How To Properly Set Dates

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  • Coach Corey Wayne discusses how to be direct & properly set dates when women you're dating or ex's contact you.
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  • @kigonywanduthi
    @kigonywanduthi 8 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Holy crap,silence cant be misquoted...asked her out she said wont be available,went quiet she started stammering and gave me counter offers...one word #charm

    • @tybennion1
      @tybennion1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you not even respond to her saying she wasn’t available

    • @chao9812
      @chao9812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@tybennion1 can you read tyler?

  • @chrisgraf1304
    @chrisgraf1304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Cheers Corey. Appreciated mate. I am currently up to part 5 making your move page 133 . Really enjoying 3% bloke. Great read Coach 🏆

    • @kiwi9065
      @kiwi9065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I bet you're an Aussie, 100%

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Thanks :)

    • @ghostccc8089
      @ghostccc8089 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re welcome!

    • @bamsuchanan
      @bamsuchanan 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No. Thank you corey.

  • @walbee1921
    @walbee1921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I want to be with you honest , I've been watching many coaching channels lately and very few are informative ..I found yours more helpful and into the point ...

    • @ultimatom9834
      @ultimatom9834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you gotta read the book tho

  • @giovanni154
    @giovanni154 8 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Your stuff really works, you are a genius. I will write you my story soon!

    • @hampushaglund4613
      @hampushaglund4613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      5 years. No story

    • @chao9812
      @chao9812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hampushaglund4613 he probably sent an email

  • @RockwildazFamily
    @RockwildazFamily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Women emotionally break up with men before they phsyically move on. That is why when they do the break up, when they move on it seems instant because while they emotionally break up with you, they were emotionally screening other men, and when one of them or whatever seem like it may be serious, she physically break off with you then move on.

    • @balwc147
      @balwc147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah exactly

    • @JJH-jc1fg
      @JJH-jc1fg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ruthless

    • @devin_leary
      @devin_leary 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So is this cheating or no?

    • @bamsuchanan
      @bamsuchanan 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@devin_leary yes.

    • @bamsuchanan
      @bamsuchanan 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes in most cases, at least

  • @fate8500
    @fate8500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Coach corey definitely loves his bottles of wine 😂😂🍷

    • @Xscape128
      @Xscape128 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol

  • @SkyguyFilmsZooruvfilms
    @SkyguyFilmsZooruvfilms 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I thought this was a video to help set plans because I have trouble setting plans on certain times...

  • @kevinlorenz8608
    @kevinlorenz8608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My teacher gave me the best advice, she said “remember everything happens for a reason.”

    • @ghostccc8089
      @ghostccc8089 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you bang her yet?

  • @MamboB
    @MamboB 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sick Vid Coach!!! Great Great video, im on page 133 of your book where you say to go look this vid up. I’m really liking the book so far, and i don’t like to read

  • @JohnDoe-ef3nv
    @JohnDoe-ef3nv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Be direct and set a date. The girl doesn't want to set a date.
    ask her "what days are you free?"

    • @seanmartin2519
      @seanmartin2519 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What if she replies with "When are you free?"

    • @Exotic_St4rxxx
      @Exotic_St4rxxx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Just say answer the question beyotch or we done for good lol jk

    • @AlwonDomz
      @AlwonDomz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sean Martin: Give a definite place and time to meet.

  • @Zombiripuli
    @Zombiripuli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Huge Gold Nugget this video!!! Silence, got to remember this!

  • @jeremygonzalez94
    @jeremygonzalez94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just got out of a 2 year relationship and feel like I have no game anymore at all lol I set up a date with a new chick this Saturday but I'm honestly feeling flaky and nervous about it like I might not want to go but that's just the fear inside talking 😅

    • @efrencalvario
      @efrencalvario ปีที่แล้ว

      By your picture profile seems you got it bro

    • @ghostccc8089
      @ghostccc8089 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you bang her?

  • @HerSunHisMoon91
    @HerSunHisMoon91 11 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lol. I watch your videos like every day. You do know how to work us women. Wish more men find out about you. Without being douchebags or assholes.

  • @UdxPugilist
    @UdxPugilist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My brody has a great corey story👌🏽💯💎 you the man boss

  • @flyguyderrick7057
    @flyguyderrick7057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    What if she say I'll let you know do I wait for her or just keep trying?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  7 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      walk away

    • @flyguyderrick7057
      @flyguyderrick7057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah I think that's a good idea after we had sex she been acting a little different I'll wait for a few days and if she don't let me know I'm done with her

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  7 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      you offered her the gift of your time. she did not want to make time for you. if she changes her mind in the future, she will contact you. if she does, make a date. hangout, have fun and hookup. let it go.

    • @flyguyderrick7057
      @flyguyderrick7057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thanks coach she kinda has a lot of baggage anyway I don't have nothing to lose with her unless we decide to be a couple in the future and she breaks up with me

    • @arvid8642
      @arvid8642 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Coach Corey Wayne how about (usually young) women that you are talking to online and you tell them to give you a call but then they think it’s creepy to talk on their phone or have phone anxiety etc?

  • @RobertoMitrofan
    @RobertoMitrofan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Coach Wayne !

  • @atteindresiempredad
    @atteindresiempredad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    now she lives in another country, she reached out I spoke to her a little bit and then said I got to go... after a week I figured out that she want to visit the country this month but she didn't say that to me...

  • @part1801
    @part1801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Boy if someone really wants to see you should it really be that difficult to setup a date?

    • @tastyDungeon
      @tastyDungeon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Women: yes

    • @straightcashhomey1261
      @straightcashhomey1261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sadly, yes. Most women are annoying like this

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I had a lady cancel on me at the last minute and never rescheduled

    • @grandanse5827
      @grandanse5827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She may not be sure she wants to see you..you have to woo her. Convince her being with you is worth your time

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@grandanse5827 she was also taken while at the same time pursuing me.
      So it was worse than that

  • @TheGonzedd
    @TheGonzedd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Absolutes and generalizations tend to attach the same qualities and characteristics to everyone. In my experience, women don't "move on" from a breakup as quickly as you state here. As a matter of fact, they tend to isolate and become more protective and cautious of where and whom they put their trust in next time. They're dead scared of being hurt and rejected, they "open their eyes;" some even tell you strait forward that they're Not interested in getting into a new relationship. So on and so forth, that's the way it seems to be. Rest my case!

  • @macarioaurelio9512
    @macarioaurelio9512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Coreys the fuckin man

  • @Xcoming2
    @Xcoming2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    is setting a date in a week in advance too long due to busy schedule?

    • @pssoa1112
      @pssoa1112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ideal is 3 days before

    • @TheOfficiaITristam
      @TheOfficiaITristam ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pssoa1112 shit I did 11 days before 🤣 oh well she seems really interested anyway so it's probably fine

  • @xESPplayer500x
    @xESPplayer500x 11 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Im confused by different advice. I thought one was never supposed to take back an ex who did the dumping because she won't respect the fact you ll take her back after she knows she messed you over. Is it do or die? Or second chances?

    • @tkleo2006
      @tkleo2006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Old, but I think it's different if the guy is willing to be fine with her dumping him, and later she takes the initiative to connect with him.

  • @fifoxsocrins4241
    @fifoxsocrins4241 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You are my god, thanks for all that information =)

    • @dudewat212
      @dudewat212 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Jesus Christ is the Savior, not COREY Wayne.

    • @inderjotsinghh
      @inderjotsinghh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dudewat212 Funny thing, I misread it as Jesus Wayne. Lmaoo

  • @grandanse5827
    @grandanse5827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    High value women dont accept same day dates..no matter what

  • @Robsparks413
    @Robsparks413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    34 people dont know how to properly set dates

  • @ramio42
    @ramio42 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haha majority of smart guys lines up a few exit options too! 😉

  • @kunaikid4
    @kunaikid4 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey what would be the best way to ask a girl out for a date in Highschool?

    • @henrykermond5328
      @henrykermond5328 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if u find this out tell me

    • @davybouten
      @davybouten 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Read the book, its free. You can't take shortcuts on this if you wanna do it right

  • @miguel1nonly400
    @miguel1nonly400 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If she doesn’t show interest I don’t try to convince her I just move on it’s not hard if she likes you it will flow naturally

  • @saitamakoyoshimura3733
    @saitamakoyoshimura3733 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Should I tell my ex happy birthday a month after breakup? Or should I stick to cold turkey since she was the one who broke off the relationship.

    • @theglobalg
      @theglobalg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      No. don't say anything.

    • @LukaTrenbolon
      @LukaTrenbolon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      As Corey says. No contact means literally NO CONTACT! No happy birthdays, no happy new years and other crap. Trust me buddy. I have attracted back every single one of my ex gfs and the only way to do that is to not contact them until they reach out to you. When they reach out you just set a date and get off the phone. On a date you just act nice, relaxed, banter and joke around her. Make her feel good so she can suppress the bad memories that made her dump you. In that way she can think about all the good times you two have and eventually think that it was a mistake for dumping you in the first place. Good luck, but you won't need it if you do what Corey suggests. :)

    • @fengxiong520
      @fengxiong520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FUCK THAT BITCH

    • @alexboy2111
      @alexboy2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fengxiong520 🤣

    • @Alvaro-qz6qk
      @Alvaro-qz6qk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fengxiong520 😂

  • @ethanhuntakabobturner4285
    @ethanhuntakabobturner4285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    At what point do you just walk away from women who can't make up their mind about you though? How many times do you accept her back after she's been seeing some other dude?

    • @themosspill6276
      @themosspill6276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My logic is, if they see other men, just pull back to the max or don't fuck with em

    • @alexb8926
      @alexb8926 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@themosspill6276 😅👊🏼

  • @laughtherapey
    @laughtherapey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am still hung up on a red flag.

  • @owangh86
    @owangh86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Coaches there's this gorgeous lady who has been flirting with me for the past couple of days currently I'm away from my country due to work ..She's initiating most of the conversation recently she brought up the issue of my past r/ship but I told her let's enjoy the moment rather than digging up my past ..How do I go about the issue if she brings it up again?

    • @christopherkokoski1668
      @christopherkokoski1668 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sounds like you handled it the way coach would the first time she brought it up. Yes she probably will bring it up again. I've read the book five times so far and I've had lots of success. From my understanding of the principles, coach would probably tell you to keep things light and playful and positive. Continue to redirect to enjoying the current relationship. Set a definite date LOL best wishes my friend.

  • @jessewatanga2762
    @jessewatanga2762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2nd read😂

  • @DavidJohnson-qn6ch
    @DavidJohnson-qn6ch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dont jump ship unless they got another dingy

  • @TheBeggies95
    @TheBeggies95 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She asked me for a date, i said to to her that i will come back to her with this because i work on call in a correctional center and she knows it so i never know when ill get a call, im ending in this institution on saturay (27) and she texted me saturday (20) im thinking of setting a date this week and not answer the phone if they call me, but wouldn't it be better to pass my job before her?

    • @TheBeggies95
      @TheBeggies95 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      its impossible to set a date right now since i never know when i work... maybe if i wait one week because im done there in 1 week? will she still be interested?

    • @TheBeggies95
      @TheBeggies95 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the reply its all good now, we're not together but we started dating again and she wants to come back, i just have to make a good decision and go step by step aha the No contact really do work

  • @jayslungsbloodclot2733
    @jayslungsbloodclot2733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    5:04

  • @7etiennelandman87
    @7etiennelandman87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lets say you are on a date and se asks you before the end of the night for another date the next week, do you act on it or playfully tell you haven't decided if you want to gou out with her again?

    • @3PCTManOrBust
      @3PCTManOrBust 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The book says to not bring up setting the next date unless she mentions to you in person that she wants to see you again.

  • @jamesmcconnell000
    @jamesmcconnell000 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fuckin mint

  • @buntik1687
    @buntik1687 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Corey, you are a fucking God! 👍🏿

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5:00 Women really love a guy they can’t have their way with

  • @andrewmathurin684
    @andrewmathurin684 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Corey can do a review of naughty dating sites that are free and safe thanks

    • @soulful5284
      @soulful5284 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol wtf

    • @vijsid7616
      @vijsid7616 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Free and safe 🤣🤣🤣

    • @vijsid7616
      @vijsid7616 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Impossible combination

    • @joemomma2629
      @joemomma2629 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh

  • @rezangyalos
    @rezangyalos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @3.00 minute - you are oblviously talking about just one certain group of women who you are usually after to. They heart you a few times and you just generalize that all women are like that. Shame. Its not about men and women, it is about different personalities. We are all human with feelings.

  • @terrybunch7313
    @terrybunch7313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You need looks/money/status to find a girlfriend. Simple as that.

    • @activitylog1655
      @activitylog1655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have you experienced that?

    • @terrybunch7313
      @terrybunch7313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@activitylog1655 Every non-Chad has.

    • @garygreen7104
      @garygreen7104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      None of those things will be able to maintain an attraction or attachment buddy. You obviously don't know women.

    • @terrybunch7313
      @terrybunch7313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@garygreen7104 Neither do you

    • @terrybunch7313
      @terrybunch7313 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bwaah0_0 Yes you do. Younger girls are more about looks and status, but as a lot of women get older they prioritize men with high earning potential.

  • @scottphillips6232
    @scottphillips6232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So freaking hard to follow you dude, the video is supposed to be how to properly set up dates but the whole vid is you responding to an email from a guy having his ex start to pursue him again. Also I bought your audiobook and it’s hard af to follow the points you’re making because you’re constantly referencing your TH-cam vids about a related subject, this is annoying af, while I’m getting value from your teaching I’d strongly suggest omitting the constant references to google this and that. IMO these distractions are why people need to read it 12 times to accurately absorb your material. Last thing, come to a small town and tell me how many numbers of quality women you’d flirt, interact and hookup with. In south fla or big cities yeah I can see it, in towns like mine where there is no mall, no art galleries, no parties, no downtown to stroll, no clubs, two bars with 8 dudes and two whores in each one, one dollar store with a fat chick and a dude working and one grocery store where all the cashiers are 16 and I’m 50... I don’t care what your knowledge base and experience is you’d struggle. You come across as this is so easy and so simple but what you don’t get is that not everyone lives in a highly populated area. You should offer a disclaimer saying that if you live in a small or sparsely populated town this material isn’t for you and will probably be a waste of your time and money.

    • @alexhowley9834
      @alexhowley9834 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hows that goin for ya

    • @jjw3956
      @jjw3956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Umm yea I know this is old but I live in a very small rural town in the Midwest and basically the only women here a nasty . You have to get out of your comfort zone. Go to where the women are . I’ve dated girls one hundred miles away and If they’re interested they I’ll come to you.Yes it’s a pain in the ass. This is the price we pay for living in the boonies. Corey can’t control the availability of quality women where you live .