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I'm old school...So I smile & say "Oooh this looks like an A & B conversation, so I will just C myself out of it." People look surprised then start laughing. Works everytime.😂
@@delana2842I like that you wrote "mother" for some reason. It just seems like a reverence of your mother. ❤❤ anyway, don't mind me, I get off track easily. 🤭
I said this phrase in my mind today at work when my boss called me in Her office because she thought I had made those mistakes and i could tell she was wishing it was me so that I would correct them for her and I almost skipped back to my desk with joy cause you know what? It had nothing to do with me.
I’m at a point where I highly appreciate my life being a little boring and uneventful to keep my mind at peace. I don’t need chaos from others to spice things up because the stress isn’t worth it. Anyway, I hope to see you in DC!
Baby it ain't got nothing to do with me, and I'm glad about it! I use this with my momma. I tell my family "I like to say, I don't know, and be telling the truth." My grandma used to say, "baby I'm like the jug handle, I'm all around it, but I ain't in it." 😂 Man I miss that lady. I say that all the time now.
I’m the oldest and for years my parents (divorced) would waste most of my phone call talking about my youngest sister & her dysfunctional behavior. I started telling them that I don’t want hear anything negative about her or other siblings & keep our calls focused on each other. They both responded (separately), then what are we going to talk about?!!😅😂 I told them just about ourselves & what is going in our lives. Those phone calls got shorter and shorter! Lol😅 When you get in your 50’s & up you don’t like to deal with drama and don’t have a problem telling people “I don’t want to know anyone’s business, because it doesn’t have anything to do with me!” 🙄🤷🏾♀️. That’s your freedom & choice to stay out of everyone’s business! Love it! 😊🙌🏾🤩
I regularly tell my co-workers to stay outta other people's business. When they start gossiping to me I say that ain't my bidness, nor yours! Or: why you worried about that? That ain't got nothing to do with you!
Maybe it's Just ME.....but When are Why-te people going to start Growing Their. Own... That ain't got nothing to do with ME.....Muscles! Cause they STAY....growing Muscles about stuff that ain't got NOTHING to Do.....With THEM!!
I was like that as a kid, from The gate. Our family functions my cousins ALWAYS got into arguments. I was the one who NEVER was involved and NEVER KNEW WHAT HAPPENEd. My aunt would be so mad at me. She said “ YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT HAPPENED!” 😳 in all Fairness, I really didn’t remember 😂. I’ve always MINDED MY BUSINESS 😉
My favorite uncle used to say, “it takes 25 hours a day to mind my business and 1 hour to mind other people’s business.” In other words, I don’t have enough time in a day to mind my own business!!
It's literally the 2nd most spoken/thought phrase for me... I minds MY business. That's number one. I happen to have a face/demeanor that seems to signal to people that they can feel safe telling me just about ANYTHING! I've had a complete strangers just start talking to me, telling me their business...I guess because I was standing there & look like I'll listen and be kind. 🤷🏾♀️ Lucky for them, I do....mind MY business...and I don't tell theirs. 😁
Yess!! My favorite phrase “ that ain’t got nothing to do with me” I feel dam good saying it, whether I’m saying it to family, friends, and coworkers. I don’t like messes of any kind, and now that I’m turning 50 at the end of the year, I really don’t want to deal with messy people!
This is me when my adult kids try to tell me about the drama in their daddy's life. 1st thing i say, " well...that aint got nothing to do with me. Dont even tell me anymore cause i dont want to know . That's yall family. I'm sorry yall"
I love being able to say my name is Bennett and I'm not in it🤣🤣🤣🤣 plus I got hands🥊🥊🥊 so I can't get involved because violence is always an option.💅🏾😉🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My standard line at work: “I know nothing unless I’m directly told in an official communication on company letterhead.” Although, I tend to be oblivious. So if I know? E’rrybody already knew last week 😂
Lol my favorite part is when you say it and and gets quiet. You can see the realization on whoever’s face that whatever it is…it has nothing to do with me or them! 😂
Yes, EJ, Yes!! One of my favorites things to say at work was " My name is Bennett and I ain't in it." It kept me out of all the nonsense that office politics had pitting folks against one another.
This phrase is most valuable when used AGAINST MY KIDS!!!!! "Mama, i can't find my socks" "mama he took my piece of chicken i wanted" "mama he called me ugly when he uglier and he stank" "mama daddy said i can play for 2 hours before i gotta share" CHILD OF MINE, that ain't got nothing to do with me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is my mantra for life. Walk past someone shoving (or maybe helping but who knows) a person into the clothing donation bin? That ain't got nothing to do with me. See someone trying to break a tree in half to get a bike that somehow mysteriously ended up there? That ain't got nothing to do with me. I've seen literally everything taking public transportation and I have no intention of "investigating"
EJ girl you hit the nail on the head with this one. This is me & my daughter as we talk about "family tea" and what does she always say? "It ain't got nothing to do with me". I feel like you might've been in on some of our conversations 🤣😂🤣😂
Love saying it at work. Not necessarily about gossip and stuff - I work with all dudes and we don't be doing all that. But I will say it when it comes to tasks outside of my job description.
Love it…I have removed family from my inner circle for putting my name in mess that I had nothing to do with or even new about for that matter…Not any more…Too old for nonsense!!!
Lmao 🤣 it definitely most valuable around family when they ask for something but couldn't help you out, go ahead and say that ain't got nothing to do with me😂
Oooh the peace that surpasses ALL UNDERSTANDING! This is only hard for me at work because I'm a teacher and students need someone to talk to. If it's tea I usually stop them first and say remember I have to report certain things. Some keep talking 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
YES YES and YESSSSS!!! Absolutely truth!!! It’s not that I don’t care, but IT AINT GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH ME👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Definitely with family, in public and at work. I will tune out and walk away when my nose starts to smell foolishness and tomfoolery-exit stage left!
I just love to mind my business and be quiet. 🤐 You learn so much. I can only relate to working on healing what's broken, and trying to change the things I can, and not dealing with what's none of my business. Me choosing not to keep up with everybody else and what they're doing, knowing I have a ton to continue to heal and change, does not mean I'm holding a grudge. It means I'm holding myself accountable for my own💩, so I don't 💩 on nobody else. May everyone be well and have a blessed night. Much love and protection! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🤗💞
I just love you sis. You are always on point and so funny. Me and my sis share your videos with each other all the time. We laugh so hard. Keep it up sis.
Exactly! It’s like having a superpower! I’ll know all the workplace drama with someone, and when people come up to me talking about it, I act like it’s my first time hearing it.
I use it a lot at work. I don’t ask questions that are not work related. I do NOT want to know anyone’s business. If you come to me asking anything, you’re gonna get ‘it’s got nothing to do with me’. That’s just the way it is!
This phrase is most relatable with family. After burying two loved ones in a year and dealing with the messiness with them folks. Their stuff I want no part of, because "that ain't got nothing to do with me."
I so agree!!... I hit em with a "hmm hmm" and I keep it moving 😂😂😂- Ohh the joy of peace and harmony that has taken over my life since I started minding my business 😊
Congratulations on the shows please come to the UK. But I use it on a phone call , at work, college and Family. The song drink my water and mind my business comes to play
Considering that I am antisocial, have only 2 people I consider true friends, I rarely had to use the term. Only once when I was working and man did it feel good LOL!
This is my mantra when family/friends put themselves on the financial struggle bus. And then hint around about needing help till payday. I ain't got nothing to do with you balling out and then I ain't got nothing to do with bailing you out😡😡
It feels freeing and wonderful and I use it in every situation possible!!! Like for real!!!! I can’t stand drama and I do all I can to have little to none in my life. I ain’t got time and 99.9% of this mess out here in the world, job, family, store, etc. ain’t got nothing to do with me!!!!!😂😂
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9/24 Charlotte, North Carolina
10/8 Jacksonville, Florida
11/5 Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
12/3 Austin, Texas
12/17 Washington DC
But I don't see Zanies in Nashville listed. Come on sis, we're neighbors - Tennessee/Ar-Kansas. We practically share a backyard 😂😂😂
EJ come a little more south! Ft.Lauderdall or Miami, Fl. We are waiting for you.
Hey EJ, This Ain't got Noth'n ta do wit Me!!! 😇😀😆🤷🏾
Bc 😱😲we're Not on yur list to visit, so U not com'n up heer to 👉🏾 Seattle, WA.👈🏾😐🥺 🙎🏾🤷🏾
Why is Ohio not on this list...but that scheduling ain't got nothing to do wit me...😮
NC IS READY 🫶🏾🥰❤️
The unspeakable peace that comes after uttering this phrase is priceless 🤌🏽😌
I literally had to use this phrase THIS MORNING at work and you not lying, this type of peace hits different 😅😂
That’s the sho nuff truth! 😂
say that!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Right there with you
Yessss!!! For all of us minding our 'that ain't got nothing to do with me' business!!! 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
perfectly said !!!!!!🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
The older you get, the more this rings true.
The SMARTER you get, the more this rings true..........
AMEN AMEN!!!
I'm old school...So I smile & say "Oooh this looks like an A & B conversation, so I will just C myself out of it." People look surprised then start laughing. Works everytime.😂
That was my stepfather's go to and he usually got the same reaction. 😆
C my way out. That is me!
That ain’t none of my business and “I don’t know what to tell you 🤷🏽♀️” are my go to lines 😂
Another classic!
SAME!!!
Mother would always say, "I don't know what to tell you!" Definitely a classic. 😃❤️
@@delana2842I like that you wrote "mother" for some reason. It just seems like a reverence of your mother. ❤❤ anyway, don't mind me, I get off track easily. 🤭
Yesss! “I don’t know what to tell you.” 😂😂😂
I said this phrase in my mind today at work when my boss called me in Her office because she thought I had made those mistakes and i could tell she was wishing it was me so that I would correct them for her and I almost skipped back to my desk with joy cause you know what? It had nothing to do with me.
😂😂😂 at your boss wishing it was you so that you could fix them. Not today satan.
Not the “skip with joy.” 😂😂😂
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What my aunt always said was " not my monkey, not my zoo"!...
I still live by that today.
Hilarious! Please know that I may be stealing this from you and your aunt!
😂So true …and funny!
@saywhat3654 Oh, absolutely! I'm 46 now, and I've been using it for years
Friend of mine once said "Not my circus, not my monkey" so we're on the same page. ❤
@@katemarr1984 Exactly! Both people understand the truth
Cause baby, it ain't my business 😂😂😂
I’m at a point where I highly appreciate my life being a little boring and uneventful to keep my mind at peace. I don’t need chaos from others to spice things up because the stress isn’t worth it. Anyway, I hope to see you in DC!
Word. Drama is for the movies and a good book, hallelujah!
Lawdy, I'm already @ that point of Boring & Uneventful, & I love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@emiliaescobar7652, Been there for a while and love it. 😃
Yes. The peace of it all!
I introduce myself and tell folks that I am boring PROUDLY.
Baby it ain't got nothing to do with me, and I'm glad about it! I use this with my momma. I tell my family "I like to say, I don't know, and be telling the truth." My grandma used to say, "baby I'm like the jug handle, I'm all around it, but I ain't in it." 😂 Man I miss that lady. I say that all the time now.
😂😂😂😂
Hope you don't mind, ...........'cause I'm using that phase! Lol!!
Now that is a good one 📝 👏🏾😂😂
They have the best phrases.
Love this and will be using this as well. Thank you and the same to your grandmother!
“An really quickly, UH! An really quickly!” 😂❤
My favorite is "Chile, I have no idea because I just be minding my business. "
Using similar words in the workplace is so freeing! Highly recommended ❤
How many ways can you say that in business-speak? 😂😂
Sir, I was uninvolved in the incident.
I am unaware of any such event or activity.
@@lkeke35 That must've occurred while I was busy with my WORK. 😂
I’m the oldest and for years my parents (divorced) would waste most of my phone call talking about my youngest sister & her dysfunctional behavior. I started telling them that I don’t want hear anything negative about her or other siblings & keep our calls focused on each other. They both responded (separately), then what are we going to talk about?!!😅😂 I told them just about ourselves & what is going in our lives. Those phone calls got shorter and shorter! Lol😅 When you get in your 50’s & up you don’t like to deal with drama and don’t have a problem telling people “I don’t want to know anyone’s business, because it doesn’t have anything to do with me!” 🙄🤷🏾♀️. That’s your freedom & choice to stay out of everyone’s business! Love it! 😊🙌🏾🤩
Ain’t listened to nothing just clicked and liked😂
For reall ej is so hilarious ❤
Same
And DID!!🙌🏾😂🙌🏾😂🙌🏾
Me too lol I stop by EJ’s videos and hit like on the way in. 😅
My line is more like “What that got to do with me!!”😂. I agree with you in everything you just said.🙌🏾
My favorite saying, "I don't know his/ her life."
That ain't got nothin' to do with me😂😂
I regularly tell my co-workers to stay outta other people's business. When they start gossiping to me I say that ain't my bidness, nor yours!
Or: why you worried about that? That ain't got nothing to do with you!
No...my FAVORITE saying is, "that's not my portion" FA.VOR.ITE!!! 😂😂😂
Them darn 3-way calls! 😂
These new generations don’t have a clue.🫣😝🤦🏾♀️
"Ooo, my bladder!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The bathroom excuse is real 😁😁
Congrats on the shows EJ!! Learning to exercise my "that ain't got nothing to do with me" muscles.
Maybe it's Just ME.....but When are Why-te people going to start Growing Their. Own...
That ain't got nothing to do with ME.....Muscles!
Cause they STAY....growing Muscles about stuff that ain't got NOTHING to Do.....With THEM!!
That has nothing to do with me. It does not affect my life! And I am not going to get in trouble with God by gossiping or listening to gossip.
I tell my coworkers I play my position, they play theirs, we finish this work game and go home. I also tell them to sweep around their own front door!
I like to throw in the word baby for example “baaaaabby that ain’t got nothing to do with me” 🙌🏾😂
Yes!! The older you get the more you value that phrase.
Yassss. I can't STAND chaos and confusion. Some people thrive on it but that ain't got nothing to do with me so I don't have nothing to do with them!
I was like that as a kid, from
The gate. Our family functions my cousins ALWAYS got into arguments. I was the one who NEVER was involved and NEVER KNEW WHAT HAPPENEd. My aunt would be so mad at me. She said “ YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT HAPPENED!” 😳 in all Fairness, I really didn’t remember 😂. I’ve always MINDED MY BUSINESS 😉
That is my oldest child's favorite saying! She does not want to be involved with ANY drama! Even when she is in the middle of it. smh lol!
My favorite uncle used to say, “it takes 25 hours a day to mind my business and 1 hour to mind other people’s business.” In other words, I don’t have enough time in a day to mind my own business!!
Girl when my husband be tightening up these kids!!! I will CLEAN walk past with inner peace!!! 😂😂😂😂
One of the advantages of being older , know how to avoid the confusion and chaos
It's literally the 2nd most spoken/thought phrase for me...
I minds MY business.
That's number one.
I happen to have a face/demeanor that seems to signal to people that they can feel safe telling me just about ANYTHING!
I've had a complete strangers just start talking to me, telling me their business...I guess because I was standing there & look like I'll listen and be kind. 🤷🏾♀️
Lucky for them, I do....mind MY business...and I don't tell theirs. 😁
This my favorite thing to tell my kids when they can't find a toy after I repeatedly asked them to put things in their toy box.
Yess!! My favorite phrase “ that ain’t got nothing to do with me” I feel dam good saying it, whether I’m saying it to family, friends, and coworkers. I don’t like messes of any kind, and now that I’m turning 50 at the end of the year, I really don’t want to deal with messy people!
You preached a word with this one.
This is me when my adult kids try to tell me about the drama in their daddy's life. 1st thing i say, " well...that aint got nothing to do with me. Dont even tell me anymore cause i dont want to know . That's yall family. I'm sorry yall"
At church. Don’t tell me sister anybody business. You betta not tell mines. 😂
This is the peaceful, blissful fruitage that comes from drinking my water and minding my business. 😌
Yes especially at work "that ain't got nothing to do with me or pay check "
I have never felt so understood! It was the "you don't even have to keep me in the loop" that sealed it for me! 😂😂😂
Congrats, EJ on your upcoming shows ! Love seeing you SOAR !!!!
I love being able to say my name is Bennett and I'm not in it🤣🤣🤣🤣 plus I got hands🥊🥊🥊 so I can't get involved because violence is always an option.💅🏾😉🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My favorite phrasing is "That is NOT my problem" 😂😂 I got enough of my own I am not taking ownership of anyone else's. Lol
My standard line at work: “I know nothing unless I’m directly told in an official communication on company letterhead.”
Although, I tend to be oblivious. So if I know? E’rrybody already knew last week 😂
💯. That ain't got nothing to do with me. My favorite saying. Come on down to Dallas. ❤❤
Lol my favorite part is when you say it and and gets quiet. You can see the realization on whoever’s face that whatever it is…it has nothing to do with me or them! 😂
Yes, EJ, Yes!! One of my favorites things to say at work was " My name is Bennett and I ain't in it." It kept me out of all the nonsense that office politics had pitting folks against one another.
Or "my name is Wes & I ain't in that mess."😂😂
My son’s fav comment…. That is none of our business…. as he walks away. 😂😂😂
That door bell sound effect had my dog stuck and confused 😂
I thought somebody was at my door and we don't even have a doorbell!! 😆😆
When someone asks me something I don't know or don't want to answer, I say " Don't make me lie!" and walk away!!😊😊
This phrase is most valuable when used AGAINST MY KIDS!!!!! "Mama, i can't find my socks" "mama he took my piece of chicken i wanted" "mama he called me ugly when he uglier and he stank" "mama daddy said i can play for 2 hours before i gotta share" CHILD OF MINE, that ain't got nothing to do with me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
OMG - the face you made when yo' supervisor asked you if you knew what was going on! "I don't - I don't know anything. What are you talking about?"🤣😂🤣
When someone that had beef with you have drama in their life and someone wants to give you the T! No ma'am That ain't got nothing to do with me.
This is so true! Being involved in other people's business can be so draining. I feel much more peaceful and lighter when I mind my own.
This is my mantra for life. Walk past someone shoving (or maybe helping but who knows) a person into the clothing donation bin? That ain't got nothing to do with me. See someone trying to break a tree in half to get a bike that somehow mysteriously ended up there? That ain't got nothing to do with me. I've seen literally everything taking public transportation and I have no intention of "investigating"
EJ girl you hit the nail on the head with this one. This is me & my daughter as we talk about "family tea" and what does she always say? "It ain't got nothing to do with me". I feel like you might've been in on some of our conversations 🤣😂🤣😂
Love saying it at work. Not necessarily about gossip and stuff - I work with all dudes and we don't be doing all that. But I will say it when it comes to tasks outside of my job description.
I need a Ms. Jackie sketch! I miss her sooooo much!
I love when she says this is so upsetting too me
Love it…I have removed family from my inner circle for putting my name in mess that I had nothing to do with or even new about for that matter…Not any more…Too old for nonsense!!!
Praise God..gotz nutin 2 do wit me... Wonderful thang 2 b and say Amen 😁👍🏾
"...just... oooooh, my bladder!" had me spittin' my real deal tea, for real!! 😆
Lmao 🤣 it definitely most valuable around family when they ask for something but couldn't help you out, go ahead and say that ain't got nothing to do with me😂
Oooh the peace that surpasses ALL UNDERSTANDING! This is only hard for me at work because I'm a teacher and students need someone to talk to. If it's tea I usually stop them first and say remember I have to report certain things. Some keep talking 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
YES YES and YESSSSS!!! Absolutely truth!!! It’s not that I don’t care, but IT AINT GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH ME👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Definitely with family, in public and at work. I will tune out and walk away when my nose starts to smell foolishness and tomfoolery-exit stage left!
I just love to mind my business and be quiet. 🤐 You learn so much.
I can only relate to working on healing what's broken, and trying to change the things I can, and not dealing with what's none of my business. Me choosing not to keep up with everybody else and what they're doing, knowing I have a ton to continue to heal and change, does not mean I'm holding a grudge. It means I'm holding myself accountable for my own💩, so I don't 💩 on nobody else. May everyone be well and have a blessed night. Much love and protection! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🤗💞
Yep, brings to mind the calypso song... "Drink Water and Mind My Business." 😂
I just love you sis. You are always on point and so funny. Me and my sis share your videos with each other all the time. We laugh so hard. Keep it up sis.
Exactly! It’s like having a superpower! I’ll know all the workplace drama with someone, and when people come up to me talking about it, I act like it’s my first time hearing it.
I use it a lot at work. I don’t ask questions that are not work related. I do NOT want to know anyone’s business. If you come to me asking anything, you’re gonna get ‘it’s got nothing to do with me’. That’s just the way it is!
Yup this is the truth. Too old to be in mess. I just want my peace and quiet lol
This phrase is most relatable with family. After burying two loved ones in a year and dealing with the messiness with them folks. Their stuff I want no part of, because "that ain't got nothing to do with me."
Just bought our tickets. My mom and I are so excited to see you 🤗💗😃
Yesssssss! Minding my business is PRICELESS! That peace is unmatched
This happens all the time at work. All. The. Time. I look the other way bc I don't need that negative energy.
I so agree!!... I hit em with a "hmm hmm" and I keep it moving 😂😂😂- Ohh the joy of peace and harmony that has taken over my life since I started minding my business 😊
Yes indeed!! I love saying this! Keeps me free from mess!
I have said it before and I’ll say it again- EJ is my spirit animal! I have Zero interest in being in any kind of mess or drama! 🙅🏾♀️
I tell my mother this all the time.
Congratulations on the shows please come to the UK. But I use it on a phone call , at work, college and Family. The song drink my water and mind my business comes to play
"I'm trying to figure out did I take all my medicine today." I had to pause right there and go take my medicine 😶
It's a basic everyday or other day phrase. I love my peace. Like MJ said Just leave me alone 😂😂😂
I enjoy saying "Not my monkey, not my circus" 😂😂
Considering that I am antisocial, have only 2 people I consider true friends, I rarely had to use the term. Only once when I was working and man did it feel good LOL!
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I've been opting out of family & friend drama for YEARS! LOVE that nothin' has anything to do with me
Ah yes, the beautiful art of being delightfully unbothered 💯💯💯
I love saying that as I hit delete on a work email that does not require a response or any action from me.
Damn right. Disengagement is a beautiful thing.
Ej, I JUST LOVE YOU!!! YOU ARE SO FUNNY, AND SO REAL!!!❤
I’ve been saying that this week. It’s such a fulfilling, refreshing statement.
Thank God it ain’t got nuthin to do with me! 😂
The peace that surpasses all understanding! 🙌🏽
To say that and know that you know that you know that it’s 💯%true is the best feeling❤in the world.
This is my mantra when family/friends put themselves on the financial struggle bus. And then hint around about needing help till payday. I ain't got nothing to do with you balling out and then I ain't got nothing to do with bailing you out😡😡
I love to pick up my pocketbook and go home when it gets messy….ANYWHERE….
This video has all to do with me!😂🤣😂
Look at you outchea flourishing!! 🎉🎉🎉
It feels freeing and wonderful and I use it in every situation possible!!! Like for real!!!! I can’t stand drama and I do all I can to have little to none in my life. I ain’t got time and 99.9% of this mess out here in the world, job, family, store, etc. ain’t got nothing to do with me!!!!!😂😂
My job...I'm staying in my lane!😊😊