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Yeah, tell us how those toxic people who gave nobody a chance are now living alone with their 12 cats (women) or haven't showered in 3 weeks and haven't left the gaming room (men),
Elizabeth and Nate are a natural couple. They look like they’ve always been meant for each other. I really hope they make it to the altar and make it for life.
I would be interested on hearing the other side of the story for Love b0mb. Especially since she brought him onto a game show to express feelings. How much was he doing after then video then?!?
Sometimes girls are attracted to the unavailability of a guy. I wouldn’t know if a girl likes me unless she seriously said so. I always gave that I’m not interested mystique, but in reality I was clueless. Once I find out and show interest their opinion of me may change. I guess some people just like the chase 🤷🏽♂️
Some people confuse the honeymoon phase for love bombing. BUT in this case, seeing as I have been love bombed and it all started with kissing that moved things wayyyyy too fast, I think she ultimately made the right decision to protect herself, especially since he immediately kissed her without her consent.
Watching the girl it didn't work out for I could see already in the clips they showed that she felt overwhelmed by his response. Like she's leaning as far back as possible when he tries to kiss her.
but she literally wanted that, and said that she wanted to kiss him but thought he had backed off, however she did feel a bit embarassed and surprised with the hug after and didn`t really want it.
She isn't a great communicator. Nor was he, it seems. "Love bombing" isn't always a negative, but if it feels a certain way, you both have to sit down and speak it, plainly. Evaluate and practice your feelings. Like she said, though, it was a learning experience. Hopefully they have learned the right lessons, and will work on being more explicit, as well as being able to identify their boundaries, and their partner's intentions.
That kiss duo with the shoulder hug in the third girl's original video were really giving love bombing 🙃 Shout out Cut for keeping it real and also showing an occurence were it didn't workout after!
Love bombing is a manipulation tactic. It has to be intentional. Personally, to me it just looked like he was excited that the girl he liked liked him back and even confessed to him so he wanted to hug and kiss her. Even if he did show “too much” affection it wouldn’t be “love-bombing” unless he intentionally did it to influence her feelings towards him
@@fubytv731agreed, with the last statement although I don't know if the guy was manipulative cause to me she seemed to be more lustful towards him than affectionate.
Ugh the 2 couples on here are so gorgeous, not just physically, i mean they way they love each other is such a beautiful thing and the way they work together, play off each other. I love to see them so happy! ❤
Damn the "shy" girl is beautiful. Never caught any of these confession videos but it's great to see how many memories the two couples have made -- and great photos from around Seattle local favs! 👏🏻
The thing about love b0mbing, is that is not always just "loving", but more of a manipulation thing. You love b0mb someone, then ignore them knowing that they will worry why did you change how you act with them, then start the process again. It's usually used (intentionally or not) to keep the other person around and have them on a short leash. Maybe the guy was doing that, and that's why she cut contact with him. If that's the case, you go girl, it's a learning as you said it!
Thank you for saying this, people are reducing it "loving too hard" or being inexperienced and it's not that. I wouldn't treat someone like this and I have little to no experience
One side of the coin sure. But she's also Asian... I hate to say this but they don't usually receive a ton of love from their parents so when someone starts showing them love they will push the other away and refer it as they were love bombing. Happened on several "love reality shows" as example LIB Natalie and shayne. But it could be what you said to.
I’m gonna cry hahahahaha this is so fucking cute. And i wish i was strong enough to tell someone “i really like you, what do you think about actually trying to date each other? Like, be together” i wishhh i could say this
@@noellyventura159 thank you, but they usually say no because they don’t want any commitment or serious relationship in their life. Even before i can explain but that i mean move slowly, but just be together officially and not dating others. But yea. So that’s why i usually never say it…..they obviously like me alot usually, but they just get freaked out by being in something where they actually have to commit lol or actually remember their gf daily.
You can do it! If they say no then that’s okay! I get it if it’s a close friend but if you truly value them and they value you, you guys can talk it out like adults! It doesn’t have to be weird
Nevermind. Got SA’ed this weekend so no more dating for me. Watch your drinks everyone. People are very sneaky with drugging you. Stay safe :( and goodluck. Thanks anyways for the sweet vibes and kindness.
Omg so happy for themmmm So happy for the girl too, she knows what is right to her and that's amazing! She didnt force something she didnt feel complete with and that awesome!
sooooooooo she brought the guy onto a public video to declare her crush to him that she had kept secret and then got turned off when he reciprocated "more" than she wanted? So it was okay for her to go big, but not him....gotcha
Great video. Interesting seeing the "what happened afterwards," with some of these videos. With those that are of course comfortable with sharing the story/coming back to the studio to revisit everything.
I really enjoy this type of video!! You should do more of this interview style and behind the scenes!! I would love to hear other people’s stories and experiences on Cut!!
-"I love you now." The first "I love you" can be a killer if it's not reciprocated. But at the same, it takes time for some to say it. There's various reasons that they are hesitant. I get it. -The single girl didn't go into too much outside of "love bombing." Some have said she may have meant clingy. You don't throw around "love bombing" if that's not what you meant. Love bombing can possibly be part of abuse. The fact she said love bombing is saying he was possibly abusive. That accusation is damming. That could follow him around for the rest of his life. If the guy came on, he could have given his side. But one thing that should have been asked is if she liked him or liked the idea of liking him. That would have taken it in a different direction.
You can never know from their perspective unless you ask or they tell you - take the initiative and ask, and if they tell you, try to learn from it. If someone's not into it as much as you are, then you wouldn't want to waste your time and energy or theirs trying to pursue more. Instead, use it to improve upon yourself and take that experience to the next relationship.
The "love bombing" one is sad for multiple reasons. The 2 standing out for me: First, if he was sincere and kind guy, she needs therapy to deal with her fear of being loved and I hope he finds someone that loves him the way he deserves. The second is if he wasn't a good person and she did dodge a bullet, so many people are going to talk badly about her anyways. :'(
Real ones know exacccctly what the girl means when she said he 'love bombed' .... plus i think he's weird for kissing her when she seemed to me CLEARLY uncomfortable by it in the OG vid
Wow thank you for doing this with Nate and Elizabeth I've always wanted to know how they ended up Y'all are a great couple❤and I hope you are happy and continue to love yourselves and Lizzy you're so beautiful❤❤❤
I'm glad at least 2 of these couples worked out, but I don't understand the Asian girl's reasoning for breaking up with that guy. I feel like there's more to the story there.
Well yea of course there would be more to the story; I don't think an eight-minute youtube video will ever cover probably months worth of personal experience she may have went through. On a related note, what exactly do you not understand about lovebombing being a reason for breaking up?
@@TheNikohSan Assuming you're asking out of curiosity instead of condescension, I'm simply confused what she's talking about. She was into him and he was into her and yet she didn't like the amount of attention he was giving her. She didn't really explain it much. I don't know. It doesn't matter. It's none of our business anyway.
As someone who has been in a similar situation I can at least give my perspective on it. Love and attraction have a lot to do with who we ourselves are as individuals, our upbringing shapes our patterns/habits and attachment style, our dating experience informs each new relationship - for me, the past two years I've learned that I tend to have an anxious attachment style. For example I had developed an intense infatuation with someone very quickly and wanted to talk to them all the time. After a few dates they started to show they were really into me too, and I was happy in the moment. But soon I was overwhelmed by how much time they wanted to spend together. It felt like if they could spend every possible moment with me they would. It made me uncomfortable. Though I was initially very attracted to them and there were lots of qualities I genuinely liked about them, my accelerated intense affection was driven by my needs/lack of healthy boundaries/lack of self identity than with the person. And because I had already started this journey of learning more about myself, relational psychology, attachment theory, etc, I realized that my intensity must have made people uncomfortable in the past, too. And now that I'm striving for secure attachment I value my alone time and having my own identity independent of a partner, and I value that in someone else too. It can be so much pressure to feel like you're someone else's entire world. So - yes, there's always more to the story. Who can say what else may have transpired between the two of them?
@@artemuycaro I guess that makes sense. I appreciate you sharing your story with me and that you didn't condescend me like the jagoff who responded to me first.
she likes him that much to drag dude to a youtube video shoot to tell him she has a crush on him but then is able to get the ick from being "love bombed". bringing him there isn't overwhelming but him loving you too much is? makes no sense lol
it's not like she brought him onto a cut video to propose to him lol it's a funny experiment to see how her confession evolves over a game of telephone. To me it looks like they both were just caught up in feelings and hormones (they were both 20 years old) and at some point she realized it was way too much, way too fast.
For her to go as far as bringing this man on a camera filmed SHOW, then back out when he "love bombed" her... really breaks my heart for him. That's kind of messed up..
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Doing the lord's work, thank you.
hello
like if you read this
Now do this with the people on the button
I highly doubt any matches lasted
💀
PLEASE
Yeah, tell us how those toxic people who gave nobody a chance are now living alone with their 12 cats (women) or haven't showered in 3 weeks and haven't left the gaming room (men),
YES
I want Cut to revisit every couple as in a where-are-they-now series. Doesn't have to be a long interview, just an update here and there.
Highly recommend this yes please Cut
Like at the end of the video a short sentence or two of where they are now few months later
those 2 bestfriends have my WHOLE heart, goals 😭🖤🖤
who?
“That’s not a secret I have a crush on you too” SO CUTE OMFG IM CRYING
Elizabeth and Nate are a natural couple. They look like they’ve always been meant for each other. I really hope they make it to the altar and make it for life.
The dude in the fear pong confessions whispering "get in there " took me out 😂😂😂
They are too cute
the couple with the curly haired guy is so cute i love them
righttt their bickering here is so cute 4:19
Thank you!!! I know I'm not the only one who's been WISHING for follow up videos for things like this and the button haha
I would be interested on hearing the other side of the story for Love b0mb. Especially since she brought him onto a game show to express feelings. How much was he doing after then video then?!?
He probably didnt even do all that much, she just got overwhelmed emotionally. We'll probably never actually know, but thats my guess
Sometimes girls are attracted to the unavailability of a guy. I wouldn’t know if a girl likes me unless she seriously said so. I always gave that I’m not interested mystique, but in reality I was clueless. Once I find out and show interest their opinion of me may change. I guess some people just like the chase 🤷🏽♂️
Girls when you like them back 😭😭
Some people confuse the honeymoon phase for love bombing. BUT in this case, seeing as I have been love bombed and it all started with kissing that moved things wayyyyy too fast, I think she ultimately made the right decision to protect herself, especially since he immediately kissed her without her consent.
@anonymoushumanhi I find the kissing after the confession weird too.
Watching the girl it didn't work out for I could see already in the clips they showed that she felt overwhelmed by his response. Like she's leaning as far back as possible when he tries to kiss her.
but she literally wanted that, and said that she wanted to kiss him but thought he had backed off, however she did feel a bit embarassed and surprised with the hug after and didn`t really want it.
She isn't a great communicator. Nor was he, it seems. "Love bombing" isn't always a negative, but if it feels a certain way, you both have to sit down and speak it, plainly. Evaluate and practice your feelings.
Like she said, though, it was a learning experience. Hopefully they have learned the right lessons, and will work on being more explicit, as well as being able to identify their boundaries, and their partner's intentions.
Took him to a whole as dating show FOR A CONFESSION but she was the one loved bombed?🤔
the two couples look sooooo good togetheeeerrrrr!! they look so happy and cute! im melting
The fear pong couple is so cute. it seems so genuine!
That kiss duo with the shoulder hug in the third girl's original video were really giving love bombing 🙃 Shout out Cut for keeping it real and also showing an occurence were it didn't workout after!
Love bombing is a manipulation tactic. It has to be intentional. Personally, to me it just looked like he was excited that the girl he liked liked him back and even confessed to him so he wanted to hug and kiss her. Even if he did show “too much” affection it wouldn’t be “love-bombing” unless he intentionally did it to influence her feelings towards him
@@michaeladebayo2474 I think it was more like him coming off too much and too desperate and which ended up putting a lot of pressure on her.
Love bombing does not have to be intentional. In fact most manipulation is not intentional.
@@RyanMacInnes If the intention is not to be manipulative, then how is it a manipulation?
@@fubytv731agreed, with the last statement although I don't know if the guy was manipulative cause to me she seemed to be more lustful towards him than affectionate.
Cut, I want to hear abt how the button winners ended up!!!!! I want the tea w their dates!!
I’m here for this! Love to see how the couples on screen are doing! Cute to see them after matches!
Ugh the 2 couples on here are so gorgeous, not just physically, i mean they way they love each other is such a beautiful thing and the way they work together, play off each other. I love to see them so happy! ❤
Damn the "shy" girl is beautiful. Never caught any of these confession videos but it's great to see how many memories the two couples have made -- and great photos from around Seattle local favs! 👏🏻
The two besties turned lovers 🥹🥹🥹
The thing about love b0mbing, is that is not always just "loving", but more of a manipulation thing.
You love b0mb someone, then ignore them knowing that they will worry why did you change how you act with them, then start the process again. It's usually used (intentionally or not) to keep the other person around and have them on a short leash. Maybe the guy was doing that, and that's why she cut contact with him. If that's the case, you go girl, it's a learning as you said it!
Thank you for saying this, people are reducing it "loving too hard" or being inexperienced and it's not that. I wouldn't treat someone like this and I have little to no experience
One side of the coin sure. But she's also Asian... I hate to say this but they don't usually receive a ton of love from their parents so when someone starts showing them love they will push the other away and refer it as they were love bombing. Happened on several "love reality shows" as example LIB Natalie and shayne. But it could be what you said to.
Glad to see the Entertainment for us viewers evolving into something special for the protagonists. This is so heartwarming 😁
LOVE seeing the outcomes. I always feel sad when I don’t know what happens next for your people.
I’m gonna cry hahahahaha this is so fucking cute. And i wish i was strong enough to tell someone “i really like you, what do you think about actually trying to date each other? Like, be together” i wishhh i could say this
you can! there’s two options for the other person, yes or no. if they say no then move on and someone will eventually say yes. have fun always.
@@noellyventura159 thank you, but they usually say no because they don’t want any commitment or serious relationship in their life. Even before i can explain but that i mean move slowly, but just be together officially and not dating others. But yea. So that’s why i usually never say it…..they obviously like me alot usually, but they just get freaked out by being in something where they actually have to commit lol or actually remember their gf daily.
You can do it! If they say no then that’s okay! I get it if it’s a close friend but if you truly value them and they value you, you guys can talk it out like adults! It doesn’t have to be weird
@@joxxooxI’m ready to commit
Nevermind. Got SA’ed this weekend so no more dating for me. Watch your drinks everyone. People are very sneaky with drugging you. Stay safe :( and goodluck. Thanks anyways for the sweet vibes and kindness.
Damn! The best friends are living their best lives! I hope everyone finds that person for themselves.
Omg so happy for themmmm
So happy for the girl too, she knows what is right to her and that's amazing! She didnt force something she didnt feel complete with and that awesome!
I AM SO GLAD yall made this!! i was rewatching the first couple's fear pong again a day ago and I am just so happy their together!
I love when you have the ppl react to themselves 😂
Thank you for the follow up videos!!! I always hoped you guys would do this with the couples/matches.
Does that mean Cut will get a invite to some weddings? 💒 💒
I love how dedicated we r to the lore 😅❤❤❤
Yes I’m cheezy and a sucker for love, but this was a fun update to watch. Made me smile! Happy everyone got a good takeaway from it!
I’m happy an interview format is back (and still miss “Chansplaining”).
@cut bring back chansplaining 👏🏼👏🏼
This actually healed my hopeless romantic heart
More "In the Dark" videos plz
*crying from how cute Nate is about her*
5:04 she had the after- breakup glowuppp ❤❤
It's nice to see it actually work out sometimes. I had a fun experience with my best friend lol - he freaked out 😬
sooooooooo she brought the guy onto a public video to declare her crush to him that she had kept secret and then got turned off when he reciprocated "more" than she wanted? So it was okay for her to go big, but not him....gotcha
Some people enjoy the chase more than the actual end-goal
it’s just the fact that she went on video again to sort of embarrass him by revealing she was the one that ended things like nooo
@@marissa5429ya, that part got to me too. Like if you are gonna break up over “loving too much”, please don’t go make a video about it.
She's gonna be single for awhile I'm sure
Stoopp because the couples are soo cuteee im crying
Editor knew what they were doing with the pictures at the end and not showing the girl by herself
Great video. Interesting seeing the "what happened afterwards," with some of these videos. With those that are of course comfortable with sharing the story/coming back to the studio to revisit everything.
i’m so happy for the couple from the dark episode omg😭
we need more of these
I really enjoy this type of video!! You should do more of this interview style and behind the scenes!! I would love to hear other people’s stories and experiences on Cut!!
I find it really cool!!
Seriously, can’t stop smiling at the couple from beer pong. I loved them in that video and it makes me so happy to see them now 💕
-"I love you now." The first "I love you" can be a killer if it's not reciprocated. But at the same, it takes time for some to say it. There's various reasons that they are hesitant. I get it.
-The single girl didn't go into too much outside of "love bombing." Some have said she may have meant clingy. You don't throw around "love bombing" if that's not what you meant. Love bombing can possibly be part of abuse. The fact she said love bombing is saying he was possibly abusive. That accusation is damming. That could follow him around for the rest of his life.
If the guy came on, he could have given his side. But one thing that should have been asked is if she liked him or liked the idea of liking him. That would have taken it in a different direction.
Well said!!!
I hope both couples get married and have lots of babies. I'm happy to hear they still are together. I was rooting for them!
this is like how ancient egyptians used to study even more ancient egypt
YAYYYY THE FOLLOW UP WE ALL WANTED!
Loving someone so much that they leave you. You can never know from their perspective but as a guy that shit jades you.
You can never know from their perspective unless you ask or they tell you - take the initiative and ask, and if they tell you, try to learn from it. If someone's not into it as much as you are, then you wouldn't want to waste your time and energy or theirs trying to pursue more. Instead, use it to improve upon yourself and take that experience to the next relationship.
@@missmochiicecreamyou couldn’t ask something that you don’t know is a problem
Treat 'em mean, keep them keen
No wonder y'all are single. Smh
@@DA-js7xz there's only 4 people here
Crying at how cute they are again 😭
3:47 omgg istg I thought that they didn't get together like stoppp 😭✋️
We need more of these! I’m sooo curious about all the couples!
The "love bombing" one is sad for multiple reasons. The 2 standing out for me: First, if he was sincere and kind guy, she needs therapy to deal with her fear of being loved and I hope he finds someone that loves him the way he deserves. The second is if he wasn't a good person and she did dodge a bullet, so many people are going to talk badly about her anyways. :'(
IVE BEEN WATING FOR THIS DAY.
Real ones know exacccctly what the girl means when she said he 'love bombed' .... plus i think he's weird for kissing her when she seemed to me CLEARLY uncomfortable by it in the OG vid
Wow thank you for doing this with Nate and Elizabeth I've always wanted to know how they ended up
Y'all are a great couple❤and I hope you are happy and continue to love yourselves and Lizzy you're so beautiful❤❤❤
this is an incredible idea for a video that can spark the interests of old viewers, keep it up!
Thank you for giving us an update
OMG YES THE LONG AND AWAITED VIDEOOO
We desperately need an update on the wlw couple in the 2nd in the dark video!!
This was so interesting and BTS and wholesome! More of this please!!!
THE VIDEO WE HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR
Lol immediately when he said "scout's honor" I knew he wasn't a scout - wrong salute!!😂
I'm glad at least 2 of these couples worked out, but I don't understand the Asian girl's reasoning for breaking up with that guy. I feel like there's more to the story there.
Well yea of course there would be more to the story; I don't think an eight-minute youtube video will ever cover probably months worth of personal experience she may have went through. On a related note, what exactly do you not understand about lovebombing being a reason for breaking up?
@@TheNikohSan Assuming you're asking out of curiosity instead of condescension, I'm simply confused what she's talking about. She was into him and he was into her and yet she didn't like the amount of attention he was giving her. She didn't really explain it much. I don't know. It doesn't matter. It's none of our business anyway.
As someone who has been in a similar situation I can at least give my perspective on it. Love and attraction have a lot to do with who we ourselves are as individuals, our upbringing shapes our patterns/habits and attachment style, our dating experience informs each new relationship - for me, the past two years I've learned that I tend to have an anxious attachment style. For example I had developed an intense infatuation with someone very quickly and wanted to talk to them all the time. After a few dates they started to show they were really into me too, and I was happy in the moment. But soon I was overwhelmed by how much time they wanted to spend together. It felt like if they could spend every possible moment with me they would. It made me uncomfortable. Though I was initially very attracted to them and there were lots of qualities I genuinely liked about them, my accelerated intense affection was driven by my needs/lack of healthy boundaries/lack of self identity than with the person. And because I had already started this journey of learning more about myself, relational psychology, attachment theory, etc, I realized that my intensity must have made people uncomfortable in the past, too. And now that I'm striving for secure attachment I value my alone time and having my own identity independent of a partner, and I value that in someone else too. It can be so much pressure to feel like you're someone else's entire world. So - yes, there's always more to the story. Who can say what else may have transpired between the two of them?
@@artemuycaro I guess that makes sense. I appreciate you sharing your story with me and that you didn't condescend me like the jagoff who responded to me first.
0:33 I know exactly who's together and who isn't already.
So cute thank you for the update
Finally the follow up to all those stories I wanna know about
she likes him that much to drag dude to a youtube video shoot to tell him she has a crush on him but then is able to get the ick from being "love bombed". bringing him there isn't overwhelming but him loving you too much is? makes no sense lol
it's not like she brought him onto a cut video to propose to him lol it's a funny experiment to see how her confession evolves over a game of telephone. To me it looks like they both were just caught up in feelings and hormones (they were both 20 years old) and at some point she realized it was way too much, way too fast.
2:13 IM SO WAITING FOR ITALIANBACH RN
more follow up!!
Can we get an update on Arron and Analisa it’s been 5 years
i love that the two couples truly seem so happy... 🤍
Now I want to know about Josh and Piper the button winners, any follow up date etc?
Well done Cut, now with the ruthless button
notice how this usually only works when the girl reveals that she has the crush
This is the video I’ve needed!
wait i love this!!
more please!!
6:07-6:13 WHA?!?! YOU wanted Jacob, he gave you affection/love/attention, then you dumped him because...it was too much?! You're insane!
The Asian girl is so cute
What's her @ ?
Wait, so she told him she liked him and wanted to date him and then got turned off by him putting in effort to date her?
Clearly you don’t know what love bombing is
Bro, that "love bombing" is overrated bro, its because of social media.
This is so cuteeeee ❤❤❤ love both of these couples. Please do more follow ups
Cut is AWESOME pure truth and in the end sometimes it just doesnt work out...#Beerpong❤️❤️❤️💁
oh yeah baybeeeee the series we've been waiting forrrr
i want this kinda love.
One day😅
“how many times have you watched this video” yes.
Aww this is so cute 🥹
People in the comments telling on themselves that they don't know what lovebombing is lmaoo
u can tell if it's too quick (the kiss), it's unserious
Thos is wholesome, so sad for the last girl tho. Also the blue couple look alike
Ok YES! Give us update videos 100%!!!
The in the dark couple been together for a whiiile. For like two years. Go them
For her to go as far as bringing this man on a camera filmed SHOW, then back out when he "love bombed" her... really breaks my heart for him. That's kind of messed up..
YES I LOVE THE FEARPONG COUPLE!!!
Justice for my guy Jacob. She brings him on a damn TH-cam video confessing her feelings to then feels “love bombed” crazy
He'll be fine he'll defend his title someday 😂😂
Jacob is at the gym right now plotting his redemption video 🤣
@@jessiequinton9974 nahhhh he's prolly chillin
Ah yes, Invite a guy to confess your crush on him and when he starts "love bombing" you, you just break up with him :D
coherent 👌🏻
rational ☝🏻
mature 👍🏻
Why the quotes around love bombing? You don't think it exists?
You need a trigger warning because my heart couldn't handle this. Too cute!
The CUT's inbox be like 🌧🌧🌧
More of these please!
want the button version on this