Meeting my in-laws was absolutely a t-shirt occasion. -INTP
Before I knew I was an INTP, 5-6 years ago, I thought how easy it'd be if I just wore white t-shirts when I went to college. Well, now that I'm in college... I don't have that many t-shirts. But I'm totally thinking of getting some more of those oversized cropped t-shirts next year!
Still wearing the T shirt I got as 'present' when I applied for that business school in 2013. Turns out if you wash clothes they can be used repeatedly. I don't especially like that shirt, but it's a fabric that can be used, it fits its purpose. It's the same with everything else, I think INTP do consume very few things, unless it's their specific and obscure hobby. I'm surprised cooking and cleaning don't appear here because I suspect INTP girlfriend aren't that motivated by it lol. I'm certainly not.
I have a theory that INTP females are better about hygiene than our male counterparts on average since nearly every time that stereotype gets brought up a bunch of us say it doesn’t apply to us. (Don’t yell at me INTP males I’m sure there are many outliers even if I’m right.)
I told my husband he'd only have to spend time with my family the same number of times he made me go see his family...and pointed out I only saw my family about 2 times a yr if that. And putting on a plain shirt with no weird references or sayings on it is totally dressing up.
Me, INTP woman whose never been in a relationship, i agree 😂 Thank you Frank for portraying us, people often assume that INTPs ars always men and never women
As someone who has over 200 unread messages in my inbox, decided to spend many hours researching Greek lexicons (I have never studied Greek before), and consider myself to be a nap connoisseur, I give this video an INTP stamp of approval 😅
As an INTP, this started out as "haha funny" and then quickly became so scarily accurate that I'm wondering if I've been cloned. I have quite literally lived this series of events 💀
I ❤ INTPs and their eccentricity. Never been in a relationship with one, but had INTP female coworker who was school librarian, grammar nerd, and went to comic con
OK, so thanks for showing me that INTPs are people I would LOVE to be around. Their train of thought is as fun as any adventure I could go have outside..... with a lot less bug bites.
1:14 If anyone ever asked me if I would still love them if they were a worm, I would just say "No, because we would've never met." That, in my opinion, is way more honest and romantic than just saying yes. -An INTP Male
The thing I found most relatable as an INTP is when people express their feelings twords me. I think exactly that, but the only thing that comes out is "why, exactly, do you care for me?" 😂
I love how we're just Science geeks and every third word is some scientific lingo nobody cares or understands. I did expect the following tho: "I am sorry I didn't pick up your call, I fell in a Wikipedia rabbit hole and needed to discover what the Founding Fathers have in common with the Balkan wars" Or "I'd love to take a picture with you, but my phone's memory isn't working because I have 99+ tabs open, and half of them are Wikipedia"
As an INTP woman, I have a window of two weeks to conduct my loner shenanigans before anyone starts demanding proof of life... and by "anyone" I mean my mom.
Yeah, she used to freak out because I'd drive across a border and 3 states and never think to call her and let her know where I was and if I was ok. "Well, duh, of course I'm ok". I knew where I was the entire time, I just don't get people.
I border between INTP & INFP. I relate to some of the stereotypes. I often wonder how certain mental health issues and being neurodivergent come into play with the varying personality types.
Autism drives you towards INXJ, ADHD drives you more towards a perceiving type, so AuDHD ends up around INXP. MBTI does a crap job of differentiating E/I for autistics, though. Extroverted autistics tend to make faux pas, get traumatized by the blowback, and develop introverted trauma responses, so MBTI dumps them in the I category.
@@Catlily5 I have diagnosed ADHD and undiagnosed but very likely autism. I'm quite extroverted by nature, but I was the smartest kid in my class in elementary school, knew it, and made sure my classmates knew it. That went over about as well as you'd think, and by 3rd grade or so I'd decided not to be friends with anyone unless they were friends with me first. And the aftermath from that is why I test as INTP rather than ENTP.
@@JonBrase I decided not to be friends with anyone unless they wanted to be friends with me. But I still approached people. But I refused to fetch or run errands for people just to have a "friend". I also refused to be friends with a girl who said she would hang out with me after school as long as I pretended not to be her friend in school. I was smart and nerdy but not the smartest in the school. It didn't help my popularity. My social skills also sucked. I tested as an introvert as a teenager but slowly reverted back to being an extrovert as an adult. I am not super extroverted though.
1:01 floored me. I've literally said something of the kind to my bf. How do i know you love me and not some other version of me you've created in your head by projecting the contents of your psyche onto me, as if I were a projection screen? It doesn't help that I'm bland af 😂
1:29 I have an INTP boyfriend and he definitely treats time like an illusion. He sometimes comes hours late when we plan a time to meet up. And yeah it kind of looks like he doesn't respect me, but I also know he really struggles with sleep in general. He falls asleep anywhere, and for a really long time. Once a fire alarm went off in his dormitory, and he slept through all that and didn't even know 😭It's ok I think he plans to see a cousnelor about it, but generally he isn't so strict with time or even deadlines for schoolwork. Sometimes I think he's too laidback
As an INTP man, most of these sound interesting. Except the part where she didn't shower before meeting the parents, and not responding to 47 texts even after finding it out. Not the 47 messages missed, but the continuation of non-responsiveness. Just... a life sign is all I ask. Unfortunately, we'll never meet, because I'm stuck at home the time that I don't spend at work, because why would one bother with the immediate viscinity when the internet is *right there*, a connection to any place in the world? Anyway. I hope you're happy, dear INTP ladies.
You don't want 2 intps for a romantic relationship anyway. That dog's not gonna hunt. Intps need a more dominant, assertive partner because someone has got to be in charge of the relationship and it's not gonna be us. At a minimum we need someone that will let us know when we're in a relationship.
This was pretty accurate 😹. Loved the diving into some random knowledge for absolutely no reason, except to quench that intp’s thirst for knowledge 😹. Also, was waiting for the “you forgot to feed me” part but wasn’t there 🥺 -intp
Savage. I feel seen. 🖤 The only differences being I might blurt out factoids on plant genetics, not light. And I make a big effort to be punctual, but sometimes I get the day wrong. 😅
After +20 years getting the INTP as result in the MBTI test I still cannot accept being an INTP. Until my well Tik tok -informed 11 year old told me she heard about something called MBTI and her results are INTP and proceeded to explain her results. I rest my case 😂
infp man who realizes that im extremely entertaining the thought of what if i had an intp gf too much, help it's too wholesome and im falling for the trope!! 😵💫💞
It’s not all bad being an INTP woman 😆 Yeah, we’re weird but people usually like how nonjudgmental and chill we can be. And if we work with our Fe, our pedantic rambling is actually kind of cute. Or so I’ve been told… Have been with my ISFJ partner for 6 years now ❤❤❤
Wow. INTP here and my partner is also an ISFJ. 12 years so far. Despite our minds being on different planes of existence (I don't think he understands half the things I talk about and we don't really communicate well), it still somehow manages to miraculously work itself out.
@@athens31415 my daughter is actually an ISFJ and our relationship is pretty easygoing. She likes to talk a lot, lol, just like my INFJ partner. (A little taxing on this hyper-internal mind of mine)
At first I was like "ehhh not really me.." until he said "solve this 3000 year old equation" that and everything that came after was spot on 😂😂😂 whooops
I love how at 0:50 'normal girlfriend' turns to the INTP one just as if she heard all those 'ridiculous things' and was like: girl what is wrong with you?
Haha I’m an INTJ and have 2 good friends whose husbands are INTPs and I would have been miserable married to either of them. I ❤️ my neurotic INFJ husband.
"Emotionless" they called me ."Wierd girl" " Robot" And I come from a culture that different types are rarely understood. Sometimes I was heartbtoken and tried to change or pretend to be more "girly" . Sometimes I was proud to be the intteligent independant woman. "Love could be illusion " I agree. 😂 INTP but still am not sure while I have some INTJ traits too.
do not worry, i hover between INTP and INTJ...and i may be on the spectrum too..(Aspie??) Yes, i was labelled "strange" or Weird as a child OR an Old Soul...
As an INFP with super duper interest in physics , maths and patterns , I would love to have an INTP girlfriend to mess up her mind with quantum and relativistic mechanics . Those theories are just the chef's kiss to entire Physics .
I would like to have an INTP woman as a bestie because the whole quantum mechanics wormhole experiment was just banging! Just as long as we don't discover warp 10....
I saw the most amazing documentary on Bubbles one time. Did you know that sometimes when a bubble pops under water, it can emit light? Fascinating stuff. Oh, and I think most of us also secretly have Mr. Spock as a role model :D
Lowkey, as an INTP girl who has been in relationships (both platonic and romantic), the INTP shown in the video is a more immature type of INTP that usually isn't able to get into relationships because of their very underdeveloped Fi. My Fi is actually decently developed, so I never come off as the type of INTP in the video, but am deeply socially and emotionally awkward at my core. I've learned enough to be able to pass off as generally normal, but it's all because I imitate/have learned to internalize general set steps on how to be "pleasant".
This are INTP stereotypes so everyone should take it with a grain of salt. I'm also pissed tho since everyone thinks INTPs dont feel emotions and quantifies everything which is an overgeneralization for the most part.
i told my friend time is an illusion and he didn't believe me and kept on trying to convince me it is real. and he is supposedly the rational one in our friendship
I remember going to Vegas for my birthday with friends in my 20’s. The night of my birthday, they all planned to celebrate with me. But they couldn’t find me, because I was alone at the blackjack and craps tables all day and most of the night, happily amusing myself! When they finally found me, I just kind of shrugged my shoulders, not realizing how big of a faux pas I was making by being lost when an entire group of people were trying to be nice and celebrate with me.
An INTP girlfriend here!😉 1.(nap) True😂my bf even once suggested a dating schedule where I can take a nap at his home in the middle of the day 2.(texts) Also technically true😂but my bf isn't talkative too...at most it was 4😂😂 3.(dress) Yes I wear a T-shirt to meet his parents every time😂but it's clean for real😉 4.(concept of love) Literally just argued "affection and the urge of selecting a capable partner" is a result of "evolution and ancient women's survival strategy" to my bf today😅 5.(question) I just never said the "would you still love me if ...." questions in any way simply because I think that's dumb😅 6.(late) So true that I'm so bad at time management😅😅 7.(check) Actually I always pay my own part even when he says he'll take it. Also not bad at money as my interests aren't costing much, and I have a good idea of how much of my income is disposable cash in mind. I actually found it interesting that FJ put the dedication to prepare this episode...I thought most of us would be hiding in our comfort zones, not meeting much ppl, and because of that, not big chance to get into a relationship.🙈
As an INFJ dating an INTP, dear Jod, this is true. It's not them if they're NOT late to anything by at least three hours or disappear off the face of the Earth. We both have no problems ignoring one another when our social batteries are low, which is honestly one of the most wonderful things I could hope for in a relationship.
I feel seen!!! 😂 Rather, I not only feel perceived visually, but also intuited within an acceptable level of accuracy by your representation of my type. Not that I noticed.
Outside of randomly disappearing like that the INTP girlfriend is clearly superior no cap. Of course she has glasses too because say it with me, “math+glasses=INTP girlfriend”
‘I’ll deal with this in the morning’- never have a related to something so much. In fact, I have things I’ve put on hold for years just to avoid doing them.
I'm not sure if I'm intp or infj haha but I relate to everything here. Though after being so cynical about love with my exes now I just simply keep those thoughts to myself. There is no need to make my bf doubt about my love for him just because I over analyze everything. There are just so many factors ...
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Ok!!!!!
Thank you, Frank, you never fail to make us laugh! 😂❤️
These rhymes are great! 😄
Frank James the Rapper
Thank you Frank for your rhyme
You really made me laugh this time!
Next time if you to
Could you do something extroverted and new?
The way she said "time is an illusion" so nonchalantly, as if it is common knowledge, is very accurate.
It's not?
it is common knowledge tho idk is it? bc like I think people say it a lot but I just like saying that bc of random space related videos I watch
i mean it is
It is common knowledge
It is common knowledge. I have been preaching this concept to everyone around my whole life.
As an INTP woman who has never been in a relationship, nice!
Edit: Lmao this is hilarious! There are literally dozens of us!
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Same
As an INTP woman who is married with 2 kids, these still apply. 😂
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Same ouah 😧
As an INTP wife I go to another room to send my husband a couple of outdated philosoraptor memes to create a romantic atmosphere beforehand. Gotta keep the marriage strong
Ah yes, the seduction through memes. As a fellow INTP, I approve.
😂😂😂😂
INTJ approves 🥂
noice!
Lovely
As an INTP man I'd say the only inaccurate part of the video was having any girlfriend at all
Fr tho
When you're a woman, at least one guy will just randomly offer every once in a while, so it's pretty low effort on our part.
@@terig8974 pretty much.
way easier to date as a girl than a male.
i relate to some of these, ENTP btw (also has no rizz and doesnt want any)
As an INTP, you will never know If I got kidnapped for 18 hours or if I just got too distracted and didn’t touch my phone for a full day. Also I love the videos Frank!
Omg exactly lol my friends always worry for my safety like that 😂
I honestly don't understand how other people do it. I've been trying for years now to become better at replying to...anyone via any medium and I have yet to learn the secret.
😂
I'm always on Phone tho but I don't open to chat others 😭I always watching TH-cam or reading and they can't call me cause if I'm reading I airplane mode my phone
@@quwu8448I relate😂
As an INTP girl, once I scientifically explained to my BF, why my grey eyes sometimes looked blue or green, so I laughed so hard at: 00:48
Can u explain it to me?🙃
@@naso.r1129 Of course! English isn’t my 1st language, but: Gray eyes may appear to “change color” from gray to blue to green depending on clothing, lighting, and mood (which may change the size of the pupil, compressing the colors of the iris). Eyes look more blue/gray/green for the same reason as the sky appears to have different shades of blue :) it depends on the light
@@DeeDeifiesGayo That's so interesting! I love learning things like that :)
@@bachynskylisa1 And I’m happy to be captain obvious 😀❤️ The world is amazing
@@DeeDeifiesGayo WTF I have grey eyes and always wondered why this happens I had no idea!
Me and my INTP girlfriend once had a discussion about how love works and its effect on a person psychologically, and go as far as talking about neuroscience, and also discussed how we became together by discussing from facial features, to how our parents nurture style influenced our preferences.
Yeah... we're being nerds.
I'm an INTP female and my bf is INTJ. We had a conversation that lasted multiple hours at the beginning of our relationship (that we both refused to label as a relationship for the first year, it was purely a way to quell our lust and unavoidable desire to procreate based on evolutionary traits 😂) about how love was a construct created by codependent people who were incapable of being confident and comfortable on their own. Add a spicy dash of mommy/daddy issues mixed in for flavor. We discussed the idea we as humans are attracted to the pheromones of individuals that have significantly different genomes than ourselves to enhance the likelihood of finding a mate that was genetically sound when mixed with our own. Anyways we've been together for eight years and both finally caved to the idea that love is real. I love him...damn it 😒
I tell you, as an INTP myself, that’s the sort of conversation that gives us the most happiness.
I once explained to this guy I was constantly chatting with and then suddenly stopped and disappeared that the reason he missed me and thought I was someone special was due to the separation anxiety he got after his habit of constantly talking to me was cut off at once.
as an INTP girl, I wish I could have a conversation like this with someone lol
@@gabriellat1589Same!
As an INTP dude with an INTP partner, I can confirm that the vast majority of our collective chat history (that isn't asking where someone is meant to be or who's cooking dinner) is either outdated memes that would make no sense to anyone else, or bizarre references to conversations we've had previously about hyper-specific topics, and exactly zero small talk. We literally just yeet memes at each other as a love language. Before we moved in together, we'd go days or weeks at a time without a dot of communication too.
But how would either of you know whether the other person is still committed if nobody is keeping contact?
@@Tess-to8hy That's what keeping contact looks like to an intp ... 😂
@@Tess-to8hy lol that is more than enough contact for an INTP! Also as an INTP, you inherently know the other INTP is just staring at the void absorbing knowledge or hyperfixating on a project that'll get half-finished, there's no "this is not committed" that comes into question. We're the ultimate in low maintenance in that we'd prefer you not indulge in maintenance, it tastes like hovering.
The flip side of the coin is that we will happily stay up to 3am on a breathless daisy-chain of nerdy topics segueing from one to the next, and that's all the conversation we need for a while.
We've been together for 14 years now, so seems to have worked out alright!
Guess I need to look for an INTP girl, because this sounds like paradise!
We texts exactly like that. It contains mostly memes or about games or even about science stuffs and brainstorm in the middle of the night.
He's the best one i found rn who matches my vibe
-intp
As an INTP with an ESTP husband I asked him if I was like this when we were dating to which he very lovingly but bluntly replied "Yes." He said that he didn't understand what I was saying most of the time because I spoke too fast and I seemed to know random tidbits of trivia for everything (I was afraid of awkward silences so I desperately tried to come up with conversation starters so he wouldn't think I was as socially inept as I am). He then told me that after a short period of time he started to think my vast trivia knowledge was cute and fascinating so he decided to keep me since I'd be a constant source of entertainment for him. 😁
LOL
Isn't it great being a trivia god? I'm getting married today and we had a party last night on the roof of my future brother-in-law's house where we are having the ceremony. He's an ENTJ and kept playing random 80's and 90's songs trying to stump me on name of band and song. Half the time I gave him the album and the year within a couple years as well plus stories about the song. Another guy that tried to play too was having his mind blown.
@@rogerhuggettjr.7675 Congratulations on your wedding! 🥳 🥂🍾 and yeah, being a trivia master is awesome! Your comment actually reminds me of when my aunt got married in the beginning of the month and her bachelorette party was at a male strip show and every time they started a new song I would lean over and tell my mother (ISFP) the name and band of the song before they even started singing. She looked so impressed 😁. Also we were both too shy to ask for lap dances (and on medication so we can't have "liquid courage"), but our aunt and her other bridesmaids certainly enjoyed themselves that night 😅
😂 my bf said something similar the other day. My bf is an infp, and said that my logical reasoning balances him out when he’s upset about something and being irrational. He also says he’s learned more from being with me than he probably ever would have had we not been together. We’ve been together for almost 11 years and we’re both content with not being married yet. Not because we don’t want to be, but because we don’t see the need to rush things because we’re both just as committed regardless of rings and a piece of paper. We get this question a lot 😒
I like a lot of things but in particular I’m a transportation infrastructure nerd mostly focused on trains. It’s all connected through. 🧐
This reminds me of Asa and Denji from Chainsaw Man! So cute!
As an intp girl, I admit I would only be satisfied in a relationship if I was able to talk about nerdy things with my SO. In my case there would be less physics and more history and biology, but still.
As an INTP man, I cannot stand history and biology, way too much memorization for me. I'll stick to physics.
Though for conversations, I like to talk philosophy and morals, or just really abstract questions. My favorite is one involving time travel and using it to illustrate determinism.
As a wasted ENTP, why is this relatable *cries* but more to the politics within the history and... oh well I guess I will trap anyone smart enough to catch my -brokenness- interest in endless tangents even in front of their bathroom door--
btw did you know that lightnings can be used to make nitrogen-potassium fertilizers for free while also be possibly engineered as subscription-free music player? Also I guess I have forgotten about how to make strikethroughs in youtube comments, that sucks how it's different from other social media...
As an INTP female, What i think
A teacher is the person who makes the subject interesting.
I wish i had the most amazing physics teacher.
I'm an ENTP and I totally get this. I can't imagine myself being a couple with an S user who'll be bored or annoyed from any kind of theoretical talk in a minute or less.
@@NeelishaPalyou don't sound like an INTP if it takes the teacher to make the topic interesting.
It warms my heart as an INTP female that someone gets me like Frank in this video...and then also there's chance that I can be a girlfriend 😉. That "disappear for 6 weeks thing, not answering all the texts for days, and 3 hr naps" are 100% real tho.😆
I honestly don’t know how people take shorter naps. If I finally sleep, it’s like the dead.
Yep this was yet another MBTI correlation I just discovered, though I usually prefer 4 hours for my naps...
When my husband and I were newlyweds, I would take 3-hour naps every Sunday. We were also in college, and you can guess how I was about sleep.
Find an ISFP partner. They'll make you dinner and clean the house before joining you for the 3-hour nap! Of course, my fiancée often takes longer than the 3 hours leaving me time to youtube for a few more hours without judgement.
Let me tell you, that even if I had several attractive extraverted girl friends , for me as an INTP INTP women are very attractive. Why ? Honesty , high grade of consciousness, really low on narcissistic level and good humour. I ended up with an INFJ woman, who has similar traits.
When I was young it was different.
So don't undervalue yourself,please!
I'm with INTP, the older I get, the more a three hour nap sounds appealing! 😉😴
Do you know what the "the"s in your sentence are? Look it up. It's quite interesting.
A 3 hour nap is just sleeping in the daytime. You want an hour or less for the best refresher without the grog
Don't knock it til you try it 😘
As an INTP girlfriend (yea, I'm shocked too), I can confirm the accuracy of this video.
"Would you still love me if I was a worm?" 😂 I loved when Normal girlfriend looked at INTP with the puzzled look. Wow, INTP girlfriend has a lot on her mind! Hilarious! 🙌🤣
I object!
My personal hygiene is beyond reproach. It does take a lot for me to dress up beyond a t-shirt though. Meeting my in-laws was absolutely a t-shirt occasion.
-INTP
Same
Before I knew I was an INTP, 5-6 years ago, I thought how easy it'd be if I just wore white t-shirts when I went to college. Well, now that I'm in college... I don't have that many t-shirts. But I'm totally thinking of getting some more of those oversized cropped t-shirts next year!
Still wearing the T shirt I got as 'present' when I applied for that business school in 2013. Turns out if you wash clothes they can be used repeatedly. I don't especially like that shirt, but it's a fabric that can be used, it fits its purpose. It's the same with everything else, I think INTP do consume very few things, unless it's their specific and obscure hobby. I'm surprised cooking and cleaning don't appear here because I suspect INTP girlfriend aren't that motivated by it lol. I'm certainly not.
I have a theory that INTP females are better about hygiene than our male counterparts on average since nearly every time that stereotype gets brought up a bunch of us say it doesn’t apply to us. (Don’t yell at me INTP males I’m sure there are many outliers even if I’m right.)
I told my husband he'd only have to spend time with my family the same number of times he made me go see his family...and pointed out I only saw my family about 2 times a yr if that.
And putting on a plain shirt with no weird references or sayings on it is totally dressing up.
"Time is just an illusion." Haha, I should probably use that excuse more often whenever I'm tardy. 😂
I’m always late
INTJ woman ponders the true meaning of time. I don't know which one of us is weirder.
REALITY IS ILLUSION
BUY GOLD
GUUUUUUUUNS
-an INTP making a random reference
I just took to setting timers so I can meet the societal expectations of others (ie, not having to listen to them beak about it ;).
As an INTP female, I've never felt more seen. Thank you
This! All 3.2% of us thank you, Frank!
Same.
Everyone deserves love, no matter how many personalities you have.
I bet each of your personalities are unique. 🫶
Me, INTP woman whose never been in a relationship, i agree 😂
Thank you Frank for portraying us, people often assume that INTPs ars always men and never women
As someone who has over 200 unread messages in my inbox, decided to spend many hours researching Greek lexicons (I have never studied Greek before), and consider myself to be a nap connoisseur, I give this video an INTP stamp of approval 😅
It's always the damn languages
The 3 hour nap is so god damn accurate😂
The solving of the 3000 yr old equation is so 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻✨
Procrastination is our ✨best✨ quality
As an INTP, this started out as "haha funny" and then quickly became so scarily accurate that I'm wondering if I've been cloned. I have quite literally lived this series of events 💀
As an INTP girl, I don't think I'll ever know what it's like to be an INTP girl*friend* 😂
Just meet an INTP guy
Easy
-an INTP that wants an INTP girlfriend, how pathetic am i, wait that sounded very INFP-ish
You chose the other girlfriend a kind of ESFP to show enough contrast from INTP! Great Job FJ! 🧡
I ❤ INTPs and their eccentricity. Never been in a relationship with one, but had INTP female coworker who was school librarian, grammar nerd, and went to comic con
OK, so thanks for showing me that INTPs are people I would LOVE to be around. Their train of thought is as fun as any adventure I could go have outside..... with a lot less bug bites.
*fewer. Thanks for enjoying my wildly careening, apparently disjointed "train" of thought. Many people talk too much to hear it out.
@@delightfulgenius4635 took me way too long to understand your correction. I am ashamed of myself.
On another note
Imagine an INTP with adhd (me, if you didn't notice)
1:14 If anyone ever asked me if I would still love them if they were a worm, I would just say "No, because we would've never met."
That, in my opinion, is way more honest and romantic than just saying yes.
-An INTP Male
I agree! If someone answered that they would love me if I were a worm, I might laugh at them. Unless they kept pet worms or something.
~ INTP female
I would just call them an idiot.
Urghhhh like my boyfriennnndddd
Honest, yes. I'm failing to see the romance though.
But answer is obviously 'no'. I don't see any other options
The thing I found most relatable as an INTP is when people express their feelings twords me. I think exactly that, but the only thing that comes out is "why, exactly, do you care for me?" 😂
yes.
There’s a loved one for every personality.
I love how we're just Science geeks and every third word is some scientific lingo nobody cares or understands.
I did expect the following tho:
"I am sorry I didn't pick up your call, I fell in a Wikipedia rabbit hole and needed to discover what the Founding Fathers have in common with the Balkan wars"
Or
"I'd love to take a picture with you, but my phone's memory isn't working because I have 99+ tabs open, and half of them are Wikipedia"
Don't call me out like that, I'm so addicted I use wikipedia as a form of stress relief
i'm an infp. i _completely_ understand. i'm at 200 tabs, though.
Wikipedia is the recipient of the only online donation I ever made. - INTP
MTBI peeps keep saying "you can't stereotype INTPs as wikipedia-obsessed geeks w/ no social life!!" Meanwhile every INTP:
Okay, so what DO the Founding Fathers have in common with the Balkan Wars? This INFP needs to know.
INTP Girlfriend’s color lecture was so powerful Normal Girlfriend broke the fourth wall.
As an INTP woman, I have a window of two weeks to conduct my loner shenanigans before anyone starts demanding proof of life... and by "anyone" I mean my mom.
I have an esfj friend who faithfully makes sure I am alive...
Yeah, she used to freak out because I'd drive across a border and 3 states and never think to call her and let her know where I was and if I was ok. "Well, duh, of course I'm ok". I knew where I was the entire time, I just don't get people.
I love the layout of this video, especially when you quiet the Normal gf when they're still talking 😂😂
I border between INTP & INFP. I relate to some of the stereotypes. I often wonder how certain mental health issues and being neurodivergent come into play with the varying personality types.
Yes, I would be interested in neurodivergence and Myer's Briggs.
Autism drives you towards INXJ, ADHD drives you more towards a perceiving type, so AuDHD ends up around INXP.
MBTI does a crap job of differentiating E/I for autistics, though. Extroverted autistics tend to make faux pas, get traumatized by the blowback, and develop introverted trauma responses, so MBTI dumps them in the I category.
@@JonBrase I an ENTP with autism and ADHD. My boyfriend is an INTP with ADHD.
@@Catlily5 I have diagnosed ADHD and undiagnosed but very likely autism. I'm quite extroverted by nature, but I was the smartest kid in my class in elementary school, knew it, and made sure my classmates knew it. That went over about as well as you'd think, and by 3rd grade or so I'd decided not to be friends with anyone unless they were friends with me first. And the aftermath from that is why I test as INTP rather than ENTP.
@@JonBrase I decided not to be friends with anyone unless they wanted to be friends with me. But I still approached people. But I refused to fetch or run errands for people just to have a "friend". I also refused to be friends with a girl who said she would hang out with me after school as long as I pretended not to be her friend in school. I was smart and nerdy but not the smartest in the school. It didn't help my popularity. My social skills also sucked. I tested as an introvert as a teenager but slowly reverted back to being an extrovert as an adult. I am not super extroverted though.
Too accurate.😱
Not sure if I should take a 5 hour nap to forget about it or continue playing SWTOR 🧐 😂
Dressing up and personal hygiene is so true.
How do you know if an INTP girl is hitting on you?
She wears perfume and combed her hair. ♥️
She stands close to you. That's it.
@@1Skorpia Thank you. I will insert this input in my next "hitting-on-assessment".
BTW, could you quantify "close"? In the metric system, if possible.
Darn it. Is it shower time again?
1:01 floored me. I've literally said something of the kind to my bf. How do i know you love me and not some other version of me you've created in your head by projecting the contents of your psyche onto me, as if I were a projection screen? It doesn't help that I'm bland af 😂
This "Normal VS MBTI" playlist/series is very promising and entertaining ! Keep going, it's amazing. 🧡
The fact that I would 100% do this if I had a boyfriend makes me WHEEZE
1:29 I have an INTP boyfriend and he definitely treats time like an illusion. He sometimes comes hours late when we plan a time to meet up. And yeah it kind of looks like he doesn't respect me, but I also know he really struggles with sleep in general. He falls asleep anywhere, and for a really long time. Once a fire alarm went off in his dormitory, and he slept through all that and didn't even know 😭It's ok I think he plans to see a cousnelor about it, but generally he isn't so strict with time or even deadlines for schoolwork. Sometimes I think he's too laidback
As an INTP man, most of these sound interesting. Except the part where she didn't shower before meeting the parents, and not responding to 47 texts even after finding it out. Not the 47 messages missed, but the continuation of non-responsiveness. Just... a life sign is all I ask.
Unfortunately, we'll never meet, because I'm stuck at home the time that I don't spend at work, because why would one bother with the immediate viscinity when the internet is *right there*, a connection to any place in the world? Anyway. I hope you're happy, dear INTP ladies.
"Just...a life sign is all I ask." should be officially written in an INTP relationship contract or something 🤔 😅
You sound verrrry much like my Infj bf, tbh
You don't want 2 intps for a romantic relationship anyway. That dog's not gonna hunt. Intps need a more dominant, assertive partner because someone has got to be in charge of the relationship and it's not gonna be us. At a minimum we need someone that will let us know when we're in a relationship.
@@donnathedead7554 👏🏼😂😂
Send me a memo, er, meme, I mean.
@@donnathedead7554 yess
It would be difficult to do an INTP boyfriend version of this since we are pretty much all single.
And no wonder... I ask my intp crush to study together in the morning, he texts me at 5 am saying he hasn't gone to sleep yet 🤦
@@connaeris8230 lol exactly, imagine a woman putting up with all these behaviors on a regular basis.
To be fair, we aren't really in relationships either. We just get pursued for sex like all the other women.
@@ds5206 I am a woman in a relationship with an INTP man. I am an ENTP. It is not as hard to be in a relationship if your weird sides match well.
This was pretty accurate 😹. Loved the diving into some random knowledge for absolutely no reason, except to quench that intp’s thirst for knowledge 😹. Also, was waiting for the “you forgot to feed me” part but wasn’t there 🥺
-intp
Why is this so accurate though? 💀
Just what I needed as an INTP
Savage. I feel seen. 🖤 The only differences being I might blurt out factoids on plant genetics, not light. And I make a big effort to be punctual, but sometimes I get the day wrong. 😅
Yes! You presented INTP realistically as the really are, in my opinion.
After +20 years getting the INTP as result in the MBTI test I still cannot accept being an INTP. Until my well Tik tok -informed 11 year old told me she heard about something called MBTI and her results are INTP and proceeded to explain her results. I rest my case 😂
As a female INTP, this is spot on!
"Time is an illusion"
I'm totally using this one next time i'm late, and that happens often😅
infp man who realizes that im extremely entertaining the thought of what if i had an intp gf too much, help it's too wholesome and im falling for the trope!! 😵💫💞
"Time is an illusion ... Lunchtime doubly so."
Don't panic! 😅
Now I totally get why are INFJ and INTP considered to be the golden couple :D
Yep, I'm an INFJ married to an INTP. My INTP is goofier than this though!
It is a good pairing, but it is NOT easy.
Ew golden pairs 💀
I think i have to disappear for 5 years at least to make sure they take the hint
I want a full version of ur end theme every time I hear it. Literally will get stuck in my head and it's only 13 words long
It’s not all bad being an INTP woman 😆 Yeah, we’re weird but people usually like how nonjudgmental and chill we can be. And if we work with our Fe, our pedantic rambling is actually kind of cute. Or so I’ve been told…
Have been with my ISFJ partner for 6 years now ❤❤❤
I’m also an INTP and just recently hit a decade married to my ISFJ. We work pretty well together.
I think you are right.
I have freinds who call me when they have trouble sleeping cuz of my ability to just talk about whatever in too much detail by myself.
Wow. INTP here and my partner is also an ISFJ. 12 years so far. Despite our minds being on different planes of existence (I don't think he understands half the things I talk about and we don't really communicate well), it still somehow manages to miraculously work itself out.
@@athens31415 my daughter is actually an ISFJ and our relationship is pretty easygoing. She likes to talk a lot, lol, just like my INFJ partner. (A little taxing on this hyper-internal mind of mine)
I’m loving this normal vs mbti type series ❤
As an INTP girl I think if I was in a relationship I would act exactly like this 😂😂😂🍻
I feel so scene! I actually replied "love is a human concept, don't put much weight into it" when an ex said I love you.😂😆
At first I was like "ehhh not really me.." until he said "solve this 3000 year old equation" that and everything that came after was spot on 😂😂😂 whooops
My mom is a INTP and this reminds me of her lol
This is super accurate. Swap the 'INTP girlfriend' label to 'INTP boyfriend' and it would still be true.
not really cuz it is practically impossible for us INTP males to even get a gf lol
@@queenhornet7533 INTP female here, in my 20+ years I have never been with anybody, so yeah 😂
@@queenhornet7533 @paulinaderegowska4757 You two do have a point 🤣
As a female INTP, I'll provide another data point to say this is very accurate
and probably has a causal relationship with my singledom.
Frank James probably doesn’t realise that he helps to handle our mental health by this channel. He lets us feel understood and like we aren’t alone❤❤❤
I love how at 0:50 'normal girlfriend' turns to the INTP one just as if she heard all those 'ridiculous things' and was like: girl what is wrong with you?
Wow, I think Intp is suitable with intj. Problem is both didn't want to make the first move and God knows the cluelessness 😂😂
Haha I’m an INTJ and have 2 good friends whose husbands are INTPs and I would have been miserable married to either of them. I ❤️ my neurotic INFJ husband.
Aww as an INTJ myself, INFJ's have my heart haha the emotional intimacy is wild 💎
I'm an INTP married to an INTJ.
@@Apeiron242Same.
I stopped waiting for the INxxs to make their move, and finally put my foot out there first.
"Emotionless" they called me ."Wierd girl" " Robot" And I come from a culture that different types are rarely understood. Sometimes I was heartbtoken and tried to change or pretend to be more "girly" . Sometimes I was proud to be the intteligent independant woman. "Love could be illusion " I agree. 😂 INTP but still am not sure while I have some INTJ traits too.
do not worry, i hover between INTP and INTJ...and i may be on the spectrum too..(Aspie??) Yes, i was labelled "strange" or Weird as a child OR an Old Soul...
same I was called a robot
As an INFP with super duper interest in physics , maths and patterns , I would love to have an INTP girlfriend to mess up her mind with quantum and relativistic mechanics . Those theories are just the chef's kiss to entire Physics .
As an INTP girlfriend, I've said the "are you in love with the idealized concept of me" part word for word
Okayyyy 10 seconds in and it’s already reached a surgical level of accuracy
As an INTP woman, the 3 hour nap was personal.
The fact that I somewhat relate to both, while never having been in a relationship and being an INFJ is...interesting
I would like to have an INTP woman as a bestie because the whole quantum mechanics wormhole experiment was just banging! Just as long as we don't discover warp 10....
😃
I can't believe how much this video means to me. 😂😂😂
-INTPendeja 🤟🏼
As an INTP, yes. I'm the only one in the family who watches 5 hours worth of science/history documentaries.
I saw the most amazing documentary on Bubbles one time. Did you know that sometimes when a bubble pops under water, it can emit light? Fascinating stuff. Oh, and I think most of us also secretly have Mr. Spock as a role model :D
@@Demmie-nl2qh Wow, that is certainly fascinating! Also, it turns out that I am an INTJ.
Lowkey, as an INTP girl who has been in relationships (both platonic and romantic), the INTP shown in the video is a more immature type of INTP that usually isn't able to get into relationships because of their very underdeveloped Fi.
My Fi is actually decently developed, so I never come off as the type of INTP in the video, but am deeply socially and emotionally awkward at my core. I've learned enough to be able to pass off as generally normal, but it's all because I imitate/have learned to internalize general set steps on how to be "pleasant".
This are INTP stereotypes so everyone should take it with a grain of salt. I'm also pissed tho since everyone thinks INTPs dont feel emotions and quantifies everything which is an overgeneralization for the most part.
i told my friend time is an illusion and he didn't believe me and kept on trying to convince me it is real. and he is supposedly the rational one in our friendship
The break up thing hit a little too close to home. - INTP
I remember going to Vegas for my birthday with friends in my 20’s. The night of my birthday, they all planned to celebrate with me. But they couldn’t find me, because I was alone at the blackjack and craps tables all day and most of the night, happily amusing myself! When they finally found me, I just kind of shrugged my shoulders, not realizing how big of a faux pas I was making by being lost when an entire group of people were trying to be nice and celebrate with me.
An INTP girlfriend here!😉
1.(nap) True😂my bf even once suggested a dating schedule where I can take a nap at his home in the middle of the day
2.(texts) Also technically true😂but my bf isn't talkative too...at most it was 4😂😂
3.(dress) Yes I wear a T-shirt to meet his parents every time😂but it's clean for real😉
4.(concept of love) Literally just argued "affection and the urge of selecting a capable partner" is a result of "evolution and ancient women's survival strategy" to my bf today😅
5.(question) I just never said the "would you still love me if ...." questions in any way simply because I think that's dumb😅
6.(late) So true that I'm so bad at time management😅😅
7.(check) Actually I always pay my own part even when he says he'll take it. Also not bad at money as my interests aren't costing much, and I have a good idea of how much of my income is disposable cash in mind.
I actually found it interesting that FJ put the dedication to prepare this episode...I thought most of us would be hiding in our comfort zones, not meeting much ppl, and because of that, not big chance to get into a relationship.🙈
As an INFJ dating an INTP, dear Jod, this is true.
It's not them if they're NOT late to anything by at least three hours or disappear off the face of the Earth.
We both have no problems ignoring one another when our social batteries are low, which is honestly one of the most wonderful things I could hope for in a relationship.
I feel seen!!! 😂
Rather, I not only feel perceived visually, but also intuited within an acceptable level of accuracy by your representation of my type.
Not that I noticed.
The accuracy burns💀💀💀
Outside of randomly disappearing like that the INTP girlfriend is clearly superior no cap. Of course she has glasses too because say it with me, “math+glasses=INTP girlfriend”
As an INFP most of the INTP's dialogues are most of my inner thoughts lol
As an INTJ female, SLAYYY INTP 😂❤
‘I’ll deal with this in the morning’- never have a related to something so much. In fact, I have things I’ve put on hold for years just to avoid doing them.
why is this actually me irl LMAOOO
as an intp who accidentally forgets to text people back, yes. the end made me laugh so hard, it really called me out
Please do the sqme with every other type
This stuff is HILARIOUS😂😂
It sounds like things I'd do or say if I had a bf. The nap thing is that resonates the most.
I feel so seen, and dragged at the same time, lol 😂
As an INTP male that was never in a relationship, it's still really relatable.
GREAT Video!!
I'm not sure if I'm intp or infj haha but I relate to everything here. Though after being so cynical about love with my exes now I just simply keep those thoughts to myself. There is no need to make my bf doubt about my love for him just because I over analyze everything. There are just so many factors ...
Laughed hard when the regular girl just broke the wall when she heard the INTP girl 0:35 😄
The many times I’ve said time is just an illusion whenever I’m “late”.
Ohh INTP girlfriend exists.. i have never met an INTP woman in my life
Hi there. We do exist, we're just incredibly rare and don't socialize much so you're unlikely to come across one of us in the wild.
We're around but we're already with an I or ENTP guy we met at a conference on fungus in medical and industrial applications, or a sci fi convention.
@@blueharmony3675 I wouldn't trust someone named nobody that tells she exist.
@@blueharmony3675 Relatable.
@@INFamousJudge576
**Nervous sweating**
Only a strong will guy that can have a relationship with INTP girl.