I think the camera helps. It's similar to doing things with your friends that you wouldn't do alone. If it did go really bad and they weren't fine with it, they could probably stop them from uploading their part.
The one girl who called her coworker and when they said no she said "I'm okay with that and I'm glad we established this" 💪 the energy!! Omg I loved her that wad the right response to a rejection
Legiiiit. I've been in love with my coworker for 2 and a half years and I'm just head over heels for this perfection of a man, inside and out, and I can move on if I need to. I just need to make the step to tell him how I feel ooooooof😭 he knows I like him but I've never told him personally and I'm wanting to tomorrow at work bc were gonna be there by ourselves tomorrow till 3😭
@@Anonymous-54321 I eventually got up the courage and tried to tell him how I feel but he ended up being an asshole and didn’t wanna talk to me about it and that was about 4 months ago so since then, I’ve been ignoring him at all costs bc he played with my feelings for almost 3 years and couldn’t even man up to tell me how he felt, even if it wasn’t reciprocated, I just wanted the closure and the truth. But nah, so I moved on bc a strong, good hearted woman don’t got time for pos men🫡
@@TH-cam_gets_dumber_every_year it would made more sense if she didn't have a bf it would have been his chance to admit his feelings but shes in relationship now which makes it worst
I feel you! At the same time, relationships and feelings can change and possibly she can move on now. Or they can move on together surprisingly. Or she anyways wants a new job and thats the last hit to search this new job now. Who knows? ;)
I don’t feel bad for the guy who asked the girl with the bf. Why would you do that and possibly mess up either her relationship or your friendship? Had to hit ‘em with the I look at you like a brother to make sure he doesn’t try that shit again 😂🤣
I get such anxiety from these videos like I hate seeing people get rejected but the joy I get when people’s crushes feel the same way is SO STRONG AND SO BIG I’m happy for them 🥹
Literally same, like I feel like this show forces you to get those feelings out. It’s always such an awkward conversation to have but when you get accepted it’s like you feel so happy for them.
Dang the guy who got a straight up "No" from the other guy, that's my worst nightmare. Not just a no, but a cold, instant no that not only hurts your ego and your soul, but basically throws the entire friendship out of wack too.
Tbf, they wouldn’t be the one who “throws the entire friendship out of wack” if you’re the one who caught feelings. 🤷♀️ It may hurt, but it’s no one’s job to coddle us.
Omg Kai. I think if you have a crush on someone in a relationship, just don't go there. Also, asking them if they have feelings for you whilst they're in a relationship?? It's just a big no.
Jeez... that's why you need to talk about feelings so as not to confuse what you want with the real, like this guy. Wow, people fall in love even with those who are already in a relationship, but if you are good friends you should discuss it and not keep it to yourself anyway
@@ВероникаПусенок Cut the bs. A good friend would have kept this shit inside instead of putting someone they allegedly care about in an awkward and awful position. You KNOW the person in a couple isn’t going to say yes, you just want to get it out of your system for your own sake and ego, regardless of how it may affect others. When you love someone or respect them you don’t do that.
@@TH-cam_gets_dumber_every_year heart? that mf was thinking with his dick, been there done that. its not the way to go, boundaries are set for a reason and if he was the other guy, he wouldn't want any of his girl's male friends confessing their love for her
I’m sorry call me bitter but the friendship would be pretty much over after that like it’s no coming back from that and awkwardness would just be too much lol.
@@lisib4835 lmfao who would be happy to be told that??? Attractiveness is subjective but come on now. Regardless of how someone actually looks no one would be happy to be told their ugly, and tbh I personally didn’t find the guy physically unattractive I would say his voice and femininity is unattractive to me.
I’m being 100% completely honest and I’m not exaggerating at all when I say that you couldn’t give me any amount of money to do this. Like there isn’t even a possibility. Props to these folks!
i would take a billion and split it with my crush once i explain the situation afterwards. even better is if ur crush actually likes u too and now ur happily together with loads of money :)
@@TH-cam_gets_dumber_every_year if they were an open couple her immediate response wouldn't be calling out the fact that she has a boyfriend that he's met before.
For some people it gives them the courage and the reason to do something they wouldn’t normally do. Worse comes to worse you can always blame it on some TH-cam video you happened to be on.
I'm the same way, when I was younger I had strong feelings for people but after all the heartbreaks I don't really have crushes I just have passing fancy's but they die off quickly so I kinda miss the feeling of liking someone and they might like you back.
But also the response was very respectfully saving the friendship: "I get a lot of joy out of being friends and I do not want to change that". Maybe the person had very bad experiences with relationships in romantic or sexual ways and is really preferring a person next/ aside who will stay and who has genuine, stable love and intimacy without drama.
Is that guy Kai seriously shooting his shot knowing she has a boyfriend? So disrespectful. God, she was way too nice. I would've told him to never contact me again.
@@retrominz exactly. I know all people are different, but for the overwhelming majority, it will usually lead to one or both of the dancers not continuing in the community. I met my ex dancing, and we split after 5 years. It was amicable, almost as equally wanted from both parties as you can get. But even then, we both were avoiding the events, just in case we ran into each other. She’s completely stopped being involved, while I have gotten back into it.
I relate to this as an actor. I dated a fellow actor for about 3 months back in college and she ended up cheating on me with a woman and afterwards it became just unbearably awkward whenever we had to work together during lectures.
Kai is officially the most cringe phone call I’ve ever seen on this show. The latina lady isn’t all that far behind him though, getting rejected and then telling the dude “You’re not allowed to go get a girlfriend” is mental illness. 😊
I'm not that bold! I work at Starbucks and asked my crush (who is a customer) out when we had downtime. I was so nervous, I spilled two drinks and 1/2 gallon of milk from being clumsy 😂😂.She got a good laugh but inside I was crying 😭😂.
Flipping the script here, i got asked out by a customer when I worked at Starbucks. Through the drive thru window. He’d come in a couple times and when I said no, he didn’t come back. Which I’m thankful for.
2:58 girl who took that L. You are a trooper and I hope you find someone in your life. I would date you if I had a chance just because you a real one in my eyes lol keep your head up
I think that attraction is natural, its natural to feel attraction towards others, and also totally natural not to! and sometimes we can develop an attraction toward someone who is in a relationship just like the guy in this video. What I do think, however, is that it is up to you how you handle that attraction. and you do ultimately have control over how you choose to act on it. In my personal opinion, I think calling someone with a boyfriend and asking them something like that head-on is not the best way to go about it. it puts them in a really difficult situation. I think if you do have feelings for someone in a relationship, and you really feel as though you have to tell them because it is having an impact on you or others in your day-to-day, possibly in a negative fashion, then you should let them know. If that is something that you think would help you let go of it that is. But I think you should have an honest discussion about it. Communicate to them how you feel, respecting the fact they are in a relationship and you do not expect it to go anywhere. And then if there is a chance that person feels the same way, it's very important not to cross any boundaries into engaging with them whilst they still have a partner. Relationships are complex, and there are real people involved, so real people who can get hurt based on how you handle this.
Respect relationships, for god’s sake. Set your ego aside, I understand your feelings are strong, but you put the other person in a very uncomfortable situation. You’re overstepping boundaries and as someone who has been in her shoes, it’s horrible to handle that situation. You won’t gain anything from not respecting your friends’ relationships.
How is it ok for that person to feel a way about her and remain silent? Just so she can feel ok in her relationship while he hides the pain?? That’s retarded… The woman rejected him while being loyal to her relationship as she should. End of story, nothing disrespectful from either of them. They both now have things clear; they either continue as friends or they choose to end the friendship
5:56 agreed! I have always been friend zoned when I was younger and felt disappointed all my other friends had people after them. When I got into college I strangely started having all these guys after me. I met someone through a friend and I didn't expect anything to happen because I didn't think I was their type. Hah next thing ya know till this day we've been together for 5 years! So never let your doubts get in the way, life is short and go for the risk!
I get why most people as why others would do this for the channel, but this is my take. For some people, the camera, the team, the grandness of it all and the spur of the moment decision to go through with something like this is what gives them the courage and the reason to do something they wouldn’t normally do. Worse comes to worse you can always blame it on some TH-cam video you happened to be on. 🤙🏽
0:45 so here she confidently said she knew he doesn't like her and yet in that truth or drink video she singlehandedly invited him to two people trip (her and this jake guy) to vegas? $1k trip at that? she was really down bad omg
I had to pause the video after Erin gave her answer, she's that girl without even trying. The fact that she's shy and not overly confident makes her more attractive. Get it girl, Jake better snatch you up while he can. After this video I'm absolutely certain a lot of guys will be searching for her on social media. After watching the whole video, I give the participants props because there's no way I would ever do this. I'm happy for everyone who's crushed liked them back, and for the others too. Even though feelings aren't reciprocated, that does help you grow mentally and emotionally. Now you can move on and not waste your time wondering about all the "what ifs"
I could never. I would never. I applaud them for their courage though. My crushes 9.9x out of 10 had/have NO idea of my feelings. Thats my problem. Lol.
I have loved a guy friend for 3 years. I am devastated. I am SURE he doesn't love me back, I can't hold It anymore but we are really good friends since school and he says to me really extraordinary and no-common phrases of affection, something that says only to me. I REALLY don't want to lose this beautiful friendship (to tell you only a little thing he said that I am one of the few people he truly has affection for and that I am special, he also bought me a bracelet to thank me for the help I gave him at school), but I DESPERATELY, GENUINELY, DEEPLY, REALLY love him with my WHOLE heart. Do you know what my profile image means? That was the position I used to get in class during many many lessons, and I started looking at him and I lost myself while doing that with my heart racing so fast I can’t tell. I have this pure and deep love that controls my body and my brain, I am completely absorbed by it and my heart is his. What can I do?
"Do you find me attractive "
"Aggressively"
THE ENERGY I NEED!!
Lmfaoo if I don’t get this response back I don’t want it 😂
It’s the dream response
Big energy indeed ‼️
I swear 👍
LMAO
It’s INSANE to call someone with a boyfriend. Like why put them in the situation to say no and make the friendship awkward 😭🤦🏽♀️
The friendship now has a tension that ll never go away without a decent time and conversation
Off topic, but you are gorgeous! 🤭
I literally gasped
Kai had bad timing shouldn’t even have called her but speaking of timing I just wanted to say you have beautiful smile Khalilah D 😉
entirely out of pocket!
i just know the boyfriend is telling the girl "i told u so"💀
And the whole time the girl is like "no he's like a brother to me" 😭😭
@@juancarloscorrea8134 😂😂
😂😂😂
I feel like “do you find me attractive?” is one of the most awkward questions to ask to a crush, props to them for handling it so well.
Lmfao same 😂
Yes! Haha
yes i totally agree with that.
Yep, maybe he hoped they could all work something out
Homie was probably straight .! 😂😂
“AGRESSIVELY” *chef’s kiss* this is the energy we need, folks
Ok
What is aggressively? Respond do you find me attractive ,that scares me abit😮
these people are SO brave, i could never do that even without camera. im really so proud of them
I helps a lot that they get paid to do it.
This whole idea literally makes me want vomit. But I have social anxiety tho.
I think the camera helps. It's similar to doing things with your friends that you wouldn't do alone. If it did go really bad and they weren't fine with it, they could probably stop them from uploading their part.
Sometimes you need this pressure to get it over with 😂
I need a moment just to hype up myself into making a normal phone call xD
why would you ever call somone with a boyfriend?
Exactly 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
So weird of him
Bruh like what was even the point of that
Weird male energy
I Would Do DGAF
The one girl who called her coworker and when they said no she said "I'm okay with that and I'm glad we established this" 💪 the energy!! Omg I loved her that wad the right response to a rejection
Legiiiit. I've been in love with my coworker for 2 and a half years and I'm just head over heels for this perfection of a man, inside and out, and I can move on if I need to. I just need to make the step to tell him how I feel ooooooof😭 he knows I like him but I've never told him personally and I'm wanting to tomorrow at work bc were gonna be there by ourselves tomorrow till 3😭
@@wxstednxghts How did it go?
@@wxstednxghtswhat happened!!!
@@wxstednxghtsupdate?
@@Anonymous-54321 I eventually got up the courage and tried to tell him how I feel but he ended up being an asshole and didn’t wanna talk to me about it and that was about 4 months ago so since then, I’ve been ignoring him at all costs bc he played with my feelings for almost 3 years and couldn’t even man up to tell me how he felt, even if it wasn’t reciprocated, I just wanted the closure and the truth. But nah, so I moved on bc a strong, good hearted woman don’t got time for pos men🫡
Kai is such a red flag, calling her with a bf and STILL asking if she was attracted to him?
She’s definitely cutting him off after that
red flag for what?
@@mimosasseat9860 they're using the wrong words. he's just an asshole.
Not having any consideration for her relationship and partner 🫠
@@mimosasseat9860 a red flag for a friend or someone you thought was a friend
calling someone with a boyfriend is wilddd😭
Disrespectful
@@DA-js7xz I honestly commend him for not gaf.
I still would advise against it for other people tho
@@TH-cam_gets_dumber_every_year it would made more sense if she didn't have a bf it would have been his chance to admit his feelings but shes in relationship now which makes it worst
Oh my Lord... the person who phoned up someone she works with... I just could NEVER. Imagine seeing them at work every day after this chat...
This brings up the problem that 95% of people have no idea how to raise kids.
@@PROVOCATEURSK what 😭
I feel you! At the same time, relationships and feelings can change and possibly she can move on now. Or they can move on together surprisingly. Or she anyways wants a new job and thats the last hit to search this new job now. Who knows? ;)
Kai just killed his friendship 😂
That shit was already dead, they just both know it now. Or well at least she does 😂
@@da1on2 Naa she had him in the friend zone but buddy pushed it. Now he's gone 🤣
@@KemzA658 I mean ik the pain, I’ve been blocked for no reason 💀 couldn’t sleep for weeks 🤣
Kai giving off " I gave my self my own name" vibes
fr the way i would immediately kick him out of the life
These people are so brave. I was cringing through all of this.
same and same name!!! :)
Cringing sis!!!
i was cringing too😅
The (notoriously single) girl in white was great, I'm so happy for her their crush felt the same way.
I don’t feel bad for the guy who asked the girl with the bf. Why would you do that and possibly mess up either her relationship or your friendship? Had to hit ‘em with the I look at you like a brother to make sure he doesn’t try that shit again 😂🤣
Money 👀
friendship's over
"I see you as a brother" never works.
@@suivatra123 I'd say it works a good amount of the time.... I've only had to use it a few times, but usually the guys are pretty respectful of it
LMAO
I get such anxiety from these videos like I hate seeing people get rejected but the joy I get when people’s crushes feel the same way is SO STRONG AND SO BIG I’m happy for them 🥹
They probably know how to drink, how to drive but not how to communicate.
Literally same, like I feel like this show forces you to get those feelings out. It’s always such an awkward conversation to have but when you get accepted it’s like you feel so happy for them.
Dang the guy who got a straight up "No" from the other guy, that's my worst nightmare. Not just a no, but a cold, instant no that not only hurts your ego and your soul, but basically throws the entire friendship out of wack too.
Tbf, they wouldn’t be the one who “throws the entire friendship out of wack” if you’re the one who caught feelings. 🤷♀️ It may hurt, but it’s no one’s job to coddle us.
“Um, I don’t have feelings for you. I love working with you”
I would quit my job lmaoo
🤣🤣
Looooool!😂
"do you find me attractive?"
"i don't think so."
friendship OVER
PERIOD
Not me getting nervous like I'm a part of the experiment 💀
Lol well is there somebody you have a crush on that you wanna find out if they like you back?!
same, omg! 😭
@@TheKatarinaGiselle not even lol
Lol same and I genuinely havent crushed on someone since last December
@@jareerareerarr5053 lol
You've met Matthew right?...lol
Emotional damage
She handled that maturely. I would have been like "you know I am in a relationship - go fuck yourself."
@@lsyr9e592 more for the girl than the dude asking
*readies tactical batons and nunchaks in a horned costume*
Omg Kai. I think if you have a crush on someone in a relationship, just don't go there. Also, asking them if they have feelings for you whilst they're in a relationship?? It's just a big no.
Jeez... that's why you need to talk about feelings so as not to confuse what you want with the real, like this guy. Wow, people fall in love even with those who are already in a relationship, but if you are good friends you should discuss it and not keep it to yourself anyway
@@ВероникаПусенок well yes, but not the way this dude did it
@@realfishtacoboy how is that? :// Is it necessary to find the culprit in the situation? :///
@@ВероникаПусенок Cut the bs. A good friend would have kept this shit inside instead of putting someone they allegedly care about in an awkward and awful position. You KNOW the person in a couple isn’t going to say yes, you just want to get it out of your system for your own sake and ego, regardless of how it may affect others. When you love someone or respect them you don’t do that.
Lmao. Tbh it was interesting for me to watch someone with seemingly less appropriate social skills than me haha
wtf, she has a bf already…why would you call her
He clearly dgaf. The heart wants what it wants...
@@TH-cam_gets_dumber_every_year heart? that mf was thinking with his dick, been there done that. its not the way to go, boundaries are set for a reason and if he was the other guy, he wouldn't want any of his girl's male friends confessing their love for her
@@TH-cam_gets_dumber_every_year finally someone who has a grip on reality
@@TH-cam_gets_dumber_every_year and he got rejected so there was no point to that
People break up, people cheat, people date more people at the same time...
“Do you think I’m attractive?”
“Umm I don’t think so”
“Oh no😯”
Like damnnn they were cold😢
It's not cold it's just the truth
I’m sorry call me bitter but the friendship would be pretty
much over after that like it’s no coming back from that and awkwardness would just be too much lol.
That did hit pretty hard 😂
They should've been happy to be told they're not attractive
@@lisib4835 lmfao who would be happy to be told that??? Attractiveness is subjective but come on now. Regardless of how someone actually looks no one would be happy to be told their ugly, and tbh I personally didn’t find the guy physically unattractive I would say his voice and femininity is unattractive to me.
I’m being 100% completely honest and I’m not exaggerating at all when I say that you couldn’t give me any amount of money to do this. Like there isn’t even a possibility. Props to these folks!
i would take a billion and split it with my crush once i explain the situation afterwards. even better is if ur crush actually likes u too and now ur happily together with loads of money :)
This proves women cannot stand rejection lmaoo, so they prefer to do the rejecting
@@victorlewis7635 okay 👍🏻
@@victorlewis7635 Rejection is very hard for people in general. Don’t generalise.
@@autumnwinter1462 we get rejected everyday, we know more about that then y'all, we're just less emotional about it
when she said “i have a lot of crushes” i felt that lol 😂😂😌💀
That guy who called the woman who has a boyfriend should've just kept it on the inside
No ring = not serious.
“Aw Erin, do you have a crush on me?” Gave ME butterflies bro…
the "Oh No" really got me..
aw i feel so giddy for ppl who get to make plans from moments like this haha cute
“I think of you like a brother.” DAMN that’s tuff son
He called someone who had a bf. Like no..
definitely deserved it though
@@DA-js7xz there could've been a chance his crush and her bf were poly or interested in an open relationship.
he cried in the car
@@TH-cam_gets_dumber_every_year if they were an open couple her immediate response wouldn't be calling out the fact that she has a boyfriend that he's met before.
This would be the worse thing to do in general but especially on camera where everyone can watch me be possibly rejected.
“That’s okay. I’m glad that we’ve established this”
I love that
How do people have the confidence to do this? ON CAMERA!!! LIVE!!!
For some people it gives them the courage and the reason to do something they wouldn’t normally do. Worse comes to worse you can always blame it on some TH-cam video you happened to be on.
Because they have it
I'm actually jealous! I haven't had a crush in year's and I love the feeling of crushing on someone!
You do!? Oh god I don't. Feels like I'm suffocating but finally breathing at the same time...no thanks
Same! It’s been a while since I felt anything for anyone and I miss it. I miss the butterflies.
@@kt334 fr thats exactly how I feel!
I'm the same way, when I was younger I had strong feelings for people but after all the heartbreaks I don't really have crushes I just have passing fancy's but they die off quickly so I kinda miss the feeling of liking someone and they might like you back.
@@NaerysTargaryen26 fr I know what you mean about the feelings dying quickly. For me I really just miss that butterfly feeling
3:00 played it like a legend ngl
My nosey ass would LOVE to hear updates on how this has worked or not worked out for these people. Thanks.
Right!?
"Are you attracted to me?"
"Um, I don't think so."
"Oh no."
This is so me
But also the response was very respectfully saving the friendship: "I get a lot of joy out of being friends and I do not want to change that". Maybe the person had very bad experiences with relationships in romantic or sexual ways and is really preferring a person next/ aside who will stay and who has genuine, stable love and intimacy without drama.
Imagine having a crush that likes you back
Literally 😭
That would be a dream come true.
its so cute to see people get excited and squirmy when they get the response they are hoping for. Humans are cute sometimes
The “thats okay woman” I want her to win In love, she seems great.
the “and that’s okay!” girl has such a healthy mindset, she seems really fun to be around
Good for that one girl for standing up for her boyfriend Matthew and the other guy telling the girl he wasn’t interested in being with her.
Calling to tell them you have a crush is one thing BUT asking if they find you attractive and asking the scale, is a big ouch
The was she says bachata has me screaming 😭😭
mannn like did u even try? 💀💀
I’m confused. How are you supposed to say it?
@@boo8399 he pronounced it correctly
Is that guy Kai seriously shooting his shot knowing she has a boyfriend? So disrespectful. God, she was way too nice. I would've told him to never contact me again.
As a fellow dancer, don’t date someone in the community. It definitely leads to a pretty uncomfortable period, if the relationship falls through.
Do you say it's uncomfortable because it can be awkward seeing the other person at the dancing studio ?
@@retrominz yeah
@@retrominz exactly. I know all people are different, but for the overwhelming majority, it will usually lead to one or both of the dancers not continuing in the community.
I met my ex dancing, and we split after 5 years. It was amicable, almost as equally wanted from both parties as you can get. But even then, we both were avoiding the events, just in case we ran into each other. She’s completely stopped being involved, while I have gotten back into it.
I relate to this as an actor. I dated a fellow actor for about 3 months back in college and she ended up cheating on me with a woman and afterwards it became just unbearably awkward whenever we had to work together during lectures.
whats a community?
This episode was at a all time high for awkwardness for sure 😭😅
Kai is officially the most cringe phone call I’ve ever seen on this show. The latina lady isn’t all that far behind him though, getting rejected and then telling the dude “You’re not allowed to go get a girlfriend” is mental illness. 😊
Gosh, I miss Fear Pong
I do too soooo bad!!!
I'm not that bold! I work at Starbucks and asked my crush (who is a customer) out when we had downtime. I was so nervous, I spilled two drinks and 1/2 gallon of milk from being clumsy 😂😂.She got a good laugh but inside I was crying 😭😂.
Did she accept though?
@@shoelacedonkey she did. Went on a couple date's but remain friends. I'm glad when she comes in for her coffee, it's not awkward 😂
But that's life 😜. Love to live it and continue to move on ☺️.
Yo I work at Starbucks too. I’m clumsy to begin with so I know I would be dropping stuff in that situation.
Flipping the script here, i got asked out by a customer when I worked at Starbucks. Through the drive thru window. He’d come in a couple times and when I said no, he didn’t come back. Which I’m thankful for.
"Notoriously single" is my favorite lines!!!!😂😂😂
4:29 why she look 60 and 25 at the same time 😂
I'd genuinely rather die than do that lol
5:36 that aggressive YES! Lol so sweet
The audacity he had to call someone who he clearly knew had a boyfriend 😂
No ring = not serious.
2:58 girl who took that L. You are a trooper and I hope you find someone in your life. I would date you if I had a chance just because you a real one in my eyes lol keep your head up
I actually like her a lot. She's pretty ❤
"Are you single?"
"Yes, notoriously"
💀💀
That's just so sad for those who got rejected, a 100 times more than it's been happy for those who got the surprise to know the reciprocity
Yeah Your boyfriend right....??
💀💀💀
it's fucked up that he asked KNOWING the girl had a boyfriend. why would you ever put her in that situation?
Damn I respect the reality in this 🙌🏾👏🏾 it’s about time someone shows that love isn’t a fairytale
The woman who warned the guy to not get a girlfriend has a lot of nerve. He’s free to do whatever he wants.
I have tons !! He better not stomp on my heart again by getting some unworthy bitch lol
I would rather ask my celebrity crush out on a date, and that date is Gemma Chan.
I'd rather do 100 hours of community service then call my crush and tell him this. I also have a huge fear of rejection so...
"Agressively" 💘
the rejection in this video goes HARD
2:08 "oh no" 😭
Bro said “Oh no!” 💀
These success stories are the best happy medicine. And even if it doesn't work out, at least people can move on.
The guy who went “oh no” omg my heart sank 😭😭
I think that attraction is natural, its natural to feel attraction towards others, and also totally natural not to! and sometimes we can develop an attraction toward someone who is in a relationship just like the guy in this video. What I do think, however, is that it is up to you how you handle that attraction. and you do ultimately have control over how you choose to act on it. In my personal opinion, I think calling someone with a boyfriend and asking them something like that head-on is not the best way to go about it. it puts them in a really difficult situation. I think if you do have feelings for someone in a relationship, and you really feel as though you have to tell them because it is having an impact on you or others in your day-to-day, possibly in a negative fashion, then you should let them know. If that is something that you think would help you let go of it that is. But I think you should have an honest discussion about it. Communicate to them how you feel, respecting the fact they are in a relationship and you do not expect it to go anywhere. And then if there is a chance that person feels the same way, it's very important not to cross any boundaries into engaging with them whilst they still have a partner. Relationships are complex, and there are real people involved, so real people who can get hurt based on how you handle this.
I don’t know how people do that on camera-
I feel like they make it sound so easy just to call them and tell them “I have a crush on you “
The ones that were disappointed I felt bad like I was the one doing the calling or on the other end of the call🤦🏿♂️
Respect relationships, for god’s sake.
Set your ego aside, I understand your feelings are strong, but you put the other person in a very uncomfortable situation. You’re overstepping boundaries and as someone who has been in her shoes, it’s horrible to handle that situation. You won’t gain anything from not respecting your friends’ relationships.
100% agree, such a dumb idea to tell you have a crush on someone when you know they are already in a relationship
How is it ok for that person to feel a way about her and remain silent? Just so she can feel ok in her relationship while he hides the pain?? That’s retarded…
The woman rejected him while being loyal to her relationship as she should. End of story, nothing disrespectful from either of them. They both now have things clear; they either continue as friends or they choose to end the friendship
You can only set the ego aside when you can pick it up like its a person
That brother-zone gotta HURT. 3:35
Guy is wrong as hell for calling someone who he knows has a bf
Kai is gonna call her later talmbout "lmao I was just playing! You thought I was serious? It was just a prank a friend made me do"
😂🔥
5:56 agreed! I have always been friend zoned when I was younger and felt disappointed all my other friends had people after them. When I got into college I strangely started having all these guys after me. I met someone through a friend and I didn't expect anything to happen because I didn't think I was their type. Hah next thing ya know till this day we've been together for 5 years! So never let your doubts get in the way, life is short and go for the risk!
Like a brother to me is crazyyyy
7.5 is a high rating girl!!
“Are you single ?”
“Yes, notoriously”
😭😭😭 same girl
person with the white shirt and stache took that so well, bravo
This is the best video I’ve ever seen, I love seeing people speak their truth 🥹 I wanna be on one lol
I get why most people as why others would do this for the channel, but this is my take. For some people, the camera, the team, the grandness of it all and the spur of the moment decision to go through with something like this is what gives them the courage and the reason to do something they wouldn’t normally do. Worse comes to worse you can always blame it on some TH-cam video you happened to be on. 🤙🏽
Cut is really out here doing some match making
And then there is Kai
0:45 so here she confidently said she knew he doesn't like her and yet in that truth or drink video she singlehandedly invited him to two people trip (her and this jake guy) to vegas? $1k trip at that? she was really down bad omg
I had to pause the video after Erin gave her answer, she's that girl without even trying. The fact that she's shy and not overly confident makes her more attractive. Get it girl, Jake better snatch you up while he can. After this video I'm absolutely certain a lot of guys will be searching for her on social media.
After watching the whole video, I give the participants props because there's no way I would ever do this. I'm happy for everyone who's crushed liked them back, and for the others too. Even though feelings aren't reciprocated, that does help you grow mentally and emotionally. Now you can move on and not waste your time wondering about all the "what ifs"
this was so kind omg i keep re-reading your comment
@@erinreamey no bcs u are so that girl, i wish i gave off the energy u were !!
Turns out he doesn't like her because they're ex friends in another video
I could never. I would never.
I applaud them for their courage though.
My crushes 9.9x out of 10 had/have NO idea of my feelings.
Thats my problem. Lol.
"But dreams do come true...and maybe something wonderful will happen." - Enchanted
aba and preach gonna have a field day with this one
😂 oh I hopebthey do cover this one..I can't wait! I can already picture it lol
@@TheKatarinaGiselle 😁
LMAOO
jake: dO u HaVe a CrUsH oN mE? WoOoWwWw
3:42 I recognized his voice! That’s the light skin guy who always wears the suits and has curly hair!!!
???
The comedian?? I thought it was the Arabic/Indian man from previous episodes
@@brownskinbeauty. I heard the laugh, it sounds like the comedian because he has a laugh similar to Seth Rogan’s
Yes it was ME
Lol damn it
I have loved a guy friend for 3 years. I am devastated. I am SURE he doesn't love me back, I can't hold It anymore but we are really good friends since school and he says to me really extraordinary and no-common phrases of affection, something that says only to me. I REALLY don't want to lose this beautiful friendship (to tell you only a little thing he said that I am one of the few people he truly has affection for and that I am special, he also bought me a bracelet to thank me for the help I gave him at school), but I DESPERATELY, GENUINELY, DEEPLY, REALLY love him with my WHOLE heart. Do you know what my profile image means? That was the position I used to get in class during many many lessons, and I started looking at him and I lost myself while doing that with my heart racing so fast I can’t tell. I have this pure and deep love that controls my body and my brain, I am completely absorbed by it and my heart is his. What can I do?
Tell him or live with regret
@@silverskull7669 I know it but if I tell him I will lose him
@@ele7151 then accept the fact that he doesn't love you and stop fantasizing him, otherwise you are only hurting yourself.
@@silverskull7669 yeah I know I have already gave up on the fact that he could love me
@@ele7151 then why are you still thinking about him that way?
I NEED a follow up!
I don't think you should ever tell somebody you have feelings for them.
Please keep posting videos like this!!
@1:50 The way the dude holds the phone tells which team he plays for.
I would never be able to fall in love with someone who could never love me back