🦹Brie Larson🦸demolishing The Patriarchy in "Lessons in Chemistry" ⚗️🧪
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- Brie Larson being a feminist icon ✊ in "Lessons in Chemistry" ⚗️🧪
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This dialogue was a great essay on female empowerment in the workplace in 1960s America 🙌
Brie Larson plays a scientist that is offered to host a cooking show on a small TV station in California.
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#brielarson #feminism #lessonsinchemistry
When I was in law school in 1993 at the age of 40 in a seminar of eight people, I answered a question, and then instructor said, I don’t think you understand the question. And one of the men at the table answered, and the teacher said exactly, and thank heaven for that man because he pointed at me and said, she just said the exat same thing!
I’ll never forget it!❤👍
The number of times I've repeated verbatim what a female coworker has said as a man and had it be met with "okay." And walking away is baffling.
I have seen that several times in Meetings in Europe and North America. I feel embarrassed for the idiot running the meeting.
Unrelated but I'm reaching 30 and I wanna start my career and I feel too old , but this comment really proves there's people studying at all ages and there's life after the 20s
@@purrrrrrrple I was a Customs Officer until age 35, then ran my own business for 14 years, then qualified as a teacher aged 49 and did that until retirement. Sometimes you are not ready for the best job in your life until you have lived a bit more. Go for it !
@@AV6Q I appreciate that you are able to recognize it. Hope you are willing to help turn the tide to reduce it from happening
He knows what I’m saying because I’m saying it
The things they make us say 😂
Correction: *"the things they ATTEMPT to make us say!"* @NumberOneJournal
If only people would actually do that. Say just what they mean
❤ Precision of language. I love it.❤
@@HFV_Junkyardinbut then the other problem come in: the person being spoken to not listening.
I went somewhere recently. A man told me to smile. I said "No" and quoted Denzel Washington "I don't scratch when I don't itch and I don't dance when there's no music"...
That's such a good comeback
Dancing when there is no music is really underrated though, with respect to Me Denzel
@@KatieM786sometimes the music is just in your heart
It's absurd people demand others to smile though. 😑
Very common experience that men demand that women smile, so men don't feel threatened. Too bad! We don't owe you a smile and you shouldn't expect one.
He’s raising his voice and trying so hard to state his opinions or plans as immovable facts. She replies back so calmly and rationally and is unaffected by his anger; it so beautifully takes the wind out if his sails.
It really does. I was in an abusive marriage and he would always yell and scream, call me outside my name and he loved to tower over me. One day somethingnin me just snapped and I stopped defending myself and yelling and screaming back and just stayed calm. The calmer I stayed the more aggressive and violent he got. It infuriated him that he knew what buttons to push and the buttons stopped working. Happily divorced
@@TashiaLevier I am so glad you are safer now and were able to get away from him! I hope this separate chapter in your life brings you so much joy ❤️❤️❤️
But that's because she's coded autistic tbh 😂 I've read that book, and she's really coded autistic. Everything she does is considered extremely intolerable according to the times she was living in...
Like, she has a baby out of wedlock and the gentleman who's the father of the baby dies even before she gives birth to the baby.... Insane for the time.
I feel slightly bad about saying this after some asshole tried to make a martyr of him, but this is exactly what Trump does and how we should respond to him.
(Haven't seen the show properly - no TV or broadband - but all the clips on TH-cam and the write ups elsewhere keep me coming back)
When my mum got sick, i quit my job to help care for her and the house chores. Chores including stuff she used to do for my family. I found myself having utmost respect for housewives. Never assume working in the office is longer than housework.
Precisely
@@MrBrad1608
It really isn’t.
@@MrBrad1608 House work is much more then cleaning the house. Especially if there are children. Then you cant do things as you say. I assure you.
@@laborincana4490yeah ...why all these people here are assuming house work is just about cleaning?
some people found the house work easy and some found it hard. It depends on the person and how he or she feels about that. Let's not judge others based on that. One more thing is that house work doesn't increase the cash flow.
God when she cut him off and said “He knows what I’m saying because I’m saying it.” It made me SO HAPPY ugh, i will be using that
Yeah, it make us sit straighter all of a sudden. haha
SAME
That’s such a stupid view on women hood.
Look smiling doesn’t make you less of a women.
It’s like smashing a glass window in the steeet and pretending it’s the glass ceiling.
Educational show had host smiling and laughing because it made them likeable
Or do everyone remember how peoples were saying Steve the crocodile hunter was such a loser for smiling. Just like the brother craft and and bill bye. And Neil de grass Tyson is seen as such a loser for laughing
@dumbidea1007 not you missing the point. Of course there's nothing wrong with smiling. There's *_everything_* wrong with being forced to do something you don't want to do simply because it's expected of you. Especially when the person making demands of you is so aggressive and threatening about it.
@@elektraeriseros you are missing the context it’s not a demand it’s an order from her boss.
Now if he was a random or it was any other job she might have a point here it’s about a show so the guy is perfectly correct to say that.
My rant about Steve Erwin and other educational actor was to explain she was just being a contrarian for no real reason
She want special treatment not the same treatment.
I had a boss just like this guy in the late 90s. I was in my early/mid 20s & was his exec secretary. Once he walked briskly by my office to a meeting & whistled at me & said, "Make me a coffee & bring it to me in the meeting."
I did the thing & I realized he was trying to flex in front of the other execs. Later that day i walked into his office leaving his door open & said, "I'm not a dog & you will not whistle at me like that. If you want me to make you a coffee you will ask nicely & if i have time I might do it for you. However, I'm an exec secretary & was hired to do XYZ, not make your coffee. If you do anything like what you did earlier again I will quit."
Boss dude was completely gobsmacked. The look on his face was priceless was well worth speaking up. It's been over 30yrs & i still remember it.
**Edited to add - I find it telling so many folks have no problem with a boss/supervisor/authority figure dehumanizing a subordinate. Equally telling is not believing a person would stand up to such treatment. “If you want a picture of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face-for ever.”
you are the coolest person ever, new. role model acquired
Maybe you’ve been lucky. Had he been a total jerk asshole, he would’ve made you quit….. this kind of bald talk is as necessary as risky. But kudos to you for speaking up for yourself.
Would have made me quit? Since I was already willing to walk over it he wouldn't have made me do anything.
So what job did you find the next day when you were unemployed? rightfully took a stance to gain that unemployment but still…
Came back to the same job & finished out the contract.
The calmness in her voice said it all...
Yes, it showed that TV writers keep manufacturing moments of feminist victory, even though anyone with an ounce of common sense could have told her how dumb her statement was.
When someone asks me to smile I tell them “say something funny”. Hasn’t happened yet.
Still waiting lol hahaha
@@NumberOneJournal It could happen one day, never say never, hahaha!
Lol I usually just stare at them. Make the situation uncomfortable for them.
I find sad how I was once told to smile by a female manager. I wish I would've said something smart like this and quit the next day. Learned that lesson.
Or just immediately started laughing at their face
Why don't YOU MAKE THE FUCKING DRINK 🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯 I AM OFFICIALLY WATCHING THIS SHOW AS SOON AS I GET HOME
get the pop corn
READ THE BOOK TOO! It’s awesome!
FR that's the phrase that made me watch it 😂😂
And you will most probably ruin your marriage "learning" how you should not prepare your man a drink. What a stupid world.
@@Dandan-tg6tj well that ain’t her man. It’s her sexually aggressive boss so there’s that….”what a stupid world”
I'm now 80yo. This has been MY battle, my LIFE!
And the battle is by no means over.
Being disrespected, dismissed, discounted, categorized as useless - because of gender (or race, or religion, or any other stupid reason)
- is ABUSE!
It is also ABSURD!
There's no REAL benefit to the human race. There's not even a REAL benefit to the tyrants who demand it. Just ego.
Hugs and much respect to you!!
@@phoebesmith9089 Thanks
👍🤘🖖
Yes ma'am! I hope we do you proud and lay down a better future for our daughters and sons.
I'm so sorry! We women need to stick together to make sure the vicious circle stops once and forever
I'm currently reading the book and she was PERFECTLY cast for this role, couldn't have been anyone else
yep shes very unlikable.
@@island97To Little Boys like you and the Boss shown here, yes, She is very "unlikeable".
@@island97 There are plenty of women cheering and identifying with her. She's only unlikable to ppl living in an anachronistic fantasy.
@@island97 she's VERY likable, on the other hand though, YOU aren't
@@biriyanipot shes one of the most hated actress 😂 😂😂.
I love how soft her voice is and how hard her words are
Script writers and directors told her to present that way. She's just an Actress, taking direction from the directors, who tend to be male.
I thought the same, I’ve never seen this movie but I was hoping she’d ask him why he’s so emotional, is it that time of the month, and you sir, should smile more 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Lynn-vy9xr But if he's her BOSS, she'll be out on the Streets for being cheeky to her BOSS and back chatting him ??
I'd rather SMILE and be PLEASANT AT work than have to li ck his Peeepeee..... Yes?
@@morticiagSour grapes .. lol
@@thinktankcritic5267 Are you saying that Stating a FACT based in REALITY is just "Sour Grapes"?? 😅
I think you don't understand the Meaning of that metaphor ?
That has been my life until recently. I was a housewife for three decades. Then I threw his ass out six years ago, went to school and became a truck driver. I now make more money than he does. He is angry I don't need him and does his best to turn the kids against me. In the end this war he is waging will be won by me living well. The kids can always make their apologies. He can stay in the shit hole he has found himself in. I am tired of being disrespectful and made to work 18 to 20 hour days for no pay like some slave. Now I work 10 hours, do much less and get paid more than twice what he gets.
Good luck for the future!
You are awesome.
I am working towards what I call my freedom and peaceful life, it hasn’t been easy but stories like yours give me the strength to keep going! 🫶🏻
PERIODT. Men want the power and upper hand. They don't love their wives or kids most of the time
Good for you!
“Why do you assume that his day was longer than hers? Why don’t YOU make the f**king drink?”
God she’s iconic😂
Demolishes something that doesn't exist, she sure is powerful
Might be that men on average work longer hours than women?
@@TheproclaimedThere's always one, dickhead that is, and on this occasion it's you 😂
@@TheproclaimedA woman's day is usually longer than a man's because she always has things to do at home. It doesn't stop. There is always something else that she has to do.
@@alizahalon Yeah whereas guys get home and do nothing. It's not the 50s 🙄
I shared an office with a marine Lt. Colonel and Navy Captain. I was their Yeoman and I would see them in the coffee room once in a while and neither one ever ordered me to get them coffee. They were the nicest men I have ever worked for, total respect for both of them.
Lights in the darkness. There is hope.
That’s the bare minimum and if we congratulate us with that small amount of humanity from men then it’s a total mess… because women never get congrats for making their own fucking coffee… so those guys where standard human beings not sunshines with legs.
Just that..... being treated with respect shouldn't warrant excessive praise but rather be completely and mutually normal. 😣 But hey, I get it. In tge currently reality the bar is indeed that low!
When I was going through a divorce, in a very dark time.. I did not want to smile. The rumors that began to spread about me were.. That I was a dark witch. Hilarious. I can't make it up. No, I just didn't want to smile. Not casting spells in my free time.
Gotta be honest... As soon as I realized that is what was being said I'd have feef the stupidity. You may not have been casting spells in your free time but I'd have built a spell book in mine. I'd have made sure they found my Grimoir. It would have had a big f*ck you on the last page😂
OMG. That's wild. They really bought you a one way ticket to Salem didn't they 😂
Shoulda started 😉😂
You could always try that too 🧙
Let’s not forget how men burned alive women they call witches .
I think it speaks volumes that he had to raise his voice and she stayed level headed
Edit: yall I know it's a fake show and it's scripted geez.
But I'm sure the man standing and yelling and swearing thinks the calm, seated lady is the one who is overreacting.
Men are so emotional.
If a woman raises her voice or shows emotion during a debate, she gets labeled "hysterical/exciteable/too emotional" much like people of colour get smacked with the "angry black man/angry black woman/fiery Latinx" label if they dare to respond with anything more than perfect calm. Hell, even poor and/or blue collar rural white people aren't immune from being branded with "angry redneck hillbilly" in these situations.
It's possibly because they're the ones still mostly in charge of society, but it seems only white affluent men in suits and ties are allowed to show any emotion whatsoever without worrying about their entire argument being invalidated because of it.
Raise youre worda not youre voice
The thing is, for her to be taken seriously, she HAD to stay calm. Otherwise, she will perceived as being hysteric, emotional, and/or hormonal. And be dismissed because of that.
Make your own effing drink Dwight
Hahaha you tell him
@@NumberOneJournal isn't that her BOSS?? Why didn't you give us the CONTEXT of this Clip though ?
Hes only assistant regional manager to be fair
@@mylifeunfolded Still superior to her on the corporate ladder.
My husband was told to shave off his beard ..... He lost a couple of job opportunities because he had a beard ..
Wouldn't that also considered to be
Se xist ?
@@morticiag woooosh
it was never about gender or intelligence or smiling; it is a power struggle for control. By hook or by crook. They don’t want to respect you if they can gain more by pinning you down. It’s the same idea that perpetuates indentured servitude, racism, classism, etc
That's the truth
THIS!!! ❤☝️ This is STILL what all the ills and much suffering of civilisation are caused by.
Truth has been told❤
My husband works construction in Alaskas winter none the less. He pulled a 9 hour day yesterday, I, a stay at home mom of 2 rearranged three bedrooms. Moved our bedroom from upstairs to downstairs (king bed/bed frame moved them by myself downstairs) then I moved my sons room into our room and transformed his old room into a play room made my husbands and mine room into a bed/office. He got home somehow knowing I did something to the house because his ass walked through the front door and just started looking and he looked at me and said is there anything I can do for YOU? Like what? You just worked 9 hours outside in the cold and you want to do something for me? Marriage is a partnership where both people do the work. Sure I make dinner but on the days I am so tired or not feeling well or I have no energy to do anything my husbands steps up and helps.
A healthy relationship 🙌
This is so good 👍
That is why my love and I have been together for 44 years. We are partners both of us give whatever 100% is each day…..that full measure may be different each day but that is true for both of us.
I too have a good marriage. But I also know that many of my friends do not.
Believe it or not, there are men who would walk in, not notice a single thing you did, assume you've done nothing all day because the house is clean and that is the way it was when he left.
He would expect you to serve him dinner and to sit watching TV because HE worked hard all day while you sat around eating chocolates and watching TV.
And all of this is still expected if she works outside the home and makes more money than him.
We are lucky to have good marriages with wonderful men.
But we must remember, just because we have good ones doesn't mean that the majority of people have good marriages.
Marriage is about teamwork. One person doing everything with no days off only builds resentment.
My neighbor once told me that I had to "dumb myself down to get a man, because I would scare them off if I didn't."
I almost lost it on him, I'm honestly surprised that I didn't.
Honestly, if your ego is so fragile that you're intimidated by my intelligence, then I don't need your drama.
Sounds like your neighbor was insecure AF
It’s how men are. Men’s egos are fragile. I think it’s natural. That’s why they have a need to gain value and be respected for it. It’s unhealthy to want praise and recognition and respect when you’re no one or have done nothing worth a crap.
Best dating advice I was given. Try to scare them off. Speak your truth. Be you, worts and all. The one that stays is the keeper. Married 20+ years. Still in love.
Your neighbor is an idiot. 😂😂😂 I love how some people think a woman must have a man to be a complete human being.
My neighbor says that to me. "Well that is a man that I would not want for myself. I rather scare those men and actually finding a good one"
I was struck by how much more shocking it was to hear her repeat, "why don't you make the fucking drunk." Even as an ANGRY woman, there's still something in me that clutches it's pearls at the fact of my anger, and the anger I see in this.
Drunk?
She didn't seem angry, she seemed straightforward to me.
Hell hath no wrath like a woman scorned 💫
@@Deltoren1 *drink
As a kid we always knew when our shenanigans pushed our mom to far when she swore. “Get out of that fucking tree and stop throwing those fucking apples at your fucking brother” will always reverberate in my mind.
I walked out, for four days, when my husband was on a long weekend holiday (vacation to americans, paid for too). I didn't prepare anything in advance, like making sure there were supplies in the freezer, or that all the laundry was done. Just picked up my bags and on the thursday evening. What I left my husband was a detailed list of what he would need to do for the next four days. Times to wake up, times to make up lunch boxes, what chores needed doing (especially getting the kids school uniforms and sports gear ready for monday morning).
He made it to Friday, before he phoned me demanding where the spare bedding was (airing cupboard obviously). Then the disasters started, he didn't know how to plait my daughters hair, couldn't find my sons football boots (soccer). A smashed glass bowl, an ice cream dropped on the carpet.
For every question or text, my reply was, "it's easy looking after kids, you said it was, shouldn't you be sitting on the sofa wathing day time tv eating chocolate."
Yes, he never demeaned a housewife ever again, but his 1950's mindset was starting to affect my son, and I was fed up ofvtge arguements, andcwe divorced.
Wow. You left a detailed list of instructions and he STILL couldn't do it?? Sounds about right...😂
Wonder if he found a wife that wouldn't walk out
@@tarawaukeri8928you mean another mother to wipe his ass? Lol
I wouldn't have left instructions. He's a grown up. And it's his kids/home/responsibilities too. Etc. Glad you got out. They're supposed to be partners. Not another child that needs to be taken care of 24/7.
I suspect you had an unhealthy marriage to begin with and you're at least half the problem as to why your marriage failed.
The saying is; A man's work is sun to sun, but a woman's work is never done.
Too bad not too many men believe that.
@@MoniqueChenard-e2tEven as they relax on the couch while wifey is running around, picking up, tending to children, bathing them, getting up in the middle of the night. It's mind boggling.
Ikr
@@73cidaliaikr
@@73cidaliayou can do better. Add in the fact that the wife has a 9 to 5 job. 😊
My old useless boss told me to smile more because he said I was walking around all depressed...
I told him it was his treatment of me that was depressing me and if he would shut up and go away it would cheer me up....
"why don't you make the effing drink?" in other words! 🙂😎
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
A boss like that should watch out for himself.
I told my boss that comment and other comments he made towards me made me uncomfortable...I was eventually fired 🫠
And then you woke up 😂
Oof. “Just be pleasant” “why aren’t you smiling?” Things I have heard my entire life. Like a woman’s duty is to just sit and smile, have no opinions
My colleagues (Job environment mostly men) always said "Why dont you smile a little, you look so sad". I always answer "My face grew like this"
Wow 😳 that must be so annoying
And it’s always the old potato looking guys that ask women to smile… Like I would smile more, if I didn’t see their face to begin with
Don't worry, you are training men to not give a crap if women are happy or not. Congratulations, you will come to hate your success.
@@jeptoungrit9000 the way men hate their success for making many women don't give a crap if they're happy or not?
I was so enthralled by her that I didn’t even realize that’s Dwight
My maternal grandmother was supposed to be a housewife, in theory. But her husband was bipolar at a time when treatment for it was very limited. She had to take care of herself, 4 kids, and the household, but she couldn’t be sure of my granddad’s income. He might have a manic episode and spend it all on some crazy hiking trip. So she got a job once her kids were in school, even though she had only graduated high school.
We didn’t realize the extent of her struggles until after she passed a couple of years ago and my mom has been settling the estate.
That is really awesome though, that your grandmother believe so strongly in family and taking care of her husband and her children. I wish more people were committed to each other like that.
Y'know, when you're in the thick of it, you do what you need to do to make it work.
I appreciate your position but I think it still needs to be acknowledged when someone does what they need to do to make it work. My mom was working two and three jobs for a lot of my childhood after my dad walked out. She deserves praise for that, this person’s grandma deserves praise for her efforts, and everyone else who does what they need to do also deserves praise. It’s HARD and it would be so much easier to give up but they didn’t do that, they kept going. I’m proud of my mom and everyone else who keeps going.
@@TheiaofMeridor Of course! I think I was responding mostly to marliokono6292's comment of commitment. I didn't mean to sound like a downer or dismissive of their effort. I think I was coming from a pragmatic perspective, in that those in that position probably did not think themselves a hero, but they certainly had achievements of which to be proud.
Thankfully not all men are like this. My dad worked outside the home, and my mom stayed home with all the kids and did all the "mom" stuff. But, he treated her very well, never bossed her around, and he expected us children to respect and listen to her. They loved each other and it was evident. I grew up thinking that was the normal way that married couples interacted, until I got alittle older and saw my friend's families. We didn't have alot of money, but we were blessed!
This is how our life was. My daughter informed me that other couples were not like us at all. She would go over and visit her friends and sometimes spend the night. Kids see everything, u can't fool them. ❤❤❤
This was beautiful to read! You are blessed and you deserve it ❤
This reminds me of the old saying how many words have the word men in them IE mental, Menace, wo - m e n which is why I spell the word w y m y n and there are quite a few other words if you get the drift!
@@annefischer1433 mentor, amendment, instrument, compliment
So true !! Men still say this to women, you need to smile could you believe it!!
Ohh NOW i understand why the incels were saying Brie Larson isn't pretty a while back. I was kinda confused but didnt have energy to research
I was denied a raise after being repeatedly congratulated for excellent work with the excuse that I didn't smile enough. That was in 2017. No doubt the same thing would happen today.
That's wild 😳
That's illegal. If it happens again, get a lawyer!
I had an evaluation in 1990 something, 96 I think, that I got down graded because I didn’t smile enough. I’m sorry, if I haven’t gotten anything to smile about, I’m not walking around with some deranged crocodile grin on my face
Can you sue?
I’m guessing that you’re very analytical if you’re creating excellent work.
Perhaps you need a gratitude journal to help you see all the good things going on in your life? Meditation helps too.
I was always so grateful that I don’t live on a rock, looking for food that doesn’t exist there, waiting for somebody to drop some thing so that I can survive. That doesn’t necessarily mean that I would smile more, I’m a first born, and I certainly have too much on my shoulders.
I do hope you find something to smile about. Take care of yourself. Perhaps having more friends who are willing to listen to your heartaches, would help you lighten your burden? In longevity studies, these people live the longest, those who have community that they can rely on.
“He knows what I’m saying because I’m saying it” 😂😂😂🔥
The fact that she kept her cool and he was the one losing speaks volumes about how society thought about women at the time (and somewhat still do).
Acting
@@jody8526937Yes, but that in no way invalidates the point the show is making.
I roll my eyes when men accuse women of being emotional in an argument--many times when they're the only one yelling. And when you say something like "why don't we revisit this conversation after you've pulled yourself together" he loses his f-ing mind. I suspect the feeling is kind of similar to when a man tells a woman to "calm down." The difference is that the men who expect women to actually do what they're told are exasperated when women don't. This kind of man can't handle having the same treatment turned back on them. This is probably why I'm an ex-wife, but that divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me. A lot of men these days say that women are having too much sex and that they're having to compete against taller and/or richer guys, or bad guys. These men will continue to fail to find a partner who cares about them as long as they are so insecure in themselves that they're incapable of giving what they want/expect to receive. Sure, women like sex as much as men but our sex life is no longer tied to our dependence on support from men. Women are looking for a partner that adds value to her life and doesn't disrupt her peace. Women have never liked being unpaid servants and f toys. Marriage didn't even work quite like that back in the day these tradguys want to fantasize about. Even in the 50's most men wouldn't even dream about asking someone to marry them if they didn't have a means to support them, and they didn't want a woman who was too short-sighted than to look for someone who would and could support their family. Now these men want the subjugation women used to accept for the sake of having support AND at the same time want women who don't care whether these guys bring anything to the family table. I really don't understand the hostility these days, but I have noticed that the more independent and successful women are, the more invested *some * men are in this delusional fantasy that says women like being disenfranchised, demeaned, devalued, and dismissed. I've noticed that young men, Millennials and GenZ, are much more likely to give women the care and credit they want for themselves. So even with this social temper tantrum we've been seeing, I still have hope for the future.
@@jody8526937Tell us you don't understand what it's like to be treated like you are only good enough to make a man's drink without telling us you don't understand what it's like to be treated like you are only good enough to make a man's drink.
Lessons in Chemistry is FANTASTIC!
Had a coworker come up to me at my desk and tell me to smile. I looked at him told him I will not, and that if my face offends him so much he should stop looking at it! 😂
Nice one😂
I dont think it's so wrong to say Smile, to someone. Most if them will for a second.😮😢😂❤☮🙏🏻
@susancarolan153 the reason it's wrong to say that is because you never know what someone is going through. You want them to smile because it would please you not because they need to be smiling in that moment. And, if you do say it and she briefly smiles it was to make you shut up and leave her alone. Mind your own business and leave everyone else alone.
Next occasion please ask the man in question if he's too frail to cope without you pretending to be all about him and his wants.
@@susancarolan153Nope it's genuinely always rude unless it's a professional instruction during a photo shoot.
What made you think it's OK to tell ppl what to feel or how to emote for you? Why would you ask for someone to put on a mask. If they felt like smiling they would be without you saying it.
If you want to cheer up a person, you're putting in the damn work to actually cheer them up. If it's crying are you also saying "cry a litte?". I hope not! Emotions are supposed to be expressed genuinely and not out of social pressure.
Particularly as a neurodiverse person I cannot tell you how damn draining such insensitive requests are. Emotions are either effortless and there or they are not. Please be mindful of that. It's not the job of the ppl around you to perform emotionally so you can feel like you're being helpful. You can try to support a person and put in tge work but even then you're expected to back down and sit with the feelings that are there, if it doesn't work.
TV series 'Lessons in Chemistry', as a chemist she worked on a TV cooking show because she wasn't taken seriously as a scientist. Show covers a lot of the changes in society that took place in the 60's... women in the work force, civil rights and surviving as a single mom.
At 60, I was there i the 1960s with a single mother. In the 1970s women gained the right to have their own credit cards. The change is still occurring. It was only in the 1990s that every state recognized that a husband didn't have the right to beat his wife. The overt discrimination has mostly gone underground, but make no mistake, it hasn't disappeared. In the last few years, retailers and male waitstaff have begun calling me "miss" again. It's openly offensive, wrapped in imaginary manners. We are moving backward.
@@nuplanner5345doubt that you'd want to be called Mr?
And here's to Rosa❤
Lol! You've got issues!
@nuplanner5345 lf you are not of the age to be referred to as a Miss then Madam like the French.
The amount of times women are told to smile throughout their life.. I don't think men will ever actually understand how enraging it is.
You better believe, if I wasn't in a bad mood before that, I am after. Rise up ladies, respond in kind. "My aggressive yeast infection is flaring really horribly." "Dealing with a heavy period. It's just flowing like Niagara." "I stabbed my husband, and now the cops are onto me." Deadpan.
@@DangerHob my fave is "Currently paying homage to the blood gods, are you offering to be part of it?"
I wish I could like this comment 10x
Maybe they would stop... if you smiled more ? Ever try that ?
@@thevinceroboh you want to get🥊🥊 😡
,,just because you say something loud doesn't mean you're right!"
Dude got so mad over basic logic and her not giving in to his abuse
Isn't that her BOSS though ?
Lmao he has no right to violate her . She does her fucking job. That's all he is entitled to from her@@morticiag
@@nobitanobi3475 If you call that viola'ting , then you are more sheltered than you care to admit ?
Have you watched any po'rn lately?
There, you will see females being vio'lated with their own consent.....
@@nobitanobi3475 violate her? Bro.
Yup, had this convo with my ex-husband often. I said ex 🏆🏅🙌
You did right 👍
When you actually look at many of the grievances between men and women, such as being a stay at home mom and a working husband, it’s not necessarily a gender issue, but a power issue. When you look at stay at home husbands who are discontent with the way their wives treat them, it is eerily similar to the reverse.
Sexism is systematic and ironically not entirely bound to gender. Aka traditionally feminine work and traits in ppl get shamed and it doesn't matter what gender they are.
That said: I can't say I observe the dynamic as being the same. I see more often how stay-at-home dads get resentful and struggle with depression due to their low self-worth and harassment by their own peers over working as full-time parent or homemaker. I also see his in male full-time stay-at home men who are not homemaker, though, but still dump all of that on their working female partner.
Which is not to say that there aren't lovely full-time dads suffering from sexism via their female working partners. They absolutely are real. Just to my current observation that's not such a common dynamic within the group of these couples.
Precisely.
I highly recommend reading “Lessons in Chemistry”, the novel by author Bonnie Garmus upon which this tv series is based. Fantastic story. 😊
Mansplaining is so real. My (ex) bf once tried mansplaining business to me. He's a physicist. I have an MBA.
As a physicist I have to admit that we think we can explain anything to anyone. So it might be a physicist thing more than a man thing 😅
Nah I’m a lawyer and I’ve had men who are not lawyers try to explain the law and legal system to me 🤷🏼♀️ but my husband introduces me to people “my wife is smarter than me.” I don’t think I’m smarter… I think we’re smart in different ways! But I appreciate my husband values my intelligence.
@@lorddd1753A MBA is a MBA honey. Still shows that she achieved more than her bf. Good try, trying to downplay her achievement by saying maybe she has a MBA in arts. GTFO keyboard warrior.
@@lorddd1753 I have an AA in arts... but my husband in IT also doesn't try to explain art to me.
@@lorddd1753A Masters in Business Administration … in arts? 🤔
Can we just agree people.who work and people who do housework including childcare are equal in terms of stress? Some days are easier then others, some get breaks others get to stay inside during crappy weather etc both deserve respect.
Agreed
Nice joke there definitely not on the same level even including the past were it took way more effort to clean
@@yayfly7349 Again different circumstances, if the person does the bare minimum then yes either would be easier. Cleaning your house seems easy because you are literally thinking of the bare minimum, for example tidying up yeah if you just did that then yes no where near the same level of effort.
However cleaning every work surface, toilet, deep cleaning the oven etc it quickly racks up.
But this can be done at a job as well, if for example you work in a warehouse, some days you'll be busy lifting heavy equipment all day long but others your simply doing stocktake which requires very little effort to accomplish. Don't be an arse and just say "cleaning is easy" as it basically means either you've never done it or you do bare minimum of cleaning.
@@PlayerNerfed its so unneccarly to clean every surface, its better if your contributing to society as a greater whole and I don't think even with cleaning everything it would take job hours everyday, yes it may take two days to clean everything deeply if you haven't done that ever but after 2 days of work theres barley any dust build up and the like. I think both women and men should be in the workplace but to be fair when having a young child its definitely fair to take a part time job or time off any job for a few years till the child can go to school.
Yeah no not even close but that doesnt mean housework is easy
"Why don't you make the fucking drink?" is music to my ears.... it reminds me of the scene in "Why Women Kill" when the husband taps his mug to demand his wife make him more coffee.
This role proved that Brie Larson is a great actress, if given a good script❤
SHE HAS RECEIVED MANY OF THE INDUSTRY'S HIGHEST AWARDS.
THIS ROLE DEMONSTRATES THAT WHEN SHE CARES TO INVOLVE HERSELF IN THE DEVELOPMENT OF A PROJECT, SHE IS FORCE OF NATURE! NO LIMITS.
Short Term 12 and Room proved that like a decade ago.
I remember my boss telling me to make the coffee.
I don't drink coffee, and I was standing next to my male coworker who was actually holding a cup of coffee.
So why did he ask me instead of him?
There was some strong coffee at that meeting.. 😂
No, make it weak by just putting one scoop. You'll never be asked to make it ever again if you make it weak.
It's not even in your job description.
I was once asked by a male colleague to do printouts before a meeting we'd have together. "Did you run out of other women to ask? I don't work for you, remember". Meanwhile, his male assistant was also at the meeting. He clearly could have asked him instead, since it's literally his job. But nope.
@@lsamoa
If you’re junior it’s your job.
100%.
My husband did one day of what I do. He couldn't keep up. The cherry on top was me waking him up for some snoo-snoo. 😅
LOL
How did you do at your turn to do his day?
@@Rydaxthis is in response to "why do you assume his day was longer than hers?" Nobody is saying that pulling a paycheck is a walk in the park. ( Heads up to guys who use this flawed logic-women work paid jobs now...) But some fools assume that a SAHM sits around gossiping or some dumb nonsense. (See below) That's the only reason it's satisfying to prove those who assume... wrong. Ehat did your comment prove?
@@abost09 I didn't assume or try to prove anything, but you sure did. I asked a genuine question because I was curious if they went one way, then maybe they tried it the other way too.
@@Rydax As women, we do both. Men on the other hand look at taking care of their own children as babysitting/ doing a favor for their wife. Not as part of their job too.
It’s lovely seeing one of Dwight’s ancestors
I was like this at my last job. I refused to smile because I didn't want anyone to get the wrong idea thinking I enjoyed that job or their company.
And did they get rid of you?
@hugolindum7728 They said I was one of their better cashiers. Then quarantine happened, and when they were rehiring after the fact, they said they weren't gonna bring me back because they were reducing their hours of operation and didn't need as many people. They suggested I work at one of their other establishments, which I only did to maintain insurance, but after a few months, they took me off of it cause of the reduced hours. My friend found me a better job after that and I'm much happier.
"You need a smile? You've got a face, use it."
Ooh, I love that one, too. That's going into my collection. Thank you!
“After a long days work” is why I have a dog. Most reliable greeting you’ll ever get😂
The long day at work is the reason we DON'T have a dog. Not another thing to take care of, please haha
@@NumberOneJournalIt’s sad you only think of a dog as another thing to take care of. You have zero understanding of pet ownership and the limitless, judgement free love and joy a dog can bring to a home. Then again not everyone is deserving of own a dog probably including you
@@NumberOneJournal lol I think they meant, that dogs are realible and always happy to see you.
I love that line…. “ why don’t you make the fu?king drink”!
I have stunned a man with this “Wait what do you mean?” “I mean exactly what I’m saying” this was after telling him no second date. No you don’t need an explanation, just except the answer.
Nobody values house work. Yes, it has benefits let’s not deny it. But you are expected to be the servant, which be the house wife is not. In the same way that the bread winner is not a ATM. There is a balance, respect and support that goes both ways. After cleaning the house, taking kids to school, picking them up, several laundries, groceries, cooking and cleaning. Expect you to clean the dishes or put the kids in bed is the absolute minimum.
No one values it until it's not done or until they're responsible for doing it.
Only people who aren't adults don't value housework. :v
Also when you're an adult nothing makes you happier than a new sponge 🧽
Well it’s like that old joke email that circulated, back in the early days of the internet.
When the husband comes home to a perfect house, perfect children, dinner cooked, a drink awaiting him.
He asks his wife what she did all day?
So the next day, the driveway is in a mess, toys all over the place, children terrorising the dog and each other. They look like someone else’s children not his. He can barely find a safe track through all the mess in the house, the kitchen looks like a bomb has hit it. He finds his wife sitting reading a book with a drink in her hand.
He takes her to task and asks what the hell have you been doing all day?
So she smiles and says, “ well you know when you come home and ask me what did I do today? Well today I didn’t do it!……..” she made her point, a woman’s work is never done.
Is it any wonder that the younger generation of women make the men share half the load. If women are expected to work, bear children etc., they don’t take on two jobs as our generation did. Our daughters watched us, their mothers and thought, no DEFINITELY not happening.
@@loristnorton3723 i'd say plenty of adults don't value housework like the man in the clip. he's showing childish anger, but he's an adult.
During the traffic stop. After he went back to his car. He came back and said.. " what happened in your last DMV photo? All the other ones when your smiling are so pretty" .... I flash him my best smile and said "I was dealing with a man" . He gave me the ticket the judge in court ask me why I was fighting it. She dismissed the case
The frail ego of that cop😂
Last time I renewed my license, I was told people are not allowed to smile for ID photos, anymore. It was the same with passport photos, too. You’d think a cop would know that.
@@SimonRiley752 What is something TROLLS say?
Worthy of a movie.
@@christinaluna713that's not the case, you can smile in both. I don't know who told you that, but I'm guessing it has something to do with you.
Never understood telling someone to smile. I see people here who think it means they want you to be happy. Well, no, if they wanted you to be happy they'd delve into why you aren't, or IF you aren't, rather than assume you aren't and order you to smile anyway. It's a very selfish thing to say. They don't want to see you unhappy but it's too much work to make you happy so it's faster to just... order you to be happy.
I remember a dude telling me to smile in college. I was walking into the cafeteria, my mind on my schoolwork, just trying to get some lunch, and a friend of a friend tells me to smile as I pass. I just said, "Don't tell me what to do," and kept going. Would you believe I was later told he was offended? The audacity. I hardly know you, bro. My face is not your business. No one cares if you're offended. Police yourself. No, I certainly did not apologize. He was responsible for his own response. All he did was give me one less presumptuous schmuck to deal with.
Brie is so good. The Glass Castle is one of my favorite films
Your day ends when you get home and mine ends when i go to fucking bed sir, i take care of the house and the kids and YOU (my husband or man of the house, i know its not hers)
So make me the damned drink, so i can go rest before waking up BEFORE YOU to get breakfast ready and everything that needs done in the morning before work
That part. Housework never ends.
It reminds we of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel where her husband had no idea how much work she put into being a housewife. He didn't even know what she looked like without make up because she would put it on and take it off after and before he woke up.
and even when sleeping it truely doesn't end because if kid/pet gets sick guess who is expected to get up.
Please 304. I have my own place and can work 10 hour days and still have time for the gym. 4 meals a day and cleaning. I swear you idiots over inflate everything to make it out as if life is so hars doing the bare minimum.
Why do you assume his day was longer than hers? - this hit me to the core. When I had survived breast cancer my ex husband cheated and left me and our 2 sons. He blamed me for the marriage falling apart. 12 years later I am cancer free and free of him. My sons recently started an ecommerce company and Ive been working as a freelancer. Somehow life became easier without him. After I got better, I supported my kids financially AND did housework and somehow I never felt like I had a 'long day'. I have raised my sons to be strong and independent and I'm glad they don't have my ex as a role model. Men think just because they go to work, they have it worse than women. Guess what, I've been on both sides of the coin(going to work and being a housewife and mum). Men have it easier. Only a few of them have it harder and much respect to them.
We could not have put it better. Thanks for sharing.
I’m glad you’re healthy now
you generalize because your man was shit doesn't mean everyone else is
Men will alway love to gaslight people and make themselve the victim.
Also they sure as heck don't get left when severely ill (unless they're dangerous due to it) even remotely as often as women are. And research backs this very sad fact.
I'm glad you're in a better place now. Parenting is definitely the hardest work out there. It's 24/7, requires a mad range of skill sets (especially nowadays when there's no 'village'), comes with emergencies that can be freaking scary and all that happens with barely any break, particularly for single parents. All of that while severely ill? And then working, too?
Society is so not OK and I'm terribly sorry you had to go through this, even if you aced!
"He knows what I'm saying because I'm saying it."
*Testify, queen! Testify!*
Lately my partner has been, 'ding ding' his Ash tray. Holding his glass up to me and doesn't even bother to go down stairs to answer thr door ( we live in a flat/apartment) and even refuses to answer the phone because he works all days and I don't. Refuses to help me in any way, expects me to find clothes and doesn't hug me, thank me or bother getting off his phone and he finds it funny. Its only in the last few yrs he's been doing this and I'm trying to find ways to stand up to him. If I don't ill let EVERYONE walk over me. Sadly it's damaged my confidence and I know kicking him out is the best choice but even that get complicated when you don't have the guts to do it...And when I have told him too, he just laughs...what am I doing wrong?
Would you be fine if, god forbid, your daughter ever goes through this? And if she says that she's trying to find ways to stand up for herself and have the guts for it, would you not be furious? You need to let him know how he makes you feel the second he treats you like a servant. When he tries to laugh it off, don't let him, because you're not a joke whose miseries are supposed to be laughed at!
😊😊😊thank you. Words like this, help me to grow and find ways to stand up. Thank you, again, truly. ❤ That's really perked me up and given me a huge smile
You are doing nothing wrong except not giving yourself enough credit. Value yourself higher than this. You can. You just can.
If you won't/ can't leave yourself, then may I suggest petty maliciousness to get the point across? Worst case, he leaves and the trash takes itself out. When he taps his glass, don't do more than slow blink or raise an eyebrow. Don't do any of the things he should be doing. And the less he appreciates you, the less you do. Wash everyone's laundry but his. Cook everyone food but him. Don't wash his dishes. Don't pick up after him. Make you coffee, even if you've gotta do it several times so there's just enough for one. Your day starts when his does, and ends when his does. There is no overtime. If it doesn't get done in your regular business hours, it doesn't get done. What he gonna do? Get mad about it? And? That sounds like a him problem. When he's ready to be partners again, yall can have an adult conversation about it. But you gotta make your point first
@amandamcclure2271 This really made me stop and think, I hope you don't mind, but I took a screenshot of your comment, so I can go back and re-read your words. He a thing this evening. For 3 hrs I've been re-potting my plants, making a mess and clearing up. By 9pm he wanted dinner and I just looked at him. 3 hrs to get up off his arse and make his own damn food. I made it, only be'coz I nearly threw the frozen potato at him😅 but I haven't spoke to him since, he's noticing. So reading your comments has given me a bit of arse kicking. To all of you, thank you for taking the time to comment. I truly appreciate each of them and you give me ways to try out. Not just on my partner but in general. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loved loved loved this show. A woman doing it for herself. Being true to herself no matter what. What an amazing role model.
I remember a customer telling me to smile at work but I had some personal issues at the time and gave a little one and that asshole wrote an entire bad review because I didn’t smile as soon as he approached. Not everything’s about you
You obviously don’t know what “customers” are - they’re the people who pay your bills.
@@hugolindum7728 customers need to learn to treat people as people. You can ask someone to smile without being rude and you don’t need to leave a bad review just because a cashier didn’t smile as soon as you stepped up.
Actually, at work everything is about a customer.
This is a great series and the trailers don’t do it justice. It’s about many things but primarily love and perseverance through tragedy.
100% tho we find ourselves wanting for more insight into her come up as a tv personality. at times the show feels like it touches up on many topics without fully exploring them
It's a series??? Oh hell yeah!!!
You should read the book.
It's incredible.
The relationship between her and her partner was lovely. It was just so full of love and hope. And I love the dog. ❤
What's name of series?
Stewart, Dwight and Captain Marvel walked into an office..
😂 I love this show. She stays herself no matter what. Foe anyone asking its the show Lessons in Chemistry
As in the Book called - Lessons in Chemistry?? Holy cow, now I have GOT to read the book!! And watch the Show if I can find it!!!
Thank you
yes a complete bitch the entire show.. no character development at all... a role made for brie larson who cant act for shit
As a retail photographer I asked people to smile over 500 times a day. The amount of times I heard people ask why or say they don’t want to or qoute some movie line was staggering. Each one of them thought they were original, none of them were lol.
People would say “Can’t take a picture im in witness protection” or “I’ll break your camera” and stuff like that.
I couldn’t of cared less if I had tried. It got to the point where if one person in a group of twelve said “i don’t want a photo” but everyone else was smiling I’d just step away from the camera and say “No problem, no pbligation, keep going have a great day” and then wave to the next group. Then their family was usually pissed at them but I had to move people through the photo section at a highspeed so the line to the tours wouldn’t back up. So any hesitation I pushed them off and went to the next family.
Cruel? Nah, what’s cruel is having to work in the spot behind the camera from 8am-5pm saying the same exact line over a 1000 times and being told off every twenty times. Hated that job xD
You are actually rude.
@@ranran8934 yes that's not funny. If you take a people facing job you gotta treat people excellently.. what an entitled arsehole.
@@ranran8934 stop standing in the wrong line then
The unfortunate reality is that she probably would have been put in a mental institution for saying that 😭
And I here stupid trying to bring that back again and what we gonna do with all these crazy people. But if you wanna bring one back you need to stay in one for a year then let us know how it works out if you can still talk and function. Inhumane places only because of what they think they can do to people.
@jannoyes6248 What are you talking about?
@@heyhey439They're talking about how mental institutions of yonder years were horribly abusive and left patients worse off- and also how people nowadays are trying to recreate mental institutions to deal with the significant increase in mental health issues.
@@hauntedshadowslegacy2826perfectly explained, thank you
It’s funny how you believe the things folk say about our ancestors. You have no idea what it was really like back then. The movies aren’t real. They don’t tell a history lesson, they train your mind to think what they want you to think.
Good ole typical Bree Larson always so likable
She keeps her eyes wide open while reading him for filth!! THEN she blinks!😂 Do perfect… blinking as punctuation! LOVE her for this… great writing can only do so much. You need great actors!
I don't understand why people, especially women, get told to "smile more". Why would you smile if there's no reason to? I think we all have enough brain cells to not take it personally when a stranger, like the cashier or some random person, doesn't smile. I just... huh?
because men love the delusion of women made happy by men and happy to see men. women in general look prettier when they smile and men think they're entitled to that beauty.
@@kinetic-cybernetic Could be country specific, cause from my experience in mostly western countries, men don't get told to smile more. Problem also is that it's associated with catcalling, where some stranger tells you to give them a smile. It's disgusting.
watch the movie then say that.. she is in the wrong here and being a selfish cow
@@matthewoppp6881 Hence why I wasn't talking about the movie, mate.
@@strawberryfox8819 .... you did though lol
I come from a family where mysogyny is very visible n prominent.. Yet my dad some how managed to beckme the nearly pefrect husband to my mom. I say nearly coz in the beginning he was very different. Expected mom to do everything, never helped etc.. But after i was born thing startes to slowly change...when my got hospitalized due to typhoid thats when the big change happened.. He realized how much effort it takes to look after 2 kids n manage a hoyse hold.. He used helpy grandma too, dont get me wrong.. He knows how to cook n clean froma very young age... But managing an entire household was something he had never done.... Since then he always helps my mom out whenever he is available n tskes time out to "deep clean" the house whenever she asks to.. He likes to cook, so often he is in the kitchen with my mom after he gets home..
So hopeful to see that people can change. Love this story. Thank you for sharing.
I would question the use of the word "help" in a household where your father was an adult. How about "stepping up and being equally responsible as the other adult in the household". But otherwise, happy to read that he learned.
@@kathydurow6814 by help, I meant that mom was the one who was doing majority of the chores,so to me as a kid him doing household chores looked like help as I had never seen any adult male do any of those things in my family.. Like a said it was never expected of the men to do household chores... My dad always made sure to keep his desk n wardrobe sorted, he never left his stuff lying around like most men!/boys in certain families do. He always made sure to reduce mom's work.. He even ask me n my brother to be diligent in cleaning our stuff n being organised...my mom married young n they hv a 10 year age gap... She basically learned everything from him.. He treats her very well...
I LOVED THIS BOOK - couldn’t put it down!
“I ain’t gon’ smile if I don’t want too” Paramore: rose colored boy
But if your Boss tells you to Smile, then you do it.
I've seen women who are willing to suk D for 2 minutes of fame, surely smiling when your boss asks you to is not hard?
Brie vs. Rainn. It was the showdown I never knew I needed. ❤
In italian there is a saying alza il sederino e servi il padroncino, which translates to stand up on your own and serve yourselve (as your little master). You have the abilities to do things and don't need a server so don't ask for something if you aren't incapable to do something.
I paid a contractor to work on my house, I was in my office working, and the (older male) site manager walked in and said 'smile!' and I gave him the most deadpan look. I don't have to 'smile' it's MY HOUSE and I employ YOU.
How rude of you.
@@hugolindum7728how boring of you.
"Dance for me wage slave. Oh, you dont like being dehumanized? Me neither."
I agree with her 1000 %
That she be a complete bitch? for no reason.. if you watch this scene in the movie she is completely in the wrong.
This show is so underrated, it deserves more viewers
What is this show, please?
@@joannevieira5757 Lessons In Chemistry is the show
That’s the real Brie Larson, she doesn’t ned to play that’s how she is…
I hope we're seeing that as a good thing then, hehe
Brie Larson has never lived in a time where women are expected to sit and listen.
And then the guy should be like your fired haha bye
@@JohnBLZI think she meant the dry delivery style of her personality. Duh.
@@JohnBLZtimes really have changed. Men are expected to sit at home and make the fling drink while their wives come home from work.
Play to your strengths, Brie.
Its good she stood up for herself and all the woman in general😊😊😊
Off topic, boss's suit is so well made! The fabric, the fit 🤌
Costume department did their finest!
They did. Probably the best part of the show
the way she stays so calm and collect tho. I would've lost my shit right around "a man wants his wife to" and... idk showed him the Jokers magic trick ✏️ or sum
Brie larson is gift of an actor
"Make your f@cking drink" 😂
He just created a dynamic that requires she never make him a drink. At least until he makes her drinks.
I'm kinda pumped about seeing this because it seems to be the same era as Bletchly Circle and the hardest part of that was watching 4 brilliant women who were full on mathmatical code breakers at one of the most important facilities during the war and...much like Allen Turing also got stupid shafted despite the fact that *victory would not be possible without them*
I wonder how this character became the shimmering spine queen on screen!
In some movies, Brie Larsen gets replaced with a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Those movies are awesome.
Men often compare the chores they do for themselves to the chores done for a family without understanding that when they get married and have children, there is now more than just them in the house.
Lessons in Chemistry was well worth watching.
She sounds like Siri
Her character is quite dry on her delivery throughout the series. It may be part of her quirk. hehe
Hilarious 😂
Hands down one of the best shows I’ve seen in years.
I loved her in this show
me and my mom watched it together in a day during Christmas
What’s the name of the show?
@@nooneisfree8625 lessons in chemistry on Apple TV
I litterally had a boss walk down the corridor, past the kitchen, to the stairs and down to 'make' me get them coffees.
I was on reception alone
I hope you told him you're not a barista.
Sir! Sir! This is NOT a Starbucks.
@@jinjahh the literal FD asked me. So I apologised for how long it took me to get upstairs and leave the front desk.
They did it because they had guests/meeting
@@jinjahh he is her employer. We all get asked or told to do things we don't want within the confines of our employment so long as it does not compromise our physical safety. I've been requested to help in the kitchen by my fellow female workmates even if it technically wasn't part of my role. I was more than happy to help.
@@aftrdrk7263 That is so not the same as being expected to abandon the reception desk to make coffee for adults who can walk, talk, and have working thumbs.
I love Brie Larson❤
saaame
She is awesome ❤