Thank you, it’s hard for people to see the things that they need to fix. From my perspective the intention was to explain why self reflection and self awareness is so important. People get their panties in a twist when they can’t comprehend taking accountability for how they THEMSELVES played a part in their own misfortunes. As a society and in most religions, there is a security blanket to fall back on, “just use my religion to excuse my terrible actions or just blame the other person because they triggered me and I don’t have the maturity or emotional capacity to effectively communicate this but it’s their fault and I did absolutely nothing wrong” Then again a lot of people are not yet ready to confront themselves because then they would have to actively put in the work to unlearn and relearn, it takes time and effort to deconstruct your whole way of thinking. And when In the presence of such “help” that’s a blow to their ego because failure is seen as weakness. No one wants to be weak and no one wants to fail. So they are on the defense and present their ego and all that unhealed trauma just strengthens the “help” people are trying to dish out. Also unhealed people always making up an excuse to be offended or purposefully misunderstand and twist words. Learn to validate yourself, learn to heal yourself because again if you need help it’s available to everyone.
Maintaining a healthy ego is tough. She is saying her EGO used her own resilience as a front that said she was always the victim. Until she realized she needed to be accountable for the stuff that was happening to her life.
I hate motivational speakers of this kind: "oh man, I grew up in the WORST conditions ever and now I am successful --if I could do it, you too!" They're unaware of other's conditions: is a blind person better or worse than a man without feet? We should not compare advantages nor disadvantages.
Thank you, it’s hard for people to see the things that they need to fix. From my perspective the intention was to explain why self reflection and self awareness is so important. People get their panties in a twist when they can’t comprehend taking accountability for how they THEMSELVES played a part in their own misfortunes. As a society and in most religions, there is a security blanket to fall back on, “just use my religion to excuse my terrible actions or just blame the other person because they triggered me and I don’t have the maturity or emotional capacity to effectively communicate this but it’s their fault and I did absolutely nothing wrong”
Then again a lot of people are not yet ready to confront themselves because then they would have to actively put in the work to unlearn and relearn, it takes time and effort to deconstruct your whole way of thinking. And when In the presence of such “help” that’s a blow to their ego because failure is seen as weakness. No one wants to be weak and no one wants to fail. So they are on the defense and present their ego and all that unhealed trauma just strengthens the “help” people are trying to dish out. Also unhealed people always making up an excuse to be offended or purposefully misunderstand and twist words. Learn to validate yourself, learn to heal yourself because again if you need help it’s available to everyone.
Maintaining a healthy ego is tough. She is saying her EGO used her own resilience as a front that said she was always the victim. Until she realized she needed to be accountable for the stuff that was happening to her life.
I hate motivational speakers of this kind: "oh man, I grew up in the WORST conditions ever and now I am successful --if I could do it, you too!" They're unaware of other's conditions: is a blind person better or worse than a man without feet? We should not compare advantages nor disadvantages.
She a goofy