9 Years Post Top Surgery | From Chest Dysphoria to Chest Euphoria

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  • @FinnTheInfinncible
    @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +2

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  • @littlecreacher_
    @littlecreacher_ ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What you said about there not being information on how trans bodies age is so true!! Thank you so much for putting yourself out there as a resource for younger people to know what to expect and the things they can look forward to! 💖

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว

      Bless you my friend, I agree! Thank you for your kind words

  • @oliverg6864
    @oliverg6864 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Congratulations! I can't believe it's been 9 years already. I had top surgery almost 4 years ago now! Time flies! I remember wanting to get breast cancer as a teenager and wondering why I wanted that. It all makes sense now, haha.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, what an awful thing to wish on ourselves but it makes perfect sense why! Thanks my friend!

  • @cool-zd3ev
    @cool-zd3ev ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations on 9 years! The last part was honestly so beautiful- I think it really reflects how I experience being trans too and as a guy who is pre-everything and still has little hurdles with family etc it fills me with so much hope to hear you talk about it

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! It gives me joy to give you hope! Those hurdles look huge where you are, I know, I remember so well, but by just focusing on the here and now, you will surprise yourself one day when you look back and see just how many mountains you have scaled and how glorious the view is!

  • @Lutgerion
    @Lutgerion ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a cis gay guy who just found out my T levels are reeeeeeally low, so now that I have a meeting with a urologist in a few weeks I'm trying to learn more about TRT. Stumbled upon your video from only 5 weeks into your own T treatment, then went straight to this one and just went "whoooaaaaaa"! I was so happy to see and hear about how far you have come, how much better you feel, your ways of just thinking of your chest as your own... Real heartwarming stuff, and you really look great!
    Hoping I'll be able to get on TRT myself just to start feeling better in general, but I also really hope it will help improve my very limited facial hair growth. I've just always dreamed of being a cute little bear cub but my genetics just said NOPE lol
    Thanks so much for sharing your inspirational journey!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What an absolutely wonderful comment to find, thank you so very much for your kindness! I hope all goes well with the urologist and you get your t levels sorted asap 💜

  • @noahmnm
    @noahmnm ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for this Finn, I was in a big blah of bottom dysphoria and really needed this reminder of my own progress and joy after top surgery. Take care ❤

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bless your heart, it happens every now and then doesnt it? Sending love

  • @ncburton1713
    @ncburton1713 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's been 7 years, come this January 4th, since I had my top surgery. And yeah, it's just my chest now. It's amazing! Happy chestiversary! 💙

  • @NerfHerder909
    @NerfHerder909 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just want to thank you for your videos in general- there are so few videos out there from FTM guys who transitioned a little older. I started transition and got top surgery at 40, and trying to visualize what that could look like, what going on T could look like for someone my age was surprisingly difficult, because most transition-related content is from people at least ten (usually fifteen or twenty) years younger than I am. Finding your channel has really been instrumental in my transition and in shifting my mentality of what's possible, transition-wise. So thank you for that!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว

      My dear friend your comments mean the world,thank you. This is exactly why l started sharing. I couldn't find anyone my age and whilst anyone sharing their trans experience was helpful, what I really needed to see, were people my age so I knew more what to expect, it's so important isn't it, to help us manage our expections of changes and surgeries and so on. I'm so glad it's been helpful. Much love!

  • @charliestrickland6194
    @charliestrickland6194 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another absolutely wonderful, emotional, totally you video! The journey...ah, yes. I remember the first time I saw your videos, I think maybe 7 yrs ago? I watched them over and over because I was just coming to accept being trans. So, your journey became my journey. I'm so blessed to have you in my life even if it's only on this miracle we call TH-cam. Love you forever!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว

      AW buddy! This has been one of the biggest joys of sharing, how our journeys have become collective experiences, Im so grateful to have been able to have the boyhood I missed, by sharing it with fellow older trans folks like you! Love you my friend :)

  • @evanveling1538
    @evanveling1538 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video! Top surgery is the absolute best thing ever! Heart you always!!

  • @julianroccopesa3491
    @julianroccopesa3491 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video, Ty ❤️❤️❤️💯
    What a wonderful video Finn, so much truth, I totally embraced it. Your chest, your journey, You, complete inspiration.Ty ✌️🙏❤️🕯️🎈🌻😊

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bless you my friend I really appreciate that kind feedback thank you! 💜

  • @rarelymary
    @rarelymary ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Chestiversay Finn!
    I started subscribing, I think, in 2015 because I had met and made friends with two transpeople (both MtF and FtM) and I wanted to learn more. I'm a cis woman so I have no idea what dysphoria is like and I wanted to understand. I think you explained it really well in this video. Also, I'm also born in 1974! 🥳

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is WONDERFUL!!!!! I appreciate you so very very much, thank you! This is exactly why I continue to make these videos , not just for trans folks, but for everyone to se that us trans folks are really just like everyone else, at our core we want the same things, to be happy , free from pain and free to be ourselves. Thank you for your allyship!

    • @rarelymary
      @rarelymary ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FinnTheInfinncible I'm so glad this makes you happy, Finn. That's how I see it too. Just because someone is different from yourself doesn't mean they don't want the same things as you. Aw, thanks. I just try my best to be a supportive friend. ☺

  • @maxencemolko
    @maxencemolko ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks a lot, my breast is my biggest disphoria, and can't wait for the surgery. I have the same age as you and you give me a lot of hope. (sorry i'm french, my english is not perfect) ^^

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I understood you perfectly! I really hope it can happen soon for you my friend 😊

    • @maxencemolko
      @maxencemolko ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@FinnTheInfinncible thank you very much, i really appreciate your support

  • @jilliemak2024
    @jilliemak2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy for you Finn! Thank you for sharing your journey!!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so kind, thanks for sharing the joy with me!

  • @miloraoof7654
    @miloraoof7654 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I died!!! So amazing your cheeky reveal!! Love it

  • @doriomer
    @doriomer ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you finn, happy holidays :)

  • @kikomartin-pr
    @kikomartin-pr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations Finn. Happy chestiversary. 👍🏽

  • @ASMRLISAMJ
    @ASMRLISAMJ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are amazing... you are fabulous xx💕💕🥰🥰

  • @cristinaluppino575
    @cristinaluppino575 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations Finn your true star and a true delight to watch hoping you and your lovely partner have the best Christmas 🎄💓

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bless your heart thank you! I hope you have a peaceful Christmas! Much love from us

  • @kellybestall4422
    @kellybestall4422 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wooow 9 years since you got your most precious gift....and I look forward to your reveal its soooo you and I know il be doing that every day haha I also have My camp moments

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im glad you enjoy these, I LOVE doiing them!! Im so proud of my body! It hairy round and wobbly and all mine!!! Embrace the camp dahhhhhling!

  • @natashamason3328
    @natashamason3328 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why have I never seen that YMCA video?! It’s awesome 🎉 Love you xx

    • @stefaniedecoster2772
      @stefaniedecoster2772 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Natasha Mason found it: th-cam.com/video/Wob4EmI0Zsc/w-d-xo.html

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha! I thought some folks might have missed that one...so I dragged it back out, it's a classic! Love you toooooo!

  • @stefaniedecoster2772
    @stefaniedecoster2772 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    9 years already, wow!

  • @miloraoof7654
    @miloraoof7654 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your hair cut lks snappy lol!!wow 9 years..time is moving soo fast.

  • @coffeezombie6032
    @coffeezombie6032 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    CONGRATS!

  • @CoMorbiditty
    @CoMorbiditty ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Finn, this is what lve been going through atm.

  • @miloraoof7654
    @miloraoof7654 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are 10 years apart..alot in common with our journeys too..im so glad tohave your videos to watch. I still have ureathral issues but im not complaining

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว

      Bless you buddy, ongoing issues must be tough to deal with

  • @georgemouse6778
    @georgemouse6778 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ah ah wonderful!

  • @emmakateholder5626
    @emmakateholder5626 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey finn, hope you and Chris are well xxxx

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello lovely so good to see a message from you. We are ok. Thinking of you at this difficult time xx

    • @emmakateholder5626
      @emmakateholder5626 ปีที่แล้ว

      @FinnTheInfinncible ty finn, got to admit I'm really struggling xxxx

  • @Johnny_T779
    @Johnny_T779 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so happy for you Finn! If there was a way to guarantee nipple sensation preservation, I would have liked to have top surgery... But science is still advancing, maybe this problem will be resolved in the future.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว

      I can understand that my friend. As it happens, I was told not to expect any nipple sensation, and I didn't care anyway because I'd never had pleasure from that anyway so I wouldn't be missing anything,, but as it turns out, l have sensation! All very strange and unexpected! But if course not intended nor guaranteed so it make sense to wait for science to catch up.....which I am sure it will. All the best to you and thanks for watching and commenting! 💜

  • @kavitadeva
    @kavitadeva ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi my Chubby friend. I am so upset because I just found this video by accident and I'm not getting all your notifications even though my bell is put on all. I'm going to unsubscribe and resubscribe and turn the Bell off and turn it back on, I miss a lot of your videos and then by happenstance I find it like this one right here. I think you look great just the way your body is and I mean that. I am not trying to stroke you. Your chest looks natural the scarring you can barely see, it really has melted into the color of your skin. I'm just so happy you went on this journey in all of its pain and complexity. You know Finn you mentioned something and it just stood out like a bright light, hypothyroidism. Since I've become extremely ill I have gained over a hundred and seventy pounds so I'm not chubby I am obese. And to say that is so weird because I was a tap dancer my whole life I was active and I was always in beautiful shape strong and lean. And now I'm so fat and I'm so upset because I didn't do anything different with food. And when you said hypothyroidism it made me realize right now I have a growth on my thyroid and my doctor wants me to get a biopsy and I don't want to do it. Because if it's cancer I'm not going to do anything about it anyways. I refuse to go and have chemotherapy or radiation. But I'm wondering if this growth on my thyroid is causing this weight gain just interesting now because you mentioned you put on weight from it. Anyways I love you I love this style of videoing you do of yourself it's so free it's so natural you waffle and your waffling is absolutely superb. Have a wonderful holiday and I look forward to seeing you in another video and I think about you all the time because as I told you a hundred times I have a service dog and when I got him he was a puppy and I named him Finn. So every day I think of you. Can you see what type of effect you have on people??

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my goodness, that made me well up! In a good way! Its honestly such an incredible and humbling thing to know that I have such an effect, what a gif and a blessing it is to be able to touch other peoples lives in such a positive way, thank you so much for saying that.
      Our bodies changing and suddenly being outside what is socially deemed as attractive is not easy to deal with is it? Thank you for your lovely words, I would like to be slimmer, but I also do love my body, scars and chubbyness too! When we have a health condition its so hard to maintain a lower weight, especially when you have an underactive thyroid because it really does slow your metabolism right down, and because of the fatigue we also are not moving much, its a double whammy. Im not beating myself up about it, I cant do much about it so whats the point!
      I have no idea what you look like but you are attractive in all the right ways, you have such a beutiful heart, i can feel that by all the wonderful comments you leave for me.
      Im so glad you love this new vlog style, I do too! They will continue in 2023. Happy new year my wonderful friend!

  • @castorfiesprofei
    @castorfiesprofei ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🎉🎉🥂

  • @TRANSBOI1212
    @TRANSBOI1212 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congrads 3 yrs on t 2 years on top surgery this current year had my hysterectomy in a few months imma have metoidioplasty

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats fantastic my friend!

    • @TRANSBOI1212
      @TRANSBOI1212 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you finn hope Allis going awesome my friend... Happy new year 🎉 ✨️ 💛

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TRANSBOI1212 just about recovered from the holiday season! Getting ready to start the new year! 💜

  • @cherjohnson5807
    @cherjohnson5807 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍👍