How To Become An Overnight Success | Think Out Loud With Jay Shetty

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  • Jay Shetty breaks the myth that you can become an overnight success without years of hard work.
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  • @chloebodnaruk9602
    @chloebodnaruk9602 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Motivation comes from meaning", that statement is so true and powerful.

  • @manprakashmahawar5179
    @manprakashmahawar5179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Ideas are not perfect they are perfect when we working on them."

  • @yeseniataurus8901
    @yeseniataurus8901 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Success is teaching me to believe in myself and to also love the person that I am without judgment.

  • @animatebig
    @animatebig 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow...I'm an Engineering student struggling to find meaning in my life. I find your videos so enlightening and guiding. Thank you for all the work that you are putting...

  • @joynoellez
    @joynoellez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I just found you. I watch a lot of motivational speakers,but you really are reaching my understanding of passion and working in this world. I really needed this advice and beautiful words you are sharing with others. I am at a point in my life where I have to start all over. I realize now I can be myself and thats ok. I needed a mentor like you. thank you again

    • @C1Howarth
      @C1Howarth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joy Gordon. Don't let starting over be an issue. I've just turned 30 and I'm just starting for the 1st time. I fucked up & lost a decade
      Now im hunting for inspiration because I've no bloody idea what I want to start. Whatever it is i find and get passionate about I'm not just there to take part, I'm taken over !! 😉

  • @kirstafort2043
    @kirstafort2043 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The way I reached success was to work hard for 40yrs. And all the situations I was dealing with helped me to learn and grow without the spotlight so that when Igetin the spotlight I am ready. Jay thank you for being one of my best lifecoaches.

  • @claudiaq16
    @claudiaq16 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love the way he says "years"

  • @ayaansolomon17
    @ayaansolomon17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Success is accepting failure and learning from it to do better on the next try

  • @FeelGoodWithin
    @FeelGoodWithin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yep there is nothing like overnight Success!!! Keep working on ur mission & one day you will succeed!!!

  • @artle597
    @artle597 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As 21yo and lost in the sea of life these videos help alot. Thank you!

  • @maimaivaj91
    @maimaivaj91 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You can be so real. I love it! Thats why you're an inspiration! You are principal and character focus and it brings the real motivation to your listeners.

  • @IzumiKaya
    @IzumiKaya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you from Japan!! You encourage me soooooo much that you have no idea how much you ‘re helping me.. Love you !!

  • @EpicAfrikana
    @EpicAfrikana 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just found a meaning to a project i've been putting aside for a while now after watching this video. Thank you

  • @itismetaphorical1016
    @itismetaphorical1016 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much for making this !
    you are doing a great job👍

  • @bitcoinbuildify8758
    @bitcoinbuildify8758 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're a brilliant speaker. Beautiful content, too.

  • @michelle.simpson5772
    @michelle.simpson5772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks jay am truly apreaceting you i wish i had meat you before but i guess its just the right time again thanks for ur motivation

  • @addonisryan
    @addonisryan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talk, realistic,yet encouraging,.

  • @luigiyoshikiller
    @luigiyoshikiller 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg love your wisdom, thank you for sharing.

  • @fraly478
    @fraly478 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's helping me to learn, to listen other people and that is how all this faith writing myself and being uncomfortable about the way I act started. Thinking more deeply about life. It's helping me to acknowledge that I can still grow as a person as a father.
    I am here having the opportunity to learn from you.
    I am writing even though I am not a writer. I started to learn things that I always wanted. I Come to find out that I can have it for free.
    It helps to be alone.
    Nowbody likes to be away from everyone and everything that they love. There you grow because you have too.

  • @carleybarnes4365
    @carleybarnes4365 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What you are talking about reminds me about a big project I have to do for photography class and how important it is to have confidence in what I'm doing and not have an ego.

  • @ArtisansCraft
    @ArtisansCraft 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One step at a time. Set small goal and achieve it...

  • @josephfarr8644
    @josephfarr8644 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    For some reason these videos make me Awesome Happy!!!

  • @ishinieranga4999
    @ishinieranga4999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I forget myself. I listen to you. Love form Sri Lanka 💖

  • @divyachandran9921
    @divyachandran9921 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    great jay .....ur motivation is superb....

  • @philexharvey6065
    @philexharvey6065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love listening to you,thank you

  • @JeffUnekuEmmanuel
    @JeffUnekuEmmanuel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome post. quite revealing

  • @goretymusenge6497
    @goretymusenge6497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love u jay shetty, because for all everything u said makes my heart joyfully, when I listen to your voice u always and always make me to be strong person, thank you so much 4your courage

  • @camilafob1
    @camilafob1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome one. So enlightening! My favorite insights, and I am paraphrasing:
    "Mental strength based on motivation won't last. Mental strength built on meaning will empower you."
    "Balance is prioritizing what matters"

  • @jeannaval4260
    @jeannaval4260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought about it and I remembered that success achieved from failures and hardships and acceptance of it. The mindset of improving oneself to be the better you. You succeed in achieving your goal and you succeed in acing your weakness and gaining further wisdom to be wise.

  • @punithkumar4172
    @punithkumar4172 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really great and incredible motivational speech definitely it's very useful to us for our better future

  • @pianosandpianist8179
    @pianosandpianist8179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video really helped me understand. I am a pianist and will become one of the best pianist but my overnight success i know will take years of practice and rehearsals

  • @readyandsettochangeplace6620
    @readyandsettochangeplace6620 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved it. I agree with what you are saying here.

  • @territhompson4682
    @territhompson4682 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jay i made my first vision board,something to see daily

  • @aspiretoinspireothers6363
    @aspiretoinspireothers6363 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks much, Jay for sharing those insights. Great that you give a summary at the last part as it helps us process key points discussed. "20 years is the key to overnight success". :) Nailed it coz there's no shortcut. It's a consistent process that started from a single STEP + hard work, moving forward towards our goal. Take the time to know our passion, our BIG WHY, our MEANING in what we do...to keep us going. Let everything that we go through make us BETTER IN CHARACTER & in competence. Being of service to others takes its spot in every equation of fulfillment. Creating the two frames of hard & easy road is a good activity for MENTAL STRENGTH. BALANCE is recognizing & acting on our priorities on life. Worthwhile to watch again for notes & action points.- AHA Moment, 6/16/18

  • @nancys3052
    @nancys3052 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Jay
    Absolutely love your passion.
    Can you send me the link to your vision board video pls

  • @roseflores7410
    @roseflores7410 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @nailnisingh9601
    @nailnisingh9601 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jay Love and Peace from Guyana.

  • @lisagardner1526
    @lisagardner1526 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It took me 18 years to leave a toxic relationship and then I started a new path 3 years at uni and I’m planning to go all the way! I’m making my destiny, thus, I hv many scars however these scars are fading, transforming to a map of a new adventure and a beautiful life.

  • @onyinyechinatha-amadi2313
    @onyinyechinatha-amadi2313 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Courage and perseverance.

  • @MyConceptByZin
    @MyConceptByZin 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing has overnight success and it takes years to build. Thanks for your info.

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite speaker Jay

  • @sujeetpanda2546
    @sujeetpanda2546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jay bhaiya ☺ I m also from India
    my dad wanted to me become engineer from the day I was born even I took maths after 10 because of him but before 15 days of beginning of 11th class session my dad took me to my principle and changed my subject to biology I even don't know reason till today and intersecting part was I wanted to take arts I wanted to become a archaeologist today I have finished my 12th and now I m preparing for medical entarance
    1 month is left for it
    only one thing that keeps me going is I thinks just believe that even if I m not studying subject that I wanted something may be good which is may be coming forward in future
    thanks for your videos thanks these videos help me to keep going with patience ☺
    my name somya panda

  • @007ukokbro
    @007ukokbro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanku...😊

  • @mohammadirfan6147
    @mohammadirfan6147 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Key point: a kind of fear while taking a decision at critical step...that leads to success in genuine effort...

  • @glynisobrien4273
    @glynisobrien4273 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Jay Shetty I am a Psychodynamic therapist in childhood trauma and unhealthy learned behaviour, at Birkbeck University in London, I later did NLP with Richard Bandler and Toby and Kate Mccarthy in London, which has taught me so much about myself, learning and healing my own childhood trauma, and become the confident positive woman I am today with my own spirituality and my journey and awakening of my heart soul empathy trust patience compassion and unconditional love.
    I have educated myself and the greatest thing for me is to help others with similar experiences as myself, I had no one to help me I moved from Stirlingshire in Scotland to London 25 years ago worked in health care, I fell ill and went to see a careers advisor she said did ever think about doing counselling she reckoned I had qualities to become a counseller.
    I went to collage to do GCSES did it and got into Burkbeck University Psychodynamic, which I loved learning about child development, attachment, loss, Trauma, to where I started 8 years ago it took me, I am dyslexic and dispraxic but I did get help from learning support, when I did courses at NLP hypnotherapy, meditation, mindfulness, couching, practitioner, I learned about meditation, mindfulness, couching practitioner teaching, meditation, us when I ground my self and positivity compassion gratitude coming from my heart, I have experiences where I have reactions from like minded people as myself and I am about to do a crystal healing course in alternative medicine , I have a calmness that a lot of people pick up on m, I do not have a problem with silence that's when I think deeply about things being dyslexic I use all my senses.
    Two weeks ago I went to get my second corona virus jab the nurse that was giving me the jab asked me some questions, she asked where I was from I said I am from Scotland but been living studying working and singing I am a classically trained singer also. The nurse said to me that made sence that a worked as a therapist because my voice is calming and that I it suited me that career path, I love what I do not out of ego because I care compassionately about human beings and all cats wild and domestic cats.
    I.have been listening to you for years you and others Richard Bandler John Grinder and Milton Erickson on NLP in the 1970s also Carl Jung Carl Rogers and Anna Fruid and you Jay shetty thank you for doing what you do to teach and help us develop inbecoming who I am today I have had one heck of a journey I left school at 16 with only a singing certificate look what I have done in the last 8 years blessings gratitude peace prayers health joy laughter music 🎶🎵and unconditional love to you and your lovely wife and a great couple Glynis Alexandra xxxxxxxxx ❤❤❤❤❤💜💜🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😻😻😽😼😻😽

  • @debraharris9674
    @debraharris9674 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did cardiology for 14 years, surgeries and such, and it taught me patience and courage.

  • @eugenbachmann
    @eugenbachmann ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Jay for sharing your thoughts another definition for success is: Achieving goals on the path to your Vision... ))

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love his speech very much my favourite speaker Jay genius

  • @vivekashrimaunasamy6386
    @vivekashrimaunasamy6386 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!❤

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always best my favourite speaker Jay genius l love his speech very very much.

  • @anagijon5202
    @anagijon5202 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow thank you for your answer about lossing motivation, it really makes sensce to me :)

  • @Ankit_Gupta1989
    @Ankit_Gupta1989 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jay, I just got promoted.
    Everyone in my office is saying that I am very lucky because I got promoted within 2 years and 4 months. But they don't know that just be the lucky one, I have spent 10 years and more then 33 rejections. So it's true that there is no such thing like overnight success.

  • @troyhagen587
    @troyhagen587 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Jay GREAT INFORMATION AND VIDEO THANKS.
    I'm reinventing myself at 61 yrs old and battling PARKINSON. Have been in HOTEL and Catering for over 40 years, now can not get a job because of trimmers. Can not carry trays, have to revent myself.
    YOUR AWESOME VIDEO and INFORMATION, THANKS.

    • @bettysharp8813
      @bettysharp8813 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Troy Hagen I am 62 and going through health issues. It is like my body has become the ememy.. But a door opened that lets me use my degree at home as a tutor.. is there a skill you could teach? If you were a waiter, could you teach people how to be an incredible waiter? Can you write an ebook? By our age, we know "stuff" so we may have information people need.

    • @troyhagen587
      @troyhagen587 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      betty sharp
      GREAT INFORMATION and a Great IDEAS. I have been thinking about this for month's NOW. It's like I'M fighting for my health too.
      The pain is overwhelming at times. We can have ALL but not all at the SAME time. THANKS again.

    • @janviwadhwa8922
      @janviwadhwa8922 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bettysharp8813
      L

  • @memyselfi3258
    @memyselfi3258 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg my family and relatives think this of me.. it took me yrs to get to where I am and it’s made many people hate me because of my success. Feels like you can’t win in life.

  • @ghanthimathiv.subramaniam8192
    @ghanthimathiv.subramaniam8192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Success=Hard work x Positive Attitude + Courage + Patience + Resilient - Ego + Great People

  • @shiljs396
    @shiljs396 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It would be extremely interesting to have a Chat with you about wisdom in Person ✨ Love and good Vibes from Germany ✨👏

  • @basavaarajganachari6089
    @basavaarajganachari6089 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro u r just AWESOME✌

  • @mohammedomer6798
    @mohammedomer6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ❤

  • @homelandfreedom
    @homelandfreedom 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am working on a long distance relationship from past experience I have been doing things different it's stressful but am moving in the right direction this relationship will help me reach my goal and sucsess

  • @SSR287
    @SSR287 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    u r true motivator thankxx JS 😍😘😘🤗

  • @sujeetpanda2546
    @sujeetpanda2546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you know I have left Facebook instagram WhatsApp from 3 years so that I can concentrate on my studies
    I took a lot of patience for me to do that but today I am the happiest person I this world just because I don't see fake stuff which people show off and today even when my studies will be over in have no dream to come back on social media even I use my father's I'd to post this comment

    thanks to God as you said I don't wakeup in world of notification
    only half hour I give to cell phone I see videos on you tube for that half hour 😎

  • @joshiravi8857
    @joshiravi8857 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    success= Hardwork+ positive attitude+ courage+ patience+ vigilance- ego+ great people.. 😊

  • @liyu74
    @liyu74 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Success =hard work * Positive attitude + Currage + patience+ resilience - ego + great people

  • @NITISHKUMAR-tc8pu
    @NITISHKUMAR-tc8pu 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    success does not come overnight, we have to work hard to till that time when somebody says that you are successful, that will be the moment you cheer yourself "i made it" till that time or date just wait and do the work and be patient regarding your success.

  • @mhakum476
    @mhakum476 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great

  • @Ikigai747
    @Ikigai747 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okayy gr8 thoughts jay
    Imp ones for me
    Intension plus action is necessary
    As u wake up put the right messages out there
    Find meaning not motivation
    When you find meaning exhaustion doesn't seem like it
    Find like minded people that needs hardwork (reflect on this)

  • @harsh3936
    @harsh3936 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Patience

  • @goretymusenge6497
    @goretymusenge6497 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm now 21,i love the way he Say's.

  • @territhompson4682
    @territhompson4682 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    T worked very hard on a book of poems with the computer even some pics .I was about half way there ,and every thing disappeared. This worked my patience so Just begining to start again.

  • @marysmiraculousresolve7814
    @marysmiraculousresolve7814 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Humility

  • @rushikeshrithe6103
    @rushikeshrithe6103 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad that we have TH-cam so that I can watch this video when I fly into colourful illusion.

  • @lisathames7109
    @lisathames7109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want you on my team . I have to put my sunglasses on your light is so bright

  • @kameshabanks8868
    @kameshabanks8868 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    to be assertive but kind

  • @rodrigosaucedo1932
    @rodrigosaucedo1932 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    NICE

  • @sandravillegas1624
    @sandravillegas1624 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would love to meet you that is something I would like to do def see you live.

  • @roseflores7410
    @roseflores7410 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes just now!!

  • @hvwong2044
    @hvwong2044 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope you can answer my question, does ego do any good to our life, cuz all the thing I read put a bad name on our ego. How should we deal with it?

  • @udapsharma7107
    @udapsharma7107 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Top

  • @storyofeverything552
    @storyofeverything552 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am not getting that formula of success can anybody please explain it to me.

  • @roseflores7410
    @roseflores7410 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m here listening

    • @carolstagon4416
      @carolstagon4416 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love Jay but I can not get motivated to pull myself out of a deep betrayal done to me.

  • @mhakum476
    @mhakum476 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kindly guide about friends. ..about selfish friends

  • @roseflores7410
    @roseflores7410 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My name is Rosa I love ur videos

  • @silkroadoasis
    @silkroadoasis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maybe an overnight succes is, if you decide before sleeping, that you will start to hustle and work on your goals and YOU DO IT after getting up.

  • @anikedasilva1662
    @anikedasilva1662 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Consistency

  • @sakshirehan1922
    @sakshirehan1922 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For me success is satisfied when i got result of consequences Of my performance..

  • @Sangaviahk
    @Sangaviahk 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It took me 26 years to reach where I am. Still, I have to do until I am alive

  • @naeemahmadzai1833
    @naeemahmadzai1833 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    One thing was missing in the equation of success "true faith"

  • @relations-karmictfandsoulm4432
    @relations-karmictfandsoulm4432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is your final goal, Jay? What are you planning to achieve.

  • @PHELCAN
    @PHELCAN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Billie Eillish and Post Malone literally became overnight successes
    >It's a myth

  • @sherylcastro5688
    @sherylcastro5688 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't hv any of those Social addicting apps....

    • @atisiukoima1717
      @atisiukoima1717 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really...???

    • @anaayana2632
      @anaayana2632 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      good.....u should be positively proud of that...... 😌😌😌

  • @carolstagon4416
    @carolstagon4416 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jay its Carol I feel like a failure in life......

  • @ushathapa6927
    @ushathapa6927 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    😇😍🙆

  • @molaposelepe3542
    @molaposelepe3542 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zam a

  • @mandirabundhoo2309
    @mandirabundhoo2309 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wht abt a video.. To apologise to people??

  • @dodykh4386
    @dodykh4386 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    وهج وتابرببيي

  • @isailwind3471
    @isailwind3471 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    huffington post is a bad joke.