How to get over failure Ft
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ธ.ค. 2022
- Ekse shap fede! In this episode, we spoke about how high school, university and the entire education system have shaped us.
We invited a friend of the Podcast Una Rams to join the conversation.
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"I don't have a passion project, but I want to be useful"
Thank you Matladi for wording what I've struggled to phrase out for the longest time in my life.
It’s the fact that it’s men having these conversations, it’s black men. God give you strength and bless you. There is a bright future for our generation!
They all so well spoken 💯💞
Tladi and Una Ram’s chat on luck is so spot on. People overestimate the role of hard work because they think they are the only one doing the work
Facts! There's so many factors involved like people helping you, privilege, etc that you can't take the credit for everything
Matladi is coming out of his shell and it's such a beautiful thing to witness, he had so much presence in this episode literally led the entire conversation with very substantial insight. What a smart broer!
We definitely love the level of comfortability that Matladi is getting into. I'm here for it keh Sana
Malome's Mic articulates all the thoughts and emotions that I fail to articulate. Thank you for creating this platform !
It's not luck ,it's called being blessed. Gods favour baba
Shout out to Thato Rampedi for introducing us to some of the coolest people in the industry. UnaRams is a cool guy for sure, and i'm super proud of how far matladi has come, well articulate now more than ever, there's growth in each one of you guys, and its amazing to witness with every episode. Thato you are going to be so proud of yourself one day for making sure men have such heart to heart conversation with each other, trust me, you are breaking the stereotype
Finally we aren't talking about mjolo, definitely what I needed life from different perspectives
Love how Matladi has become a bit more comfortable in this space. Looks like a whole lot of growth. Also every time i listen to these conversations coincidentally i deeply resonate with whats being said. Just this morning an acquaintance said to me "Jay you cannot do this all alone, you must learn to ask for help" and i literally cringed... Now hearing Lucas repeat the very same thing !! This podcast feels like a safe space !
Una is so calm🥹🥹
Tladi was on a roll this episode 🔥👏🏾. s/o to Una Rams though okaayy
Journaling is so therapeutic to us , that’s what motivates us most of the time ! To not feel like failures .. thank u Thato !
Wow, I'm so speechless. I'm one of those kids Thato mentioned somewhere in this podcast - student, been at a point where I failed and also failed for the first time in uni, felt embarrassed coz all my friends had passed and I had to repeat modules and stuff. It was kinda difficult to navigate and I finally got onto something I'm more passionate about, I'm absolutely smashing it now, and yeah like Matladi says, luck mahn. I never thought I'd be able to get A's again after failing but here we are. Luck accompanied with hardwork lol
So this was a really amazing one. I think every week I comment here saying this was my favorite episode, but I genuinely enjoy and relate fully to each conversation yall have. And yall I always feel like I relate so much to Matladi, I also did 2 years in engineering before I changed, now I'm in food science. Now I love what I do. Failure has helped me to realize where I need to be and what I need to be doing. So once again, S/O gents for these amazing conversations - I'm always looking forward to watching and I'm sure there's thousands of others on here who also keep coming back to this channel coz it's soo relatable, kinda feels like online family 😂😂🤍🤍🤍🤍. Anyway, yeah, keep it coming gents. From Durban, with love 🤍🤍🤍✨️✨️
I loved Una's take on life being much like school. There's a time to learn, a time to be tested and a time to rest. Word!
UP should sponsor this podcast😭😅
This is legit a panel of smart men 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾I respect the wisdom shared in this episode. Hopefully you guys come back to this podcast in 10 years and see how much your views and perspectives were so impactful not just to us the viewers but to you as well 🤝
Preparation meets opportunity (luck in Lucas description)🔥🔥😌
This has to be my favorite podcast so far ❤️❤️Una has been an amazing guest 👌we need to bring him on again
Roman Philosopher Lucius Seneca is attributed with the qoute Lucas used to define luck. However I think Zig Ziglar captured it better when he said ‘Success occurs when opportunity meets preparation’. Luck or providence as Unarine & Matladi put it is something that happens outside your control. You can’t take credit for that - it’s outside you. There are opportunities that come by chance/luck, depending on how prepared you are will determine if you are successful or will fail.
Loved this episode ❤️. Also I hope you guys know the impact this podcast has on us as young people.
Journaling is like having a therapy session by your self.
To think sis wanted to take her own life because I got to experience failure in the workplace (programmes offered at work) and I didn't know how to deal with it ...I am grateful that I watched this podcast now I know that we all go through such and there is nothing wrong with me.....Thank you guys ♥️
Can we get just daddy g next time
"you take credit for nothing" 😂😂😭😭
Love it here ❤
A guy like Lucas pleassssse😍🤰. Yerrrrr muhn!
Glad to have found okes that failed engineering like me😂...now on a different path with a different perspective shoutouts gents...Thrive!
Very thoughtful to do this episode days before we get our results😭 as an engineering students, I'm better prepared to see my results because hey this faculty of ours🤣
Dude! The way I am always ready for anything in this faculty of ours!
But ay man, I thank God for pulling through every single time, in both successes and failures.
I was so obsessed with una rams my friends were worried about me
luck is always preparation meeting opportunity and for how uno says how y'all became friends i will lucas and thato i know thato asked for school related things for assistance and lucas was definitely prepared to help, just to break it down and you know once there something that you all have in common , will lead to more more conversions and i blieve thats were the chemistry if friendship emerge
Thato Speaking in God's voice🤣🤣🤣🤣love this !
Most Relatable Podcast Ever! 🔥
This might just be my favourite episode yet. There were so many valuable lessons to take away from this.
Love witnessing the growth. Take it all the way UP!❤
This episode was so insightful🔥🔥🔥🔥
Its very important to not deal with failure alone, always reach out for help....
We are here for more Thato, keep them coming ❤
Yall surprise me every episode. Im so proud of yall i hope yall don't stop coz this conversation are doing the most🤞👏👏👏
2 things I can relate to in today's episode is its actually okay not to have a big passion and just want to do good in the world (Matladi) and looking back on my failures makes me anxious, especially if I can't figure out what the lesson was (Lucas).
Una Rams😍
I’m learning a lot. These are very important conversations. Thank you bafwethu. 🤞🏾
Love this!❤🔥🔥🔥
Love this 🔥🔥🔥
Will be repeating two modules next for my honors degree and for the first time in a while I'm starting to realize had I put more effort and stopped procrastinating I wouldn't be in this position. This episode was an eye opener 💯💞
And one more thing, I've been more inspired, more opinionated and definitely more motivated since I started watching this podcast because as much as I can relate, someone here always says something that bridges a gap or is like the missing piece to a puzzle in my life. And I've learnt to see things from different perspectives and S/O to Lucas for that, because his perspective on things are always so unique and like Una said, also every scientific - which I really love. So yeah, we learn a gang load from yall every week and we'd love for this podcast to last as long as it possibly can. Amazing amazing production Thato, S/O to you mahn. 🤍🤍🤍
nice podcast forreal mahn
Woow what an amazing episode and Hella informative.....keep up the good work Thato you doing great, this podcast will change so many lives🤞🤞
If you were born in failure,failure is not born in you
I love the quality of human being that Tladi is...what a gent!!!👌👌👌
I love this podcast
I used to watch your vlog when I was doing matric and after that I left it for a while when I was going my 1st year but I came to realized that I was missing a lot considering the difficulties and the struggle which I was going through. With that being said I think I needed a space like this to relate on because WOOWW...Mechanical engineering showed me flame to a point that I nearly wanted to drop out But THANKS TO YOUR CHANNEL BIG UP BRO🙌
There's just so much to say about today's podcast so I'm just not going to go into details but it was really deep(like always) and made me think a lot about my life ..Thato I wanna say I appreciate this platform you created and trust me you guys are really impacting our lives. I love it here❤️❤️Tshwarellang fela yalo❤️
Thato touching on the One Size Fits All education system. >
We here 🔥
Una rams❤💃
Heartfelt
This is such a wholesome space 🥺❤️ I absolutely love it.
Loved it!!!!❤️❤️
I loved this topic👌🏽👌🏽
When Lucas said he gets triggered by reflecting, I felt like I was the one speaking. Yoh, I'm such a "what's next" hun. I've learnt to move on and just try better the next time.
Beautiful episode. ❤️
Ah… failure! Had my fair share of it this year when EVERY aspect of my life was just in shambles and some worse. It didn’t hit me till it translated into my books and I really struggled to make my way around it because that was my only source of joy left that I had “total control over” and boy did it also go left?! 😂 Through all of that though, I’m grateful for my quick adaptive response to it all to save the semester/year and crying (which I did a lot of even during my lecture consultations) while finding and acting on the solution(s) and/or second best one.
Still not fully equipped to deal with failure “healthily” but this year definitely did teach me how to roll with punches no matter how bad it hurts. Because me stopping or giving up (which I considered quite a lot) would not necessarily change the outcome but probably make it even worse. So, khala but khala while in motion my love don’t stop. But ukukhala, cry hey. 😂
Waitsi Thato doesn't understand yaz', loud shedding is holding us by the neck and Thato is just giving content, relebogile ho menahane🙏😭
Loved this episode.. Totally relate
This episode!!🔥
So happy I was on time for this episode.
Also shout out to Una Rams❤🔥
Been a fan of his since Highschool 😂and my excitement was on its peak for this episode!
Love his non-conventional music.
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Needed this episode. 🥺❤️
This was amazing, shout out gents☺️
Love the set Malome!
Love this content ; really appreciate it .
This is just one of those videos you need to watch again and again 🔥🔥🔥
Love y’all ❤
Great conversation,love how you guys have grown!Thato you're so creative,forever cooking up ideas.I was re watching the sitdown video,you've beeeeen working.
Also Tladi's skin is amazing.
Please have Lebo and Daddy G on,they can tell us about their journey going off alcohol,being celibate konke
S/O to everyone who did Computer Science at UP, speaking from experience that department is not easy to be at. Actually UP as a whole tests your patience and grit to the core. I remember I first failed a module in my honours year, never cried over marks like that year. And I learned to not tie my intelligence on marks.
Yoh failure in uni? Damn😭😭 but would I want it to be any different? Definitely not🥺
To Thato and the whole crew thank you very much for this, kudos to you gents
Really great episode.
Its not luck its a blessing
Eeekse Shap fede🤙
Why is Thato's voice deep today😂😂
He's speaking in God's voice 🤣🤣🤣
@@JustLiswa 🤣🤣🤣
Beautiful episode
Thoroughly learned and enjoyed this episode a lot🙌🏾🔥
Enjoyed this episode! I am loving the guests element 🔥🔥
Argh thank you so much for this informative episode I’m gonna save it😭❤️🙏🏿
Is Matladi okay?..he's energy is not the one we used to hey, or it's just me🤷
The idea of luck is "mad" I don't believe in shit just happening randomly. I feel like every outcome is a consequence. Even flipping a coin and lending on the desired side isn't luck because if the coin flips once you get the opposite side... And if it flips twice you'll get the same side. I get that when flipping a coin you flip it so hard that it flips probably more than 9 times and you have no control of how much it flips, which is an element of luck but still nie maan luck needs a new definition because people make it sound like magic and I don't think it is.
@05:32 Get a job and don't get a promotion to make time for your passion is underrated advice 👏 (unless your job aligns w your passion ofcoz)
But Matladi is good on the mic... What does he mean when he says he doesn't have a talent
I love how relatable Malome’s Mic is🥹. Such chats are so important to have, for someone who is in Uni I’m so grateful to have heard this and especially now waiting for results. Love this podcast so much, thanks Thato🫶🏽
the luck chat is really just Gods grace hey🥹