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I started watching an ex-convict's channel where he talks about his time in prison. First video I watched was not censored. He started censoring them more, but I feel they get away with so much more than true crime channels. Some words just shouldn't even be restricted (m**der, SA, etc.) It's a bit overboard.
In 1979, my birth mother left me with a man she had just met. Left me there for a week. I was lucky, his sister and her husband adopted me and that man became my uncle. Had Stanley not been a great guy, my story could have been a lot like this one.
It’s fortunate that you won that coin toss. As you’ve stated, things could have been very different. Stanley clearly had a conscience and the desire to help, and was absent of perverted intentions. Another good man to help counteract the vile ones.
I was just telling a story like this. This lady left her daughter with my male cousin that she had just met at the bar the night before.. left her there for a week as well Smfh I don’t understand people . He’s gay but like … I don’t think that lady cares if her daughter gets molested
@@weekendnomad5038 Precisely what the fuck does gay have to do with anything? Gay people don't commit sex crimes? Gay people don't commit crimes against children? Have you ever heard of a Catholic priest? That is ignorant as fuck.
My womb donor used to jump from dude to dude constantly in 78-80 and always left us with these guys. We know drugs were involved, and we were taken by CPS when I was 18 months old for 6 months. She got us back, and that never should've happened.
Some random man who is paying alot of attention to your young daughter is a red flag.. why did she even get a chance to get out of jail? This is insane
Not to mention left to take her home & clean her up & change her & then proceed to go RIGHT BACK TO THE EFFING MALL. There's just no justifying that, I don't care what kind of sales they had going on, the mall is not all that.
It made you upset it made me really upset because I don’t understand why was she leave her child around a man she barely know these women is so desperate for a man they will leave the kids with them and that’s why he was able to beat the crap out of her a little girl and she didn’t even call the police when she found out that her daughter was hurt even if I was scared to do it soon as he would’ve turned his back I would’ve ran out to my neighbors called the cops
It never ceases to amaze me how stupid and desperate some women are to have a man. They don't have the basic instinct to protect their young that animals have. It's as infuriating as heartbreaking to me.
Desperate is the perfect word they focus their attention of trying to be with a man then worrying about their kids … I’m sure most people can relate in these comments Because they problably had a mother that has done the same thing smh 😡 I have 2 daughters and I would never ever leave my daughters with just anybody it makes me so sick
The instinct to protect offspring can leave just as easily as it came. Some animals literally eat their babies if it means their own chances of survival will improve.
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I raised my two daughters on my own,no bf's no men waking up in my house, no dates etc.. because I didn't want to take the risk of anything like this happening to them. Some might not agree with doing that, but i made that choice as the right one for me and my girls. They are happily married now with their own children and careers.
@@mcrivas4714 Yeap, done the same, my boys now in their 20's are doing so well with their own careers and life..It's hard but please dont ever look back as I havent..The world is for you to grab it, embrace it and enjoy it with them..As children grow up so fast..Best wishes from Oz 💞
You did! I've always said this is how I'll do things if I break up with my partner. We've got two daughters and I don't let anyone alone with them not even grandad, uncles etc no way am I risking something happening to them for my own selfish needs
I have a hard time believing that she didn't hear her daughter screaming while he assaulted her. I can hear every little sound that my child makes and I immediately jump up when I hear them. This poor baby had all this internal damage and mom was just peacefully sleeping? I call BS!!!
Yes! Last night my three year old daughter woke up and vomited in her bed (stomach virus going around her preschool 😢) and my husband and I both jumped up out of a deep sleep and sprinted down the hallway at the sound of her heaving. There is no way she didn’t hear what was going on. I’m a fairly heavy sleeper. I’ve slept through earthquakes and have even joked that I could sleep through a tornado. But if my little girl so much as coughs from down the hall, I’m at her bedside. I think it’s parental instinct that kicks in.
@@LovelyLauren2 Exactly. The day I gave birth to my child, was the day I stopped sleeping well. I am historically an oversleeper. School, work, through alarms, I have fallen asleep underneath my desk on a bean bag in my office at campus where I was studying for my masters degree. Now, I jump at my child even so much as coughing in the night, or even tossing and turning a bit too much: I am up! Mothers instinct. How is it that some don't have that? Or don't they even care??? This story is horrible, and even though I am not in favor of death penalties in principal, this sort of thing makes my blood boil. How could he (or anyone) do such a thing??? And HOW could she let it happen????
He assaulted her when he took her to the park for 15 min & then again when he took her to see fireworks across the street. He was alone w her then because bobo stayed at home. He didn’t necessarily abuze or S/A her the next morning. He put her to bed in the same clothes than got up early to change her so bobo wouldn’t see the bruises from the night before. … At least that’s how I understood it? ICBW
My mom used to leave me with random men all the time and women too. I am so lucky that these people even though they participated in nefarious activities otherwise, they were good people considering this story. One guy taught me how to cook stuff since most of the time we went hungry. Others taught me how to tie my shoes and other valuable skills. I had an angel wstching over me
@@icannotpretend5834 I feel like that’s been my whole life. I faced opiate addiction and substance use putting myself in many high risk situations. Should have been in trouble with the law several times that I dodged somehow. I have been in recovery for 13 years and now helping others through theirs. Even from so many close calls with car accidents that it just seemed otherworldly that the outcome wasn’t different and health scares that should of been a lot more serious. I really am absolutely blessed and have many angelic presences looking out for me 😊 I believe we all do if we open ourselves up to it 😇
Not all bad people do bad (if that makes sense). I grew up as a teen in a heroin using household but the dad was pretty cool and treated me like one of his children.
@@vw7887 totally agree. I am not only recovering from an addiction myself and never considered myself to do bad towards others. Mine wasn’t heroin but close enough. Either way it doesn’t matter what it is, I now work in a position where I am working one on one with those who are trying to recover from their own experiences and there is more good in them than bad. And there are more of them that are good people than bad. I think it’s just a high risk when a child is left with people the parents barely know that are involved in a more “unconventional” life style opposed to other situations. However, with that being said ANYONE is capable of anything no matter how normal or good they may appear on the outside so it def can go both ways. A person can appear stable, responsible, “normal” yet still be ill intended where another can not be these things but have the best of intentions. I think the world proves that bad people come from ALL walks of life
I'm not entirely convinced that she didn't know what he was going to do to that baby. She might not have known it woukd lead to her death, but that level of incompetence is hard to believe.
It’s ironic how everyone is acting like a man being alone with a baby, rape and murder are to be expected, but how dare a mother leave her child alone? What was she thinking? Maybe the one who raped and murdered the baby is the incompetent one
@@dollinterrupted that monster isn't incompetent, he's just evil. The mother is either incompetent for leaving her daughter with a man she has only known for two weeks or evil as well. Personally, I don't think I could trust another potential partner with my child ever because of all the horror stories out there. Yes, I know it's not all men, but I'm not taking a chance with this tiny, helpless human who is wholly dependent on me for protection. I wouldn't take a chance with a dog, a snake, or a human because IT IS MY JOB TO KEEP THAT BABY SAFE ABOVE EVERYTHING ELSE! This woman is incompetent at best and compliant at worst and should never be allowed to have custody of another child
@@ThatOddChickenHippie go through the comment section and see how much hate there is for the child’s mother vs the man who raped and murdered her baby while she was asleep. You can’t convince me this isn’t another toxic symptom of patriarchy. People are more appalled at a mother leaving her baby with another adult, then they are with that adult for raping and killing the baby they were trusted with
@@dollinterrupted then reply to them and not me. The dude is evil, and that goes without saying. Chances are that is exactly why there is more talk of the mother. NO ONE doubts the evil of this sack of sh!t masquerading as a human man, but people are OUTRAGED that a mother would leave their daughter alone with a man she knew for only two weeks. There is no need to discuss the man because it is a foregone conclusion that isn't up for debate in the slightest, the mother's actions are still up for debate and for discussion. Use your head; not everything is the "patriarchy" and it is people like you that make it so no one takes feminism seriously anymore, and it's a real shame because there are definitely issue that have yet to be fixed.
Her sole responsibility was to protect that baby. She DID NOT! She deserved a much longer sentence for sure. She wanted that man, in her mind she was willing to overlooked her daughter's health to keep him.
It was utter selfishness because she was more concerned with herself and having a man than she was in protecting her child. When you have a child you make sacrifices for them to ensure their well-being and happiness. She instead sacrificed her child for her own happiness. She is just as revolting as the monster she let sleep in her bed who preyed on her child.
It’s hardly a new phenomenon, but these sorts of behaviours are definitely on the rise again, especially due to the extremely casual nature of relationships and reproduction we currently observe. Selfish morons and violent paedos - a match made in hell!
As a mother that had a 13 month old child pass in 2021 on June 5th, this just shatters my heart. How could you leave your child with someone you barely know?!💔
I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you’re doing okay now and having great memories being made and that your angel watches over you. You’re so strong mama
She knew well enough that her daughter was in danger, as proven by her suggesting she wanted to carry her to the hospital. If someone "didn't know or understand the gravity of the situation", they wouldn't connect those dots. She's just as guilty. As a woman myself, I'm tired of women getting away with and/or getting off lightly for heinous shit. Equality means equality; you have to take the good and the bad of it.
He wouldn’t “let” her take her daughter to emergency because he was worried about what they’d think of him??!! Um hello lady, wake up!!! That’s an admission of guilt right there!
Honestly so disgusting. Neither of them should be free. How could you do that to a BABY. not a child a baby Edit: I'm glad 164 of you guys agree. Thank you for the likes.
* A normal man who is an unrelated stranger wouldn’t feel comfortable staying alone with a child that isn’t his. The same man would find a request to change an infant to be entirely inappropriate. Don’t forget the world is teeming with good men, and evil women aren’t in as short supply as many would have us believe.
Thank you. Someone with some common sense. I have grandchildren who are older now but I'm currently living in the situation where I am renting a room.. The people here have a young daughter who is 4 years old and she likes to come and see me but I won't let her come into my room alone. They tell me that it's OK but I insist that it is not. I would hope that they understand how dangerous this could be for their children even if they know and trust that person. Personally I would never put myself in that position.
I woulda felt so uncomfortable if a guy I was just seeing offered to change my child's diaper.. like why. Unless I was physically incapable I'd be so taken off guard at that apparent offer..
@@chocomelo454 well exactly, I don't even have kids but as a woman and human- just no. nope. something is not right there because why would ANYONE WANT TO CHANGE A DIRTY DIAPER.. and for that someone to be a guy you just started seeing?????? DING DING DING red flags be all over the place
A new boy started my children’s school recently and he was in my daughters class. I met his mum about a week after and I had a relatively short conversation with her. A few days later she found me on Facebook then she asked me to take her son to school. I felt very weird and uncomfortable because I didn’t even know her or her son and I thought it was so irresponsible on her behalf because I could have been anyone. What really made me feel sick was the day after she asked me again to take her son but I said no because my husband was doing the school run that day and she insisted that he took him. My husband was freaking out at the thought of picking up and being responsible for a random child that he never even met. I told her it was absolutely not going to happen. I cannot believe the mindset of some people. It’s a good thing that my husband and i are good people because there are so many predators out there that could have taken advantage of that situation! .
@@Josie3387 you can't trust people these days. Next thing you know the child has "mysterious marks". It happens too often that even a simple thing as taking someone else's child to school could be dangerous.
Same , I met a mother this year In my daughter's pre- k class, she wanted me to watch all of her kids days after I met her! I didn't have but a 10 minute conversation with her....as time went on I realized she would watch other people's children, and she was very mean to them! I stopped waving at her saying hello and all....I don't trust you I won't talk to you period....
My daughter is 11 and her classmate would just show up on Thursday’s after school and play and have dinner. Not once did the Mom call me asking for permission so I had to call her. What are parents thinking? I would never harm a child but not everybody is like me
THANK YOU AGREEED POS EXCUSE FOR HUMAN BEINGS. THEY WILL SUFFER AT JUDGEMENT DAY. IF TGEY stay unrepentant. How disgusting. It's heartbreaking 💔 to hear. Why do I bother. Just pisses me off. Every timmme
I don’t even leave my purse with people; but a child? Lord have mercy. And she kept listening to him regarding going to the hospital to help her baby? She is not worthy of being a mother to a child or animal.
@@jennzifur Yeah, I couldn't leave my dog outside the store alone, or would ask a random person to look after him, while I'm shopping for 5 min.. but this b.... No care in the world... Either she wished something bad would happen, gave her permission for it, or is the single most naive and gullible person I've ever heard about..
A friend of mine met a man on a dating site and she left her daughter alone with him after a few days. He SA’d that little girl and it was only after that incident that she realized he was a registered sex offender. I will never understand why women trust men around their children.
I've been dating someone for 7 months. My son doesn't even know he exists! I would never allow a partner alone with my son ever! The only people I trust are my mum and his father! My bf is understanding and has never pushed to meet him as he knows it's my decision. This is a heartbreaking story. I can't get my head around how anyone can hurt a child, but for a mum not to act immediately on, noticing an injury is completely unacceptable! Even when she woke to find her daughter, wasn't even in the room with her!? Some people do not deserve children. Your number one priority as a parent is to protect and care for them no matter what! Poor baby 💔😔
I kept all of my dates OUTSIDE the home and never brought anyone home.. when I eventually did get in a serious relationship, it wasn't until 9 months dating when my now husband met my daughter.. boyfriend's are the biggest danger
I was re-listening to Dave's Lemonade about Cherish when this was posted. She had just randomly come to mind today, making this eerie coincidence even more coincidental.
Unfortunately this happens more than you know. I cannot imagine for one moment leaving my son with anyone I didn't know. I don't even leave him with friends. Only his dad, grandma or my brother his entire life. This is so messed up.
@@joltyflare How is this terrible excuse of a mother being victim blamed? Please enlighten us with your screwed up way of thinking, the floor is all yours.
@@skelemama She trusted the man. This video explains it in a biased way but basically, she needed to get things and trusted the guy to feed her kids (which she couldn't do) while she bought the stuff she needed. It's his fault for being a complete psycho and it's not like she could read his mind. It's not HER fault that the bastard turned out to be evil. Her kids died because he manipulated her
I wouldn't even let someone I was dating meet my child/children after 2 weeks. I moved from Gloucester city recently and never heard of this case. Such a sad story. Thanks for covering it and bringing awareness to this case.
You my dear lady are a 2onderful mother. Coming from 38 years of expewrience & raies NY granddaughter from age 13 months to age 18. Horrible story. You're great channel.🥰🥰💋💋
@@constanceleah118 Yeah, that's true. You don't always know someone, even when you think you do, but definitely when you first meet Someone, that's very crucial time in a small child's life, especially when the child isn't old enough to talk. Always gotta be careful, even with people you know but definitely those you don't. That's not your fault, you were blind sided but someone who was good at wearing a mask. I'm sorry for you and your kids.
Hey , I absolutely agree a thousand percent. I can not imagine how this happened? Or how a mother let this happen… As a step father for the past 3 years - My wife allowed me too step into her sons life after a few months of being in a relationship. She took her precautions and rightfully so. You never ever want to invite a disgusting “man” like this in your family.
My dad drilled into my head growing up that the most dangerous situation is letting a guy live with you/and or being around his nonbiological children. These women want a man, a father figure for their kids…and I have known some outstanding stepfathers. But sometimes with the wrong one biology plays a role. Sad but true
@@truth4004 I'm not sure what you mean...? In the video it clearly stated that she'd been dating him for 2 weeks. I wouldn't leave my dog with someone I've known for 2 weeks much less my child.
@@Neko.Virtual there's nothing wrong with introducing your mate but 2 weeks is NOT enough to truly know someone. Some women (as well as some men) put their relationship above their kids and FFS, 2 weeks IS NOT ENOUGH!!!!!
My birth mother allowed her boyfriend of 2 weeks to move in with her and my sister and I, I was 18 and she kicked me out soon after, and thankfully my sister moved in with my dad a few months after too, but he’s an awful man, and was terrible to my sister, never did anything super abusive, but he’d throw temper tantrums if she left a single fork in the sink, she was 14 at the time. So glad nothing had ever happened, and now none of my moms kids including myself talk to her
Many single moms are. They choose a man over their children. We see this all too many times. I just don't understand it. And much of the time. The man isn't even working. The mom supports him. Its an awful life for thousands of children.
It’s vile she got away with a slap on the wrist and possibly a payout. Every child deserves a parent, but obviously this chick doesn’t deserve anything but life in prison. How could you let your child go through that let alone a BABY? How could you ever choose a man over your own blood? I hate cases like these… these poor innocent children/babies who go through cruelties that no one should experience. I hope her and the people that failed this baby gets what’s coming to them and then some, as well as that “man” who killed her. To me it’s obvious she couldn’t give a damn about her baby.
I believe she was slow/special needs. Even after it all, she still didn't understand. It sounds like my husband's brother who is 30 and still thinks like a 4yr old (thinks his mom is at the store every day when she's been dead for 8yrs)
This guys lawyer is insane, good for him, not for justice. That guy definitely murdered her. His insistence on not taking her to the hospital after being alone with her is enough evidence for me.
So you're going to believe the word of the mother that refused to take her own child to the hospital for days on end? Nah. Mom did that. One can't be that stupid to believe that this idiot mother didn't have a part in this. She was the reason her daughter died. Negligence of care. No one in their right mind could EVER coerce a parent to not take their sick child to the hospital on multiple occasions. Stop blaming the man. She did that to her baby with no regrets. Living it up in a prison like she didn't just lose her daughter. Make THAT make sense.
I don’t even leave my son with his own grandma. He’s almost 3. He’s never been babysat. I’m not leaving him with anyone until he can tell me what happened. I realize not every mom has this luxury. However I would never leave my kid with a 22 year old man I barely know. That’s a recipe for disaster.
When I was a kid my mom didn't let me sleep in any of my friends houses, I was allowed rarely on my cousins when I was a kid I didn't understand, but now I would do the same.
@@vikingdogmanship there doesn’t have to be something wrong. Even if your parenting styles just differ, I don’t want anything happen to or around my son that I’m not okay with. I want to protect him. Statistically speaking, a child is more likely to be killed by an immediate relative than a stranger.
@@rileyd1062 Does your son not go to kinder garden? will he go to school? I dont know, but when i grew up and our parents was working, we got to stay with our grandparents. Im so greatful for that. My Grandfather died when i was around 4. My Grandmother is still around, and i see her every day. We Have so many beautiful memories with them. We made pancakes, went to the field to pick potatoes and carrots, learned how to behave around animals and so so much more. Speaking of statistics thoe, Family kidnappings make up half of all reported abductions in the United States. Family abduction is typically committed by parents and it involves a significantly higher proportion of female perpetrators when compared to other kidnapping offenses. And There are CPS for a reason, not every parent is fit to be a parent. Sadly kids dont have a choice in the matter. Then again as a parent you should always follow your gut feeling, so if you dont trust your own family, then offcourse you should not let them babysit.
I'm a regular watcher, I just wanted to commend you both on the way you cover such horrific cases by bringing attention for the plight of the victims and their families but doing it in such a respectful manner.❤ These cases alone are one of the reasons I find it hard to believe in a higher power, hence the obvious atrocities our earth displays and especially the destruction of innocents breaks me😢
This case was absolutely heartbreaking 💔 I’m a mother and would never ever leave my child with no one!! I don’t understand how these poor children are falling thru the cracks. The legal system is failing these poor children!! My heart goes out to that little girl 🖤
Doesn’t matter how long you know them. My mother was with a man for years and one night he drank a little too much and was a little too high and still molested me even though I was his “daughter”
I want to puke. I'm a mom of 6 with my youngest just turning two. I would never, ever leave my kids alone with someone I haven't fully vetted and trusted. I background check and reference potential babysitters when I need one, and even if they pass with flying colors I'm still anxious to walk out that door. How can you not be absolutely creeped out by someone you've only been seeing for two weeks offering to change your baby's diaper or when asking to have your baby alone on multiple occasions. ESPECIALLY if they don't have kids of their own. Even if you give her the benefit of doubt (which I will not) the second she saw that bruising, specifically in the genital area, everything should have clicked. Babies can fall and play surprisingly rough sometimes, but there is no explanation for that kind of bruise in that area other than abuse. I would lose my mind. I'd 100% be calling the police and yelling at dispatch something along the lines of "get here and get him before I kill him". The second that woman saw that unexplained bruising and brushed it off by accepting his "I don't know where they came from" she became an accomplice. Her utter lack of regard for her daughter is vile beyond explanation. This case makes me feel physically ill. RIP Arianna. Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
I have a neighbor with 6 kids that I can't stomach looking at. She has a new guy living in her house atleast every 2 weeks. Her youngest are two girls. 5 & 7. We aren't friendly and my kids aren't allowed at her house. She doesn't even back round check these random dudes. God bless you for keeping watch over your lil ones.
@@ladonnaramirez4815 that is disgusting, I'm a single mom of two and I've been seeing someone for about 5 months. He's a single dad but we're still taking it slow and it's gonna be a whole before we meet each other's kids. People who bring in strangers (and potentially whack jobs)into their homes out of desperation make me boil inside
@@ladonnaramirez4815 If we don't watch over our babies, who will? We're given these precious gifts to love and raise and it's a role that some parents sadly don't take seriously. Your neighbor makes me sick. I'm a firm believer in the principle of "If you see something, say something." when it comes to kids and potential abuse/neglect. Have you tried reporting her for neglect/endangerment? All kids are innocent and deserve a loving home with stable adults, and even though child protection services do fail kids, there is no reason to not make a report. It could greatly improve the quality of life for those precious little ones.
I remember this thread on the dreamin' demon.. that woman had a beautiful happy baby. What a smile! That woman waited until her daughter was practically dead, IMO, that is murder. ..continued to hang out with her new boyfriend while her daughter was dying. They should have kept her behind bars. I don't care if she is "immature".
How could a momma get "talked out" of taking that beautiful baby to the hospital for bruises you know she knew what they were from in diaper area! She just wanted a boyfriend more than she wanted to keep that baby safe OR it's her claim but man paid her for using baby... sadly not unheard of at all. She and the man are disgusting.
How could this mother never heard any crying of the baby whilst everything was going on.I think she knew everything. I think she and that monster should get life without parole.
this happened so close to home, literally 5 minutes away… i cant believe this is the first im hearing of this. i’m glad i know what this woman looks like now.
Our birth mother pulled in strangers to babysit. If she couldn’t get a sitter - she literally locked us in the basement with no food. I was the oldest of four. It was up to me to feed and care for my sibs basically since I learned to walk. The abuse was horrific and of every kind. It continued into foster care. . . It luckily only lasted until I was 9. I am lucky to be alive. These poor children. Neglected by all.
Yall are finally blowing up! I knew it was coming! I remember when yall were at 20,000 and were so excited for that! How awesome! Thank you for all your hard work and bringing awareness to these cases.
This is so sad! R.I.P Ariana😭 All bobo cared for was herself, and her own selfish needs! No man will EVER tell me that I cant take my child to the hospital!
She definitely deserved a much longer sentence. She knew something was wrong and did nothing. How could she not notice the babies genitals inflamed and she saw the head bruises. When eyes start rolling back in a child’s head and you do nothing immediately then it all adds up to severe abuse and neglect. I believe the A-hole boyfriend did all the damage and he needs to rot. Find a better prosecutor. There must be more evidence?? Horrific and sad story. Great video and channel - thank you.
That’s absolutely discussing!! How can any parent not take their child to hospital because the violator said no… children should be the parents number one priority no matter what anyone else says!! Was this woman not suspicious about the child’s injuries?? As a parent myself, This story makes blood boil 🤬
My God, how do you listen to a man who has NO children? & tell you what's wrong with your child!!?? Holy Sh*t! Sickening, utterly sickening. These " mothers" & " father's" need to keep their " signifigant others," away from these "people" . She's as guilty for not receiving help. I hope you are doing well, after your sudden loss of your fur baby. I'm still saying prayers.
When my siblings and I were little I was maybe 2, my mom let this guy babysit us and he would hogtie us with duck tape and leave us in the woods as a "game". My mom has never been a mentally stable person and she continued to let that person babysit us, don't trust your kids with anyone
@@Neko.Virtual power dynamics.. The same reason why a student can't have s3x with their teacher truly consensual.. Or a patient with their doctor Bc you can't decide over the fate of another human being( examples: you decide how much protection/freedom/punishment someone gets) and having them truly consent to you bc the moment one person is dependent on you + not on the same level.. You are abusing your power bc you/judge/others can never no matter what be truly sure if they did really consent or if they got manipulated by you.. If they were bl@ckmailed, coerced or if they had to do it to make sure they survive A teacher is a very good example of this bc not only is a 14 year old too naive to understand manipulation in an full extent, this person is also very much dependent on what grade you give them, and in general it's not a healthy sign when a 14 year old feels attracted to let's say a 40 year old--so if you were a teacher it would be your duty to make distance and also make sure that someone looks into that 14 year olds home to see if there is sign of neglect and other stuff Adulds who are put in a place where they can't fully do things like "free" adulds, are in this situations bc they can't make reasonable and healthy decisions on their own anymore or cannot do in general things anymore and are dependent on others bc of it. So they are in a vulnerable position (bc adulds can also get mentally or physically to a point of inability, incapacitaty and incompetence) and those people should neither be: 1. Preferred and maybe getting better treatment and more time bc its unfair but also you can't be sure if the person is truly consenting everytime fully (bc if you have an s3xual relationship with someone and you treat them better, give them let's say more medication and protection for "free", you put them into a place where they have fear of losing that, so they would probably not say no anymore they can't fully consent that way--- btw almost same in normal romantic relationships, if you stop treating your partner with love and basic respect and in fact hold back every attention bc they said no, that's a form of manipulation and coercion and is SA (you still can break up and stuff but if you say you will break up everytime they don't want to have s3x, get(passive-) aggressiv, hold back any affection or beg them until they are exhausted .. It's coercing bc you are putting your partner in emotional distress and they can't consent with fear)). 2. People in vulnerable situations should not be put at risk. So they have to be protected (from themselves and others) or for them to learn how not be a threat for society they have to learn morality.. Morals are not learned by breaking the rules. 3. People this vulnerable and dependent situation shouldn't be in a s3xual relationship with the person with more power over them bc it's easy to say "they are lying" bc they are already _criminals_ or _the mentally ill one_ .. You are the one who's holding more power bc you chose to do this job of power AND you are the one who's more sane, capable, reasonable.. So if you would do something like this it's bc you are abusing your pow3r s3xually which is a form of SA I think that's all of the reasons
@@Neko.Virtual - these channels don't seem to be allowed to say 'sexual assault' out aloud any more? SMH... TH-cam may pull/take down their whole video!
Ive unfortunately had to be a single mom and I have dated, but given the abuse I experienced growing up, I watched my daughter like a hawk around men. And Ive been super vigilant about anyone making my child feel bad in any way. Any creepiness or negativity is a hard no for me. I always had my dog sleep in my daughter’s room.
I'll never forget when my child was like 8 months old I had my brother in laws sister watch her. She met a guy online and paid for a bus ticket to have him come stay with her and her 3 kids. I had no idea. I took my daughter to her house and found out. Something told me to get her out of there. I was so freaked out I called my mom right after I left and begged her to go get my baby. She did and that was the last time I took her there. I've never let her stay with anyone besides immediate family until she turned 15. I've stayed single all these years bc she comes first. I will not bring a strange man to my home. I've dated of course but no one has met her. And no one will until she's grown and most likely out of my house. This is such a shame and it drives me mad that people bring strangers around their kids and horrible things happen. Please mommas put your babies first. I'm not saying you can't find love but make sure you know them before they are around your kids!
Even having family babysit is no sure thing. My SIL BEGGED to babysit our older daughter. Come to find out, she was leaving her all over the neighborhood without my permission. If she had something to do, she'd just call up one of her friends & dump my daughter there. I ONLY found out because I came home from work early. There were other neglect issues emerging, as well. This literally tore the entire family apart - because my husband took his child's side & not his sister's. Never cared. My kids are more important than someone's feelings. I would honestly say that you cannot even trust family to watch your kids. My MIL did some sketchy things and my hubby's grandma would babysit & beat on others' kids - hitting them with flyswatters if they wet their pants & such. I quit work & took care of my kids myself - that way I KNEW they were safe.
The fact that this case happened around an area that I partially grew up in really shocked me. The fact that I never heard of this case also astounds me. Poor baby :(
Two weeks???? I could understand if she’d known him for a few months even if I still personally wouldn’t leave her with him even then. I do not condone victim blaming but come on lady! That poor baby. Thanks for a good upload as always. Edit- bruises on the privates?? What a failure of a mother you don’t get bruises on a child’s privates by innocent means
This so called mother is no victim… her number one job should have been to protect her daughter, but she was willfully negligent just so she could keep a man.
I always thought I was over protective because I only had my kids grandma babysit them and not even a daycare. Now, I'm thankful I was as protective as I was. They are wondering young adults now.
Omg this entire case breaks my heart!! The fact that her daughter has 1 bruise let alone all the bruises would have alarmed me! But beyond that, he had no business being alone with her, he had no business changing her diaper! I have such an issue with moms choices. It took me being with my ex for 3 or 4 months before he even met my children. Words just cannot be spoken to properly describe how this situation makes me feel. I myself was being raped at the age of 3, so this one hit home for me. Rest in peace sweet angel, no monster can harm you now.
There was a girl I didn’t know personally but all my friends did, who I thought was so cool, so pretty, and was super popular on FB. She had a baby and everyone was so happy for her. Around the time her baby started to walk, something happened where she left the baby home with a new boyfriend, and apparently the baby “fell” down the stairs but almost ended up dying because of the bruising on his head. She always posted cryptic things like “don’t judge unless youre in the situation” or “don’t believe everything you hear”. The details were on the news and through close friends of hers that posted about the ordeal. I never saw her post about the baby again. This was like four years ago. I noticed her on FB just recently, and she had just had a baby a few months ago. 🤦🏽♀️
Thanks for telling us about the new baby. Horrible. I can’t imagine for example being the delivery nurses that might happen to have knowledge of what she did. I’d cry myself to sleep every night knowing I HAD to give the baby to her bc the law is terrible
Maybe it was an accident? Nobody faced charges? Geez.... This reminds me of that young guy who's daughter fell off the bed at the motel or something and died. He was accused of SA or rape/ murder of his daughter and he was so distraught. Everyone, including his own mother, thought that he actually did this. He was hysterical claiming that he didn't and it turned out he really didn't do it. Sometimes people are very quick to judge
Even though he was the real monster, the mother is JUST as responsible for allowing and enabling him to do what he did… to her own daughter. I hope she’s never allowed near children
I have said this b4 about jh justice these momsters are in the company of people like themselves Unless everyone is innocent in that jail then they r prolly preadators or worse SHE LOOOKS kinda goofy to me though. These predators know who to choose as targets. I also believe others not mothers want to be rid of the kid anyway. Thinking maybe they can getaway with it. I prolly wont see the day where this kind of crime is not tolerated. Justice is swift and exact. I seen inmates playing video games in jail with big screen. Doing interviews making music videos. Seems jail is not enough anymore. I say take them out n leave them in the fricking water. And guard them until they DIE. Its simple to me. Im a survivior. Never wiuld have a kid. Due to the damage done. My mother was a addict. But a survivior herself n therefore. I know she knew my sister n me were in danger. I belive that to this day. Im over 50 now n my mother ODed on her 40th birthday in 88 but my sister who is 4yrs older than me. Recalls knowing she was on the radar of this pos. Hed tried to fondle her. My sister said she started to scream to bring attention to this little game they were playing. However this day no adults were around n my sister. Told me to go to him. After he exposed hiself to me He then used a pillow or a blanket to smother me. Thats all i remember to this day. Im just realizing how much damage this did. So im now the cat lady n i stay to myself. I cant remember any relationship where i was not being abused one way or another. I know that once u r a victim you r very likely doomed The abuse tends to reoccur maybe not sexually but mentally emotionally physically. Financially. Socially. I call the symptoms my children. Im glad this child is free for good now. I envy people in the graveyards sometimes. I dont feel sorry for myself. I just know i would never ask for this as a life or that kind of childhood. My younger sister has been reckless with disgusting men n her small daughters When she knows better. She was going on 2 when our mother passed n i did not trust her 3 step brothers al9ne with her. She told me of inappropriate ish about the one brother n at 18 i took her from her fathers home n ran. Although i had nowhere to really go. The police forced me to turn her over. Nut i had her examined and i reported this to cps by the time her father caught up to me. This officer seem to understand my plight. Her father was taking her n moving back to n carolina. N was instructed to not move his son in question into the same residence. But once in another state. What could i do?? I went with them. But my baby sisters dad who was my stepdad. Started preying on me as he was supporting me. He never did touch me but he was always trying to get me to consent. I was sooo scared for my baby sister. Fortunately he wasnt that kind of monster to prey on his own babygirl. But u was 18 now n my mother was with him for years b4 getting prego with my baby sister So no he was no stranger to me or my older sister. Who was just unavailble n morning the death of our grand mother who passed of cancer 6 months after burying our mother n the 2nd child she would loose. I try to not gaslight when i visit my younger sister in NC But i have met these bums she tends to carry. While she works this bastard is not working or even trying. To help her n her 3 kids. Yet she gets out of the ship but not bfore leaving her kids vulnarable. I font get it with her It infuriates me. I never have any support. My older sister who understands seems to play dumb like im just a paranoid basketcase. N i hate her for many things. This is not the only thing she plays dumb about either. I could go on but i started rambling. Agin let freedom ring for babygirl who mother put into the hands of that pos. Unbelivible. We still drag our feet about this. This is not the 70s or the fricking 80s?????Myy. Gawwwwwdddd
i was in clinton with amber bobo. Everyone knew her charge. The only violence i witnessed while there were always over prison relationship issues. Who was cheating on whom with who’s girlfriend. That sorta thing. Which is fine by me. I think there’s something wrong with people who react gleefully at hearing the news that someone they never met was the victim of prison violence,regardless of their crime/charge.
@@discdoggie regardless of their charges? if youre a rapist who ruined someones life, especially an innocent child, how could you not want to hear that they’ve been victimized in prison? its more crazy that people like you seem to want to let those sort of people off the hook with just jail time. people like that deserve the worst of the worst kind of treatment.
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Was she SAd or r4ped i feel both are really different.
I started watching an ex-convict's channel where he talks about his time in prison. First video I watched was not censored. He started censoring them more, but I feel they get away with so much more than true crime channels. Some words just shouldn't even be restricted (m**der, SA, etc.) It's a bit overboard.
I tried to comment and had a guideline warning pop up. Didn't even say anything bad. Crazy
In 1979, my birth mother left me with a man she had just met. Left me there for a week. I was lucky, his sister and her husband adopted me and that man became my uncle. Had Stanley not been a great guy, my story could have been a lot like this one.
It’s fortunate that you won that coin toss. As you’ve stated, things could have been very different. Stanley clearly had a conscience and the desire to help, and was absent of perverted intentions. Another good man to help counteract the vile ones.
I was just telling a story like this. This lady left her daughter with my male cousin that she had just met at the bar the night before.. left her there for a week as well Smfh I don’t understand people . He’s gay but like … I don’t think that lady cares if her daughter gets molested
@@weekendnomad5038 Precisely what the fuck does gay have to do with anything? Gay people don't commit sex crimes? Gay people don't commit crimes against children? Have you ever heard of a Catholic priest? That is ignorant as fuck.
Thank God, when I started reading your comment, I am thought it was going to be a horror story. Nice to have something go well!
My womb donor used to jump from dude to dude constantly in 78-80 and always left us with these guys. We know drugs were involved, and we were taken by CPS when I was 18 months old for 6 months. She got us back, and that never should've happened.
And what kind of mother needs their boyfriend’s permission to get emergency medical care for their child?
That's what I'm saying
Yep, to save my child's life I could kill anyone one my way. And that's just normal, animals would too.
Was thinking same thing..
This story made me so mad and sick to my stomach.
A bad one......
Some random man who is paying alot of attention to your young daughter is a red flag.. why did she even get a chance to get out of jail? This is insane
They carried on shopping while poor baby had severe internal injuries. This made me so incredibly angry.
Not to mention left to take her home & clean her up & change her & then proceed to go RIGHT BACK TO THE EFFING MALL. There's just no justifying that, I don't care what kind of sales they had going on, the mall is not all that.
It made you upset it made me really upset because I don’t understand why was she leave her child around a man she barely know these women is so desperate for a man they will leave the kids with them and that’s why he was able to beat the crap out of her a little girl and she didn’t even call the police when she found out that her daughter was hurt even if I was scared to do it soon as he would’ve turned his back I would’ve ran out to my neighbors called the cops
Plus a broken leg, I believe.
@@deidrawilliams3625 exactly!!! I definitely agree I could never my son means everything to me!
SO REPULSIVE THEY BOTH NEED JAIL SO SICK
It never ceases to amaze me how stupid and desperate some women are to have a man. They don't have the basic instinct to protect their young that animals have. It's as infuriating as heartbreaking to me.
Desperate is the perfect word they focus their attention of trying to be with a man then worrying about their kids … I’m sure most people can relate in these comments Because they problably had a mother that has done the same thing smh 😡 I have 2 daughters and I would never ever leave my daughters with just anybody it makes me so sick
Some animals kill their young so…
The instinct to protect offspring can leave just as easily as it came. Some animals literally eat their babies if it means their own chances of survival will improve.
@@corimoon3360 Really? I guess I should have specified mammals.
I’m sorry I though we were talking about human beings for a second 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I raised my two daughters on my own,no bf's no men waking up in my house, no dates etc.. because I didn't want to take the risk of anything like this happening to them. Some might not agree with doing that, but i made that choice as the right one for me and my girls. They are happily married now with their own children and careers.
I agree with you,I have two boys and Im a single parent.I do struggle making ends meet,but I am raising happy,healthy,boys.
@@mcrivas4714 Yeap, done the same, my boys now in their 20's are doing so well with their own careers and life..It's hard but please dont ever look back as I havent..The world is for you to grab it, embrace it and enjoy it with them..As children grow up so fast..Best wishes from Oz 💞
My mom did the same thing for me. ❤
Ok but what about u r u still single or did u find someone?
You did! I've always said this is how I'll do things if I break up with my partner. We've got two daughters and I don't let anyone alone with them not even grandad, uncles etc no way am I risking something happening to them for my own selfish needs
I have a hard time believing that she didn't hear her daughter screaming while he assaulted her. I can hear every little sound that my child makes and I immediately jump up when I hear them. This poor baby had all this internal damage and mom was just peacefully sleeping? I call BS!!!
Yes! Last night my three year old daughter woke up and vomited in her bed (stomach virus going around her preschool 😢) and my husband and I both jumped up out of a deep sleep and sprinted down the hallway at the sound of her heaving. There is no way she didn’t hear what was going on. I’m a fairly heavy sleeper. I’ve slept through earthquakes and have even joked that I could sleep through a tornado. But if my little girl so much as coughs from down the hall, I’m at her bedside. I think it’s parental instinct that kicks in.
She probably did but cared more about her man enjoying himself than her own daughter suffering, her priorities are skewed
It never goes away either. My kids are in their 20s and I could still wake up if I hear a diaper rustle in the house next door.
@@LovelyLauren2 Exactly. The day I gave birth to my child, was the day I stopped sleeping well. I am historically an oversleeper. School, work, through alarms, I have fallen asleep underneath my desk on a bean bag in my office at campus where I was studying for my masters degree. Now, I jump at my child even so much as coughing in the night, or even tossing and turning a bit too much: I am up! Mothers instinct. How is it that some don't have that? Or don't they even care??? This story is horrible, and even though I am not in favor of death penalties in principal, this sort of thing makes my blood boil. How could he (or anyone) do such a thing??? And HOW could she let it happen????
He assaulted her when he took her to the park for 15 min & then again when he took her to see fireworks across the street. He was alone w her then because bobo stayed at home. He didn’t necessarily abuze or S/A her the next morning. He put her to bed in the same clothes than got up early to change her so bobo wouldn’t see the bruises from the night before. … At least that’s how I understood it? ICBW
My mom used to leave me with random men all the time and women too. I am so lucky that these people even though they participated in nefarious activities otherwise, they were good people considering this story. One guy taught me how to cook stuff since most of the time we went hungry. Others taught me how to tie my shoes and other valuable skills. I had an angel wstching over me
Oh my gosh. U really did have an angel watching over you.
@@icannotpretend5834 I feel like that’s been my whole life. I faced opiate addiction and substance use putting myself in many high risk situations. Should have been in trouble with the law several times that I dodged somehow. I have been in recovery for 13 years and now helping others through theirs. Even from so many close calls with car accidents that it just seemed otherworldly that the outcome wasn’t different and health scares that should of been a lot more serious. I really am absolutely blessed and have many angelic presences looking out for me 😊 I believe we all do if we open ourselves up to it 😇
Not all bad people do bad (if that makes sense). I grew up as a teen in a heroin using household but the dad was pretty cool and treated me like one of his children.
@@vw7887 totally agree. I am not only recovering from an addiction myself and never considered myself to do bad towards others. Mine wasn’t heroin but close enough. Either way it doesn’t matter what it is, I now work in a position where I am working one on one with those who are trying to recover from their own experiences and there is more good in them than bad. And there are more of them that are good people than bad. I think it’s just a high risk when a child is left with people the parents barely know that are involved in a more “unconventional” life style opposed to other situations. However, with that being said ANYONE is capable of anything no matter how normal or good they may appear on the outside so it def can go both ways. A person can appear stable, responsible, “normal” yet still be ill intended where another can not be these things but have the best of intentions. I think the world proves that bad people come from ALL walks of life
One of them should have taught you how to spell
The pain this poor baby felt that whole day is enough to knock a full grown, adult man to his knees..
R.I.P - you beautiful angelic soul 🙏
I'm not entirely convinced that she didn't know what he was going to do to that baby. She might not have known it woukd lead to her death, but that level of incompetence is hard to believe.
It’s ironic how everyone is acting like a man being alone with a baby, rape and murder are to be expected, but how dare a mother leave her child alone? What was she thinking? Maybe the one who raped and murdered the baby is the incompetent one
@@dollinterrupted you sound incompetent....
@@dollinterrupted that monster isn't incompetent, he's just evil. The mother is either incompetent for leaving her daughter with a man she has only known for two weeks or evil as well. Personally, I don't think I could trust another potential partner with my child ever because of all the horror stories out there. Yes, I know it's not all men, but I'm not taking a chance with this tiny, helpless human who is wholly dependent on me for protection. I wouldn't take a chance with a dog, a snake, or a human because IT IS MY JOB TO KEEP THAT BABY SAFE ABOVE EVERYTHING ELSE! This woman is incompetent at best and compliant at worst and should never be allowed to have custody of another child
@@ThatOddChickenHippie go through the comment section and see how much hate there is for the child’s mother vs the man who raped and murdered her baby while she was asleep. You can’t convince me this isn’t another toxic symptom of patriarchy. People are more appalled at a mother leaving her baby with another adult, then they are with that adult for raping and killing the baby they were trusted with
@@dollinterrupted then reply to them and not me. The dude is evil, and that goes without saying. Chances are that is exactly why there is more talk of the mother. NO ONE doubts the evil of this sack of sh!t masquerading as a human man, but people are OUTRAGED that a mother would leave their daughter alone with a man she knew for only two weeks. There is no need to discuss the man because it is a foregone conclusion that isn't up for debate in the slightest, the mother's actions are still up for debate and for discussion. Use your head; not everything is the "patriarchy" and it is people like you that make it so no one takes feminism seriously anymore, and it's a real shame because there are definitely issue that have yet to be fixed.
Her sole responsibility was to protect that baby. She DID NOT! She deserved a much longer sentence for sure. She wanted that man, in her mind she was willing to overlooked her daughter's health to keep him.
It was utter selfishness because she was more concerned with herself and having a man than she was in protecting her child. When you have a child you make sacrifices for them to ensure their well-being and happiness. She instead sacrificed her child for her own happiness. She is just as revolting as the monster she let sleep in her bed who preyed on her child.
It’s hardly a new phenomenon, but these sorts of behaviours are definitely on the rise again, especially due to the extremely casual nature of relationships and reproduction we currently observe. Selfish morons and violent paedos - a match made in hell!
@@anhedonianepiphany5588
So true and so gut wrenchingly sad.
the daughter was probably a child support piggy bank
She basically offered her baby to this sexual monster.
As a mother that had a 13 month old child pass in 2021 on June 5th, this just shatters my heart. How could you leave your child with someone you barely know?!💔
My prayers are with you
So incredibly sorry for your loss.
My condolences, I'm so sorry
I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you’re doing okay now and having great memories being made and that your angel watches over you. You’re so strong mama
So sorry for your loss madam 💔
Maybe I'm paranoid, but if that man isn't her father, I'm not about to leave my daughter alone with any man -
Exactly! Wtf
No you’re not paranoid! Just a good mom
No you're not paranoid.
I thought my child's father was safe. I was sadly mistaken. I trust no one.
Absolutely 💯
She knew well enough that her daughter was in danger, as proven by her suggesting she wanted to carry her to the hospital. If someone "didn't know or understand the gravity of the situation", they wouldn't connect those dots. She's just as guilty. As a woman myself, I'm tired of women getting away with and/or getting off lightly for heinous shit. Equality means equality; you have to take the good and the bad of it.
Ah, a response grounded in _reality_ - how refreshing!
Well said!
Thank you for having basic common sense is such confusing times, for real nobody has common sense these days it’s very annoying.
Based ! Well spoken
Facts!!!!!
He wouldn’t “let” her take her daughter to emergency because he was worried about what they’d think of him??!! Um hello lady, wake up!!! That’s an admission of guilt right there!
For real!
Honestly so disgusting. Neither of them should be free. How could you do that to a BABY. not a child a baby
Edit: I'm glad 164 of you guys agree. Thank you for the likes.
Yep unbelievable- watching this just makes me feel so helpless and angry. Poor little girl.
How could you do that to anybody? It’s such a tragedy 😢
I'm your 200th like, they should both rot in hell x
Do that anyone for that matter, especially with someone innocent!
A normal man wouldn't feel comfortable staying alone with a child that isn't his.
Or changing her diaper...
BINGO!
Exactly 💯
* A normal man who is an unrelated stranger wouldn’t feel comfortable staying alone with a child that isn’t his.
The same man would find a request to change an infant to be entirely inappropriate. Don’t forget the world is teeming with good men, and evil women aren’t in as short supply as many would have us believe.
Thank you. Someone with some common sense. I have grandchildren who are older now but I'm currently living in the situation where I am renting a room.. The people here have a young daughter who is 4 years old and she likes to come and see me but I won't let her come into my room alone. They tell me that it's OK but I insist that it is not. I would hope that they understand how dangerous this could be for their children even if they know and trust that person. Personally I would never put myself in that position.
Went to highschool with Micheal…he was the grade above me. This made me cry when i found out what he did to that innocent little girl. What a monster
And what he did in the interrogation room made it even worse.
I woulda felt so uncomfortable if a guy I was just seeing offered to change my child's diaper.. like why. Unless I was physically incapable I'd be so taken off guard at that apparent offer..
Right! That shit would turn my Stomach Immediately!
Exactly. Even if it was a woman, I would still be protective and not allow it. Close family and daycare only.
Exactly!
Yeah especially when she’s not your child and no man would just offer to change a babies diaper 😑
@@chocomelo454 well exactly, I don't even have kids but as a woman and human- just no. nope. something is not right there because why would ANYONE WANT TO CHANGE A DIRTY DIAPER.. and for that someone to be a guy you just started seeing?????? DING DING DING red flags be all over the place
A new boy started my children’s school recently and he was in my daughters class. I met his mum about a week after and I had a relatively short conversation with her. A few days later she found me on Facebook then she asked me to take her son to school. I felt very weird and uncomfortable because I didn’t even know her or her son and I thought it was so irresponsible on her behalf because I could have been anyone. What really made me feel sick was the day after she asked me again to take her son but I said no because my husband was doing the school run that day and she insisted that he took him. My husband was freaking out at the thought of picking up and being responsible for a random child that he never even met. I told her it was absolutely not going to happen.
I cannot believe the mindset of some people. It’s a good thing that my husband and i are good people because there are so many predators out there that could have taken advantage of that situation! .
She low key wanted you to just take the boy
@@Josie3387 you can't trust people these days. Next thing you know the child has "mysterious marks". It happens too often that even a simple thing as taking someone else's child to school could be dangerous.
I'm sure this hasn't stopped her from dumping him on someone else.. and this time they might not be good people..
Same , I met a mother this year In my daughter's pre- k class, she wanted me to watch all of her kids days after I met her! I didn't have but a 10 minute conversation with her....as time went on I realized she would watch other people's children, and she was very mean to them! I stopped waving at her saying hello and all....I don't trust you I won't talk to you period....
My daughter is 11 and her classmate would just show up on Thursday’s after school and play and have dinner. Not once did the Mom call me asking for permission so I had to call her. What are parents thinking? I would never harm a child but not everybody is like me
I just saw from A.S. family member…that he was found Guilty on ALL CHARGES!!
If you hurt a child you deserve the DEATH PENALTY! No excuse. Children are innocent. This is disturbing.
THANK YOU AGREEED POS EXCUSE FOR HUMAN BEINGS. THEY WILL SUFFER AT JUDGEMENT DAY. IF TGEY stay unrepentant. How disgusting. It's heartbreaking 💔 to hear. Why do I bother. Just pisses me off. Every timmme
Death penalty is too kind for these monsters. Too quick.
1000%
I feel the same, plus animals, utterly defenseless, just like babies, so so sickening
ABSOLUTELY!!!! 100%
You never leave your child with a random dude! She can't be the sharpest tool in the shed.. Poor baby..
She just didn't give a fuck
And never let a man you barely know change your baby's diaper.
I don’t even leave my purse with people; but a child? Lord have mercy. And she kept listening to him regarding going to the hospital to help her baby? She is not worthy of being a mother to a child or animal.
@@jennzifur Yeah, I couldn't leave my dog outside the store alone, or would ask a random person to look after him, while I'm shopping for 5 min.. but this b.... No care in the world... Either she wished something bad would happen, gave her permission for it, or is the single most naive and gullible person I've ever heard about..
Yeah, I'm not trying be mean or funny, but does she have Downs?
A friend of mine met a man on a dating site and she left her daughter alone with him after a few days. He SA’d that little girl and it was only after that incident that she realized he was a registered sex offender. I will never understand why women trust men around their children.
I've been dating someone for 7 months. My son doesn't even know he exists! I would never allow a partner alone with my son ever! The only people I trust are my mum and his father! My bf is understanding and has never pushed to meet him as he knows it's my decision. This is a heartbreaking story. I can't get my head around how anyone can hurt a child, but for a mum not to act immediately on, noticing an injury is completely unacceptable! Even when she woke to find her daughter, wasn't even in the room with her!? Some people do not deserve children. Your number one priority as a parent is to protect and care for them no matter what! Poor baby 💔😔
I kept all of my dates OUTSIDE the home and never brought anyone home.. when I eventually did get in a serious relationship, it wasn't until 9 months dating when my now husband met my daughter.. boyfriend's are the biggest danger
@@allenright3742 At least you ladies are doing all to protect your offspring its such a tragedy many children don't have the same luxury.
as a victim to negligent parents who have been through the same trauma, thank u for going above and beyond at protecting ur kids!
If a date is pushing to meet your children, major Red Flag!! Dump his ass, period!!
Good for you. ❤❤❤it’s up to us to protect them. I don’t understand going through an entire pregnancy just to allow someone to harm the child.
This case reminds me of Cherish Perrywinkle. I'd consider this intentionally neglectful. How do you NOT realize
You beat me to it.
I myself have 3 kids, youngest is 11 and I'm only 33... its absolute madness to me that she didn't do anything sooner
"But I loved him!"
I was re-listening to Dave's Lemonade about Cherish when this was posted. She had just randomly come to mind today, making this eerie coincidence even more coincidental.
@@Jenny-sl9gs I find myself re-watching Dave's coverage on that case; I hadn't heard of it before. Such an absolutely crushing case.
“Suggested she wanted to take her to the er” sick, she knew her baby was suffering and did nothing…. Over a damn man. Disgraceful.
I was a trauma ICU nurse for years, and hearing what was done to this poor baby’s body…. I’m undone. 💔
Not just her body
@@chinesekungfu2031 what?
@@chinesekungfu2031 who’s then? The fuck?
I think they mean not just her body but to her soul
It’s always ‘mommy and her boyfriend’. As a victim of my mother’s boyfriends I don’t trust new people nor my mother.
I'm sorry you had to go through that, and I sincerely hope you're doing well now.
And I don't blame you for feeling that way. There is many of us who should not have trusted a parent.
@@prhee5956 yep
Unfortunately this happens more than you know. I cannot imagine for one moment leaving my son with anyone I didn't know. I don't even leave him with friends. Only his dad, grandma or my brother his entire life. This is so messed up.
As her "mother" she is 1000000% responsible for what happened to her daughter!! Another reason why you should have to pass a test to be a parent.
Such a good idea 💡
She may be negligent but the perv committed the crime
Victim blaming
@@joltyflare How is this terrible excuse of a mother being victim blamed? Please enlighten us with your screwed up way of thinking, the floor is all yours.
@@skelemama She trusted the man. This video explains it in a biased way but basically, she needed to get things and trusted the guy to feed her kids (which she couldn't do) while she bought the stuff she needed. It's his fault for being a complete psycho and it's not like she could read his mind. It's not HER fault that the bastard turned out to be evil. Her kids died because he manipulated her
I wouldn't even let someone I was dating meet my child/children after 2 weeks.
I moved from Gloucester city recently and never heard of this case.
Such a sad story. Thanks for covering it and bringing awareness to this case.
Same. Id have to be seeing a person for a long, long time before they meet my kids and even then they wouldn't be left alone with said person.
You my dear lady are a 2onderful mother. Coming from 38 years of expewrience & raies NY granddaughter from age 13 months to age 18. Horrible story. You're great channel.🥰🥰💋💋
I was with my ex for 13 yrs, married for 7 of those, and I shouldn't have left him alone with our children. ( Found out After the divorce in 2009)
@@constanceleah118 Yeah, that's true. You don't always know someone, even when you think you do, but definitely when you first meet Someone, that's very crucial time in a small child's life, especially when the child isn't old enough to talk.
Always gotta be careful, even with people you know but definitely those you don't.
That's not your fault, you were blind sided but someone who was good at wearing a mask. I'm sorry for you and your kids.
Hey , I absolutely agree a thousand percent. I can not imagine how this happened? Or how a mother let this happen… As a step father for the past 3 years - My wife allowed me too step into her sons life after a few months of being in a relationship. She took her precautions and rightfully so. You never ever want to invite a disgusting “man” like this in your family.
My dad drilled into my head growing up that the most dangerous situation is letting a guy live with you/and or being around his nonbiological children. These women want a man, a father figure for their kids…and I have known some outstanding stepfathers. But sometimes with the wrong one biology plays a role. Sad but true
Seems like people are prioritising and chasing these relationships and neglecting to safeguard their children. 🥺.
It's more common than you'd expect. Lots of parents put their romantic partners over their children.
Happens all the time.
my dad never cared about me
Very common from both mothers and fathers.
Drugs are powerful! No drug user should have custody of children, you can't make a solid excuse for this either!
It infuriating how people (man or woman) are so quick to introduce their children to literal strangers. 2 weeks?!? 2 months is still not enough.
Any amount of time is too much with a "boyfriend" She left her child with him not just meet.
@@truth4004 I'm not sure what you mean...? In the video it clearly stated that she'd been dating him for 2 weeks. I wouldn't leave my dog with someone I've known for 2 weeks much less my child.
@@angelmorningstarr9504 wats wrong with introducing ur kids to strangers
@@Neko.Virtual youre basically asking for harm to come to the child you fucking moron
@@Neko.Virtual there's nothing wrong with introducing your mate but 2 weeks is NOT enough to truly know someone.
Some women (as well as some men) put their relationship above their kids and FFS, 2 weeks IS NOT ENOUGH!!!!!
My birth mother allowed her boyfriend of 2 weeks to move in with her and my sister and I, I was 18 and she kicked me out soon after, and thankfully my sister moved in with my dad a few months after too, but he’s an awful man, and was terrible to my sister, never did anything super abusive, but he’d throw temper tantrums if she left a single fork in the sink, she was 14 at the time.
So glad nothing had ever happened, and now none of my moms kids including myself talk to her
That should've NEVER happened, poor baby, that is absolutely heartbreaking
As a mom, this story angers me to my core. Neither of them should ever get out.
She was VERY WRONG for leaving her baby with a guy she just met. She really must have been HARD UP FOR IT
she probably doesn't care
Many single moms are. They choose a man over their children. We see this all too many times. I just don't understand it. And much of the time. The man isn't even working. The mom supports him. Its an awful life for thousands of children.
Get to know the child? She's 23 months old, there's nothing to know. Such a sad story
I grew up in Gloucester city and not far from the home. Insane. Hits so close to home
It’s vile she got away with a slap on the wrist and possibly a payout. Every child deserves a parent, but obviously this chick doesn’t deserve anything but life in prison.
How could you let your child go through that let alone a BABY? How could you ever choose a man over your own blood? I hate cases like these… these poor innocent children/babies who go through cruelties that no one should experience. I hope her and the people that failed this baby gets what’s coming to them and then some, as well as that “man” who killed her. To me it’s obvious she couldn’t give a damn about her baby.
Doesn't shock me that she's extremely immature she was 26 getting manipulated by a 22 year old
No. Some women just don't care about their kids
Age means nothing. I’m 22 and I had my daughter at 17 and even at 17 I’d never ever do or consider to do anything like this!
That ain't true. Being a good mom doesn't have an age. You can be old and a shîtty mom. You can be young and an amazing mom
I believe she was slow/special needs. Even after it all, she still didn't understand. It sounds like my husband's brother who is 30 and still thinks like a 4yr old (thinks his mom is at the store every day when she's been dead for 8yrs)
@@gingereden546Yes, I definitely think she was
They both should be doing 20+ years in jail. I don’t understand why adults who commit crimes against children, don’t get longer sentences.
This guys lawyer is insane, good for him, not for justice. That guy definitely murdered her. His insistence on not taking her to the hospital after being alone with her is enough evidence for me.
It's what defense lawyers do. They don't care about moral laws, just getting their client off.
So you're going to believe the word of the mother that refused to take her own child to the hospital for days on end? Nah. Mom did that. One can't be that stupid to believe that this idiot mother didn't have a part in this. She was the reason her daughter died. Negligence of care. No one in their right mind could EVER coerce a parent to not take their sick child to the hospital on multiple occasions. Stop blaming the man. She did that to her baby with no regrets. Living it up in a prison like she didn't just lose her daughter. Make THAT make sense.
I don’t even leave my son with his own grandma. He’s almost 3. He’s never been babysat. I’m not leaving him with anyone until he can tell me what happened. I realize not every mom has this luxury. However I would never leave my kid with a 22 year old man I barely know. That’s a recipe for disaster.
When I was a kid my mom didn't let me sleep in any of my friends houses, I was allowed rarely on my cousins when I was a kid I didn't understand, but now I would do the same.
What's wrong with his grandmother?
@@cahootsdrunkardThat's a good idea but I still wouldn't leave my kid alone with anyone I didn't know
@@vikingdogmanship there doesn’t have to be something wrong. Even if your parenting styles just differ, I don’t want anything happen to or around my son that I’m not okay with. I want to protect him. Statistically speaking, a child is more likely to be killed by an immediate relative than a stranger.
@@rileyd1062 Does your son not go to kinder garden? will he go to school? I dont know, but when i grew up and our parents was working, we got to stay with our grandparents. Im so greatful for that. My Grandfather died when i was around 4. My Grandmother is still around, and i see her every day. We Have so many beautiful memories with them. We made pancakes, went to the field to pick potatoes and carrots, learned how to behave around animals and so so much more. Speaking of statistics thoe, Family kidnappings make up half of all reported abductions in the United States. Family abduction is typically committed by parents and it involves a significantly higher proportion of female perpetrators when compared to other kidnapping offenses. And There are CPS for a reason, not every parent is fit to be a parent. Sadly kids dont have a choice in the matter. Then again as a parent you should always follow your gut feeling, so if you dont trust your own family, then offcourse you should not let them babysit.
I'm a regular watcher, I just wanted to commend you both on the way you cover such horrific cases by bringing attention for the plight of the victims and their families but doing it in such a respectful manner.❤ These cases alone are one of the reasons I find it hard to believe in a higher power, hence the obvious atrocities our earth displays and especially the destruction of innocents breaks me😢
This case was absolutely heartbreaking 💔 I’m a mother and would never ever leave my child with no one!! I don’t understand how these poor children are falling thru the cracks. The legal system is failing these poor children!! My heart goes out to that little girl 🖤
Doesn’t matter how long you know them. My mother was with a man for years and one night he drank a little too much and was a little too high and still molested me even though I was his “daughter”
The way I can relate is crazy
im so sorry
Doesn’t matter how high he was, he knew what he was doing. What a *pos.* Sorry you went through that.
❤❤
Jeez
It's insane that being a drug user actually helps your case. Diminished responsibility...it's basically a reward for being a Junkie scumbag
My jaw was on the ground the whole time. Shocking and sad story. Your efforts were not lost on me. You guys are great. New subscriber, here!
I want to puke. I'm a mom of 6 with my youngest just turning two. I would never, ever leave my kids alone with someone I haven't fully vetted and trusted. I background check and reference potential babysitters when I need one, and even if they pass with flying colors I'm still anxious to walk out that door. How can you not be absolutely creeped out by someone you've only been seeing for two weeks offering to change your baby's diaper or when asking to have your baby alone on multiple occasions. ESPECIALLY if they don't have kids of their own. Even if you give her the benefit of doubt (which I will not) the second she saw that bruising, specifically in the genital area, everything should have clicked. Babies can fall and play surprisingly rough sometimes, but there is no explanation for that kind of bruise in that area other than abuse. I would lose my mind. I'd 100% be calling the police and yelling at dispatch something along the lines of "get here and get him before I kill him". The second that woman saw that unexplained bruising and brushed it off by accepting his "I don't know where they came from" she became an accomplice. Her utter lack of regard for her daughter is vile beyond explanation. This case makes me feel physically ill. RIP Arianna. Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
I have a neighbor with 6 kids that I can't stomach looking at. She has a new guy living in her house atleast every 2 weeks. Her youngest are two girls. 5 & 7. We aren't friendly and my kids aren't allowed at her house. She doesn't even back round check these random dudes. God bless you for keeping watch over your lil ones.
@@ladonnaramirez4815 that is disgusting, I'm a single mom of two and I've been seeing someone for about 5 months. He's a single dad but we're still taking it slow and it's gonna be a whole before we meet each other's kids. People who bring in strangers (and potentially whack jobs)into their homes out of desperation make me boil inside
@@ladonnaramirez4815 If we don't watch over our babies, who will? We're given these precious gifts to love and raise and it's a role that some parents sadly don't take seriously. Your neighbor makes me sick. I'm a firm believer in the principle of "If you see something, say something." when it comes to kids and potential abuse/neglect. Have you tried reporting her for neglect/endangerment? All kids are innocent and deserve a loving home with stable adults, and even though child protection services do fail kids, there is no reason to not make a report. It could greatly improve the quality of life for those precious little ones.
@@motherofpigs9587 You and your boyfriend are wonderful parents! If you fall in love and intend to spend your lives together, what's the rush?
@@raechelgrantham8134 I've reported. The system is so broken sadly
I remember this thread on the dreamin' demon.. that woman had a beautiful happy baby. What a smile! That woman waited until her daughter was practically dead, IMO, that is murder. ..continued to hang out with her new boyfriend while her daughter was dying. They should have kept her behind bars. I don't care if she is "immature".
How could a momma get "talked out" of taking that beautiful baby to the hospital for bruises you know she knew what they were from in diaper area! She just wanted a boyfriend more than she wanted to keep that baby safe OR it's her claim but man paid her for using baby... sadly not unheard of at all. She and the man are disgusting.
The fact a hat was put on to cover the bruises is enough for me.
How could this mother never heard any crying of the baby whilst everything was going on.I think she knew everything. I think she and that monster should get life without parole.
I would never allow a man to live with me or be alone with my daughter unless it was her father. This makes me so angry.
why not
@@Neko.Virtual the short answer is to be safe.
@@tiffanysadlertlc not everyone is a molester
@@Neko.Virtual Better safe than sorry.
@@kaseythekannibal i agree
Sickening. Charge her for neglect as well. Never leave a stranger alone with your child. Sometimes pedophiles target women with young children.
this happened so close to home, literally 5 minutes away… i cant believe this is the first im hearing of this. i’m glad i know what this woman looks like now.
Our birth mother pulled in strangers to babysit. If she couldn’t get a sitter - she literally locked us in the basement with no food. I was the oldest of four. It was up to me to feed and care for my sibs basically since I learned to walk. The abuse was horrific and of every kind. It continued into foster care. . . It luckily only lasted until I was 9. I am lucky to be alive. These poor children. Neglected by all.
Wow if anybodies face has ever said' duh I'm stupid' this woman's face screams it.
Omg, I thought the same! 😱
Hell no. I have a toddler and an infant. I would NEVER leave either with ANYONE except trusted family. These people are insane.
Her last name is fitting, meaning dumb in spanish… sigh
yah i thought it was poetic justice with that last name
bobo the clown
Bobo the idiot
Yall are finally blowing up! I knew it was coming! I remember when yall were at 20,000 and were so excited for that! How awesome! Thank you for all your hard work and bringing awareness to these cases.
Thank you Missy! I appreciate you for being here for as long as you have!
I fully agree with this! ❤🖤
@@TheMiseryMachine just found you a few days ago!!
There's no way I'd let him take my dog anywhere much less for my sweet kids 💔
This is so sad! R.I.P Ariana😭
All bobo cared for was herself, and her own selfish needs! No man will EVER tell me that I cant take my child to the hospital!
She definitely deserved a much longer sentence. She knew something was wrong and did nothing. How could she not notice the babies genitals inflamed and she saw the head bruises. When eyes start rolling back in a child’s head and you do nothing immediately then it all adds up to severe abuse and neglect.
I believe the A-hole boyfriend did all the damage and he needs to rot. Find a better prosecutor. There must be more evidence?? Horrific and sad story.
Great video and channel - thank you.
That’s absolutely discussing!! How can any parent not take their child to hospital because the violator said no… children should be the parents number one priority no matter what anyone else says!! Was this woman not suspicious about the child’s injuries?? As a parent myself, This story makes blood boil 🤬
My God, how do you listen to a man who has NO children? & tell you what's wrong with your child!!?? Holy Sh*t!
Sickening, utterly sickening. These " mothers" & " father's" need to keep their " signifigant others," away from these "people" .
She's as guilty for not receiving help.
I hope you are doing well, after your sudden loss of your fur baby. I'm still saying prayers.
Disporto objected to Amber taking HER child to the ER but he sure didn't put up a fight when it came to going to the mall and spending money!
When my siblings and I were little I was maybe 2, my mom let this guy babysit us and he would hogtie us with duck tape and leave us in the woods as a "game". My mom has never been a mentally stable person and she continued to let that person babysit us, don't trust your kids with anyone
Thank you guys for the compassionate, well done coverage.
Only a cunt would demand compassion for a mother who gave her baby up to be raped
@@battlekitten4188 um she probably meant compassion for the child????
@@joeyjojos5839 Absolutely, thank you. I have no compassion for the "mom". People look for reasons to throw fits in comment sections, it's pathetic.
Keep in mind that consensual sex in prison is technically SA. I hate that she may get paid for her minor sentence.
To your point - if she happened to be one of those ladies in jail that had consensual sex with a guard, she's getting a BIG payout.
Wow. Crazy. Yeah I worked at a jail consensual sex does happen but that’s why PREA exists. Doesn’t matter, it’s rape according to law
why is it SA?
@@Neko.Virtual power dynamics..
The same reason why a student can't have s3x with their teacher truly consensual..
Or a patient with their doctor
Bc you can't decide over the fate of another human being( examples: you decide how much protection/freedom/punishment someone gets) and having them truly consent to you bc the moment one person is dependent on you + not on the same level.. You are abusing your power bc you/judge/others can never no matter what be truly sure if they did really consent or if they got manipulated by you.. If they were bl@ckmailed, coerced or if they had to do it to make sure they survive
A teacher is a very good example of this bc not only is a 14 year old too naive to understand manipulation in an full extent, this person is also very much dependent on what grade you give them, and in general it's not a healthy sign when a 14 year old feels attracted to let's say a 40 year old--so if you were a teacher it would be your duty to make distance and also make sure that someone looks into that 14 year olds home to see if there is sign of neglect and other stuff
Adulds who are put in a place where they can't fully do things like "free" adulds, are in this situations bc they can't make reasonable and healthy decisions on their own anymore or cannot do in general things anymore and are dependent on others bc of it.
So they are in a vulnerable position (bc adulds can also get mentally or physically to a point of inability, incapacitaty and incompetence) and those people should neither be:
1. Preferred and maybe getting better treatment and more time bc its unfair but also you can't be sure if the person is truly consenting everytime fully (bc if you have an s3xual relationship with someone and you treat them better, give them let's say more medication and protection for "free", you put them into a place where they have fear of losing that, so they would probably not say no anymore they can't fully consent that way--- btw almost same in normal romantic relationships, if you stop treating your partner with love and basic respect and in fact hold back every attention bc they said no, that's a form of manipulation and coercion and is SA (you still can break up and stuff but if you say you will break up everytime they don't want to have s3x, get(passive-) aggressiv, hold back any affection or beg them until they are exhausted .. It's coercing bc you are putting your partner in emotional distress and they can't consent with fear)).
2. People in vulnerable situations should not be put at risk. So they have to be protected (from themselves and others) or for them to learn how not be a threat for society they have to learn morality.. Morals are not learned by breaking the rules.
3. People this vulnerable and dependent situation shouldn't be in a s3xual relationship with the person with more power over them bc it's easy to say "they are lying" bc they are already _criminals_ or _the mentally ill one_ .. You are the one who's holding more power bc you chose to do this job of power AND you are the one who's more sane, capable, reasonable.. So if you would do something like this it's bc you are abusing your pow3r s3xually which is a form of SA
I think that's all of the reasons
@@Neko.Virtual - these channels don't seem to be allowed to say 'sexual assault' out aloud any more? SMH... TH-cam may pull/take down their whole video!
Ive unfortunately had to be a single mom and I have dated, but given the abuse I experienced growing up, I watched my daughter like a hawk around men. And Ive been super vigilant about anyone making my child feel bad in any way. Any creepiness or negativity is a hard no for me. I always had my dog sleep in my daughter’s room.
Sickening…. Mother’s need to start getting charged with child endangerment and murder
I'm so sick hearing all of this and the rage I feel. I can't even begin to find the words. How can humans do this? There is NO EXCUSE.
This is why I still pray for others children all children not just mine smh
I'll never forget when my child was like 8 months old I had my brother in laws sister watch her. She met a guy online and paid for a bus ticket to have him come stay with her and her 3 kids. I had no idea. I took my daughter to her house and found out. Something told me to get her out of there. I was so freaked out I called my mom right after I left and begged her to go get my baby. She did and that was the last time I took her there. I've never let her stay with anyone besides immediate family until she turned 15. I've stayed single all these years bc she comes first. I will not bring a strange man to my home. I've dated of course but no one has met her. And no one will until she's grown and most likely out of my house. This is such a shame and it drives me mad that people bring strangers around their kids and horrible things happen. Please mommas put your babies first. I'm not saying you can't find love but make sure you know them before they are around your kids!
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Even having family babysit is no sure thing. My SIL BEGGED to babysit our older daughter. Come to find out, she was leaving her all over the neighborhood without my permission. If she had something to do, she'd just call up one of her friends & dump my daughter there. I ONLY found out because I came home from work early. There were other neglect issues emerging, as well. This literally tore the entire family apart - because my husband took his child's side & not his sister's. Never cared. My kids are more important than someone's feelings. I would honestly say that you cannot even trust family to watch your kids. My MIL did some sketchy things and my hubby's grandma would babysit & beat on others' kids - hitting them with flyswatters if they wet their pants & such. I quit work & took care of my kids myself - that way I KNEW they were safe.
The fact that this case happened around an area that I partially grew up in really shocked me. The fact that I never heard of this case also astounds me. Poor baby :(
The justice system is horrendous. These are criminals and I’ve zero tolerance for anything that they go through. 🤔🤬
Two weeks???? I could understand if she’d known him for a few months even if I still personally wouldn’t leave her with him even then. I do not condone victim blaming but come on lady! That poor baby.
Thanks for a good upload as always.
Edit- bruises on the privates?? What a failure of a mother you don’t get bruises on a child’s privates by innocent means
More like never.
Mother's not a victim shes a monster.
This so called mother is no victim… her number one job should have been to protect her daughter, but she was willfully negligent just so she could keep a man.
This mother is not a victim. She’s literally a killer. She 100% let this shit happen.
@@mementomori4840 if you pay close attention, it was actually the man who raped and murdered her baby while she was asleep
I always thought I was over protective because I only had my kids grandma babysit them and not even a daycare. Now, I'm thankful I was as protective as I was. They are wondering young adults now.
You can tell by the skull that she is not all there. A throwback.
My son is 7 and he's never been left alone with a stranger in his life. I can't understand how a parent can put their children in these situations.
I don’t leave my child with NO ONE
* _ANYONE_
And, yes, if they’re not close family, or extremely well known to you, then they have no business watching over your babies.
Clear and relevant reporting for these difficult cases, Thankyou, subscribed
Omg this entire case breaks my heart!! The fact that her daughter has 1 bruise let alone all the bruises would have alarmed me! But beyond that, he had no business being alone with her, he had no business changing her diaper! I have such an issue with moms choices. It took me being with my ex for 3 or 4 months before he even met my children. Words just cannot be spoken to properly describe how this situation makes me feel. I myself was being raped at the age of 3, so this one hit home for me.
Rest in peace sweet angel, no monster can harm you now.
I think she had way more to do with this and should still be in prison. ❤ from NJ
The law needs to increase punishment for these crimes. Make an example of these monsters.
She should of gotten life in prison as well. This is heart breaking and so frustrating 💔
There was a girl I didn’t know personally but all my friends did, who I thought was so cool, so pretty, and was super popular on FB. She had a baby and everyone was so happy for her. Around the time her baby started to walk, something happened where she left the baby home with a new boyfriend, and apparently the baby “fell” down the stairs but almost ended up dying because of the bruising on his head. She always posted cryptic things like “don’t judge unless youre in the situation” or “don’t believe everything you hear”. The details were on the news and through close friends of hers that posted about the ordeal. I never saw her post about the baby again. This was like four years ago. I noticed her on FB just recently, and she had just had a baby a few months ago. 🤦🏽♀️
Thanks for telling us about the new baby. Horrible. I can’t imagine for example being the delivery nurses that might happen to have knowledge of what she did. I’d cry myself to sleep every night knowing I HAD to give the baby to her bc the law is terrible
what did her bf do to the baby?
@@Neko.Virtual push the baby down the stairs.
@@bucktooth002 oh I see
Maybe it was an accident? Nobody faced charges? Geez.... This reminds me of that young guy who's daughter fell off the bed at the motel or something and died. He was accused of SA or rape/ murder of his daughter and he was so distraught. Everyone, including his own mother, thought that he actually did this. He was hysterical claiming that he didn't and it turned out he really didn't do it. Sometimes people are very quick to judge
I lived in Gloucester City around this time, and never heard about this horrifying case! RIP baby Ariana!
THERE ARE NO WORDS....GOD BLESS YOU ANGEL OF A LITTLE GIRL.....
This hurts my heart, my son was never allowed near anyone I was dating period!
Even though he was the real monster, the mother is JUST as responsible for allowing and enabling him to do what he did… to her own daughter. I hope she’s never allowed near children
I don't allow my kids to be alone w anyone I don't know extremely well. Honestly, it makes me wonder about this mother's IQ.
me too. I believe she was slow and easily manipulated by him.
Yep, I was about to say that too. She sounds special needs and genuinely didnt understand. Even after it all, she still didn't understand.
More times than not “jailhouse justice” isn’t served
I have said this b4 about jh justice these momsters are in the company of people like themselves Unless everyone is innocent in that jail then they r prolly preadators or worse SHE LOOOKS kinda goofy to me though. These predators know who to choose as targets. I also believe others not mothers want to be rid of the kid anyway. Thinking maybe they can getaway with it. I prolly wont see the day where this kind of crime is not tolerated. Justice is swift and exact. I seen inmates playing video games in jail with big screen. Doing interviews making music videos. Seems jail is not enough anymore. I say take them out n leave them in the fricking water. And guard them until they DIE. Its simple to me. Im a survivior. Never wiuld have a kid. Due to the damage done. My mother was a addict. But a survivior herself n therefore. I know she knew my sister n me were in danger. I belive that to this day. Im over 50 now n my mother ODed on her 40th birthday in 88 but my sister who is 4yrs older than me. Recalls knowing she was on the radar of this pos. Hed tried to fondle her. My sister said she started to scream to bring attention to this little game they were playing. However this day no adults were around n my sister. Told me to go to him. After he exposed hiself to me He then used a pillow or a blanket to smother me. Thats all i remember to this day. Im just realizing how much damage this did. So im now the cat lady n i stay to myself. I cant remember any relationship where i was not being abused one way or another. I know that once u r a victim you r very likely doomed The abuse tends to reoccur maybe not sexually but mentally emotionally physically. Financially. Socially. I call the symptoms my children. Im glad this child is free for good now. I envy people in the graveyards sometimes. I dont feel sorry for myself. I just know i would never ask for this as a life or that kind of childhood. My younger sister has been reckless with disgusting men n her small daughters When she knows better. She was going on 2 when our mother passed n i did not trust her 3 step brothers al9ne with her. She told me of inappropriate ish about the one brother n at 18 i took her from her fathers home n ran. Although i had nowhere to really go. The police forced me to turn her over. Nut i had her examined and i reported this to cps by the time her father caught up to me. This officer seem to understand my plight. Her father was taking her n moving back to n carolina. N was instructed to not move his son in question into the same residence. But once in another state. What could i do?? I went with them. But my baby sisters dad who was my stepdad. Started preying on me as he was supporting me. He never did touch me but he was always trying to get me to consent. I was sooo scared for my baby sister. Fortunately he wasnt that kind of monster to prey on his own babygirl. But u was 18 now n my mother was with him for years b4 getting prego with my baby sister So no he was no stranger to me or my older sister. Who was just unavailble n morning the death of our grand mother who passed of cancer 6 months after burying our mother n the 2nd child she would loose. I try to not gaslight when i visit my younger sister in NC But i have met these bums she tends to carry. While she works this bastard is not working or even trying. To help her n her 3 kids. Yet she gets out of the ship but not bfore leaving her kids vulnarable. I font get it with her It infuriates me. I never have any support. My older sister who understands seems to play dumb like im just a paranoid basketcase. N i hate her for many things. This is not the only thing she plays dumb about either. I could go on but i started rambling. Agin let freedom ring for babygirl who mother put into the hands of that pos. Unbelivible. We still drag our feet about this. This is not the 70s or the fricking 80s?????Myy. Gawwwwwdddd
i was in clinton with amber bobo. Everyone knew her charge.
The only violence i witnessed while there were always over prison relationship issues. Who was cheating on whom with who’s girlfriend. That sorta thing. Which is fine by me. I think there’s something wrong with people who react gleefully at hearing the news that someone they never met was the victim of prison violence,regardless of their crime/charge.
@@discdoggie regardless of their charges? if youre a rapist who ruined someones life, especially an innocent child, how could you not want to hear that they’ve been victimized in prison? its more crazy that people like you seem to want to let those sort of people off the hook with just jail time. people like that deserve the worst of the worst kind of treatment.
I am a complete single mom and I never even let anyone I was seeing to even meet my son, no frickin way would I have left him with someone!!
She allowed her boyfriend to sa her daughter now she free and no luggage, bit, needs to stay in prison
When I met my boyfriend, I dated him for 6 months before introducing him to my 2 children.