Real Friends - Mess

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    New album ‘The Home Inside My Head’ available now.
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    LYRICS
    The patience I once had is running away with my youth
    Away in its hands
    I’ve been neglecting who I am
    That’s just who I was back then
    Don’t need to be perfect, just happy
    I’m still a lost boy
    Last year I was a train wreck, now I’m just a mess
    I’m letting go so I don’t lose myself
    Every once in a while I listen to Death Cab and think about how it used to be
    We thought that we knew the answers
    When no one was asking the questions
    Last year I was a train wreck, now I’m just a mess
    I’m letting go so I don’t lose myself
    I’m starting to be where I need to be
    It feels like I’ve been taking the long way for a while now
    Haven’t been at home in more years than I care to say
    I keep letting my past carve out what the present shouldn’t be
    What I shouldn’t be
    Music video by Real Friends performing Mess. (C) 2016 Fearless Records, a division of Concord Music Group, Inc.
    vevo.ly/G7Po4k
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ความคิดเห็น • 416

  • @cassidybryant3250
    @cassidybryant3250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I remember watching this when it came out and I thought after almost three years and turning into an "adult" things would feel different but it still hits just as hard

    • @yashodhaan
      @yashodhaan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel you. I wish I could say it'll hurt less, but I'm not sure myself. But hey, we're all in this ride together! :)

    • @cassidybryant3250
      @cassidybryant3250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yashodhaan burange exactly! But we’ve got this

    • @TheOctomasprime
      @TheOctomasprime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!!!!

    • @frankbonilla4922
      @frankbonilla4922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

    • @jonnelsonjdn
      @jonnelsonjdn ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wait until you have a kid, and see how hard it hits *again* - wanting them to grow up happy, with good friends. The song and video keep hitting hard, just in different ways.

  • @lexuschristopher23
    @lexuschristopher23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Dan is so jumpy and happy when performing, I
    love him so much lol

    • @clapz1710
      @clapz1710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I saw him before and he was wasted but his aura was pure joy

  • @jacoba2901
    @jacoba2901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    it's amazing how music can reach you even at your darkest and let you know you're not alone and those notes and words turn into the brightest stars in your night sky-they show hope breaking through even the most desolate emptiness inside

  • @MichaelMartinMedia
    @MichaelMartinMedia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The nostalgia I feel from watching this video is incredible. Makes me miss being a kid.

  • @loser_x
    @loser_x 7 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    damn real friends, hitting us in the feels again

  • @wesleyshippuden
    @wesleyshippuden 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Dan invented biking.
    This band is incredible! The MV is so beautiful
    also eat your vegetables, frens.

  • @blacktaxi2d
    @blacktaxi2d 7 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    this video makes me feel like im 14 again

  • @ahduhj
    @ahduhj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This was such a fun music video to be a part of! Shoutout to all the dead fake candles that were stepped on throughout the making of this video rip

    • @lyricistrito
      @lyricistrito 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      oh wait wtf ! I only started getting into Real Friends recently and i didn't know you're in this video . I'm a MMATA fan !

    • @hughmanatee2330
      @hughmanatee2330 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yo I fuckin love MMATA

  • @m80thebrawler1
    @m80thebrawler1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    wow, has that 90s feel

  • @lesstalkmorerock
    @lesstalkmorerock 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is actually one of the best music videos I have ever seen.

  • @keplerr1512
    @keplerr1512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i actually got to be an extra on this set two years ago! it was a super long day and i was exhausted but it was SO much fun. we got to meet the boys and i gave brian some fan art. everyone had such high energy all night. i miss it!

  • @strawberriemilq
    @strawberriemilq ปีที่แล้ว +2

    its that time of year again folks

  • @jaocaballero
    @jaocaballero 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I miss them so much. The music that makes me calm everytime my mind is not okay. Thank you Real Friends! I miss your music.

  • @sunlightheaded
    @sunlightheaded 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Another Halloween gone, and this is still the most nostalgic tune that makes me ache for next October 🖤

  • @tvandritalin
    @tvandritalin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    AMAZING! I love it

  • @brynnecantfly
    @brynnecantfly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    so excited i got to be a part of this!!!! this is rad!!!

  • @megannickerson8364
    @megannickerson8364 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was so much fun to film and it turned out so good!!

  • @HelloShelay
    @HelloShelay 7 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    MY BOYFRIEND LIT THE BAG ON FIRE IM SO PROUD💘

    • @michalmyslivecek8205
      @michalmyslivecek8205 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      satchelaise

    • @L_kid2
      @L_kid2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello, Shelay I saw him

    • @HelloShelay
      @HelloShelay 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      he cute

    • @HelloShelay
      @HelloShelay 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** :DD

    • @L_kid2
      @L_kid2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hello, Shelay you two are the most cutest couple ever

  • @Haazeeeel
    @Haazeeeel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I listen this song every year ♥️

    • @Haazeeeel
      @Haazeeeel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Another yeaar 🎃

  • @BadSodaProductions
    @BadSodaProductions 7 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    best music video of the year

    • @BadSodaProductions
      @BadSodaProductions 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Alternative Press better nominate this for best vid

    • @spamdad
      @spamdad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they did !

  • @MeliciousTheDark
    @MeliciousTheDark 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Did anyone else feel like crying while watching some of this?...Or am I just an emotional "Mess"? 😂

  • @TheTlMEWARP
    @TheTlMEWARP 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    one of those songs where I wish the chorus would go on forever

  • @paulhardiek7881
    @paulhardiek7881 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fun fact real friends is from my home state of Illinois they are from Tinley park I miss the original singer he was a entertainer on stage I saw him live 7 times love this band

    • @Wrxowner
      @Wrxowner 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sad I never got to see them with this dude as the singer

  • @hunter112000
    @hunter112000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I fucking love this band

  • @RaWCLiiNCHER
    @RaWCLiiNCHER 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Damn this shit fire. Bike scene and lyrics go so good together.. word

    • @rhiannon8522
      @rhiannon8522 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love the 90 vibes it gives off

  • @rhiannon8522
    @rhiannon8522 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Listening to this after reading his post on Facebook this song seems so happier and I'm so proud of him

  • @ayeshamisty37
    @ayeshamisty37 7 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    DAN LOOKS SO CUTE

  • @bryanketcham9922
    @bryanketcham9922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    literally everything i wanted the starting line to be as a kid lol im old af now but appreciated this

  • @zacharylupstein3758
    @zacharylupstein3758 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember when this band first started. It was back when on top of your Facebook you had your most recent five photos, that didn't last long, but they added like literally every kid in the suburban Chicago area so every profile had a photo of real friends. Then they were at warped tour in Tinley park probably 2010 maybe 2011 handing out flyers and everything. These guys got so big so fast! Very well deserved so good, and love the hometown guys!

  • @jz9322
    @jz9322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s that time of the year again

  • @unclekizaru5386
    @unclekizaru5386 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don't need to be perfect, just happy

  • @shonaalannah
    @shonaalannah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why did I think this came out last year... how is this 4 years old wtffff

  • @John12494
    @John12494 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just saw them last night, they opened with this and it was awesome. Dan had a whole speech about not judging others and being good to each other.

  • @barbscheeler5427
    @barbscheeler5427 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great job by the little boy on there !!

  • @Rizz3n
    @Rizz3n 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I absolutely love you guys! Such a beautiful video.
    Can't wait to see you live again in December!

  • @hannah-vv9ru
    @hannah-vv9ru 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how they all look so happy in this video 💕❤

  • @aaronchamberlain4698
    @aaronchamberlain4698 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Now I really want to watch this Freaks and Geeks episode again.

  • @artificiallyflavord5588
    @artificiallyflavord5588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RIP Real Friends

  • @ty.nollay1384
    @ty.nollay1384 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just recently I've started to pay more attention to the lyrics of the music i use to listen and damn, this song came in the right time. I feel so related to this and to "well i'm sorry". Both songs are so powerful to me in this period.

  • @TaraSerendipityDogs
    @TaraSerendipityDogs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This song means so much to me! Love the video!
    4 days till I see them in concert again!

  • @diegozamora2942
    @diegozamora2942 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This music video is one of the best ones I've ever seen

  • @cory3212
    @cory3212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    happy halloween 🎃

  • @IPunchWerewolfBand
    @IPunchWerewolfBand 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We love Real Friends so much😘

  • @akihitori1250
    @akihitori1250 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is seriously the cutest thing ever. i love that they involved fans.

  • @youtubeuser9508
    @youtubeuser9508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video reminds me of all those times when i struggled to fit in a place i didn't belong, trying to make friends with jerks or look cool

  • @daretodreamproductions
    @daretodreamproductions 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man that really made me have chills down my spine. Can't wait to see them in concert!

  • @Mrgrimlock2
    @Mrgrimlock2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's a must for me to listen to this song once a week lmao

  • @S3CT0R49
    @S3CT0R49 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this song and happy they made a music video for it but i wish they made one for ive given up on you its their most popular song

  • @jayspencer2591
    @jayspencer2591 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing i loved it so much!

  • @lizgalvan4601
    @lizgalvan4601 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    the absolute best

  • @JayordanC
    @JayordanC 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    never was too into this band before, but they killed it this album.

  • @sleepingwithpanicatthedisc7740
    @sleepingwithpanicatthedisc7740 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Since it's so close to Halloween I had to watch this video. Gets me into the season.

  • @lachlanwood61
    @lachlanwood61 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this always makes me wanna cry

  • @tomkeefe3758
    @tomkeefe3758 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you guys for being amazing

  • @thatmoses
    @thatmoses 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the perfect halloween anthem

  • @blurryer
    @blurryer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this!

  • @seriouspotato7915
    @seriouspotato7915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Frickin feels man.

  • @HeyitsMeghan888
    @HeyitsMeghan888 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    soooooo amazing omfg.

  • @Mrgrimlock2
    @Mrgrimlock2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ITS THAT TIME A YEAR AGAIN THIS VIDEO IS RELEVANT LETS GOOOO

  • @henryayala7523
    @henryayala7523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Me encanta esta banda. llevo grabadas sus canciones en mi mente. like si eres latino y te gusta a ti tambien. 🤙🏻😎👈🏻

    • @milo3463
      @milo3463 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dan es mitad latino xd

  • @WonderingNomad311
    @WonderingNomad311 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this song!

  • @saltypitza4851
    @saltypitza4851 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love these guys! Whenever i listen to them, they bring back so many memories! I hope you guys will come to malaysia one day

  • @yourivonk706
    @yourivonk706 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    the clip kinda broke my heart???

  • @ivanmoreno2161
    @ivanmoreno2161 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    best band ever nowadays!!! brings me back to the amazing 2000s bands :D thank u real friends!!

  • @MarshallVeeMarshall
    @MarshallVeeMarshall 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this

  • @briancastro5199
    @briancastro5199 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i listen to this song like every night i just love it

  • @ivanmoreno2161
    @ivanmoreno2161 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    fuken love this song so much

  • @cloverr3418
    @cloverr3418 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's that time of year again :DDDDDD

  • @ROY57ON
    @ROY57ON 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Probably the one halloween-themed music video this year that basically says fuck halloween. lol

  • @eduardoalvear5615
    @eduardoalvear5615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AMAZING BAND

  • @TheTlMEWARP
    @TheTlMEWARP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watch this video every single Halloween

  • @steveoldatol4975
    @steveoldatol4975 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    110% BEAUTIFUL I LOVED IT!!!!

  • @fbidownontheground5250
    @fbidownontheground5250 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    IF ONLY I WAS IN PHILADELPHIA WHEN THEY SHOT THIS VIDEO

  • @_misomisa
    @_misomisa 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it! 😭

  • @Officer_Main69
    @Officer_Main69 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this

  • @natashamalman9196
    @natashamalman9196 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The patience I once had is running away with my youth
    Away in its hands
    I've been neglecting who I am
    That's just who I was back then
    Don't need to be perfect, just happy
    I'm still a lost boy
    I'm still a lost boy
    Last year I was a trainwreck, now I'm just a mess
    I'm letting go so I don't lose myself
    Every once in a while I listen to Death Cab and think about how it used to be
    We thought that we knew the answers
    When no one was asking
    Asking the questions
    I'm still a lost boy
    I'm still a lost boy
    Last year I was a trainwreck, now I'm just a mess
    I'm letting go so I don't lose myself
    I'm starting to be where I need to be
    I'm starting to be where I need to be
    It feels like I've been taking the long way for a while now
    Haven't been at home in more years than I care to say
    I keep letting my past cover what the present shouldn't be
    What I shouldn't be
    Last year I was a trainwreck, now I'm just a mess
    I'm letting go so I don't lose myself
    I'm starting to be where I need to be
    I'm starting to be where I need to be

  • @ayanchoi4908
    @ayanchoi4908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dan Lambton is just a amazing talented young man.

  • @girisetyanto1167
    @girisetyanto1167 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    dope song!!

  • @WaltherArt
    @WaltherArt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it

  • @g-merr
    @g-merr 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seen them at soundstage in Baltimore . Real friends rock !!

  • @blynq_6215
    @blynq_6215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happy Halloween 2020, friends :)

  • @paulasalvo
    @paulasalvo 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is pure gold and i love this band so fucking much

  • @stuartgrayis
    @stuartgrayis 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    what an awesome video, love it!

  • @aaronaltkid
    @aaronaltkid 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this ❤️

  • @averageasianpod9471
    @averageasianpod9471 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Still a banger in 2023

  • @quentinbringthenumetalchil5125
    @quentinbringthenumetalchil5125 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember listening to this song when it came out. It was one of those rough nights I had at the age of 15. I was so frustrated that I sat on my desk with my head down crying, listening to this. It was rough, but man does this music still hit.

    • @averageasianpod9471
      @averageasianpod9471 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man I feel you. I get so emotional listening to this song. Such a banger. Real Friends got me through some tough times and they still continue to. When I have a bad day I put some Real Friends on and instantly the world is better.

  • @iammisakimae
    @iammisakimae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my soundtrack for this halloween

  • @ibenjosy
    @ibenjosy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Perfect day for this

  • @deanpereira244
    @deanpereira244 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like I would have been a happier person in high school had I heard this song at 14

  • @Dylan-qs6hi
    @Dylan-qs6hi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Halloween 2018, The treats are out, this song is blasting. I think im ready!

  • @kacekylerwhite2648
    @kacekylerwhite2648 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    its beautiful

  • @Morfeucbjr
    @Morfeucbjr 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is amazing! Come to Brazil

  • @gonzalofernandez2773
    @gonzalofernandez2773 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    That get me so deep, thats a real good video.

  • @lawrencegonzales8980
    @lawrencegonzales8980 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love the song and the video :)

  • @turtwiglee6982
    @turtwiglee6982 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope to see you guys in Tempe🙏🏻💜

  • @davidguzman4844
    @davidguzman4844 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    this song is so good live

  • @yuuki-san3410
    @yuuki-san3410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Frick! It took me hours to find this song! I heard this a few months ago, but i forgot the title, the only thing i just remember was friends.
    So i kept typing "that one music video with a girl who looks like beetlejuice" xD but no results shown.
    So i scrolled my history to look and finally i found it!!! :D
    Now ill write my fave songs on a paper from now on.

  • @SamC_182
    @SamC_182 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    very well done video. terrific song. spectacular band. period

  • @lazylangg5418
    @lazylangg5418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was 16 when this song come out, now im in college and still mess

  • @fansanfrisco8490
    @fansanfrisco8490 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    the caption is helping me enjoying the video and sing along