ISTP can actually have short moments where they can be a chatterbox and very expressive, then they go back to being stoic. It’s not a bad sign or anything it’s just a part of the spontaneous personality.
I'm only a huge gremlin with my friends and my humor is actually extremely broken. Also I do tend to have a habit of talking to myself. Tis just that I tend to have a more stoic expression in general when i go about my life😂
We do like to listen. But 2 things. 1 we are trying to give a solution to the problem, if your just trying to vent about it then don't bother. 2 don't keep saying the same thing in different ways, we get tired of replying to it. Other than that go for it
@@PsychologyRefresh Not at all. I'm usually a chill person. Hard to get me irritated or stressed. But I did see some people get overly hysterical for no real reason and that is annoying
@@Akkarri That's for sure! My mom is a very noisy and emotional person, in addition, she likes to repeat her advice 100 times a day, I'm used to people around me knowing that it's enough for me to say once... so sometimes it seems to me that she does it on purpose and I get very annoyed
Cos being honest doesn't make you a good person. You told me something awful things you did, should i be grateful that u told me? Yes, should i be grateful u did something bad, def not.
@angeliasantana2099 saying honest things doesn't make you a good person either way. You have to also gauge and figure out where the line is. They might be ok with u being honest in some areas, but ratherr u shut it in some areas. Its knowing what things they can take and what they couldn't.
1. Not boring to be in a relationship with. Spontaneous, exciting, can make you laugh, adventurous, ideas, proposals. 2. Express feelings physically, sensual 3. Straightforward with flirting. Don’t waste time with people unless interested in them. Try to understand you and ask questions. 4. Can struggle to connect emotionally, less likely to express their feelings. Would have to learn to tune into their own emotions and yours. 5. Great listeners and problem solvers. Will be there for you when you need it. Trustworthy, respectful, good friend, can see through people and assess their difficulties. 6. Gives freedom. Wants a companion who can keep them on their toes. Want to be supportive but also autonomous. Needs freedom too. Wants to let their curiosity to be unchained. 7. Contributes a lot. Useful. Helps out with tasks. Motivates you to be self sufficient. Usually remains calm under pressure. 8. Doesn’t like casual dating. Meeting new people is exhausting. Selective about who they meet. When they genuinely likes you, they won’t be as fatigued. 9. Outstanding partners as last Mg as they don’t feel pushed. Can be committed and loving as long as they’re allowed to be themselves. 10. Drawn to people who are confident, not overly emotional and unable to regulate their emotions, drawn to sincerity and honesty.
The " no. 4 expressing their feeling " As an INFJ who likes to think think think and think and questions on her mind try to find the answer how the ISTP feeling 🤣 you know the struggle is real and overwhelmed sometimes and sometimes have to start it myself to get an ISTP to open up
ESFJ married to my ISTP, i think that when it comes to starting a relationship with them you have to be the one who initiate with them, and then if you are interesting enough for them you will undergo a long period of trial until they figure you out and realize they love you instead of just finding you interesting After that they can become quite the romantics, also at least in my case they are great parents, my husband spends hours a week teaching our son and doing projects with him and it´s very heartwarming to look at them doing things together What is said about the bedroom is also very true, they become animals in bed and are very focused on their partner, they will focus on you but also control you completely so you must be ok with that
As an ISTP this is how i am and simple though: i love to hang out and chat with people BUT if i feel the event is like pointless or nothing that deals with my career or education specifically i just disappear and its only Working with people including people i like where i draw the line in the sand and prefer to work alone. Basically i feel this for ISTP’s its the only introvert you can engage and talk to but best to let them individually do the work as they can actually do things without any thinking or questions
@@nour0610 Yes, it is very likely! Unexpectedly, this romantic matchup occurs frequently. More on this connection will be in the video released soon. Stay tuned!
@@PsychologyRefresh haha! Ok, just a couple, maybe. Psychologically, there are some things that make a man "feel like a man", and I'll pour that on, but artlessly, and in a friendly, open-eyed true-hearted manner. Give compliments in assumptions woven carelessly into speech, rather than spoken bluntly, and listen to his with rapt attention (but coolly with genuine interest). Rely on and allude to his "protection and care" at any and all opportunities no matter how small, but in a humorous, charming, assumed and fleeting manner. It's a complicated and intensely fun game,, and these are just a few things involved. My whole schtick is to appear friendly but aloof (we ISTPs gotta be cool, ys know lol), until THEY are chasing ME..because men adore the chase, which is another technique. :)
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ISTP can actually have short moments where they can be a chatterbox and very expressive, then they go back to being stoic. It’s not a bad sign or anything it’s just a part of the spontaneous personality.
Thanks for sharing!
as an ISTP, I can confirm this
I'm only a huge gremlin with my friends and my humor is actually extremely broken. Also I do tend to have a habit of talking to myself. Tis just that I tend to have a more stoic expression in general when i go about my life😂
I can also confirm 😂
We do like to listen. But 2 things. 1 we are trying to give a solution to the problem, if your just trying to vent about it then don't bother. 2 don't keep saying the same thing in different ways, we get tired of replying to it. Other than that go for it
Thank you Justin for sharing! What would you say your biggest weakness is?
Plus don't get hysterical, we lose patience and get irritated...
@@Akkarri Are you getting irritated easily?
@@PsychologyRefresh Not at all. I'm usually a chill person. Hard to get me irritated or stressed. But I did see some people get overly hysterical for no real reason and that is annoying
@@Akkarri That's for sure! My mom is a very noisy and emotional person, in addition, she likes to repeat her advice 100 times a day, I'm used to people around me knowing that it's enough for me to say once... so sometimes it seems to me that she does it on purpose and I get very annoyed
Everyone says they want an honest spouse until they have one. I am an ISTP and married and when I am honest and up front I get in trouble 🤷.
Cos being honest doesn't make you a good person. You told me something awful things you did, should i be grateful that u told me? Yes, should i be grateful u did something bad, def not.
@@autumnatlas7467 Saying honest things and being honest are different things.
@angeliasantana2099 saying honest things doesn't make you a good person either way. You have to also gauge and figure out where the line is. They might be ok with u being honest in some areas, but ratherr u shut it in some areas. Its knowing what things they can take and what they couldn't.
@@autumnatlas7467 sounds like you have a personal problem that has nothing to do with me.
@@angeliasantana2099 none at all just responded to ur comment. U seem clueless u about why u get in trouble when u r honest and I just told u why.
1. Not boring to be in a relationship with. Spontaneous, exciting, can make you laugh, adventurous, ideas, proposals.
2. Express feelings physically, sensual
3. Straightforward with flirting. Don’t waste time with people unless interested in them. Try to understand you and ask questions.
4. Can struggle to connect emotionally, less likely to express their feelings. Would have to learn to tune into their own emotions and yours.
5. Great listeners and problem solvers. Will be there for you when you need it. Trustworthy, respectful, good friend, can see through people and assess their difficulties.
6. Gives freedom. Wants a companion who can keep them on their toes. Want to be supportive but also autonomous. Needs freedom too. Wants to let their curiosity to be unchained.
7. Contributes a lot. Useful. Helps out with tasks. Motivates you to be self sufficient. Usually remains calm under pressure.
8. Doesn’t like casual dating. Meeting new people is exhausting. Selective about who they meet. When they genuinely likes you, they won’t be as fatigued.
9. Outstanding partners as last Mg as they don’t feel pushed. Can be committed and loving as long as they’re allowed to be themselves.
10. Drawn to people who are confident, not overly emotional and unable to regulate their emotions, drawn to sincerity and honesty.
ISTP (M) married to an ENFJ (F) for 13 years now. Working great with some lots of communication.
ENFJ woman here interested in ISTP man, so i see it can really work:) so different personality from others, makes him interesting for me
The " no. 4 expressing their feeling "
As an INFJ who likes to think think think and think and questions on her mind try to find the answer how the ISTP feeling 🤣 you know the struggle is real and overwhelmed sometimes and sometimes have to start it myself to get an ISTP to open up
Thanks for sharing!
I'm an INFJ too and just finding out more about my partner.... it's a complicated pairing with a lot of challenges but it it worth the hard work ☺️
ESFJ married to my ISTP, i think that when it comes to starting a relationship with them you have to be the one who initiate with them, and then if you are interesting enough for them you will undergo a long period of trial until they figure you out and realize they love you instead of just finding you interesting
After that they can become quite the romantics, also at least in my case they are great parents, my husband spends hours a week teaching our son and doing projects with him and it´s very heartwarming to look at them doing things together
What is said about the bedroom is also very true, they become animals in bed and are very focused on their partner, they will focus on you but also control you completely so you must be ok with that
As an ISTP this is how i am and simple though: i love to hang out and chat with people BUT if i feel the event is like pointless or nothing that deals with my career or education specifically i just disappear and its only Working with people including people i like where i draw the line in the sand and prefer to work alone. Basically i feel this for ISTP’s its the only introvert you can engage and talk to but best to let them individually do the work as they can actually do things without any thinking or questions
Thanks for sharing!
This why I love ISTP'S
-INTP
;)
Omg they’re literally perfect partners 💕😭 whhyyy can’t I have lol
Good job you just describe my love life :3
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@@PsychologyRefresh My relationship didn't work out, She left me for sum guy she met threw me.
@@JustMallowYt Sorry for you, you will eventually find your love!
You hear better stories from a junkie in a gas station than me.
Also my dates are considered mid i mean mc Donald's at 3 am don't consider it hot
Interesting!
Unpredictable and fun and dangerous, what could go wrong.
What could?
@@PsychologyRefresh Mass Murders.
Great video! My guy is a istp but I'm a infj lol
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@@nour0610 Yes, it is very likely! Unexpectedly, this romantic matchup occurs frequently. More on this connection will be in the video released soon. Stay tuned!
@@nour0610 You're welcome!
You should check CS Joseph channel. His assessment is wildly correct. -female ISTP
@@Redridininyohood Thank you for this recommendation!
I‘m glad they changed the channel voice actor…
Why?
@@PsychologyRefresh It‘s nice to see that you responded! I like the new one more because his voice is easier to listen to.
I''m a master flirter - just not a traditional one. ;)
Explain more please!
@@PsychologyRefresh And give away my secrets?!?!
@@PsychologyRefresh haha! Ok, just a couple, maybe.
Psychologically, there are some things that make a man "feel like a man", and I'll pour that on, but artlessly, and in a friendly, open-eyed true-hearted manner.
Give compliments in assumptions woven carelessly into speech, rather than spoken bluntly, and listen to his with rapt attention (but coolly with genuine interest).
Rely on and allude to his "protection and care" at any and all opportunities no matter how small, but in a humorous, charming, assumed and fleeting manner.
It's a complicated and intensely fun game,, and these are just a few things involved. My whole schtick is to appear friendly but aloof (we ISTPs gotta be cool, ys know lol), until THEY are chasing ME..because men adore the chase, which is another technique. :)
@@chocolatefrenzieya Very interesting comment!
Are ISTPs most likely to cheat cos of their thirst for freedom and curiosity to try new things?
ISTJs... stay... away!
Period
Yesh no im not an istp