Patience, patience and more needed patience. Here is a story of love and patience....A son had taken mother to the doctors, coming home it started to rain, so he pulls up in front of the house and told mom to get out and wait on front porch and he will park the car. She says, this is not my house, and refused to get out. Here is the patience the son had, "I sorry mom, buckle your belt and we will go to your house" , he drove around a couple of blocks and then went down the alley to her back porch, which she then recognized. So go with the flow and avoid any argument or forceable action. I love this son, God bless him.
Went through it with my mom. It's the longest goodbye! They don't die of the disease they pass from complications from the disease. It's exhausting and emotionally draining!
I’ve been thru this with my mom. Such a heartbreaking disease. I appreciate you conveying how important it is to go where they are in their mind and not correcting them. Unfortunately good care in facilities are hard to find when they are in the last stages.
Yes, my grandma was just diagnosed w Alzheimer’s and I enter her thoughts with her. She doesn’t know me anymore, but she knows my mom. So I ask, why did you choose the name “Irene” for your daughter? I avoid acknowledging her as my mom in her presence so she continues to think I’m just a nice friend. When I told her I’m her granddaughter she got confused and I felt so bad seeing her struggle to understand so I stopped immediately.
I went through this with my mom as well. We had quite a difficult time the last 3 years. I took care of her the last 5 years of her life- I’ve never experienced anything so extremely difficult in my life! It was my honor & privilege to “walk her home” but it was so hard at the same time!
For people with difficulty swallowing, please try to watch an NHK program that came out recently regarding the physiological connection between the tongue and the ham string. It’s hard to believe but if a person has dysphagia, try stretching the ham string consistently and you might see improvements. This is a new discovery by a PT in Japan. Also, make sure the person is sitting up straight throughout the meal. I also saw another NHK video in 2017 about elderly people in Japan with mild dementia who regularly went to a group and read children’s books ALOUD. At first, they read haltingly. After just a few sessions, they read quickly and with animation. They became more outgoing. These kinds of things can be done easily. I did it with my 101 y.o. father and his reading voice improved within a week. Unfortunately he died later from an unexpected illness. I hope this helps someone. 🙏
I'm surprised to learn this. I thought it was a physiological connection between the tongue and vegus nerve. Yoga might be very important to practice to maintain all kindscif functions like handwriting even.
We’re going through this with a very elderly parent, but we aren’t sharing with him what we think. The mind, even in someone very old, is powerful. We chose to hire home care so he is safe and cared for. A better way, in our opinion, than all the diagnostic stuff.
My mom has been in the beginning stages of something like this for many years. My dad saw it and tried to get the doctors to see. I saw it, too. She has recently been tested again, but I don't know the results yet. My mom still thinks she's pretty clear. But she's declining. She doesn't make sense sometimes anymore. I'm far away and only talk with them via phone. But my dad sees it daily. And he's doing what he can working with her doctors. But I know it is hard for him.
My mom had Louie Body, and it took many years to go to the other side. I would often ask her what it was like, and what she thought of when she was quiet. In my own beliefs, I feel that people experiencing dementia are in both in this world and the next. For them, if there's understanding, (and after the denial), it's a gentle way of making a way to the next story.
I too feel it's very Spiritual to be in the presence of a relative with advanced dementia - so similar a feeling to that of being with someone leading up to their death
Cane Sugar, corn maltodextrin, oatmeal, and potatoes, always makes it worse. I remember numbers and where I put things and remember words when I stay off these sugars. I think better now, than I did as a teen or middle age. If you're well over sixty, it will take some time to see a difference Keeping carbs liw amd drinking some water throughout the day improves my experience with memory. No one told me how. I had to practice small meals, homemade soup put in food processor. A little ACV or balsamic and turmeric added and salad greens blended. It makes the best meals with the protein.
Agree. Stop eating all animal products. You kill every animal you eat and it's Karma that it kills you. Meat is very addictive so it is hard stop Fresh raw fruit and salad is worth a go.
Thanks Chris! I love all the help I get from Bob and Brad--and Chris and other guests. People caring for a loved one living with this condition would benefit from Dementia Careblazers too. Dr. Natali Edmonds makes TH-cam videos available each week that support caregivers. There are hundreds of her videos available on all topics related to various dementias.
My poor mum has Alzheimer’s. Her very first symptom was loss of taste and smell. I often wonder what caused her dementia. She has taken lots of pain relief and antidepressants over the years!
Really hope he's done research on diet...Low Carb/Ketogenic seems to play a huge part in this.... My father had dementia...I was lucky and old age took him first..But I saw how heartbreaking this can be for other families...Thanks for doing this little series...Important for everyone to know about this awful condition...
I still remember Mom telling me and my Dad this story from her childhood is very great detail. And when she was finished, she started all over again from the very beginning with the exact same detail. And again. And again. 😢
Neuro Psychological test needed to determine executive function. Insurance pays for this. Neuro Psychologist does it. Process is not long at all. Call insurance and they will give names of who is in your plan.
I just lost my momma last month to dementia at the age of 72. It was the hardest 5 years of my life watching her decline. I miss her but am so thankful she is not suffering anymore!! 🥲
My deepest sympathies to you on the loss of your mother. I am watching my husband go thru this and it has only started less than one year ago. He cries at night when he doesn't recognize our home and it breaks my heart! This video is excellent on the suggestions and I am thankful for this very useful information. Blessings to you.
Sorry to hear that, glad she's not suffering anymore, she was lucky to have you with her through it and I'm sure she lived a good life. Take care of yourself ❤
My mom has Alzheimer's she's 92 she was diagnosed at 89 years old. The symptoms that she had came on instantly while we were watching a TV series she went to the restroom came back sat down looked puzzled and said who is that blonde? The blonde was the main character so I said that's Alicia mom remember. Within about 3 minutes she turned to me and said who is this blonde? Once again I answered but something inside me said I need to get her to the doctor immediately I was thinking she had a stroke. After taking her to the doctor he ordered a PET scan it came back negative no sign of any problems. About 9 months later we were going into a department store she tripped and fell and broke her nose and when I rushed her to the emergency room there's nothing they can do for a broken nose but ice it but they did a PET scan. And the attending physician came in and told me you need to take her to her personal doctor because something abnormal showed up on her pet scan. So when we got in to see her doctor he said she has Alzheimer's. Here's a side note I don't know if there's been any studies on this but if you ever notice people from about 45 to 50 start not sleeping well at night by the time my mom got to be 75 she lived on probably 3 hours of sleep a night I've never seen anybody not sleep as much as her so I kind of think sleep apnea plays a part in this also.
That may be anecdotal. People require less sleep as they age. Bill Clinton slept 4 hours a night as President, Trump only slept a few hours as well. My grandparents who didn't have Alzheimer's only slept 3 or 4 hours a night in their 80s.
I think as John said that is more anecdotal. My mum had dementia/Alzheimer's diagnosed at around 88 and she slept more than my dad who is still with us at 92 and still pretty sharp and he sleeps about 4 hours. Lack of sleep certainly isn't good for overall health though.
Listen my husband of 46 yrs, started getting soooo mean, everyday! He's angry, he hates my family and even his own sisters, hates them! He corrects me hundred times a day, just totally opposite of what I say....... it's not easy, plus he's an alcoholic too ! PRAY for him and me. He lies to his Dr.
Here is the bad thing. I recommended my mom get an assessment. They did a physical one first and asked questions. Because she passed that one they won’t go any farther with any other assessment or treat it. We have to listen to her repeat the same thing 6 times, misplace her keys, lose important mail. She says she doesn’t do these things yet the doctors do nothing. I watched my granny do these same things.
@@DEEJAYNH10 I tired but they gave the same test and because she passed this simple basic test they won’t go any farther because for insurance to pay she for anything she has to fail that one unless we just got a few $100,000s laying around to spend. The test is like this verbal Visual Basic assessment a 3 year can pass. You would have to be in the late stages of Alzheimer’s to fail and by then it’s to late for any preventative measures.
I've also worked with alzheimers patients..its very rewarding. But if its your parent or spouse it's so different and heartbreaking. The public should be taught about different types of dementia but it doesn't happen. Sad.
My dad is 62 and has dementia. My mom is a mental case of her own and he took care of all their affairs in the past. I live across the country. Idk how to handle it
I'm so sorry for you (and your parents) and I wish I had an answer for you but I don't. I'm afraid that this type of situation happens to a lot families at some point where one partner takes care of the other and then becomes ill or weak him/herself. Your parents need professional care but I know not everybody can afford this. So sad. 😢 I wish you all the strength to get through this!
See an attorney to set up a protective legal framework. Get power of attorney for health care and finances. Maybe hire a fiduciary to pay their bills, etc. Hire a part time companion to drive them places, help with errands, give you frequent status reports.
Im 65 and never saw this disease until like 40 years ago. Why? My mom had ms and was placed in a skilled nursing facility and most there had severe diabetes, brain trauma or other issues. About 5 years later it was a majority Alzheimer’s
Someone else commented that it seems to start in the liver. That fits considering how prevalent pharmaceuticals are today. My mom has been on tons of pharmaceuticals for many, many years. And she's been declining mentally for a long time. I think the pharmaceuticals mess up the mind. And they certainly stress out the liver, too. I honestly think that all the chemicals that we are exposed to are the major cause of this. Including prescription medication. People just didn't used to be exposed to all that. And like you said, Alzheimer's used to be much more rare. I really believe there's a connection. That's my opinion, anyway.
@@johnrice1943 I really think so. I struggle with my own health and should really be on disability. But I refuse to go through the medical system again to get the disability. I do take OTC medication for pain and now vertigo. And a bit for my lungs. But that's about as far as I'm willing to go. I've seen the decline in my mom over the years. And I don't want that for myself. My mom is only 71. My dad's mom, on the other hand, is 93. She refuses to put toxins in her body if she can avoid it. And her mind is still clear. She's slowing down a little now after a few surgeries. Of course anesthesia and pain meds were involved with the surgeries. I think they are what slowed her down. But for 93, she's doing remarkably well. Mostly toxin-free. My grandma also said that my grandpa was never the same again after anesthesia. She is positive that it messes up the mind long term. I do think that a lot has to do with genetics. But it were only genetics the illnesses in the nursing homes wouldn't have changed. I really think the chemicals play a huge role.
There is data to prove that it starts in the liver you have to keep your liver cleansed you have to keep your liver healthy early on as much as possible
This is a follow up to my earlier comment about how stretching your hamstring can help with difficulty swallowing. The video I watched was on the NHK WORLD-JAPAN TH-cam channel. It is called Take a Stand Against Trouble Swallowing-GATTEN! Gatten means “Got it!” It’s some kind of celebrity panel show with English captions, created to be entertaining and educational.
What about how long it takes for the light bulb to turn on when you talk to someone? That is becoming an issue with my husband. Or increasing obsession with taking out the trash, etc?
Depends on a lot of factors. Past medical history and age are important. Wouldn't hurt to have cognitive function testing done. Another commenter gave more info on that. If you feel something's wrong, take steps early to find out what it is and what can be done.
The problem with Al's Heimer is that when I think to do something about it, I forget to... I speak 2 languages from birth and lately forget here and there a simple word. (I see the object in my mind but search for the word) Today I tried to remember the word for "clothes hanger". (But I managed still to buy a few at the store.) "I will take 50 of these ,please"
One of the arguments against a single payer medical model in our country is that you'll have to wait too long to see a doctor meanwhile with the thousands and thousands of Private health insurers people are waiting at a minimum 2 months in some places you can't even get up appointment 6 months out what a crock of s*** sick and tired of people using the manipulating words and phrases and sentences to alter that actual reality of what people are experiencing
@@gailseatonhumbert9199 Do a search. A quicky came up with The Daily Wire, Vox, and Fox News. That trio should be broad enough to ask why CBS, CNN, ABC, NYT don't also come up. (And NPR)
@@gailseatonhumbert9199 do your own research, please. I gave you the clue, follow it up. Make your own decisions with what they allow you to find. I have a life too, and don't have time to catch everyone up. Take care now.
@@johnrice1943 I will just not believe your unsupported statement without backup documentation instead. Very inflammatory and without support doesn't exactly convince me it is true.
You are what you eat. Your diet impacts your health. Obesity in children and adults is rising across the world. Eat a healthy plant based diet and exercise regularly. Reduce or ELIMINATE cows milk, eggs, cheese and meat. Eat more salad greens, beans, fruit and vegetables. Eliminate fast food and sugary drinks and juices. Every adult and child should own a bicycle and ride it regularly. Regular exercise will help you sleep better. Yoga is a great stress reducer. Obesity is all too common today. Get off the couch. Get off the phone, ipad or video game. A variety of stretching and other exercises help with increased mobility. Ride to work, ride to school, ride for fun. Every city should be a bicycle city. Speak up for bicycles in your community
I used mct oil on my grandmother when she would get sun downers and after one tablespoon she snapped out of it . We stopped processed foods and kept her active.
Go vegan for your health, whole food plant based. Go vegan for the animals. Go vegan for the planet. A lower risk of heart disease and cancer for you and a better planet for everyone, human and animals.
Hello , I had my ACL reconstruction surgery on my left knee one month earlier and now I find my right knee clicking everytime it bends, which was not present prior to the surgery. Is this normal?
A woman I went to HS with was a waitress in a restaurant we often went to. She was always friendly & then she moved to .3 of a mile from me & I'd see her on walks & we'd chat. The house she moved into was worth five times of mine... Slowly she became less friendly & then stopped speaking to me. I thought her prosperity had gone to her head. Not so. She died of Alzheimer's at the age of 58. Yes, fifty-eight. 😢
@@pennyobernyer7914 Have yourself tested first for ADHD. Alzheimer's/dementia requires of battery of test over a large period of time. Sixty-five-year olds are the young-old. Best not to fret.
This was not very helpful. Your signs of alzheimers is to vague. Stage 3 for example is so much more and can be different from others with it. Like my husband can remember everything having to do with his job and finds his way home. He knows where everything goes when doing dishes, unless I buy something new or move some things to a different cupboard and then he will stick it anywhere or leave on counter. And that's still after I've told him 10 times where to put it. If I buy something new, like for example I bought a digital meat thermometer and put it on the fridge. He not only forgets we have one, but will not even see it on the fridge and I've told him several times. So he will use the old one because that's the one he remembers. I tried putting the old one elsewhere so he's forced to use the newer one but he'll just yell at me where is it! And he yells A LOT! If I put the new one in the drawer he will still not recognize what it is and will use the old one (which looks very different from new one). These are small examples, there is a lot more. He doesn't remember things I tell him or that he's already told me and I say yes you told me and he will argue that he didn't and tell me again, several times. He doesn't remember a lot! And I get yelled at for not telling him something that I certainly did in detail several times. Want to talk about frustrating? I'm losing my damn mind. He is going to be 61 this Dec and this has been going on for a few years but has gotten worse. I don't know what to do or where to turn. He has all our money in bank accounts that he will not put my name on. I've seen dementia run in families. Especially early onset with my step mom and her sisters and mother. My step mom jumped to last stage within a couple of years and she died at 62. Her younger sister died from it at 64 (after her). And I also used to be a CNA and worked with dementia clients. I would like to see you give much more details and talk about more than leaving the keys in the fridge. He forgets his wallet once in awhile at work or in a friend's vehicle, but now it's more often. Same with his phone. He has also become rather paranoid especially towards me. He thinks I'm up to something sneaky. That's why he put our money into a private account. And my name is no longer on our mortgage. I still haven't been able to find how and why that was done when we refinanced in 2012. I am on the deed and taxes. I'm trying to get him to do estate planning and wills etc. But he thinks I'm up to something sneaky. And gets very combative verbally towards me. And then forgets we talked about it. What do I do? I am scared! He also has COPD and emphysema which is terminal. I'm afraid if he dies I'll lose everything.
I'm so sorry. Is there anyone who can advise you about how to get your name put on the accounts? You may have to declare him incompetent which I'm sure he wouldn't like and would fight it all the way. Do you have children or have siblings of his who would help you? That's got to be so frustrating to deal with the emotional issues of his dementia and now have to worry about losing everything you worked for.
Patience, patience and more needed patience. Here is a story of love and patience....A son had taken mother to the doctors, coming home it started to rain, so he pulls up in front of the house and told mom to get out and wait on front porch and he will park the car. She says, this is not my house, and refused to get out. Here is the patience the son had, "I sorry mom, buckle your belt and we will go to your house" , he drove around a couple of blocks and then went down the alley to her back porch, which she then recognized. So go with the flow and avoid any argument or forceable action. I love this son, God bless him.
Beautiful 😍
May G-d Bless him. That is a wise son.
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@@goofycker Thanks, Dubya ! Catch em tie em and brand em, ummm
Went through it with my mom. It's the longest goodbye! They don't die of the disease they pass from complications from the disease. It's exhausting and emotionally draining!
I’ve been thru this with my mom. Such a heartbreaking disease. I appreciate you conveying how important it is to go where they are in their mind and not correcting them. Unfortunately good care in facilities are hard to find when they are in the last stages.
Yes, my grandma was just diagnosed w Alzheimer’s and I enter her thoughts with her. She doesn’t know me anymore, but she knows my mom. So I ask, why did you choose the name “Irene” for your daughter? I avoid acknowledging her as my mom in her presence so she continues to think I’m just a nice friend. When I told her I’m her granddaughter she got confused and I felt so bad seeing her struggle to understand so I stopped immediately.
I went through this with my mom as well. We had quite a difficult time the last 3 years. I took care of her the last 5 years of her life- I’ve never experienced anything so extremely difficult in my life! It was my honor & privilege to “walk her home” but it was so hard at the same time!
For people with difficulty swallowing, please try to watch an NHK program that came out recently regarding the physiological connection between the tongue and the ham string. It’s hard to believe but if a person has dysphagia, try stretching the ham string consistently and you might see improvements. This is a new discovery by a PT in Japan. Also, make sure the person is sitting up straight throughout the meal. I also saw another NHK video in 2017 about elderly people in Japan with mild dementia who regularly went to a group and read children’s books ALOUD. At first, they read haltingly. After just a few sessions, they read quickly and with animation. They became more outgoing. These kinds of things can be done easily. I did it with my 101 y.o. father and his reading voice improved within a week. Unfortunately he died later from an unexpected illness. I hope this helps someone. 🙏
Thank you for your comment.
My husband chokes on his milk quite often.
@@groovy-momma418 please try the ham string stretch for a week or so and see if there is some improvement. May God bless you both.
Thank you.
I'm surprised to learn this. I thought it was a physiological connection between the tongue and vegus nerve. Yoga might be very important to practice to maintain all kindscif functions like handwriting even.
We’re going through this with a very elderly parent, but we aren’t sharing with him what we think. The mind, even in someone very old, is powerful. We chose to hire home care so he is safe and cared for. A better way, in our opinion, than all the diagnostic stuff.
My mom has been in the beginning stages of something like this for many years. My dad saw it and tried to get the doctors to see. I saw it, too. She has recently been tested again, but I don't know the results yet. My mom still thinks she's pretty clear. But she's declining. She doesn't make sense sometimes anymore. I'm far away and only talk with them via phone. But my dad sees it daily. And he's doing what he can working with her doctors. But I know it is hard for him.
@Bob & Brad
Thank you SO MUCH! I truly hope/pray you'll have MANY more sessions on Alzheimer's ~ and SOON! Thank you again!!!!!
My mom had Louie Body, and it took many years to go to the other side. I would often ask her what it was like, and what she thought of when she was quiet. In my own beliefs, I feel that people experiencing dementia are in both in this world and the next. For them, if there's understanding, (and after the denial), it's a gentle way of making a way to the next story.
I too feel it's very Spiritual to be in the presence of a relative with advanced dementia - so similar a feeling to that of being with someone leading up to their death
Outstanding video, and as a person who has had family members with Alzheimer's, I truly appreciate this wonderful information. Thank you so much.
Cane Sugar, corn maltodextrin, oatmeal, and potatoes, always makes it worse. I remember numbers and where I put things and remember words when I stay off these sugars. I think better now, than I did as a teen or middle age. If you're well over sixty, it will take some time to see a difference Keeping carbs liw amd drinking some water throughout the day improves my experience with memory. No one told me how. I had to practice small meals, homemade soup put in food processor. A little ACV or balsamic and turmeric added and salad greens blended. It makes the best meals with the protein.
Agree. Stop eating all animal products. You kill every animal you eat and it's Karma that it kills you. Meat is very addictive so it is hard stop
Fresh raw fruit and salad is worth a go.
Thanks Chris! I love all the help I get from Bob and Brad--and Chris and other guests. People caring for a loved one living with this condition would benefit from Dementia Careblazers too. Dr. Natali Edmonds makes TH-cam videos available each week that support caregivers. There are hundreds of her videos available on all topics related to various dementias.
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My poor mum has Alzheimer’s. Her very first symptom was loss of taste and smell. I often wonder what caused her dementia. She has taken lots of pain relief and antidepressants over the years!
Thank you so much for the information, very useful.
Really hope he's done research on diet...Low Carb/Ketogenic seems to play a huge part in this.... My father had dementia...I was lucky and old age took him first..But I saw how heartbreaking this can be for other families...Thanks for doing this little series...Important for everyone to know about this awful condition...
Thank you so much. Knowledge is empowering, and you discussed this topic with such compassion.
I still remember Mom telling me and my Dad this story from her childhood is very great detail. And when she was finished, she started all over again from the very beginning with the exact same detail. And again. And again. 😢
These two men are amazing; if only every single one of us were so patient and kind.
Wow! This video is excellent and very educational presented in an extremely compassionate way❣️
I love that opening quote.....brilliant and so true
Neuro Psychological test needed to determine executive function. Insurance pays for this. Neuro Psychologist does it. Process is not long at all. Call insurance and they will give names of who is in your plan.
Thank you for this topic
I just lost my momma last month to dementia at the age of 72. It was the hardest 5 years of my life watching her decline. I miss her but am so thankful she is not suffering anymore!! 🥲
I'm sorry. That must have been so hard.
My deepest sympathies to you on the loss of your mother. I am watching my husband go thru this and it has only started less than one year ago. He cries at night when he doesn't recognize our home and it breaks my heart! This video is excellent on the suggestions and I am thankful for this very useful information. Blessings to you.
Sorry to hear that, glad she's not suffering anymore, she was lucky to have you with her through it and I'm sure she lived a good life. Take care of yourself ❤
My mom has Alzheimer's she's 92 she was diagnosed at 89 years old. The symptoms that she had came on instantly while we were watching a TV series she went to the restroom came back sat down looked puzzled and said who is that blonde? The blonde was the main character so I said that's Alicia mom remember. Within about 3 minutes she turned to me and said who is this blonde? Once again I answered but something inside me said I need to get her to the doctor immediately I was thinking she had a stroke. After taking her to the doctor he ordered a PET scan it came back negative no sign of any problems. About 9 months later we were going into a department store she tripped and fell and broke her nose and when I rushed her to the emergency room there's nothing they can do for a broken nose but ice it but they did a PET scan. And the attending physician came in and told me you need to take her to her personal doctor because something abnormal showed up on her pet scan. So when we got in to see her doctor he said she has Alzheimer's. Here's a side note I don't know if there's been any studies on this but if you ever notice people from about 45 to 50 start not sleeping well at night by the time my mom got to be 75 she lived on probably 3 hours of sleep a night I've never seen anybody not sleep as much as her so I kind of think sleep apnea plays a part in this also.
That may be anecdotal. People require less sleep as they age. Bill Clinton slept 4 hours a night as President, Trump only slept a few hours as well. My grandparents who didn't have Alzheimer's only slept 3 or 4 hours a night in their 80s.
I think as John said that is more anecdotal. My mum had dementia/Alzheimer's diagnosed at around 88 and she slept more than my dad who is still with us at 92 and still pretty sharp and he sleeps about 4 hours. Lack of sleep certainly isn't good for overall health though.
@@joandsarah77 does he sleep early ?
@@DEEJAYNH10 He does go to bed early and often gets up in the early hours. Sometimes he naps during the day but mostly not.
Very good info! Can't wait for part 2!
Excellent - informative and very sensitively presented video
Listen my husband of 46 yrs, started getting soooo mean, everyday! He's angry, he hates my family and even his own sisters, hates them! He corrects me hundred times a day, just totally opposite of what I say....... it's not easy, plus he's an alcoholic too ! PRAY for him and me. He lies to his Dr.
You had socks in your hand, didn't pay attention, you sat them down in refrigerator when you reached for milk. Happens w keys too
And glasses 😉
Stage 1: 4:53
Excellent and very useful review!
Here is the bad thing. I recommended my mom get an assessment. They did a physical one first and asked questions. Because she passed that one they won’t go any farther with any other assessment or treat it. We have to listen to her repeat the same thing 6 times, misplace her keys, lose important mail. She says she doesn’t do these things yet the doctors do nothing. I watched my granny do these same things.
Change doctors
@@DEEJAYNH10 I tired but they gave the same test and because she passed this simple basic test they won’t go any farther because for insurance to pay she for anything she has to fail that one unless we just got a few $100,000s laying around to spend.
The test is like this verbal Visual Basic assessment a 3 year can pass. You would have to be in the late stages of Alzheimer’s to fail and by then it’s to late for any preventative measures.
My grandma died several years ago and dad died last year of Alsz. And I’m scared that I will!!!!
Sorry to hear this Stephanie xx
I've also worked with alzheimers patients..its very rewarding. But if its your parent or spouse it's so different and heartbreaking. The public should be taught about different types of dementia but it doesn't happen. Sad.
Perhaps you could educate and inform. Don't look too the external for a savior, find the savior within yourself. You can do it. I have faith in you.
I'm so sorry you may be dealing with this. We lost my grandmother to it, and my father lives in fear of getting it himself. ❤️
Good info, thank you.
That was very interesting and informative!
My dad is 62 and has dementia. My mom is a mental case of her own and he took care of all their affairs in the past. I live across the country. Idk how to handle it
I'm so sorry for you (and your parents) and I wish I had an answer for you but I don't. I'm afraid that this type of situation happens to a lot families at some point where one partner takes care of the other and then becomes ill or weak him/herself. Your parents need professional care but I know not everybody can afford this. So sad. 😢 I wish you all the strength to get through this!
See an attorney to set up a protective legal framework. Get power of attorney for health care and finances. Maybe hire a fiduciary to pay their bills, etc. Hire a part time companion to drive them places, help with errands, give you frequent status reports.
I just realized a few weeks ago that someone I know is possibly in stage 3 - 4. Not remembering things that they've said or done.
Great video thank you!!!!
Good information.
Very nice segment.
My Mother had Alzheimer’s for many years, she went through every stage for a long time. She died 1,1/2 years ago.
Im 65 and never saw this disease until like 40 years ago. Why? My mom had ms and was placed in a skilled nursing facility and most there had severe diabetes, brain trauma or other issues. About 5 years later it was a majority Alzheimer’s
Someone else commented that it seems to start in the liver. That fits considering how prevalent pharmaceuticals are today. My mom has been on tons of pharmaceuticals for many, many years. And she's been declining mentally for a long time. I think the pharmaceuticals mess up the mind. And they certainly stress out the liver, too. I honestly think that all the chemicals that we are exposed to are the major cause of this. Including prescription medication. People just didn't used to be exposed to all that. And like you said, Alzheimer's used to be much more rare. I really believe there's a connection. That's my opinion, anyway.
@@anyascelticcreations I think you may be on to something. We are all being silently poisoned and most are unaware.
@@johnrice1943 I really think so. I struggle with my own health and should really be on disability. But I refuse to go through the medical system again to get the disability. I do take OTC medication for pain and now vertigo. And a bit for my lungs. But that's about as far as I'm willing to go. I've seen the decline in my mom over the years. And I don't want that for myself. My mom is only 71.
My dad's mom, on the other hand, is 93. She refuses to put toxins in her body if she can avoid it. And her mind is still clear. She's slowing down a little now after a few surgeries. Of course anesthesia and pain meds were involved with the surgeries. I think they are what slowed her down. But for 93, she's doing remarkably well. Mostly toxin-free.
My grandma also said that my grandpa was never the same again after anesthesia. She is positive that it messes up the mind long term.
I do think that a lot has to do with genetics. But it were only genetics the illnesses in the nursing homes wouldn't have changed.
I really think the chemicals play a huge role.
Great video. It helps alot. How do you get a very stubborn person to accept help of any kind? She fired the home care people.
Thanks..
There is data to prove that it starts in the liver you have to keep your liver cleansed you have to keep your liver healthy early on as much as possible
How?
This is a follow up to my earlier comment about how stretching your hamstring can help with difficulty swallowing. The video I watched was on the NHK WORLD-JAPAN TH-cam channel. It is called Take a Stand Against Trouble Swallowing-GATTEN! Gatten means “Got it!” It’s some kind of celebrity panel show with English captions, created to be entertaining and educational.
Did you mean to put this in the Alzheimer's comments?
What about how long it takes for the light bulb to turn on when you talk to someone? That is becoming an issue with my husband. Or increasing obsession with taking out the trash, etc?
Depends on a lot of factors. Past medical history and age are important. Wouldn't hurt to have cognitive function testing done. Another commenter gave more info on that. If you feel something's wrong, take steps early to find out what it is and what can be done.
Like Brad's shirt
Did you forget what he’s talking about?
Talking about the message on Brad's shirt. And no, I spent several years dealing with this with my father.
@@msnell326 Oh.
The problem with Al's Heimer is that when I think to do something about it, I forget to... I speak 2 languages from birth and lately forget here and there a simple word. (I see the object in my mind but search for the word) Today I tried to remember the word for "clothes hanger". (But I managed still to buy a few at the store.) "I will take 50 of these ,please"
Alzhimer
@@glendawoodward8750 Al's Heimer
It can move fast. My mom went from stage 5 to stage 7 in under a year.
One of the arguments against a single payer medical model in our country is that you'll have to wait too long to see a doctor meanwhile with the thousands and thousands of Private health insurers people are waiting at a minimum 2 months in some places you can't even get up appointment 6 months out what a crock of s*** sick and tired of people using the manipulating words and phrases and sentences to alter that actual reality of what people are experiencing
Thank You :) 😅💋
Horrible disease.
Let's go Brandon!
Fun fact: a surprising number of Congress critters are on Alzheimer's medications.
Really? Where did you read that?
@@gailseatonhumbert9199 Do a search. A quicky came up with The Daily Wire, Vox, and Fox News. That trio should be broad enough to ask why CBS, CNN, ABC, NYT don't also come up. (And NPR)
@@gailseatonhumbert9199 do your own research, please. I gave you the clue, follow it up. Make your own decisions with what they allow you to find. I have a life too, and don't have time to catch everyone up. Take care now.
@@johnrice1943 I will just not believe your unsupported statement without backup documentation instead. Very inflammatory and without support doesn't exactly convince me it is true.
@@scottgiles7546 sorry try backing it up if you want an inflammatory statement to be believed that Congress is senile.
Brad,
Let him talk.
Make some changes to diet, step #1 quit sugar, eat real foods and move more
You are what you eat. Your diet impacts your health.
Obesity in children and adults is rising across the world.
Eat a healthy plant based diet and exercise regularly.
Reduce or ELIMINATE cows milk, eggs, cheese and meat. Eat more salad greens, beans, fruit and vegetables. Eliminate fast food and sugary drinks and juices.
Every adult and child should own a bicycle and ride it regularly.
Regular exercise will help you sleep better. Yoga is a great stress reducer.
Obesity is all too common today. Get off the couch. Get off the phone, ipad or video game.
A variety of stretching and other exercises help with increased mobility.
Ride to work, ride to school, ride for fun.
Every city should be a bicycle city.
Speak up for bicycles in your community
I used mct oil on my grandmother when she would get sun downers and after one tablespoon she snapped out of it . We stopped processed foods and kept her active.
I did a keto diet a couple of years ago… I felt sharp as a tack.
Go vegan for your health, whole food plant based.
Go vegan for the animals.
Go vegan for the planet.
A lower risk of heart disease and cancer for you and a better planet for everyone, human and animals.
I forget names. Like bad
Very informative video. What are the diagnostic tests one can get done for detecting it at early stages?
Hello , I had my ACL reconstruction surgery on my left knee one month earlier and now I find my right knee clicking everytime it bends, which was not present prior to the surgery. Is this normal?
What has that got to do with the subject of the videos, Dementia?
Can a person in their 60's have dementia?
Yes...sadly
Yes so can someone younger. I’ve sadly seen this
Sure
Yes. I am an Australian Diploma of dementia graduate. It is often called "early onset dementia". 🇦🇺
A woman I went to HS with was a waitress in a restaurant we often went to. She was always friendly & then she moved to .3 of a mile from me & I'd see her on walks & we'd chat. The house she moved into was worth five times of mine... Slowly she became less friendly & then stopped speaking to me. I thought her prosperity had gone to her head. Not so. She died of Alzheimer's at the age of 58. Yes, fifty-eight. 😢
I intiontionally put my socks in the freezer- I have feet erythromelalgia!
Sadly, SOME younger than 65 can get this🤷🏾♀️😔
I cannot ever remember to wipe. I think i have stage 8
Interesting, there a lot here that sounds like what one does with people who have ADHD.
To first last: at 65, I'm wondering if my cognitive issues are due to ADHD (diagnosed 30 years ago) or Alheimers/dementia . . . .
@@pennyobernyer7914 Have yourself tested first for ADHD. Alzheimer's/dementia requires of battery of test over a large period of time. Sixty-five-year olds are the young-old. Best not to fret.
This was not very helpful. Your signs of alzheimers is to vague. Stage 3 for example is so much more and can be different from others with it.
Like my husband can remember everything having to do with his job and finds his way home.
He knows where everything goes when doing dishes, unless I buy something new or move some things to a different cupboard and then he will stick it anywhere or leave on counter. And that's still after I've told him 10 times where to put it.
If I buy something new, like for example I bought a digital meat thermometer and put it on the fridge. He not only forgets we have one, but will not even see it on the fridge and I've told him several times. So he will use the old one because that's the one he remembers.
I tried putting the old one elsewhere so he's forced to use the newer one but he'll just yell at me where is it! And he yells A LOT!
If I put the new one in the drawer he will still not recognize what it is and will use the old one (which looks very different from new one).
These are small examples, there is a lot more.
He doesn't remember things I tell him or that he's already told me and I say yes you told me and he will argue that he didn't and tell me again, several times. He doesn't remember a lot! And I get yelled at for not telling him something that I certainly did in detail several times.
Want to talk about frustrating? I'm losing my damn mind.
He is going to be 61 this Dec and this has been going on for a few years but has gotten worse.
I don't know what to do or where to turn. He has all our money in bank accounts that he will not put my name on.
I've seen dementia run in families. Especially early onset with my step mom and her sisters and mother. My step mom jumped to last stage within a couple of years and she died at 62. Her younger sister died from it at 64 (after her). And I also used to be a CNA and worked with dementia clients.
I would like to see you give much more details and talk about more than leaving the keys in the fridge. He forgets his wallet once in awhile at work or in a friend's vehicle, but now it's more often. Same with his phone.
He has also become rather paranoid especially towards me. He thinks I'm up to something sneaky. That's why he put our money into a private account. And my name is no longer on our mortgage. I still haven't been able to find how and why that was done when we refinanced in 2012. I am on the deed and taxes.
I'm trying to get him to do estate planning and wills etc. But he thinks I'm up to something sneaky. And gets very combative verbally towards me. And then forgets we talked about it.
What do I do? I am scared!
He also has COPD and emphysema which is terminal. I'm afraid if he dies I'll lose everything.
I'm so sorry. Is there anyone who can advise you about how to get your name put on the accounts? You may have to declare him incompetent which I'm sure he wouldn't like and would fight it all the way. Do you have children or have siblings of his who would help you? That's got to be so frustrating to deal with the emotional issues of his dementia and now have to worry about losing everything you worked for.
Do “experts” really need to use the phrase “Debbie Downer”? Dude. Seriously. - Debbie F.
Lol
It’s just a phrase.
It’s not just phrase when your own name now has an ugly meaning. From a 66 year old Karen.
There, there, Dear. We know we’re so much fun 🤩!
@@stephaniecrays7841 Really? What if the phrase was “Stephanie Stupid”? It’s just not kind.
......missed Bob. 😕
Joe Biden thumbed down this video.
Apparently , so did you.
Lost interest ,due to the ,lets get to stage one ,then a big story and were still waiting for the stage one ,very irratating
Get on with it and stop waffling on for gods sake ,get to the point
Title is “Signs of Alzheimer’s”. Six minutes in (more than 25%) and I haven’t heard a single sign. Waste of time.
Get to the point u talk too much
Amen