As I have been getting closer to God as a teenager, I completely stand with these opinions. Thank God for touching my heart and leading me to the path of everlasting life.
Hi there, I saw your post and just want to give a bit of encouragement. This journey with God might not be easy at all times. Especially when everyone around is doing otherwise. But trust me, it’s worth it in the end. Do not be deceived. His (God’s) grace is sufficient for us always. (2nd Corinthians 12:9)😊
As a Christian young lady (21), I recently realized that it is even affecting me and how I think of my dressing. Even in the house of God, Christian girls will be dressing less modestly small small. It’s very subtle but everything is shorter, tighter and more open. So now, I’m thinking, especially at my age where I’m meeting people, that guys find you more attractive or that “you look your age” when you dress more open. And I’ve subconsciously been feeling that I need to wear shorter things. I realized this and have to actively correct my mind to avoid normalizing indecency. I stand by modesty and will not go anywhere else.
I love how when you mention nakedness and the value of covering up, its not in respect to “my future husband to see” but actually just self value and self worth
Exactly how my friends mocked me for still being a virgin. They were like “hmmm, I don’t believe in any rubbish sex only after marriage” meanwhile it’s actually just my self value and self worth
The question I always ask is why when people meet dignitaries and people in high places, they cover up? If truly exposing yourself too much isn't a problem, why do so. Aside from that, women who hold position of power in society are always covered up. I wonder why🤔
I support you with my full chest too. I always say that there's dignity in decency. I don't care what you think. You can slay and be decent at the same time. Thank you for this video.
@@lawonyinye7056 self respect and preservation of privacy Respect from others too High standard and value cuz most people with high standard hold decency to high value (there’s this respect ,it’s engraved in everyone cuz it kinda shows how you perceive yourself ) The mystery is there too and boundary 😊 I hope that helped
I enjoyed listening this 💯 It’s refreshing to hear this from someone with a platform (who didn’t care about the cancel culture) who knows the power they have (due to their platform) to impact truth into others. If you talk they call you “Holy Mary”, “Assistant/Deputy Jesus” They ask you, “Who are you to judge?” They tell you, “He without sin cast the first stone” “God is about the inside; not the outside” They forget that if there’s God on the inside it will show on the outside. Something else I love is that you spoke about dressing not from the angle of to please people but to respect yourself. About 13 years ago, I went on holidays to Nigeria and people were surprised that I came from abroad but dressed so simple and modest. I remember having a conversation with a pastor in Nigeria and it come up and I explained to him that even if I was not a Christina I will still dress the way I dress; it’s not just about my faith but about my dignity and self respect. I subscribed ages because I love how funny you are and I’m pleasantly surprised about this very content. I don’t know why I’m only seeing this 5 days later but I glad I saw it today and I look forward to more. I’m addicted the listening to wise words and they were many wise words in this. ❤Summer Aku
Preach sis! We are at a stage whereby we have now normalized indecent dressing. I remember those days when showing your tummy lasan, u nor go fit comot for house cos ur mama go finish u with mouth. But now, parents are now seeing things differently abi na d spirit of Gen z don enter Dem. All in all, body positivity is also key, just do it decently.
This is a great height of maturity. I'm proud of your sense of value and decency. Hilarious, creative, beautiful, resourceful, blunt, fearless........and most importantly godly. God bless the man that has you for a wife. You always have my respect dear sis.
It’s high time we bring shyness back! That’s something that has been bothering me for a while now as a mother of 2 girls and 1 boy. Thank you for addressing it
I was fixing my nail one day and this girl came in practically naked, I was shocked when her friend told her to follow her elsewhere and her response was and I quote "you know say I no wear cloth" I was like oh, so she knows. I feel bad for a lot of girls these days
7:04 using filters can go very wrong. mostly when you get so comfortable with filters that you cannot take a picture or never feel good, without them. So agree.
Please drop this makeup tutorial especially your lip combos 😩❤️❤️❤️couldn’t stop admiring !!!Also yes we should be the change in order to change all these unrealistic expectations
Everything that you said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I’m so happy that you addressed it. The matter gets to me too especially when certain women don’t value themselves at all. Honestly, the first word that comes to mind is “Attention”. Modesty is beautiful. I remember a friend of mine sent me a picture of herself and when I didn’t respond in a matter of time, she actually called me and told me that she knows that I’m not happy with the way she dressed up. You see, I didn’t even say a word but she knew. We can’t follow the trends. There’s nothing wrong with looking nice but there’s a way of doing it. Thank you for sharing 🤗
I don’t usually write comments on any social media platforms, but I’m gladly writing this, cause I got to see a different version of you that’s so like me, and I love it. I was smiling and agreeing throughout. The truth must be said but always in love. Thanks for sharing this one with us
Thank you for using your platform to say this! You started it hot! The nakedness trend, started somewhere and it's getting somewhere crazy. Saw a dress worn by Gabrielle union on an event, her whole butt was out. My respect flew out the window. But in my mind it was - this craziness is what's people's role model. And thank you for everything else you said. I've learned.
Come to think of it, she has a nice body, but she is too old for nakedness .Never was a fan of Gabrielle now. I get it why my spirit never moved about her
You are so FUNNY! 😃 this video was a joy to watch. I resonate with all you talked about, especially dressing, cyber bullying and the newly married. While the current culture of near nakedness is rampant, there's still dignity in dressing modestly. Infact, modest fashion is classy, appealing and respectful of one's own self. I feel like cyber bullying is a result of jealousy and a lack of originality; people just follow trends and don't think for themselves. People are so easily influenced by a negative comment they change their narrative. As someone who's been married almost a decade, I totally agree with your point. The first years can be great, but there's a lot more insight to gain after many more.
I’m glad that there are still quite a number of us ladies who are still embracing Decency and Modesty with our full chests. It doesn't make you any less beautiful. I completely agree with all you said. The takeaway for me is that you can disagree with harming the ego and personality of the person you disagree with.
Quite a number? A majority of women are dressing "decently". Just because influencers are dressing how they want doesn't mean there are just a few decent women around. You aren't special or extinct. Also what you call decent is actually indecent in another person's eye. You wearing wigs in indecent to another person.
I trust you to not have said anything less and I’m super proud of you. The audacity 😊 to add, “Decent dresses even makes you look more classy”, these things can not be overemphasized ❤
That filter point, girl! 1000% agreed with you. For myself, I really avoid using it. I don't want to arrive at a point where I appreciate my filter face more than my real face and create a useless complex 😒
And the annoying part is after the routine they will still use filter To film the results of their 1000 steps body care routine. I stumbled on this video but it’s quite refreshing to find that someone shares these unpopular Opinions and is not afraid to share it. ❤❤
The cyber bullying thing!!! There was a day someone was insulting me on Twitter and at first I was angry but later I became sad for them because it just shows how shallow their mind is. We all need to do better
I saw a post online it was really scary, then I made a comment about JESUS coming soon and bedtime signs and all, 😅 you needed to see the amount of insults I got just for that comment.😅 later I got to understand it was fear speaking through them. They were afraid and in denial. So most times when you get people insulting for what you said, just know that part of them know that what your saying is true, but they don’t want to accept it, being is denial is better to for them than actually accepting the truth😅
The first one, nakedness. Literally I had a old friend ask me why I don't wear scandalous clothes and is it because I'm "insecure". No clue why that was her correlation, but my whole life I have always dressed clothed. I don'r feel I need to show my body, I feel free and confident when I am covered up and there's so many cute pieces as well lol. It hurts me when other women go after other women who don't agree with the nakedness and will call you a "pick me" or "you have internal misogyny".
Some people like showing off their body and that isn't a bad thing, as long as they wear it at the right time and place. But they shouldn't judge others for wanting to be fully clothed as well.
@@nnennaonuorah4601 true, I do think if you NEED to dress like that then you are trying to make up for something, maybe you don't think your face is good enough but if it's something she occasional does to show of her amazing body or if it is more her style then that's fine
@@realdavidjones1623This 🙌👏 I wear modeste clothes because I feel good in them. And I know there are women who do not dress as modestly because they feel great doing that. One way or the other is perfectly fine as long as you yourself is okay. Others are free to disagree...thats on them.
This video earn you my subscription! Sis you've spoken our mind(Christian girls and woman).I love you for been unapologetic for what you stand for.more Grace!
Did anybody notice how the husband came exactly when she was talking about Marriage 😂. I find it very cute 🥰 how the two of you fight abi yarn, abegg no dey edit this kind jare, more of such, makes it very relatable and sweet😊
This lady eehhhh. Your opinions are highly accepted, I love your sense of humour while discussing these topics. About the nudity oh men, it's crazy these days. Instagram streets is even making the pressure wesser, self control and self realisation is all one needs to navigate through. Thanks Maraji ❤
❤❤❤❤❤ so happy to hear these, been feeling isolated when I give this same opinions. The world is going crazy, and those of that think otherwise or are “based” are now the weirdos or extremis. Kudos
😂😂😂😂 The last part got me laughing. My admiration and respect for you tripled while watching this video. God keep you and yours Maraji. Super proud to be a follower ❤❤❤
One thing I've learnt over the years is that nobody can actually say how to keep marriage...humans are different with different behaviors trully you can only speak from experience or other experiences but don't feel like you can predict or give perfect advice..Makes a lot of sense
On one hand, I agree with you because of the perspective you might be coming from. But in all truth, there really are secrets and wisdoms on how to keep a marriage. Marriage is a godly institution, not formed by man, government or society. And just like many others areas of life, if we can only be humble as humans to learn and submit to this wisdom, every marriage can work out fine. But humans are just too self conceited and stubborn to submit to truth, we’re too emotion driven and always want to have control of our lives, hence our constant downfall. It takes following the instructional manual for anything to work successfully, and same goes for marriage. God bless you
You are so right about what you're saying. Some women have even moved to wearing very exposed wedding dresses. Where are we going⁉️ Where are our values as women? Are we not worth anything anymore? Bit I bless God for women who are taking notice and saying"no" to this trend of dressing half naked. Thanks so much for the topic💯👍
The funny thing is some content creators will put a Bible verse at the start of their videos. Only to to find them in Bikinis with their big butt cheeks showing for 1000s of people to watch. It’s like people will do anything to get views on social media. Thank you Maraji. I support all your unpopular opinions with full chest too ❤️
Honestly, I am so joyful listening to you. You really hit the nail rightly. I like the fact that you did this unpopular opinion because people need to know that some of us still know and stand for the truth. God's grace to you Maraji😘
It's rare to find the truth. Now people want to hear what they want. I'm glad I watched this. Now, I have the boldness to continue my talks especially on decency. 🎉😊
Those short clips in-between really made the whole thing funny, most especially the part you mentioned commotion😂😂😂😂😂😂... Women really need to know that they can still look beautiful while maintaining decency. As a woman, dressing indecently doesn't add to your beauty, you are just showing people what is meant to be covered/private...
As a growing Christian I also realized the whole decency thing and it’s honestly not the easiest thing cause I’m an influencer aswell, most of my clothes are like that and I can’t just wake up and buy a new wardrobe, I’d have to take it step by step, 2 pieces here 2 pieces there, and I’m also really scared about changing my “aesthetic” what if it doesn’t look good on me, what if it doesn’t fit me as a person and all that, God is still working on me sha, it’s just not that easy to flip the switch, it’s not an excuse I will still definitely work on my decency it’s just not as easy as you say it
th-cam.com/video/RVHmxsJTH8A/w-d-xo.htmlsi=DHR--8RFZDqPFHhQ perhaps this video can help you in the process Og parley is an influencer too and she talks on how she had to adjust her wardrobe and aesthetic as she found Christ.❤
I agree with everything you said ..........its now I realise why I've been following you for years!!!!!! Thank you Maraji, my motto is always Jennifer love yourself exactly the way God created you, if there's anything within your power to improve, you can improve, if not life moves on. Secondly, be kind to everyone whether they deserve the kindness or not, just be kind.
I’m absolutely in agreement with the modesty opinion . Thank you for being one of those content creators that don’t care to please this liberal society ❤
It’s amazing how I agree with everything you said. I’ve always thought that inexperienced couples shouldn’t share certain advices like it’s one shoe size that fits all. People should share their experiences and leave them as that. Their experiences! Of course, hoping that it may work for some other person. Please, do not give me advices on marriage that you’re only a year in. Well, except I asked you to, of course 😉 Anyway, I give dating advises on my channel. I believe that’s okay because I’m married already. I’ve Been in the dating phase, passed it, and now married and I’ve decided to let ladies know how to not enter marriage that will show them shege 😂 (Nigerian slang for “a hard time”). Keep sharing your opinions, Maraji. We’re fully behind you, mama.
That Nakedness and Christian marriage part is so on point. Every one wants to lecture about marriage and they keep introducing new worldly thing and calling it Christian marriage.
This could not have been more timely for me especially after your third point which was excessive bath routine. I literally thought I was a weirdo earlier today for just using soap and sponge but thankfully someone just had to say that it’s perfectly normal. P.s: I still don’t have any skin deformities 😊
To see you talk like this makes me more relieved that I am not alone in this trail of thoughts because these things need to be said. Many abnormalities are becoming normal and the normal and correct ways looking abnormal. Especially about newly Christian married couples!!!!! Whenever I talk about it, it looks as though I am the hater or something to people.
I am so glad that I didn't grow up in this generation. I really sympathize with the youth of this generation. No empathy, no sympathy, no kindness, no Modesty. Thanks for sharing, and owning your opinions with your full chest.
Authenticity Speaking the truth in love Decency Balance and moderation You're totally spot on Maraji! I'm glad it's coming from someone with some level of popularity because it's almost as though some people's decency fall by the wayside as they get more popular
Some Girls these days seek validation from two-faced individuals. Sometimes it's better to be hated by a few than to be praised by many, who seek relevance by association. Thank you so much for this message Maraji!
This is so true. I grew up in a home where I was taught to dress properly. I tried wearing an outfit that was showing a lot of skin out one time because I see a lot of girls do it. I was so uncomfortable. I realized it's because I'm not used to it, wasn't brought up that way. People are out here praising women who dress half naked and all but they know they will never let their sister do such a thing or their child. If you talk they will attack you and say you are doing women against women. No one is asking you drees like an hijab woman and cover your whole body. You can dress decently and still be a head turner.
The "all to baff?" got me 😹😹😹 but for real, I agree with everything you said.. the social media craze is just so heightened right now and it's just crazy exhausting... Omo, 90% of the time, I just zone out 😹 I didn't even get why people were seriously offended about the chef Dammy thing sef 😹😹 Omo, the married couples channel always sends me off I swear 😹😹... I'm always like "unu zukwanike biko" 😹
Buying clothes online these days is a struggle cos almost everything will have one big hole or long slit somewhere or is extremely tight! The one way vex me pass is when they say "I don't do it for men, I dress for myself". Aunty if I knack you one.. Abeg go and sit down. Lol
The little clips in between are taking me out 😂😂😅 Nonetheless, you’re spot on and I totally agree especially the indecency part….it’s really appalling how girls pride themselves in “Ashawo” dresses these days and may God help us all The excessive bathing part though😂 Pre-shower, In-shower, post-shower bla bla bla….some even use scrubbing brush😩
Maraji I have a confession☝️ or rather a testimony 😆😂🥰... There is indeed “beauty" , as in B-E-A-U-T-Y in modesty".😘 I have tasted and I have felt it for myself. NO turning back🤞
My friends always ask me why I love you so much and I've always known I connect with Maraji on another level. We share a lot of values. Thank you, Gloria❤
Imma come back and watch this video proper because I haven’t got enough time now but for the part you talked about people being okay with calling themselves an a ashawo but pick offense when others do it is a little tricky. Now I understand you and what you’re saying but look at it from this standpoint, black Americans are okay with calling themselves the N word but don’t want others or “white people” to, gay people are okay with calling themselves faggots but don’t like other people to. Now I personally think the reason is because there’s little to no derogatory undertone when using those slurs. It is a reclaiming of the word and detaching it from its original context. They call it ashawo cloth because they are awear it’s slutty/sexy and revealing and in a way edgy, they don’t call themselves ashawo or the clothes “ashawo cloth” as a way to degrade themselves but rather to uplift themselves and their attitude towards the clothes but when others do it, it’s almost always in a derogatory tone which isn’t welcomed. Just what I think.
I have loved Maraji unashamedly and she keeps giving me reasons to go on. If I condemn indecent dressing people will attack me because I am a Muslim who naturally covers up. I am happy maraji is doing it, and I confidently support her with my full life🥰🤣
Maraji I hardly comment but I love your topic today. I like how you owned up to making some mistakes in the past, filter and disagreeing with respect. We are different people and we have different views, that's what makes life colorful. I will send that part about hyperpigmentation to my friend know she means well but she's always disturbing my life about my body being lighter from my chest down, but I feel its normal, my face, arms and neck are always exposed to sun, even sunscreen cannot curb that.
I totally agree with almost everything that was said. The only one would be the bathing routine, I have never seen such content. I had to make a decision to not use filters for my picture, i take them, pick the ones I think is fine and post without filters. This was so intentional because I did not want to reliant on something, or think i am not beautiful enough without it. I have done that before. The decency thing, God bless you for mentioning it, I uphold decency and will forever do that. When I see ladies all covered up, especially those muslim ladies, they look so good. You can slay and still be decent. Do you find gold on the floor everywhere or diamond, they are hidden deep in the ground, you have to search and dig to find them because they are precious. When you expose yourself, you give everyone oshofree, it explains explicitly your value. God bless you Maraji for this.
You'll hear them saying I don't care what people think about me or say about me, mehn I care a lot about people think of me I care about my reputation I don't want to give the wrong impression please thank you for talking about it 👏🏾👏🏾❤️
So true and so on point. So I market clothes and some ladies slide into my DM and they are asking for ashewo dresses. And I'm like "excuse me, if it's not on display, then I don't sell it". I don't market what I can't wear. Ladies need to understand that beauty is not in being nude or half nude. It's not self-confidence either. In fact, I personally believe that when you are confident, you cover up and dress decently. Ladies want to addressed as royalty, a queen or princess but the truth is that no royalty walks around naked. Only people who are entitled are allowed to see them naked and that is their spouse. Their bodies are precious. Seriously the whole going naked or half-naked as a lady is disgusting.
The nakedness one they call it “owning their bodies” They also say men shouldn’t stare but they wear nothing so not only do they wear nonsense even a mad person will stare😊
I completely agree with you. I was being to think if I was okay by not being a fan of those kinds of dresses becasuseeee the way people wear it these days ehnnn😂😂.. And that filter part stray bullet hit me 😂😂💔but you’re right. Good job 👍🏻 ❤
I totally agree, I had this classmate from secondary school, we were very cool, cheering each other, not necessarily friends but there was no bad blood. She had her birthday shoot and everywhere was open.. I say Wetin be this? No be me go post this kain thing. I didn’t post her and she blocked me🤣🤣 it felt very weird posting it.
I don’t do things like this but asides the fact that I’m watching this video at an ungodly hour, I really appreciate the video. I feel you passed your messaged across with wisdom and the use of funny clips in between softened the blow, but the message wasn’t lost in anyway. Thank you 🙏🏾
Yes, Yes, Yes Please.... I stand with you on these unpopular opinions. Decency will always win.... having a good self esteem is healthy and saves us a whole lot. Experience in marriage comes with time biko
As I have been getting closer to God as a teenager, I completely stand with these opinions. Thank God for touching my heart and leading me to the path of everlasting life.
Same here 🥰 Jesus is the Lord of my life.
Hi there, I saw your post and just want to give a bit of encouragement.
This journey with God might not be easy at all times. Especially when everyone around is doing otherwise. But trust me, it’s worth it in the end.
Do not be deceived.
His (God’s) grace is sufficient for us always. (2nd Corinthians 12:9)😊
Keep it up girl. You're on course. There are many of us threading the path of our Lord Jesus. Be encouraged sweetie😊
Amen 🙏🏾
Thank you so much for commenting this because I also felt the same 😊
Modesty, Class and Decency will never go out of fashion.
Cyber bullying is really an issue. I hope people learn to do better as well.
It's timeless
I have followed you for years..but,today I am proud of myself for doing so..
Our generation needs to hear the truth❤
Bplq! ❤
Honestly like I have just been smiling from chin to chin today ❤ love you girl, am so proud of you 🤭
So so proud
Same here❤❤ I agree 100% with everything !
SAAAAAAAAME
As a Christian young lady (21), I recently realized that it is even affecting me and how I think of my dressing. Even in the house of God, Christian girls will be dressing less modestly small small. It’s very subtle but everything is shorter, tighter and more open. So now, I’m thinking, especially at my age where I’m meeting people, that guys find you more attractive or that “you look your age” when you dress more open. And I’ve subconsciously been feeling that I need to wear shorter things. I realized this and have to actively correct my mind to avoid normalizing indecency. I stand by modesty and will not go anywhere else.
yh, im less than 30 but i realise this too when i dress loose clothes and modest ways, i am made to feel older, but well God first
@@heiresslaite2950Definitely God first 👌
There are trendy modest dresses for your age..... no allow short short dress pressure you
This is great, so help you God❤❤
Real
I love how when you mention nakedness and the value of covering up, its not in respect to “my future husband to see” but actually just self value and self worth
That stood out for me too!!!...
Exactly how my friends mocked me for still being a virgin. They were like “hmmm, I don’t believe in any rubbish sex only after marriage” meanwhile it’s actually just my self value and self worth
@@hotstuff6835don’t listen to them❤. Some of them actually regret losing their virginity and project onto others
The question I always ask is why when people meet dignitaries and people in high places, they cover up? If truly exposing yourself too much isn't a problem, why do so.
Aside from that, women who hold position of power in society are always covered up. I wonder why🤔
❤🙏🏽💥
I love this woman.
She’s genuine, speaks the truth, makes us laugh😂 and she honours God.
You’re a Gem!
I agree with all you said💯💯
I respect you for this Maraji! Using your influence to promote decency is another level of maturity and Grace.
It's the chaotic memes in between for me. 😂😂
Thanks for putting this out there, Maraji. 👌🏾💯
I support you with my full chest too. I always say that there's dignity in decency. I don't care what you think. You can slay and be decent at the same time. Thank you for this video.
You're doing well!!
What's the dignity in decency?
@@lawonyinye7056 self respect and preservation of privacy
Respect from others too
High standard and value cuz most people with high standard hold decency to high value (there’s this respect ,it’s engraved in everyone cuz it kinda shows how you perceive yourself )
The mystery is there too and boundary 😊
I hope that helped
Exactly you can slay and be decent!!!
@@favourod3282Why do you care about what others wear or dont wear? This content is something you choose to see
I enjoyed listening this 💯
It’s refreshing to hear this from someone with a platform (who didn’t care about the cancel culture) who knows the power they have (due to their platform) to impact truth into others.
If you talk they call you “Holy Mary”, “Assistant/Deputy Jesus”
They ask you, “Who are you to judge?”
They tell you, “He without sin cast the first stone” “God is about the inside; not the outside”
They forget that if there’s God on the inside it will show on the outside.
Something else I love is that you spoke about dressing not from the angle of to please people but to respect yourself.
About 13 years ago, I went on holidays to Nigeria and people were surprised that I came from abroad but dressed so simple and modest. I remember having a conversation with a pastor in Nigeria and it come up and I explained to him that even if I was not a Christina I will still dress the way I dress; it’s not just about my faith but about my dignity and self respect.
I subscribed ages because I love how funny you are and I’m pleasantly surprised about this very content. I don’t know why I’m only seeing this 5 days later but I glad I saw it today and I look forward to more. I’m addicted the listening to wise words and they were many wise words in this.
❤Summer Aku
thank you..time to own our truths
One of my favorites is here…
Preach sis! We are at a stage whereby we have now normalized indecent dressing. I remember those days when showing your tummy lasan, u nor go fit comot for house cos ur mama go finish u with mouth. But now, parents are now seeing things differently abi na d spirit of Gen z don enter Dem. All in all, body positivity is also key, just do it decently.
This comment!
Now I love Maraji even more ❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏
I’ve been watching her since 2015-2016, and she’s evolved over the years.
Big ups to her
This is a great height of maturity. I'm proud of your sense of value and decency. Hilarious, creative, beautiful, resourceful, blunt, fearless........and most importantly godly. God bless the man that has you for a wife. You always have my respect dear sis.
It’s high time we bring shyness back! That’s something that has been bothering me for a while now as a mother of 2 girls and 1 boy. Thank you for addressing it
It’s a form of protection though…that sense of shame will make you think twice before any indecent exposure
A minute in and I’m already pressing the like button . I’m confident I’m going to agree with 99% of the things mentioned in this video.
i didn't even wait a minute.. on seeing the title, i gave it a huge like😂
I literally did the same!❤
@@maryjaneofor2972same! I liked before watching.
Me too ,I subscribed too
Same here
I was fixing my nail one day and this girl came in practically naked, I was shocked when her friend told her to follow her elsewhere and her response was and I quote "you know say I no wear cloth" I was like oh, so she knows. I feel bad for a lot of girls these days
😂😂 its the "so you know for me ". They do know
7:04 using filters can go very wrong. mostly when you get so comfortable with filters that you cannot take a picture or never feel good, without them. So agree.
Yessssss
"Are you breathing for two?"😂
Even serious talks with Maraji will still have some element of humour 😂
Your sense of humor even with this serious talk was it for me😂❤❤
Accurate😂😂😂😂
Honestly! 😂🤍🤍
Please drop this makeup tutorial especially your lip combos 😩❤️❤️❤️couldn’t stop admiring !!!Also yes we should be the change in order to change all these unrealistic expectations
Modesty and decency is always trendy and more CLASSY
Everything that you said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I’m so happy that you addressed it. The matter gets to me too especially when certain women don’t value themselves at all. Honestly, the first word that comes to mind is “Attention”. Modesty is beautiful. I remember a friend of mine sent me a picture of herself and when I didn’t respond in a matter of time, she actually called me and told me that she knows that I’m not happy with the way she dressed up. You see, I didn’t even say a word but she knew. We can’t follow the trends. There’s nothing wrong with looking nice but there’s a way of doing it. Thank you for sharing 🤗
First point is just so spot on! I’ve given up on people. Can we TALK about these naked pregnancy reveal photos????
Craziest thing. Pregnancy has been desecrated. Also, oversharing your kids' life on social media while there are pedos lurking around.
Yes those naked pregnancy pics for public view are too much!
Pregnancy photoshoot is something else now....we can still be decent and creative!!!
Yesssssssss
@@jenniferd.7646 this!!!!!!!
I don’t usually write comments on any social media platforms, but I’m gladly writing this, cause I got to see a different version of you that’s so like me, and I love it. I was smiling and agreeing throughout. The truth must be said but always in love. Thanks for sharing this one with us
Thank you for using your platform to say this! You started it hot! The nakedness trend, started somewhere and it's getting somewhere crazy. Saw a dress worn by Gabrielle union on an event, her whole butt was out. My respect flew out the window. But in my mind it was - this craziness is what's people's role model.
And thank you for everything else you said. I've learned.
Nne, I unfollowed. Her and Ciara
Come to think of it, she has a nice body, but she is too old for nakedness .Never was a fan of Gabrielle now. I get it why my spirit never moved about her
She cried the other day about the bills she has to pay monthly.
She's trying to raise the money. She has my sympathy😢 not followership
@@catherineebunilo4915Why?💀
You are so FUNNY! 😃 this video was a joy to watch. I resonate with all you talked about, especially dressing, cyber bullying and the newly married. While the current culture of near nakedness is rampant, there's still dignity in dressing modestly. Infact, modest fashion is classy, appealing and respectful of one's own self.
I feel like cyber bullying is a result of jealousy and a lack of originality; people just follow trends and don't think for themselves. People are so easily influenced by a negative comment they change their narrative.
As someone who's been married almost a decade, I totally agree with your point. The first years can be great, but there's a lot more insight to gain after many more.
I’m glad that there are still quite a number of us ladies who are still embracing Decency and Modesty with our full chests. It doesn't make you any less beautiful.
I completely agree with all you said. The takeaway for me is that you can disagree with harming the ego and personality of the person you disagree with.
Spot on, about time 😢 people start speaking up so younger people are not consumed.
Quite a number? A majority of women are dressing "decently". Just because influencers are dressing how they want doesn't mean there are just a few decent women around. You aren't special or extinct. Also what you call decent is actually indecent in another person's eye. You wearing wigs in indecent to another person.
Any lady that still appreciates and practices decency and modesty is a rare gem before her behavior can be checked.
I trust you to not have said anything less and I’m super proud of you. The audacity 😊 to add, “Decent dresses even makes you look more classy”, these things can not be overemphasized ❤
That filter point, girl! 1000% agreed with you.
For myself, I really avoid using it. I don't want to arrive at a point where I appreciate my filter face more than my real face and create a useless complex 😒
Very true, and it really gets to that, appreciating unauthentic looks more than the natural look.
And the annoying part is after the routine they will still use filter To film the results of their 1000 steps body care routine. I stumbled on this video but it’s quite refreshing to find that someone shares these unpopular Opinions and is not afraid to share it. ❤❤
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Say na filter😂😂
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The cyber bullying thing!!!
There was a day someone was insulting me on Twitter and at first I was angry but later I became sad for them because it just shows how shallow their mind is.
We all need to do better
I saw a post online it was really scary, then I made a comment about JESUS coming soon and bedtime signs and all, 😅 you needed to see the amount of insults I got just for that comment.😅 later I got to understand it was fear speaking through them. They were afraid and in denial. So most times when you get people insulting for what you said, just know that part of them know that what your saying is true, but they don’t want to accept it, being is denial is better to for them than actually accepting the truth😅
@@ReneeKinner-n8d Hmmm! You’re right
Your opinions are on point plus you delivered it with all simplicity and mixing it with humor. I love you!
Opinions that were once popular but are now becoming extinct 😢...
I stand by my values and morals all day!!!!
Big ups MJ❤
“Everything that’s meant to be private,everything that’s meant to be personal” you’ve made it public 😭😭i felt that
The first one, nakedness. Literally I had a old friend ask me why I don't wear scandalous clothes and is it because I'm "insecure". No clue why that was her correlation, but my whole life I have always dressed clothed. I don'r feel I need to show my body, I feel free and confident when I am covered up and there's so many cute pieces as well lol. It hurts me when other women go after other women who don't agree with the nakedness and will call you a "pick me" or "you have internal misogyny".
Some people like showing off their body and that isn't a bad thing, as long as they wear it at the right time and place. But they shouldn't judge others for wanting to be fully clothed as well.
Gaslighting
You should have told her that the need to dress scandalously is in fact one of the signs of insecurity.
@@nnennaonuorah4601 true, I do think if you NEED to dress like that then you are trying to make up for something, maybe you don't think your face is good enough but if it's something she occasional does to show of her amazing body or if it is more her style then that's fine
@@realdavidjones1623This 🙌👏 I wear modeste clothes because I feel good in them. And I know there are women who do not dress as modestly because they feel great doing that. One way or the other is perfectly fine as long as you yourself is okay. Others are free to disagree...thats on them.
This video earn you my subscription! Sis you've spoken our mind(Christian girls and woman).I love you for been unapologetic for what you stand for.more Grace!
I'm going to subscribe right away
Did anybody notice how the husband came exactly when she was talking about Marriage 😂. I find it very cute 🥰 how the two of you fight abi yarn, abegg no dey edit this kind jare, more of such, makes it very relatable and sweet😊
As soon as she started talking to him, mommy Glo came out. I felt that "go inside”
This lady eehhhh.
Your opinions are highly accepted, I love your sense of humour while discussing these topics.
About the nudity oh men, it's crazy these days.
Instagram streets is even making the pressure wesser, self control and self realisation is all one needs to navigate through.
Thanks Maraji ❤
❤❤❤❤❤ so happy to hear these, been feeling isolated when I give this same opinions. The world is going crazy, and those of that think otherwise or are “based” are now the weirdos or extremis. Kudos
Feeling isolated? Pls don’t be
Find your community with same value system and intent👍🏽❤️
Stay blessed
It already crazy amd it even weirder
Hallelujah!!! You have spoken!!! GOD BLESS YOU SISTER,YOU HAVE SAID IT VERY WELL ❤
This could be titled “I said what I said come and beat me”😂😂
😂😂😂😂 The last part got me laughing.
My admiration and respect for you tripled while watching this video. God keep you and yours Maraji. Super proud to be a follower ❤❤❤
One thing I've learnt over the years is that nobody can actually say how to keep marriage...humans are different with different behaviors trully you can only speak from experience or other experiences but don't feel like you can predict or give perfect advice..Makes a lot of sense
On one hand, I agree with you because of the perspective you might be coming from. But in all truth, there really are secrets and wisdoms on how to keep a marriage. Marriage is a godly institution, not formed by man, government or society. And just like many others areas of life, if we can only be humble as humans to learn and submit to this wisdom, every marriage can work out fine. But humans are just too self conceited and stubborn to submit to truth, we’re too emotion driven and always want to have control of our lives, hence our constant downfall. It takes following the instructional manual for anything to work successfully, and same goes for marriage. God bless you
@@thesower6577i'm sorry but this is SO DUMB😂 Marriage is man made lmao, and you said it's not from society???? Lmao, y'all never know what you say
You are so right about what you're saying.
Some women have even moved to wearing very exposed wedding dresses. Where are we going⁉️
Where are our values as women? Are we not worth anything anymore?
Bit I bless God for women who are taking notice and saying"no" to this trend of dressing half naked.
Thanks so much for the topic💯👍
The funny thing is some content creators will put a Bible verse at the start of their videos. Only to to find them in Bikinis with their big butt cheeks showing for 1000s of people to watch. It’s like people will do anything to get views on social media. Thank you Maraji. I support all your unpopular opinions with full chest too ❤️
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GRWM to church half naked lol
That cyberbullying is something we should curb😭😭😭😭
It’s the way this video is giving “mummy Maraji” vibes. Such wisdom! I love to see this on you. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I totally agree🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
The hight of indecency these days is crazily annoying and I pray God help us 🙇🏻♂️. God bless you Maraji 🥰
Honestly, I am so joyful listening to you. You really hit the nail rightly. I like the fact that you did this unpopular opinion because people need to know that some of us still know and stand for the truth.
God's grace to you Maraji😘
Christain couples gather here... i love you mama
It's rare to find the truth. Now people want to hear what they want. I'm glad I watched this. Now, I have the boldness to continue my talks especially on decency. 🎉😊
Finally, we're talking about these things confidently. I agree with every point. I love it
If courage was a person! Weldone maraji, you just earner my eternal respect! These topics are “hard “ to talk about because of how sensitive they are.
Those short clips in-between really made the whole thing funny, most especially the part you mentioned commotion😂😂😂😂😂😂...
Women really need to know that they can still look beautiful while maintaining decency. As a woman, dressing indecently doesn't add to your beauty, you are just showing people what is meant to be covered/private...
Spot on with that number 1 point because the world right now makes you feel like you don’t have style if you are decent.
Maraji is such a beautiful woman. And she seems to know exactly what works for her, makeup, air product and all. ❤
As a growing Christian I also realized the whole decency thing and it’s honestly not the easiest thing cause I’m an influencer aswell, most of my clothes are like that and I can’t just wake up and buy a new wardrobe, I’d have to take it step by step, 2 pieces here 2 pieces there, and I’m also really scared about changing my “aesthetic” what if it doesn’t look good on me, what if it doesn’t fit me as a person and all that, God is still working on me sha, it’s just not that easy to flip the switch, it’s not an excuse I will still definitely work on my decency it’s just not as easy as you say it
God help you Sis... Just keep working on it
Sending you hugs and love ❤
th-cam.com/video/RVHmxsJTH8A/w-d-xo.htmlsi=DHR--8RFZDqPFHhQ perhaps this video can help you in the process
Og parley is an influencer too and she talks on how she had to adjust her wardrobe and aesthetic as she found Christ.❤
I’m happy you are honest. It’s a work in process, but dressing modestly and decently will always be beautiful. Keep growing in Christ
Maraji please make this a thread!!!!
I’m here for it💯
I can absolutely relate with your unpopular opinion.
"Yassssss queeen" and why the AfricaMagic Epic sound 😂😂😂.
Thank you Maraji, thank you so much ❤
Recently accepted Christ into my life
Benn following for years and I am glad I did❤
I love that you care about theology, I pray that the word would ever wash you 🙏🏾
I have never regret being part of your channel
Thank you for changing the narrative
Love from Sierra Leone ❤❤❤
OMG😅😅😅 what got me was the shower routine😂🤦🏽♀️ I don't think it's necessary, something simple will go
I agree with everything you said ..........its now I realise why I've been following you for years!!!!!! Thank you Maraji, my motto is always Jennifer love yourself exactly the way God created you, if there's anything within your power to improve, you can improve, if not life moves on. Secondly, be kind to everyone whether they deserve the kindness or not, just be kind.
Someone finally said all of this .
I am impressed, decency is just the best.
It makes you classic and beautiful.
I’m absolutely in agreement with the modesty opinion . Thank you for being one of those content creators that don’t care to please this liberal society ❤
It’s amazing how I agree with everything you said. I’ve always thought that inexperienced couples shouldn’t share certain advices like it’s one shoe size that fits all. People should share their experiences and leave them as that. Their experiences! Of course, hoping that it may work for some other person.
Please, do not give me advices on marriage that you’re only a year in. Well, except I asked you to, of course 😉
Anyway, I give dating advises on my channel. I believe that’s okay because I’m married already. I’ve Been in the dating phase, passed it, and now married and I’ve decided to let ladies know how to not enter marriage that will show them shege 😂 (Nigerian slang for “a hard time”).
Keep sharing your opinions, Maraji. We’re fully behind you, mama.
The advice one is something else 😂
@@thefeminineeye My Sister😅
That Nakedness and Christian marriage part is so on point.
Every one wants to lecture about marriage and they keep introducing new worldly thing and calling it Christian marriage.
This could not have been more timely for me especially after your third point which was excessive bath routine. I literally thought I was a weirdo earlier today for just using soap and sponge but thankfully someone just had to say that it’s perfectly normal.
P.s: I still don’t have any skin deformities 😊
To see you talk like this makes me more relieved that I am not alone in this trail of thoughts because these things need to be said. Many abnormalities are becoming normal and the normal and correct ways looking abnormal.
Especially about newly Christian married couples!!!!!
Whenever I talk about it, it looks as though I am the hater or something to people.
I am so glad that I didn't grow up in this generation. I really sympathize with the youth of this generation. No empathy, no sympathy, no kindness, no Modesty.
Thanks for sharing, and owning your opinions with your full chest.
I love how articulate and accurate this video is. Somebody just had to say this and thank you for doing the Lord’s work 😅
We know that Maraji gives all of us good advice to be confident in ourselves ❤
Authenticity
Speaking the truth in love
Decency
Balance and moderation
You're totally spot on Maraji! I'm glad it's coming from someone with some level of popularity because it's almost as though some people's decency fall by the wayside as they get more popular
Some Girls these days seek validation from two-faced individuals. Sometimes it's better to be hated by a few than to be praised by many, who seek relevance by association.
Thank you so much for this message Maraji!
This is so true. I grew up in a home where I was taught to dress properly. I tried wearing an outfit that was showing a lot of skin out one time because I see a lot of girls do it. I was so uncomfortable. I realized it's because I'm not used to it, wasn't brought up that way. People are out here praising women who dress half naked and all but they know they will never let their sister do such a thing or their child. If you talk they will attack you and say you are doing women against women. No one is asking you drees like an hijab woman and cover your whole body. You can dress decently and still be a head turner.
The "all to baff?" got me 😹😹😹 but for real, I agree with everything you said.. the social media craze is just so heightened right now and it's just crazy exhausting... Omo, 90% of the time, I just zone out 😹
I didn't even get why people were seriously offended about the chef Dammy thing sef 😹😹
Omo, the married couples channel always sends me off I swear 😹😹... I'm always like "unu zukwanike biko" 😹
Buying clothes online these days is a struggle cos almost everything will have one big hole or long slit somewhere or is extremely tight! The one way vex me pass is when they say "I don't do it for men, I dress for myself". Aunty if I knack you one.. Abeg go and sit down. Lol
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Proud of you for speaking out especially about the ravaging indecency going on around now.
The little clips in between are taking me out 😂😂😅
Nonetheless, you’re spot on and I totally agree especially the indecency part….it’s really appalling how girls pride themselves in “Ashawo” dresses these days and may God help us all
The excessive bathing part though😂
Pre-shower, In-shower, post-shower bla bla bla….some even use scrubbing brush😩
Maraji I have a confession☝️ or rather a testimony 😆😂🥰... There is indeed “beauty" , as in B-E-A-U-T-Y in modesty".😘
I have tasted and I have felt it for myself. NO turning back🤞
That's why I so love Taooma's style. Fully covered yet very beautiful!!
My friends always ask me why I love you so much and I've always known I connect with Maraji on another level. We share a lot of values. Thank you, Gloria❤
Imma come back and watch this video proper because I haven’t got enough time now but for the part you talked about people being okay with calling themselves an a ashawo but pick offense when others do it is a little tricky. Now I understand you and what you’re saying but look at it from this standpoint, black Americans are okay with calling themselves the N word but don’t want others or “white people” to, gay people are okay with calling themselves faggots but don’t like other people to. Now I personally think the reason is because there’s little to no derogatory undertone when using those slurs. It is a reclaiming of the word and detaching it from its original context. They call it ashawo cloth because they are awear it’s slutty/sexy and revealing and in a way edgy, they don’t call themselves ashawo or the clothes “ashawo cloth” as a way to degrade themselves but rather to uplift themselves and their attitude towards the clothes but when others do it, it’s almost always in a derogatory tone which isn’t welcomed.
Just what I think.
I have loved Maraji unashamedly and she keeps giving me reasons to go on. If I condemn indecent dressing people will attack me because I am a Muslim who naturally covers up. I am happy maraji is doing it, and I confidently support her with my full life🥰🤣
"All to baff?? All to baff?"🤣🤣🤣🤣 abi ask them o
I wish it didn't end ....❤
"are you breathing for two?!"😂
I support with my full chest .
Thank you Maraji❤❤❤
The nose joke is really funny!🤣🤣🤣 "Are you breathing for two?"🤣🤣 Be serious, Maraji!"🤣🤣🤣
Maraji I hardly comment but I love your topic today. I like how you owned up to making some mistakes in the past, filter and disagreeing with respect. We are different people and we have different views, that's what makes life colorful. I will send that part about hyperpigmentation to my friend know she means well but she's always disturbing my life about my body being lighter from my chest down, but I feel its normal, my face, arms and neck are always exposed to sun, even sunscreen cannot curb that.
She really spoke my mind when she mentioned TH-cam shower routines....i passed out😂😂
I totally agree with almost everything that was said. The only one would be the bathing routine, I have never seen such content. I had to make a decision to not use filters for my picture, i take them, pick the ones I think is fine and post without filters. This was so intentional because I did not want to reliant on something, or think i am not beautiful enough without it. I have done that before. The decency thing, God bless you for mentioning it, I uphold decency and will forever do that. When I see ladies all covered up, especially those muslim ladies, they look so good. You can slay and still be decent. Do you find gold on the floor everywhere or diamond, they are hidden deep in the ground, you have to search and dig to find them because they are precious. When you expose yourself, you give everyone oshofree, it explains explicitly your value. God bless you Maraji for this.
Modesty and decency is litrelly what GOD wants for us, and you have spoke the truth ,GOD richly bless you!!!
You'll hear them saying I don't care what people think about me or say about me, mehn I care a lot about people think of me I care about my reputation I don't want to give the wrong impression please thank you for talking about it 👏🏾👏🏾❤️
So true and so on point.
So I market clothes and some ladies slide into my DM and they are asking for ashewo dresses. And I'm like "excuse me, if it's not on display, then I don't sell it". I don't market what I can't wear.
Ladies need to understand that beauty is not in being nude or half nude. It's not self-confidence either.
In fact, I personally believe that when you are confident, you cover up and dress decently.
Ladies want to addressed as royalty, a queen or princess but the truth is that no royalty walks around naked. Only people who are entitled are allowed to see them naked and that is their spouse.
Their bodies are precious.
Seriously the whole going naked or half-naked as a lady is disgusting.
I sell men’s clothes and men specifically come to ask me for Ashewo shorts. The whole world is going crazy and it’s not just a gender thing tbh.
@@OreoluwaPearlwoooow 😮
Thanks for maintaining decency. Money is not everything, and there are people who are decent and will keep buying your clothes
Facts sis
The nakedness one they call it “owning their bodies” They also say men shouldn’t stare but they wear nothing so not only do they wear nonsense even a mad person will stare😊
“They spray 600 perfumes and light candles just to bathe”😁😂😂😂
I completely agree with you. I was being to think if I was okay by not being a fan of those kinds of dresses becasuseeee the way people wear it these days ehnnn😂😂.. And that filter part stray bullet hit me 😂😂💔but you’re right. Good job 👍🏻 ❤
I totally agree, I had this classmate from secondary school, we were very cool, cheering each other, not necessarily friends but there was no bad blood. She had her birthday shoot and everywhere was open.. I say Wetin be this? No be me go post this kain thing. I didn’t post her and she blocked me🤣🤣 it felt very weird posting it.
Your husband really married a gem. Very rare to find beautiful ladies like you who are so grounded. Keep it up
I don’t do things like this but asides the fact that I’m watching this video at an ungodly hour, I really appreciate the video. I feel you passed your messaged across with wisdom and the use of funny clips in between softened the blow, but the message wasn’t lost in anyway. Thank you 🙏🏾
Yes, Yes, Yes Please.... I stand with you on these unpopular opinions. Decency will always win.... having a good self esteem is healthy and saves us a whole lot. Experience in marriage comes with time biko