I wanted to try a new style of video, sctricky advice and straight to the point, hopefully y'all fuck with this style of video. And if soo I definitely have more to provide let me know what y'all think! Much love 💯 🚨ALSO JOIN THE DISCORD WE ARE DOING A Q/A this week in there link in description 🚨
1. Learn when to talk / talk less hear more 2. Learn when to express emotions / don’t be whining all the time 3.learn to be polite and respectful. 4. Learn how to dress properly.
Probably nobody will care about this, but it has been an entire month since I talked to my gym crush, I had one of the best first interactions with her, had good times when we talked, we had similar taste on music, but I never asked her number, since I think asking for someone's number when you've never had at least a small connection, feels weird to me (We've only interacted like 6 different times). Now I haven't seen her at the gym I go for an entire month, I feel that I lost my chanse and that I should've shoot my shot and if I got reject then it would've been better than this. I think I should just move on and keep working on myself. Keep up the good work Berto, you're the best.
Not gonna lie, since you didn’t ask she probably thinks you don’t like her in that way. That seems like a perfect opportunity to ask you could have been like “let’s exchange numbers so we can share music” or something like that. Not too forward but it shows interest.
@@luxurij Never thought about it like that. If I get the chanse to see her again I'll tell her, and to ask her number but to share music sounds really good. Thanks for the advice.
I lost the my crush because I was immature and thinking with with my 2nd head now I'm much more mature and im moved on the try again with another beautiful women
I was a mature person before I met this girl. We watched this documentary about how men shouldn't always be expected to "man up", I took that documentary to heart and it made things worse. Worst part, is that she watched it with me, lol. I should have never shared my emotions with her, expecting them to understand and help. I needed to help myself. Plus I have a strong suspicion that she had an avoidant attachment.
Very true. It is not too late, man up, stand up, be a warrior. Just show her you are the most interested person to have you and make her feel safe. Every lady needs a man to feel comfortable with her.
Man, I have to thank you so much. I was dating a girl and then I saw your video about red flags and realize she was a walking red flag. So I stopped dating her and started to date the girl that likes me and treats me well. I owe one. P.S.: The second girl is the first girl best friend
@@brunoferreira7444I thought so, don't forget, if that's her friend and you are a part of "the 5 people you spend the most time with", this was inevitable. Take this note and have it on your watch. 👊
Talking about controlling emotions reminded me, my old best friend made me learn to control my emotions more by him calling me a crybaby. After that we didnt talk for a while but i wasnt a crybaby anymore so i gotta thank him
last year i started getting my shit together and wanted to take control on some aspects of my life, and it was going good. felt confident, felt stylish and very positive about present and future and not having any (or almost) regrets or remorses. i felt like 2024 was gonna be my year. but then suddenly this momentum i created just vanished and i lost it all. lost serenity, lost happiness, lost confidence, and even lost the will to do many things. i just carried myself through the year and watched passing away many great things without enjoying them that much, or as i would've surely done when i felt good and most importantly i started getting overwhelmed to the point i had to protect myself by just not caring about other people opinions. i tried many times to stand up again, but its too damn difficult. you need something, a click in ur brain to just get the motivation again. ive found in ur videos some tips that might help me finding myself again, some basic yet important ones that i need to reintroduce in my mind to start to feel better again. i hope this venting i did really helps me standing up again and i hope to continue watching ur nice videos. ty bro.
For lesson number two, pleaaase say "I'm sorry" instead of "my bad" ... for me personally it drives me up a wall hearing that from a guy... yeah, maybe IT IS YOUR BAD. It just sounds very shallow.
Well, it's like acknowledging you've done something wrong, but without the apology. In other words, maybe it is "your bad" but do you even care about changing it? The thing about sincere apologies is they come with the responsibility to change your behavior. "My bad" has nothing to do with that responsibility.
idk i js say my bad out of the way i was brought up, “im sorry” always pissed my parents off and eventually i js started saying “my bad” and they were very clearly less angry. they’d still say something like “yeah it is your bad fucking idiot” but that’d mostly be the end of it
Most definitely underated content. This man is making up the ranks to be a certified legend before you know it. What an outstanding video man I hope this makes it to lots of individuals who are in need bc based on everything I know in life so far this content pretty much aligned with it
Ngl I’m being serious here, these tips actually help a TON even in just day to day life, it really changes your perspective on life. I love you Berto :-)
Barely started watching you yesterday and have already seen every video that’s you’ve uploaded. I seen a lot of videos like this but yours was probably the only one to have an impact on me and want to change myself for the better. Thank you bro fr!
1. ✅ (I have mysterious.) 2. ✅ (been doing that.) 3. ✅ (I cannot express emotion to a normal degree I just stay quiet most of the time and I normally sound dead.) 4. ✅ (I can wear anything except a bright style or an happy style.) Also can I just say something, you don't really need to change for people God made Adam an helper out of his rib called Eve she was his wife so basically that mean's no matter what guy you are there's a girl who's made for you, just don't mess with others soulmates and ask God to get someone made out of your rib.
Im a Christian, and I like to agree that everyone has a spouse picked out specifically for them... But at the same time, I wonder if some (myself included) are just designed to be alone
@@atroposV I get what you're saying, but I think it depends on perspective. Sure, the divorce rate is high, but that doesn’t mean meaningful relationships or soulmates can’t exist. Some people just settle or don't put in the effort. It’s more about finding the right connection, someone who values the same things you do.
Yeah, right. So my mom and dad being both heavy nicotine addicts and alcoholics who divorced because of it, grandparents never being proud of anything I’ve done, having no friends or noone to talk to except one girl who I know I don’t have a chance with, should not even make me tear up the slightest. Alrigth
Dude tysm, i don't think people will care much about this but after watching this video and also listens to it i legit managed to get the girls of my dreams, from being rejected from my first crush, i hope you guys find the one yall are looking for, god bless 🙏
I mean, there is no ultimate rule on how to talk to people. Like we all are different so. Also, this rule “there’s no ultimate rule on doing stuff” is paradox itself, not gonna talk too much cuz it’s another topic, have a nice one
@@warriorkater2407If you got a good girl you can talk a lot after a while, but not too soon. give her some time to start liking you and once she does you can yap your head off🙌🏽
Upon some reflection, I found that one of my main reasons why im not very attractive is cuz i'm too talkative. Not to mention that i lack good social skills as i fail to make good convos and/or keep them going. I prayed and thought about it, and i decided to control myself effectively.
how did you forgot about it? Not mocking, genuinely curious. Because if it's only been a few months that you've forgotten, means you've atleast remembered it exists. How did you forgot about it?
Ngl this vid defo changed some aspects of my personality ngl there soo much I can improve on I just never realized it until I watched this vid thx berto for the vid
1. Don't talk too much -> Let her talk 2. She doesn't like you because you're too much emotional - Even things are going wrong - Note: Even if you're emotional ( There's a woman who will understand you and you're lucky to have her ) - if you're sad she'll cry , If you overthink , she will understand and reassure you. Talking from Exp: - But at the end of the day you'll still need be that guy that should have a calm emotion in order not to hurt her. 3. Zero Sense of Style 4.
My roommate will complement my fit and then ask me where I got it. I tell him it was $20 on Amazon and he tried to make fun of me 😂💀 he's right about buying cheap clothes.
I lost a 2 years relationship because I wasn't well with her so I started neglecting myself and everything about me and eventually she started replacing me with another guy during our relationship and then broke up with me. There was other issues too but I feel like those were the biggest problems for me and I try to work on it now.
Man this is the first time i saw one of your video's i immediately realised i have found the right person to give me advice as soon i saw your hair your style your tattoo i knew you were really giving advice from experience and your heart. Even tho this video is only 13 minutes it litteraly changed my life my everything your a real fire bro keep up with the work❤♥️🌹
That glowing wall light (Idk what it's called) in the figure of a woman (or stripper) looks like it's from the Game "Ready or Not". Correct me if I am wrong.
0:50 THIS, a girl at the start of the year found me scary, 2 weeks later we hang out and talk together often. Moral of the story: make yourself look tough outside but sweet inside
the second one kinda hits me I'm always joking in a attempt to make people laugh and its because I'm desperate to be the reason for people to smile and honestly it helps me cope with my depression and I always cuss its become a habit in the last few years and I try to be polite around people especially girls I like and I really try to joke around and make her laugh but I'm pretty sure my joking around is definitely why my crushes hate me
I felt that. All my life was practically pain so I try being the goofy guy to make others laugh. Well when I'm not being my quiet usual self. I guess it comes from the misery and don't want others to feel that way
I wanted to try a new style of video, sctricky advice and straight to the point, hopefully y'all fuck with this style of video. And if soo I definitely have more to provide let me know what y'all think! Much love 💯 🚨ALSO JOIN THE DISCORD WE ARE DOING A Q/A this week in there link in description 🚨
Love you bro
I do like the new style of video and it is some really good advice to give for people looking for it
New style is great ngl
Berto that light in the background distracting me gang
i love this style of videos imo
1. Talking too much
2. Overly Emotional
3. Lack of fashion sense
4. Lack of self awareness
Thanks for the summary
Appreciate it for the quick lil summary
life saver
aaaw ok thats what he meant that makes more sense
Bro I wasn’t trying to watch the whole video so I went to the comments and this is exactly what I was looking for, so thank you
Man scroll, man see Berto upload, man watch, man happy.
Lmaooo berto loves support
Then man get bitches 😎
Facts
Man agrees.
Exactly what happened
1. Learn when to talk / talk less hear more
2. Learn when to express emotions / don’t be whining all the time
3.learn to be polite and respectful.
4. Learn how to dress properly.
Now this is a better summary than the current top comment.
@@duckytheduckster0fr
This man was getting so into depth into self improvement I forgot we were talking about women
💀
Even better
me honestly only wear "Black T-shirts" and "dark blue Jeans" or "black sweet pants"
Black t shirts and beaters go hard
@@slayr4170wearing a tank top to a fancy restaurant would be funny
@@champions8862 I would dress up for that but generally I’ll wear beaters and a open button up
Exactly the same
Probably nobody will care about this, but it has been an entire month since I talked to my gym crush, I had one of the best first interactions with her, had good times when we talked, we had similar taste on music, but I never asked her number, since I think asking for someone's number when you've never had at least a small connection, feels weird to me (We've only interacted like 6 different times). Now I haven't seen her at the gym I go for an entire month, I feel that I lost my chanse and that I should've shoot my shot and if I got reject then it would've been better than this. I think I should just move on and keep working on myself. Keep up the good work Berto, you're the best.
Dang that sucks youl find another one
Idc
You are still standing my brother
Not gonna lie, since you didn’t ask she probably thinks you don’t like her in that way. That seems like a perfect opportunity to ask you could have been like “let’s exchange numbers so we can share music” or something like that. Not too forward but it shows interest.
@@luxurij Never thought about it like that. If I get the chanse to see her again I'll tell her, and to ask her number but to share music sounds really good. Thanks for the advice.
Bro over here getting emotional with that LED light picture in the background 💀
I lost the my crush because I was immature and thinking with with my 2nd head now I'm much more mature and im moved on the try again with another beautiful women
Maybe you needed emotional support and comfort 🤔
I was a mature person before I met this girl. We watched this documentary about how men shouldn't always be expected to "man up", I took that documentary to heart and it made things worse.
Worst part, is that she watched it with me, lol. I should have never shared my emotions with her, expecting them to understand and help. I needed to help myself. Plus I have a strong suspicion that she had an avoidant attachment.
I’m depressed, have sleep insomnia, sleep paralysis, so I don’t think ima pull anyone but good advice🗣️🔥
Same brother
There will be someone for you don’t worry
@@SuperGalfrieg12a goth girl?
@@cosmic_Meta maybe bro, we can only hope
3 of those things have nothing to do with rizz
I listen to lots of video's while multitasking but when Berto uploads I gotta lock in.
11:21 flashing lights warning💀
Very true. It is not too late, man up, stand up, be a warrior. Just show her you are the most interested person to have you and make her feel safe. Every lady needs a man to feel comfortable with her.
Ima lock in this summer not finished yet but I’ll know it’ll be useful so thanks Berto🔥🔥🔥🔥
I got y'all family 💯
same
How'd it go?
Man, I have to thank you so much. I was dating a girl and then I saw your video about red flags and realize she was a walking red flag. So I stopped dating her and started to date the girl that likes me and treats me well. I owe one.
P.S.: The second girl is the first girl best friend
Good thing you found his video in time. It could of ended badly
@@AnonymousUser-d8j I know, thank god
Forget about every thing I said above. She dumped me
@@brunoferreira7444I thought so, don't forget, if that's her friend and you are a part of "the 5 people you spend the most time with", this was inevitable. Take this note and have it on your watch. 👊
here lies this man's soul
Thx for the advice! I do gotta stop cussing so much tbh. I ain’t looking for a girlfriend anymore but if I do start again, this helps a lot.
Talking about controlling emotions reminded me, my old best friend made me learn to control my emotions more by him calling me a crybaby. After that we didnt talk for a while but i wasnt a crybaby anymore so i gotta thank him
You are like my personal "view from side"
Sometimes I need my shit to be pointed out, and you are doing this great.
100 percent agree with you. 👍🏾👍🏾
last year i started getting my shit together and wanted to take control on some aspects of my life, and it was going good. felt confident, felt stylish and very positive about present and future and not having any (or almost) regrets or remorses. i felt like 2024 was gonna be my year. but then suddenly this momentum i created just vanished and i lost it all. lost serenity, lost happiness, lost confidence, and even lost the will to do many things. i just carried myself through the year and watched passing away many great things without enjoying them that much, or as i would've surely done when i felt good and most importantly i started getting overwhelmed to the point i had to protect myself by just not caring about other people opinions. i tried many times to stand up again, but its too damn difficult. you need something, a click in ur brain to just get the motivation again. ive found in ur videos some tips that might help me finding myself again, some basic yet important ones that i need to reintroduce in my mind to start to feel better again. i hope this venting i did really helps me standing up again and i hope to continue watching ur nice videos. ty bro.
Was this a school assignment
this is gonna sound insulting but literally get a hobby. best possible choice
The rendering on this thumbnail!! 😮🎉 pure art 🤩
For lesson number two, pleaaase say "I'm sorry" instead of "my bad" ... for me personally it drives me up a wall hearing that from a guy... yeah, maybe IT IS YOUR BAD. It just sounds very shallow.
I say "My bad" out of habit lmao. Not that I'm trying to sound shallow.
They just walk away and don't respond no matter what I say
Well, it's like acknowledging you've done something wrong, but without the apology. In other words, maybe it is "your bad" but do you even care about changing it? The thing about sincere apologies is they come with the responsibility to change your behavior. "My bad" has nothing to do with that responsibility.
idk i js say my bad out of the way i was brought up, “im sorry” always pissed my parents off and eventually i js started saying “my bad” and they were very clearly less angry. they’d still say something like “yeah it is your bad fucking idiot” but that’d mostly be the end of it
Most definitely underated content. This man is making up the ranks to be a certified legend before you know it.
What an outstanding video man I hope this makes it to lots of individuals who are in need bc based on everything I know in life so far this content pretty much aligned with it
Ngl I’m being serious here, these tips actually help a TON even in just day to day life, it really changes your perspective on life. I love you Berto :-)
Barely started watching you yesterday and have already seen every video that’s you’ve uploaded. I seen a lot of videos like this but yours was probably the only one to have an impact on me and want to change myself for the better. Thank you bro fr!
Thanks brother, i will start from now on on changing myself :).
This man is actually spitting facts right now
Thank you so much brother. You gave me so much good tips🥲
1. ✅ (I have mysterious.)
2. ✅ (been doing that.)
3. ✅ (I cannot express emotion to a normal degree I just stay quiet most of the time and I normally sound dead.)
4. ✅ (I can wear anything except a bright style or an happy style.)
Also can I just say something, you don't really need to change for people God made Adam an helper out of his rib called Eve she was his wife so basically that mean's no matter what guy you are there's a girl who's made for you, just don't mess with others soulmates and ask God to get someone made out of your rib.
Im a Christian, and I like to agree that everyone has a spouse picked out specifically for them... But at the same time, I wonder if some (myself included) are just designed to be alone
no such thing as a soulmate. divorce rate is high and the take above me that hes alone out of bad luck is on some loser timing
@@atroposV I get what you're saying, but I think it depends on perspective. Sure, the divorce rate is high, but that doesn’t mean meaningful relationships or soulmates can’t exist. Some people just settle or don't put in the effort. It’s more about finding the right connection, someone who values the same things you do.
Bro always drops the best advice Salute G
Thanks for giving us all a life check and how to fix ourselves
Great videos to
Yeah, right. So my mom and dad being both heavy nicotine addicts and alcoholics who divorced because of it, grandparents never being proud of anything I’ve done, having no friends or noone to talk to except one girl who I know I don’t have a chance with, should not even make me tear up the slightest. Alrigth
Bro, I watch you when I work out when I’m down. I just feel like you right there in my face bro W man for real thank you for all your support.❤
Dude tysm, i don't think people will care much about this but after watching this video and also listens to it i legit managed to get the girls of my dreams, from being rejected from my first crush, i hope you guys find the one yall are looking for, god bless 🙏
Thank you Berto you help a lot and help me improve my life
bruh
how did berto actually upload this like 9 hours before I needed this
"its because you talk too much"
me who likes guys who talk alot: 👁👄👁
also i like guys who are goofy 😭 🦅 (for the second one lmao)
I mean, there is no ultimate rule on how to talk to people. Like we all are different so.
Also, this rule “there’s no ultimate rule on doing stuff” is paradox itself, not gonna talk too much cuz it’s another topic, have a nice one
My god that’s me in my case XD
@@warriorkater2407If you got a good girl you can talk a lot after a while, but not too soon. give her some time to start liking you and once she does you can yap your head off🙌🏽
I mean, everyone have their own standards
The VIDEO i Have Been WAITING for
Berto ever the best
Love from 🇺🇬 Uganda
bro i love this style of content thx berto also you should make this video but for women, it would go hard
Upon some reflection, I found that one of my main reasons why im not very attractive is cuz i'm too talkative. Not to mention that i lack good social skills as i fail to make good convos and/or keep them going. I prayed and thought about it, and i decided to control myself effectively.
You are definitely the man for me man I felt the same pain,it’s such a pity thank you man❤
5:17 is so real.
Man, I love you, thanks for putting subtitles, I'm still learning English
Btw u beatiful
Preaching good advice here, man! Gotta make a part 2 🙏
1:37 new meme
Thanks man you help me with that information and its good to now that people try to get a better version of themselves
7:00 fk I forgot what an iron was before you said that and I’m not even jocking I have never seen an iron being used in real life for months
how did you forgot about it? Not mocking, genuinely curious. Because if it's only been a few months that you've forgotten, means you've atleast remembered it exists. How did you forgot about it?
6:16 and here i thought hobo fashion is stylish
Fam you're better then any teacher I've ever had in my life
Was in the middle of watching another vid but saw this and i had to watch it cuz its BERTO like come on...
Ngl this vid defo changed some aspects of my personality ngl there soo much I can improve on I just never realized it until I watched this vid thx berto for the vid
Nice timing bro, thank you for this awesome video!
All i need is to keep myself presentable but other than constructive criticism idc what they think
Me personally I just saw this and thought that this advice could help you with much more than just the woman you love
Good stuff. This would be more applicable to my situation if I wasn’t being stalked/harassed daily.
1. Don't talk too much -> Let her talk
2. She doesn't like you because you're too much emotional
- Even things are going wrong
- Note: Even if you're emotional ( There's a woman who will understand you and you're lucky to have her ) - if you're sad she'll cry , If you overthink , she will understand and reassure you.
Talking from Exp:
- But at the end of the day you'll still need be that guy that should have a calm emotion in order not to hurt her.
3. Zero Sense of Style
4.
Hey um, weird request but and you do a video on depression and signs and such
Ive been listening to some of these tips and I got a girl in like 4 days
This man is a literal genious
why is it always the chill black dudes who give the best most uplifting advice?
Respect bro. Major respect. This needed to be said.
Step 1: have a girl you like. So I'll watch it in future after 10 years (I'm 16)
Thanks alot this is giving me a bit more confidence
"If you can't take care of yourself, how do you expect to take care of your girl?" - Jak Piggot
Him: be better today than yesterday
Me: *watching at 12:02 am* it's a little to early for that...
Look attract , personality keeps . What I am saying is focus on both looks and personality
You know you actually helped me get a girlfriend. Thanks man. Best wishes from me.
Most of these are just really good life lessons all round
js wanna say your videos are fuckin goated
+ you always come with fuckin facts, as someone with 4 sisters i learn abit and can tell you spit fax
thxs man this rlly helps perfect timiing i might add
Video idea: animation of the formation of 3fortiori - the ups, downs, and the struggles etc
I feel like these are characteristics all men should do to improve. Not only to women. In life. Also. Pretty much just be yourself.
For every like, I will do one pushup and record a video for proof.
Edit: th-cam.com/video/cFJHu5KN8Jc/w-d-xo.html
Alr bet
20 pushups bro thats not enough
Bet
You’re cooked buddy
@@scarlessyt Will see about that...
11:19 love the content but chill on the flashes 💀 its dangerous for people with epilepsy.
My roommate will complement my fit and then ask me where I got it. I tell him it was $20 on Amazon and he tried to make fun of me 😂💀 he's right about buying cheap clothes.
I love the advice this man is giving
I lost a 2 years relationship because I wasn't well with her so I started neglecting myself and everything about me and eventually she started replacing me with another guy during our relationship and then broke up with me. There was other issues too but I feel like those were the biggest problems for me and I try to work on it now.
I usually wear black- black fingerless gloves, black hoodie, black sweatpants, ye. Though I usually wear the gloves because they feel nice.
Wise man with wise words
The only problems I truly have is emotions at times and not having enough money.
This helped a lot man thank you
For a while, I always threw on some clothes but it actually looked good. Using #4 though I can probably fix that up a bit now
That vultures merch is fire
Fellow av enthusiast?
Why does he genuenly talk like a professional therapist, dude be saving me
I literally already do all these just fine and yet I still have never had a girlfriend 😭😭😭
I love this man.
Thank you 😊
This guy is goated. this has 99% chance of working
Man this is the first time i saw one of your video's i immediately realised i have found the right person to give me advice as soon i saw your hair your style your tattoo i knew you were really giving advice from experience and your heart. Even tho this video is only 13 minutes it litteraly changed my life my everything your a real fire bro keep up with the work❤♥️🌹
Dude your art style is fire
this video locked me the fuck in, w berto for real though
That glowing wall light (Idk what it's called) in the figure of a woman (or stripper) looks like it's from the Game "Ready or Not". Correct me if I am wrong.
The biggest thing if you want a girl is to not think too highly of yourself and not come from an egoic place and instead to get rid of your ego.
Good feed back Confidence > Ego
i really love the advice videos
🥰
0:50 THIS, a girl at the start of the year found me scary, 2 weeks later we hang out and talk together often. Moral of the story: make yourself look tough outside but sweet inside
i confirm the outfit thing bc when i tried it it worked perfectly
Thanks for the advice man!
This video really helps thanks 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Hey Bra I really needed this 🎉
Be Yourself Bro, Either She With It Or She Aint
That's Pretty much it. Doesn't Matter how hard you try. She either feels you or she doesn't
Damn, actually good advice
the second one kinda hits me I'm always joking in a attempt to make people laugh and its because I'm desperate to be the reason for people to smile and honestly it helps me cope with my depression and I always cuss its become a habit in the last few years and I try to be polite around people especially girls I like and I really try to joke around and make her laugh but I'm pretty sure my joking around is definitely why my crushes hate me
I felt that. All my life was practically pain so I try being the goofy guy to make others laugh. Well when I'm not being my quiet usual self. I guess it comes from the misery and don't want others to feel that way