Identity Crisis: How Gender Ideology Took Away a Mother From Her Daughter for Three Years
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- A Chicago court prohibited a mother from seeing her daughter for three years. All because that mother insisted that her daughter is a girl.
Finally ready to tell her story, Jeannette is warning parents that gender ideology has become the latest weapon in parental custody battles, severing one of the most fundamental bonds in life under the guise of protecting children.
Written & Produced by Kelsey Bolar
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I can’t stand hearing the word ”safe” from this ideology.
Orwellian
Yes. The most evil hypocrisy. Very sad.
I cannot stand seeing bidens face and the words safe and healthy coming out of his mouth, when he promotes the mutilation of children.
It's not an ideology but a way to treat a medical condition that you obviously don't respect. I was trans before it was cool and folks didn't know about it.
It's important to teach kids the importance of waiting and giving it time before making any drastic life altering decision. Give them time and space to explore more their identity and feelings, and develop their thought processes more fully, before setting down permanently on one. In 90% of cases, feelings of gender dysphoria usually clear up by the time they reach adulthood. When they reach 18 and still experience gender dysphoria, that would be a good legal age to consider a transition, as they are then an adult that can weigh it up, do their due diligence, and decide for themselves if it's right for them. The worst outcome is that they are forced or coerced into transition surgically at age 12 or younger, have their genitilia removed, and regret the whole thing once they reach 18. I think it is important to hear the voices of those who regret having it done and also choose to ex-transition, as we also get to hear both sides of the issue.
💔😱I’m blown away by this and the other stories I’ve heard. The govt is enabling insanity.
I regret voting for Biden for this reason . Will likely never vote democratic again
I’m not voting for this clown show ever again called “American” politics or shall we say Nazis
The gov is insane. Always has been.
@@naturdoc4076 everybody makes mistakes.
The government is enabling insanity and killing of innocent, voiceless babies. The government is allowing satan to win and take over this world.
They will leave children in the custody of mothers who are drug addicts and give their child to men for drugs, but omg don’t “misgender” a kid. If this mom sees this, I am so sorry. The pain of this grief is real. I hope she finds her way back to you.
Oh yeah I’m sure that would happen! Not
@@Starae336 kids are OFTEN left in the custody of unfit parents. have you not seen the amount of child neglect cases that had been ignored or investigated that led to a childs death?
This is truly heartbreaking. Continue to pour your love into your letters. The impact will be felt by your daughter and when she is older, you will see the fruits. You are such an example of what true motherhood is all about..sacrifice, but not at the altar of UNTRUTH. As a former social worker who has witnessed true abuse and neglect of children, I am appalled at a legal system that would allow this. I think the outcome was predetermined before any interview or home study. Please know many people are praying for you and for Sophia. God bless!
She will become an adult someday just like all these other kids and we'll come to her senses and think what the heck happened, she will look back and she will be very proud of her mother ❤ every other young woman of childbearing age should realize that can happen to them at any moment, there's a lady a family in Texas that just had their newborn baby taken away due to a error in the doctor's papers, and they're having a hard time getting their kid back, what on Earth is going on !!!!
@@Creeksideviews child trafficking
My heart breaks for this woman. One day, your daughter will look back and understand everything. Please be strong and patient and coninue to do your great work
Yeah... I also hope so...... How could daughter of this lady could be not loving? If there is love inside her....... One day she will come back. To her Mom. 🥺💔❤
Her daughter will see that she still feels crappy being affirmed and realize her mother was right all along. Hopefully sooner than later.
@@Cafeallday222 Mom looks like a tomboy, the daughter is probably a tomboy too. That is the whole pseudoproblem.
@@Mouse_Metal I'm a tomboy mother too. it's just feeling right with outside appearance but this women is a real gentle lady as all should be internally. Heals and silly make-up can be done by anyone. But few are true ladies
Yes, but she will be sterile, unable to have an orgasm, have an endless stream of medical problems, depression, severe risk of suicide. It is way too likely that she may never grow to that level of maturity because what has been done to her will take her too soon. I've been learning about this stuff and it is just off-the-charts insane.
I am a 58 year old woman who was recently diagnosed with autism. As a child, I was 100% a tomboy. I am pretty sure if I was a kid today, there's a very good chance this could have happened to me. If you asked me if I wanted to be a boy, I would have said YES! YES! YES! I went through that phase of hating my body as well. You get older, your body grows, your hormones do their job and you learn to accept yourself. I have been married for 35 years and have 4 kids. I don't understand why the first course of treatment is to PERMANENTLY change/disfigure a CHILD'S body!!!! I am honestly shocked at how many of these stories are out there. I still am a tomboy, but I am a woman - 100% and being a mom is one of the most amazing and wonderful things.
How the hell do u make it to age 58 without knowing you have autism??
I'm 47 and have been a tomboy my entire life. No idea if I'm on the spectrum but I refused to wear a shirt until I was forced to when I went to school at age 4. Dr. Jordan Peterson talks about this, he suspects most of the trans people are on the spectrum somewhere.
The same for me. I'm 42 and I got recently my diagnosys. Tomboy and masculine all my life. But I'm a woman
@@Sil7531 masculine women unite!!! 👏
I was a tomboy too, now happily married and happy to be a mother and I love being a woman and not a man, besides at my age then, my parents won’t have money for surgery. They said the group that pushes these surgeries/mutilations on children are the people who own the hormone drugs. Trust me, those people are making money from you, they don’t care about you as a person or your outcome on changing sex, they only need to earn more dollars to maintain their lifestyles.
This Mum can't see her own daughter, yet groomers are on tik tok every single day encouraging this madness. Stay strong Mama, with love from the U.K.. xxx
How did gender ideology become state policy?
I think they snuck in by no discrimination law. Then somehow somebody somewhere says the science approved that transgender is a real thing. But that was a lie, there never been evidence, never been long term study. And now look where we are. So sad.
Follow the money.
The Left
Liberals/ Democrats/ Pregressives/ Lefties / Bolsheviks = ALL the same
@@sandeevanalstine645 Please educate yourself to know that this is bigger than a political party. I’m considered on be on the left, but I’m vehemently against this nonsense, and most of the people I know on the Left, are against it as well. Please don’t believe everything you hear from your small bubble! Many of us believe strongly in scientific evidence and know that this ignorance isn’t based on reality, and I like Biden, but he’s wrong on this issue!
I was brainwashed against my mother by my father but in the end, I worked it out. Don’t give up. It’s parental alienation.
100%
But this time the state is helping alienation
@@NttainMe
Which then brings us to the issue of the “Nanny State” - they are literally wanting to control each & every aspect of every person’s life from before birth to death, taking God-given rights away.
& all those guilty of marching us into this horror… so-called politicians are bad enough, but the regular folk that are happily sleepwalking the rest of us toward this nightmare, well, I’m all outta sympathy for them, nowadays.
Anyone that hasn’t woken up after the last few years, there’s no helping them, just watch though - they’ll be the first to moan, cry & then beg the sane among us for help if/when TSHTF!
I’m hoping they get remembered & told to eff off…
The state is so evil I’m so glad where I live there’s no such thing
@@NttainMe I agreed to this, but I did so because I saw no other choice. The guardian ad litem, the custody evaluator, and (maybe) the judge in my case believed in the Suicide Myth-that if you don’t affirm a child’s “gender identity,” then they’re more likely to kill themselves. There’s no data to support that, but that’s a heavy weight of an idea to perpetuate. Even though I used the chosen name and pronouns for my daughter throughout court proceedings, it wasn’t enough. I didn’t see another choice but to sign the parenting agreement that was offered because after 2.5 years, I didn’t want my daughter to have to continue not knowing what would happen if we went to a hearing. I didn’t think that was fair to her. I also thought my exhusband would keep me up to date on her activities and actively work to facilitate a relationship between us, but that hasn’t happened. He has let her decide everything she wants as a teenager, so I’m headed back to family court with a new attorney. I may get nothing, but I have nothing to lose. My daughter has already lost years of her life without her primary attachment from childhood, which we know from child development theory is a trauma. The sooner this is reconciled, the better, and it’s the responsibility of everyone who says that they care about her to support that reconciliation
This mom speaks more truth in one video than I've heard in ages! Absolutely heart breaking. I'm praying Sophia comes back sooner than later
Yes!!!!!!
Absollutely NO TRUTH at all. The mother is lying to herself and to everyone watching this video. She would misname and misgender her son if he returned to the mother's home. So she did this to herself. The mother should seek therapy so that she would be able to understand someone being transgender. She lost her child because of her own ignorance.
Me too, i'm praying
The analogy of her daughter being lost at sea and the mother being a stable lighthouse was so moving. May the father get what he deserves.
Vengeance is the Lord's
May the DAUGHTER AND MOTHER get what they deserve, Help them Jesus!
@@Veronica.John10-10 Yes Lord
I wouldn’t blame the dad either, the parents often get misled by activists and therapist who assure the child will be dead and transition is the only treatment
@@Dleefrlula bullshit. This is a classic case of custody dispute laws being used and abused for leverage against the other parent. Don't you DARE condone it!!!
As a tomboy herself it seems like the mother would have been in the best position to help her daughter navigate any identity issues
Why do you make that assumption? Because she has short hair? Why can't we all just be who we are, dress how we like and still acknowledge the physical reality of our bodies?
@@Trolland3billygoats you said a whole bunch of nothing. Being a tomboy is not a bad thing thing so I don’t get what your offended about. Plenty of us are tomboys and proud
@@Trolland3billygoats wtf u mean, being a tomboy isn't an offense or an identity it's a style, and her mom fits that style, so she can be called a tomboy.
I think the Mum seems very down to earth and also agree that because she doesn't seem like a girly type of woman that she would be open to her daughter dressing more masculine and doing boy activities. I had gender dysphoria as a kid and my mum was so feminine so I only ever had one toy I wanted (it was a Transformer toy I found) and she would have died before letting me wear anything not beautiful and feminine (she had been involved in modelling). Meanwhile I wanted to be a boy. This Mum seems super cool, would have been great to have had her as a Mum. BTW- I still turned out fine and happy regardless! I dressed in my dad's clothing when they weren't looking. Gender dysphoria gradually went away around 14 or so. Think many of us Tomboys may have been like this. Maybe someone should try to survey people who were Tomboys and feminine boys back decades ago and see how many are glad they weren't allowed to change genders as a kid.
@emmy this is what scares me. The movement in government and medical field does not encourage kids to just wait it out and work towards acceptance of their bodies, they want them to take hormones or puberty blockers as soon as gender dysphoria is diagnosed. In california they will soon be able to give meds to a child without parental knowledge. I see a huge incentive for big pharma to be behind all this, just like they pushed the governments around the world to mandate covid jab. Awful.
I hope her daughter sees this video.
Me too comes home. Before she's an adult
I wish more people could see this. Kids don't deserve this. Parents should protect them from political ideology! Thank you for standing by your daughter!
Parents are being made powerless by political agenda's and laws that they are abushed by. When they challenge the situation, whilst in the middle of confusion and chaos, then the retaliation is to call them bad parents for not affirming their children and that is worthy of removing your child permanently from your case. It's a demonic scam.
I get the feeling this girl's father wanted a son, and her motive to 'transition' is for his attention.
My aunt and uncle had 3 boys and wanted a girl. Their middle son decided after marriage and his own child that he was a woman and underwent the surgery. I've often wondered if his parents desires was a part of this.
Being trans isn't a political agenda
@@Fiorwestcoast it absolutely is unfortunately. This story is by far not the only one. I just read a story where a mother was legally denied acces to her depressive daughter because she supposedly wasn’t supportive to her child wanting to be trans. (Which was a lie). School pressured the child into believing that being trans , was the cause of her depression.and witheld that info for her mother so she didn’t know. The teen was placed in a “ gender affirming” setting. Only to end committing suicide. Other parents underwent the same fate.
Its obvious that in schools as well as in the CPS and in other government institutions trans ideology is widely promoted and favoured beyond reason nowadays. A young child isn’t allowed to drink alcohol, own a gun or drive a car. Yet they are supposed to be able to decide not only what gender they prefer to be, but decide to take hormones and or surgery which impacts the rest of their lives. And parental rights are reduced to zero at the same time.
So tell me again that trans isn’t political agenda. It absolutely is and that industry makes tons of money out of it.
What a woman. I’m so sorry for your situation. We’re destroying a generation of children with this transgender psychosis. God help us.
This is heartbreaking and terrifying. This mum seems like such a good mum, the words she says and how she describes her actions as a parent. Things like “sit w her during her discomfort” and “my daughter is on a boat at sea in peril, struggling….I’m not supposed to follow her lead, to hitch my boat to hers….I’m supposed to be a lighthouse guiding her way” are so beautiful, eloquent and the perfect description of what parenting is!
I mean, sheesh, we all wish for and could use a parent as amazing as this mum and many of us were not so lucky. Yet, the state has deemed she’s dangerous and unfit and has taken her daughter from her?!? Wtf, this makes no damn sense!! NONE!!
There’s going to be hell to pay in the coming years and decades for everything that has been going on now, has been allowed to happen, supported and cheered on! Heads are going to roll and all involved will be held responsible!
I hope that this mum is able to go after the father, stepmother, the state and everyone else involved in this w the full force of the law, sue the ish out of these ppl and throw the book at them! I hope ppl are jailed for everything they’ve done and the role they’ve played in all this dangerous nonsense and that they have everything taken from them!
History is not going to document and remember this time and all those involved very kindly. *They will be documented for all of time as the actual baddies!* They keep saying they are “on the right side of history”, but it’s the *exact opposite* and they’ll have to live the rest of their lives knowing just how wrong they were, how much they effed up and that they’re the *villains* after all!
Yes we need to push back and get laws to protect parents from this forced exploitation on the kids! It’s evil!
The daughter will probably regret this when she’s older. But that’s life, we live and we learn. She’s only 12 and being manipulated. So sad…
That so true what you said.I hate the trans gender movement and governments that go along with the new order,they are destroying families and our children and grand childrens lives.
You picked up on all the things, I too, heard this mom so eloquently articulate. I hope she keeps a journal to save for her daughter once she comes to her senses and her TRUE SELF! It would be priceless!
@@Cafeallday222 Her daughter is 16 now
I pray that you will one day be re-united with your daughter. I cannot imagine the pain you must feel.
I am also praying for this mother and daughter.
This is so crazy. Drug addicts have more rights to their kids. So strange because the mom seems to be nonconforming in some ways. Perhaps just a strong woman. A daughter needs her mom, no matter what.
It is likely because she is gender non conforming that she knows that you can wear what you want and 'present' how you want, but you are still a man or a woman. What you don't need is surgery or long term damaging medication - just self confidence and some bravery.
It's amazing how a horrible divorce can really pit parents against one another-and having a child as transgender, and using their supposed identity to hurt the other parent and to make them lose all custody rights is just plain wrong. The Father and Step Mother in this case qualify for the worst parents of the year.
That’s exactly what’s going on here. Shame on that father.
Fairy tales have been warning about stepmothers for thousands of years. 😔
Ofc there are good stepmoms, but then there are cases like this. It's the lizard brain, wants to kill the rival's offspring.
Narcissistic personality disorder runs rampant, using this kind of situation to control and hurt others. Narcissists really like to use cults like the transgender cult to get power over others. The sad thing is that here, some governments and some large businesses are corrupt and helping with this abusive behavior.
Wow it is mind boggling that such an intelligent, rational, well spoken mom could end up in such a terrible situation.
She is an ignorant bigot putting her right wing bullshit ideology before the well being of her child.
Thank you for being a good mom and standing by what is right. At some point she will recognize the truth. The number of girls regretting these choices is far too high to not ere on the side of caution!
Stand your ground mam, it may hurt now but it will ultimately be for her good, stand by the truth . Good parent and good luck 🍀
She's a wonderful mother. I've read about their story before. I'm glad to actually see this strong woman. I hope she and her daughter will be reunited soon, and that her daughter hasn't been irreparably harmed.
A lot of people commenting about the mother's appearance. And that's the thing: the transgender ideology are the people most obsessed with gender roles in the planet. A woman liking short hair or not feeling comfortable in high heels doesn't means she's a man. A woman acting tough doesn't means she's a man. A man that acts "feminine" and feels like an outsider among other men isn't a woman. Being a man or a woman are our biological realities and they don't change according to our personalities.
That really bothers me too. We know it was never about clothing or hair. Transgender ideology is a cult. Jeannette is a deeply loving mother and the work she is doing will impact other families as well. I pray Sophia finds her way back.
I look at a woman like her and I never think she's a man. I just think she looks like a standard lesbian.
Children make terrible decisions. That is why they have parents. At 13, I was planning to steal a horse and ride to Scotland. I was going to live with my best friend on the island of Iona. At 17, I was going to try and bribe my parents to give me a dog by threatening to live with my Dad if my Mum wouldn't comply (yes, a year ahead of leaving home and neither of my parents like dogs). At 23, I had terrible plastic surgery. Biggest and most permanent mistake of my life - went into debt for it, and it made my problems worse. Enough said. Children should not be able to make life altering decisions.
So true
I’m so sorry our government is doing this to you, you are in my prayers. May this current madness be corrected soon.
She chose truth at the risk of losing custody. What an extraordinary brave mother. My heart goes out to her.
This is truly heartbreaking. I will pray for this mama to be reunited with her daughter.
Already I have tears. I can’t imagine losing my child in such a way. You are a grounded and loving mother, and I truly hope your daughter comes back to you.
Birthing her, raising her, I just can’t imagine the Sofia shaped hole in our life. Jesus it must be hard.
Wow this was painful to watch. What a strong woman and a mother. This is just sad. I couldn't help but cry.
Your daughter would be so blessed to be with you. How can the courts determine that a father knows what a daughters emotions are when he never was a girl. The father is taking the lazy way out. It takes energy to keep your child from self harm . To do what is right can be EXHAUSTING.
That last line is so true, Connie!
Bingo!
I cannot believe this is happening in 2023😮 Feels like our society is sinking and there is no lifelines available anywhere 😢
To hear that her father is allowing this has me flabbergasted. But this is insane either way you slice it
Allowing? I wouldn't be surprised if he encouraged it as a means of gaining custody.
He probably made his daughter say that to gain custody out of spite.
I’m crying for this Mama. She is so poised, and so loving. She is right, she is parenting now-she’s putting in the hard work, the work that breaks our Mama hearts. I hope that one day her baby will look back and say, wow, my Mama loved me so much that she sacrificed everything to try and save me.
This woman seems really cool. I miss the days when you could cut your hair and wear jeans and speak bluntly as a woman and no one was confused about your identity. When I was young, I liked this style and no one ever thought I was a boy or trans. Nowadays they take it to an extreme and would question your pronouns or something. Gen Xers are a little older then me but I thought they were so cool. I miss this kind of style and attitude.
Yeah, I was surprised she wasn't the one pushing the trans ideology on the kid. Today that is the look. But in the 90s, this look just meant you were chill.
This mother is a threat to gender identity ideology because she shows in ver own body that a woman can be masculine in behaviour and style and that doesn't make her a man or other made up gender. A mother like her is an obstacle to trans activism and the medicalisation of kids.
This should terrify every parent. Unfortunately, not every parent is a good parent. Some parents actually push this ideology onto their kids and it's abuse.
I hope her daughter sees this and feels the passion and love her mother has for her. Her mother loves her more than anyone else on the face of this earth and soon the daughter will realize that it's not from a place of love that the other people in her life are encouraging her identity confusion. There's money to be made on being on hormones for the rest of your life, money to be made on reassignment surgeries and maybe the father is happier to have a son than a daughter.
He should have done foster care the father wanted a son badly.
That stepmother too, ruining her husbands beautiful daughter. How is she allowed a say in this. Horrific people.
Oh my God, the average woman does not know that this is happening, I didn't know till about a month ago, and I talked to some other ladies and they had no idea of everything that's going on it's so insidious.. the powers that be are on a mission to destroy humanity !!!
This made me sob. As a mother of an only child, a daughter of my own, I can’t even begin to imagine. It must feel like her heart has just been ripped out of her chest. Every morning she has to wake up and the reality comes crashing down on her that her only child has been taken away. I hope one day, maybe when Sophia is an adult, she will realize her mother isn’t a monster and only ever acted in her best interest.
Her son found out who he was that's all
@@Simpy553moron
These politicians should have no business talking about how we should or should not parent our children.
Jeannette❤ you’re incredible. You are a beacon of truth and light. I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this suffering, I hope and pray I’d be as strong and resilient as you.
I’m a mother of a 11 year old. I’m terrified that it could happen to me too. Once a girls period starts the hormones coursing through the body are powerful. I remember how much it changed me, a child into an angry and spiteful teen. If I did the things I thought I wanted for myself, I’d probably not be here. During puberty and adolescence is the most fragile and dangerous time. I would liken it to a ‘hormone psychosis’ and a medical procedure should NEVER be preformed while experiencing this. It’s awful that other adults think this is what children/adolescents want. Your thinking changes in 5-10 years after puberty! I never believed it until my now 30’s with a daughter. Feeling so sorry for the Mom… 😢
Jeanette, when we met at the First Do No Harm Rally, I hadn't yet heard your story. You were so upbeat and funny that I had no idea the extent of what you'd been through with your daughter. Thank you for your voice. I'll be seeing you on the 26th! ❤️❤️🩹❤️
Thank you, Cat. Nothing is forever. I have an orchard of lemons, and I only see one choice-make lemonade.
@@jeannettecooper1453 Dear Jeannette, may you know that God is preparing you to be the voice of strength to other mothers like you. We, mothers, love our precious children with a love that does not depend on them. God is love and is not loving Him does not take love away from Him, but it does take away the love we could have had. May you know this love of God Almighty for you and your daughter.
Same with me, Cat. I didn't realize either. It's devastating.
The world has gone mad! I'm an aristocrat stuck in a peasant's body but no one will give me a castle and a title! Believing in transgenderism is an opinion which many in the medical profession disagree with. We should be allowed our opinion without having our children taken away. This poor woman, my heart bleeds for her.
Yes mom, stand your ground. My love and empathy goes out to you.❤
This is exactly what a good mother does. She helps her child to come to terms with whatever they are struggling with and walk them through overcoming it.
A mother does NOT agree with limiting her child, to supporting her child’s destruction.
This mother understands what her role is and is being punished for being a good mother.
It makes so sad and incredibly ANGRY.
I'm going through the exact same thing and it's brutal. Something has to change
That’s horrible…
I hope you reunite with your child soon 😢
What a strong and brave mother. I can feel her heart aching for her daughter. I pray one day her daughter comes back to her.
The father is an absolute creep and the only truly needing investigating.
This is heartbreaking. How can she not be allowed personal contact with her daughter when there had been no findings of abuse. I hope that her child is ok and that they will be able to have a relationship in the future
This is devastating. One day, this child will wake up from this delusion, and she’s going to be devastated from the guilt of what she caused her mother. And it’s not her fault. The adults in her life failed to protect her from herself. That includes her father, the courts and CPS. Her mother was truly the only person in her corner, and it’s so painful to hear about this.
Who's going to pay for this kid's cancer treatments when the trans honeymoon phase fades after all the drugs have done their damage?
Probably the tax payers. All of us.
Why do you think Canada has been pushing MAID so hard?
You absolutely did the right thing as your daughters mother. In Australia, we too had a case where a child was removed from their parents because the parents wouldn't call the child he as the daughter requested. Sadly, under the current Labor government (Albanese), they passed a law stating that children can be removed from their parents if their parents don't follow through with the confusion. I've previously worked in child mental health and seeing how quickly children change their minds on what sex they would like to be is just mind blowing. Instead of offering ongoing counselling, instead they offer to chop off the child's breast, castrate the child etc. Your daughter will realise one day and come back. Remember, the frontal cortex of the brain fully develops between 21 and 25 - the frontal cortex is the part that deals with logic and reasoning.
That's really sorrowful 😔
Stay strong mom!
Who are these people promoting insanity?
The democratic party provided the wide open portal for complete take over by Satan and his agenda tu kill steal and destroy God's creation.
Demon's
How this is allowed to happen in our country is so scary. That affirming your child's identity, who they TRULY are, is considered more abusive than lying to them.
God bless you and your daughter. I hope she sees this someday to see how much you love and miss her ❤️
Dear God, I feel horrible for this woman. But stay strong, never believe the lie. And I pray one day your daughter comes back around.
So a mother is forbidden from being with her daughter, because she knows better than her daughter and this is justice? America, you are the laughing stock of the world right now.
Yup. And Canada too. Even worse there.
Government subsidized assisted suicide, anyone?
Gender ideology is the new anorexia and cutting. Both were prevalent in previous generations and are recognized as social
contagions present in female adolescents. And society fought hard to end those contagions. We have specialized programs and PSAs were everywhere. There were Lifetime movies and HBO and Nickelodeon programs that addressed them. But now, we are encouraging this newest social contagion which goes farther than any of the previous ones. This period in history will be looked back on as a dark age. An age where deviations from the socially constructed gender roles were punished by drugging and mutilating children.
My heart is breaking for this mom but more for her daughter. For the damage that people are doing to her. Praying that God will intervene in her life and redirect her back to safety.
Extremely common story. Thousands of parents are going through the same thing as Jeannette in one way or another. We are lighthouses with her.
In 5 yrs maximum, this girl will come back with her body totally disfigured and lamenting that she cut out the only person who wanted her to be safe
How does the court have the right to rip a person away from you that came out of YOUR WOMB!! Outrageous!
Wow, you are one seriously incredible mother. We should all be so lucky.
As mothers, it is incredibly important to display confident, happy, grounded femininity.
I pray for this mother. Pray and stay strong. Your daughter is brainwashed now, but she will know the truth one day.
Wow, W...T...F
I’m just going to say that based on this knowledge the father and stepmother are literally abusing that child. I know it may appear to be the opposite to some people, but they would be wrong.
Being a parent doesn’t mean letting your kids do whatever they want. That’s literally the opposite of being a parent. A parent is supposed to protect their child and to tell their child the truth.
For example you’re not being a parent if you let your child have intimate relations or smoke marijuana or something.
You don’t even let your child go to an event way past their bedtime if they have something to do in the morning. Etc.
The father and stepmother obviously do not really want to be parents to that child-and that’s a bad thing. Treating a child as a “best friend” is a classic BAD parenting technique. It’s called not wanting to deal with difficulties. Which in this case is basically an emotional teen girl-the classic most difficult time of a woman’s life-I’m a woman and yeah been there done that. Once you get past the teen years your crazy emotions start to become more stable. It’s just part of the process. Basically it’s normal to be an emotional wreck as a teenager.
The stepmother should know that-but unfortunately she must not want to parent a child that isn’t hers. Because I am telling you-you don’t treat your child as a best friend. That’s not how you parent. Being the best friend instead of a parent always ends up with a messed up kid.
We need common sense laws to prevent these situations.
Bet it all started in school or on social media. How many more kids will fall into this trap?! I worry about my neices and nephews so much. This is insanity.
I support this mother and she is totally correct when she states that she didn't want to support her daughter's "illness", because that is what it is... in telling her that she wasn't female! I would like to ask why this mom wears her hair, and dresses to look the part of a guy? That to me, would be very confusing to a young girl growing up being raised by this single mom.
Her peers would "most likely" ask this girl repeatedly if her mom is either gay or a transgender person? THAT could be very emotionally hard for her daughter to deal with. Not trying to be condemning to this struggling mom, but I don't understand why you would go this far with a haircut to LOOK like a man?
But... I don't understand why anybody would want a tattoo either! LOL
Short hair doesn’t make women look like a man, short hair isn’t a man thing
The truest form of love is expressed from compassion and understanding. The strength and conviction to save her child’s life is so commendable. It’s just so hard to believe this is the 21st century. As parents we face so many fears (perceived or real) imagine adding this made up 🌈 community to the bucket list.
I'm so sorry. It possibly feels empty to say this but you're doing the right thing. This latest wave of misogyny is causing immeasurable harm to vulnerable kids. May they all find their way out of this maelstrom. ❤
There's nothing more unsafe than that horrible alphabet mafia.
This is a criminal crisis against a mother and yes 🙌🏽 herself. I’ll be praying that an excellent attorney takes this case and establish a precedent. 🙇🏻♀️🙏🏽❤️
Me too
Jesus is the Way the Truth and Life!! Come to Jesus believe on Him!! He will set you free and save you !
I am so sorry. I hope one day she realizes you were right and that you loved her so much you stood up for her. This is heartbreaking 💔
Satan is most surely at work. Period.
You are still parenting now!!!! I applaud you because I know you are right!!!
Kudos. Excellent.y articulated. When Sophia wakes up she you will be the anchor she needs.
I was sobbing watching this. I could feel her pain in her voice. The world is crumbling and falling apart because our officials have allowed and done things to break up the family.
It’s sad that an entity can tell you that you cannot be a parent and a judge will uphold that decision. The same thing happened to me, different circumstances though. This country is disgusting! Our children are not even ours, they’re the governments. We have a constitutional right to be a parent but that can be taken away because of feelings. A group of people can feel that you are unfit and that apparently makes it so.
My daughter now thinks she’s a boy named Oliver. I don’t have access to her either. People in her life enable the delusion and there isn’t anything I can do.
I feel your pain. I'm a 57 year old Yaya to my granddaughter, whom I raised with my husband and daughter until she was 5 then she was abruptly taken away by my daughter it has been almost 5 years. My daughter was pregnant at 17 and we loved and supported her and her husband ( they eloped after she turned 18) we coparented our granddaughter and had a great time doing this, our granddaughter loves my husband and I so much and was very attached to us. We supported our daughter and her husband emotionally and financially without any guilt put on them, we 'wanted' to do everything we did for them/ her. Our daughter eventually divorced, we supported her and helped her through this as best we could. Our granddaughter spent most of her time with me or me and my husband and we were totally cool with that, she was our daughter in our hearts. Our daughter never had any issue with this, we respected our daughter as her mom and we all just co-parented, never any issues. However, when our granddaughter was 4 1/2 our daughter started acting strange, she became combative and aggressive seemingly overnight... as if someone was coaching or directing her to do this. She became overbearing and aggressive toward her daughter as well. My husband and I tried to lovingly talk with her privately about this but she became hateful toward us. We were very disoriented and confused on what to do. Within 6 months she broke it off with her live in boyfriend of 2.5 years and moved in with a woman. Our daughter forbid her daughter to even say his name. This was extremely traumatic for our granddaughter, she sobbed in my arms a few times over him and begged me not to tell her mom or the other woman 🥺, the heartache my granddaughter endured was horrific! Then our daughter cut off her best friend who had 2 kids that were my granddaughter's best friends...same thing, she was forbidden to mention them or cry about it! We comforted our granddaughter and prayed our daughter would come to her senses. Our daughter gained about 50lbs, cut off all her hair and started dressing like a slobby old man. We watched this happen but because of her angry attitude we did not dare try to talk with her again, we just loved and supported her. To back up a bit, our daughter had been the complete opposite before her radical change, she even instructed me to put more attention into my hair/wear makeup/change my wardrobe to be more fashionable etc... and had been annoyed with me on a few occasions because "I had not dressed up my granddaughter or done her hair properly before taking her out of the house". The abrupt change in our daughter was very hard to navigate because we did not know what to expect and so we walked on egg shells continually around her. She started making demands that we put our granddaughter in her room after we picked her up from day care and leave her there till dinner, then she could come out to eat dinner, and then we had to put her to bed with no stories or playtime! And another was that our granddaughter was not allowed to have ANY carbohydrates! No fruit, no whole grain toast, no rice or potatoes! I gently gave push back, I tried to make my daughter chuckle about how silly that was as she used to be able to lighten up and laugh at herself...but that did not go well. Our granddaughter was not only thin but very sweet... there was no reason for any punishment or food restriction ( not that there ever should be, children should be loved and admonished maybe disciplined but not punished and certainly not on the Atkins diet!). About a year after our daughter became aggressive, she cut us off completely, she had already cut off her best friend whose children were our granddaughters friends and then shortly after that she cut off our other daughter, her sister and brother in law, then my parents, and all of her friends. My husband and I did all we could to try and keep contact with her to try to make ammends but its been almost 5 years. The woman she is with is truly sociopathic, she and her whole family have made up crazy lies about us. I feel like I'm living in a horror movie version of the Twighlight Zone. I can't even begin to describe the pain and grief. We were told that our granddaughter suffered severe trauma from a source that we met later who knows my daughter. Others have come forward and confirmed this. Also confirmations that the woman she is with is controlling, manipulative and a pathological liar. We never got to know her and there was no reason those who told us would have had to make that up, some of those people were not even friends of ours, just acquaintances.
How horrible for you, your husband & family! So sorry 😣
Mom looks too sane and grounded to entertain all this rubbish.
The father allows her/him/it to deny its/hers/his gender. What else does he allow in the name of beung a "woke" non birthing being.
That was such an excellent analogy! In the sea of life, there are always going to be tumultuous waters. As a parent, we should not be hooking our boat to our kid’s. We should be their lighthouse. (Or, hook THEIR boat to ours, and we tow them to safety.) This story is heartbreaking & surreal.
You may not be "affirming" your child as transgender, but you are certainly affirming the truth. I pray your daughter comes to realize that and you can be a family again.
how awful - and her child is going to one day look back at all this and feel intense shame at how she treated her own mother. a horrible situation all around.
Seeing this strange haircut, I assumed it was the mother supporting the trans delusion.
Our government is insane
She seems a bit off…evidently the child just wants nothing to do with her…sad story but there’s definitely more to it.
Amazing mother… I am so proud of your stand for truth, despite the incomprehensible pain. Yes, you are being a real, loving, and sacrificial parent. I will be praying for you and your daughter ❤️
Sue the government. You have been damaged by them.
I cried through entire video, heartbreaking even I don’t have children. I was a very rebellious teen, my mother was very tough and strict. We have so many differences, even today I still argue with her most of the time. But I wouldn’t never ever imagine growing up without her. All the time, I know my mother is my safety net, I let her know that even I disagree with her, I really appreciate how she raised me since I was 20yo. It is cruel to take away mother - daughter connection, regardless what shape, form, or dynamic is. 😭😭😭
We need to teach how to love themselves first, however they are. Being black, white, tall, short etc, we can't change this looking natural and more like Frankenstein. Be who you want and no need to change your body, it's yours to keep, love it like on other, most precious being you are!!!!!❤
You are a good parent. Stand your ground and I believe things will work out for the good. Your tears have not gone to waste. Your will see your daughter again.
West is going down the drain
This is absolutely disgusting and my heart breaks for the mother her child needs her!!! Prayers you get your daughter back where she belongs along side her mother!.
I lost my daughter to a cult-like group for over 2 years. It was the hardest thing I have ever endured. God gave me strength, though some days I would cry for 2 hours at a time and there were days I didn't want to go on. We had been quite close and I never imagined this would happen to me. My son joined her in the group for about 3 months before he saw the light and came home. A few months after that, he was cut out of her life, too. The transgender ideology is like a cult in that it encourages kids to separate from families who disagree. I feel this woman's pain and pray that Sophia realizes what a loving, wise mother she has. Shame on the system that has supported this alienation.
I feel like "The lunatics have taken over the asylum"...
Dear Father God, protect our children from the confusion the devil is doing to them. Keep this mother’s love strong for her daughter. Keep her doing amazing job, even though she is not in contact. Please Father in Jesus Christ mighty name resolve this situation for all involved. Amen
Amen💖
This is heartbreaking. What are we doing to children??