Q & A | co-parenting, loneliness, hearing God’s voice and more

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  • @ReginaFortune
    @ReginaFortune 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Lol you whacked that fly 🤣
    But being on fire for Jesus makes life SO EXCITING. Living in the world was like the world was black and white and with now Jesus everything is in color. I’ve found purpose, meaning, joy, hope, love, faith.

  • @jesusmyvoiceofhope5391
    @jesusmyvoiceofhope5391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Keep being humble, I am so happy to see specially a young woman with God's wisdom about marriage.

  • @summerdenson2769
    @summerdenson2769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Because answering dm’s is like being an unpaid therapist. It’s emotionally taxing and requires that you’re in a peaceful headspace. It’s perfectly normal.

    • @rainbowliann
      @rainbowliann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Never put yourself through emotional labour ❤️

    • @jesusiskingofmyheart
      @jesusiskingofmyheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow, so true

    • @iahmarielle
      @iahmarielle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      this is so true! personally, i do love answering dms, giving advice to those who ask, listening to what people have to say & what they’re going through, but it can be very draining indeed because it’s important to know the other person’s perspective / situation to give a coherent, loving and Christlike answer.
      and definitely it’s crucial to be in a peaceful headspace because it isn’t easy to serve&help others when you yourself is struggling!

  • @wendymason3701
    @wendymason3701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your testimony video brought me to the lord! I was saved and born again So thank you for making it and doing his work 🥺❤️

  • @BeeShow99
    @BeeShow99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I remember when you only had like 1,000 subscribers. Praise God!

  • @eleonoradabarroso
    @eleonoradabarroso 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The reason why you find DMS/texting draining is because the main purpose of it is to give a quick/short notice to someone. It's for taking appointments, warning of something to someone and making short arrangements.
    Long conversations where you have to go back and forth take you much more mental energy. They take you away more effort and time. When you are texting something that is supposed to be a conversation, even after texting the person you are waiting for the other one to reply and you subconsciously have left an open door. So by remaining open all the time it drains your energy. It's like stepping over a boundary because you are going on and on about a topic for hours, sometimes even days, when you could simply 'open the door' and then 'close it' with just a phone call (which is meant for conversations). This is why you prefer the phone call because after that you are not going on and on about something via text and it saves you mental and emotional energy.
    I Hope I was able to explain this in a clear, understandable way 😊
    Thank you for being an inspiration! I love your channel ❤️

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Vivian, I love your channel ☺️❤️ Your faith & passion for the Lord is so encouraging! May God continue to bless you and your daughter Amelia 🙏🏼🕊 KEEP GOING MY SISTER IN CHRIST! 🙌🏼🔥

  • @sumitsamos2965
    @sumitsamos2965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Your testimony and sharing have encouraged me. I have come out of a difficult place and slowly walking with God keeping away from the past. Thanks again & God bless you!!

  • @DavidGarcia-kj3tv
    @DavidGarcia-kj3tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Can't wait to get back in the things of God

  • @LindseyDara
    @LindseyDara 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know more of the word in a year than many Christians know after decades! That’s amazing! I’m going to charis Bible college this fall and will really be getting into the word, I’m excited!

  • @marinarose3659
    @marinarose3659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    There is such thing as anxiety over unread messages/texting/emails ..I've struggled with it myself. It has to do with feeling overwhelmed with the pressure of an awaited response. It may be helpful to create a separate email for your followers to reach you and then avoid all the spam and creepy messages you don't need to bother with. Much love and God bless!! Love this video!

    • @crenee7471
      @crenee7471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! ❤️ I thought I was just weird 😫😫😢

  • @cj.el.antsino
    @cj.el.antsino 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love how you touched on the loneliness part. you're definetly right. its always when we are not spending time in the word, that thoughts/feelings of loneliness creep in. i too have experienced that first hand

  • @beautyan5309
    @beautyan5309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m having a hard time co parenting my ex is no Christian plus he’s a person with a bad attitude pray for me God gives me wisdom I don’t want to keep my daughter away from him but at the same time

  • @shelovesthecreator8145
    @shelovesthecreator8145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    i loved this video so much! especially the loneliness part, your video really helped me put things into perspective. God bless you sister!

  • @mr.t382
    @mr.t382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh Vivian,
    These are like…. discussions /talks with your best friend. My Christian buddy of many years passed two years ago - miss that great open Godly fellowship/friendship
    .
    Totally great videos Vivian. Full of Godly wisdom, insights and stuff we “should” be able to talk about.
    Great great channel sister - may God continue to bless you and pour out His spirit upon you and your family!!
    🙏❤️🙏

  • @theogbabygamer2.072
    @theogbabygamer2.072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Love your channel! I’m a baby Christian as well. :)

    • @levernis5753
      @levernis5753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here please continue to read the Bible and grow in love for God 😊

    • @angeldotel5786
      @angeldotel5786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless your new, beautiful friendship with Jesus! May you know and love Him more each day. 💙

  • @destinypaez3713
    @destinypaez3713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love your videos Vivian! But this one really is encouraging I love how you said to be able to move on from a situation you have to let go, forgive, and move on. That was really touching to me being able to love and forgive the ones who have hurt us or to be able to move on from a situations that left us heart broken. Thank you for your encouraging words, all praises to the most high! God bless you! 💗

  • @misablaze
    @misablaze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    THE DM QUESTION😭 I was so ready to dm u but i felt God telling me no for some reason. Now i know why

  • @MarthaHarvestTellez
    @MarthaHarvestTellez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hey love your channel. As far as the dm’s i think it would be nice to at least interact here on your comments! If you have such a big platform, be more hands on, be more open here, respond. Its just a suggestion, all with love of coarse! 🙏🏻

  • @albadonayre9826
    @albadonayre9826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi sister, I've been watching your videos for some months, and although you say you are a baby Christian, you sound very mature. God Bless you always and give you the desires of your heart, according to his will. You' are doing awesome!

  • @crazymom8001
    @crazymom8001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree about your response about loneliness. One of my loneliest seasons in life was the first few years after my husband and I first moved in together. It wasn't until I realized that I was putting unrealistic expectations on my partner and not spending time with God anymore, that I was able to fix the situation. I fell in love with God again and stopped looking for happiness in my earthy relationships.
    I still have times that I start to fault my husband for boredom and loneliness in my life and when I start to feel that way, I know it means I need to work on my relationship with God.

  • @sapy44
    @sapy44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'd like to see her do a reaction to "The Chosen".

  • @lilliforti5490
    @lilliforti5490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hallelujah I know what you’re saying I have been there and gone from seeing you in your journey and I just continue to pray for you and your TH-cam Channel because I see your walk and you are always transparent with those of us who enjoy your vlogs in your journey, keep doing you and I feel like as your faith deepen your skin your face, your smile it’s beautiful because you’re beaming,as you answer questions about our Heavenly Father and you are really beautiful and I can see your face light up when you speak your truth.

  • @thandekagwala2209
    @thandekagwala2209 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lots of love, all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤❤❤

  • @bernardwilliams4071
    @bernardwilliams4071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love what you said about holding on to the past so tight and hard refuse to let it go we have to let it go get over it and move on love that and so true. Never looked at it liked that your season of singleness will be shorter than the season of marriage good point I am waiting on God its hard at times but God knows what he is doing. love this video V keep doing your thing stay with god keep walking with him depending on him and trusting in him God Bless you

  • @praisegirljael5611
    @praisegirljael5611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God put such strength in you

  • @dollyh9508
    @dollyh9508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you thank you!!! I have known the word for a long time but I never committed to it. Because of you there is a new revival in me. Keep going please. I am currently battling anxiety but I know God's got me.

  • @Shenell.D
    @Shenell.D 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Wait on God" ❤ Thank you seriously it helps me with the loneliness

  • @stresslessmailing4758
    @stresslessmailing4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so brave girl, love your testimony. GOD BLESS YOU.
    THE TRUTH WILL PREVAIL.

  • @nahom6786
    @nahom6786 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    sister the peace of God is written all over your face, stay blessed

  • @Rashawnn.mcknight
    @Rashawnn.mcknight 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your video! I received immense conviction on so many questions I’d been asking God about for the past week.

  • @zucchiniz
    @zucchiniz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for being obedient to the Lord. You have helped me so much.

  • @elove2.038
    @elove2.038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its not that Easy! To just let go, forgive, & move on! It feels insensitive to hurting people to hear that. Being Loyal to a man & having his children to being left for another woman & raising the children on my own all to be cordial with a women who knew about me but still slept with him. And to top it off...call her step mom?! A slap in my face over & over again. GOD will literally have to give me a whole new heart cuz Im not tolerating betrayal. Being an empath hurts cuz folks take advantage of my kind & forgiving heart.

    • @IAmCierraDawn
      @IAmCierraDawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Something similar happened to me... every situation is very different and it's going to take time to heal. Please hear me out, I let my anger and hurt destroy who I was... I would say I wasn't angry anymore, but I was. I found myself constantly talking about it and thinking about it trying to get everyone to hate them with me because they were wrong. Very wrong. A year ago my life drastically changed and me and God are beyond close and now I am ok and I forgave them and I told them I forgive them. God has someone so much more special for you, pray 🙏🏻 pick up your Bible and go to church if you can or watch it online. Join a group, please don't live how I was. You will regret it because it took 6 yrs of happiness from me when I should have put my faith in God.

    • @IAmCierraDawn
      @IAmCierraDawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also feel like she wasn't with her child's father for years and years, she's young so take that into consideration. I was with my husband for many years and when these types of things happen no one is going to be perfect and move on. Take your time, be angry and sad but just don't stay there for too long.

    • @davec9740
      @davec9740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your not lying it hurts to have empathy but at the same time I'm glad iam.

    • @HolinessUntoTheLord.
      @HolinessUntoTheLord. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being an ‘empath’ is not biblical

    • @beautyan5309
      @beautyan5309 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HolinessUntoTheLord. you think so

  • @irmaquinones4772
    @irmaquinones4772 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey girl your doing great thank you for doing gods work stay strong 💪 ♡

  • @krystina349
    @krystina349 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glory to god. Thank you for this video, he is so good. God bless you girl 👍✨️

  • @Amv332
    @Amv332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was missing you thinking you were needing to skip today's video.. I so appreciate your videos. I was asked to share with my church how your videos helped me when I was coming to christ during the pandemic. The hope is to encourage them to put more into social media. ❤ thank you sister. ❤

  • @himaphilip
    @himaphilip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Vivian for sharing the word of God! ❤️

  • @shanoya2670
    @shanoya2670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi love your videos
    Keep serving God!

  • @jeskahaley9616
    @jeskahaley9616 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen sis. “When people ask how, it’s God” amen amen amen ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Nat-cn3bx
    @Nat-cn3bx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yesss so true what you said about being called! That applies to anything we do- if we are called by God to something then WHEN persecution comes, we don’t let it face us because we are doing what God called us to do! Praise God! 🙌

  • @sheyi9107
    @sheyi9107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Singleness is SPEACIAL
    Yesssssss🙌🏾

  • @maxminthang
    @maxminthang 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Definitely! Let the name of Jesus along should be glorify......
    Nice 👍 Answers!!!

  • @anushkas8462
    @anushkas8462 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    U r so lucky...i am studying for past 10 years n just failing all my exams. I am miserable mess n so is my family unemployed n lack of hope. Im giving one more exam ca final. I cant stop crying when i see my books. First i couldnt understand what i was studying now when i can understand the papers r super difficult n pass percentage is low n my stress level is super high due to so much guilt in me...its draining me.
    Being alone at times is a blessing so dnt be sad on that account life has many turns.

    • @Vargas9215
      @Vargas9215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t give up on yourself, you can do this, believe in yourself and most importantly believe in GOD. Can’t tell you how many times I have prayed before and after each exam.

  • @s.sflower
    @s.sflower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yay a new video!!! God bless you 🥰 watching now!

  • @tanatswamabvuva3243
    @tanatswamabvuva3243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Vivian 😊💓

  • @tessashepard3622
    @tessashepard3622 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello.. he is silent at times but he is not still .. he is working on things

  • @adrianac8314
    @adrianac8314 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her testimony led me to Lifestyle of Freedom and now level 2. I live 9 hours away but was visiting LA and I attended the Church in Whitter last Sunday. It was a blessing 🙌🙏 and the deliverance was on point for what I needed. Praise God I am grateful for her testimony.

  • @barbiesocrazy
    @barbiesocrazy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you women of God for this video .

  • @LINDAJX7
    @LINDAJX7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this. Especially on the co-parenting advice. I’ve struggled with this for 4 years because I was unclear of people’s motives. But I want to see the good in (her) but actions don’t align. Praying for clarity and peace.

    • @sourcream7408
      @sourcream7408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. It's very hard to trust someone when their actions are clear. Especially in these crazy times we live in. Not every
      ex-husband and their current partner are in the house of God. And that is something to be cautious about. Better to protect our kids than to be sorry.

  • @johnfollowerofchrist
    @johnfollowerofchrist 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful Message and thank you for your Sermon 🙏 God bless you 😊

  • @kaysstudybuddy
    @kaysstudybuddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, I'm in the same season Vivian🙂

  • @debbieedouard2118
    @debbieedouard2118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this, it inspires me so much, your journey just inspires me. I hope that the Lord always blesses you and I pray for you and please never stop because you're just an inspiration for so many people on their walk with God. I love you and it's genuinely coming from my heart. God bless💕❤️❤️

  • @philaqhawithaphila
    @philaqhawithaphila 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glory be to God for the work His doing in your life and let all praise go back unto Him for representing Him to the many out there Amen. When you mention doing it for God and being called for it you made me think of the past years I so wanted to start a channel and even recorded some videos planning that each video will start with the word of God because I couldn't think of anything else that I enjoy talking about expect the Lord in my life. But a thought came that in a long run I want to make money out of it then it felt wrong that I had that motive because Jesus Christ shared the word and did the will of the Father voluntarily, so I stopped because it felt wrong and just decided to talk about life in general when I opened the channel this year but I somehow mention God in them because it's just difficult not to. By the way thank you for the inspiration you give to serve God.

  • @bonolob2596
    @bonolob2596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate your videos 💕♥️ but I just think that it’s not safe to say that if someone feels that God is quiet then they’re not reading the Word, there are people in the Bible that went through that quietness and we just have to trust that He will respond at His own time

  • @janais9482
    @janais9482 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow your channel grew a lot I am so proud of you sis❤️❤️

  • @Eddietorres1959
    @Eddietorres1959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You awesome sis.

  • @wiktoria2474
    @wiktoria2474 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you inspire me. Thank you. God bless you

  • @Inspirationland-et8yy
    @Inspirationland-et8yy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be bless

  • @michelle4025
    @michelle4025 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Vivian for posting back to back. I felt I really needed some God focused content! Thank you and may all the praises be to God

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inspiring ♥️

  • @bynes2674
    @bynes2674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful video.

  • @ninaw8186
    @ninaw8186 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💙 loved this

  • @nathannelson7778
    @nathannelson7778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m new here

    • @maria-pr2ib
      @maria-pr2ib 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Welcome 👋 hope you enjoy it here 🤗

  • @orangeblossom7748
    @orangeblossom7748 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good job !!!

  • @humblevictoria8808
    @humblevictoria8808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoyed this video. 💙

  • @michaelchenault2867
    @michaelchenault2867 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done!🙏

  • @Em-si5fs
    @Em-si5fs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Vivian, i'm curious what thoughts are on headcovering? Thanks!

    • @HolinessUntoTheLord.
      @HolinessUntoTheLord. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s a Must!!
      1 Corinthians 11:5 - _But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven._

    • @Vlindertjeab
      @Vlindertjeab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@HolinessUntoTheLord. amen indeed ❤

  • @lilliforti5490
    @lilliforti5490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen!!!!

  • @thegenzcompass2526
    @thegenzcompass2526 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wanted to subscribe to your channel because I appreciate young women like yourself being open about your faith. I too am raised as a Catholic and have been attending Legion of Mary meeting with my family. I do disagree with some of your talking points on religiosity and relationship (but that is a discussion for another day). God bless you fellow sister in Christ and your daughter. May the Lord keep up the good work in your life.

  • @ChiefCedricJohnson
    @ChiefCedricJohnson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hosea 4:6
    My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.

    • @ChiefCedricJohnson
      @ChiefCedricJohnson ปีที่แล้ว

      Luke 12:15
      And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth.

  • @samanthadelbosque7630
    @samanthadelbosque7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing! VIVIAN DO YOU SPEAK OR PRAY IN SPIRITUAL TONGUES?

  • @lizoliveira5606
    @lizoliveira5606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Vivian, how often and what times of the day are you in the WORD? Do you just bring your Bible around with you? Really wondering lol

    • @AA-lq5bj
      @AA-lq5bj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I have a bible app in my phone, so you can have access anytime

  • @rogerethen6475
    @rogerethen6475 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep going 👍👍👍

  • @sixteen.candles.4644
    @sixteen.candles.4644 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need this bc im coparenting.

  • @Desktoplesson
    @Desktoplesson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ephesians 2:2

  • @arturwleklak90
    @arturwleklak90 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Love YOU with pure note selfish feeling. Although i AM now im very nad mood...,.

  • @VeganBunny816
    @VeganBunny816 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you needed to hear this ❤️ Please don't answer dms or even comments if it drains you. It will only take away from you. By making these videos, you are already giving a lot.

  • @anthonymarrero4549
    @anthonymarrero4549 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dios te bendiga.

  • @merlingeorge6449
    @merlingeorge6449 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi i liked ur t-shirts. I'm from India 25 dollar is a huge amount for that T-Shirt... But it awesome. Once I become a rich I will busy. God bless your family.

  • @samanthadelbosque7630
    @samanthadelbosque7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would anyone put a thumbs down to this? Lol sorry not funny. But.. .. 🙏🏻

  • @nuncaigual180
    @nuncaigual180 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi..I just wanted to ask how come your immediate family would not be considered as a priority? I ask because I struggle/split within what to help them with and what I can let them be independent with..I just care a lot for them, specially want to help my parents

  • @gladoogladys7623
    @gladoogladys7623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im new here and i loooove your content. Your amazing vivian

  • @jessek-9scentdetectiontrai10
    @jessek-9scentdetectiontrai10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🏽❤

  • @debbieedouard2118
    @debbieedouard2118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your vids they inspi

  • @VegasOutSideGoonies
    @VegasOutSideGoonies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you work and do your TH-cam videos? Or is TH-cam your work?

  • @luciiell6459
    @luciiell6459 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    scroll all over the place with your eyes closed and ask the LORD to open the right one and tap on a random dm with your eyes closed. open, bam.

  • @adrianamf2283
    @adrianamf2283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    React to the chosen!

  • @Eunxji
    @Eunxji 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg the fly part 😂😂😂

  • @debbieedouard2118
    @debbieedouard2118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do a video of getting up from stumbling in sin

  • @angieviveros9584
    @angieviveros9584 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Isn’t god against divorce. And if so, you can not remarry?? Cause it would be sin, so stay together n divorce or separation? Input please

  • @ricardogonzales8407
    @ricardogonzales8407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥🔥🔥☄☄☄☄

  • @holychrist3884
    @holychrist3884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wanted to ask you that can i study bible when am on my periods?'im a new christian so yes i wanted to know that

  • @AbigailFlowerheart
    @AbigailFlowerheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen! So true 24:11 🙏🏻

  • @lilliforti5490
    @lilliforti5490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you shouldn’t and God is saying no that is too much for you and people want more and more

  • @ruthmasih5992
    @ruthmasih5992 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry I thought that you were before famous and now also u r so what's the difference you might have number of dms and thought you don't miss ur old lifestyle because now u hv money SORRY I truly regret

  • @leonrojo5006
    @leonrojo5006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry to know you were a catholic and left because of the bad testimony from prists and its members, and very poor preaching from the congregation.