Hope you guys enjoyed the vid! Again thank you for 100k big win for our community 🙏❤️ Go Sub to my second channel if you support the boy: youtube.com/@BERTOplus.?si=NmJJ9h6ouOLo7tEl
for real bro i love how you animate your shit and have some naruto refences.Because of your vibs i think i understand myself my errors and what i need to do to move forward in life. Thank You BERTO
As a teenage boy, ive found this video useful. Thanks man Berto, I really respect the accountability from you on the third type and although im not in an active relationship with anyone ive found this video educational to me as a person and to my general library of morales and standards.
I recently lost my cousin to leukemia, he was like a brother to me, I've been losing focus ever since, waking up late and not taking care of myself. I'm 17 and I finished school last year, this year i turn 18, your videos have helped me a lot lately thanks. Greetings from Brazil friend 🇧🇷
@@wop2784I can verify and say this is true. Sunlight not only stimulates Vitamin D3 production, but it also stores the extra Vitamin D3 for it to be activated when it is able to and needed, it stimulates endorphins, and it stimulates hormones among other things I forgot. Basically, vitamin D3 pills aren't as good. It's even in a different form (calcium based, not phosphorus based from sunlight, which will bring out side effects instead). Food isn't enough for Vitamin D3, but both Vitamin D3 food, foods of all categories in a day in general (nutrients needed to activate Vitamin D3), and sunlight have an additive effect. Exercising in the sun amplifies the benefits of both the sunlight's effects and exercise itself. Periodic sunlight throughout the day is very good. Natural sunscreens are okay actually (and consuming carotenoids from food is too) for sun protection. Be careful, don't go out in the sun too much or your skin burns and your Vitamin D3 would actually **decrease** from it breaking down. Vitamin D3 is a essential potent neurosteroid in which it grows and protects the brain, bones, and indirectly the rest of your body. Yw.
Yo, that last part, this whole monologue for the boys.. I really needed this life advice in general(as a girl), gotta rethink my life sometimes, and hearing it from a young American on the other side of the world(I'm in Europe) who seems to have his life more together than I currently have.. this really did something to my mindset. Thank you❤
*Sigh* here we go... 1. Women love emotions. Having emotional intelligence is the key. Too emotional? What's that supposed to be? We are humans & humans supposed to have emotions. Nothing wrong with it. Of course, What u r talking about is insecurity. Insecurity is ugly on everyone. A guy wanna cry & complain abt him losing a job ? Sure, why not. But if he keeps dwelling on it and starts to blame everyone around him... Now that shows immaturity. And this goes for women too, having a victim mindset is toxic. 1:42 and stop right there. When a girl vents, Don't start to give her solving problems. What she wants is a company & someone to rely on emotionally. Wanna solve problems? Ok but there is a time & place. Give her a shoulder to cry & that's it. And remember It's not Just u giving a shoulder & she is also doing that. That's why It's called companionship
Yeah, And dont worry women will still find a way to complain because they dont really know what they way. And if they do. Just let her go. Theres plenty of fish in the sea. If you were the good stuff, she will come back and boy, trust me... She will... And when she do have a decency with yourself. Dont accept it.... It wont work. Trust me, it wont work anymore. Dont even try. Your mental health is key to your entire life
You really want a guy who bitches about everything and doesn’t do shit about it then huh? Also like, yall vent so much, and then when we tell you the solutions yall say that you know it all, then why do you still have that goddamn problem??
@@Ruinbornaftonalwayscomesback Fym? She never mentioned that she wants a man that doesn't try and help her heal/solve problems that are bothering her. She explained that when most of them vent, they tend to seek emotional support first and solution later. Which means you should let her cry out her frustrations, sadness, anger, or any typa shi because they need to release all the emotions that they're feeling to think more clearly. For the second one, the fuck you mean by 'yall vent so much'? Women vents to their man because she trusts him and knows that he can understand her. Are you saying that someone telling their loved one their problems, bad? Additionally, when they already know the solution and still vents, they want comfort, want someone to talk to, and just want their feelings validated. Women are not incapable of figuring out solutions. They thought about them and are either make a decision or are just venting. I can already tell that you suck at dating
The worst kind of insecure guys actually appear boastful and confident, very social, because their ego won't let them show the wider public how unconfident they really are. Be mindful how these people are in private, as they can really damage your self-esteem and try to push you down to their level of insecurity, so that you will be the one that feels bad and they'll try to make you believe like THEY'RE THE CATCH, not you.
Imo, all the people in the thumbnail are kinda valid. Gojo for obvious reasons, Teen Shikamaru since he was too lazy to commit to relationships at the time, and seasons 2-3 Deku since he was too emotional. Shikamaru and Deku have gotten MUCH better, but the versions of them in the thumbnail check out.
🎀as a young woman I have the same problem with focusing on me and being as successful (financially) as possible, and Berto I hear u on that part. notes were takin, nice vid👍🎀
the last one is me a year ago... starting to work on myself, acne is slowly getting loose, eating better, exercising, i just want to be all financialy secured, have a family and just lay down and say to myself... ,,I did it, I'm a better man now."
The last one hit me pretty good. You sound like a motivational speaker. I am that guy who doesn’t give a shit about anything and I’m constantly thinking why am I having terrible relationships. Mainly because the ladies I had were insecure & I was tired of Ubering everywhere. I’m starting to hang out more in public now & bettering myself in many ways. The only thing I’m insecure about myself is my body strength. I feel weak a lot and I jokingly call myself “A fu***ng twig”. Coming from an autistic person, life is never easy. But pushing yourself has to happen, NOW! Amazing video man, congrats on 100K.
The number 7 one hits hard on me because I've been going through that now trust me not carrying or only caring about one or two things like family it doesn't feel good its just it feels like its meaningless makes you feel tired all the time even now that I'm trying to better myself which I have been doing pretty good recently I'm doing it for me I'm doing it because you know my family is worried cuz its not healthy and for the topic that we're talking about women and dating it feels like it would never happen and even if it did I would feel like that I'm not good enough or I don't care enough basically I don't want to really try cuz I don't want to fall complicated to say really it's hard to articulate all the words I want to say yeah I really do hope that in the future I can care more about me about my future my health my hygiene other stuff like that and not just do it for someone else do it for myself I don't know but hopefully the future is bright
Berto I gotta thank you dearly because this video helped me truly understand why my last relationship REALLY failed, even if it wasn't the only reason, I realized that I too, was kinda selfish and didn't have the maturity to handle shit the way it needed to be. So thank you, I can finally work around my flaws in a better way.
I am a teen who has been struggling for years now with self confidence, just because I was always anxious and stressed all the time and didn't do anything about it because I was scared of being embarrassed or looking like a fool for doing things incorrectly. I had reassurance from my family and friends, but it didn't change a thing for me since at those moments I was still scared. And recently I discovered feelings for a girl. I now after watching this video have realized the work I will need to put in to be even considered as compatible. I have gone through multiple of those 3am motivational phases, but none have stuck the landing. It's my first time commenting on a self help video and I think this was the best choice. This time, I hope you will be the catalyst that starts my improving. From the bottom of my heart. Thank you for telling me to stand up for once because my friends and family have all put faith into me, but haven't believed in me fully since my dream is big, but you have helped me to start pursuing that big dream.
I've never been in a relationship yet, but what stress me out is not being able to balance the attention I will give to her. Like am I too clingy or am I not talking to her enough ? I don't want to be too annoying or look too insecure 😅😅
Awe this was so sweet - tbh soulmates are *made* not found. Be as genuine as you possibly can, as affectionate as you naturally are. We meet as complete strangers to each other so from the very first "hello" you're learning each other. The most green-flag person for you will help you build the relationship. Its a little hard to explain, but like you'll notice that things you worry about yourself, they don't. Things you think are bad about you, don't really bother them - or they even like it 🤣. Its gonna feel so weird and you're gonna be sus like " no way they're this cool with me," ha ha - but yea they will be. Don't sweat it, just be fully you and the right person you guys will naturally embrace and smooth out the rough parts of each other as you grow together.
@@xXJade_AssassinXx Thank you for the advice 🙏🙏. I guess you're right, I will try to be the better version of myself while staying true. If there is any issue with my future partner, we'll just talk about it together 😅😅
I found this channel in a state that I'm not familiar in relationship wise where people have started to notice me, and I was trying to better myself to find myself and you have taught me the way to be best the me. Thank you.
This comment section is so good! Everybody be so helpful. Aye dont worry bout fumbling cuz i got a bunch of girls that fuck wid me and i fumbled it just means that you are doing better and they looking at you and shi. Keep working on yourself cuz only you can know when you complete. Gotta be your own self, not "my other half" type shit. Stay up.
There can also be some girls, like myself and not all, that don't like someone who talks too much or talks over us. I can't count how many times my significant other would talk over me and cut me off.
I’m a teen (16) and i am none of these people that are mentioned… though i feel like i need to mention that i’m focusing on myself right now since im young, maybe when i’m in my 20’s? Maybe. But i think i am very emotionally mature for my age, i still have school life and a career path ahead of me… I’m not worried, i’ve learned a lot on my 16 years of life on this earth. I’ve witnessed betrayal, i’ve witnessed lies, i’ve witnessed fake people, i’ve witnessed success and how it’s achieved, i’ve witnessed stupid people, smart people, genuine people, immature people… and those expriences really helped me, i don’t know if i would want another life where i am immature at my age. But whatever, this video proves to me that i have my shit together as person and all i really need to do is act on all the things i know already.
The Selfish one really got me. It's actually the reason why most of my relationships failed. That's why I'm currently avoiding romance and all that till I make sure I accomplish my goals before settling down with a girl.
Really glad i got to hear this from one of my top 15 youtubers fr, RIP to Papa Berto fr, me at the age of 14 started hitting the gym and shit, was a honor hearing this, and congrats on 100k gang
I'd say that one of my biggest flaws is that I have a really messed up sense of danger when it comes to people threatening me. I remember distinctly someone stronger than me threatened to beat me up and I saw red and told him THEN DO IT! DO IT! DO IT, COWARD! It's not about pride, it's like, who the hell do you think you are? You aren't special, you aren't cool. It's also because my dad used to hit me and now I refuse to be intimidated ever again. One day, someone is going to threaten me with a knife, and then I'm going to see red and fight back and get stabbed. But my sense of justice wouldn't let me submit in that kind of situation. It's a really difficult problem that I don't know how to even begin to work on. Not that I think I even have a chance at dating. I only try to have a non-zero chance, statistically. I'm in constant pain. I hate myself so much.
It's because you have childhood traumas. Because of ur relationship with ur dad u have anger management issues & low self esteem. Try to improve those things & i know u will be eventually able to do it. So Don't worry too much & look for solutions to ur issues (^^)
When it comes down to the laughing topic… yes… I have been through multiple laughs through that system since elementary school I literally thought I was all alone on that and was proud of it!!
Being selfish is part of becoming the best. Although you should be selfless 10-40% of the time. The more selfless actions and sacrificing your own purpose for the enjoyment of others, the less slower you're going to reach the end of that purpose. If you'r gonna reach it at all .(It varies according to what your purpose is)
Number 7 or the Shikamaru one hits close, but i got past a point where i want to try new stuff, i'm not like what it used to be, i just lived for living, in 2020-2021 i almost didn't even wanna live anymore because of almost losing everything i had (My family). So heres advice, anything you find interesting like music, making games, becoming a youtuber, cooking, being a author, etc., just try it, try new hobbies, just don't forget to be responsible and have a stable life.
Damn, made me realize I'm still in that stage... I gained an interest in programming, so I'm now a lazy guy with an interest in making makes, I don't think this by itself would be considered an improvement, and I'm not sure what kind of value coding brings to my life or the world, but it sure can be fun sometimes, and I guess that's the only thing that matters?
@@skymed3095 Being a lazy guy with a motivation like coding is one hell of a improvement actually, it doesn't need to be useful, if it makes you wanting to wake up the next day it's a good step in the right way. I'm still lazy, which is not a bad thing in my eyes, but i slowly care about myself more and more, slowly i try improving myself.
@@KoalaZwastaken yeah I see your point, but motivation doesn't last forever, I've temporarily stopped coding because of a lack of motivation, sadly I don't think I have the motivation or desire to turn this into something else other than a hobby, if it turns out I stop coding permanently, I'll remember that a thing isn't beautiful just because it lasts and that I'm very thankful for being able to have the opportunity to know how it feels to have a purpose
I'm so sorry about your dad man. Although, that speech actually got me to put my phone down and get on my studying for finals finally. I hope you're successful and your dad is happy in Heaven 🙏
Hey man thank you so much for this video, I really needed it. I've been struggling with my mental health and tryna find meaning in life. I've been thinking "What's even the point of improving if were all gonna die one day?" I've also been struggling with my faith, I've been not wanting to pray or worship God just because He seems not as glamorous as I used to see Him and that makes me sad but because God meant so much to me and it seems now that He means almost nothing to me and I feel so wrong just saying that. So yeah man, thank you so much, that last part of the video where you talked about the lazy guy was what I needed right now. I wanna get back into improving my life, not because I'm gonna live forever (at least not on this earth) but because I am NOT and there is no reason to waste it. All this overthinking of solipsism, "ignorance is bliss", and nihilism has just made me depressed and it's stupid because none of those philosophies are true, they are just ideas but I made it true for myself and I paid the price. I'm not gonna really mess with that crap anymore. Imma live my life regardless if it matters in the grand sceem of things. Screw tryna find a perfect reason why we should live, we should just live. The fact that we are breathing right now and have time to fulfill a purpose in this life is enough reason to keep on fighting. We don't need some super philosophical friedrich nietzsche type answer, we just need a simple "don't waste your life" to keep on living. So from the bottom of my heart, thank you man and your videos matter and you do to. You were created for a purpose and have a calling and don't let anybody tell you other wise. You have an amazing day my brother ♥
The goals part is true. One of my freind graduated college like a year ago and he’s 23 living with his parents has no job and basically is a couch potato. I been pursuing the same goal for 12 YEARS and became a pilot for southwest. Everyone of my friends is happy for me and my girl is happy for me I have a successful life. Siting there on the couch playing cs go for 24 hours pursuing nothing is getting yall nowhere. If you a nice girl if you wanna have some money get off that couch and start pursuing ya dreams.
The only thing I can do is be a depressed autistic couch potato, both my parents can’t afford much and they’re divorced, and we are all neurodivergent. I can’t even focus on my classes, as a middle schooler, and I can’t even go outside from way too many factors. Might as well find myself dead in a forest.
@@TheRealKiraKiraGacha don’t think that. Just because you think you can’t achieve your dreams doesn’t mean anything. You can always get up and do what you want in life. Step one you can sign up for McDonald’s. We all start somewhere. We all come from different backgrounds. We believe in you
@@TheRealKiraKiraGachaNever give up, start off with goals and work towards them. Want a job? Go apply for one. Want discipline? Start doing stuff your brain doesn’t feel comfortable with. Want to be more healthy? Sign up for a gym and start eating healthy. Now this is easy to say, but it’s hard to do, and that’s okay. Everything in life will be hard no matter what, but it’s not about avoiding the punches life is gonna give you, it’s about how many punches you can take and still stand on your feet to keep fighting. Never let life put you on the ground and force you to quit.
I am the lazy type, and to be honest, i dont even want a partner yet, but listening to what you said, made me realize that im wasting my life, im almost 20 and here i am, doing nothing for myself like a dead weight, I'm so thankful that i found this channel, because you made me want, more than EVER, change myself for the better, thank you so much Berto, i really mean it, i will try my best from now on!
Nah i turn 17 tmr and i managed it 2 weeks ago. It depends on what you do really. And ignore people who say you dont meet the right people in discos like Sure its unlikely but how else you gonna meet people
The fact that Gojo is on the thumbnail of the video and yet He has more ladies simping for him than you'll ever get 💀 Nah man I'm playing I like your advice keep it up 🔥
Berto man you are so down to earth and real and it’s pretty great to watch you after a long day. Even if I’m not a woman, or looking for a man. But something about how you realize these flaws and the roots of these problems without putting people down and how they it realize you have flaws and that stuff happens Stay safe!❤
I hope i dont come off as too clingy. Should i ask my girl if i come off as too clingy cuz like if theres an issue i wanna ask her and ask how i can fix it.
As a gay dude who's currently single, not interested in a relationship ATM and grew up in the family of 5+ racial ethnicities and two different religions backgrounds-- I appreciate videos like this being put out there online. I prefer to try and stay open-minded to different perspectives from different people of all walks of life. ( Because you can always learn something from ANYONE. Regardless of their: age, male/female, race, educational background, or financial status. ) Videos like this helped me out when I was younger in my teenage years. And really helped me discover the red flags and warning signs of certain people to avoid and/or befriend. Glad to see in my adult years that these type of videos are still going strong. 😎👍 hopefully it helps the upcoming generation as they helped me when I needed such. Stay safe and stay you.☮
I had a ex boyfriend who just couldn’t give me space, was a COMPLETE turn off. Him constantly calling me, texting, wanting my location to be on not even 1 months into the relationship 🤦🏽♀️
Gojo was humbled by Sukuna and Toji ,Shikamaru works a lot in the office in Boruto and Deku stopped crying after the he became a vigilante for a while.Probably Sasuke and Bakugo will also be added in the video
Hope you guys enjoyed the vid! Again thank you for 100k big win for our community 🙏❤️ Go Sub to my second channel if you support the boy: youtube.com/@BERTOplus.?si=NmJJ9h6ouOLo7tEl
It’s was a great video as always Berto! Keep up that amazing hard work fam. And I’m already subbed to your other channel 🤞🏼🩷
it ain't gushy gushy my guy,it's keke😆
for real bro i love how you animate your shit and have some naruto refences.Because of your vibs i think i understand myself my errors and what i need to do to move forward in life. Thank You BERTO
Berto, you are simply too extreme with your examples, but I appreciate how you are quite considerate towards most things.
Hey. Thank you so much for the advice in the end I really appreciate it man. You have given me the confidence to change who I am
Sanji as clingy Deku as emotional Gojo as show off man knows his stuff
A man of culture fr
i really do be like sanji fr. i feel like if i had to hide how much i love my gf, id have to act like a different person...
@@totallynotdio1311 he said clingy; thats different from loving her
@@broidkanymore-zc4lt these days i honestly think some women see anything else than being ice cold as clingy. But thank you anyway...
@@totallynotdio1311 where'd u get that info from? and np
As a woman “Gushy gushy” made me spit my drink LMAOOO 😭 I ain’t never heard that before 💀💀
Berto’s delivery really sold it. I’m referring to 🐱 as “gushy gushy” from now on
😂😂🤣 I replayed that part a bunch to make sure I heard that right lol 😂😂
@@ghastxm2083 like, what? 😂😂
@@ericapaley1579 💀💀💀
Saame hahaha
Imagine your destiny is being the best pizza man at papa johns 💀💀💀
😂😂 hey man you’re destiny is whatever you want it to be!
@@WhereYouAtBerto your*
It's something at least.
Bro I read this as soon as he said it how tf
@@anapple6912 God damn it apple
Shika for lazy
Deku for emotional
and Gojo for ego is just too damn hilarious..
A man of culture I see 😂😂😂
@@WhereYouAtBerto Woman but yeah 😂😂😂
Hehe.
what about denji??? and sanji??
@@anapple6912 I made this comment before the vid premiered. I can edit it tho
Maybe you’re right..
YOU’RE SO RIGHT!
Why tf is the comment from 10 days ago 💀
While the video is from 7 days ago...
How the hell is this comment even possible?
@@sadtrandler6332 bro time travelled
@@sadtrandler6332it was when it was being premiered
Real Gojo
The fact that these anime characters are accurately depicted as these themes is hilarious 😂🤌
THATS WHAT IM SAYING 😂
LITERALLY
And nice pfp
@@janetsurum4980 me or him? If me then thanks u have a nice pfp to 😇
Bro my condolences I’m sorry to hear of your fathers passing. But I love your videos and your positive messages and trying to make others aware.
I truly appreciate your support! Without you guys I don't know where I would be, so thank you.
U the goat for donoing frl
people who are trageted:👩
people who watching :👨
we just taking notes.
Fact
Targeted*, you should be taking notes at school too sir.
@@allmic101 🤓🤓☝☝🖊🖊🗒🗒
This is facts tho
Nah. Im just gay.
0.1 seconds in the vid and I already know its gon be a "W"
Thank you gang 🙏
guh guh guh 💦
I didn't Expect Berto To Give me A Life Lesson At the End Of this Video lol, that shit hit hard.
Yep.
It really did.
As a teenage boy, ive found this video useful. Thanks man Berto, I really respect the accountability from you on the third type and although im not in an active relationship with anyone ive found this video educational to me as a person and to my general library of morales and standards.
Same bro
I recently lost my cousin to leukemia, he was like a brother to me, I've been losing focus ever since, waking up late and not taking care of myself. I'm 17 and I finished school last year, this year i turn 18, your videos have helped me a lot lately thanks.
Greetings from Brazil friend 🇧🇷
start getting lots of sunlight, it helps a lot for emotional healing
vai ficar melhor eventualmente irmão 🙏 eu sinto muito pela sua perda rip 🕊️
Take gradual steps towards improving your life and learn to grieve properly.
@@wop2784I can verify and say this is true. Sunlight not only stimulates Vitamin D3 production, but it also stores the extra Vitamin D3 for it to be activated when it is able to and needed, it stimulates endorphins, and it stimulates hormones among other things I forgot. Basically, vitamin D3 pills aren't as good. It's even in a different form (calcium based, not phosphorus based from sunlight, which will bring out side effects instead). Food isn't enough for Vitamin D3, but both Vitamin D3 food, foods of all categories in a day in general (nutrients needed to activate Vitamin D3), and sunlight have an additive effect. Exercising in the sun amplifies the benefits of both the sunlight's effects and exercise itself. Periodic sunlight throughout the day is very good. Natural sunscreens are okay actually (and consuming carotenoids from food is too) for sun protection. Be careful, don't go out in the sun too much or your skin burns and your Vitamin D3 would actually **decrease** from it breaking down. Vitamin D3 is a essential potent neurosteroid in which it grows and protects the brain, bones, and indirectly the rest of your body. Yw.
i like clingy men but... not too overly clingy to the point i cannot see any aspects of himself like an love interest
Love that he called it. Question is do you like clingy or attentive men? There's always a good distinction.
@@ahmedgwary7178There you go.
Yo, that last part, this whole monologue for the boys.. I really needed this life advice in general(as a girl), gotta rethink my life sometimes, and hearing it from a young American on the other side of the world(I'm in Europe) who seems to have his life more together than I currently have.. this really did something to my mindset. Thank you❤
0:10 nice kitty ears
>~
*Sigh* here we go...
1. Women love emotions. Having emotional intelligence is the key.
Too emotional? What's that supposed to be? We are humans & humans supposed to have emotions. Nothing wrong with it.
Of course, What u r talking about is insecurity. Insecurity is ugly on everyone. A guy wanna cry & complain abt him losing a job ? Sure, why not. But if he keeps dwelling on it and starts to blame everyone around him... Now that shows immaturity. And this goes for women too, having a victim mindset is toxic.
1:42 and stop right there. When a girl vents, Don't start to give her solving problems. What she wants is a company & someone to rely on emotionally. Wanna solve problems? Ok but there is a time & place. Give her a shoulder to cry & that's it. And remember It's not Just u giving a shoulder & she is also doing that. That's why It's called companionship
Thxs woman 👍
You basically summarized the entire video in the comment section
Yeah,
And dont worry women will still find a way to complain because they dont really know what they way.
And if they do. Just let her go. Theres plenty of fish in the sea.
If you were the good stuff, she will come back and boy, trust me... She will...
And when she do have a decency with yourself. Dont accept it.... It wont work. Trust me, it wont work anymore. Dont even try. Your mental health is key to your entire life
You really want a guy who bitches about everything and doesn’t do shit about it then huh? Also like, yall vent so much, and then when we tell you the solutions yall say that you know it all, then why do you still have that goddamn problem??
@@Ruinbornaftonalwayscomesback Fym? She never mentioned that she wants a man that doesn't try and help her heal/solve problems that are bothering her. She explained that when most of them vent, they tend to seek emotional support first and solution later. Which means you should let her cry out her frustrations, sadness, anger, or any typa shi because they need to release all the emotions that they're feeling to think more clearly.
For the second one, the fuck you mean by 'yall vent so much'? Women vents to their man because she trusts him and knows that he can understand her. Are you saying that someone telling their loved one their problems, bad?
Additionally, when they already know the solution and still vents, they want comfort, want someone to talk to, and just want their feelings validated. Women are not incapable of figuring out solutions. They thought about them and are either make a decision or are just venting.
I can already tell that you suck at dating
Yo I JUST watched your 7 types of girls vid and its the first vid I saw of yours XD good to know I'll be seeing this one soon
Glad you enjoyed fam! I hope you love this one even more 🙏🙏
Hey! Same here!! 😅
same lmao
how many of us are boys watching this and trying to avoid being any of the dudes listed here
"avoid being" = "avoid showing"
@@loneslombardi the difference is that you cant avoid showing it forever
@@broidkanymore-zc4lt sure, we could to change our attitudes but not who we are
@@loneslombardi some ppl change themselves to get different attitudes because that is who they are
@@broidkanymore-zc4lt are they that? to change themselves to lose your essence consequently? who is all is not nothing
call me the mf avatar the way i'm EVERYTHING IN ONE 🔥🔥🔥🔥
ion think thats a flex 😭
It's just a burning memory meme
Damn bro😭
*cartoonish gulp sound*
hoo buddy! you're so strong!
I already know this gonna be a good vid when Berto does a trailer for it 😍
The worst kind of insecure guys actually appear boastful and confident, very social, because their ego won't let them show the wider public how unconfident they really are.
Be mindful how these people are in private, as they can really damage your self-esteem and try to push you down to their level of insecurity, so that you will be the one that feels bad and they'll try to make you believe like THEY'RE THE CATCH, not you.
This lowkey the best life lesson I’ve had bro,you’ve been helping me🙏🏽
this video genuinely making me feel more inspired to be a better me, thanks bro ❤
Shikamaru on the thumbnail is wild.. 💀 💀
Imo, all the people in the thumbnail are kinda valid. Gojo for obvious reasons, Teen Shikamaru since he was too lazy to commit to relationships at the time, and seasons 2-3 Deku since he was too emotional. Shikamaru and Deku have gotten MUCH better, but the versions of them in the thumbnail check out.
🎀as a young woman I have the same problem with focusing on me and being as successful (financially) as possible, and Berto I hear u on that part. notes were takin, nice vid👍🎀
That "Insecure" dilemma part hit me hard
I like how u use different anime characters. They're all accurate too 😂 (also I like how u put urself there too. We all have problems broski)
the last one is me a year ago... starting to work on myself, acne is slowly getting loose, eating better, exercising, i just want to be all financialy secured, have a family and just lay down and say to myself... ,,I did it, I'm a better man now."
WHERE YOU AT BERTO?
AHHHH RIGHT HERE GANG!!! 💯
@@WhereYouAtBerto Damn cuh you got me weak 🤣
@@WhereYouAtBerto berto how come ur not verified yet
Idk.
@@WhereYouAtBertoyo im just asking, what if im gay?
The last one hit me pretty good. You sound like a motivational speaker. I am that guy who doesn’t give a shit about anything and I’m constantly thinking why am I having terrible relationships. Mainly because the ladies I had were insecure & I was tired of Ubering everywhere. I’m starting to hang out more in public now & bettering myself in many ways. The only thing I’m insecure about myself is my body strength. I feel weak a lot and I jokingly call myself “A fu***ng twig”. Coming from an autistic person, life is never easy. But pushing yourself has to happen, NOW! Amazing video man, congrats on 100K.
The number 7 one hits hard on me because I've been going through that now trust me not carrying or only caring about one or two things like family it doesn't feel good its just it feels like its meaningless makes you feel tired all the time even now that I'm trying to better myself which I have been doing pretty good recently I'm doing it for me I'm doing it because you know my family is worried cuz its not healthy and for the topic that we're talking about women and dating it feels like it would never happen and even if it did I would feel like that I'm not good enough or I don't care enough basically I don't want to really try cuz I don't want to fall complicated to say really it's hard to articulate all the words I want to say yeah I really do hope that in the future I can care more about me about my future my health my hygiene other stuff like that and not just do it for someone else do it for myself I don't know but hopefully the future is bright
"Just suck it up" was hilarious giving the topic 😂😂😂 8:44
u underrated asf probably one of my favorite youtubers rn keep it up gng u gon go places fs
Berto I gotta thank you dearly because this video helped me truly understand why my last relationship REALLY failed, even if it wasn't the only reason, I realized that I too, was kinda selfish and didn't have the maturity to handle shit the way it needed to be. So thank you, I can finally work around my flaws in a better way.
Boutta be a fire video🔥
I mean, I’m emotional but the second I think someone else is upset that goes out the window and I’ve entered therapist friend mode.
Oh Boy...
same
Gojo - Egoist
Deku - Emotional
Sanji - Clingy
Denji - Horny
Armin - Insecure
Shikamaru - Lazy
Bro is a man of culture who knows his stuff😂😂👌🗿
I am a teen who has been struggling for years now with self confidence, just because I was always anxious and stressed all the time and didn't do anything about it because I was scared of being embarrassed or looking like a fool for doing things incorrectly. I had reassurance from my family and friends, but it didn't change a thing for me since at those moments I was still scared. And recently I discovered feelings for a girl. I now after watching this video have realized the work I will need to put in to be even considered as compatible. I have gone through multiple of those 3am motivational phases, but none have stuck the landing. It's my first time commenting on a self help video and I think this was the best choice. This time, I hope you will be the catalyst that starts my improving. From the bottom of my heart. Thank you for telling me to stand up for once because my friends and family have all put faith into me, but haven't believed in me fully since my dream is big, but you have helped me to start pursuing that big dream.
I've never been in a relationship yet, but what stress me out is not being able to balance the attention I will give to her. Like am I too clingy or am I not talking to her enough ? I don't want to be too annoying or look too insecure 😅😅
Awe this was so sweet - tbh soulmates are *made* not found. Be as genuine as you possibly can, as affectionate as you naturally are. We meet as complete strangers to each other so from the very first "hello" you're learning each other. The most green-flag person for you will help you build the relationship. Its a little hard to explain, but like you'll notice that things you worry about yourself, they don't. Things you think are bad about you, don't really bother them - or they even like it 🤣. Its gonna feel so weird and you're gonna be sus like " no way they're this cool with me," ha ha - but yea they will be. Don't sweat it, just be fully you and the right person you guys will naturally embrace and smooth out the rough parts of each other as you grow together.
@@xXJade_AssassinXx Thank you for the advice 🙏🙏. I guess you're right, I will try to be the better version of myself while staying true. If there is any issue with my future partner, we'll just talk about it together 😅😅
Brother When you get a girl. Some of girls likes Their men a little clingy so give her some attention but dont let her have your whole mind.
@@rudhra5957 You have a point. I do think it is important to be focused on other things too.
Alr im a girl so i think i am competent enough to answer-
-yes be naturally affectionate but communication is very important
for that lazy one, it's such a beautiful message
I found this channel in a state that I'm not familiar in relationship wise where people have started to notice me, and I was trying to better myself to find myself and you have taught me the way to be best the me. Thank you.
" a man who can't keep his cucumber in his pants is a recipe for disaster "
Made me LAUGH SO MUCH, and it's definitely trueeee haha ^ ^
This comment section is so good! Everybody be so helpful. Aye dont worry bout fumbling cuz i got a bunch of girls that fuck wid me and i fumbled it just means that you are doing better and they looking at you and shi. Keep working on yourself cuz only you can know when you complete. Gotta be your own self, not "my other half" type shit. Stay up.
Being selfish is a big problem.. but I am glad you can identify that problem in yourself!
Didn’t have to do my boy Deku like that 😂😂
Respect for noticing your own flaws in a relationship 🔥
u should do the types of ppl u should date, great vid
There's only men and women, and we're people. "None binary' people are still men and women/male and female.
Men and women are people, there are no other genders, cope.
Honestly its sad how you think there's a gender other than male or female, and yt is mad soft for deleting the facts
Youve Just Seen what to avoid. Why so you need a video on who to date? 🤨
Instructions unclear I'm all 7 types
Super Clingy turned Super Controlling..
Yes I experienced that too for three years~
Anddddddd they ended up cheating~
ngl yall had it the hard way 💔
youll fjnd the perfect one soon, trust
There can also be some girls, like myself and not all, that don't like someone who talks too much or talks over us. I can't count how many times my significant other would talk over me and cut me off.
That's not even a man vs woman thing, that's just having communication skills and not being an ass who doesn't let others talk.
I’m a teen (16) and i am none of these people that are mentioned… though i feel like i need to mention that i’m focusing on myself right now since im young, maybe when i’m in my 20’s? Maybe. But i think i am very emotionally mature for my age, i still have school life and a career path ahead of me… I’m not worried, i’ve learned a lot on my 16 years of life on this earth. I’ve witnessed betrayal, i’ve witnessed lies, i’ve witnessed fake people, i’ve witnessed success and how it’s achieved, i’ve witnessed stupid people, smart people, genuine people, immature people… and those expriences really helped me, i don’t know if i would want another life where i am immature at my age. But whatever, this video proves to me that i have my shit together as person and all i really need to do is act on all the things i know already.
Your art is so GOOD
This is the only guy I respect when it comes to spitting facts
Great video master Berto🔥
The Selfish one really got me.
It's actually the reason why most of my relationships failed.
That's why I'm currently avoiding romance and all that till I make sure I accomplish my goals before settling down with a girl.
Really glad i got to hear this from one of my top 15 youtubers fr, RIP to Papa Berto fr, me at the age of 14 started hitting the gym and shit, was a honor hearing this, and congrats on 100k gang
Love the life lessons throughout the video Berto. Thanks man
I'd say that one of my biggest flaws is that I have a really messed up sense of danger when it comes to people threatening me. I remember distinctly someone stronger than me threatened to beat me up and I saw red and told him THEN DO IT! DO IT! DO IT, COWARD!
It's not about pride, it's like, who the hell do you think you are? You aren't special, you aren't cool. It's also because my dad used to hit me and now I refuse to be intimidated ever again. One day, someone is going to threaten me with a knife, and then I'm going to see red and fight back and get stabbed. But my sense of justice wouldn't let me submit in that kind of situation. It's a really difficult problem that I don't know how to even begin to work on.
Not that I think I even have a chance at dating. I only try to have a non-zero chance, statistically. I'm in constant pain. I hate myself so much.
It's because you have childhood traumas. Because of ur relationship with ur dad u have anger management issues & low self esteem. Try to improve those things & i know u will be eventually able to do it. So Don't worry too much & look for solutions to ur issues (^^)
When it comes down to the laughing topic… yes… I have been through multiple laughs through that system since elementary school I literally thought I was all alone on that and was proud of it!!
Being selfish is part of becoming the best. Although you should be selfless 10-40% of the time. The more selfless actions and sacrificing your own purpose for the enjoyment of others, the less slower you're going to reach the end of that purpose. If you'r gonna reach it at all .(It varies according to what your purpose is)
For the last kind of guy, what I'm taking away is "Make people cry at your funeral" make yourself into a good and memorable that will be missed
Number 7 or the Shikamaru one hits close, but i got past a point where i want to try new stuff, i'm not like what it used to be, i just lived for living, in 2020-2021 i almost didn't even wanna live anymore because of almost losing everything i had (My family).
So heres advice, anything you find interesting like music, making games, becoming a youtuber, cooking, being a author, etc., just try it, try new hobbies, just don't forget to be responsible and have a stable life.
Damn, made me realize I'm still in that stage... I gained an interest in programming, so I'm now a lazy guy with an interest in making makes, I don't think this by itself would be considered an improvement, and I'm not sure what kind of value coding brings to my life or the world, but it sure can be fun sometimes, and I guess that's the only thing that matters?
@@skymed3095 Being a lazy guy with a motivation like coding is one hell of a improvement actually, it doesn't need to be useful, if it makes you wanting to wake up the next day it's a good step in the right way.
I'm still lazy, which is not a bad thing in my eyes, but i slowly care about myself more and more, slowly i try improving myself.
@@KoalaZwastaken yeah I see your point, but motivation doesn't last forever, I've temporarily stopped coding because of a lack of motivation, sadly I don't think I have the motivation or desire to turn this into something else other than a hobby, if it turns out I stop coding permanently, I'll remember that a thing isn't beautiful just because it lasts and that I'm very thankful for being able to have the opportunity to know how it feels to have a purpose
Last one was powerful and most men need to hear this including myself.
Sanji in the clingy one is so trueee 😂
I'm so sorry about your dad man. Although, that speech actually got me to put my phone down and get on my studying for finals finally. I hope you're successful and your dad is happy in Heaven 🙏
The funny thing is they all got girls simping over them
Are you talking about the anime characters he used? Then yeah, 😂 I found it very ironic.
Hey man thank you so much for this video, I really needed it. I've been struggling with my mental health and tryna find meaning in life. I've been thinking "What's even the point of improving if were all gonna die one day?" I've also been struggling with my faith, I've been not wanting to pray or worship God just because He seems not as glamorous as I used to see Him and that makes me sad but because God meant so much to me and it seems now that He means almost nothing to me and I feel so wrong just saying that. So yeah man, thank you so much, that last part of the video where you talked about the lazy guy was what I needed right now. I wanna get back into improving my life, not because I'm gonna live forever (at least not on this earth) but because I am NOT and there is no reason to waste it. All this overthinking of solipsism, "ignorance is bliss", and nihilism has just made me depressed and it's stupid because none of those philosophies are true, they are just ideas but I made it true for myself and I paid the price. I'm not gonna really mess with that crap anymore. Imma live my life regardless if it matters in the grand sceem of things. Screw tryna find a perfect reason why we should live, we should just live. The fact that we are breathing right now and have time to fulfill a purpose in this life is enough reason to keep on fighting. We don't need some super philosophical friedrich nietzsche type answer, we just need a simple "don't waste your life" to keep on living. So from the bottom of my heart, thank you man and your videos matter and you do to. You were created for a purpose and have a calling and don't let anybody tell you other wise. You have an amazing day my brother ♥
early asf and ik this is gonna be a banger
Same
R.I.P to your dad dawg, from the way you talked about him he seemed like a cool guy. Imma pray for him, wish you the best
Phew!!!
Well, You are humble at the very least. Respect bro
I've known at least one of each of these guys before. Some have had more than one of these traits on the list. 💀
the music in your videos is always perfect
at 11:52, He's also trying to convince himself
The goals part is true. One of my freind graduated college like a year ago and he’s 23 living with his parents has no job and basically is a couch potato. I been pursuing the same goal for 12 YEARS and became a pilot for southwest. Everyone of my friends is happy for me and my girl is happy for me I have a successful life. Siting there on the couch playing cs go for 24 hours pursuing nothing is getting yall nowhere. If you a nice girl if you wanna have some money get off that couch and start pursuing ya dreams.
The only thing I can do is be a depressed autistic couch potato, both my parents can’t afford much and they’re divorced, and we are all neurodivergent. I can’t even focus on my classes, as a middle schooler, and I can’t even go outside from way too many factors. Might as well find myself dead in a forest.
@@TheRealKiraKiraGacha don’t think that. Just because you think you can’t achieve your dreams doesn’t mean anything. You can always get up and do what you want in life. Step one you can sign up for McDonald’s. We all start somewhere. We all come from different backgrounds. We believe in you
@@YourlocalPA28 …I’m 11.
@@TheRealKiraKiraGachaNever give up, start off with goals and work towards them. Want a job? Go apply for one. Want discipline? Start doing stuff your brain doesn’t feel comfortable with. Want to be more healthy? Sign up for a gym and start eating healthy. Now this is easy to say, but it’s hard to do, and that’s okay. Everything in life will be hard no matter what, but it’s not about avoiding the punches life is gonna give you, it’s about how many punches you can take and still stand on your feet to keep fighting. Never let life put you on the ground and force you to quit.
@@lmaoguylol I just said I’m 11 bro
And just like that bro hit home. That last one just made me rethink my existance.
ACKK BERTOOOO! 😊
I am the lazy type, and to be honest, i dont even want a partner yet, but listening to what you said, made me realize that im wasting my life, im almost 20 and here i am, doing nothing for myself like a dead weight, I'm so thankful that i found this channel, because you made me want, more than EVER, change myself for the better, thank you so much Berto, i really mean it, i will try my best from now on!
I’ve never had any type of relationship and I’m 16 am I cooked
Nah i turn 17 tmr and i managed it 2 weeks ago. It depends on what you do really.
And ignore people who say you dont meet the right people in discos like Sure its unlikely but how else you gonna meet people
Bro, I'm 19 and never had a relationship. I'm not cooked, I'm deep fried.
@@dusanstojsin4938 im 20 and never been in a relationship. Im charred
@@dusanstojsin4938 Same here!! Not even a kiss!!
We survive
My ears suddenly locked in to listen your advice after the lazy guy part
bro the same thing he saying applies to girls as well lmfaooo
Im gonna enter my redemption arc (the chapters are an insult) be back in a few years
Not Armin Arlert as Mr. Insecure 💀💀 15:16
The fact that Gojo is on the thumbnail of the video and yet He has more ladies simping for him than you'll ever get 💀
Nah man I'm playing I like your advice keep it up 🔥
LETS GOOOOO LADIES HE GAVE US WHAT WE WANTED 🗣🔈🔊🔉
🚶🏽♀️ came here quick lol
@@keirahleesha486 frfr
1:25 Idk man if i were capable of pulling id wanna support my man
bro the 1 one dude on the thumbnail is shikamaru
Berto man you are so down to earth and real and it’s pretty great to watch you after a long day. Even if I’m not a woman, or looking for a man.
But something about how you realize these flaws and the roots of these problems without putting people down and how they it realize you have flaws and that stuff happens
Stay safe!❤
I hope i dont come off as too clingy. Should i ask my girl if i come off as too clingy cuz like if theres an issue i wanna ask her and ask how i can fix it.
as a number 4, this helped me with my self reflection after a break up. thanks bruv, you opened my eyes
As a gay dude who's currently single, not interested in a relationship ATM and grew up in the family of 5+ racial ethnicities and two different religions backgrounds--
I appreciate videos like this being put out there online. I prefer to try and stay open-minded to different perspectives from different people of all walks of life.
( Because you can always learn something from ANYONE. Regardless of their: age, male/female, race, educational background, or financial status. )
Videos like this helped me out when I was younger in my teenage years. And really helped me discover the red flags and warning signs of certain people to avoid and/or befriend.
Glad to see in my adult years that these type of videos are still going strong. 😎👍 hopefully it helps the upcoming generation as they helped me when I needed such.
Stay safe and stay you.☮
Poor Armin, he represents uncertain man in this vid XD
Now where’s the psycho type?
YES
blud said OHHHH CAN YOU SEEE INTO MY EYESSSS 🤠
I think that’s literally common sense 😭
@@Homie.dj.screw. I pulled a girl and we're psychopaths together :3
Huge respect for acknowkedging (hope i wrote this right) your mistakes from the pasts, just shows how mature you are
I'm a straight guy so I wont be dating any of these types of guys
I had a ex boyfriend who just couldn’t give me space, was a COMPLETE turn off. Him constantly calling me, texting, wanting my location to be on not even 1 months into the relationship 🤦🏽♀️
The woman list is more sexist
What does this have to do with being sexist tho 💀
Bro the lazy part is low-key me and actually helping me to work myself thank you bro🙏
The guys will be worse than the girls bruh 💀💀
Ong bro
Gojo was humbled by Sukuna and Toji ,Shikamaru works a lot in the office in Boruto and Deku stopped crying after the he became a vigilante for a while.Probably Sasuke and Bakugo will also be added in the video
Minoru Mineta should be on the video
yeah because men bad
Yeah say what you want some of us dudes are just wildin 💀
he just called me ugly in 7 diferent ways 💀
🗣WHERE YOU AT BERTO ❗❗
WE HEREEEEEE GSNG!!!!😵💫😈
@@WhereYouAtBerto YUHH