53. Your Ex NEEDS to respect you! (Winning your ex back takes r e s p e c t)

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  • @spooky0.068
    @spooky0.068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I'm thankful I went through this breakup. I have discovered all of these dating resources that 100% have made me feel like I can be a better partner for my next relationship. I'm doing personal growth, shes smoking weed in her basement. Good riddance

  • @Pragyan-by9dt
    @Pragyan-by9dt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    An underrated TH-cam channel. Thank you for being there for me for all these tough times

  • @bethelalvarez3927
    @bethelalvarez3927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I wanna say thank you❤Your channel encourages me more and more every time I listen to it. I'm in 2 and a half week of no contact with my ex but I've been working on myself and listening to you're advices. I'm really happy that there are people willing to help others. I never lose hope because you encourage me. But if it doesn't work then there are plenty fish in the sea and more people that will love all the effort I put in into making someone happy. But again thank you. At times I want to break no contact but then I stop myself and re watch your helpful videos. Thank you!!! Each day that passes I find myself a little more.

    • @jessiepalermo7234
      @jessiepalermo7234 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Were you able to get your ex back?

    • @angheld8653
      @angheld8653 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      update?

    • @bethelalvarez3927
      @bethelalvarez3927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jessiepalermo7234 No I found someone better than him and I'm glad

    • @bethelalvarez3927
      @bethelalvarez3927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@angheld8653 he did reach out but just to tell me that he doesn't care about me. I did work on myself and I found somebody way much better.

  • @moozer951
    @moozer951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I did a lot of things wrong and you’re videos are really helping me understand that like my actions were pushing her away and I was blinded by myself when In reality I should have noticed and adapted I really changed and lost self esteem for myself and her being a strong motivated person that drove her away she was always so attracted and then I become a shell of myself I’m so thankful for you for helping understand my flaws so I can better myself

  • @rainbowsprinkles13
    @rainbowsprinkles13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These videos are so helpful to me. Thank you for opening my eyes that yes I need to worry about me and focus on me. True that my situation is a bit unique but at the end of the day I can control only my actions. I plan to be a better version of me. I mean I was at 80% so I just need that additional 20% to be my very best.

  • @GMan2670
    @GMan2670 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your videos are so helpful. Keep up the very good work. Most informative on you tube

  • @PlatinumDagger
    @PlatinumDagger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    So I found out that my ex was a covert narcissists. It explains all the red flags and what happened to me in March. Thank you @Rory for your channel. It helped me heal.❤

  • @DetectiveHouse
    @DetectiveHouse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A few days ago I was watching a skincare video. Then, out of the blue, TH-cam suggested a video from Dating Guy, which I decided to check out. That prompted video suggestions for this channel and now I’m here and I’m hooked on Rory’s channel and Dating Guy’s channel. And I don’t even want any of my exes back. 😂

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank god for skincare, am I right?

    • @DetectiveHouse
      @DetectiveHouse 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheLoveChat Absolutely! Great channel and advice. I’m taking notes; I’m sure they will come in handy someday! 😅

  • @michaelstewart2817
    @michaelstewart2817 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    great reminder!

  • @shea88barbie
    @shea88barbie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I realized he didn’t respect me before i finally realized he didn’t love me either.

    • @csegovia8846
      @csegovia8846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hard lesson, but am learning this too.

  • @yuritheimmortalmma
    @yuritheimmortalmma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First one!

  • @22losthighway
    @22losthighway 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That’s why we broke up…the disrespect started on the 4th date and I didn’t stand up for myself and the disrespect continued for 4 more weeks and when I stood up for myself and scholded her for it she was done!!! I’m 30 days no contact and don’t expect to ever hear from her nor would I consider continuing the relationship!!!

  • @AncAkansha
    @AncAkansha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said.

  • @davidbryson8937
    @davidbryson8937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why would my ex block me on Facebook four months after the break up and after nearly three months of no contact (no attempt whatsoever)? Especially when her profile is set to private and she chooses what to share publicly? Is it possible that no contact is getting to her to the point where she can't handle seeing me doing well? If she wanted to hide a relationship, she would just have to not share the post publicly. Also, my photos were still up on her profile until a month ago.

  • @TASHIEMUSIQ
    @TASHIEMUSIQ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Simple but powerful. Thank you.

  • @bosschedda_
    @bosschedda_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Right now my ex doesn't respect me much because she's angry at me. But she sure does still talk to me. Responds to my mesgs. You know what , im going No Contact again.

    • @TheLoveChat
      @TheLoveChat  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Good. For. You.

    • @josephplt3588
      @josephplt3588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What was the reason for the breakup? Any updates?

  • @cherrybacon5154
    @cherrybacon5154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't know what I ever saw in my Ex. He was lazy. Wouldn't work. Spiteful. Vindictive. Cruel. Lier. Cheat! No more!!

  • @barksniffbark
    @barksniffbark 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wait. What?!? You said not to worry about no contact and all that??? I thought that was such a foundational piece?

  • @dragonfly1955
    @dragonfly1955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He told me I admire you. I don’t think he respected me at all

  • @midnight9927
    @midnight9927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't think i can attract someone all the time... I'm not sure if he'll respect me anymore i don't think anyone will do.. Relationships are so hard and not for me

  • @johnraptor8424
    @johnraptor8424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My is getting married after a few month of us breaking up. Thoughts?

  • @GM-ve7uc
    @GM-ve7uc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    truth

  • @captaint1180
    @captaint1180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There is a common thing that a lot of women believe and I think it’s a feminist thing, is the belief that men should be the one to chase women. And if a girl dumps a guy and the guy doesn’t contact her then the girl gets mad and thinks that she should move on because she thinks he doesn’t care. Could this be why my ex hasn’t reached out yet? Please make a video about this subject

    • @NoName-sf6yb
      @NoName-sf6yb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If she dumped you for a good reason, of course you should be the one that reaches out. And if the reason is "good enough", she won't even answer you that easily...

  • @TheMoka4
    @TheMoka4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How can they respect you if your blocked everywhere?

    • @karishmaramnawaj5682
      @karishmaramnawaj5682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same situation

    • @crispyscars
      @crispyscars 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karishmaramnawaj5682 just respect the block and move on, they'll some day unblock and see what you're up to. It happened to me and I got unblocked. just don't contact them after you've been unblocked.

    • @karishmaramnawaj5682
      @karishmaramnawaj5682 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@crispyscars should i block them too?

    • @crispyscars
      @crispyscars 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karishmaramnawaj5682 No, you shouldn’t block them. That would only make you look weak in their eyes and that you’re still hurt. Plus, they would think that you searched them up and blocked them. Just act like you ever even noticed the unblock and that you’ve moved on. let them reach out to you first.

    • @karishmaramnawaj5682
      @karishmaramnawaj5682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@crispyscars thanks a llt for your advice. I hope everything gets better

  • @maureenmaureen2217
    @maureenmaureen2217 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    He dosent think or respect me

  • @kelddsrx
    @kelddsrx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think my ex still likes me and has fun spending time with me etc.. but since I've tried to get him back for about 6 months before going NC, I feel like he's lost all respect for me. No matter what I do he thinks I want him back and that he can get me.. that's why he still doesnt fear losing me and doesnt want to commit.. he takes me for granted

    • @yeuruuerueeheue
      @yeuruuerueeheue ปีที่แล้ว

      update?

    • @kelddsrx
      @kelddsrx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yeuruuerueeheue oh man.. he came back so many times only for us to get close and then him leaving again because he wasnt sure, wanted to be single blah blah blah.. it took me a very long time but I‘ve finally lost all respect fir HIM and told him to just leave me alone. I also felt like I worked so much on myself and he wasn‘t even what I wanted anymore even tho he was my first love and the breakup was REALLY hard and in the beginning I would have done ANYTHING to get him back.

    • @roberttruman8444
      @roberttruman8444 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kelddsrx How long were you together, and how did you realise he wasn't what you wanted anymore?

    • @kelddsrx
      @kelddsrx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@roberttruman8444 we were together for 2 years and 8 months.. it was just his behaviour at the end how he used me and then dropped me again it was disgusting I didn‘t even recognize him anymore.

  • @chriscline7905
    @chriscline7905 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does giving my ex money to help her out when that was the main problem in our relationship good or will she not respect me? She totalled her car and giving her a few thousand to help her out

    • @TalDorfman
      @TalDorfman ปีที่แล้ว

      You gave her thousands of dollars to fix a car shes gonna drive to go fuck someone else??

  • @pupbun2849
    @pupbun2849 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to make an ex respect you if they already don't have...???
    Ans Stop focusing on what he wants and start focusing on what you want and need. Go to gym ,work upon your body. Take a small business. Don't be a yes maniac... Be flexible and firm

  • @sammartin9223
    @sammartin9223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    6-7 months ago, my ex had cheated on me and then we broke up and we aren't in any contact.. Her birthday is coming, so should I wish her?

    • @daymonyoung4596
      @daymonyoung4596 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Hell to the no

    • @sammartin9223
      @sammartin9223 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      My inner voice was also saying me not to wish her.. That way I guess I'll lose my respect in her eyes.. Thank you guys for replying

    • @aliacoo
      @aliacoo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nope.

    • @noneyabusiness9931
      @noneyabusiness9931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hell no

    • @Ninjaspacecombat
      @Ninjaspacecombat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Absolutely not.