Maybe Tamera dont jump into the fray of racism because she is both black and white , also her offspring, not even to mention that her husband is white , so she cannot really pick sides , she has to stay mutual , because regardless of what she says especially if she goes to profound and then with "degree Amanda " in the mix , whoa , can you imagine how that will go , that will shut social media DOWN. so Tamera knows silence is golden in certain circumstances.
Adrienne is constantly looking at Amanda whenever shes sharing her opinion on these topics as if shes looking for approval. As soon as she saw Amandas face, she threw in that “you would be amazing at this” to cushion it
@@laurasantos4062 exactly, didn't they address that in a segment? Whenever she's speaking to the audience or directly to someone she gets dramatic 😂 and wants to make sure they're feeling what she's saying? hand gestures and nodding in agreement with her
i miss the time on the real when things didn't revolve around Amanda lol, i don't like her attitude at all. Loni holds her to a higher standard than the rest of the women and it's so unfair
And that’s why i don’t like Loni either.. when Tamar was on the show Loni didn’t feel like she had this kind of authority over the ladies. Tamar was dominant and i loved it. In a good way dominant not like Amanda and Loni are now
Tashawna Hamilton omg I’ve been thinking about this!!! Just didn’t want to say it because “it’s racist” (no, it aint). But yes Loni always on her side. Amanda ruined the show for me
Why is Amanda making all these faces when the ladies speak, however, when Amanda speaks everyone hangs on every word. Ladies! you are just as intelligent, stop looking for approval because Amanda is NOT looking for yours! Why? Because she doesn't need it, no shade
Lord I was saying the same thing everytime someone else says something she frowns like only her opinion matters and when she talks they seem scared to disagree.
I think the producers brought her on the show as a political mouthpiece(powerful people sent her there.) Other co-hosts are aware of this and want to keep their jobs. They are walking on eggshells when dealing with her.
Honestly, they’re all annoying to me now. Seriously over their “know everything “ and what they do in their personal lives is facts. Keeping it real doesn’t mean they’re right, just means they are going to speak their opinion but sure isn’t mine.
I know I think the attitude she gives off isn’t a great strategy of teaching people. I think Jeannie and Amanda are polar opposites in their ways of communicating lol some people get mad Jeannie’s too happy and Amanda’s too mean some ppl say
@FitRN not really. Stop making this about race. Everybody hates judgemental people. Amanda is not just a black woman. Jsut because she's seen as judgemental, doesn't mean that it's because she's black
If this was about marriage and kids or Adam she would be talking I am glad Amanda is here last season we had to listen to tam and andrian talk about marriage their kids their homes their husbands relationships kids it was boring. Thank you Amanda now there are conversation and debate about things
imma be real, the whole vibe of the show changed as soon as Amanda started. She brings a very stiff and tension-filled atmosphere to the table... if that makes sense
I beg to differ. She brings intelligence and realness to the show. The conversations were senseless, immature and boring before she got on. Now, I believe they will attract a wider audience.
Nope it doesn't she is bringing some real to the table. If its to hot for you stop watching. Dont need people to sugarcoat their feelings about topics. Vibe on a 100
tia bee The point of the real in the beginning was to have conversations about light senseless things as a break from the all the other conversations and tensions in the world. Now they’re like the View and you’re right about stepping away, they may get new viewers but they may lose their older ones too. I for one don’t bother to watch them like I used to.
Y’all better change this show to The Race because that’s all they ever talk about. Yes, it’s important but the producers are only doing it to bait them into controversy.
Im getting fed up of amanda actually. I was enjoying her, buts shes getting a bit bright. She should give her opinion n knowledge, but her attitude is becoming like shes above everyone else at the table n her opinion is gospel. Humble urself gyal... Ur new.
However silly it may sound, these women are spending their own money to learn and better themselves and a black woman and an asian woman are making money from it. Sounds good to me.
I miss when it was just the four of them. I feel like the new girl doesn't have much personality and just makes faces all the time instead of actually responding. She also throws off the dynamic between the rest of the girls and makes it less entertaining to watch.
It may sound silly but like Jeannie and Adrienne said they are learning from this. I loved the example Jeannie gave about Adrienne because she really didn't know she was saying something wrong, so its dinners like this that can really educate you. The thought behind the dinner is actually pretty good and I'm glad Amanda supported the idea because I thought she would be one to put it down.
If the women that were teaching were doing it for free then Amanda would have hated the idea, but since they are being paid to be there then she's cool with it.
She actually was, did u see her face?🤔 It wasn’t until she was told how great she would be for it that her faces changed. She does not know how to keep a poker face, or just listen without making her thoughts obvious through her gestures. She is a very educated lady, but she is not professional, she needs growth in that aspect.
@@iamsoiexist7192 They obviously just said they ARE over it already, ya dense-headed bafoon. You really thought you were telling someone off, huh? 👎😂😂😂
Brian theta didn't need Amanda ass for that they just as well could have brought more serious tops and not be as uptight as they are now this girl Amanda is Debbie downer for me
And they want to point to her when things fall apart too. She's straightforward and doesn't sugar coat stuff so people are comfortable. That's why NO ONE LISTENS to African/black/Asian/Indian/Hispanic, no one wants to be STRAIGHTFORWARD!
Eduardo Lopez No she doesn't, that's your own stupid assumption. And you're not "so done with her" because you'll be back to complain again. Be grateful Amanda gives you something to talk about
@@traceyhenry7087 I think it's because she is biracial no matter what she says she is going to get backlash so she doesn't say anything. Not knowing silence speaks volumes
She just purposely doesn't speak on Race because her husband Has a lot of views that go against black people's and Amanda's views. Her husband doesn't believe that Racism is a thing.
Welcome to the USA, where Racism is a very prevalent issue that NOBODY wants to discuss 🤔 Wtf do y’all want these topics to be? Lollipops and gumdrops? 🙄
Not to sound disrespectful but I won’t be watching anymore. I’m supportive of the race topics but it is all.the.time. Not to mention they make Amanda the expert and constantly seek her approval. I miss the old real and the original four a lot. I’ve been watching from season one and love all the ladies but lately it’s really been too much for me. Amanda’s gotta go..
I feel the same, I just came onto comments to see if others felt the same as me, I miss Tamar tbh at least she was entertaining, all Amanda does is turn every single thing about race, they could talk about rice and Amanda would make it about race, its too much
Yeah. Sis has let me down. She's obviously afraid of giving her own heartfelt opinion because she's afraid Amanda will attack her over it. Amanda is a bully and comes off as a little manish.
See that’s the way I feel.I’m one of those so called “angry” black women that they talk about.My boss called me in her office one day and told me that I was a great dependable worker but she wanted to speak to me about how I made the other Nurses on the unit feel.She said because I tend to look really serious most of the time and not very sociable that I make some of the Nurses feel uncomfortable.She said none of them ever said that you did anything to them they said you’re just intimidating and I should work on being more friendly and accommodating to my co-workers.lol Now on the surface this conversation was very professional and many may see nothing wrong with it.The funny thing is has it occurred to them that many of us black folks never feel welcomed in this country let alone the work place and are rarely accommodated to.Smh
@@christengardner4780 yes and no. A black person can speak from life experience yes but not all are blacks understand their history or why things are the way they are now. Like finance... You can't teach what you dnt know. Amanda has both the experience and the specialized education in the topic to drop gems. It's not like he is using a diploma for a different degree.
Loni looks bored every episode or talking down on someone and hiding behind being a "comedian ", tamera is losing her voice, jennie is trying to learn more. Adrienne seems like she stayed the same and Amanda, 🤔🙄
The best way to know what is acceptable with any culture is to be inclusive. There's so many ways to do this whether it's joining a mixed book club, exercise class, church etc etc. If you really want to learn about a culture, how about finding ways to increase your social circle. It's also important to know that regardless of what race you are, we all have different backgrounds, upbringing and cultures so inviting one Black person to come to dinner and tell you about their Black culture does not speak for the whole Black race. Let's start with debunking our stereotypes.
This is how far some white people go to try to get approval from black women. And notice that this was specifically a dinner with black women. These are the kinds of things black women are consumed with. The obsession black women have with white women is disturbing.
Should they not be? We don't see racial dinners given for BLK people who feel some kind of way about the white agenda. It's amazing how white people can come up with all kind of cute tatics to go around using common sense.
Blaire White don’t watch then, the show is based on women of colour, the audience they’re targeting isn’t you anyway. You can watch Ben Shapiro, Steven Crowder and Tomi Lahren ... and don’t pay for that if you don’t want to. And it’s funny coming from someone who mostly talk about Trans issues on her channel
@@Noemieorokia The show is HOSTED by women of color and it is on a major network. Anyone who wants to watch it can and this focus of the show is not just the topic of race. It's about pop culture, politics and personal stories.
Blaire your completely right!! Everyone is fucking tired of this race thing constantly EVERY GOD DAMN DAY!! Like I really need you to go one on one with Ms. Intellectual Amanda. And her master's in African studies... It's ridiculous!! At this point! We've come along way from racism! And I just don't understand why keep treating this issue like its some god damn epidemic!! To Me it just seems there making an issue out of nothing! And Amanda is leading all of this in the name of "racism" 🙄🙄🙄 so over it
@@Noemieorokia there audience?? Since when did the real ONLY target black ppl? Oh that's right ever since Amanda got on the show.. and we're tired!! Let's keep a balance! And talk about other topics and then come back to this every so often.. it really is turning ppl off!!
I miss when they talked about FUN TOPICS THAT MEANT NOTHING AND RELIEVED ME FROM THE STRESS OF MY EVERYDAY LIFE. THEY ARE TOO SERIOUS THESES DAYS. WE WATCH TO SEE FUN STUFF!!!!! FUN PEOPLE, FUN!!!!!!
oakley F Yes, I agree. Life isn’t fun but she clearly said “Fun topics that meant nothing and relieved me from the STRESS of my EVERYDAY life” so, in case you didn’t get what she mean’t. She means she needs this show back to their old self to relieve stress, yes they can still have serious topics but a balance of fun and serious topics is pretty good, ever since Amanda Seales started on the show she made the whole table tense, yes she is educated but she just as no fun in her when I personally watch the videos, this is my opinion so you don’t have to necessarily agree with me.
Yeah. I agree. If you have racist thoughts first re wire your brain and learn what is okay and not okay THEN go volunteer to further and give back to a community in need.
This is getting TIREDDDDD!!! Honestly. It’s exhausting. I get that it’s Black History Month. But even still, there’s much more to Black History than just racism, which they’ve been talking about since January. And y’all know January is already a year long! 🤦🏾♂️😩
Black history is American history. They need to talk about it because white folks think If they don't talk about it. It won't. Be known that shameful history. FACTS: While we're side-eyeing white men. Did you know? white women was 40% of the slave owners in chattel slavery. And they are allowed to use the 1964 Civil Rights Act. That was put in place for discrimination against African Americans.So we need to talk and call out the bullish
@SARA that's because Nobody knew. White women was in the slave trade to they omitted them from the history. And we thought they were allies. And you think racism keep being passed down? Women And women can be more vicious than men Read a book call . They were her property. It accounts the viciousness women. Portrayed in slavery
I actually respect the people doing this program. Their families and communities were prob mad racist and it never sat well with them and they want to unlearn it. Props to them
I feel like if people want to see another, chiller side of Amanda, they should cover other topics. Their topic choices used to be way different. She happens to be sensitive about race and inequality so she comes off aggressive. This what i think
ilikemonkeys it’s called THE REAL maybe not in your everyday life, but for a lot of people, racism is REAL everyday. If it bothers you that they speak on this topic it’s probably because you benefit from not speaking about it. Cause no one that deals with it is upset about a topic that has to be spoken about.
This obsession with racism is so unhealthy. There is so much more interesting things in life to talk about. How dull and pointless is to say racism is bad everyday. Literally no one is arguing against that. Are you gonna tell us 2+2 = 4 next? Like we know.
Love this idea. As someone who used to work for an anti-racism non-profit who's spoken to over 1000+ people on the street about race and racism in America, it is a great idea to pay for the emotional and intellectual labor someone is doing to educate you.
I think this show would benefit from adding educated people who have experienced what they mention in some of these talks when they have serious topics. Maybe a video call in.
Moni right?! they’re always talking about diversity but don’t have a white woman on the panel. Quite frankly I don’t see any white woman being comfortable working the with original leader of the black panthers Amanda.
I bet Tam will be leaving the show soon. She has a whole family and winery at home. This show isn’t what it used to be and I just think she’s checking out.
TEACHERS! i'm a teacher in a minority, low income neighborhood and theeee racism and biases are rampant. I am praying that God gets me through this school year without hurting someone. I'm usually calm, quiet, mind my business because I know how these kinds of situations can go left. But this year, the racists have reared their heads in my classroom.
Ok so here’s the thing right... I think if you want to do it... go ahead... HOWEVER you can literally do this for free.. to be able to be courageous and honest enough with yourself to say “ I know the thoughts I have aren’t and weren’t right I need to change and I need help “... I appreciate that but there’s more to do than just use 2 thousand dollars towards one event to learn about the black culture and experience so u can understand us more... there’s several ways to get to know us and break bread and learn about us... i think Adrienne’s idea was good too... a Potluck where everybody gets a chance to learn about everyone’s individual culture and the overall culture ! There’s more work to be done that’s what I’m saying...
I admit I'm racist even to my own race because of my experiences but I admit I feel it's wrong but I grew up hearing"white people" in my black community. When I watched USA election for the first time I got confused on the voter results. It named voters by race and I was appalled. As someone who received racism when I knew none not even the n-word I knew until another 6yr old called me that on my school bus. Since then I became racist. But I have friends of every race, more so than that of my own race who also used reverse racism on me because I "talk white" (Grew up in suburbs with only the other black people I saw actually related to me) So I'm guessing since that first experience at the age of 6, I seem to address everyone by race and even had to check my racist remarks in regards to Chinese people and coronavirus. Just felt your comment encouragd me to share that I recently learned what your saying and I want to address people by their names not their color. I have Chinese friends and I don't want them to be hurt when I see Chinese people with masks and I feel the need to move. I admit I'm finding it difficult to change the way I feel in relation to the coronavirus. I'm sorry I'm just upset at the ones that left China, with undocumented symptoms and travelling knowing they were risking their own lives and others. Example is the Diamond Princess Cruise ship after one guy got sick now 175 including the quarantine officer got the virus. I felt the same for Ebola too. I have a weakened immune system due to Lupusand would be one of the "dead" if I contracted a virus even flu. ( I never get flu or cold) I don't want to unknowingly start becoming racist when it comes to this ordeal. I don't like racism period and am glad this post helped me to communicate this out with others who point this out. Anyhow I'm a 30 year Canadian, black female who recognizes her errors. But I also am tired of hearing racism issues. But it is part of today's reality, so I gotta live with it I guess. Be better. I'm trying everyday to be a better me. This is one issue I've had for over a decade especially towards my own race. This Coronavirus really had some thoughts and words come outta this mouth that shocked me. ✌🏾
They want to be able to get their answers in a safe space. There are a lot of black people who don't have time or the patience to teach white people essentially how to treat other races like human beings. I assume the white people are scared to ask the questions straight up because they don't have a lot of black or asian friends. I think this program will be like a psychological twelve step program. A potluck is not enough. Having a black friend is not enough.
I feel like they need to just stop taking about race on this show, they aren’t getting anywhere and many of these women are bias anyway.. I hate that some of them feel like they are representing all of us and they are not. We are beyond different
I agree with Loni on this one. Something about this feels disingenuous to me. Like Loni had mentioned why not volunteer your time to communities that need your help.
Ok this right here, this is it! This is what I've been waiting for. A civilized discussion on real life issues, conveyed with empathy and compassion. I genuinely appreciated how considerate Amanda was with the other girls, by allowing them to talk. I am the type of person that LIKES to see others succeed. I do not want her to fail. I guess realistically, we forget ( I am 100% guilty of this) that Amanda is from New York, and in that area you have to be hardcore. I think with the political and social climate we live in, people are seeing how tough things are getting. It's hard enough trying to keep a positive mindset amid a civilly unrest world. I honestly think people just want something positive and happy to think about, and watch. I guess my suggestion is to shine the best qualities of these beautiful women. When they discuss their viewpoints, I love it when I see their concern and interest in what others have to say. I also love it when I see they are able to agree to disagree on certain topics. I have a huge amount of respect for people that are able to be mature and appreciate different perspective on life. Just my two cents. Anyways, I do see the progress!
There should be this in schools, for jobs like police officers and politicians. Everywhere really and not just based on black people but other minorities too
Yes there are thiefs and people up to no good in every race and ethnicity. I know someone who when she sees a Latino/latina person think they will steal from her.
This show just turned from real good to real shitty. I used to come here to get away from the problems of the world, but now I’m just being introduced to them again on the show
Jacqueline Marie The definition of privilege is thinking that racism isn’t anything more than REAL. For some people it is REAL. And if you’re getting sick of the topic it’s because you benefit from not speaking about it. Because they’ve been speaking about women’s issues for years and not one person has complained. But now that it involves black people you guys have an issue. Get a grip.
*the problem I have with this is that there is not a handbook on how everyone should act towards everyone of a certain race. Amanda does not write the rules regarding black people...just because she is often the only one in the room offended by something, does not mean that represents the opinions of an entire race and does not mean the comment is racist.*
*PSA* : Not only white people are racist. Also, can they please start talking about other topics.😭 We get it, the world has problems, but this show has become so annoying with all it's constant preaching.
I love Amanda! Let's keep the Educated Black Woman at the Table! "They" only want to see ratched versions of us to feel comfortable and continue to box us in♡♡
Good job for realizing your privilege in some areas and willing to educate yourself. All races should learn how to not offend another, but it’s a process.
At first I thought this was weird as hell, but then I remember how I'm always made to feel like it's my responsability to educate white folks and if I don't, their faux-pas are on ME. Educating people on racism (and misogyny) can be SO emotionally and intelectually exhausting, so I'm glad the yt rich women are going there WILLINGLY and PAYING my sisters for their time and effort.
What I don’t understand is, WHO is excepted to teach these people???🤨. The whole concept just sounds absurd to me. Why do you need to spend that kind of money to know what racism is or to change your mindset? BUY A BOOK!!. Learn history!!, go and travel!! You’ve got all that money, there’s videos on TH-cam you can watch for FREE! that are educational! black people have been having these conversations for decadessss, the information is out there. This is just laziness. Sitting around a table to have an expensive argument 🙄 . But hey, like Amanda said if you feel like this is your ministry, go ahead, it’s your prerogative. Make sure they’re paying you right!
Every day there are atrocities caused by racist, EVERY DAY P.O.C. are unfairly targeted. So It's flabbergasting to read post that say they are tired of hearing about it... People of Color are tired of living it. Love,Love, Love the direction of this show. Please keep up the good work, this is the only show on daytime that educates and informs on these issues...
I absolutely hope the producers of the real don’t take these comments seriously. Because all I see is THE REAL finally being REAL. And if anything they’re growing into a better and more educated audience. Leave all the dusties that aren’t willing to elevate their pallet. You’re going to lose some but in exchange THE REAL will get a better audience and a more engaged one. Because this is what black women and educated WOC have been waiting for forever. Please don’t stop.
Maji Kam For me personally, I dont think the topics are the problem. I actually love that they talk abt topics of substance. I think a lot of people including myself think that theres really no balance tho of also* light hearted topics. But also I think in these “debates” it can start feeling like “The View” when Amanda and Loni start rolling eyes and making condescending faces at the other hosts. And I completely understand “not hostile, im passionate” but rolling of the eyes and all the condescending “girl” that they whispering doesnt make it feel like a safe space for other opinions
Chanel R I can appreciate your perspective, but this world hasn’t made WOC and particularly black women and more particularly dark skin black women, feel safe. Their lively hood isn’t safe. I get wanting some light hearted convos but unfortunately you have to get REAL sometimes. They have a new host that has a masters in a topic. The Real has been doing light hearted topics for years. I think it’s fine if they dedicate some time to REAL topics. And if that makes your uncomfortable, it’s unfortunate because it should make you feel empowered. I do
@@chanelr348 I honestly believe that majority of you all are reading too into things. Women talk like that amongst friends all the time. Little eye rolling and stuff is tbh nothing. Because at the end of the day the ladies are still friends, unlike the panelists of The View. I understand where you're coming from but I just think the little nitpicking of faces lead to unnecessary bashing over these ladies.
It’s like every single day this show talks about race. To me it honestly feels like propaganda. You focus on race so much it’s going to divide us instead of unite us.
What i find funny is the real is having conversation about a major issue RACE and yes it’s been more than most shows would talk about it but this just shows how the media brushes over the conversation and talk about it once but now the real is bringing it up more because ITS A SERIOUS ISSUE THAT HASNT STOPPED ! I applaud them for talking about race I’d rather that than the superficial topics they started to do . I think they need to keep it coming because everyone don’t wanna acknowledge how very present race is still in this country. Keep talking about it keep making people uncomfortable
I love talking about race topics !! Def need more of it !! I love all the Real ladies opinions!! I pray Prosperity to each of the ladies on the Show !! All love and all positivity here ✨❤️🙏🏾🥂
I agree there are a lot of folks who just don’t know. My grandparents were not maliciously racist but they were just by having views from being raise in a different time and no one really showing them. my grandma told me that no one really question it on the white side and if you did you were killed too. Then I married a black man and my grandparents were very open in experiencing the different cultures and they never once questions it or made me or my family feel bad. Sometimes it just takes some teaching.
Sorry, I can’t but Amanda got to go. She is always mad and she just wants her way or no way and the girls act so different around her. Like if they have to ask permission to talk or say I’m sorry for what they think. You can see and feel tension in the air.
They already doing heritage day, flag day, multicultural lunches/parties in schools in NYC. And they have books on different cultures in classroom libraries
Which church? Lol. I agree that Jesus can teach us to not be so judgemental, but unfortunately churches tend to err on religion and forgo relationship.
Her opinion is backed by scholarly research. They look to her for expertise not approval. There is a difference. She has a masters degree, I believe in AA studies. So I would imagine she has taken a ton of courses on systemic racism. I like how they respect her credentials. It's like when Dr. Oz is on the show. They respect his medical knowledge and expertise.
Honestly as much as these conversations seem redundant, they enlighten me and make me feel obligated to be a better white person. I’ve learned that it is not black peoples job to inform me about the injustices they face but it is MY job to continue educating myself about different forms of racism and what to do about it.
*The producers purposely made them talk about this after the heated discussion Jeannie and Amanda had about racism being addressed. They wanted a part 2 smh.*
This is one thing Adrienne is right on, I’m a white woman 27 who’s been imbedded with racism and when I went to high school in a city area, there were only 2 black people; a brother and sister. I speak out for equality for all now and have for the past several years, but just last night I was at a restaurant and a black couple walked into the bar and the bartender looked at me rolling his eyes like ugh, I’m going to get a shitty ass tip and I looked back and without a thought or hesitation I rolled my eyes back. They asked the bartender what’s good there bc it was their first time there and he rudely just threw down the drink menu to them without even looking in their direction. I realized what I did and moved a seat down, introduced myself and told them I come here probably once a week and these are the best drinks here, these are my favorite, etc. Being imbedded with racism can be hard to change, especially the older you get, but it can ALWAYS be worked on and everyone can ALWAYS do better. I’m sorry if you disagree, but this is a really story by a really white woman in her mid-upper 20’s who grew up in white neighborhoods and schools her whole life and has been taught racist views her whole life... this is being honest and realistic.
If you have to pay someone $2500 to teach you about how to not be racist then you aren’t ready to learn about how racist you are and how to fix it. You should be able to take your owntime for yourself to take knowledge into your own hands and start figuring it out. Nobody needs to make you not racist YOU need to make you not racist. Shakin my friggggggin headddddd
My boss is a conservative Republican who is also white. I have had to correct him on A LOT of things. Racist is word that is thrown around too fast. Unfortunately, we all grow up with what our parents teach us. There is something called personal bias that is when we hold our own subjective world views that are influenced and shaped by our experiences, beliefs, values, education, family, friends, peers and others. My parents did not graduate even second grade so, it took me leaving to college to get cultured and less ignorant.
Mey when those teachings, affect how you see someone of a certain skin color it’s racism. Whether you know it or not, or mean it in that way. Racism is passed down through generations. The word isn’t “thrown around to fast” call it what it is and fix it. Not that deep.
Tamera being biracial shouldn’t make her mute on these discussions, I know she HAS an opinion she just won’t share it
Maybe Tamera dont jump into the fray of racism because she is both black and white , also her offspring, not even to mention that her husband is white , so she cannot really pick sides , she has to stay mutual , because regardless of what she says especially if she goes to profound and then with "degree Amanda " in the mix , whoa , can you imagine how that will go , that will shut social media DOWN. so Tamera knows silence is golden in certain circumstances.
And besides Tamera tries to talk but they always cut her off
@@jackieagard537 how is she picking sides when talking about racism. Racism isnt equivalent to whiteness so it shouldnt mean shes picking sides.
What happened to her? Hmm this season is not..so much Tamera..
@@kgarcia5185 uhm i think Tamara....is trying to leave the show. This show doesn't become her.
Everybody on this show scared of Amanda and her opinions except Jeannie
brianna wilson I love Jeanie because of that. That girl is true to who she is
Yuuuuuuup
That’s why she is my favorite
Sha yeah that’s basically what I was saying everyone had an opinion till Amanda cane
She’s not scary or intimidating at all 😂😂😂
Adrienne is constantly looking at Amanda whenever shes sharing her opinion on these topics as if shes looking for approval. As soon as she saw Amandas face, she threw in that “you would be amazing at this” to cushion it
I peeped that.
She does that with the audience too lol
@@laurasantos4062 exactly, didn't they address that in a segment? Whenever she's speaking to the audience or directly to someone she gets dramatic 😂 and wants to make sure they're feeling what she's saying? hand gestures and nodding in agreement with her
That's just a part of her personality lmao
I think she just doesn't want to say the wrong thing
I high key miss the old real 🤷🏾♀️
casiana masse SAME
Tamar?
@@cuatesanz5611 Yes I don't dislike Amanda but Tamar is much more entertaining and helps the show a lot in my opinion
Wasn't it nice when it wasn't always race-baiting?
Me too
i miss the time on the real when things didn't revolve around Amanda lol, i don't like her attitude at all. Loni holds her to a higher standard than the rest of the women and it's so unfair
Loni certainly does that and it’s rude. The other ladies opinions should not be invalid because Amanda is there
I agree
I hate to say it but maybe because Amanda is African American and educated. Tam is educated too but she’s biracial.
And that’s why i don’t like Loni either.. when Tamar was on the show Loni didn’t feel like she had this kind of authority over the ladies. Tamar was dominant and i loved it. In a good way dominant not like Amanda and Loni are now
Tashawna Hamilton omg I’ve been thinking about this!!! Just didn’t want to say it because “it’s racist” (no, it aint). But yes Loni always on her side. Amanda ruined the show for me
Why is Amanda making all these faces when the ladies speak, however, when Amanda speaks everyone hangs on every word. Ladies! you are just as intelligent, stop looking for approval because Amanda is NOT looking for yours! Why? Because she doesn't need it, no shade
They want to make her feel included. She is new and even if she seems strong she has insecurities like everybody else
Lord I was saying the same thing everytime someone else says something she frowns like only her opinion matters and when she talks they seem scared to disagree.
Approval? Just because they give respect doesn't mean that Amanda deserves it, it means they are respectful. Don't mistaken kindness for weakness
I think the producers brought her on the show as a political mouthpiece(powerful people sent her there.) Other co-hosts are aware of this and want to keep their jobs. They are walking on eggshells when dealing with her.
Because she’s a narcissist 🥴
That Amanda girls isn’t here for a discussion. She’s here to judge. It’s getting annoying.
Honestly, they’re all annoying to me now. Seriously over their “know everything “ and what they do in their personal lives is facts. Keeping it real doesn’t mean they’re right, just means they are going to speak their opinion but sure isn’t mine.
I know I think the attitude she gives off isn’t a great strategy of teaching people. I think Jeannie and Amanda are polar opposites in their ways of communicating lol some people get mad Jeannie’s too happy and Amanda’s too mean some ppl say
@FitRN not really. Stop making this about race. Everybody hates judgemental people. Amanda is not just a black woman. Jsut because she's seen as judgemental, doesn't mean that it's because she's black
Paren Deka agreed. Honestly I used to enjoy the show so much but Amanda is not the personality that has made this show better
FitRN lol or maybe you’re just as negative as her and aren’t open to other discussions
Can anyone hear Tamera lately? She’s completely drowned out by Amanda, Adrienne & Jeannie.
Stand up, Tamera! Damn...
Amanda is annoying PERIODT
Tam better start speaking up on more then just being a wife or Mom. You see Jeannie had to learn and it's working for her benefit.
Aysha Yes we hear her. In case you’re unaware there are such devices that exist, called microphones.
If this was about marriage and kids or Adam she would be talking I am glad Amanda is here last season we had to listen to tam and andrian talk about marriage their kids their homes their husbands relationships kids it was boring. Thank you Amanda now there are conversation and debate about things
imma be real, the whole vibe of the show changed as soon as Amanda started. She brings a very stiff and tension-filled atmosphere to the table... if that makes sense
Pooja wat is dis Behaviour very much so
I beg to differ. She brings intelligence and realness to the show. The conversations were senseless, immature and boring before she got on. Now, I believe they will attract a wider audience.
Yes since Amanda joined the show the whole vibe has changed
Nope it doesn't she is bringing some real to the table. If its to hot for you stop watching. Dont need people to sugarcoat their feelings about topics. Vibe on a 100
tia bee The point of the real in the beginning was to have conversations about light senseless things as a break from the all the other conversations and tensions in the world. Now they’re like the View and you’re right about stepping away, they may get new viewers but they may lose their older ones too. I for one don’t bother to watch them like I used to.
Y’all better change this show to The Race because that’s all they ever talk about. Yes, it’s important but the producers are only doing it to bait them into controversy.
Kairo .. and I notice it changed when Amanda started.. 👀
The Race🤣🤣🤣 I totally agreee!!!!!!
Yes! Gosh as a woman of color even I’m tiiiired... give it a rest... surely there’s other topics too 🙄🙄
So dont watch anymore byeeeee
so true
Im getting fed up of amanda actually. I was enjoying her, buts shes getting a bit bright. She should give her opinion n knowledge, but her attitude is becoming like shes above everyone else at the table n her opinion is gospel. Humble urself gyal... Ur new.
Elley Black 💯 could not agree more.
And the ladies seem scared of her too
I think they’re putting her in a position to segue into her own show.
The show was ruined the moment she came in
@@iLovemoney201000 😄😄takes one to kno one 😘😘
However silly it may sound, these women are spending their own money to learn and better themselves and a black woman and an asian woman are making money from it. Sounds good to me.
Kirsty Birsty
I’m sure you’ll host that dinner, since it’s so important to you. 😊
StingingwithqueenC great answer lol
It sounds like being a servant.
Mary Jane
Getting paid $2,500 to sit at a dinner table and talk is far from being a servant.
StingingwithqueenC bloop lol
I miss when it was just the four of them. I feel like the new girl doesn't have much personality and just makes faces all the time instead of actually responding. She also throws off the dynamic between the rest of the girls and makes it less entertaining to watch.
I agree & if they want 5 they should of kept Tamar
Hawa Fuseini Isn’t the show suppose to be light entertainment
It may sound silly but like Jeannie and Adrienne said they are learning from this. I loved the example Jeannie gave about Adrienne because she really didn't know she was saying something wrong, so its dinners like this that can really educate you. The thought behind the dinner is actually pretty good and I'm glad Amanda supported the idea because I thought she would be one to put it down.
Same
If the women that were teaching were doing it for free then Amanda would have hated the idea, but since they are being paid to be there then she's cool with it.
@@BabyKagome16 is it about Amanda or people getting educated with or without Amanda being involved?
Emanual Carr Thank u. This people are getting ridiculous🙄 ant everything about Amanda
She actually was, did u see her face?🤔 It wasn’t until she was told how great she would be for it that her faces changed. She does not know how to keep a poker face, or just listen without making her thoughts obvious through her gestures. She is a very educated lady, but she is not professional, she needs growth in that aspect.
This show has just become the Praise Amanda Show I'm over it 🙄
Amanda is a "political strategist" in disguise and she has a purpose on the show. They don't want to lose their jobs.
Then get over it lol
Sandra B Better than the "Praise Tamera's Sex Life" it's been for 7 years.
@@iamsoiexist7192 They obviously just said they ARE over it already, ya dense-headed bafoon. You really thought you were telling someone off, huh? 👎😂😂😂
I FEEL THE SAME!! OVER ITTTTT!!!!
Ohh I get what they are doing. They brought Amanda to try to bring more serious topics but now it’s super uptight
Amanda is another Oprah.
@@kekeluv82 No. Just hell no!
Brian theta didn't need Amanda ass for that they just as well could have brought more serious tops and not be as uptight as they are now this girl Amanda is Debbie downer for me
And they want to point to her when things fall apart too. She's straightforward and doesn't sugar coat stuff so people are comfortable. That's why NO ONE LISTENS to African/black/Asian/Indian/Hispanic, no one wants to be STRAIGHTFORWARD!
amanda swears she’s the reincarnation of martin luther king, i’m so done with her
for real
Eduardo Lopez No she doesn't, that's your own stupid assumption. And you're not "so done with her" because you'll be back to complain again. Be grateful Amanda gives you something to talk about
This is the comment!
Since Amanda joined show seems like all they do is talk about race now.
💀💀💀💀 yesss
I forgot Tamera was at the table
loool
U know she gets uncomfortable during these topics lol
I notice she doesn’t say much on these topics
@@traceyhenry7087 I think it's because she is biracial no matter what she says she is going to get backlash so she doesn't say anything. Not knowing silence speaks volumes
She just purposely doesn't speak on Race because her husband Has a lot of views that go against black people's and Amanda's views. Her husband doesn't believe that Racism is a thing.
Yesterday's topic: Racism
Today's topic: Racism
Tomorrow's topic: Racism
Ty Bell I’m just like ugh....
Don't watch and stfu. Thank you.
It seems like they pick racism topics so they can get Amanda involved in the conversation
Na Na then she should goo!! But yeah if they’re talking about anything but race, Amanda’s silent and thinks the convo is beneath her
Welcome to the USA, where Racism is a very prevalent issue that NOBODY wants to discuss 🤔 Wtf do y’all want these topics to be? Lollipops and gumdrops? 🙄
Adrienne is GLOWING!!! And those earrings from her jewelry line are fire 🔥
This is one of her best looks!
At this point they need to change the name of the segment from "girl chat" to "racism chat"
Will you then promise to stop watching and stay out of the comment section then? Or will you keep complaining?
@@zora99ny probably the latter 🤣
@@zora99ny lolololol
I’m sorry but since Amanda is here that IS ALLLLLLL THEY TALK ABOUT 🤦🏽♀️
@@zuleykasepulveda1873 ugh lol yup!!!!@!!!
Not to sound disrespectful but I won’t be watching anymore. I’m supportive of the race topics but it is all.the.time. Not to mention they make Amanda the expert and constantly seek her approval. I miss the old real and the original four a lot. I’ve been watching from season one and love all the ladies but lately it’s really been too much for me. Amanda’s gotta go..
I just said the same thing! Sad show and girls are afraid of Amanda
I agree, why does it seem they are trying to appease Amanda? She is no different or better than the others, their opinions count as well.
Bye
I feel the same, I just came onto comments to see if others felt the same as me, I miss Tamar tbh at least she was entertaining, all Amanda does is turn every single thing about race, they could talk about rice and Amanda would make it about race, its too much
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Adrienne looking for Amanda's approval as she is talking is the most embarrassing thing i have ever seen. #lame
Yeah. Sis has let me down. She's obviously afraid of giving her own heartfelt opinion because she's afraid Amanda will attack her over it.
Amanda is a bully and comes off as a little manish.
Lame because she’s so loud with it and what the hell did she say “embreaded” ? 😂
Where did they get Jennie's suit? I really like it
Look for It on "worn on tv the real"
@@kamilleking4708 cool. thanks
chinatown
I know I said the same thing
Robert Graham is the brand
I’m with Loni. Don’t do your learning the “privileged” way. Black people or POC aren’t here to serve you.
See that’s the way I feel.I’m one of those so called “angry” black women that they talk about.My boss called me in her office one day and told me that I was a great dependable worker but she wanted to speak to me about how I made the other Nurses on the unit feel.She said because I tend to look really serious most of the time and not very sociable that I make some of the Nurses feel uncomfortable.She said none of them ever said that you did anything to them they said you’re just intimidating and I should work on being more friendly and accommodating to my co-workers.lol Now on the surface this conversation was very professional and many may see nothing wrong with it.The funny thing is has it occurred to them that many of us black folks never feel welcomed in this country let alone the work place and are rarely accommodated to.Smh
I like how people say "educate yourself" and then when you make an attempt, then scream out, "Not that way!"
Lol...that's rich.
How could they be when they're also serving jail time for their various crimes?
I actually feel like life experiences makes us more wiser, not a diploma. Theres so much more to life than to focus on the negative things/people
I just said that lml agreed if that's the case then all black people are experts on being black not just Amanda because she went to college for it.
@@christengardner4780 yes and no. A black person can speak from life experience yes but not all are blacks understand their history or why things are the way they are now. Like finance... You can't teach what you dnt know. Amanda has both the experience and the specialized education in the topic to drop gems. It's not like he is using a diploma for a different degree.
Now Amanda fix your face 😂😂😂💀💀
Heyyyy...I agree her face looks like what I was thinking tho 😂
Loni looks bored every episode or talking down on someone and hiding behind being a "comedian ", tamera is losing her voice, jennie is trying to learn more. Adrienne seems like she stayed the same and Amanda, 🤔🙄
It's been a lot of racism this week huh 😂😂😂😂
It’s rough in these streets 😂🤣
It's a lot of racism, everyday -- in the good ole US of A. So...yea!
I just need a break.
Lemonlover4 same lol
@eys292 erm aight? Your life must be pathetic if her comment offended you.
@@Lyomama22 you might need a little therapy yourself love. There are more respectful ways to express your frustration.
@@badgyaltt3737 na sis. But thx for ur consideration
@@Lyomama22 the show changed when she joined it sucks
The best way to know what is acceptable with any culture is to be inclusive. There's so many ways to do this whether it's joining a mixed book club, exercise class, church etc etc. If you really want to learn about a culture, how about finding ways to increase your social circle.
It's also important to know that regardless of what race you are, we all have different backgrounds, upbringing and cultures so inviting one Black person to come to dinner and tell you about their Black culture does not speak for the whole Black race.
Let's start with debunking our stereotypes.
Tamera: "That's nice...." 💀💀🤣🤣
She's is REAL.
🤣 she had to say something
What have they done to this show
The black people at the table are like "what the heck"
@Molly Can you link us to where he specifically said "Trayvon deserved everything he got"?
Molly damn this my first time actually seeing some proof 😔 tamera whyyyyyyy
This is how far some white people go to try to get approval from black women. And notice that this was specifically a dinner with black women. These are the kinds of things black women are consumed with. The obsession black women have with white women is disturbing.
Should they not be? We don't see racial dinners given for BLK people who feel some kind of way about the white agenda. It's amazing how white people can come up with all kind of cute tatics to go around using common sense.
Molly Quilting Tarik nasheed the dude who blames black men’s homosexuality on slavery 😂
Why would I do that when I could just tune in to The Real and be preached at about racism every single day for an hour?
Blaire White don’t watch then, the show is based on women of colour, the audience they’re targeting isn’t you anyway. You can watch Ben Shapiro, Steven Crowder and Tomi Lahren ... and don’t pay for that if you don’t want to. And it’s funny coming from someone who mostly talk about Trans issues on her channel
@@Noemieorokia The show is HOSTED by women of color and it is on a major network. Anyone who wants to watch it can and this focus of the show is not just the topic of race. It's about pop culture, politics and personal stories.
Imagine how tired people of color are of having to face direct racism, systematic racism and colorism everyday.
Blaire your completely right!! Everyone is fucking tired of this race thing constantly EVERY GOD DAMN DAY!! Like I really need you to go one on one with Ms. Intellectual Amanda. And her master's in African studies... It's ridiculous!! At this point! We've come along way from racism! And I just don't understand why keep treating this issue like its some god damn epidemic!! To Me it just seems there making an issue out of nothing! And Amanda is leading all of this in the name of "racism" 🙄🙄🙄 so over it
@@Noemieorokia there audience?? Since when did the real ONLY target black ppl? Oh that's right ever since Amanda got on the show.. and we're tired!! Let's keep a balance! And talk about other topics and then come back to this every so often.. it really is turning ppl off!!
Seems silly but at least they’re making an effort and wanting to be educated so bad where they’re dropping that kind of cash🤷🏽♀️
It is silly. This is exploitative nonsense lol
No and I'm black this has got to be a joke
Yeah lol this just seems like a load of bs
The way loni said “I don’t understand black people” I’m dying 🤣
Yes, that was very funny. But her, "A hour" was Totally baffling and problematic. With that, I was dying!
I miss when they talked about FUN TOPICS THAT MEANT NOTHING AND RELIEVED ME FROM THE STRESS OF MY EVERYDAY LIFE. THEY ARE TOO SERIOUS THESES DAYS. WE WATCH TO SEE FUN STUFF!!!!! FUN PEOPLE, FUN!!!!!!
fun fun fun aint real life sweety
oakley F Yes, I agree. Life isn’t fun but she clearly said “Fun topics that meant nothing and relieved me from the STRESS of my EVERYDAY life” so, in case you didn’t get what she mean’t. She means she needs this show back to their old self to relieve stress, yes they can still have serious topics but a balance of fun and serious topics is pretty good, ever since Amanda Seales started on the show she made the whole table tense, yes she is educated but she just as no fun in her when I personally watch the videos, this is my opinion so you don’t have to necessarily agree with me.
So..people that see a black person and think they're up to no good should now go volunteer in our communities??? No wth Loni, c'mon
Siatta Asare Exactly. Don’t dive head first in the water if you didn’t learn how to swim.
It's a set up to get them robbed
Yeah. I agree. If you have racist thoughts first re wire your brain and learn what is okay and not okay THEN go volunteer to further and give back to a community in need.
Facts, that's a disaster waiting to happen
This is getting TIREDDDDD!!! Honestly. It’s exhausting. I get that it’s Black History Month. But even still, there’s much more to Black History than just racism, which they’ve been talking about since January. And y’all know January is already a year long! 🤦🏾♂️😩
They should have a daily black history lesson instead. There’s so much to teach and learn about our people ✊🏾
@eys292 Someone must be holding you at gunpoint to keep making these comments.
Black history is American history. They need to talk about it because white folks think If they don't talk about it. It won't. Be known that shameful history. FACTS: While we're side-eyeing white men. Did you know? white women was 40% of the slave owners in chattel slavery. And they are allowed to use the 1964 Civil Rights Act. That was put in place for discrimination against African Americans.So we need to talk and call out the bullish
TRUEEEE
@SARA that's because Nobody knew. White women was in the slave trade to they omitted them from the history. And we thought they were allies. And you think racism keep being passed down? Women And women can be more vicious than men Read a book call . They were her property. It accounts the viciousness women. Portrayed in slavery
I actually respect the people doing this program. Their families and communities were prob mad racist and it never sat well with them and they want to unlearn it. Props to them
Or we could just let them live there lives...
They were probably not racist at all. You're just smooth brained enough to buy into this nonsense.
I personally will never get sick of seeing this show talk about race. Thank you. It not every topic but they discuss it alot and it sure is needed.
Yep, that definitely sounds like an unpopular opinion lol
I feel like if people want to see another, chiller side of Amanda, they should cover other topics. Their topic choices used to be way different. She happens to be sensitive about race and inequality so she comes off aggressive. This what i think
They have talked about other topics.....and she's turned almost all of them into a topic about race.
1:37 'Inbreaded'. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
*embedded 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Thank you
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sum if them imbreded though👀
EMBREADED?! 😂😂 you gotta love vegan Adrienne
Olive hahahahaha hahahahha 😂😂😂😂😂
My pork loins get embreaded girl. Maybe inbred?
🤣🤣🤣🤣 right
Thank you! I was scrolling through the comments looking for this comment.
lol can't.
The Real Racism Daytime..... is this the new 2020 revamp of the show, we only talk racism ?
ilikemonkeys it’s called THE REAL maybe not in your everyday life, but for a lot of people, racism is REAL everyday. If it bothers you that they speak on this topic it’s probably because you benefit from not speaking about it. Cause no one that deals with it is upset about a topic that has to be spoken about.
@@Mamdrmamdr ok Amanda, whatever you say
@@Mamdrmamdr That's very true
ilikemonkeys I’ll take the masters from Columbia, and you can hold on to that ignorance. Kisses
This obsession with racism is so unhealthy. There is so much more interesting things in life to talk about. How dull and pointless is to say racism is bad everyday. Literally no one is arguing against that. Are you gonna tell us 2+2 = 4 next? Like we know.
Love this idea. As someone who used to work for an anti-racism non-profit who's spoken to over 1000+ people on the street about race and racism in America, it is a great idea to pay for the emotional and intellectual labor someone is doing to educate you.
I think this show would benefit from adding educated people who have experienced what they mention in some of these talks when they have serious topics. Maybe a video call in.
Why are we assuming they don't also donate their time and money to those causes? It's like damn you can't ever do right nowadays 🤦♀️
Agree, at least it's a start
CAN'T EVEN WATCH THIS SHOW ANYMORE.
Rahim Almawri dont watch then
Yo Fool exactly 😂
Okay then dont watch. Bye
This show should be called "THE RACE" they only talk about that.. We get the message but is 2 much.. Need some other topics as well.
How about a white woman as a host? It’s L.A!!! This show, I’m so over it.
Moni right?! they’re always talking about diversity but don’t have a white woman on the panel. Quite frankly I don’t see any white woman being comfortable working the with original leader of the black panthers Amanda.
I bet Tam will be leaving the show soon. She has a whole family and winery at home. This show isn’t what it used to be and I just think she’s checking out.
That’s the best plug in loni has ever done! But Amanda’s facial expression in the beginning had me rollin😂😂😂😂😂
TEACHERS! i'm a teacher in a minority, low income neighborhood and theeee racism and biases are rampant. I am praying that God gets me through this school year without hurting someone. I'm usually calm, quiet, mind my business because I know how these kinds of situations can go left. But this year, the racists have reared their heads in my classroom.
You’re a blowhard
Ok so here’s the thing right... I think if you want to do it... go ahead... HOWEVER you can literally do this for free.. to be able to be courageous and honest enough with yourself to say “ I know the thoughts I have aren’t and weren’t right I need to change and I need help “... I appreciate that but there’s more to do than just use 2 thousand dollars towards one event to learn about the black culture and experience so u can understand us more... there’s several ways to get to know us and break bread and learn about us... i think Adrienne’s idea was good too... a Potluck where everybody gets a chance to learn about everyone’s individual culture and the overall culture ! There’s more work to be done that’s what I’m saying...
I admit I'm racist even to my own race because of my experiences but I admit I feel it's wrong but I grew up hearing"white people" in my black community. When I watched USA election for the first time I got confused on the voter results. It named voters by race and I was appalled. As someone who received racism when I knew none not even the n-word I knew until another 6yr old called me that on my school bus. Since then I became racist. But I have friends of every race, more so than that of my own race who also used reverse racism on me because I "talk white" (Grew up in suburbs with only the other black people I saw actually related to me) So I'm guessing since that first experience at the age of 6, I seem to address everyone by race and even had to check my racist remarks in regards to Chinese people and coronavirus. Just felt your comment encouragd me to share that I recently learned what your saying and I want to address people by their names not their color. I have Chinese friends and I don't want them to be hurt when I see Chinese people with masks and I feel the need to move. I admit I'm finding it difficult to change the way I feel in relation to the coronavirus. I'm sorry I'm just upset at the ones that left China, with undocumented symptoms and travelling knowing they were risking their own lives and others. Example is the Diamond Princess Cruise ship after one guy got sick now 175 including the quarantine officer got the virus. I felt the same for Ebola too. I have a weakened immune system due to Lupusand would be one of the "dead" if I contracted a virus even flu. ( I never get flu or cold) I don't want to unknowingly start becoming racist when it comes to this ordeal. I don't like racism period and am glad this post helped me to communicate this out with others who point this out.
Anyhow I'm a 30 year Canadian, black female who recognizes her errors. But I also am tired of hearing racism issues. But it is part of today's reality, so I gotta live with it I guess. Be better. I'm trying everyday to be a better me. This is one issue I've had for over a decade especially towards my own race. This Coronavirus really had some thoughts and words come outta this mouth that shocked me. ✌🏾
They want to be able to get their answers in a safe space. There are a lot of black people who don't have time or the patience to teach white people essentially how to treat other races like human beings. I assume the white people are scared to ask the questions straight up because they don't have a lot of black or asian friends. I think this program will be like a psychological twelve step program. A potluck is not enough. Having a black friend is not enough.
They shouldn't rely on black people for free emotional labor. If they want to pay let them
I feel like they need to just stop taking about race on this show, they aren’t getting anywhere and many of these women are bias anyway.. I hate that some of them feel like they are representing all of us and they are not. We are beyond different
I agree with Loni on this one. Something about this feels disingenuous to me. Like Loni had mentioned why not volunteer your time to communities that need your help.
Ok this right here, this is it! This is what I've been waiting for. A civilized discussion on real life issues, conveyed with empathy and compassion. I genuinely appreciated how considerate Amanda was with the other girls, by allowing them to talk. I am the type of person that LIKES to see others succeed. I do not want her to fail. I guess realistically, we forget ( I am 100% guilty of this) that Amanda is from New York, and in that area you have to be hardcore.
I think with the political and social climate we live in, people are seeing how tough things are getting. It's hard enough trying to keep a positive mindset amid a civilly unrest world. I honestly think people just want something positive and happy to think about, and watch. I guess my suggestion is to shine the best qualities of these beautiful women. When they discuss their viewpoints, I love it when I see their concern and interest in what others have to say. I also love it when I see they are able to agree to disagree on certain topics. I have a huge amount of respect for people that are able to be mature and appreciate different perspective on life. Just my two cents. Anyways, I do see the progress!
I would hate to be friends with Amanda... Oh lord
I’m sure she would hate to be friends with your broke ass as well yami, thank god you’re not in the same circle lol
🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️
There should be this in schools, for jobs like police officers and politicians. Everywhere really and not just based on black people but other minorities too
Judith Rita thank you
Yes there are thiefs and people up to no good in every race and ethnicity. I know someone who when she sees a Latino/latina person think they will steal from her.
When Amanda said “you wanna get together and teach one?” I DIED 😂😂😂😂
This show just turned from real good to real shitty. I used to come here to get away from the problems of the world, but now I’m just being introduced to them again on the show
Yes thank you. I’m getting over it
Yep
Mohammad Amil BYE!
This show should start being called the racism instead of the real.. 🙄
Jacqueline Marie The definition of privilege is thinking that racism isn’t anything more than REAL. For some people it is REAL. And if you’re getting sick of the topic it’s because you benefit from not speaking about it. Because they’ve been speaking about women’s issues for years and not one person has complained. But now that it involves black people you guys have an issue. Get a grip.
@@Mamdrmamdr 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Who here saw Lovelyti get Amamnda seales all the way together on her TH-cam channel this morning ? Over the Jussie smollett drama yesterday
Maurice Lovelyti can barely articulate herself. Mispronouncing every other word.
@@TresJolie7 English isn't her first language I believe.
@@TresJolie7 and even still her argument made way more sense than Amanda. Amanda has book smarts, but doesnt have common sense and decency
Did Adrienne say " embreaded in them"?
Odyssey to Jérémie 🙈😭
She did
Odyssey to Jérémie I’m mad none of them corrected her lol they like we know her heart lol
Absolutely 😅🤦♀️
What did she say that she shouldn’t have that they were talking about??
1:01 Woah...fix your face, Amanda.
*the problem I have with this is that there is not a handbook on how everyone should act towards everyone of a certain race. Amanda does not write the rules regarding black people...just because she is often the only one in the room offended by something, does not mean that represents the opinions of an entire race and does not mean the comment is racist.*
She's the in-house race hustler in chief
They must want to be cancelled because this is getting ridiculous
*PSA* : Not only white people are racist.
Also, can they please start talking about other topics.😭 We get it, the world has problems, but this show has become so annoying with all it's constant preaching.
🗣️🗣️THIS IS FOR THE PRODUCERS 🗣️🗣️
WE ARE TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT RACE EVERY GOD DAMN DAY!! STOP LETTING AMANDA WALK ALL OVER YALL!!
I love Amanda! Let's keep the Educated Black Woman at the Table! "They" only want to see ratched versions of us to feel comfortable and continue to box us in♡♡
Welcome to the “The Race” ... 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Good job for realizing your privilege in some areas and willing to educate yourself. All races should learn how to not offend another, but it’s a process.
At first I thought this was weird as hell, but then I remember how I'm always made to feel like it's my responsability to educate white folks and if I don't, their faux-pas are on ME. Educating people on racism (and misogyny) can be SO emotionally and intelectually exhausting, so I'm glad the yt rich women are going there WILLINGLY and PAYING my sisters for their time and effort.
*The seating is all off*
Isaiah Marquez Tamera 👏🏾needs👏🏾to👏🏾be👏🏾on👏🏾the👏🏾end!
Jake Peralta THANK YOU 🙏🏽
What I don’t understand is, WHO is excepted to teach these people???🤨. The whole concept just sounds absurd to me. Why do you need to spend that kind of money to know what racism is or to change your mindset? BUY A BOOK!!. Learn history!!, go and travel!! You’ve got all that money, there’s videos on TH-cam you can watch for FREE! that are educational! black people have been having these conversations for decadessss, the information is out there. This is just laziness. Sitting around a table to have an expensive argument 🙄 . But hey, like Amanda said if you feel like this is your ministry, go ahead, it’s your prerogative. Make sure they’re paying you right!
Every day there are atrocities caused by racist, EVERY DAY P.O.C. are unfairly targeted. So It's flabbergasting to read post that say they are tired of hearing about it... People of Color are tired of living it. Love,Love, Love the direction of this show. Please keep up the good work, this is the only show on daytime that educates and informs on these issues...
I absolutely hope the producers of the real don’t take these comments seriously. Because all I see is THE REAL finally being REAL. And if anything they’re growing into a better and more educated audience. Leave all the dusties that aren’t willing to elevate their pallet. You’re going to lose some but in exchange THE REAL will get a better audience and a more engaged one. Because this is what black women and educated WOC have been waiting for forever. Please don’t stop.
this needs more likes!
Maji Kam For me personally, I dont think the topics are the problem. I actually love that they talk abt topics of substance. I think a lot of people including myself think that theres really no balance tho of also* light hearted topics.
But also I think in these “debates” it can start feeling like “The View” when Amanda and Loni start rolling eyes and making condescending faces at the other hosts. And I completely understand “not hostile, im passionate” but rolling of the eyes and all the condescending “girl” that they whispering doesnt make it feel like a safe space for other opinions
Maji Kam THANK YOU
Chanel R I can appreciate your perspective, but this world hasn’t made WOC and particularly black women and more particularly dark skin black women, feel safe. Their lively hood isn’t safe. I get wanting some light hearted convos but unfortunately you have to get REAL sometimes. They have a new host that has a masters in a topic. The Real has been doing light hearted topics for years. I think it’s fine if they dedicate some time to REAL topics. And if that makes your uncomfortable, it’s unfortunate because it should make you feel empowered. I do
@@chanelr348 I honestly believe that majority of you all are reading too into things. Women talk like that amongst friends all the time. Little eye rolling and stuff is tbh nothing. Because at the end of the day the ladies are still friends, unlike the panelists of The View. I understand where you're coming from but I just think the little nitpicking of faces lead to unnecessary bashing over these ladies.
When people want to learn to not be racist, sometimes its a a "how to not get my racism caught" class they're looking for.
It’s like every single day this show talks about race. To me it honestly feels like propaganda. You focus on race so much it’s going to divide us instead of unite us.
What i find funny is the real is having conversation about a major issue RACE and yes it’s been more than most shows would talk about it but this just shows how the media brushes over the conversation and talk about it once but now the real is bringing it up more because ITS A SERIOUS ISSUE THAT HASNT STOPPED ! I applaud them for talking about race I’d rather that than the superficial topics they started to do . I think they need to keep it coming because everyone don’t wanna acknowledge how very present race is still in this country. Keep talking about it keep making people uncomfortable
I love talking about race topics !! Def need more of it !! I love all the Real ladies opinions!! I pray Prosperity to each of the ladies on the Show !! All love and all positivity here ✨❤️🙏🏾🥂
Racism toward asians is very big problem cause people rarely think that as a problem
If anyone is wondering about the new atmosphere on the show. That atmosphere my friend is coming from narcissism.
I agree there are a lot of folks who just don’t know. My grandparents were not maliciously racist but they were just by having views from being raise in a different time and no one really showing them. my grandma told me that no one really question it on the white side and if you did you were killed too. Then I married a black man and my grandparents were very open in experiencing the different cultures and they never once questions it or made me or my family feel bad. Sometimes it just takes some teaching.
Sorry, I can’t but Amanda got to go. She is always mad and she just wants her way or no way and the girls act so different around her. Like if they have to ask permission to talk or say I’m sorry for what they think. You can see and feel tension in the air.
They already doing heritage day, flag day, multicultural lunches/parties in schools in NYC. And they have books on different cultures in classroom libraries
adrienne’s statements are long-winded. she either needs to get to the point or reflect more on what she’s gonna say cause she goes off track.
I'm getting major Twitches vibes from Tamera's earrings and I'm LIVING for them
They need to race to church and learn about LOVE. Smh
Misty Ivey facts lol
That’s the LAST place that some of them need to go! Religion is often used to justify racism and reinforce racist behaviors and beliefs.
Which church? Lol. I agree that Jesus can teach us to not be so judgemental, but unfortunately churches tend to err on religion and forgo relationship.
hate that they all look to amanda for approval as if her opinion is any more valid than their own. it’s an OPINION. amanda doesn’t know everything
Her opinion is backed by scholarly research. They look to her for expertise not approval. There is a difference. She has a masters degree, I believe in AA studies. So I would imagine she has taken a ton of courses on systemic racism. I like how they respect her credentials. It's like when Dr. Oz is on the show. They respect his medical knowledge and expertise.
Honestly as much as these conversations seem redundant, they enlighten me and make me feel obligated to be a better white person. I’ve learned that it is not black peoples job to inform me about the injustices they face but it is MY job to continue educating myself about different forms of racism and what to do about it.
*The producers purposely made them talk about this after the heated discussion Jeannie and Amanda had about racism being addressed. They wanted a part 2 smh.*
This is one thing Adrienne is right on, I’m a white woman 27 who’s been imbedded with racism and when I went to high school in a city area, there were only 2 black people; a brother and sister. I speak out for equality for all now and have for the past several years, but just last night I was at a restaurant and a black couple walked into the bar and the bartender looked at me rolling his eyes like ugh, I’m going to get a shitty ass tip and I looked back and without a thought or hesitation I rolled my eyes back. They asked the bartender what’s good there bc it was their first time there and he rudely just threw down the drink menu to them without even looking in their direction. I realized what I did and moved a seat down, introduced myself and told them I come here probably once a week and these are the best drinks here, these are my favorite, etc. Being imbedded with racism can be hard to change, especially the older you get, but it can ALWAYS be worked on and everyone can ALWAYS do better.
I’m sorry if you disagree, but this is a really story by a really white woman in her mid-upper 20’s who grew up in white neighborhoods and schools her whole life and has been taught racist views her whole life... this is being honest and realistic.
If you have to pay someone $2500 to teach you about how to not be racist then you aren’t ready to learn about how racist you are and how to fix it. You should be able to take your owntime for yourself to take knowledge into your own hands and start figuring it out. Nobody needs to make you not racist YOU need to make you not racist. Shakin my friggggggin headddddd
My boss is a conservative Republican who is also white. I have had to correct him on A LOT of things. Racist is word that is thrown around too fast. Unfortunately, we all grow up with what our parents teach us. There is something called personal bias that is when we hold our own subjective world views that are influenced and shaped by our experiences, beliefs, values, education, family, friends, peers and others. My parents did not graduate even second grade so, it took me leaving to college to get cultured and less ignorant.
Mey when those teachings, affect how you see someone of a certain skin color it’s racism. Whether you know it or not, or mean it in that way. Racism is passed down through generations. The word isn’t “thrown around to fast” call it what it is and fix it. Not that deep.
Literally Amanda is great and all but yeah she’s changing the genuine vibe of the show
I really want Amanda out!!!
Yadizzmoon Zzuarez yes! She changed the whole vibe!
People like you would.
@@tiabee1637 like me??🤔
"Its been inbreded in them". Sis shaded a whole bunch of people unknowingly. HAHA
I love u Amanda .. I wish we were friends .. we’d have amazing conversations