3:47 What a nonsense! I was born and raised in Moscow (Russia) - I have hated it almost my entire life. I was so disgusted with it that this carried over to my perception of cities in general. I wanted to stay away from any towns. It took years after leaving Moscow before I started to consider that living in a city can be pleasant. I still wouldn't choose a very large city, but something like Östersund or Örebro feels appealing. ❤
Born americans of hindu heritage always want to say that their American, when their raised foreign to this culture . This creates an innate lie . If you can only date and marry in your own families culture , then they are not truly American. I see this in nyc where I was raised , long island and in D.C . This is the same for other cultures who are trying to overdue it and over compensate . They do not know themselves .
@@stormmaster108 I met a few and they really mean American. One women I met in a D.C tennis shop was from west virginia and of hindu descent . This women was married to a hindu guy from NY she only considered herself West virginian and put her accent out when it benefited her . Her choices and culture from both of their family's make them live between two worlds . You either have american and regional values or you don't .
Caste does play a major role though, the networks that parents choose to tap into to find a match are mostly of the same caste. The diaspora is still incredibly casteist and endogamous.
Caste is essentially class system +nepotism that you have everywhere in the world. People will be ready to by pass caste if the other person comes from a renowned rich family. Certain castes have more control over resources...just like white people had more control over resources so they preferred to marry within their culture but ...if there's some obama type of guy or oprah type of a woman, they don't give a shit. Class system sits at the core of race and caste systems
Can I have both please ? attraction and finances / Stability AND adventure at the time ? and preferably with someone who has spent enough time with me before to be my partener before marriage ? lol Thanks for this video, it was very interesting and helped me in a way. It helped me to choose. I want both please, thank you ☺😂 Also my father passed away and my mother doesn't want to talk to me anymore so i guess I have the luxury to choose by myself then.
These people are so conceited when they talk about "Indian" culture.😂 Can these NRIs stop being like that? Why are they so weird? Please be specific with your culture/language or clan because its an extremely diverse country. I cannot relate to this woman at all as Indian woman...who lives in India. I am gen z so things are probably better for me like the gen z in the rest of the world but I started dating in my late teens and I was the last one among my friends. They started dating in early teens (I come from a small city btw). I decided to enjoy being single for a long time and I can proudly say that was a great decision that I made as a child. My state has the highest rate of working women so ...getting a great education and job is given extreme importance and that's what we dedicate most of our 20s to. You cannot find a person even in an arranged marriage if you don't have a decent job. A lot of people opt for arranged marriages even though they have dated. (statistically, we also get married very late ...completely normal to not marry in your 20s). I am himalyan Its very hard to find a partner on your own sometimes...who has the same values/principles and dating is mostly infatuation where practical things aren't taken into consideration. Sometimes, people also get tired of repeating the dating process and want stability. That being said, many of my cousins did have a love marriage. 2 are divorced and the others are doing well so far. I am sure the divorced ones are also doing well because its better to be out of a toxic relationship. The best type of relationships are the arranged-love ones...where the families have an understanding that if the kids grow to like each other, they will be very happy. Its rare... very rare! The families know each other a little bit so the kids don't even have to try. Family support makes it somewhat to handle work life balance and kids.
What a lovely bubbly person. I hope she finds someone she can laugh with
Some people do get paired well? Some people are not going to be so lucky.
I'm reminded of sadhguru; he spins a story about his late wife.
3:47 What a nonsense! I was born and raised in Moscow (Russia) - I have hated it almost my entire life. I was so disgusted with it that this carried over to my perception of cities in general. I wanted to stay away from any towns. It took years after leaving Moscow before I started to consider that living in a city can be pleasant. I still wouldn't choose a very large city, but something like Östersund or Örebro feels appealing. ❤
@stormmaster108 Östersund is amazing! I lived there for 6 months and its such a charming small city with lots of amazing nature close by!
Your a victim of self hate pushed by the west against russia. You hate yourself and your coutry bc of CIA Psychological operations.
Born americans of hindu heritage always want to say that their American, when their raised foreign to this culture . This creates an innate lie . If you can only date and marry in your own families culture , then they are not truly American. I see this in nyc where I was raised , long island and in D.C . This is the same for other cultures who are trying to overdue it and over compensate . They do not know themselves .
Maybe they just refer to their citizenship when they say "American"?
@@stormmaster108 I met a few and they really mean American. One women I met in a D.C tennis shop was from west virginia and of hindu descent . This women was married to a hindu guy from NY she only considered herself West virginian and put her accent out when it benefited her . Her choices and culture from both of their family's make them live between two worlds . You either have american and regional values or you don't .
Such an interesting topic and charming guest!
Caste does play a major role though, the networks that parents choose to tap into to find a match are mostly of the same caste. The diaspora is still incredibly casteist and endogamous.
Caste is essentially class system +nepotism that you have everywhere in the world. People will be ready to by pass caste if the other person comes from a renowned rich family. Certain castes have more control over resources...just like white people had more control over resources so they preferred to marry within their culture but ...if there's some obama type of guy or oprah type of a woman, they don't give a shit. Class system sits at the core of race and caste systems
Wow! Did they delete my comment? Why?
Exactly
Can I have both please ? attraction and finances / Stability AND adventure at the time ? and preferably with someone who has spent enough time with me before to be my partener before marriage ? lol
Thanks for this video, it was very interesting and helped me in a way. It helped me to choose.
I want both please, thank you ☺😂
Also my father passed away and my mother doesn't want to talk to me anymore so i guess I have the luxury to choose by myself then.
Finances don't fall from the sky. It takes a lot of work and saving so forget the adventure and gym boys. No time for that.
Awesome convo 🔥💕
Happy you liked!
These people are so conceited when they talk about "Indian" culture.😂 Can these NRIs stop being like that? Why are they so weird? Please be specific with your culture/language or clan because its an extremely diverse country. I cannot relate to this woman at all as Indian woman...who lives in India. I am gen z so things are probably better for me like the gen z in the rest of the world but I started dating in my late teens and I was the last one among my friends. They started dating in early teens (I come from a small city btw). I decided to enjoy being single for a long time and I can proudly say that was a great decision that I made as a child.
My state has the highest rate of working women so ...getting a great education and job is given extreme importance and that's what we dedicate most of our 20s to. You cannot find a person even in an arranged marriage if you don't have a decent job. A lot of people opt for arranged marriages even though they have dated. (statistically, we also get married very late ...completely normal to not marry in your 20s). I am himalyan
Its very hard to find a partner on your own sometimes...who has the same values/principles and dating is mostly infatuation where practical things aren't taken into consideration. Sometimes, people also get tired of repeating the dating process and want stability.
That being said, many of my cousins did have a love marriage. 2 are divorced and the others are doing well so far. I am sure the divorced ones are also doing well because its better to be out of a toxic relationship.
The best type of relationships are the arranged-love ones...where the families have an understanding that if the kids grow to like each other, they will be very happy. Its rare... very rare! The families know each other a little bit so the kids don't even have to try. Family support makes it somewhat to handle work life balance and kids.
She is correct .are you an incel because I have seen your regressive comments on many videos.