A White Husband Makes Racially Insensitive Joke About His Black Family

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ธ.ค. 2024
  • Guest co-host Mel B returns, and we’re getting real about the white Atlanta Hawks GM who made a stereotypical joke about his Black family that didn’t go over so well.

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  • @debbie9113
    @debbie9113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +812

    I'm a black woman in the UK and YES THEY DO make colour jokes here!! Please excuse the caps and exclamation marks but Geez.... KMT!

    • @kokolatte825
      @kokolatte825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      I really hate how UK people in the US try to act like they don't have racism there and it's only a US problem. The fact she was known as "Scary Spice"! Please! 🙄

    • @laurawilliams4087
      @laurawilliams4087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      White guys love making black jokes and think they get a pass when they have black friends or dating black women.

    • @NG-th8ny
      @NG-th8ny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lies!!! 🙄
      (I’m a Black woman in my 40’s from London. Well travelled and have always lived in London).
      I used to say that I would not want to live in the US due to the overt racism, but I have recently come to the conclusion that I actually would prefer to have people being blatantly racist to my face whilst having the added benefit of living in a warm location all year round!

    • @debbie9113
      @debbie9113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@NG-th8ny Trust me the Struggle is Real over here!

    • @sexygabby30
      @sexygabby30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@NG-th8ny that’s the thing though here in the US on the average it’s not up front it’s hidden systematically and if you don’t know how that works you won’t even know that is happening. Like how a narcissist abuses you. Until it gets deep then it’s blantant to your face. Otherwise

  • @a.b.5473
    @a.b.5473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2357

    Mel B saying the UK doesn't make racist jokes was definitely a lie lmaoo

    • @Alfie_Andreah
      @Alfie_Andreah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Maybe she didn't witness any

    • @a.b.5473
      @a.b.5473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +361

      @@Alfie_Andreah yea but she's old enough to understand that just because she hasn't witnessed any of it doesn't mean it doesn't happen

    • @camillewright7914
      @camillewright7914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      I have a teacher & a former co-worker from the UK and they say racism there is more subtle than here. Outburst and taboo rants and bad taste jokes are common here

    • @camillewright7914
      @camillewright7914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      And its telling because Tamera's husband has made several comments about African Americans but she don't say nothing....

    • @Alfie_Andreah
      @Alfie_Andreah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@a.b.5473 you have a point 😉

  • @MusicWorldWonder
    @MusicWorldWonder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1404

    This is why Black people need to start getting selective about who to let in at the cookout.

    • @TheRenegadeStarr
      @TheRenegadeStarr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Fellow black ppl need to stop with the “cookout” mess. Black and LGBT are the two main things ppl tell their kids not to bring home. And I don’t see a gaggle of other races inviting black people to their family social gatherings. Black ppl go to their cookout and enjoy their fellow black ppl. The cookout is to show up and indulge in your black family.

    • @TheRenegadeStarr
      @TheRenegadeStarr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      So basically I agree lol

    • @user-ku7oq1qe7k
      @user-ku7oq1qe7k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TheRenegadeStarr I might be VERY VERY into “black supremacy” but I have to settle and agree.

    • @TheRenegadeStarr
      @TheRenegadeStarr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@user-ku7oq1qe7k but black supremacy has never been a thing in America.

    • @user-ku7oq1qe7k
      @user-ku7oq1qe7k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TheRenegadeStarr I meant it like I support black people like the opposite of white supremacy

  • @jennifernicholas537
    @jennifernicholas537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +549

    I see why Amanda Seales left the show.
    Everyone wants to tip toe around racism and act like this is an individual problem this a global and historical problem.

    • @SammyPebbles
      @SammyPebbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Seales was way way over the top with it though. She's like one of those weirdos who tries to convince you that Beethoven & Shakespeare were black

    • @maya-parisan
      @maya-parisan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Racism is both individual AND systemic. That's why awareness is so important. You spread awareness by holding individuals, companies, institutions, and governments accountable whenever you can. I see nothing wrong with this video. You can't fight all battles at once all the time.

    • @Tee-kc3pn
      @Tee-kc3pn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@SammyPebbles Beethoven was a Moore......not Black or White but mixed race

    • @SammyPebbles
      @SammyPebbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Tee-kc3pn LMAO I think you and Amanda Sealed would get along trying to revise history like that

    • @saetae9208
      @saetae9208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@SammyPebbles No! racism is over the top, anytime generations of people are traumatized, lives lost, fear, poverty etc. You can NEVER be over the top when speaking against injustice

  • @IamDjibeauty
    @IamDjibeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +634

    It’s 2021. I will not educate you or be patient or understanding anymore. I do not have the patience. At this point those people are wilfully ignorant.

    • @wavesonswim8738
      @wavesonswim8738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Preach. It’s not our responsibility

    • @Jprager
      @Jprager 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@wavesonswim8738 this kind of thing though is what’s contributing to things like Cancel Culture etc, if you don’t educate wrongdoers on their actions and just cut them off, what’s the point of calling them out then, it’s like perpetuating exactly what their accusing you of.

    • @minianoiz6492
      @minianoiz6492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      AMEN! I'm 100% with you on that!

    • @tondaniraluswinga2590
      @tondaniraluswinga2590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Say it. At this point it's just foolery.

    • @toyeb5749
      @toyeb5749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said!!

  • @BeenDelivered
    @BeenDelivered 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    He is the common denominator and if everyone in his home is angry. He is the one that they are angry with!!!

    • @tsmc1130
      @tsmc1130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      They're probably annoyed because he's always saying dumb things that only he thinks are funny. I tend to agree with Adrienne and have ti wonder if he has been given a pass at home and that emboldened him. If people think having a Black friend proves they're not racist, they probably think having a Black spouse spreads the immunity to everyone they ever met.

    • @anthonymcmillian7541
      @anthonymcmillian7541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Somebody pick the 🎤 up!

  • @mercy871
    @mercy871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    Mel lied lol these British people stay wilding too

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      dey wilf AF . that Briddish accent ain't foolin' nobody.

    • @NG-th8ny
      @NG-th8ny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Lies!!! 🙄
      (I’m a Black woman in my 40’s from London. Well travelled and have always lived in London).
      I used to say that I would not want to live in the US due to the overt racism, but I have recently come to the conclusion that I actually would prefer to have people being blatantly racist to my face whilst having the added benefit of living in a warm location all year round!

    • @lancecdcw
      @lancecdcw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She lives in the US. That is all I need to know.

    • @lavanapachonceo
      @lavanapachonceo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I'm British and British people do make racial jokes and I'm sure Mel as experienced that in Britain I'm almost certain!

    • @sofondadavis5028
      @sofondadavis5028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes they do in England. Meghan Markle and Prince Harry showed that it even happens to the Royals and in High Society.

  • @serenarose4020
    @serenarose4020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    A s black british women I can verify WE DO experience jokes about our colour ALL the time, Mel come on now 😀

    • @marygale-manuel5514
      @marygale-manuel5514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      serena rose- and a lot of racism in that country toward the African people who migrate there, i saw on the news, how often they are chased and attacked/beaten badly...smdh..🤮🤢

    • @veronciasworld
      @veronciasworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Girl we knew better 🙄

    • @patriciabarnes7034
      @patriciabarnes7034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Racism does happens here in the UK, Mel B! I admit, it is no way as widespread as in the US, but it is very much here... One current example, that has persisted for the last 4 years is the disgusting Racism against Meghan, Prince Harry's wife. She is but one example of the disgusting cases of racism, by sections of the British public, the Palaces and British media, all of which are in bed with the Palaces! It is a blatant lie, to say, there is no racism in the UK. It is here alright, just 70% les vile as the US!

    • @serenarose4020
      @serenarose4020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@patriciabarnes7034 stupid of her then, since she wasnt born in neither decades.

    • @takearight.
      @takearight. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And I’m sure every race makes “racists” jokes.. it’s our nature..so , race POLICE.....STOP IT!!!

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +858

    Tam’s natural hair is EVERYTHING.

    • @austinrichards1740
      @austinrichards1740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes

    • @tk1153
      @tk1153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I KNOOOOW!!! I keep staring at it. She is gorgeous

    • @alyciacooper2
      @alyciacooper2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Meghan Markle will never show her natural hair again.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@alyciacooper2 Okay?

    • @Dulce-cm2kx
      @Dulce-cm2kx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She can rock that afro! 💪
      Gorgeous.

  • @MsDimps24
    @MsDimps24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Why’s Mel lying!? Yes we do!

    • @123leemur
      @123leemur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Like my mom told me ‘ a fisherman will never tell you that their fish is bad. ‘ So it is rare to find someone downing their own country , no matter where they are from. Everyone knows Mel is telling an EPIC lie.

    • @NG-th8ny
      @NG-th8ny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lies!!! 🙄
      (I’m a Black woman in my 40’s from London. Well travelled and have always lived in London).
      I used to say that I would not want to live in the US due to the overt racism, but I have recently come to the conclusion that I actually would prefer to have people being blatantly racist to my face whilst having the added benefit of living in a warm location all year round!

    • @sophiaatn5339
      @sophiaatn5339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@NG-th8ny then go why do you keep repeating yourself?

    • @Victoria_06647
      @Victoria_06647 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sophiaatn5339 ikr💀💀

    • @takearight.
      @takearight. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mel has a racist anger problem.. she needs the truth..she’s a show woman

  • @kellacanb
    @kellacanb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I hate when people say "get to" like telling racist jokes is some privilege that everyone is dying to have. 🙄

    • @lilangelbaby8706
      @lilangelbaby8706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly! That’s a privilege I don’t have and don’t want

    • @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds
      @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You may be surprised, then, to learn that there are alot of people who actually ARE just dying to be able to make those types of jokes, or to use the n-word without getting their ass beat. There really, truly are.

  • @lindsaym756
    @lindsaym756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    This is the second time that I've heard Adriene blame the wife for the husband's actions. Both people in the relationship are adults and no one is each other's parent. It's common sense that you can't be saying those types of "jokes". Just because you date someone a person of color does not give you permission to say things like that.

    • @cyndedawson3129
      @cyndedawson3129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some people don't use their common for real !!!

  • @jackiethefaithwalker1494
    @jackiethefaithwalker1494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    People need to stop with the CP time. I worked in a office with a Hispanic woman and white woman they were ALWAYS late coming in.

    • @casundrahenderson
      @casundrahenderson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ALWAYS

    • @susufray3601
      @susufray3601 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s cp time?

    • @jackiethefaithwalker1494
      @jackiethefaithwalker1494 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@susufray3601 cp is color people time.

    • @ummeiguess
      @ummeiguess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      but I promise it wasn't **bcz they're Black**
      ...according to bs stereotypes
      and that's the difference
      if a Black person does or says certain things, there's a much more negative connotation, bcz of widely socialized racism
      while both of those women would face Sexism, and the Latinx woman might face other stereotypes - being late wouldn't necessarily apply

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      when my husband was a Sgt.in the military it was black women who simply did not show up for work--getting thrown out of course.

  • @letitiatsunami3749
    @letitiatsunami3749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    If he would've said something like, "y'all may be angry with me but I'm used to it. I have 3 teenagers, so there's always someone mad at me in my house," that would've been a bit better and relatable. Every parent has made their teen angry with them. And if you don't have kids, every person can remember being mad at their parents when they were teens.
    What he said was just dumb. Let me muster up my best teenage eyeroll and loud sigh.
    😒😩😒😩

    • @ME-vb6pq
      @ME-vb6pq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly!!! When’s your show? I’d buy a ticket! That was funny and true! 😭😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds
      @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Norah Elaine yeah, he could have just made it about family, which would have been relatable to everyone who's married and/or has kids; instead, he made it about skin color, which sucked all the humor out of the joke🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @psdd9293
    @psdd9293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Thank you Jenie for explaining the difference between oriental and Asian, I honestly never knew before ✌🏾❤

    • @SuperFaith4ever
      @SuperFaith4ever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Okay, I am not the only one. Like to also say thank you.

    • @takearight.
      @takearight. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hispanic...Latino... I will not conform to political identity to put their words in my mouth. Before it was “Mexicans”.. we were “corrected”
      Now they want us to say Latino.. now I say ...still...Hispanic!!!Hispanic simply means people who speak Spanish!!! Stop it!!!

    • @takearight.
      @takearight. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Call me KAREN..I have a name for y’all ....real phony.

    • @MeMe-ht2hd
      @MeMe-ht2hd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@takearight. Hispanics are the Spaniards from Spain. Latino is actually more of an honor if you are not from Spain because it means someone who is mixed with the Spaniard, indigenous, or possibly African. As Cubans, and Dominicans, and so forth. By saying you are Latino you are acknowledging your mixture and all the cultures.
      But, you are free to say what feels right. Even as a Mexican you are a mixture of Spanish and Indigenous people. Some Mexican might have Arab/African. The Aztecs existed before the Whites came.

    • @takearight.
      @takearight. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MeMe-ht2hd good to know..thanks

  • @nisarasool7637
    @nisarasool7637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Jeanie Mae did the same thing she stated that she like her Dark Meat on the side who is now married to a black Man.

    • @nisarasool7637
      @nisarasool7637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Now Dark Meat the Main Entree.

    • @ummeiguess
      @ummeiguess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Jeanie is a whole other mess of problems
      she's def the type to have these racial issues - but not grasp her fault in it

  • @ReemThearab
    @ReemThearab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Racism is never okay. Doesn’t matter who you’re married to. Don’t be racist. Plain and simple. It’s disgusting and disrespectful.

    • @deeperbeauty4147
      @deeperbeauty4147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly! Doesn't matter who it's coming from...

    • @takearight.
      @takearight. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Every race has some racism in them ..its human nature..

  • @tinapinch7494
    @tinapinch7494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    My mom use to do that. She adopted me though. Being the only black person in my family until my son... making jokes about me being a slave or a maid and saying my son had too much black in him is why I don't talk to her now. It took some time because she adopted me single, but I will never speak to her again in this lifetime.

    • @Lioness-Ma
      @Lioness-Ma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Damn! That's deep Sis. I'm sorry you experienced that.

    • @godsgirl2696
      @godsgirl2696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I am sorry that happened. I hope that you have a wonderful life.

    • @shon_6762
      @shon_6762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But overall during your childhood how did she treat you i would really like to know.

    • @geesling5395
      @geesling5395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So sorry u had to go through that..be blessed

    • @ummeiguess
      @ummeiguess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm sorry you had to grow up in that
      but I'm glad you chose not to allow that for yourself or your child anymore
      smh
      it's healthier for you both
      **sending you strength and prayers**

  • @superiorpanda6449
    @superiorpanda6449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Blaming the wife for the Husband's mistake sounds like the heaviest load of crap I've heard in a while. That's like thinking in reverse

    • @shadayethomas415
      @shadayethomas415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No but I get what she saying he must have said it in their home to casual use it like that . Has the wife from that background u should check him cause your spouse is also a reflection of you

    • @superiorpanda6449
      @superiorpanda6449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@shadayethomas415 The spouse is never a reflection of you, they are adults and have their own will. People need to take responsibility for their actions instead of trying to latch it onto someone else because at the end of the day you decide what actions to take. As an adult you have the responsibility to educate *yourself* before anyone else.

    • @yttwitterfbfreak
      @yttwitterfbfreak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@superiorpanda6449 Well put!

    • @aaronhall7988
      @aaronhall7988 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@superiorpanda6449 FALSE!!

    • @aaronhall7988
      @aaronhall7988 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Nikscaroline period!!!

  • @phoenixsoulstar9274
    @phoenixsoulstar9274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    From Britain actually currently residing in Kent, I'm offended by Mel like REALLY SMH where in the UK is this place where colour jokes and or racist terms aren't said and I'll go there 😤

  • @joannebaker4925
    @joannebaker4925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Mel B making the comment she did, says she somewhat insinuating that England does not have racial issues when England does. Brexit is the very defination of racist ideology.

    • @NG-th8ny
      @NG-th8ny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lies!!! 🙄 (Mel B/Scary Spice comment! 🤦🏽‍♀️)
      I’m a Black woman in my 40’s from London. Well travelled and have always lived in London.
      I used to say that I would not want to live in the US due to the overt racism, but I have recently come to the conclusion that I actually would prefer to have people being blatantly racist to my face whilst having the added benefit of living in a warm location all year round!

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Piers Morgan

    • @deeperbeauty4147
      @deeperbeauty4147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@joycewilliams9503 exactly! He is very racist and ignorant

  • @CaapriceTube1
    @CaapriceTube1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    9:55 - welp, meghan markle's son's skin colour was quite the disturbance for a whoooole bunch of Brits
    Mel

    • @babywhatdisay8249
      @babywhatdisay8249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A LOT of B.S. goin' around.
      Original Royal Family of the British Ilses where Black Moors.

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That baby is whiter than the queen!😂 lmao

    • @marygale-manuel5514
      @marygale-manuel5514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@joycewilliams9503 -4 now!!!," the baby is whiter than the queen," wait a few years, he'll be looking like grandma, with locs and a nose ring. And singing James Brown song, "Say it Lould, Im Black and I'm Proud"😁😁🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😆😆🤔🤨🙄😶😑😛😛😜😜😝😲😬😳🤪

    • @tammiartis1207
      @tammiartis1207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@marygale-manuel5514 that’s gonna kill the queen 👑 🤣😂

    • @tammiartis1207
      @tammiartis1207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Probably wanted to check if his complexion darkened everyday.

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    These things are more common than one thinks and some Black People stay in that relationship. It's similar to experiencing racism at work. They think it's joke but it makes work awkward as hell.

    • @messaoudanekamel7277
      @messaoudanekamel7277 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @MusicWorldWonder
      @MusicWorldWonder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Agree, it's very common for the jokes not to be funny.

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can't tell yoy how many people tell racist jokes all the time, black people, white, Asian, blasian.

    • @huldah1605
      @huldah1605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @Marie Baker Lol Black people should get over slavery, segregation and racism? Despite racism still been a problem in America? And segregation been recent?

    • @melanin_love7
      @melanin_love7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jolene thank you

  • @MsLaRue
    @MsLaRue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    Adam doesn't make racial driven jokes because he's too busy writing racially driven dissertations. But I digress...💅🏾

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      😂😂😂😂. THANK YOU

    • @hotdrumchick
      @hotdrumchick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Yeah, I've heard about him, lol. Tamera must overlook a lot.

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@hotdrumchick Tamara thinks she’s white!

    • @indiansummer9977
      @indiansummer9977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤

    • @kiamyal8698
      @kiamyal8698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@hotdrumchick just google it on Twitter you will see it there

  • @sancraft1
    @sancraft1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    My sister on law is a mixed race British woman and married to a white man and they have mixed children. They live in Derbyshire. They definitely make racial jokes, stereotypes, etc. She had to explain the n word to her 4 yr old last week because someone called him that and didn't know what it meant.

    • @ummeiguess
      @ummeiguess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yikes 😬
      it's the most heartbreaking thing to me when you have to explain the ugly things to children 😠😭
      **hate needs to be stamped out**

  • @houseofpharoah1718
    @houseofpharoah1718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    The "angry black woman" stereotype, why does the black woman in America of all places distance herself from it? With respect I feel that a black American woman should take the stereotype and own it. Yes, a black American woman especially has the right to be angry! She has endured a lot! It is my impression that the "angry black woman " phrase was formulated as a clever way to reverse and to distance themselves mentally from the ugly truth of their dark history, deeds and their roles that resulted in the current state that the black American woman finds herself in. So if other races are allowed to Express, detail their "nightmare" experiences then the black American woman should and is right to be angry! After all, she isn't going around and ruining other people's comfortably established lives, is she? She simply demands a better treatment and equal opportunity for her too to do what she was naturally good at doing, build a strong society, her society! She has been denied that!
    She, the black American woman was not naturally a bitter and an angry being, the world in which she found herself in induced the angry emotions. Should we recount her experiences here in America or should we examine how she must constantly work hard just to survive? She gets exhausted from all the heavy burdens she was always forced to bare.
    Finally, other minority women with far less experience of abuse in comparing to the black American woman is Not labeled "angry" because her emotions are welcomed and digested with ease. But a black American woman's emotions are justifiably heavy because the ones who abused her were weak in the first place and too ashamed of what they see when they must look into her eyes. They project this stereotype as an effort to hide their dark deeds. So to the black American woman, if you are categorized again by anyone as you being angry, you should ask them to give you a reason why YOU should not be. If I may, I encourage you to own your anger! It is then that you find the strength to fight back your oppressors. You don't fight because you are happy, but you fight because you're angry and there is a cause important enough to fight for and YOU have plenty! You will become "happy " when you TOO enjoy the benefits of living just like everyone else but until then let your anger be known!
    Stay blessed

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      YOU HAVE PREACHED!!! You have expressed my EVERY emotion and thought!❤️

    • @ksmilesknowsmoney5986
      @ksmilesknowsmoney5986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This was truth🙌🏽

    • @paulasmall5113
      @paulasmall5113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Now I think that days it all. Yes claim it. It really is freeing

    • @blacamethyst6934
      @blacamethyst6934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said 👏 my sister 👏 ❤ 👍

    • @muurisoras5878
      @muurisoras5878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts 💯

  • @michellestrawn2976
    @michellestrawn2976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You completely helped me. I am an African American woman who grew up in Chicago. One of my favorite museums was the "Oriental Institute" which showcased so much of Asian culture. I did not know or recognize that oriental was a slur. You can still learn cultural sensitivity even into your 70's. Thank you.

  • @BlackGirlGreenThumb
    @BlackGirlGreenThumb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    If anybody is angry it should be his wife, I wonder what that conversation was like? lol

    • @MusicWorldWonder
      @MusicWorldWonder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The joke just wasn't funny, jokes have to be funny.

    • @BlackGirlGreenThumb
      @BlackGirlGreenThumb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@MusicWorldWonder it wasn’t but i still wonder what the wife’s reaction was

  • @butthatsnoneofmybusiness
    @butthatsnoneofmybusiness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    6:08 - A White Husband Makes Racially Insensitive Joke About His Black Family

  • @coyottittocoetzee438
    @coyottittocoetzee438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Adrienne's blouse is bomb 🔥😍😍😍😍😍

    • @alexismum
      @alexismum 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want it so badddddd

  • @johannahendricks8588
    @johannahendricks8588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Its not a joke it's what they believe and want to say but masking it as a "joke"
    Its not funny

  • @kairilaicreampuffs
    @kairilaicreampuffs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I love how this is such an old episode back from 2017 and it just now gets uploaded lol

    • @m.w.3256
      @m.w.3256 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But aren’t most Asian women married to white men?

    • @sarahd2787
      @sarahd2787 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@m.w.3256 No

    • @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds
      @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@m.w.3256 Um...what?

  • @HerCrochetCorner
    @HerCrochetCorner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I can’t watch the real without tamera 😭

    • @joshuagibson2541
      @joshuagibson2541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She was wack

    • @jazziesworld103
      @jazziesworld103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@joshuagibson2541 hater

    • @sarahd2787
      @sarahd2787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@joshuagibson2541 No,she wasn't.

    • @entyc_nm5493
      @entyc_nm5493 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why did she leave??

    • @HerCrochetCorner
      @HerCrochetCorner 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@entyc_nm5493 I think she was just ready to move on and focus on other things

  • @millasuini8307
    @millasuini8307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    My mom was afraid to teach us Chinese back when me and siblings were kids cause my dad's side kept laughing at her when she spoke Chinese 😢😢

    • @sheldeon
      @sheldeon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AND? THAT WAS HER DECISION. BLAME HER AND STOP TRYING TO GASLIGHT PPL JUST BECAUSE THE MEDIA HAS THIS FAKE LIE GOING THAT YOU’RE OPPRESSED HERE. CUT IT OUT.

    • @millasuini8307
      @millasuini8307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@sheldeon ummm Im not in the states. Lol. And calm down

    • @nelsatiemtore6356
      @nelsatiemtore6356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@sheldeon rude much?

    • @TH-eb7ob
      @TH-eb7ob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@sheldeon I agree that it's not necessarily our problem (black people don't need to cape for everyone) but you can still empathize, be a human being

    • @Victoria_06647
      @Victoria_06647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@sheldeon Where's your respect.

  • @Cantetinza17
    @Cantetinza17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    It was a bad joke! I would rather him make a positive joke about him having an interracial family. You know like how he will never be Ashy, or he now knows how to read someone for filth and still sound polite. Something like that. I personally love Mayo add a little hot sauce and it's great to me. =)

    • @BELLA-lt2ws
      @BELLA-lt2ws 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

    • @BELLA-lt2ws
      @BELLA-lt2ws 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This comment is under rated

    • @alimaalier3867
      @alimaalier3867 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a racist joke

    • @Cantetinza17
      @Cantetinza17 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alimaalier3867 to you its racist for me its a bad joke. I'm not gonna give so much of my energy to it, but you can.

  • @kjam4236
    @kjam4236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Keep having these discussions that's the one thing that will help to break down our racial barriers...HOPEFULLY!

  • @mr.peanutbutter5423
    @mr.peanutbutter5423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    6:13 you’re welcome

  • @LadyC285
    @LadyC285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    That's why I don't care what nobody says, nobody- love or not love being in a bi-racial relationship, the white partner will often have a sly comment about the black person's race, joke or not or subconsciously it outright.

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Deeply rooted in their being.

    • @indiansummer9977
      @indiansummer9977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      EXACTLYYYY

    • @takearight.
      @takearight. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop it... it’s human nature. Have you ever made “subconscious” race jokes at home? Sure you have double standard hypocrite....

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Taraji is my absolute fave.

  • @patriciabarnes7034
    @patriciabarnes7034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If I was his black wife, I'd divorce him. Marriage over mate.

  • @ffffggffffgfgrrfdf
    @ffffggffffgfgrrfdf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Adam was just sensitive with the mayo question... T was just making a sandwich.

    • @karim6752
      @karim6752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think a lot of people can be sensitive.

    • @teresamyers9281
      @teresamyers9281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Right. I don't think she was being racist. She was just asking if he wanted mayonnaise on his sandwich

    • @pamworly8923
      @pamworly8923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't like mayonnaise.....give me Kraft salad dressing 😋 . People need to realize that jokes about race aren't funny. When you've been the but of these jokes its not funny.

    • @lilangelbaby8706
      @lilangelbaby8706 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh so when it comes to a white person....they’re just “sensitive!?!” Gtfoh

    • @ummeiguess
      @ummeiguess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lilangelbaby8706
      I'm pretty sure she said "Adam", not "all white ppl"
      and if you know anything about him, you'd realize He - Adam - Tamera's husband - Tamera Moury-Housely's husband - Adam Housley - is a bit of a prick - and he often makes his ignorance and intolerance (about race issues) widely known
      read up
      his problem isn't the mayo - it's that he's a fragile jackass who thinks his feelings and thoughts have more authority than his wife's
      but she caters to that who she married, so she's used to it
      AND she often capes for his right to be a little bit of garbage

  • @rudiannwildgoose-laing4629
    @rudiannwildgoose-laing4629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    NO. Either ethnic group should not make stereotypical comments/jokes.

  • @FreedomofSpeech865
    @FreedomofSpeech865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Like she said, sometimes they don’t listen. They gotta learn the hard way.

  • @helenbradley4638
    @helenbradley4638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Tamara: "My hunny........ Is just not that funny!"
    So funny!!

  • @HabitualMender5
    @HabitualMender5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    That I’m not a Rug ! Lmao

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It is your job to check your family, friends, etc.

  • @wonderwonderful5351
    @wonderwonderful5351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Who would have figured Hidden Figures would have come in first place at the box office? Thank God for Big Favor's. His timing is not ours. But it's right on time. Think jokes about color should not be told...leave it to people that know how to tell them.

  • @BrandyD1777
    @BrandyD1777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I don't care what time it is....any word that is a reference to racism should not be used....not even among each other.
    P.s. UK is filled with racists.....it exists every where you look. And people, comedians, shows, etc. have/do make those types of jokes.

    • @katrinab7657
      @katrinab7657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actually, certain jokes are "inside" jokes. Often, not meant for the population at large. Even when others are privy to the joke, it doesn't mean they have permission to use it. For example, I can talk and joke for hours about my family. I've earned the right. However, no one else should try it. They haven't lived it and cannot earn that privilege.

    • @BrandyD1777
      @BrandyD1777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katrinab7657 I can completely agree yet others who hear you automatically think they speak the same way...ugh 🤦‍♀️

    • @NG-th8ny
      @NG-th8ny 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lies!!! 🙄 (re. Scary Spice’s comments about race).
      (I’m a Black woman in my 40’s from London. Well travelled and have always lived in London).
      I used to say that I would not want to live in the US due to the overt racism, but I have recently come to the conclusion that I actually would prefer to have people being blatantly racist to my face whilst having the added benefit of living in a warm location all year round!

    • @takearight.
      @takearight. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BrandyD1777 I wish the snowflake era would just melt!!

  • @dnataliesmith2209
    @dnataliesmith2209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't get why America thinks only Black woman are angry. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @zarario4444
      @zarario4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Black men have said Black Women are angry. America listens to what Black Women say about each other.

  • @JessAnonymous
    @JessAnonymous 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    i havent watched The Real since quarantine man i miss THIS. Tamera and Tamar...ugh bring it all back

  • @liztewliztew
    @liztewliztew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I dunno. My guy is Caucasian . Sometimes he makes a stereotypical “white” joke while talking to me. I NEVER take part in those jokes. Sometimes I might jokingly say something like I want to go buy some chicken, or more specifically chicken wings, and he might laugh at me for saying it, but he doesn’t join in. Actually, sometimes he’ll sorta jokingly say that I shouldn’t say whatever it is that I had said as he is acknowledging that he CAN’T say the same thing.
    Yeah, being in an interracial relationship should make people more aware of what one should/should not say or do...not provide permission to crack jokes that would ordinarily be off limits.

    • @indiansummer9977
      @indiansummer9977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why would he laugh about chicken wings it’s food and it’s good and why would YOU joke about it FOOD IS FOOD whether it’s chicken wings or cucumber sandwiches don’t engage in the jokes

    • @liztewliztew
      @liztewliztew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@indiansummer9977 My guy and his buddies love drinking beer while I want none of that. Personal preferences. I’m a super healthy eater, but my vice is chicken wings...he also loves wings, probably more than me.
      Anyway, my initial post was not necessarily about delicious chicken. What I was getting at is that we are both well aware of stereotypes based on race, culture, religion, etc. As an interracial couple, we do our best not to use stereotypes that are not self-deprecating.

    • @ludy41
      @ludy41 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like fun....NOT!!!

  • @LovinglfDesigns
    @LovinglfDesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm with Mel B. Stay away from racial jokes and stick to talking about yourself when joking. The Angry Black woman trope is infuriating because anyone, of any race or sex can be prone to anger. The CP time trope insinuates that Black people are always late and it's just another situation when anyone of any race or sex can be prone to tardiness. Personally for me it depends on the importance. I'll always be early to work and to meetings but more relaxed about social situations where timeliness is not an issue (pool party, barbecue, drinks at a bar etc.). The oriental thing is some serious ignorance.

  • @NomyJackson
    @NomyJackson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I don't think white people get offended if you ask if they want mayo? I don't quite get that. It's no different if you ask someone if they want ketchup or mustard. Are we now supposed to say" Do you want some of the white stuff in the jar on your sandwich?"

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Absolutely right! It’s ridiculous!!

    • @twalston01
      @twalston01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Okay now how long has Tamera been married to her husband at this point? They have Mayo in the house, so who picked it up ,has she been buying it every since they got married and didn’t notice it wasn’t being used, has she never made her husband a sandwich? So many questions. 🤔
      I’m looking at Tamera like🤥😒

    • @NatalieTheRican
      @NatalieTheRican 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@twalston01 for real. This story is suspicious. I think she made it up so she had something to say.

    • @twalston01
      @twalston01 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NatalieTheRican lol I was just thinking" poor thing just felt like she had to contribute"

    • @ludy41
      @ludy41 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was her white husband that took offense.

  • @Onur0547
    @Onur0547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Did Mel B rly say that in England they dont use racial jokes? But isnt England known for being racist and especially its more in the media (with the royals and etc)

    • @rebeccat6825
      @rebeccat6825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No where near as racist as America

    • @yusraahmed8542
      @yusraahmed8542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      no one would ever publicly say a joke abt colour

    • @shealynbrown3613
      @shealynbrown3613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I've seen plenty of videos of very racist Europeans, so I don't know what she's talking about

    • @Onur0547
      @Onur0547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@shealynbrown3613 yeah I live in the netherlands (country in europe) and ppl can be very racist. And its also very slick (it can be out of ignorance sometimes tho)

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      since when has England ever been known for being 'racist'?!

  • @didi73456
    @didi73456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tamera always made me laugh with her expressions. She looks funny revealing things that may put her out there. I love her.

  • @carriewashington23
    @carriewashington23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This whole clip is 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾✨✨ definitely something that needs to be apart of the conversation!

  • @thezeeyez7151
    @thezeeyez7151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Mel PLEASE!
    Tam is so passive with Adam, I prefer Tia

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Most black people prefer Tia. Tamara SAID she identifies with her “white side” more and proves it by her choice of a racist husband and all of her friends (that I’ve seen) are white except her sister. Her husband allegedly went on a hostile rant when Trump lost! How could she sleep with that kind of enemy? I have no respect for her!

    • @thezeeyez7151
      @thezeeyez7151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@joycewilliams9503 I didn't know about the rant but I knew his views from other incidents he's had on social media. He's arrogant and he's a bigot/ racist. She never seems quite comfortable to me in his presence. I don't know how she does it or anyone married to a racist can be okay with it. I agree with you 100 % Tam doesn't identify as Black.

    • @teresaburch23
      @teresaburch23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@joycewilliams9503 she probably voted for Trump. Birds of a feather flock together.

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@teresaburch23 absolutely

  • @mojo782
    @mojo782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Don't most people like mayo? And fried chicken? We gotta squash that stuff

    • @niseytimo3107
      @niseytimo3107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I live in Georgia and these white folks eat Fried chicken like it’s nobody’s business. I’m Haitian and we eat more stews if anything. Fried food just isn’t healthy, so we prepare it mostly for parties and events.When I told my white country ass coworkers, I’m not into fried chicken she got upset like I was lying. Then, I had to remind her I’m not from America 😆

    • @lucky4evr1
      @lucky4evr1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I don't get the fried chicken thing because I didn't grow up eating fried chicken. Ate a lot of fish, baked chicken, stewed meat etc.

    • @mojo782
      @mojo782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@niseytimo3107 yeah it use to be a more of a special occasion food is the US too because it's a chore to prepare. But with the advent of fast food takeout and grocery store fried chicken it's turned into a convenience food you can eat whenever you want.
      Also I travel a lot and eat a lot of different cuisine and I gather most every country has their own style of "fried chicken" by some other name. Taking meat and cooking it in hot oil is one of the rudimentary ways to prepare food that I bet we have been doing for thousands of years if not more.
      So I'm not saying every single person likes it, and I'm not talking about if it's healthy or not. Just that it's really tired, lazy and stupid to say black people like fried chicken. Yeah and over 50% of people all over this planet like it. I'm black and I like fried chicken, watermelon, mayo, candy, and sex like the bulk of humanity. Its time to retire these tropes which were only ever meant to divide us and not notice how alike we truly are.

    • @Churros1616
      @Churros1616 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree it’s definitely an African American stereotype. In the Caribbean we have fried chicken, but it’s not the preferred food.

    • @SimplyaLady92
      @SimplyaLady92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Churros1616 it is a negative stereotype. In this country, white people don't look at you as Haitian, Jamaican or w.e you claim to be. So they will apply that stereotype to you as well. Either way, it ain't right.

  • @johannahendricks8588
    @johannahendricks8588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    That mayo thing wasn't called for lol. He should have asked why she asked because people do put mayo on sandwiches regardless of race. But oh well

    • @lessoufi
      @lessoufi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Didn't her husband stand up with trump and his racist slurs?

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed! There’s no way that compares to being black! No way!!!

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lessoufi “LET”?

    • @indiansummer9977
      @indiansummer9977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sooo true I’m not white but I loveee Mayo on my sandwiches

  • @Dr.DellPhD
    @Dr.DellPhD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tamara face during the white man joke is priceless.
    I respect her comment.

    • @lessoufi
      @lessoufi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tamara's husband is a trump hunting racist.

  • @mjohnson6841
    @mjohnson6841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I thought she was going to say that she'd made a "white bread" sandwich and Adam called her on it! 🤣 The mayo thing is new to me and btw I love mayo!

  • @MsNeshara
    @MsNeshara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When I click and I see tam my day is made 😊

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The Real, we want to know the original air date.

  • @rlee1231
    @rlee1231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everybody looks amazing 👏🏽😍💕 on here!

  • @blairf7118
    @blairf7118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I know a lady who said Oriental when describing an Asian Person and I was like 😐😑😶

  • @cassieluv7869
    @cassieluv7869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I wonder where the narrative that black people are angry or argumentative comes from?

    • @lynnwilhoite6194
      @lynnwilhoite6194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think it’s because most of us always speak up against the racism that exists and/or is thrown in our faces. They want us to be quiet and go with the status quo.

    • @sophiaatn5339
      @sophiaatn5339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Racist white men

    • @blairf7118
      @blairf7118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Narrative that we shouldn't be seen much less heard????

    • @zarario4444
      @zarario4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A lot of people listen to what Black people say about each other. And Black men have said Black Women are argumentative and angry.

    • @rashiidabdallah1648
      @rashiidabdallah1648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lynnwilhoite6194 yep

  • @lanettataylor8148
    @lanettataylor8148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I honestly never knew Oriental was derogative. I swear. I thought it just meant of Asian descent.

  • @ChiTownChei
    @ChiTownChei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Saying "C.P. time" was Shaaaaaaaaaade

  • @lakishaspeaks
    @lakishaspeaks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    lol..."I had to explain to him that I'm not a rug". I'm died...haha

  • @hitgirl3472
    @hitgirl3472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did anyone notice 8:27 when Jeannie whooshed her hand the girl chat logo changed? Disney Vibes. 😂

  • @myckalaross8973
    @myckalaross8973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Mel B looks Amazing 😍 I love her British accent I can hear her talk for hours

    • @ludy41
      @ludy41 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her accent is so odd. Im saying that as a Brit.

  • @patriceriddick7986
    @patriceriddick7986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's exactly why I would never. #B1

  • @fittomakeup9890
    @fittomakeup9890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If his joke is based on truth. I can understand why his wife may be angry and argumentative-if this is the crap that comes out of his mouth. Divorce should be her clap back. Now that would be funny. Smh
    That mayo story is off to me. I have never heard that one before.

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No one has heard the Mayo thing!

    • @tys8965
      @tys8965 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have heard it before

  • @babygurll7
    @babygurll7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tamera looks ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS! I can't stop staring at her yassss

  • @lindamakhoba
    @lindamakhoba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    this video with Tamera makes me miss the good ole days

  • @lailapasse6795
    @lailapasse6795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So did Adrienne just blame the wife for a racist comment? And to educate her husband ... did she really just say that??

    • @StrawberrypeachQueen
      @StrawberrypeachQueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep, she did

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She did! 😂

    • @MC-bp1dm
      @MC-bp1dm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I cant stand Adrienne anyway!

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MC-bp1dm me either!!

    • @dirttowater
      @dirttowater 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I believe this was during the early part of her marriage when she was trying to be the perfect, doting wife- circa 1950’s.

  • @jillisaacs8448
    @jillisaacs8448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Why is this posted as "new" news, when this is an old show??

  • @dmckenzie7333
    @dmckenzie7333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If your partner is Black etc. and you are not then all the more reason to protect that group of people from racism not add to the issues your partner and the group faces. Common sense.

  • @johndoolittle1971
    @johndoolittle1971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When I was 18 years old I was involved with an African-American woman I'm white people would never ask me it was usually African-American people that would ask her did I ever call her the n word when we got into an argument or other curiosities or they're like does he salads all the time cuz he's white does he smell like a dog when he gets wet and that just hurts some really silly stuff but my point is is that when you are involved with some other person from another race those stereotypes and all the differences that you have go away you are in love with that person and you share each other's unique properties personalities traits there's never a Time that you want your head and think of this person as an angry black woman a possessive black woman any other stereotypes that are associated with African-American women I'm not sure but within a short period of time you actually don't even notice each other's race anymore because you're in love and race has racist so silly because we think that we're so different we have 99.9% commonalities and to dwell on my new differences is silly I never say the n word I never thought of calling her the n word first of all because that word is so evil and vile but anyway we were together for 15 years we got married I have a wonderful son and yes I'm scared to death every time he gets into a car and gets pulled over by the police and I'm scared the people will look at him and associate every black stereotype they can and hurt him anyway I love both of them with all my heart and it has nothing to do with them being black white asian Latino whatever it has to do with their hearts and what's inside of them and they love me too

  • @sunflo225
    @sunflo225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok , as a french black women (borned and raised in Paris ) I Can relate what Mel B said..
    Like for so much black people in France, UK is just a paradise..
    Some people in my family leave Paris for London juste to have opportunities like a decent work and decent place to leave...
    I'm a graduated woman who have a job with responsability but many people still think i'm the janitor or the maid only because I'm black ans won't accepté any word from me
    , and everyday I heard stupid comment and jokes about black people, black women..
    Be a black woman in France or a black man is really thuff.
    here they dont' look at me for my skill or expertise but only for my color and I know they won't let me any chance I have to fight x10000 to everything.
    My family in UK doesn't have this kind of problem even though I know they experiment racism but not even close to my reality
    sorry for my Bad english

  • @lucky4evr1
    @lucky4evr1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Why they have Adrienne smiling with that caption..🤔 Definitely should have used different thumbnail

    • @realityclips6052
      @realityclips6052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same thing I was thinking

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      should of?

    • @lucky4evr1
      @lucky4evr1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sssssssslf 🤣 My accent.. I edited it!

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eh, I would not call that a smile.

  • @symonec2240
    @symonec2240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way she said MAyO¿ 😭😭😅😅😅😅

  • @Joyful-gu5bj
    @Joyful-gu5bj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She makes me laugh when she pours water on Simon. She is lovable, beautiful and straight forward. Love her accent. Love from Kenya love your show Girls. God bless you all.

    • @teresaburch23
      @teresaburch23 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Simon reminded me of a little boy, who had a crush on a girl. He was always, picking on Mel B, then Howie joined in.

  • @mimi04bx
    @mimi04bx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was laughing at some point because, I used work as a home aid and i came across this Puerto Rican lady that no one in the agency want to work with, so they send me as the last resort lol, the first thing she asked me was in Spanish “ where are you from?” I was like “ Dominican” she says “ oh you don’t know how to cook” not asking but telling herself, i was like “ my mother taught me to cook at 10 years old” she was surprised at how calm i was and the she says, “ you don’t act like a Dominican” hahahahahaha i didn’t know what to think at that point, i stayed with that lady for 3 months after that the agency dropped her and her family have to put her in a nursing home..

    • @ImJustShayeB
      @ImJustShayeB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dude I will never understand the Puerto Rican/Dominican/Mexican beef going on. It's such a touchy subject.

  • @MzMary2U
    @MzMary2U 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Okay, I am confused. Hidden Figures come out in 2017. Why does the date say March 27, 2021? 🤪

    • @LocFitnessMama
      @LocFitnessMama 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was wondering the same thing, but I’m guessing Jeannie was married in 2017, divorced, and then married Jeezy four years later. Talk about leveling up!

    • @RRAY1991
      @RRAY1991 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LocFitnessMama that's not true she was married years before the show began in 2013

  • @carmelaparra3766
    @carmelaparra3766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mel B just fits in I love it!

  • @SimplySiwe
    @SimplySiwe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It really doesn't make sense to release such old videos... What's the logic behind that? Why not just post different segments of the show immediately after it airs??

    • @SimplySiwe
      @SimplySiwe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@ShandraJohnson Well I find it annoying. Why stir up drama with a 4 year old story? If it wasn't important enough for them to post then and let people engage they should've left it alone...surely they have more current topics they can post, or are they going to only release them in 4 years' time?

  • @denisetewhata2513
    @denisetewhata2513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hidden figures is me and my dad's favourite movie, we've watched it over 20 times, it is such a beautiful and inspirational movie ❤️

  • @peacemasuku7148
    @peacemasuku7148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh gosh Loniiiii 😍😍😍😍you're beautiful 😭

  • @daniellesdreamcatchers4591
    @daniellesdreamcatchers4591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel like nobody should say that word. It’s a racial slur with an a or an r.

  • @destineeallen88
    @destineeallen88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Noone:
    Loni: I interviewed her too

  • @peterporkeresq.2817
    @peterporkeresq.2817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    _UK is so progressive en? Tell that to your Royal Family and your Press and your Comedians and your Society ..._

  • @palmzombie3553
    @palmzombie3553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If my husband feels comfortable talking about me OR my kids like that.....he wouldn't be called my husband for much longer

  • @jasmincastillo8686
    @jasmincastillo8686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was extremely shocked when my roommate referred to me as a “lightskin” because I am half white half Latina. I had never heard that term before but I can tell you I did NOT like it..

  • @fitfoodies9313
    @fitfoodies9313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My God, mayo? Really? 🙄

  • @AwwSisNess
    @AwwSisNess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So I'm Puerto Rican/white. Husband at the time black. We have 2 children together. Our marriage was already in the toilet but the last time he got violent he threatened to have me lynched and said so many racist slurs. We had been best friend since 3rd grade and he never not once was ever racist said anything along those lines and same with me. So when he did that to me I was shocked! Totally shocked!! He was very abusive but he said those things and I sat there the next day and was like my kids are not full black. He thinks these things. I can't allow someone to look at my kids this way or not accept a part of them. I left a few weeks later. I could never be with someone who thinks that way. Unacceptable on all ends! And yes I left obviously for many other reasons but that incident was the push out the door my dumb ass needed.

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Puerto Rican’s are NOT white!!!!

    • @AwwSisNess
      @AwwSisNess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@joycewilliams9503 lol thank you for clarifying who I am. But I said I'm also white. Puerto Rican/white. I'm mixed.

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AwwSisNess sorry! In the black race when you’re mixed, you’re considered black.

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not trying to be offensive Kassi

    • @joycewilliams9503
      @joycewilliams9503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are NOT dumb for trying to keep your family together for however long you did. Don’t you let ANYBODY tell you that.

  • @thatlovelydancerIlao
    @thatlovelydancerIlao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tam.. my hun honey, sometimes is just not funny. I love her. We should never generalize or put people in a box. We're e individuals even born as one of a kind no matter how familiar we are

  • @danieh2982
    @danieh2982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Forgive me for steering off topic, but when did this air originally?

  • @HazelJuanitaMillanHoffman
    @HazelJuanitaMillanHoffman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I learned something today from Jeannie's part of the conversation

  • @whitneycaldwell3767
    @whitneycaldwell3767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you ladies!!!