This guy is Gonzalo Lira, unfortunately he may have been captured by Ukrainian forces. But quality red-pill content! I think men like this are colloquially called Captain Save-a-Hoe.
Was me. Thankfully I never married her after 10 years. She became masculine after about three years together. Last three years together she all but had sex with me once a month. Never taking a damaged woman seriously ever again.
63 never married, most likely never will. I was involved for 2 1/2 years when I was in my 30's. I aged 5 years in that 2 1/2 years. I also saw the worst in myself drawn out. We travel through each 24 hour day and we try to do our best to make that day productive, happy, efficient, learn something new, a better person, etc etc. But in that 2 1/2 years at times, I couldn't figure out what was going on. I worked a job where I could not high 5 someone at shift change and sometimes, I had to leave say 10-15 mins later. As a single, I drove home at my own time and pace. When involved, I was accused of "What's going on?" when I did not arrive back at her place at a set time. That was just one drama issue.
You men and boys better listen to this very very very carefully. Not only will you not save them but she will destroy you along with her. Just like a drowning person drowns the person trying to save them. 100% of the time there are no exceptions.
These are the wisest words you will ever hear on YT! You can't stop her from returning to an abusive boyfriend, drugs, self harm, sleeping around, destroying their lives. Run as fast as you can. You are just another pawn in their sick lives. Just walk away. Nothing you do will help-only HURT YOU!
true man. I was rejected by someone cause she kept running back to an abuser. fuckn sick, and I was beating myself up over it. I dont know what made me suffer over her so much. She was a huge chinse red flag and I knew this
I never saw her as damaged until she screwed up my life and both of our kids lives. Teaching our boys to be nice guys is a horrible thing to do. It adversely impacts generations.
I am going to download all these videos. And if I would have a son or maybe I will show these after 10 years to all future Men. Never ever date a Damaged Girl. You can't save her.
THIS GUY SPEAKS ALL TRUTH...young fellas don’t be soo “ARROGANT “ to think your the exception to the rule...like he said “YOU CANNOT SAVE HER”..as the saying goes...”don’t try to play captain save a h0e”...that’s a game you loose all the time.
This advice stood me in good stead since the day I watched this video back a few years ago. Dodged a few pretty bad bullets. Last one was just a couple of weeks ago. This girl at work was all over me, for a week had been trying almost everything to grab my attention and have me ask her out but I guess she didn't know I'd made up my mind the first day we talked when she casually mentioned to me she'd quit journaling her thoughts because they resembled "desperate cries of a severely depressed person" and that she took tranquillizers on a daily basis and had mental trauma from injuring her back and failing to become a pro dancer (apparently she was pretty talented). Felt genuinely sorry for her as a human being but any sort of relationship was a huge no, obviously. Actually this recent encounter is the exact reason I'm watching this video rn. It reminded me of CRP and the priceless advice he'd give us for free on YT.
It is pure arrogance on the part of a successful man typically... I can attest to it. I did it and paid for it severely. Don't ever make this mistake. A man needs to first be what evolution teaches us to be (it's what women really want). Brutal, strong monsters first, and then you can tame and calibrate your actions with desired restraint. "Better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war".
Probably the most important video any guy out there dating needs to watch. You will undoubtedly meet at least one eventually. In order to really absorb the advice you've got to develop feelings for a woman you feel this intense need to save. You'll be astounded by the rationalizations you're capable of i.e. "she's drinking less," "she seems happier." Nah man, in a likelihood she barely notices you at all. She notices her addictions, her shitty friends, and the demons of her past are playing out in her mind. It stings like hell. But, you just can't save her from herself.
I had same experience and I said I can save her in the end I lost 5 years of my life full of sadness and stress lost 3 children she aborted them .Never again when I broke up with her she bring other man to my workplace to disturb my peace and to show me that she moved over. Still not healed from it but I am trying. BTW once I made her to listen to this video of ( damage girl )and she was very angry and said he is saying bullshit. Coz she has a tattoo and smoker and very bad memories with her father.. anyway this man is saying the truth..
This video definitely hit home in my case. Absolutely true! I did it ones like an idiot and faced the consequences after. Never again! These type of damaged women are like Major parasites! Let go of them and let them drown on their own. Let them deal the results of their bad decisions.
I am a nice guy. I don't like hurting other people. Sensitive at times. I am also not that good looking. I unfortunately know deep down that if I would have gotten married sometime over all these years, that I would have been eventually ruined. Today, I never married, and I am doing well for myself.
Recovering nice guy here who thought he was Superman. Thinking saving a damsel in distress was the right thing and the manly thing to do, Ha! Bullshit! Being raised in a generation where young boys were taught to be gentleman to look out and protect women so seeing a broken women we go into action. Then if you actually save her for the moment and she gives you that dopamine rush and your ego is bigger than ever. But when it comes time for you to need her to reciprocate or to do what we been told women are supposed to do when we as men do our job she comes with more reasons why she can’t. Even if you show her tell her and right down she will not get it. But the worst part she will blame you and make you feel bad for asking for what want. To the point where you question your own self and began to believe you are the problem and you start apologizing for asking her to be a woman. Especially if she is a single mother. They will play that card every time like a Wild Card draw four in UNO. Which makes a nice guy feel bad. Before you know it you lost your identity because you put all your time and energy trying to save a woman. Now once she’s doing what she wants she’s gone and now you left broken from trying to save a broken woman.
Facts been through this except age didn't have kids. I fixed her life and the process she f'd up mines then when I let her know that she wasn't reciprocating she blamed me, spewed all hateful words and less than three weeks later was with another man. Never again I'm more cold hearted now & focusing on my purpose. No time to help any woman
@@myreelart659 I understand how you feel brother. Don’t let them turn you into Darth Vader. I did and started to bleed on people who didn’t cut me. I was mad hurt and angry and it was all out war towards women. I am still recovering from the hurt I went through with my ex but much better than I once was. I had to learn accountability for my own actions that caused my pain. She did what she did but I had to learn how to say no and set boundaries for myself. You not wrong for feeling how you feel brother just don’t stay to long because it can over take you.
Thanks bro!, really making me feel good about having been dumped by a lying cheating divorced single mother for being to a ‘nice a guy’!, I LOVE BEING SINGLE AGAIN!, now that you’ve helped me to count my blessings properly. All the best brother!.
I used to be this guy. Thank God I was able to attract women. Otherwise that guy would of never been destroyed and he would still exist. The ones that are hopeless and fucked forever are the nice guys that can't attract women. Because there's nothing there to destroy the niceness for him.
I agree, but there are also severe dammaged Guys. You can not save them either. I used to have a good friend with psychological problems. We could not save him either. In the end, he took his own life.
Right on the spot! Your videos will save men years of therapy, pain and huge sums in fees. You are direct, vulgar when necessary and brutal. You say the naked truth in all its ugliness and ruthlessness. Thanks for no BS talk! The nice guys you are talking about who always end up with 'broken' girls are themselves broken, low self-esteem. They do not have enough self-worth to seek a 'healthy' woman. So, they settle for a damaged woman thinking they will earn her love by saving her. They find themself with a horrible project. Instead of being with a stable and loving partner, they end up becoming a repairman dealing with severe emotional issues. Instead of succeeding in bringing up the girl, they sink to her level and the whole relationship degrades as a result of conflicts and recriminations. So yes, the nice guys are nice, but arrogant and calculating too. Both the nice guy and the broken girl have no business being together. Both need work. You say what no therapist will ever have the guts and the interest to say. The therapist is in business to make money, Due to his/her training and experience, he/she can inform the poor nice guy about his dilemma and delusions in one or two sessions but prefers to milk him for months. In fact, the nice guy will end being milked by both, the broken girl and the therapist. The damaged girl is smarter than the nice guy in the art of exploiting the situation by zeroing in on his vulnerabilities and ego. Your talk is the wake-up call to many to such guys. They are the garbage collectors who actually end-up being blamed by the damaged girls for abusing them when they attempt to reason with these broken girls. They perpetuate the viciousness of the damaged girls, without being aware of it. They also damage further their self-esteem when the project to fix these girls fail miserably. This video is funny, informative and tremendously valuable. Dr. Phil should have you on his show, without censorship, not for fame and fortune, but to save the nice guys from themselves. But fame and fortune are absolutely deserved in this case.
Yes it is a horrible decision. My dumbass got with a single mother stayed with her for seven years. When we started she love bombed the fuck out of me. Rolling me joint, gettn busy whenever, when I moved in she stop with frequent sex and I found out she’s lazy as shit and can maintain a household. We had a daughter and she kicked me to the curb when she was 18 months old. Shit was disheartening. She said she needed space that she couldn’t do the relationship anymore. We all know what that means ahhahahahah. Coach you the man thank you 🙏 for the guidance.
These are the kinds of lessons that fathers should be teaching their sons.
Experienced divorce lawyer here. I have seen what he described in this video 100’s of times. Don’t let this be you.
This guy is Gonzalo Lira, unfortunately he may have been captured by Ukrainian forces. But quality red-pill content! I think men like this are colloquially called Captain Save-a-Hoe.
Was me. Thankfully I never married her after 10 years. She became masculine after about three years together. Last three years together she all but had sex with me once a month.
Never taking a damaged woman seriously ever again.
My favorite video by him. Rip Coach.
This and the loan- rip coach
DAMN!! This is deep! I was arrogant as a nice guy. Now I do me......RIP COACH!!!
Rest in peace, coach
What ? When 😮 I didn’t know about it
@@Sharp.shooter-e1n en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gonzalo_Lira
@@Sharp.shooter-e1n he died In Ukraine prison. :( rip Legend
@@NEOMASS0are you serious brother?
@@NEOMASS0 do you have a source for this?
Enjoy em have your fun and then let them fall by the waste side. RIP coach. Thanks for the gems!
Learning to spot women that are not good for you might be the most valuable skill to acquire.
Agreed! We let the everyday puss blind us in a sense .
Yes! Now I look 👀 for red flags 🚩 up front before I even say hello 👋
True. But remember, they also have the best sex, so it's going to be really hard to resist them.
@@TurtleTrader very well lol.... catch n release policy is mandatory in light of those facts
@@Azav312 :D :D :D
Rip coach - important as any advice
Not only her. You can not save anyone. Anyone who wants to save themselves will do so by themselves.
They killed this man. His wisdom will always be cherished. Rip.
RIP coach. Your right. I tried saving a girl now am on the run. Pearls of wisdom guys.
"These girls are going to help their case by acting all nice and normal in the courtship phase."
Absolute truth.
Absolute truth. My ex who is damaged is doing this to her new dude. He doesn't even know what I know lol
Ain’t this Facts
@@PoyTroy how damaged?
@@jsrhedgehog9981 FUBAR ... severe daddy issues. BPD. And a covert narcissist
Watched this about 20 times. Brings me back to reality.
I always go back and watch this every 6 months else my upright, honest and honorable self starts to act up
Bruv 🤦🏾♂️💯
Even in death - this man speaks to me to this day when shit hits the fans in my relationship
and definately do not date a girl with unstable family
I did everything this guy warned me to not do .. and he was right every single time
Sometimes you have to learn for yourself
Proverbs 7:26
“For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.”
54 never married never will, I understand female nature, You either love women or you understand them...
Good Job, wise man Indeed.
Great way of putting it.
63 never married, most likely never will. I was involved for 2 1/2 years when I was in my 30's. I aged 5 years in that 2 1/2 years. I also saw the worst in myself drawn out. We travel through each 24 hour day and we try to do our best to make that day productive, happy, efficient, learn something new, a better person, etc etc. But in that 2 1/2 years at times, I couldn't figure out what was going on.
I worked a job where I could not high 5 someone at shift change and sometimes, I had to leave say 10-15 mins later. As a single, I drove home at my own time and pace. When involved, I was accused of "What's going on?" when I did not arrive back at her place at a set time. That was just one drama issue.
When is the artificial womb going to arrive?
Thank you, you helped me reinforce my decission to end a relationship in which I was doing the saving
Very sound advice, I've been there, done that and suffered the consequences. RIP Coach.
I wish this guy or someone would've been there looking out for me like this guy does back when I was 13-15 yrs old cause he's 100% right
Thank you for saving me.
You were the best coach. RIP
if only he stayed in this non-political area
"The moment you hear that [voice in your head saying 'I can save her] smile at the girl, turn around, and run."
👏👏👏👏👏
Yeah wish I heard that few years ago
i learned this the hard way...
Excellent advice
Because if you stayed another minute you start thinking with your other head and you know where that leads. Don't ask me how i know
You men and boys better listen to this very very very carefully. Not only will you not save them but she will destroy you along with her. Just like a drowning person drowns the person trying to save them. 100% of the time there are no exceptions.
Can you rename your channel to Polar bear Productions?
Yeah this is 100% truth. Every single word of it is.
Viejo se te va extrañar 😢. Descansa en paz hermano. Fuiste mi maestro mío y de muchos más.
R.I.P coach, started following you back in 2018 and STILL occasionally need to check out and rewatch some of these to put me back in line!
Excellent Video 👍👍👍 Still hurt he passed away, the way he Did
Coach Red Pill knows the game 🎮 its a game that women play on your kindness to land you. Once they net you it's over‼️
These are the wisest words you will ever hear on YT! You can't stop her from returning to an abusive boyfriend, drugs, self harm, sleeping around, destroying their lives. Run as fast as you can. You are just another pawn in their sick lives. Just walk away. Nothing you do will help-only HURT YOU!
Captains in shining armor should all pay attention to the video lol
true man. I was rejected by someone cause she kept running back to an abuser. fuckn sick, and I was beating myself up over it. I dont know what made me suffer over her so much. She was a huge chinse red flag and I knew this
So fucking true!
And most ironic - they hate those who try to "save" them
you can't save her but you can save this video
to always remember
Being the nice guy destroys you. Stay away from your own pride.
Don’t save her! She don’t want to be saved!! -j.cole
Yup
I never saw her as damaged until she screwed up my life and both of our kids lives. Teaching our boys to be nice guys is a horrible thing to do. It adversely impacts generations.
Can you elaborate on this?
R.I.P Coach
RIP COACH!
I will treasure all of coachs videos for the rest of my life. Thanks so much coach. RIP.
I am going to download all these videos. And if I would have a son or maybe I will show these after 10 years to all future Men. Never ever date a Damaged Girl. You can't save her.
Make this torrent for us xd
I believe you can find them in the internet archive website!
Oh man. Guys, this is absolute truth. Share with every man you possibly can.
Age 25 "benchmark" amazing , this is guy spot on!
"The second you hear "I can save her" smile up and run!" 💯 Couldn't have said any better!
I've seen this happen to half a dozen men in my life, this is so true it's scary.
Anytime I’m in my feelings I come to your videos and feel so much better.
Run like hell from these women 🏃
Rest in peace Gonzalo
Listen to the Coach young brothers.
RIP, Gonzolo.
Facts
You can only save yourself in this world and that takes some doing . Don't waste that talent on damaged girls .
Im am 49 years old and i can confirm this is true
Yo this nga spitting fax 💯😂
True, from ex nice guy...
Thank god..I thought I lost my god father.. Thanks for uploading again..
Nope, you did lose him. This id a re-upload
These are life saving videos 😂
Lol true
A God amongst men🎉
Smile and run💯🤣🤣🤣I love it
THIS GUY SPEAKS ALL TRUTH...young fellas don’t be soo “ARROGANT “ to think your the exception to the rule...like he said “YOU CANNOT SAVE HER”..as the saying goes...”don’t try to play captain save a h0e”...that’s a game you loose all the time.
You're right CRP am a victim of this situation thanks.
Coach your lessons continue to teach from beyond. Thanks 🙏
Coach red pill will forever be Goated🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This guy so unintentionally funny 😂
So So DAMN TRUE on every point Couch.
This advice stood me in good stead since the day I watched this video back a few years ago. Dodged a few pretty bad bullets. Last one was just a couple of weeks ago. This girl at work was all over me, for a week had been trying almost everything to grab my attention and have me ask her out but I guess she didn't know I'd made up my mind the first day we talked when she casually mentioned to me she'd quit journaling her thoughts because they resembled "desperate cries of a severely depressed person" and that she took tranquillizers on a daily basis and had mental trauma from injuring her back and failing to become a pro dancer (apparently she was pretty talented). Felt genuinely sorry for her as a human being but any sort of relationship was a huge no, obviously. Actually this recent encounter is the exact reason I'm watching this video rn. It reminded me of CRP and the priceless advice he'd give us for free on YT.
Moved by your wisdom, sir! Stay blessed.
you should definitely write a book. Father Advices for Modern Man
So true
Turn and run for your dear life!
It is pure arrogance on the part of a successful man typically... I can attest to it. I did it and paid for it severely. Don't ever make this mistake. A man needs to first be what evolution teaches us to be (it's what women really want). Brutal, strong monsters first, and then you can tame and calibrate your actions with desired restraint. "Better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war".
Well said my friend, alsolutely better to be a fucking warrior
Probably the most important video any guy out there dating needs to watch. You will undoubtedly meet at least one eventually.
In order to really absorb the advice you've got to develop feelings for a woman you feel this intense need to save. You'll be astounded by the rationalizations you're capable of i.e. "she's drinking less," "she seems happier." Nah man, in a likelihood she barely notices you at all. She notices her addictions, her shitty friends, and the demons of her past are playing out in her mind.
It stings like hell. But, you just can't save her from herself.
needs a better explanation
I've read this comment multiple times without really understanding
I had same experience and I said I can save her in the end I lost 5 years of my life full of sadness and stress lost 3 children she aborted them .Never again when I broke up with her she bring other man to my workplace to disturb my peace and to show me that she moved over. Still not healed from it but I am trying. BTW once I made her to listen to this video of ( damage girl )and she was very angry and said he is saying bullshit. Coz she has a tattoo and smoker and very bad memories with her father.. anyway this man is saying the truth..
You got this bro keep fighting
Crp archive is saving lives. This video just saved mine
the best advice ever
How true u are buddy . I gv u 💯 marks .
Please keep uploading his videos. Thank you!
RIP coach
its only a matter of time before they report you, your message is far too powerful
"don't save her, she don't wanna be saved"
This video definitely hit home in my case. Absolutely true! I did it ones like an idiot and faced the consequences after. Never again! These type of damaged women are like Major parasites! Let go of them and let them drown on their own. Let them deal the results of their bad decisions.
They needed to teach this stuff in school
nope, they want us to be ruined... they won't ever teach anything beyond obedient slavery
RIP 🙏
Darn right coach
Only Jesus can save her.
I am a nice guy. I don't like hurting other people. Sensitive at times. I am also not that good looking.
I unfortunately know deep down that if I would have gotten married sometime over all these years, that I would have been eventually ruined. Today, I never married, and I am doing well for myself.
Well, you were dead on brother keep up the videos I enjoy them
Recovering nice guy here who thought he was Superman. Thinking saving a damsel in distress was the right thing and the manly thing to do, Ha! Bullshit! Being raised in a generation where young boys were taught to be gentleman to look out and protect women so seeing a broken women we go into action. Then if you actually save her for the moment and she gives you that dopamine rush and your ego is bigger than ever. But when it comes time for you to need her to reciprocate or to do what we been told women are supposed to do when we as men do our job she comes with more reasons why she can’t. Even if you show her tell her and right down she will not get it. But the worst part she will blame you and make you feel bad for asking for what want. To the point where you question your own self and began to believe you are the problem and you start apologizing for asking her to be a woman. Especially if she is a single mother. They will play that card every time like a Wild Card draw four in UNO. Which makes a nice guy feel bad. Before you know it you lost your identity because you put all your time and energy trying to save a woman. Now once she’s doing what she wants she’s gone and now you left broken from trying to save a broken woman.
Facts been through this except age didn't have kids. I fixed her life and the process she f'd up mines then when I let her know that she wasn't reciprocating she blamed me, spewed all hateful words and less than three weeks later was with another man. Never again I'm more cold hearted now & focusing on my purpose. No time to help any woman
@@myreelart659 I understand how you feel brother. Don’t let them turn you into Darth Vader. I did and started to bleed on people who didn’t cut me. I was mad hurt and angry and it was all out war towards women. I am still recovering from the hurt I went through with my ex but much better than I once was. I had to learn accountability for my own actions that caused my pain. She did what she did but I had to learn how to say no and set boundaries for myself. You not wrong for feeling how you feel brother just don’t stay to long because it can over take you.
Rest in peace
Truth, you can't. I tried with 3 of them unsuccessfully before, now with last one I gave up immediately when I realized she is damaged.
Thanks bro!, really making me feel good about having been dumped by a lying cheating divorced single mother for being to a ‘nice a guy’!, I LOVE BEING SINGLE AGAIN!, now that you’ve helped me to count my blessings properly. All the best brother!.
So much true, how I know it? I lived it
Thanks a lot for your precious advices
Cheers from Morocco
I used to be this guy. Thank God I was able to attract women. Otherwise that guy would of never been destroyed and he would still exist. The ones that are hopeless and fucked forever are the nice guys that can't attract women. Because there's nothing there to destroy the niceness for him.
Best video ever
I agree, but there are also severe dammaged Guys. You can not save them either. I used to have a good friend with psychological problems. We could not save him either. In the end, he took his own life.
CRP you rule!
Thank you! Thank you! this is 100% true..
Nice guy as depicted by actor Richard Gere in movie "Pretty woman" co starred by Julia Roberts .
You are absolutely right Papa
ON GOD❤🔥💃
Right on the spot! Your videos will save men years of therapy, pain and huge sums in fees. You are direct, vulgar when necessary and brutal. You say the naked truth in all its ugliness and ruthlessness. Thanks for no BS talk! The nice guys you are talking about who always end up with 'broken' girls are themselves broken, low self-esteem. They do not have enough self-worth to seek a 'healthy' woman. So, they settle for a damaged woman thinking they will earn her love by saving her. They find themself with a horrible project. Instead of being with a stable and loving partner, they end up becoming a repairman dealing with severe emotional issues. Instead of succeeding in bringing up the girl, they sink to her level and the whole relationship degrades as a result of conflicts and recriminations. So yes, the nice guys are nice, but arrogant and calculating too. Both the nice guy and the broken girl have no business being together. Both need work.
You say what no therapist will ever have the guts and the interest to say. The therapist is in business to make money, Due to his/her training and experience, he/she can inform the poor nice guy about his dilemma and delusions in one or two sessions but prefers to milk him for months. In fact, the nice guy will end being milked by both, the broken girl and the therapist. The damaged girl is smarter than the nice guy in the art of exploiting the situation by zeroing in on his vulnerabilities and ego. Your talk is the wake-up call to many to such guys. They are the garbage collectors who actually end-up being blamed by the damaged girls for abusing them when they attempt to reason with these broken girls. They perpetuate the viciousness of the damaged girls, without being aware of it. They also damage further their self-esteem when the project to fix these girls fail miserably.
This video is funny, informative and tremendously valuable. Dr. Phil should have you on his show, without censorship, not for fame and fortune, but to save the nice guys from themselves. But fame and fortune are absolutely deserved in this case.
CRP The living Legend.
Yes it is a horrible decision. My dumbass got with a single mother stayed with her for seven years. When we started she love bombed the fuck out of me. Rolling me joint, gettn busy whenever, when I moved in she stop with frequent sex and I found out she’s lazy as shit and can maintain a household. We had a daughter and she kicked me to the curb when she was 18 months old. Shit was disheartening. She said she needed space that she couldn’t do the relationship anymore. We all know what that means ahhahahahah. Coach you the man thank you 🙏 for the guidance.