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  • People call their crush to ask if they think they're attractive.
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  • @alinelion6610
    @alinelion6610 ปีที่แล้ว +9776

    "Do you find me attractive "
    "Aggressively"
    THE ENERGY I NEED!!

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. ปีที่แล้ว +192

      Lmfaoo if I don’t get this response back I don’t want it 😂

    • @S_J_banana
      @S_J_banana ปีที่แล้ว +142

      It’s the dream response

    • @msgaza2424
      @msgaza2424 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Big energy indeed ‼️

    • @pointlessNYC
      @pointlessNYC ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I swear 👍

    • @jamangel
      @jamangel ปีที่แล้ว +5

      LMAO

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. ปีที่แล้ว +13459

    It’s INSANE to call someone with a boyfriend. Like why put them in the situation to say no and make the friendship awkward 😭🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @EduardoTyrannyth
      @EduardoTyrannyth ปีที่แล้ว +969

      The friendship now has a tension that ll never go away without a decent time and conversation

    • @ellieh8156
      @ellieh8156 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      Off topic, but you are gorgeous! 🤭

    • @cannibalnun8451
      @cannibalnun8451 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      I literally gasped

    • @reggp1
      @reggp1 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Kai had bad timing shouldn’t even have called her but speaking of timing I just wanted to say you have beautiful smile Khalilah D 😉

    • @JCroom-xy8wp
      @JCroom-xy8wp ปีที่แล้ว +65

      entirely out of pocket!

  • @benji8062
    @benji8062 ปีที่แล้ว +4706

    why would you ever call somone with a boyfriend?

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. ปีที่แล้ว +176

      Exactly 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @boredguy5805
      @boredguy5805 ปีที่แล้ว +304

      So weird of him

    • @gbluecheez
      @gbluecheez ปีที่แล้ว +183

      Bruh like what was even the point of that

    • @PaigePlates
      @PaigePlates ปีที่แล้ว +241

      Weird male energy

    • @drekogamingyt876
      @drekogamingyt876 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I Would Do DGAF

  • @lillard831
    @lillard831 ปีที่แล้ว +1659

    i just know the boyfriend is telling the girl "i told u so"💀

    • @juancarloscorrea8134
      @juancarloscorrea8134 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      And the whole time the girl is like "no he's like a brother to me" 😭😭

    • @lillard831
      @lillard831 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juancarloscorrea8134 😂😂

    • @The_Nova_Glow
      @The_Nova_Glow ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

  • @carolinex4825
    @carolinex4825 ปีที่แล้ว +3270

    Kai is such a red flag, calling her with a bf and STILL asking if she was attracted to him?

    • @CraftWithRosie
      @CraftWithRosie ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She’s definitely cutting him off after that

    • @mimosasseat9860
      @mimosasseat9860 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      red flag for what?

    • @alexanderdavidmartinezsilv1914
      @alexanderdavidmartinezsilv1914 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@mimosasseat9860 they're using the wrong words. he's just an asshole.

    • @Ouijaaaah
      @Ouijaaaah ปีที่แล้ว +301

      Not having any consideration for her relationship and partner 🫠

    • @jareerareerarr5053
      @jareerareerarr5053 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@mimosasseat9860 a red flag for a friend or someone you thought was a friend

  • @AbigailChristina
    @AbigailChristina ปีที่แล้ว +3745

    “AGRESSIVELY” *chef’s kiss* this is the energy we need, folks

    • @Typxox
      @Typxox ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok

    • @katarzynamariamuszynska2811
      @katarzynamariamuszynska2811 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What is aggressively? Respond do you find me attractive ,that scares me abit😮

  • @professionalamateur417
    @professionalamateur417 ปีที่แล้ว +5473

    I feel like “do you find me attractive?” is one of the most awkward questions to ask to a crush, props to them for handling it so well.

  • @forehead4sale546
    @forehead4sale546 ปีที่แล้ว +2688

    calling someone with a boyfriend is wilddd😭

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz ปีที่แล้ว +142

      Disrespectful

    • @YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year
      @YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@DA-js7xz I honestly commend him for not gaf.
      I still would advise against it for other people tho

    • @kenfern2259
      @kenfern2259 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TH-cam_gets_dumber_each_year it would made more sense if she didn't have a bf it would have been his chance to admit his feelings but shes in relationship now which makes it worst

  • @h9sh1
    @h9sh1 ปีที่แล้ว +4667

    these people are SO brave, i could never do that even without camera. im really so proud of them

    • @CMZneu
      @CMZneu ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I helps a lot that they get paid to do it.

    • @Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913
      @Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      This whole idea literally makes me want vomit. But I have social anxiety tho.

    • @caenir
      @caenir ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I think the camera helps. It's similar to doing things with your friends that you wouldn't do alone. If it did go really bad and they weren't fine with it, they could probably stop them from uploading their part.

    • @shaaylaaaa
      @shaaylaaaa ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sometimes you need this pressure to get it over with 😂

    • @kesetokaiba
      @kesetokaiba ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I need a moment just to hype up myself into making a normal phone call xD

  • @KemzA658
    @KemzA658 ปีที่แล้ว +1575

    Kai just killed his friendship 😂

    • @da1on2
      @da1on2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      That shit was already dead, they just both know it now. Or well at least she does 😂

    • @KemzA658
      @KemzA658 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@da1on2 Naa she had him in the friend zone but buddy pushed it. Now he's gone 🤣

    • @Kevin4M3
      @Kevin4M3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KemzA658 I mean ik the pain, I’ve been blocked for no reason 💀 couldn’t sleep for weeks 🤣

    • @cris5244
      @cris5244 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kai giving off " I gave my self my own name" vibes

    • @nicole4214
      @nicole4214 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      fr the way i would immediately kick him out of the life

  • @yelleyw
    @yelleyw ปีที่แล้ว +3166

    I don’t feel bad for the guy who asked the girl with the bf. Why would you do that and possibly mess up either her relationship or your friendship? Had to hit ‘em with the I look at you like a brother to make sure he doesn’t try that shit again 😂🤣

    • @shaaylaaaa
      @shaaylaaaa ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Money 👀

    • @MalcolmRandall
      @MalcolmRandall ปีที่แล้ว +20

      friendship's over

    • @suivatra123
      @suivatra123 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      "I see you as a brother" never works.

    • @kenyett7
      @kenyett7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@suivatra123 I'd say it works a good amount of the time.... I've only had to use it a few times, but usually the guys are pretty respectful of it

    • @jamangel
      @jamangel ปีที่แล้ว

      LMAO

  • @salmon1290
    @salmon1290 ปีที่แล้ว +830

    The one girl who called her coworker and when they said no she said "I'm okay with that and I'm glad we established this" 💪 the energy!! Omg I loved her that wad the right response to a rejection

    • @wxstednxghts
      @wxstednxghts ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Legiiiit. I've been in love with my coworker for 2 and a half years and I'm just head over heels for this perfection of a man, inside and out, and I can move on if I need to. I just need to make the step to tell him how I feel ooooooof😭 he knows I like him but I've never told him personally and I'm wanting to tomorrow at work bc were gonna be there by ourselves tomorrow till 3😭

    • @zamithemyth440
      @zamithemyth440 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wxstednxghts How did it go?

    • @haneen8806
      @haneen8806 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wxstednxghtswhat happened!!!

    • @Anonymous-54321
      @Anonymous-54321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@wxstednxghtsupdate?

    • @wxstednxghts
      @wxstednxghts 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Anonymous-54321 I eventually got up the courage and tried to tell him how I feel but he ended up being an asshole and didn’t wanna talk to me about it and that was about 4 months ago so since then, I’ve been ignoring him at all costs bc he played with my feelings for almost 3 years and couldn’t even man up to tell me how he felt, even if it wasn’t reciprocated, I just wanted the closure and the truth. But nah, so I moved on bc a strong, good hearted woman don’t got time for pos men🫡

  • @EmleeLikesTurtles
    @EmleeLikesTurtles ปีที่แล้ว +671

    Oh my Lord... the person who phoned up someone she works with... I just could NEVER. Imagine seeing them at work every day after this chat...

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This brings up the problem that 95% of people have no idea how to raise kids.

    • @cookiegirl891
      @cookiegirl891 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@PROVOCATEURSK what 😭

    • @user-kv3rj4cv8i
      @user-kv3rj4cv8i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel you! At the same time, relationships and feelings can change and possibly she can move on now. Or they can move on together surprisingly. Or she anyways wants a new job and thats the last hit to search this new job now. Who knows? ;)

  • @nicolem8870
    @nicolem8870 ปีที่แล้ว +1797

    These people are so brave. I was cringing through all of this.

    • @nicole_29
      @nicole_29 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same and same name!!! :)

    • @Treesloan25
      @Treesloan25 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cringing sis!!!

    • @luna-vj3hx
      @luna-vj3hx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i was cringing too😅

  • @langampofu5977
    @langampofu5977 ปีที่แล้ว +838

    Not me getting nervous like I'm a part of the experiment 💀

    • @TheKatarinaGiselle
      @TheKatarinaGiselle ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol well is there somebody you have a crush on that you wanna find out if they like you back?!

    • @intlentsinde
      @intlentsinde ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same, omg! 😭

    • @langampofu5977
      @langampofu5977 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@TheKatarinaGiselle not even lol

    • @jareerareerarr5053
      @jareerareerarr5053 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol same and I genuinely havent crushed on someone since last December

    • @langampofu5977
      @langampofu5977 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jareerareerarr5053 lol

  • @bitticlan
    @bitticlan ปีที่แล้ว +365

    Dang the guy who got a straight up "No" from the other guy, that's my worst nightmare. Not just a no, but a cold, instant no that not only hurts your ego and your soul, but basically throws the entire friendship out of wack too.

    • @STasugx
      @STasugx ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Tbf, they wouldn’t be the one who “throws the entire friendship out of wack” if you’re the one who caught feelings. 🤷‍♀️ It may hurt, but it’s no one’s job to coddle us.

  • @shoelacedonkey
    @shoelacedonkey ปีที่แล้ว +426

    The (notoriously single) girl in white was great, I'm so happy for her their crush felt the same way.

  • @crumblyairship
    @crumblyairship ปีที่แล้ว +382

    "do you find me attractive?"
    "i don't think so."
    friendship OVER

  • @shanzi9009
    @shanzi9009 ปีที่แล้ว +812

    You've met Matthew right?...lol

    • @lsyr9e592
      @lsyr9e592 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Emotional damage

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She handled that maturely. I would have been like "you know I am in a relationship - go fuck yourself."

    • @rapakko
      @rapakko ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@lsyr9e592 more for the girl than the dude asking

    • @noobgamersland8189
      @noobgamersland8189 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *readies tactical batons and nunchaks in a horned costume*

  • @frickinlizz
    @frickinlizz ปีที่แล้ว +655

    I get such anxiety from these videos like I hate seeing people get rejected but the joy I get when people’s crushes feel the same way is SO STRONG AND SO BIG I’m happy for them 🥹

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They probably know how to drink, how to drive but not how to communicate.

    • @PokidotGamer898
      @PokidotGamer898 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Literally same, like I feel like this show forces you to get those feelings out. It’s always such an awkward conversation to have but when you get accepted it’s like you feel so happy for them.

  • @zikannoli
    @zikannoli ปีที่แล้ว +292

    “Um, I don’t have feelings for you. I love working with you”
    I would quit my job lmaoo

  • @TehxHope
    @TehxHope ปีที่แล้ว +574

    wtf, she has a bf already…why would you call her

    • @YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year
      @YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year ปีที่แล้ว +28

      He clearly dgaf. The heart wants what it wants...

    • @donjohn281
      @donjohn281 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TH-cam_gets_dumber_each_year heart? that mf was thinking with his dick, been there done that. its not the way to go, boundaries are set for a reason and if he was the other guy, he wouldn't want any of his girl's male friends confessing their love for her

    • @horebdami
      @horebdami ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TH-cam_gets_dumber_each_year finally someone who has a grip on reality

    • @jelly4129
      @jelly4129 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@TH-cam_gets_dumber_each_year and he got rejected so there was no point to that

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK ปีที่แล้ว +2

      People break up, people cheat, people date more people at the same time...

  • @QueenoftheNorth
    @QueenoftheNorth ปีที่แล้ว +399

    Omg Kai. I think if you have a crush on someone in a relationship, just don't go there. Also, asking them if they have feelings for you whilst they're in a relationship?? It's just a big no.

    • @user-er3jy3zm8b
      @user-er3jy3zm8b ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Jeez... that's why you need to talk about feelings so as not to confuse what you want with the real, like this guy. Wow, people fall in love even with those who are already in a relationship, but if you are good friends you should discuss it and not keep it to yourself anyway

    • @realfishtacoboy
      @realfishtacoboy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@user-er3jy3zm8b well yes, but not the way this dude did it

    • @user-er3jy3zm8b
      @user-er3jy3zm8b ปีที่แล้ว

      @@realfishtacoboy how is that? :// Is it necessary to find the culprit in the situation? :///

    • @ApatheticPyrite
      @ApatheticPyrite ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@user-er3jy3zm8b Cut the bs. A good friend would have kept this shit inside instead of putting someone they allegedly care about in an awkward and awful position. You KNOW the person in a couple isn’t going to say yes, you just want to get it out of your system for your own sake and ego, regardless of how it may affect others. When you love someone or respect them you don’t do that.

    • @gotcha4006
      @gotcha4006 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao. Tbh it was interesting for me to watch someone with seemingly less appropriate social skills than me haha

  • @alexx.maxiii
    @alexx.maxiii ปีที่แล้ว +336

    when she said “i have a lot of crushes” i felt that lol 😂😂😌💀

  • @caleb0388
    @caleb0388 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    That guy who called the woman who has a boyfriend should've just kept it on the inside

  • @joshantonio5759
    @joshantonio5759 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    “I think of you like a brother.” DAMN that’s tuff son

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz ปีที่แล้ว +106

      He called someone who had a bf. Like no..

    • @gabimgmg
      @gabimgmg ปีที่แล้ว

      definitely deserved it though

    • @YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year
      @YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DA-js7xz there could've been a chance his crush and her bf were poly or interested in an open relationship.

    • @donjohn281
      @donjohn281 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      he cried in the car

    • @bunny-bunny-bunny
      @bunny-bunny-bunny ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@TH-cam_gets_dumber_each_year if they were an open couple her immediate response wouldn't be calling out the fact that she has a boyfriend that he's met before.

  • @valxem
    @valxem ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I’m being 100% completely honest and I’m not exaggerating at all when I say that you couldn’t give me any amount of money to do this. Like there isn’t even a possibility. Props to these folks!

    • @snurtole
      @snurtole ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i would take a billion and split it with my crush once i explain the situation afterwards. even better is if ur crush actually likes u too and now ur happily together with loads of money :)

    • @victorlewis7635
      @victorlewis7635 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This proves women cannot stand rejection lmaoo, so they prefer to do the rejecting

    • @valxem
      @valxem ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@victorlewis7635 okay 👍🏻

    • @autumnwinter1462
      @autumnwinter1462 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@victorlewis7635 Rejection is very hard for people in general. Don’t generalise.

    • @victorlewis7635
      @victorlewis7635 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@autumnwinter1462 we get rejected everyday, we know more about that then y'all, we're just less emotional about it

  • @arielleolivia1164
    @arielleolivia1164 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    the "Oh No" really got me..

  • @forehead4sale546
    @forehead4sale546 ปีที่แล้ว +1516

    “Do you think I’m attractive?”
    “Umm I don’t think so”
    “Oh no😯”
    Like damnnn they were cold😢

    • @moussamalki1544
      @moussamalki1544 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      It's not cold it's just the truth

    • @itsbigdawg3936
      @itsbigdawg3936 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I’m sorry call me bitter but the friendship would be pretty
      much over after that like it’s no coming back from that and awkwardness would just be too much lol.

    • @oslowcloud
      @oslowcloud ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That did hit pretty hard 😂

    • @lisib4835
      @lisib4835 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They should've been happy to be told they're not attractive

    • @itsbigdawg3936
      @itsbigdawg3936 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@lisib4835 lmfao who would be happy to be told that??? Attractiveness is subjective but come on now. Regardless of how someone actually looks no one would be happy to be told their ugly, and tbh I personally didn’t find the guy physically unattractive I would say his voice and femininity is unattractive to me.

  • @inchw0rm
    @inchw0rm ปีที่แล้ว +226

    aw i feel so giddy for ppl who get to make plans from moments like this haha cute

  • @raimoore99
    @raimoore99 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    This would be the worse thing to do in general but especially on camera where everyone can watch me be possibly rejected.

  • @lucwijngaard8413
    @lucwijngaard8413 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    How do people have the confidence to do this? ON CAMERA!!! LIVE!!!

    • @CloudStudiosPhoto
      @CloudStudiosPhoto ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For some people it gives them the courage and the reason to do something they wouldn’t normally do. Worse comes to worse you can always blame it on some TH-cam video you happened to be on.

    • @lisib4835
      @lisib4835 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because they have it

  • @Honey_imProbablyCryingRn64
    @Honey_imProbablyCryingRn64 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I'm actually jealous! I haven't had a crush in year's and I love the feeling of crushing on someone!

    • @dalladi
      @dalladi ปีที่แล้ว +32

      You do!? Oh god I don't. Feels like I'm suffocating but finally breathing at the same time...no thanks

    • @kt334
      @kt334 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same! It’s been a while since I felt anything for anyone and I miss it. I miss the butterflies.

    • @Honey_imProbablyCryingRn64
      @Honey_imProbablyCryingRn64 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kt334 fr thats exactly how I feel!

    • @AerionTargaryen24
      @AerionTargaryen24 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm the same way, when I was younger I had strong feelings for people but after all the heartbreaks I don't really have crushes I just have passing fancy's but they die off quickly so I kinda miss the feeling of liking someone and they might like you back.

    • @Honey_imProbablyCryingRn64
      @Honey_imProbablyCryingRn64 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AerionTargaryen24 fr I know what you mean about the feelings dying quickly. For me I really just miss that butterfly feeling

  • @MorganHorse
    @MorganHorse ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “That’s okay. I’m glad that we’ve established this”
    I love that

  • @girl4nietzsche
    @girl4nietzsche 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    the “and that’s okay!” girl has such a healthy mindset, she seems really fun to be around

  • @eliseestes4187
    @eliseestes4187 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    My nosey ass would LOVE to hear updates on how this has worked or not worked out for these people. Thanks.

  • @lotusstargirl5507
    @lotusstargirl5507 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Imagine having a crush that likes you back

    • @B-lazer3
      @B-lazer3 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Literally 😭

    • @sveiniscute9101
      @sveiniscute9101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That would be a dream come true.

  • @anhhel
    @anhhel ปีที่แล้ว +85

    The was she says bachata has me screaming 😭😭

    • @tachis2617
      @tachis2617 ปีที่แล้ว

      mannn like did u even try? 💀💀

    • @boo8399
      @boo8399 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m confused. How are you supposed to say it?

    • @jorgegil6596
      @jorgegil6596 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@boo8399 he pronounced it correctly

  • @daniellehousewright9068
    @daniellehousewright9068 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    "Are you attracted to me?"
    "Um, I don't think so."
    "Oh no."
    This is so me

    • @user-kv3rj4cv8i
      @user-kv3rj4cv8i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But also the response was very respectfully saving the friendship: "I get a lot of joy out of being friends and I do not want to change that". Maybe the person had very bad experiences with relationships in romantic or sexual ways and is really preferring a person next/ aside who will stay and who has genuine, stable love and intimacy without drama.

  • @liukang5238
    @liukang5238 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    3:00 played it like a legend ngl

  • @agstruestory
    @agstruestory ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “Aw Erin, do you have a crush on me?” Gave ME butterflies bro…

  • @shalardi
    @shalardi ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Is that guy Kai seriously shooting his shot knowing she has a boyfriend? So disrespectful. God, she was way too nice. I would've told him to never contact me again.

  • @marysamson9228
    @marysamson9228 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Calling to tell them you have a crush is one thing BUT asking if they find you attractive and asking the scale, is a big ouch

  • @TNorville101
    @TNorville101 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    As a fellow dancer, don’t date someone in the community. It definitely leads to a pretty uncomfortable period, if the relationship falls through.

    • @retrominz
      @retrominz ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Do you say it's uncomfortable because it can be awkward seeing the other person at the dancing studio ?

    • @jareerareerarr5053
      @jareerareerarr5053 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@retrominz yeah

    • @TNorville101
      @TNorville101 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@retrominz exactly. I know all people are different, but for the overwhelming majority, it will usually lead to one or both of the dancers not continuing in the community.
      I met my ex dancing, and we split after 5 years. It was amicable, almost as equally wanted from both parties as you can get. But even then, we both were avoiding the events, just in case we ran into each other. She’s completely stopped being involved, while I have gotten back into it.

    • @zaksharman
      @zaksharman ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I relate to this as an actor. I dated a fellow actor for about 3 months back in college and she ended up cheating on me with a woman and afterwards it became just unbearably awkward whenever we had to work together during lectures.

    • @icutepanda999i
      @icutepanda999i ปีที่แล้ว

      whats a community?

  • @sayujams
    @sayujams ปีที่แล้ว +19

    its so cute to see people get excited and squirmy when they get the response they are hoping for. Humans are cute sometimes

  • @geliyamigulina8146
    @geliyamigulina8146 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Gosh, I miss Fear Pong

  • @-taylord2am-473
    @-taylord2am-473 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This episode was at a all time high for awkwardness for sure 😭😅

  • @pichichisosa3110
    @pichichisosa3110 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    The audacity he had to call someone who he clearly knew had a boyfriend 😂

  • @sigmachad5771
    @sigmachad5771 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Yeah Your boyfriend right....??
    💀💀💀

  • @deadlyNightshade789
    @deadlyNightshade789 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I'd genuinely rather die than do that lol

  • @marcushailey8498
    @marcushailey8498 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I'm not that bold! I work at Starbucks and asked my crush (who is a customer) out when we had downtime. I was so nervous, I spilled two drinks and 1/2 gallon of milk from being clumsy 😂😂.She got a good laugh but inside I was crying 😭😂.

    • @shoelacedonkey
      @shoelacedonkey ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Did she accept though?

    • @marcushailey8498
      @marcushailey8498 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@shoelacedonkey she did. Went on a couple date's but remain friends. I'm glad when she comes in for her coffee, it's not awkward 😂

    • @marcushailey8498
      @marcushailey8498 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But that's life 😜. Love to live it and continue to move on ☺️.

    • @VitalProsperity
      @VitalProsperity ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yo I work at Starbucks too. I’m clumsy to begin with so I know I would be dropping stuff in that situation.

    • @joycor1419
      @joycor1419 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Flipping the script here, i got asked out by a customer when I worked at Starbucks. Through the drive thru window. He’d come in a couple times and when I said no, he didn’t come back. Which I’m thankful for.

  • @ShadowCeltic
    @ShadowCeltic ปีที่แล้ว +27

    2:58 girl who took that L. You are a trooper and I hope you find someone in your life. I would date you if I had a chance just because you a real one in my eyes lol keep your head up

    • @ysmaboy
      @ysmaboy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I actually like her a lot. She's pretty ❤

  • @Kashmoneygodzilla
    @Kashmoneygodzilla ปีที่แล้ว +12

    4:29 why she look 60 and 25 at the same time 😂

  • @BlaxkSun
    @BlaxkSun ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The “thats okay woman” I want her to win In love, she seems great.

  • @jhonney2chainzz326
    @jhonney2chainzz326 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "Notoriously single" is my favorite lines!!!!😂😂😂

  • @crumblyairship
    @crumblyairship ปีที่แล้ว +6

    it's fucked up that he asked KNOWING the girl had a boyfriend. why would you ever put her in that situation?

  • @JhuntdaProdigy
    @JhuntdaProdigy ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Kai is officially the most cringe phone call I’ve ever seen on this show. The latina lady isn’t all that far behind him though, getting rejected and then telling the dude “You’re not allowed to go get a girlfriend” is mental illness. 😊

  • @notaj14
    @notaj14 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bro said “Oh no!” 💀

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good for that one girl for standing up for her boyfriend Matthew and the other guy telling the girl he wasn’t interested in being with her.

  • @theobertrand6852
    @theobertrand6852 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That's just so sad for those who got rejected, a 100 times more than it's been happy for those who got the surprise to know the reciprocity

  • @anamikasansar6073
    @anamikasansar6073 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Agressively" 💘

  • @hypnotise
    @hypnotise ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Are you single?"
    "Yes, notoriously"
    💀💀

  • @goob27
    @goob27 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    2:08 "oh no" 😭

  • @dequanrabb_diizypeeples4426
    @dequanrabb_diizypeeples4426 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Damn I respect the reality in this 🙌🏾👏🏾 it’s about time someone shows that love isn’t a fairytale

  • @teejay147
    @teejay147 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Please keep posting videos like this!!

  • @Ceerads
    @Ceerads ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The woman who warned the guy to not get a girlfriend has a lot of nerve. He’s free to do whatever he wants.

    • @nikar3ynold515
      @nikar3ynold515 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have tons !! He better not stomp on my heart again by getting some unworthy bitch lol

  • @irishwolfie4441
    @irishwolfie4441 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I don’t know how people do that on camera-

  • @oycyxixti.hl.grzyzyt
    @oycyxixti.hl.grzyzyt ปีที่แล้ว +3

    5:36 that aggressive YES! Lol so sweet

  • @coconutwater4531
    @coconutwater4531 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    7.5 is a high rating girl!!

  • @ch4ist10n
    @ch4ist10n ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Like a brother to me is crazyyyy

  • @isabeltoralbo9277
    @isabeltoralbo9277 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Respect relationships, for god’s sake.
    Set your ego aside, I understand your feelings are strong, but you put the other person in a very uncomfortable situation. You’re overstepping boundaries and as someone who has been in her shoes, it’s horrible to handle that situation. You won’t gain anything from not respecting your friends’ relationships.

    • @rapakko
      @rapakko ปีที่แล้ว +16

      100% agree, such a dumb idea to tell you have a crush on someone when you know they are already in a relationship

    • @ripdajacker23
      @ripdajacker23 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is it ok for that person to feel a way about her and remain silent? Just so she can feel ok in her relationship while he hides the pain?? That’s retarded…
      The woman rejected him while being loyal to her relationship as she should. End of story, nothing disrespectful from either of them. They both now have things clear; they either continue as friends or they choose to end the friendship

    • @lisib4835
      @lisib4835 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can only set the ego aside when you can pick it up like its a person

  • @zairehaylock4974
    @zairehaylock4974 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I would rather ask my celebrity crush out on a date, and that date is Gemma Chan.

  • @Treesloan25
    @Treesloan25 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'd rather do 100 hours of community service then call my crush and tell him this. I also have a huge fear of rejection so...

  • @Chiiyaam
    @Chiiyaam ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That brother-zone gotta HURT. 3:35

  • @simonisenberg4516
    @simonisenberg4516 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These success stories are the best happy medicine. And even if it doesn't work out, at least people can move on.

  • @antibullshit
    @antibullshit ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This reminds me of how long I haven't had a crush on anybody, going on 5 years 😭

  • @SpookyRatLoL
    @SpookyRatLoL ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Guy is wrong as hell for calling someone who he knows has a bf

  • @notacriminal7542
    @notacriminal7542 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I think that attraction is natural, its natural to feel attraction towards others, and also totally natural not to! and sometimes we can develop an attraction toward someone who is in a relationship just like the guy in this video. What I do think, however, is that it is up to you how you handle that attraction. and you do ultimately have control over how you choose to act on it. In my personal opinion, I think calling someone with a boyfriend and asking them something like that head-on is not the best way to go about it. it puts them in a really difficult situation. I think if you do have feelings for someone in a relationship, and you really feel as though you have to tell them because it is having an impact on you or others in your day-to-day, possibly in a negative fashion, then you should let them know. If that is something that you think would help you let go of it that is. But I think you should have an honest discussion about it. Communicate to them how you feel, respecting the fact they are in a relationship and you do not expect it to go anywhere. And then if there is a chance that person feels the same way, it's very important not to cross any boundaries into engaging with them whilst they still have a partner. Relationships are complex, and there are real people involved, so real people who can get hurt based on how you handle this.

  • @beantown702
    @beantown702 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    how she pronounced Bachata really irked my soul

  • @PeopleTheseDays373
    @PeopleTheseDays373 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The ones that were disappointed I felt bad like I was the one doing the calling or on the other end of the call🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @sophsbookss
    @sophsbookss ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the rejection in this video goes HARD

  • @sophsbookss
    @sophsbookss ปีที่แล้ว +1

    person with the white shirt and stache took that so well, bravo

  • @matcha_man
    @matcha_man ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Cut is really out here doing some match making

  • @CloudStudiosPhoto
    @CloudStudiosPhoto ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I get why most people as why others would do this for the channel, but this is my take. For some people, the camera, the team, the grandness of it all and the spur of the moment decision to go through with something like this is what gives them the courage and the reason to do something they wouldn’t normally do. Worse comes to worse you can always blame it on some TH-cam video you happened to be on. 🤙🏽

  • @kiarrathomas1
    @kiarrathomas1 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is the best video I’ve ever seen, I love seeing people speak their truth 🥹 I wanna be on one lol

  • @Stacy473
    @Stacy473 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like they make it sound so easy just to call them and tell them “I have a crush on you “

  • @lechugsrevenge
    @lechugsrevenge ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I NEED a follow up!

  • @Whirlbee
    @Whirlbee ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awww this was cute!

  • @dominoxheartsyouxnot
    @dominoxheartsyouxnot ปีที่แล้ว +3

    jake: dO u HaVe a CrUsH oN mE? WoOoWwWw

  • @reneejames4034
    @reneejames4034 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was SO cute. Do more please!!

  • @user-Anas.
    @user-Anas. ปีที่แล้ว +4

    3:54 i dont think he would answer anymore 💀

  • @endlessellc8457
    @endlessellc8457 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Y’all have BIG baws to do this. OMG. My anxiety could neverrrrrrrrr

  • @idontknow-ms8mc
    @idontknow-ms8mc ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I could never. I would never.
    I applaud them for their courage though.
    My crushes 9.9x out of 10 had/have NO idea of my feelings.
    Thats my problem. Lol.

  • @sarahortiz8191
    @sarahortiz8191 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    5:56 agreed! I have always been friend zoned when I was younger and felt disappointed all my other friends had people after them. When I got into college I strangely started having all these guys after me. I met someone through a friend and I didn't expect anything to happen because I didn't think I was their type. Hah next thing ya know till this day we've been together for 5 years! So never let your doubts get in the way, life is short and go for the risk!

  • @gabrielcisneros8158
    @gabrielcisneros8158 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The guy who went “oh no” omg my heart sank 😭😭

  • @lieveacademy
    @lieveacademy ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really do feel for Erin. I mean, I got a crush on her just seeing her

    • @erinreamey
      @erinreamey ปีที่แล้ว

      omg hahaha thank you

    • @lieveacademy
      @lieveacademy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@erinreamey Wow, you literally replied my comment. Take me to the clouds 😍, can I get your socials?

    • @lieveacademy
      @lieveacademy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@erinreamey Sorry, found it already

  • @alexrseeberger
    @alexrseeberger ปีที่แล้ว +2

    these folks are so brave

  • @learnenglish-vc7un
    @learnenglish-vc7un ปีที่แล้ว

    i do not know from where they build up the confidence and the courage to come here

  • @brownskinbeauty.
    @brownskinbeauty. ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I had to pause the video after Erin gave her answer, she's that girl without even trying. The fact that she's shy and not overly confident makes her more attractive. Get it girl, Jake better snatch you up while he can. After this video I'm absolutely certain a lot of guys will be searching for her on social media.
    After watching the whole video, I give the participants props because there's no way I would ever do this. I'm happy for everyone who's crushed liked them back, and for the others too. Even though feelings aren't reciprocated, that does help you grow mentally and emotionally. Now you can move on and not waste your time wondering about all the "what ifs"

    • @erinreamey
      @erinreamey ปีที่แล้ว +4

      this was so kind omg i keep re-reading your comment

    • @xens4329
      @xens4329 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@erinreamey no bcs u are so that girl, i wish i gave off the energy u were !!

    • @zzz-wx7jr
      @zzz-wx7jr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Turns out he doesn't like her because they're ex friends in another video

  • @MileyObsession96
    @MileyObsession96 ปีที่แล้ว

    I could never do this. I hate phone calls as it is let alone telling someone I like them, even watching this gave me anxiety but also it was cute for the ones who had a crush back