Married Online SIGHT UNSEEN! / ONLINE MARRIAGE IN THE PHILIPPINES (MARRYING A FILIPINA ONLINE)

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  • Married online sight unseen? Online marriage in the Philippines is becoming popular! Marrying a Filipina online means LDR no more, but getting married online with a virtual wedding ceremony (an online ceremony) isn't for everyone. If you want to know how to get married online in the Philippines, just watch the story of Roy and Mildred, who were actually brave enough to pull it off! ‪@TheFilipinaPea‬
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  • @TheFilipinaPea
    @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    👉My videos and the effort I put into them are 100% free for everyone to enjoy, and all I ask is that you leave a thumbs-up on any videos that you like and subscribe to my channel - I have never, and will never, ask you for anything else. For those of you that still wish to support my channel further, however, I’ve posted my links below. Thanks!
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    • @Jackalopemusic
      @Jackalopemusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love your channel. Would you ever do a Stream Lab chat on TH-cam live? I feel like there are an endless number of topics you could discuss.
      Could collaborate with other channels to keep the conversations flowing and interesting.

    • @Jackalopemusic
      @Jackalopemusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      P.S. You can do a live without making it available to see afterwards. I figure you might not want it to be one of your videos afterwards.

    • @thomasthumim7630
      @thomasthumim7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You need an additional 6k subscribers before you make it to 100k.
      Put your three sisters to work
      I want to see that silver play ▶️
      Put it in your car
      Wear it as a jewelry
      Hang it in the background of your videos

    • @mikegee8875
      @mikegee8875 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What would you do for a Klondike bar?

    • @SeeLasSee
      @SeeLasSee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pea, are you going to go pro full-time anytime soon? Is that even something you would want?
      You look like you are talking to a camera in a clothing store changing room. With the camera pointing down I feel like a possible voyeur.

  • @FULMORED
    @FULMORED 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Most craziest thing to do in the world. On the start he said “I think she’s from Mindanao”, how do you have a relationship and not sure where she’s from. He’s toast lol.

    • @frankschrock4484
      @frankschrock4484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm with you Darrell, burnt toast.

    • @albertthedogeinstein7983
      @albertthedogeinstein7983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right lol...in my LDR I know so much about my girlfriend, video chat her family, know her families history....her siblings history everything.
      I'll wait until I get there...
      I'm still saving for three more years...
      We will be in an LDR for almost 5 years once I get there.

    • @lovemyFilipina
      @lovemyFilipina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I can't wait to see this train wreck unfold wow just wow

    • @bwarrenpanelman
      @bwarrenpanelman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Took the words out of my mouth. And I live in mindanao, Davao city. Where he going on mindanao? Zamboanga lol

    • @theprodigy4202
      @theprodigy4202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I mean I guess I could understand doing an online marriage with someone you already met when you visited the Philippines and you have at least spent time together, know one another somewhat and you just want to be back with one another so you decide to go thru with the online marriage thing to get back over there but THIS dude Roy, is just on another level..
      One can assume he's dropped THOUSANDS of american dollars on the online dating sites, with these other "long distance relationships" he mentioned.. like Wow!

  • @AlasdairScott-ii6mt
    @AlasdairScott-ii6mt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He's not mad he seems very sensible good luck to them both 😊

  • @randangoman
    @randangoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I loved this! I am engaged to a Filipina and we have been dating with video calls. At least I can see her and she can see me. I am glad to hear that you can be married online. We are still trying to figure out what we are going to do. We are not flush with cash so I am working a lot of overtime so that I can fly to the Philippines hopefully in May. This story really has me excited! Another option to think about.

  • @Bane35755
    @Bane35755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm not marrying anyone who I never met. This is madness, but it's his world.

    • @emiesaduralmedina6451
      @emiesaduralmedina6451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Hayward Robinson yes your right. Me too. No way to that 😕 😐 😳

  • @tiffany3787
    @tiffany3787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Congrats to Mildred and Roy. Roy is my best friend. ❤ He's finally got the woman I've always felt he deserved. He's so happy. I can't wait to meet her in person. I've spoken to her and I can see why Roy loves her. It's so wonderful to see.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You’re the best ‘man’! Thanks so much for giving us your opinion, and for saying hi 👍❤️

    • @royjones5790
      @royjones5790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bestie! Yah Pea. She was my "best man" & is one of our big supporters. : )

    • @MyTwoCents2
      @MyTwoCents2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm thinking of doing the same.. one thing I haven't seen Pea address are what kinds if incomes westerners have to sustain that life abroad. Or are they all ex military and IT techs - 40y SBM

    • @Rugmunchersauce3
      @Rugmunchersauce3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's good to hear, though I think he took a massive risk. I wouldn't do it the same way.

  • @ManOfAdventure2011
    @ManOfAdventure2011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks for bringing this Pea. This guy seems to know what he wants. I'm not convinced the risk is worth what he's doing. There are probably other red flags he doesn't yet know of. But hey, if they're still together after a couple of years, good for them.

  • @patlilburn5251
    @patlilburn5251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow! (again…) I’d like for this guy to succeed, just because this is such a high risk adventure and cynical people like me need to see happy results where none are expected. He seems pretty sharp, so hopefully he has covered all his bases in the unhappy event the non-believers are right. Don’t know how you found him, but nice job here again.

  • @icerman855
    @icerman855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Faith precedes the miracle. Roy took the leap of faith, now the miracle can happen. What a great guy, wish him and his wife the best!

  • @joninwm
    @joninwm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I have been in the Philippines for almost 2 years and finding a woman isn't a problem. Depending on several factors you may find too many women that are interested in you. Finding an honest woman that is in it for the right reasons is a bit tougher, but there are some amazing women here. Just be careful until you really get to know them and they know you.

  • @BrokerBasil
    @BrokerBasil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I now have the advantage of having already seen part 2. Roy is great - so upbeat and positive. I see them both being very happy together based on Pea's two videos. There is hope for humanity with positivity and love like this in the world.

    • @Rugmunchersauce3
      @Rugmunchersauce3 ปีที่แล้ว

      GET A HAIRCUT, YOU CRAZY HIPPY !!! (only joking, man. Bet you've heard that before, eh?! I certainly have !)

  • @markirons2669
    @markirons2669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I'm with the others Pea, one can make judgement and say that he is crazy but really it's his life and good luck to them both, I hope it works out for them

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s a very unusual situation and a tough call, yes! I could never do it myself

    • @lcmichaels7215
      @lcmichaels7215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      everyone (except my absolute best friend) thinks I'm crazy for wanting to move permanently to the Philippines for a woman I met through......TH-cam COMMENTS!!!! LOL Been 3½ years now and we're stronger than ever. Basically I just tell everyone else "It's my life to screw up if I want to." And to most ladies I say "I didn't see you beating down my door when I was single." LOL

    • @6955beniegn
      @6955beniegn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lcmichaels7215 better to move there, no need to get married

    • @B4BoomersBlockBoy7
      @B4BoomersBlockBoy7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes Good luck to you Brother! I would never do it that way but my is : To each their as long as there's harm done to others ! Again .Good and I hope all goes well for the two of you! Good Luck & Carry On !

  • @kenm8376
    @kenm8376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    At first I thought, "oh lord, this is going to be another Raffy show." Now I'm thinking about how cool it would be and what a great story for the grand kids. Awesome way to go, kuya!!! Put yourself 100% in it and never hold back on loving her.

  • @AkweliParker
    @AkweliParker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Sounds like his quarantine was boring AF!!! You know getting interviewed by Pea had to be a MAJOR highlight 😁 Fascinating conversation, Pea!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Fortunately he sure was talkative, so maybe that’s why! 👍😊

    • @williamgallant5218
      @williamgallant5218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like this guy

    • @williamgallant5218
      @williamgallant5218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miss Pea your are adorable, very intelligent and have A very classy informative vlog,

    • @woodpeckery
      @woodpeckery 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wuowww So... gallant of William!

  • @lunchbox6576
    @lunchbox6576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I am only 3 minutes into this. I will have to finish later. My first impression is that this is a testimony as to the state of modern women in America. I have found that over 45 women will actually bring up marriage even if you have just only hung out. I mean no hand holding kissing or romance or seduction. Those conversations felt more like business mergers rather than affairs of the heart. I wish them both well.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wow, that sure sounds cold!
      Not necessarily untrue, just cold 😂

    • @tomper2204
      @tomper2204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@TheFilipinaPea Jim K is exactly correct and anyone with a brain knows it.

    • @lobosolo3215
      @lobosolo3215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@TheFilipinaPea American women are some of the coldest and all here are hard to find one with values (my opinion)

    • @ryanheinig7975
      @ryanheinig7975 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tomper2204 Jim K barely seen anything, so, as far as being 'correct', is very subjective.
      It's like, you read only 2 pages in a book, and already claim you know the whole story already.

    • @seandunn1128
      @seandunn1128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry guys. True but it took forty years of indoctrination to break their spirits. Good job socialist. Such a shame.

  • @USAtoPhilippinesLife
    @USAtoPhilippinesLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Congratulations to them, and thank you for sharing their wonderful story! My wife and I have a similar one minus the online virtual wedding that wasn't available 5 years ago. But after an LDR I flew to the Philippines to marry her, we hadn't met in person. We agreed before my trip that if either of us felt different after meeting in person the wedding would be off no hard feelings. But our first in person meeting was awesome! There was drama to do with my flight, and her stuck waiting for me in NAIA for like 22 hours though. 😂 Fast forward we just celebrated 5 years of marriage together here in the states, we love to see other couples getting together like we did. Looking forward to seeing them together! ☺️

  • @MysticRevelator
    @MysticRevelator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Let's get married now. We'll fall in love later. LOL
    Seriously, thank you for this. I will have to do this because I've had a virtual relationship with my Filipina for 5 years now. I simply cannot wait for this covid pandemic to someday and because it seems like it will never end.

    • @thesavagecanuck77
      @thesavagecanuck77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's how it was done before Disney got women drunk with fairytales of love at first sight..

  • @Rick101755
    @Rick101755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I would never think about getting married to someone I have never met in person. People can hide many things online. I lived with my Filipina for three years before we decided to get married and we are happily married now for two years. Good luck

  • @michaelcausby5762
    @michaelcausby5762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wishing the best for him! I got married in the USA with my Filipina after 2 years online and 4 trips to the Philippines.
    Mine didn’t work out.
    I wish him success but I think he made a bad decision and he is soft and gullible and in a romantic dream world. She will run all over him!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If you don’t mind saying, what happened in your relationship, Michael?

    • @michaelcausby5762
      @michaelcausby5762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheFilipinaPea I realized I was the only one in love in the relationship and she was with me for one reason and after 3 years I ended the marriage. I should have known that since she was 21 and I was 46 but I was too hopeful. I learned my lesson.

    • @wanderer299a
      @wanderer299a 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same with me, but uk.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh my gosh! I guess that happened before my video warning you not to do that 😂
      I’m so sorry that happened you you, but at least if you learned your lesson …..

    • @michaelcausby5762
      @michaelcausby5762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea yes…way before…haha

  • @jesmatgin
    @jesmatgin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Roy is such a positive person for sure...I wish both Roy and Mildred the happiest of marriage and beautiful children who will grow up as nice as Roy...can't wait for you to introduce them Pea...as always...a great episode...God bless..❤

  • @georgesol
    @georgesol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Roy is a wholesome and genuine guy! Can't wait to see them together in your video, see who he picked 😁

  • @mlrussell1
    @mlrussell1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    As always, another top notch interview Pea! I'm really pulling for Roy and Mildred. Looking forward to part two!

  • @bisonpaleofossilriveradven3528
    @bisonpaleofossilriveradven3528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I must say that I am pleasantly surprised by the majority of comments. This was fairly common in America 125 years ago and earlier. It’s all about commitment whether you have met in person or not. Congrats to Roy and Mildred.

  • @vantrellechols7357
    @vantrellechols7357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I've been binge watching your content. I've learned a lot from you. I'm 43, single, no kids, and I'm tired of western women and living. I'm really considering coming to the Philippines. It's hard to find a woman with no kids here so I'm really considering coming there just to start a family. One more thing I want to add. You're absolutely gorgeous to me. 😍🤩😘

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m so glad you found my channel, Vantrell, and yes I have no doubt you could find who you’re looking for here (especially if you want children!) 😊❤️

    • @vantrellechols7357
      @vantrellechols7357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@TheFilipinaPea thank you and you're right so I'm planning on coming there by next year.

    • @timhnc75
      @timhnc75 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She definitely is when the border's open i would highly recommend you do that come to the Philippines.

    • @vantrellechols7357
      @vantrellechols7357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Terrance Mayes I hear stories like that all the time. That's another reason why I'm moving east.

    • @Ace-hs8cp
      @Ace-hs8cp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Bro u will love the philippines and their people, very friendly, women are nice shy and beautiful, I've traveling to the philippines for 5 years, I just retired and still plans to retire in the philippines im moving as soon as I can get a opening, I'll probably move to ormoc city, Manila was the first city in the philippines I flew into, it like new york city of the philippines, very fast and different, if I was u I would go to Cebu first because it's very friendly and not to big, it's easy to meet people there by going to the mall or just saying hello, I've helped some of my friends meet their Filipina, they just like me love the country and the people, I never want to leave that place, I cry every time I'm on that plane leaving philippines air space, don't let your family and friends talk u out of going, u will regret it!

  • @robertaloisi197
    @robertaloisi197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of the best videos yet! Your videos about real life FILAM relationships are probably up there as most important to anyone considering marriage to a Filipina. Your insightful journalism is tops in this medium. No other vlogger about Philippines comes close. Also, the mention of fried fish brings back some real smelly memories in my house. On top of all that, your cuteness is infectious. Good job as always “sweet” Pea!

  • @ThirstyTunaTaco
    @ThirstyTunaTaco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    It's still puzzling me how we got 5 kids after our online marriage but maybe i was a little naïeve.. Thank God our online divorce worked out well..

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hahahahaha

    • @barrywebber100
      @barrywebber100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol! :-)

    • @mrquin
      @mrquin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol great comment 😂

    • @ryanheinig7975
      @ryanheinig7975 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually, I don't see how your statement can be true.

    • @RagnaroK81X
      @RagnaroK81X 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My God!

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow what an amazing great Story that could and should be made into a great movie! Seriously!!! 🤗 .

  • @paulhuval
    @paulhuval 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This was fun to watch. Cannot wait to see them together ...

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Paul! I think you’ll like it 😊👍

    • @paulhuval
      @paulhuval 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea i know i did almost the same thing but i flew there and got married in Quezon city back in 2006

    • @pa4765
      @pa4765 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea I've heard the "big" complaints from women... not about me of course. 😂🤣😂

  • @davidcraddock7011
    @davidcraddock7011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    did not see this coming. an articulate person who did his research. Wishing this couple a long and happy life together

  • @blackwaltz3135
    @blackwaltz3135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As anyone whos been married for some time or even in a relationship with someone would say, I would never suggest marrying someone just to be able to meet them or be with them, because you never know if you too are really going to be compatible. Alot of things change when you're actually with the person, there is no disconnect button, no pause or mute. Just life lol

  • @leonard4020
    @leonard4020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I met my wife online while stationed in Korea as a Soldier. I flew to the Philippines to meet her and the Family and afterward we got married. She was a Provence girl from Mindanao, conservative & christian upbringing. Meeting and getting married like that was one of the craziest things either of of have done . We met yahoo 360 of all places. Lol and only talked for about three months online. I brought my asawa to Korea until I finished my tour. I retired and we moved to the States. We have been happily married of 14 years. we have a handsome son. I put my asawa through nursing school. She has been a Nurse 6 years. It worked out for us but maybe not an good Idea for the masses to do it my way. Enjoyed the video. Thanks for posting.

  • @OculusGame
    @OculusGame 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Pea & Roy for sharing this, THANK YOU! Me and my girlfriend are in LDR and we badly want to see each other, but can't due to the border being closed. Thankfully WebWed does international marriages too and not US-only. I already asked my girlfriend if she wants to get married and she said YES. This is so exciting!

  • @Paul-McB
    @Paul-McB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man goes for it, reaches out and gets what he wants. His wife did not miss the boat; she got on board. Both met with intentions and did not waste time. Congratulations.

  • @AllAboutFilipinaRelationships
    @AllAboutFilipinaRelationships 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Marrying anyone you have never met in person and spent a good amount of quality time together is highly risky. He is a risk taker for sure but I wish him well.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Exactly! He seems well-grounded and knows what he wants, but to an observer, it sure looks risky, yes 👍

    • @clydekimsey7503
      @clydekimsey7503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@TheFilipinaPea VERY risky🙄😒😯

    • @AllAboutFilipinaRelationships
      @AllAboutFilipinaRelationships 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@TheFilipinaPea Yeah he certainly has done his homework around how the visas work but chances the relationship will last long term...well lets just say the odds are not in his favor.

    • @schmutly
      @schmutly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@clydekimsey7503 agreed..extremely risky. Met online in dec, engaged jan, married feb? 3 months? He seems sincere but could end sincerely bad...time will tell..prefer to wait in person.

    • @azzhooo
      @azzhooo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I spent 9 months talking to my wife every day evening in daytime I married my wife the very 1st time I met her in person in person we video chatted on messenger for free we have been married 3 years now and I'm very happy ..we got married in the Philippines in the Philippines in Antique it was a long process to bring her to the US but she is here now and we are very happy I wouldn't change anything she is awesome😁

  • @namkebanyanklariti
    @namkebanyanklariti ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish you two all the best on this journey of marriage🙏🎊🎉

  • @apilgrimsprogress7688
    @apilgrimsprogress7688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have never seen Pea so interested in one of her own videos! To anyone new, you don't need to look for a woman in the Philippines, wherever you go, they will find you!

    • @pa4765
      @pa4765 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In the USA? Sure, if you like fat, aggressive and non-feminine women.

  • @riptide10x60
    @riptide10x60 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FP is really taking it up a notch, this is almost like a TV show. Well done young lady!

  • @bigtime911
    @bigtime911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I wish the best for Roy and Mildred. Roy is a very happy person

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He really is - a very positive personality 😊👍

    • @theprodigy4202
      @theprodigy4202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea yea, I see that same energy "happiness" with people that genuinely feel they're helping some pook kid in Africa after giving a small fortune of theirs away!
      I've seen people with the samenenrgy and personality just so happy after finally getting their hands on that drug that will get them high. They feel truly happy. But come on, nobody in their right mind will suggest this to their brother (if they love him).

  • @abritishexpatinthephilippines
    @abritishexpatinthephilippines 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an amazing guy, his story is so informative, what a scoop getting him on, well done🤔👍👍♥️♥️ great video

  • @beautifulphilippinesnature
    @beautifulphilippinesnature 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Congrats to Mildred and Roy,I hope u can hug her tomorrow

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You’ll find out in Part 2👍

    • @beautifulphilippinesnature
      @beautifulphilippinesnature 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow I'm excited

    • @rauldempaire5330
      @rauldempaire5330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea the. Reality behind the "reality show" .....( You need to discuss this subject with the 4 beauties panel...will love to hear thir views!)

  • @MrBigpapachacon
    @MrBigpapachacon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am in the same boat and now this confirms what I plan to do hopefully go as smooth congrats Roy!!! Josaphat here I come asawa

  • @themacker894
    @themacker894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Just found this and haven't watched it yet. Wish him the best. For you Pea, I'm always surprised by the originality of the content. Bet this one will get plenty of comments. ;) Edit: Would love to see a follow-up in a month once he has actually met her. Thanks!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I bet you’re right, Macker - let’s see what you folks have to say ……. 😊

    • @jameswelch1054
      @jameswelch1054 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They may be split up by then?

    • @humancaos
      @humancaos 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jameswelch1054 but if the marriage is binding in the Philippines an annulment is in place at that is an other 3 years at least before they are free of each other

    • @carvercapitalequitypartner122
      @carvercapitalequitypartner122 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jameswelch1054 - surely not.

    • @mikelloyd2013
      @mikelloyd2013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheFilipinaPea macker is right. A follow up would be interesting. You do good interviews!

  • @dessiecuento5009
    @dessiecuento5009 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, amazing online love story. Congratulations!

  • @JayB-JayB
    @JayB-JayB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Roy is a true gentleman. I wish him, and his wife Mildred great happiness.

  • @richardevans7877
    @richardevans7877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good work Pea. Momentum is important - keep it. I benefited from your work online utube and feel that I made it just in the nick of time, by the skin on my teeth, to find my Filipina Princess. I'm blessed with daily love from my filipina wife and want to support and encourage you because what you do and say benefits men of my culture that have become obsolete in their own world , like I did. You should come learn to ski with my wife once covid is finished. Pea, keep up the good work - U R AWESOME! Sincerely, Richard

  • @arnoldseay9118
    @arnoldseay9118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow Miss Pea. This was an excellent video. I can’t imagine getting married without seeing each other in person. That’s like buying shoes without trying them on first. I hope the best for this couple. Looking forward to your next video.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It sure seemed that way to me, but for some reason, I have a good feeling about this one 😊

    • @Seraphimpoet
      @Seraphimpoet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can buy shoes online and send them back, within days if they don't fit. Not so much with a marriage. I'm rooting for their success though. If she's as decent as he seems to be, there's hope for their success.

  • @pierrefourtot4751
    @pierrefourtot4751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations!!! I married my Filipina on Sept 7 2021.. we met online in November 2020, but never met in person.

  • @bentnickel7487
    @bentnickel7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Normally, I would say, "oh boy, another sucker", but in Roy's defense, he has done his due diligence and I believe it will work. Two reasons, her age and his brains.

  • @NaturalVillageBeauties
    @NaturalVillageBeauties 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow this video is very entertaining, Roy looks like a genuine great Guy looking for Love, Lucky Mildred. Lol if doesnt work Roy , come to me or my Mindanao friends hhehe. Galing Ms Pea parang TV drama haha, Get an update later lol

  • @weirdnomad8868
    @weirdnomad8868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He's not even sure where she's from! LOL! That Filipina deserves an Oscar for her performance.

  • @gammawoody9715
    @gammawoody9715 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just joined Cherry Blossom recently after watching this video and I’ve been bombarded with women and at the moment I have narrowed it down to 1 person lol and we are now talking on Facebook it’s been a very good experience so far. I hope this journey goes well so far no red flags, but I’m doing my best to stay wary and keep my guard up depending how things turn out.

  • @yogib37
    @yogib37 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I liked him he seems like a great guy. I am rooting for them both.. GOOD LUCK my Man many blessings

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I really liked Roy 😊👍

  • @russellclement2058
    @russellclement2058 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahaha , I was watching your face Pea ,, your eyes were shining ,, just to watch you when consummating the marriage was mentioned ,, 🙂

  • @andrewc2670
    @andrewc2670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Well I can honestly say there's no way I'd even consider marrying someone I'd not met in person. I think you need to spend time with a person to make sure you're compatible and that things such as the snoring for example aren't a big deal.
    That said I truly hope it works out and wish Roy & Mildred a very happy future together.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You mean ……. we’re NOT getting married tomorrow? And I just paid for hi-speed internet to make sure my vows weren’t garbled 😡😡

    • @andrewc2670
      @andrewc2670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheFilipinaPea lol, OK maybe I could make 1 exception 😉

    • @user-jq1oi6ur2x
      @user-jq1oi6ur2x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheFilipinaPea I’m available….

    • @jessefrancis2622
      @jessefrancis2622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And the usual American Marriage works out so well? Even when you've dated and known the bride for years 50% end in divorce. I'll take my chances with a Filipina.

    • @danshroyer8932
      @danshroyer8932 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea Where is the follow up vedio?

  • @AnnLaustsen87
    @AnnLaustsen87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in Washington state US, 34 year old woman... this guy near the end slightly softened my heart of stone (from all the bad experiences I've had). At the end of the video, he's just glowing. I wish him and his wife well and that they have many kids.

  • @r1388
    @r1388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Keep up the good work Pea!! Glad to see you’re almost at 100k subscribers.

  • @windellchapman8397
    @windellchapman8397 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Highly blessed ,I am , A friend at church had several gals online , ( I thought that was detestable) ... one had a niece that wanted a serious relationship... I called her ,(cold turkey) , hoping she would have an older friend . After our first conversation , I was blown away by her wide open conversation ,and her personal credentials. 24 yrs difference 🥺. The years weren t visible at all in conversation , or when I flew to Cebu and met her . That was almost 18 yrs ago ... we re still close as ever, and are frequently seen hand in hand ,acting like teenagers , wherever we are ! I m semi retired , ( I was a lifelong workaholic), Shes like me 20 yrs ago.... We ve set roots down in her town , in Leyte , and although a million details have been addressed , we are still a work in progress . Over all tho ...shes the greatest gal I ve ever known , w/ the highest IQ , and goals . Would I repeat the last 18 yrs ... Oh YES 😲☺️🤗

  • @dixiekayaker805
    @dixiekayaker805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "And you can smell her!" Thank you Pea! You understand how important that is! You're beautiful, I love your energy and your good looks, your expressions make me smile and your superior intelligence is the sexiest thing about you! BUT!!! If we met face to face and the pheromones aren't in sync, I will be resigning myself to being your humble servant and admirer from afar!
    All hail Queen Pea! Long live the Pea!

  • @marcrichard7251
    @marcrichard7251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow can’t wait for the follow up interview….

  • @charlesvowens932
    @charlesvowens932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations to you sir thanks for sharing pea☺️

  • @MichelleMaturanVlog
    @MichelleMaturanVlog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marrying Virtually is a big risk for both parties specially when they haven't seen yet each other personally.
    As the sister of Mildred, I am the witnessed of how they love each other even from a distance. I felt nervous, fear of what will happened to them in the future but as I can see that Roy is very sincere and have the courage to flew miles away to see her wife. So, praying and wishing for both of them is the best things that I can do. Stay strong always 😘😍Love lots.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mildred’s sister? How cool of you to comment - thanks!!!! 👍❤️👍

  • @markberry7184
    @markberry7184 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video, I didn't know online is possible. I'm married to an AWESOME bisayan lady. Earlier this week, we passed the interview for her to get her Green Card here in the USA. Keep up the great work. I love the Philippines and its wonderful people.

  • @jordanburrill7182
    @jordanburrill7182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He calls marrying a woman he has never met "a long distance relationship" - I think he is deluding himself. Hope I'm wrong, but ...
    He seems way too needy, naive.
    But thanks, Miss Pea, for another very informative video! ❤
    Oooops! One additional point, why on earth are YOU single? You are a sweet treasure, Miss Pea! ❤

    • @theprodigy4202
      @theprodigy4202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Needy, naive? That's been too generous. Personally, I never really believed in the term "simp" or simping but today after watching this video, I've just witnessed the poster boy for the term.

    • @woodpeckery
      @woodpeckery 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No... "a long distance relationship" is what existed before he married, and will now continue after he's married, his chosen woman.
      Oh, and Pea hasn't yet married; therefore, she's single... what a silly question!

  • @trudellepierre9610
    @trudellepierre9610 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow... they are so lucky to have find the door of their love hope it's 4ever...

  • @tsaramosing
    @tsaramosing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So happy for them. Yeah it's risky but when you find "The One" you need to go all in. Congrats Roy & Mildred !

  • @robertdrevyanko8665
    @robertdrevyanko8665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't wait for the follow-up interview I hope you all can make it in person interview this is a super interesting story

  • @tman5634
    @tman5634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm lost for words on this one Pea, what Roy & Mildred have done is not what I could...must say, they have balls & I wish them both all the very best.
    Thanks for sharing 😀

  • @d.7819
    @d.7819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow....awesome....im glad i saw this. Good video..

  • @user-jq1oi6ur2x
    @user-jq1oi6ur2x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Being a great pen pal isn’t same as being a good spouse.
    So after reading comments below I have to say never get married without meeting the person… I’ve met “ a few” :-) girls online and many times it’s much different in person-
    …. especially if you’re married and you can’t just end your video call
    He seems like a nice guy and wish him best of luck.
    Maybe pea can do a two year follow up

    • @albertthedogeinstein7983
      @albertthedogeinstein7983 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd be interested in a two week follow up

    • @jackb5708
      @jackb5708 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He seems delusional.

    • @theprodigy4202
      @theprodigy4202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The ONLY reason why this "relationship" will even last that long of 2yrs is because this dude is a soft, gullible pushover that will just accept and rollover with whatever. He already realized one lie she's fed him (her height).
      I mean she can be like, I don't really do/enjoy giving oral sex for example, and my man won't be able to do a damn thing! 😁

    • @woodpeckery
      @woodpeckery 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jackb5708... And, you seem judgemental.

  • @crh300
    @crh300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First time on an airplane, first time to travel outside the USA, and first time married. All simultaneously. Wow.

  • @buellrichardson5222
    @buellrichardson5222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish him all the luck in the world. It is a very short time knowing each other which can be problematic. I understand his feeling since I am in the same boat age wise.

  • @darkage5
    @darkage5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have known Roy since we both were 12 years old. I remember when i saw him announce the relationship and i thought it wasn't something serious until i saw them together in the Philippines. I kept asking him how he got into the country and this video is a helluva explanation! I spent 2 years chatting with a Cebuana that i met on Cherry Blossoms too. I flew to the Philippines to meet her back in 2013. My experience was very different. She made my life a nightmare for the next 3 years. But Congrats to Roy and Mildred though.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You know Roy, too? He must be very popular - we heard from the best man at his online ceremony as well! 👍😊

    • @6955beniegn
      @6955beniegn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how did a girl make your life a night mare when you weren't even married to her, and she was in another country and you could just leave ??

  • @paulstan9828
    @paulstan9828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Being alone is painful for a lot of people. There is a risk or leap of faith getting married no matter how long you have known someone. Of course the longer you have known the other person the less the risk. Some are willing to take a bigger risk to be happy. He seems like a sincere person, best of luck.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, he does seem sincere, but I don’t think (?) I could ever take such a huge risk myself

    • @paulstan9828
      @paulstan9828 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFilipinaPea No neither could I. That’s more risk than I’d be comfortable with.

  • @donwoolley1811
    @donwoolley1811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most recently I have heard commitment described as "close your eyes and open your heart". A bit simplistic but still has a grain of truth. All the best to Roy and Mildred and we all will be glued to the future episodes. Who needs 90 Day Fiancé when you have The Pea!

  • @yoyojoe9240
    @yoyojoe9240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Got to give it to this guy....he is a "risk taker".....(as I have been all my Life)....He's going to be alright..!!

    • @ryanheinig7975
      @ryanheinig7975 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Risk, isn't as bad as you think.

  • @jhonkeatings148
    @jhonkeatings148 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the most exciting information I saw online in a long time..
    This might be open doors for what my girlfriend and myself are going through. Grtz. From belgium

  • @kendonius4928
    @kendonius4928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tuesdays follow up sounds real good. However an update in 6 months or a year would be interesting. Without invading their privacy and with their complete consent I would ask each of the partners "What were some of the things that surprised you about your partner?

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I ask that exact question in Part 2 👍

    • @JLALALALA
      @JLALALALA 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to know about the differences with her being 4’9 and him 6’2. You know, the juicy details Pea. 😁😁😁🔥

  • @willconnor9712
    @willconnor9712 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pea, this is happening alot. The few online wedding companies here in the U.S. are very busy, mainly for this scenario, entry into the Phippines to start the process of a life together. The wait has been horrible. The many hours of pandemic phone conversations can and usually will cover almost every imaginable topic, many more conversations than if you were face to face. I think it can work if both are honest and open with each other, I wish them the best. Thanks Pea for all of your great content, you are a blessing to us.

  • @pa4765
    @pa4765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow, Pea, he's taking unnecessary risks at that fast pace. What's the rush?! It's important to witness each other's actions in person and feel a person's energy in different situations. Of course, if he got her pregnant online, then I'd totally understand. 😂🤣😂

    • @Super-yw7ss
      @Super-yw7ss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @warrenaspeling610
    @warrenaspeling610 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inspired !! Thanks for sharing with us all and all the best 👍

  • @trevorprimenyc
    @trevorprimenyc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    After he said "prenup" I breathed a sigh of relief.

  • @OneJuanWon
    @OneJuanWon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a story Roy has....he took a big chance and let his actions do the talking. I sincerely hope it is a successful marriage for both. Can't wait for the follow up. 👍

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brave or insane, he’s got balls 👍😂

  • @Escapadeaj
    @Escapadeaj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well Pea, I love this story, anything is possible in this day and age. This gentleman appears so positive and that's how it should be. I believe there are good and honest women in this world and good and honest men needs to scout and find them. I wish them happiness as well as a great life ahead. Pea you are on the right track and doing a great job. Thanks I love this type of content.

    • @KutWrite
      @KutWrite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right. The proper attitude and it'll work out fine for both of them.

  • @johnmurphy8791
    @johnmurphy8791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice. A similar story to mine with a different ending. I refuse to marry before time together. Salamat to Roy & Miss Pea for sharing. Thanks also to Mildred. Wishing them luck.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I certainly can’t blame you, John 😊👍

  • @johnminichielli8957
    @johnminichielli8957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Marriage is a crazy concept for a male of any species, this just takes it to another level.

  • @ParkerBG
    @ParkerBG 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this guy -- seems very intelligent. Can't wait for the follow-up interview.

  • @secretagent86
    @secretagent86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    just two minutes in... okay we all have our own opinions. while i wish him luck, he is out of his tiny mind. reminds me of a favourite saying of mine (on the financial side) "the world is full of bankrupt optimists".

    • @KutWrite
      @KutWrite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      To win big you have to risk big.

  • @rickylee6129
    @rickylee6129 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    GREAT VIDEO. Congratulations to Roy and Mildred. Can't wait for the next video update 😍 🤗

  • @jessemoore3074
    @jessemoore3074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    My man took a big risk, I'm hoping the best for them, congratulation.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He sure did! Huge …….

    • @Emilh321
      @Emilh321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great content 👌 pea

    • @raleighmcclane4143
      @raleighmcclane4143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Marrying for “love” is a relatively recent (past one hundred years) standard, for thousands of years marriages were arranged by their parents

    • @HBP2
      @HBP2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      cool name :)

    • @aaronclay4665
      @aaronclay4665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its not that big of a risk when you think about how old they are and some of his thinking....tho he did rush it, but iv seen marrages end from people marring after 5 months in 4 years and i have seen marrage ending after 2 months AFTER dateing for 5 years.................you know when you know, time has SOMETHING to do with it, but its mostly if both parties are honest.............and sometimes you dont know if the other is lieing no matter HOW much time you spend together

  • @jeromewalters1916
    @jeromewalters1916 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so funny Ms. Pea. I enjoyed this video very much. Good interview.

  • @StreakPhilippines
    @StreakPhilippines 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great story, always enjoy your take on things, others sell drama, but your videos are both fun and enlightening!

  • @daddybobb41
    @daddybobb41 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the best videos yet. Can't wait for the follow up.

  • @chosen_one1602
    @chosen_one1602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "I didn't find any red flags! We met on Cherry Blossoms." Somewhere Big Ed is grinning. Roy I need you to make this work. Roy if this works you will have broken the matrix! Roy you will have done the impossible. You did everything most vloggers would tell you not to do, including filipina pea. Roy are you the chosen one like Neo? Or will you fall victim like 99.9% of everyone else who took this path. Good luck my friend.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hahahahaha
      Excellent comment that says what a lot of us are thinking 😂😂😂👍

  • @todd7756
    @todd7756 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    looking forward to Tuesday, I'm sure you'll have lots of views.

  • @raymondjharwoodjr4920
    @raymondjharwoodjr4920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I met my wife on February 20 1990 and we were married on February 25th 1990 wish today's date is 31 years I met her the hard way by letters in the mail no videos no internet I met her through her sister cuz I was best man at her sister's wedding and we started writing to each other and that she asked me to come out and meet us so I had to take a plane and go to the Philippines and meet it today I met her we were married five days after that and I've been very happy with her for 31 years and still happy and still going strong we have two boys together

  • @steveford2626
    @steveford2626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Pea, i met my Fiancee on International Cupid, cost me 30 pounds for a month, i remember telling her i had 200 emails from women, she replied no problem i will wait for you, that was 14 months ago, we talk every day on video, she had breast cancer a few months prior to meeting online, this honesty won me over, my heart tells me she is Heaven sent.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well then I wish you both the best, Steve 👍😊

  • @edwarddavila817
    @edwarddavila817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Pea, Groundbreaking interview. It was in the moment, and very entertaining. Excellent work!

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      THANK YOU so much, Edward 👍❤️😊

  • @richardguthrie8782
    @richardguthrie8782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Be interesting to hear what Mildred says on part 2

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I sure hope you like it 👍😊

    • @yoyojoe9240
      @yoyojoe9240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah..."Sweet Pea".....Bring..Mildred On. Would be a great video.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She’ll be on 👍

  • @MrWaterbugdesign
    @MrWaterbugdesign 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm Aspie and would not be surprised if Roy is too. Looking off away from the camera, being able to commit quickly, approaching marriage with logic. Aspies are extremely loyal. I'm finding I'm much more capable with Filipinas than US women because of the quick commitment and being loyal. And we like the rules of traditional roles and following those rules. I think he's doing great.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I never even thought of that ……

  • @michaelely9467
    @michaelely9467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best of luck to Roy, but he’s allowed the pandemic to force him to make a very risky decision. It may not be very romantic, but waiting another few months would still result in a country full of Filipinas wanting Roy to pick them - in person.

    • @TheFilipinaPea
      @TheFilipinaPea  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s definitely a big risk, but he’s sure of it. I wish them well, and we shall see 👍