starpuppy: "you gotta go outside" me: "....no" on a real note though, right before i watched this video i forced myself to plan a trip with a few friends this summer. i always feel like a burden/annoyance to most people and asking to "hang out" with people is something i dont do. not gonna lie, i feel a little proud of myself 😅
I love this video ! Not many people talk about this.. I’m definitely in the process of healing emotionally + spiritually and SOLITUDE has been very helpful in learning to love himself .. However it can quickly turn into ISOLATION when you start to devalue the outside world and human contact, because you know you’re safe at home from negative influences and energy.. I have to get out of my comfort zone. You gotta have balance.
girl you have no idea how much i needed to hear this right now!! i dropped out of school two years ago and moved into my own apartment in a new city. i have a few good friends here (like 2) and although i am happy with my decision to drop out/move, i feel like i've "missed the boat" on making friends because i've been here for two years and don't know how to make new friendships without the help of college so i spend a lot of time alone. alone time is good to an extent, but it's way too easy to fall into these isolation spells you are talking about and BOY does it feel like an uphill battle to dig yourself out. hearing u share your experience is giving me the lil push and motivation i need to take the first couple baby steps to turn this situation around! thanks for your kind words, hope ur havin a lovely day! xoxoxo
I just turned 25 a couple of days ago and I've been feeling even worse than usual. As someone with Avoidant Personality Disorder, depression, social anxiety and slight agoraphobia well... isolation has literally been my life since I dropped out of university a few years back. Literally I rarely leave the house nor do I speak to anyone outside my family. But this video is giving me some motivation to try to put together some steps to push myself to try & get better. So thank you!
same, but if you have facebook, instagram or something you(and every one else who is interested) can drop it so we can talk about things, even if is just when those lonely thoughts start to quick in... i am not american tho... but my english is ok.
sunny day I have suffered from social anxiety disorder for years and it has controlled my life. I've never been employed and had a job, I can barely buy my own things at the register at stores. How do you manage in life? How do you live life. I feel as though I have just wasted so much time being isolated, having zero friends, and wasting away my life. I dropped out of school few years ago due to my anxiety and still reget it. Please let me know what you've done to better your anxiety. 😭
This is weird but everytime i watch your videos i always think you are the type of friend that is the BEST for sleepovers because it means deep conversations like this at 3am
Starpuppy seriously these videos help me more than I ever expected, you're a great role model and super calming to listen to, I feel like you meet your audience where they're at and give amazing advice... Favorite series on TH-cam and I love you!!!!!!
I heavily needed to hear about the morning and my phone. I don't think I realised how much letting other people into my brain in the morning puts me so far second, that I can't even make breakfast before I do it. Please keep going, I love this series. It's so valuable.
Yeah I isolate myself a lot because I don't have any family and friends here (6 hours away from home). Oh and I have social anxiety and depression. Sometimes I just drive around, go to a grocery store to walk around, to the mall. Lately I've been going to the movies. I'm just waiting to settle into post-grad life and then I'll try to make friends again lol. EDIT: I also suck at texting because I over think a lot but I am big on communication...at least with those that I'm comfortable with. I have groupon and FB groups that I'm a part of. but haven't gone to any events yet. I really appreciate these videos.
Girl, I can relate to this on so many levels as a person in her 30s. I work from home as well and have learned the importance of getting up and going out just to get some sort of human interaction. Or even just calling up and meeting with friends and family over the weekend.
I feel overwhelmed often, which leads to depression, which always makes me isolate myself. It almost became second nature, because I don't know how to handle my emotions otherwise. Also, most of the time I feel like a weirdo for, as you put it, being on "isolation island" and like I am the only person in the world who does it, who ignores her friends because she can't handle life. Now, having watched your video, I don't feel so alone in this anymore. So - thank you lots!
I've found that simply spending time in the presence of other humans does wonders for me as well! I used to want to coop up in my room all the time, but going outside is definitely what I should be doing!
That texting part got me. I am horrible with that. Not the me texting part but thinking people hate me when they don't text back. I understand they have lives but like...i dunno.
Right at the intro I liked the video bc I knew you'd be dropping gems. I love how geniune and relatable your videos are. I'm 21 going on 22 and I just needed to know that I'm not alone in feeling lonely, anxious, unaccomplished, etc. Thank you Starpuppy 😊😊
thank you so so so much for this series. I’m 20 and going through a difficult time in my life and your series is like a light in the dark, you’re amazing girl❤️❤️❤️❤️
dropped college last year and i've been isolated myself since then .... i decided to start volunteering next week but i'm so anxious --' i don't know how to interact with humans anymore lol
This is so true and I’m so thankful that you shed light to this 🙌🏾 I help run a full service deli and I am truly and genuinely kind patient and loving to every single person that comes in there. I’ve been there for so long that of course in the beginning I took a lot of things personal and internal because I am a true empath. But I’ve learned how to navigate that energy and understand that some people truly have difficulties just getting out of bed and sometimes that pushiness or arrogance is mask from #fear. A homeless young lady was slight toned abrasive with me and I felt something as I was taking an order over the phone and when she came in and told me she was homeless I gave her all the free food and I tried to help her with resources! I don’t see her anymore but I always feel like my interactions with people I want to always be kind because I may be in the presence of an angel 🙌🏾 I truly feel this way. However, when I come home it’s decompression city I am #empath exhausted 😩
You always remind me of Sara K when you do these 20's vids. I thought I wouldnt find more authentic yts anymore, but you're here and I'm so glad that you exist! ❤
Young lady you are a gift to your generation, you are a gift to the world. Iam 35 and married. And listening to you pour out so much wisdom. Bless your heart. Keep up the good work you are doing. I pray for God to increase you and make you great. You should become a psychologist. I pray for Gods grace upon you. A close relationship with Him.🤗
''Worth is inherent. You... As an extension of source energy are born and die with the same amount of worth and the same inherent potential which can not be added to or taken away from. You can think of worth like an eternal light which can't be turned off or turned brighter. It can simply be obscured or allowed to shine by what's in front of it. A talent would be an example of something put in front of worth which allows it to shine. A fault may be seen as something put in front of worth which prevents it from shining.'' - Teal Swan
Your like a motivational speaker, comedian and psychologist all wrapped into one (also your one of my favorite TH-camrs cause you seem more real or you show more of your quirks than others do, so good on ya).👍
this hit me so hard i feel so called out tbh lol. thank you though. honestly. these videos have been helping me and so many others in a deeper level. this is exactly what i needed to hear and start getting out of isolation island :///
That " there's a difference between knowing that you're worthy and feeling that you're worthy" got me so bad! I was fighting with myself because I know that I worth being happy and successful and all of that but when I get a chance to do that, the feeling of not being worthy beats me! Never knew that it sort of "normal" or that I'm not crazy lol Thankvyouuu
Thank you. ❤️ .... the “talk to your friend” ohhh that hits close to home. That one can be a hold up for sure. Great message and powerful story. I can relate to each stage that you went through and your advise is spot on. Subscribed!
These videos are really nice to listen to considering I’m about to go to college in literally 4 months. So thank u for making them. It gives me much more confidence than you could imagine.
I’m going through a hard time right now in my life and I want you to know that this series is helping me out so much! I’m so happy I found your channel ❤️
So true, just going out and interacting with people who aren't family, but are staff for shops is so nice, I got colour matched by a nice lady in a store, she took her time and I was probably there for an hour but it was so lovely ❤️ Girl crush ❤️
''The collective human disorder is the belief that we are not enough. The belief that “I am not enough” is the root of most (if not all) forms of illness, poverty and unhappiness on the planet today. It is this belief of pure lack of self love that filters out to create lack in all other aspects of a person’s life. Most people do not truly love themselves. So if you are one of these people who believe you are not enough and therefore do not love yourself yet… you are not alone. For you, to say “I love myself” would feel more like lying to yourself than telling the truth. For you, to say “I love myself” would contradict your own sense of intelligence therefore, it would make you more aware of where you aren’t than make you feel good about where you are. For this reason, the process of “365 days of self love” is for you. This process is a stepping stone which serves to help you close the gap between wherever you are and self love. Right now in the current life you are living, you most likely struggle with being sure of your decisions because the basis by which you make your decisions is not that of self love. Instead, you make your decisions based on things like principal, wanting approval or symptom relief. But in order to live the life you were meant to live, you have got to get back in touch with your own personal truth and your own personal joy. Those two things need to become the principal motivations for any decision you make. Self love needs to be the foundation which you lay first and build the details of your life upon second.... '' tealswan.com/resources/processes/365-days-of-self-love-r9/
I isolated myself at 13 after my mother suicide and now i'm kinda the anxiety mess when it comes to party and talking to boys. It's hard that i don't know any lessons or advice from her you know? Neither I'm femenine and social as I WISH I could be (I lived with my father and brother). I honestly don't have friends, just people that see me as the other choice to hang out but that's my fault too
Road to 100k. I remember when I started following a few months ago and you were at 29k and I was like nahhhhhh you are better than that. Now you are almost to 100k. Okurrrr.
Thank you starpuppy❤ I'm still battling isolation and believing that im worth love. It's so true that it's an everyday battle. Today you're great at it, tomorrow that little voice creeps up and stunts you.
OMG so true about not starting the day on your phone! ESPECIALLY as a TH-camr!! Wake up and live life on YOUR OWN TERMS! Nobody needs to concern themselves with everyone elses opinions first thing in the morning, even if they are complimentary!
This past winter, I isolated myself so so much for so long that when I actually forced myself to go out after 4 months to buy shampoo, I talked slow for some reason, I walked slow, I even drove slow and felt a little wonky, I even smiled weird because I hadnt in so long, like I have literal rust on my bones including my jaw. I am a fast moving person in general, like a squirrel. And this was such a weird experience for me that I can actually turn myself into someone who is sooo slow. And talking to even just the cashier.. was such an experience for me. I genuinely felt nice. First person I spoke to after my cat in 4 months.
Hey!!! I watched your video’s , today I’ve had a really cool evening with my roommates, it has been fantastic. I really needed it. Isolated myself in France last year when I was in exchange but Wednesday’s I decided to go out and jam with people, which was my only hope that time! Strange , how things are at the same time beautiful and funny but dark as well. Now things look like they are more balanced than last year. Slow but gradually... next year I’m graduating arts academy in painting! Whoop whoop !
Thank you for that advice Puppy of the Stars. I'm an introvert part time extrovert due to my job. Getting out is a task sometimes. Depends emotionally. My problem is forgetting to call or say hi to my friend because I get busy with life and my 9 to 5.
I definitely suffered from isolation after college. I had a plan of packing my bags and moving to a different city and start my life. I ended up having a bad friend who scammed me, a shitty job, and very low self esteem. I was sexually assaulted in college and I also feel like that played a major part. I separated myself from a friend and especially family. Now im trying to talk again and everyone is giving me stank looks and not wanting to fuck with me. Tbh should I just not give a damn anymore. Like I don’t feel like explaining myself or the trauma that was goin on. Idk.
I love you so much girl! You remind me that I’m not alone in my weirdness and with my problems. And I’m so happy I discovered you because your rawness gives me hope that one day I will meet someone that will be as real as you are💘 Honestly I feel like we would have been great friends if we were ever to meet🤷🏼♀️
I'm really thankful for this vid cause it pushed me to text a good friend I haven't talked to in forever. Ive been thinking about her for awhile but I didn't know how to approach reconnecting
I really did enjoy and can relate to this video. I'm in college right now and I have one more year left and through the time I've been here I tried to be a more sociable person because I've always been isolated through grade school and strict parenting. But I'm learning that I HAVE to put myself in uncomfortable positions, to fine a new comfort or at least to get what I want and not be so to myself. I have friends and I'm hesitant to reach out to them because I know they have a life but like you said, they might be wondering what I'm up to because I'm M.I.A. and I'll need to reach out to them sometimes and spark the conversation but it just feels weird and uncomfortable to me.
I don't know if you can tell in this image but I too apparently have sparse density hair. I remember having fuller looking hair and am challenged to try to regain some fullness using my own natural creations. Would love to keep you updated on my journey.
Hey girl, thank you for this video. I love your entire 20's talk series, its been such a huge help to me personally. I just wanted to know, do you live at home or on your own? If you live at home, are you trying to leave? Do you get along with the people you live with? And if you live on your own, how did you do it? Not like just the logistics of money but the emotional side of leaving the nest or whatever and being independent?
I isolate myself however I talk to people at work.. Some consider themselves my friends but I consider them work friends I don't really wanna take it outside cause I don't really feel like I fit with them or that I can be myself. So I just smile when they say that... I dunno how to find people... That have similar likes or that can handle my madness
I am not a millennial , and I find this series super helpful. These are some great reminders for all ages. Thank you! Fantastic Video! Signed, a fellow weirdo.
i’m so afraid for the future bc im graduating and idk what im doing and i already felt isolated in university i’m so worried i’ll fall into deeper despair idk if i can save myself
i've had a long time friend stop being friends because i didn't talk to her while i poofed from existence for a while cuz of depression. i don't really hold expectations for friends anymore because of that. i wish they'd always wonder where you were when you disappeared.
Hey pretty!!! I introduced you to one of my besties because not only is she also named Danielle, but she’s a Pisces as well. I told her you are her if she was your age... (we are mothers in our 40’s) Question ... where can I find this mantra thing you speak of? I’d like to experience it. You are a blessing to this world... I know you know, but I just wanted to remind you. I love your energy and am so glad the universe saw fit to bring you into my awareness. Love your energy. Keep being wonderful. ✌🏽❤️💡
You are really sweet lovely and beautiful. So glad that you are on the other end of this mental journey helping others. Good for you! Loved watching your video :)
You’re awesome. Great advice!! I agree with this. I love hair and astrology lol. I’m a natural hair enthusiast and the type of hair events that occur in my community... ehh it seems too commercial and pretentious. It’s more about getting sponsorships, pushing products etc..Just too much going on. If hair meet up events had the same genuine energy I see on some hair blogs/forums then that would be great!!! Things are so different now.
It's just so easy to isolate yourself, but life passes by so much faster in the slowest way possible.
said perfectly
starpuppy: "you gotta go outside"
me: "....no"
on a real note though, right before i watched this video i forced myself to plan a trip with a few friends this summer. i always feel like a burden/annoyance to most people and asking to "hang out" with people is something i dont do. not gonna lie, i feel a little proud of myself 😅
As a fellow Danielle, I applaud you. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
i want a friend like you...
I want a few friends like her .. 😔
@@BrotherMalMusic me too..I have most of my friends very fake...
I love this video ! Not many people talk about this.. I’m definitely in the process of healing emotionally + spiritually and SOLITUDE has been very helpful in learning to love himself
.. However it can quickly turn into ISOLATION when you start to devalue the outside world and human contact, because you know you’re safe at home from negative influences and energy.. I have to get out of my comfort zone. You gotta have balance.
I’m really thankful for you. Cuz I isolated myself after dropping out of college and I consistently fall into those spells.
girl you have no idea how much i needed to hear this right now!! i dropped out of school two years ago and moved into my own apartment in a new city. i have a few good friends here (like 2) and although i am happy with my decision to drop out/move, i feel like i've "missed the boat" on making friends because i've been here for two years and don't know how to make new friendships without the help of college so i spend a lot of time alone. alone time is good to an extent, but it's way too easy to fall into these isolation spells you are talking about and BOY does it feel like an uphill battle to dig yourself out. hearing u share your experience is giving me the lil push and motivation i need to take the first couple baby steps to turn this situation around! thanks for your kind words, hope ur havin a lovely day! xoxoxo
this series would be so incredible as a podcast
This has nothing to do with the podcast idea which is awesome but, I love ur lil' alien dude @Bel
I just turned 25 a couple of days ago and I've been feeling even worse than usual. As someone with Avoidant Personality Disorder, depression, social anxiety and slight agoraphobia well... isolation has literally been my life since I dropped out of university a few years back. Literally I rarely leave the house nor do I speak to anyone outside my family. But this video is giving me some motivation to try to put together some steps to push myself to try & get better. So thank you!
same, but if you have facebook, instagram or something you(and every one else who is interested) can drop it so we can talk about things, even if is just when those lonely thoughts start to quick in... i am not american tho... but my english is ok.
@@sunnyday9253 That's really sweet of you! What's your insta? For anyone who might want to contact you?
@@charleneraymond4036 sorry for replying late but yeah my Instagram is _sollnunes feel free to contact me, 😊
sunny day I have suffered from social anxiety disorder for years and it has controlled my life. I've never been employed and had a job, I can barely buy my own things at the register at stores. How do you manage in life? How do you live life. I feel as though I have just wasted so much time being isolated, having zero friends, and wasting away my life. I dropped out of school few years ago due to my anxiety and still reget it. Please let me know what you've done to better your anxiety. 😭
20's talk - my favourite playlist❤
This is weird but everytime i watch your videos i always think you are the type of friend that is the BEST for sleepovers because it means deep conversations like this at 3am
Curl formers is doing the most.
Starpuppy seriously these videos help me more than I ever expected, you're a great role model and super calming to listen to, I feel like you meet your audience where they're at and give amazing advice... Favorite series on TH-cam and I love you!!!!!!
I heavily needed to hear about the morning and my phone. I don't think I realised how much letting other people into my brain in the morning puts me so far second, that I can't even make breakfast before I do it. Please keep going, I love this series. It's so valuable.
This video helped me so much (which tbh, your whole channel/aura you have about you has) - forreal, you're seriously incredible. Keep being weird ✨
Yeah I isolate myself a lot because I don't have any family and friends here (6 hours away from home). Oh and I have social anxiety and depression. Sometimes I just drive around, go to a grocery store to walk around, to the mall. Lately I've been going to the movies. I'm just waiting to settle into post-grad life and then I'll try to make friends again lol.
EDIT: I also suck at texting because I over think a lot but I am big on communication...at least with those that I'm comfortable with. I have groupon and FB groups that I'm a part of. but haven't gone to any events yet.
I really appreciate these videos.
Girl, I can relate to this on so many levels as a person in her 30s. I work from home as well and have learned the importance of getting up and going out just to get some sort of human interaction. Or even just calling up and meeting with friends and family over the weekend.
I am 54 years old this is where I am now. Thank you 🙏🏾
The fact that there are people that have experienced the isolation that I have experienced is crazy lmaooo. I thought I was the only. one.
I feel overwhelmed often, which leads to depression, which always makes me isolate myself.
It almost became second nature, because I don't know how to handle my emotions otherwise.
Also, most of the time I feel like a weirdo for, as you put it, being on "isolation island" and like I am the only person in the world who does it, who ignores her friends because she can't handle life.
Now, having watched your video, I don't feel so alone in this anymore. So - thank you lots!
I've found that simply spending time in the presence of other humans does wonders for me as well! I used to want to coop up in my room all the time, but going outside is definitely what I should be doing!
That texting part got me. I am horrible with that. Not the me texting part but thinking people hate me when they don't text back. I understand they have lives but like...i dunno.
Right at the intro I liked the video bc I knew you'd be dropping gems. I love how geniune and relatable your videos are. I'm 21 going on 22 and I just needed to know that I'm not alone in feeling lonely, anxious, unaccomplished, etc. Thank you Starpuppy 😊😊
"Don't you think you're worth it? Because I do". Girl. I almost cried hearing you say that. wow. Thank you for being so wonderful and lovely.
thank you so so so much for this series. I’m 20 and going through a difficult time in my life and your series is like a light in the dark, you’re amazing girl❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m absolutely in love with your spirit and confidence it’s so uplifting.
dropped college last year and i've been isolated myself since then .... i decided to start volunteering next week but i'm so anxious --' i don't know how to interact with humans anymore lol
This is so true and I’m so thankful that you shed light to this 🙌🏾 I help run a full service deli and I am truly and genuinely kind patient and loving to every single person that comes in there. I’ve been there for so long that of course in the beginning I took a lot of things personal and internal because I am a true empath. But I’ve learned how to navigate that energy and understand that some people truly have difficulties just getting out of bed and sometimes that pushiness or arrogance is mask from #fear. A homeless young lady was slight toned abrasive with me and I felt something as I was taking an order over the phone and when she came in and told me she was homeless I gave her all the free food and I tried to help her with resources! I don’t see her anymore but I always feel like my interactions with people I want to always be kind because I may be in the presence of an angel 🙌🏾 I truly feel this way. However, when I come home it’s decompression city
I am #empath exhausted 😩
Giiiirl, I love your energy!! It's so nice to see someone be comfortable in their quirkiness.
I isolated myself last for two months. definitely wrote out my affirmations since I just moved. I love this Queen ❤️
Thank you for this, I never went to college and I turned into kind of a hermit after high school but I'm working on it 😊
I know you know this, but I hope you can truly recognize how much of a blessing you are to so many people with these 20s talks
You always remind me of Sara K when you do these 20's vids.
I thought I wouldnt find more authentic yts anymore, but you're here and I'm so glad that you exist! ❤
Yes exactly!
Starpuppy, you're too smart for your age. Great suggestions because I definitely fall into that sunken place sometimes.
Lol the sunken place. 😂😏🌝🤗
She is incredibly wise too. The moment she talks, you can hear it in her voice.
Young lady you are a gift to your generation, you are a gift to the world. Iam 35 and married. And listening to you pour out so much wisdom. Bless your heart. Keep up the good work you are doing. I pray for God to increase you and make you great. You should become a psychologist. I pray for Gods grace upon you. A close relationship with Him.🤗
I just want to say thank you for making videos like these. You are helping many people out there!
''Worth is inherent. You... As an extension of source energy are born and die with the same amount of worth and the same inherent potential which can not be added to or taken away from. You can think of worth like an eternal light which can't be turned off or turned brighter. It can simply be obscured or allowed to shine by what's in front of it.
A talent would be an example of something put in front of worth which allows it to shine. A fault may be seen as something put in front of worth which prevents it from shining.''
- Teal Swan
Sticking around for Surviving Your 20's pt. 20 and beyond
Your like a motivational speaker, comedian and psychologist all wrapped into one (also your one of my favorite TH-camrs cause you seem more real or you show more of your quirks than others do, so good on ya).👍
Your hair looks great . Love how much growth ur channel is getting ur really awesome!!!
this hit me so hard i feel so called out tbh lol. thank you though. honestly. these videos have been helping me and so many others in a deeper level. this is exactly what i needed to hear and start getting out of isolation island :///
That " there's a difference between knowing that you're worthy and feeling that you're worthy" got me so bad! I was fighting with myself because I know that I worth being happy and successful and all of that but when I get a chance to do that, the feeling of not being worthy beats me! Never knew that it sort of "normal" or that I'm not crazy lol
Thankvyouuu
Thank you. ❤️ .... the “talk to your friend” ohhh that hits close to home. That one can be a hold up for sure. Great message and powerful story. I can relate to each stage that you went through and your advise is spot on. Subscribed!
These videos are really nice to listen to considering I’m about to go to college in literally 4 months. So thank u for making them. It gives me much more confidence than you could imagine.
I’m going through a hard time right now in my life and I want you to know that this series is helping me out so much! I’m so happy I found your channel ❤️
So true, just going out and interacting with people who aren't family, but are staff for shops is so nice, I got colour matched by a nice lady in a store, she took her time and I was probably there for an hour but it was so lovely ❤️ Girl crush ❤️
"Do not start your day off on your phone, it's a terrible idea."
I literally just woke up and watched this, lol
You're one positive person, you're my source of self confidence rn.
''The collective human disorder is the belief that we are not enough. The belief that “I am not enough” is the root of most (if not all) forms of illness, poverty and unhappiness on the planet today. It is this belief of pure lack of self love that filters out to create lack in all other aspects of a person’s life. Most people do not truly love themselves. So if you are one of these people who believe you are not enough and therefore do not love yourself yet… you are not alone.
For you, to say “I love myself” would feel more like lying to yourself than telling the truth. For you, to say “I love myself” would contradict your own sense of intelligence therefore, it would make you more aware of where you aren’t than make you feel good about where you are. For this reason, the process of “365 days of self love” is for you.
This process is a stepping stone which serves to help you close the gap between wherever you are and self love. Right now in the current life you are living, you most likely struggle with being sure of your decisions because the basis by which you make your decisions is not that of self love. Instead, you make your decisions based on things like principal, wanting approval or symptom relief. But in order to live the life you were meant to live, you have got to get back in touch with your own personal truth and your own personal joy. Those two things need to become the principal motivations for any decision you make. Self love needs to be the foundation which you lay first and build the details of your life upon second.... ''
tealswan.com/resources/processes/365-days-of-self-love-r9/
I isolated myself at 13 after my mother suicide and now i'm kinda the anxiety mess when it comes to party and talking to boys. It's hard that i don't know any lessons or advice from her you know? Neither I'm femenine and social as I WISH I could be (I lived with my father and brother). I honestly don't have friends, just people that see me as the other choice to hang out but that's my fault too
Amani Nina I’m here for ya!
Sleepy Claus same im 16 now, if u wanna talk im here k❤️
@Sleepy Claus, I'm sorry you've gone through all of this. I really hope things improve 4 u
Road to 100k. I remember when I started following a few months ago and you were at 29k and I was like nahhhhhh you are better than that. Now you are almost to 100k. Okurrrr.
Thank you starpuppy❤ I'm still battling isolation and believing that im worth love. It's so true that it's an everyday battle. Today you're great at it, tomorrow that little voice creeps up and stunts you.
OMG so true about not starting the day on your phone! ESPECIALLY as a TH-camr!! Wake up and live life on YOUR OWN TERMS! Nobody needs to concern themselves with everyone elses opinions first thing in the morning, even if they are complimentary!
This is soooo important. Love you and love this
This past winter, I isolated myself so so much for so long that when I actually forced myself to go out after 4 months to buy shampoo, I talked slow for some reason, I walked slow, I even drove slow and felt a little wonky, I even smiled weird because I hadnt in so long, like I have literal rust on my bones including my jaw. I am a fast moving person in general, like a squirrel. And this was such a weird experience for me that I can actually turn myself into someone who is sooo slow. And talking to even just the cashier.. was such an experience for me. I genuinely felt nice. First person I spoke to after my cat in 4 months.
Thank god people like you & videos like this exist. This made me feel less alone 🙌🏼
Bless you. Bless your heart. This really touched me. I didn’t even know I needed this.
This is my favorite video in this series. Yes. Definitely my favorite
20's talk- walking in faith🙌❤
And favorite scriptures
Hey 🌟🐕 the wierdness is real and I love it😍
Your words are gold💛
You are my favourite youtuber ever. I thank you so much for your honesty and your positive messages :)
you are a literal angel!!!!! doing the lord's work!!!!!
Hey!!!
I watched your video’s , today I’ve had a really cool evening with my roommates, it has been fantastic. I really needed it. Isolated myself in France last year when I was in exchange but Wednesday’s I decided to go out and jam with people, which was my only hope that time! Strange , how things are at the same time beautiful and funny but dark as well.
Now things look like they are more balanced than last year. Slow but gradually... next year I’m graduating arts academy in painting! Whoop whoop !
Thank you for that advice Puppy of the Stars. I'm an introvert part time extrovert due to my job. Getting out is a task sometimes. Depends emotionally. My problem is forgetting to call or say hi to my friend because I get busy with life and my 9 to 5.
It's so interesting to know that other people go through the exact same things that you may have 😧 this was such perfect timing thnx for the talk
Thanks for you saying this. I use to have to do that every morning till I understand I'm worth so much. I love you and ur greatness.
I definitely suffered from isolation after college. I had a plan of packing my bags and moving to a different city and start my life. I ended up having a bad friend who scammed me, a shitty job, and very low self esteem. I was sexually assaulted in college and I also feel like that played a major part. I separated myself from a friend and especially family. Now im trying to talk again and everyone is giving me stank looks and not wanting to fuck with me. Tbh should I just not give a damn anymore. Like I don’t feel like explaining myself or the trauma that was goin on. Idk.
I love you so much girl! You remind me that I’m not alone in my weirdness and with my problems. And I’m so happy I discovered you because your rawness gives me hope that one day I will meet someone that will be as real as you are💘 Honestly I feel like we would have been great friends if we were ever to meet🤷🏼♀️
I really needed this video. I'm glad you posted 💛
I'm really thankful for this vid cause it pushed me to text a good friend I haven't talked to in forever. Ive been thinking about her for awhile but I didn't know how to approach reconnecting
Can relate. I'm still so scared to message my past friends here...
I really did enjoy and can relate to this video. I'm in college right now and I have one more year left and through the time I've been here I tried to be a more sociable person because I've always been isolated through grade school and strict parenting. But I'm learning that I HAVE to put myself in uncomfortable positions, to fine a new comfort or at least to get what I want and not be so to myself. I have friends and I'm hesitant to reach out to them because I know they have a life but like you said, they might be wondering what I'm up to because I'm M.I.A. and I'll need to reach out to them sometimes and spark the conversation but it just feels weird and uncomfortable to me.
I don't know if you can tell in this image but I too apparently have sparse density hair. I remember having fuller looking hair and am challenged to try to regain some fullness using my own natural creations. Would love to keep you updated on my journey.
BEEN waiting for this subject
*puts fingers on lips* MUAH, ~delightful~, thanks!
StarPuppy, you make me wish you were one of my actual friends...Instead, you're just a friend in my head...
Damn I totally feel like you read my mind. Thank you for reassuring us, all of us going through our 20's
Thank you 💛
I hope everyone have a blessed day 💛🤗💐
I definitely needed this video. Thank you. I appreciate your aura. ❤
You'd look amazing in dreadlocks just saying 😁
Obese facts
nothing to dread :) it is a crown
Agreed ☺️
Sigh....they always tell black girls with 4c hair this, shes looks great as is.
Its locks it is.
You just slayed wave formers and helped me out with my main problem in college........ this is why you are my senpai !!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hey girl, thank you for this video. I love your entire 20's talk series, its been such a huge help to me personally. I just wanted to know, do you live at home or on your own? If you live at home, are you trying to leave? Do you get along with the people you live with? And if you live on your own, how did you do it? Not like just the logistics of money but the emotional side of leaving the nest or whatever and being independent?
She's like my older sister giving me wisdom about life
I'm 29, and I appreciate your wisdom Star Puppy🤩
I isolate myself however I talk to people at work.. Some consider themselves my friends but I consider them work friends I don't really wanna take it outside cause I don't really feel like I fit with them or that I can be myself. So I just smile when they say that... I dunno how to find people... That have similar likes or that can handle my madness
I love this video
Thanks StarPuppy ❤️
so lovely from the in and outside, thankyou for your vids
You’re an amazing beautiful woman. I inspire to be as self reflective as you.
You are also amazing and beautiful 😇 Just the fact that you are aware of the change you want to make is 90% of success, good luck 💋
I am not a millennial , and I find this series super helpful. These are some great reminders for all ages. Thank you! Fantastic Video! Signed, a fellow weirdo.
Are you Gen X?
Never clicked on a TH-cam video so fast...
i’m so afraid for the future bc im graduating and idk what im doing and i already felt isolated in university i’m so worried i’ll fall into deeper despair idk if i can save myself
I appreciate your 20’s talks girl !
i've had a long time friend stop being friends because i didn't talk to her while i poofed from existence for a while cuz of depression. i don't really hold expectations for friends anymore because of that. i wish they'd always wonder where you were when you disappeared.
Hey pretty!!! I introduced you to one of my besties because not only is she also named Danielle, but she’s a Pisces as well. I told her you are her if she was your age... (we are mothers in our 40’s)
Question ... where can I find this mantra thing you speak of? I’d like to experience it.
You are a blessing to this world... I know you know, but I just wanted to remind you. I love your energy and am so glad the universe saw fit to bring you into my awareness. Love your energy. Keep being wonderful.
✌🏽❤️💡
I can relate so much to your content.
Love from South Africa ❤
Best advisor I've ever seen
You are really sweet lovely and beautiful. So glad that you are on the other end of this mental journey helping others. Good for you! Loved watching your video :)
try mini twists for amazing length retention!!!
You’re awesome. Great advice!! I agree with this. I love hair and astrology lol.
I’m a natural hair enthusiast and the type of hair events that occur in my community... ehh it seems too commercial and pretentious. It’s more about getting sponsorships, pushing products etc..Just too much going on. If hair meet up events had the same genuine energy I see on some hair blogs/forums then that would be great!!! Things are so different now.
I'm created a life advice playlist and saving all of these videos to it for those future moments. Thank you SO much for making these videos!
I don't know why I got this recommended but I needed it and thank you so much!
THANK YOU FOR THIS. I needed to hear this so bad today.
we love a wiiiiiine-ding conversation LOL