Unpopular Opinion | Ubudoda | Manhood | Responsibility | Accountability

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 เม.ย. 2023
  • In today’s monologue Abba shares his thoughts on what it means to be a man in todays’s society. Men were more than just providers, historically women have been providers too. Being a man is more than just making and spending money, it’s about being an example to look up to.
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ความคิดเห็น • 55

  • @KaySaOnline
    @KaySaOnline ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I think people need to live with more depth. So many people are wrapped up with surface level understanding of things it perpetuates internal degradation. I like how this man is capable of reflecting and thinking through his own identity as a man.

  • @hughlowe4431
    @hughlowe4431 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is the real , genuine message that every man needs to hear

  • @DingiNqaba
    @DingiNqaba ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very deep, people do not understand why I want to go back to the EC and be closer to my kids

  • @amolemomhlauli1773
    @amolemomhlauli1773 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How I wish this platform could bowl up....Our brothers need to hear this.
    Thank you, ABBA,for the teachings 😊😊

  • @NellyN159
    @NellyN159 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Heavy stuff you talking about there ABBA. The way I see it ,we sometimes expect the impossible from our kings we are busy turning them into living corpses,they can hardly breathe. They are not even allowed to express their emotions without being shamed about it. You see these monsters whom are devouring us right now they were created by all of us unfortunately, we have wounded our devine masculine and denied him his femininity which allows him to feel an express all that he wants to express. After all those repressed feelings, emotions,as well his playful nature he becomes a monster. Before we judge men about all his failures to become indoda , let first take responsibility for the part we have played in turning him the way that he is today . One love my people ❤

    • @thapeloashley4778
      @thapeloashley4778 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Accountable individual. Stay blessed gorgeous one

  • @primorantso7128
    @primorantso7128 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The Man or Woman in the mirror knows only Truth. Therefore, one cannot claim to be iNdoda by any physical attributes. Likewise with A Woman.
    Bua Monna

  • @younesr2183
    @younesr2183 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We miss the foundation that's why we keep falling. Great message, thank you and peace

  • @alwandekhumalo174
    @alwandekhumalo174 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This guy is the best

  • @cathrinenzimande8906
    @cathrinenzimande8906 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful message, we need more men like you. Priests and fathers of the home.

  • @masemolampho7564
    @masemolampho7564 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Abba I been looking for this episode

  • @buntun3670
    @buntun3670 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Give thanks Abba - here is my little unpopular opinion(borrowed really). I agree 100% ubudoda is communal, it starts from within but confirmed by our actions and in how we manage our environment as PEOPLE. Its a pitty we have the expected group(males) not living up to this as leaders of households.
    I stick to leadership and households because therein lies the issue, we no longer have households led by amadoda, we have deregulated society and a deregulated consumer lifestyle where even sex is a commodity. And its getting cheaper and cheaper by the day. It used to cost the commitment of marriage but now it costs close to nothing as you point it out. Men and women think they are outsmarting each other in this trade but really they are fooling themselves.
    NB: The West is in a difficult time where they no longer have "men and women" defined by what'd between your legs.

  • @odette.p.shongwe8408
    @odette.p.shongwe8408 ปีที่แล้ว

    Food of the soul.we give thanks Abba❤.

  • @sihart
    @sihart ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great teaching high priest. Thankyou very much for the enlightenment. Uyasivuselela🔥

  • @katlegomothwa49
    @katlegomothwa49 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Abba , thank you very much

  • @eyenavy1711
    @eyenavy1711 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this podcast needs more recognition

  • @Tefl-Tesol-teacher
    @Tefl-Tesol-teacher ปีที่แล้ว

    Great one Abba, keep doing the great work ❤❤❤

  • @bbygzas7990
    @bbygzas7990 ปีที่แล้ว

    As always....much more love than much love......respect. 😢😢😢

  • @mxcury3472
    @mxcury3472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masibuyele ebu dodeni ❤ i love this thought provoking conversations we need

  • @MandlaBonene-ov4tg
    @MandlaBonene-ov4tg ปีที่แล้ว

    Give thanks for your Enligthment.

  • @FeliciaNobukhosiKhumalo
    @FeliciaNobukhosiKhumalo ปีที่แล้ว

    👏 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I am so happy you get to use this platform this way, as it will allow you to reduce your injections when having a guest. preach Leader❤

  • @africanliberationstationwi2594
    @africanliberationstationwi2594 ปีที่แล้ว

    Greetings My brother. I agree with you 💯 💯💯

  • @nyashamahleko7007
    @nyashamahleko7007 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was Deep my Brother. Even me i have Self-reflect on me

  • @tsebolator777
    @tsebolator777 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect to brotherman u always drops teachings every aiwa siter di show I gain knowledge

  • @awomanmadeyou
    @awomanmadeyou ปีที่แล้ว

    Abba the conversation as usual has only just begun...

  • @lufefekalipa580
    @lufefekalipa580 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like your analysis of things bhuti wam.

  • @Mbalenhle_Salvatoris
    @Mbalenhle_Salvatoris ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach 🙌🏾

  • @KhweziNombembe
    @KhweziNombembe ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful message makwande

  • @9twelve
    @9twelve ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we said✊🏽

  • @thekword5885
    @thekword5885 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He needs to have a show discussing the mind and semen ejaculation connection.

  • @hlogingwenyama8860
    @hlogingwenyama8860 ปีที่แล้ว

    More videos like this specifically for teenage boys please

  • @leratomonegi3337
    @leratomonegi3337 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌

  • @LeratoFigland
    @LeratoFigland ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @Truly_Unbreakable
    @Truly_Unbreakable 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Those are the same principles of a man.

  • @tumishangwina848
    @tumishangwina848 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we please get more information on this topic, especially on relationships. I am a teenager going into my adolescent era, and I am being exposed a lot with what you stated, even more. And my gut feeling always feels weird when I encounter these situations, especially when it comes to a man having a high number of woman, etc. Because that's not me as a person. I would really appreciate it if you'd touch on the topic of relationships and how we are supposed to treat each other, the native African way from the male's perspective and the female's perspective. I'd really appreciate it if you do touch on it.

  • @tulininefor
    @tulininefor ปีที่แล้ว

    felt like you dropped it too soon....we need more of this I!

  • @isaacmayieka8758
    @isaacmayieka8758 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    give thanks . wish words indeed .a people without there history and culture is like a dead community

  • @darianclery4455
    @darianclery4455 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok yes

  • @sibusisomotha7145
    @sibusisomotha7145 ปีที่แล้ว

    May we please get on episode talking and explaining about izithunywa zikamenzi🙏🏽 Give thanks

  • @michaelmbizane6014
    @michaelmbizane6014 ปีที่แล้ว

    🕯️🥋

  • @masixolemphati408
    @masixolemphati408 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So should i as indoda make the effort to go back to a father that did not raise me, its personal but its a genuine question?

  • @thembamatlala588
    @thembamatlala588 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Monna le Ndoda or Indoda, not the same. Nna ke monna cause I have learned.

  • @user-iv5jb1yu4h
    @user-iv5jb1yu4h 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂it's always Dlamini what did I do every topic is Dlamini

  • @LeratoFigland
    @LeratoFigland ปีที่แล้ว

    What is your opinion on the sudden surge of men claiming to be polygamists as a way to disguise promiscuous behavior?

    • @unpopularopinion_za
      @unpopularopinion_za  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Lerato, you want to miss the next Episode. We feel you will have some thoughts to share afterwards. Thank you for watching as always 🌍🤎

  • @tshepomotshepana7635
    @tshepomotshepana7635 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Re nna monna when the concept was destroyed. Secondly the concept has been sold that a man is just a provider due to his economic availability. Thirdly it's his sexual standing. We must go back to the Ntu and redescover the meaning to what it means to be a men. Finally let me say this the concept of a man has been dictated by women whom themselves do not know keng monna. Pula

  • @shaunwordplay3111
    @shaunwordplay3111 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this. Lol why did you have to say uDlamini. Anyway women are born women, men become men but unfortunately not all men become this.

  • @MsMELiciousMEL
    @MsMELiciousMEL 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've heard someone say "a re sana bo Ntate, ke banna fela...ba nna" basically translating to everything you are speaking to in this video. Men are really sleeping on themselves therefore sleeping on us as women and daughters. Go senyegile ka nnete

  • @nkosivumilesizwesihlangane27i
    @nkosivumilesizwesihlangane27i ปีที่แล้ว

    Wena TshayiNgwe kudala ndiyilindele lencoko and andikayimameli yonke

  • @ngakabulelani2682
    @ngakabulelani2682 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Camagu

  • @brownzhou1636
    @brownzhou1636 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sbonge ayah

  • @thelionofjudahfakenews9456
    @thelionofjudahfakenews9456 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am a from the Caribbean i dont understand the African language parts..wish i good get a translation r a sid of wall u all saying.. respect to the Chanel

    • @unpopularopinion_za
      @unpopularopinion_za  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for taking your time and watching. We are working on adding subtitles on episodes more consistently. We hope to have funds to get someone to do these full-time, we will get there soon.