how to be MENTALLY TOUGH and LESS emotional | *entering your grown woman era*

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  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Mental toughness does not mean that you don't have feelings. Your feelings are valid, it just means you're not operating from them👈🏾that part. Keep the videos coming ❤️

    • @cressidasingh
      @cressidasingh ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes 👏🏾 exactly!

    • @Newparadigmsales
      @Newparadigmsales ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! Whole video is great yet this statement is the 💎 to be set on repeat. ❤

  • @shatakshipandey8014
    @shatakshipandey8014 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I am 17, and I have big goals for myself. To fulfill those dreams. I have to be mentally tough.
    Tough times don't last, but tough people do.

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @LoveCarol
    @LoveCarol ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I’ve gotten myself into the worst habit of crying when I face adversity, particularly financial hardships. I get embarrassed being almost 28 and having these emotional problems and that makes me cry even more about my emotional weakness. It’s seems like I’m in an endless loop right now that I keep trying to let go of.

  • @ceciadovana5971
    @ceciadovana5971 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I read somewhere that smoking is in essence a breathing practice. Personally, I'm not a smoker, but I have noticed, that when I'm stressed I do the smoking motion, I press two fingers to my lips and inhale through them. And it works! So yeah, a breathing practice is very helpful.

  • @almaaenergy
    @almaaenergy ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Love this, being able to have emotional maturity and the ability to process them really levels up your life experience
    ❤❤

  • @perlaflores232
    @perlaflores232 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's difficult being 27 years old not being able to communicate with others, without getting emotional or becoming overly sensitive to people's perception of you. I feel like I am going backwards, I was calm, quiet, reserved and with some confidence when I was in my teens, but now I feel like an adult operating emotionally as an infant.

  • @lettsblend
    @lettsblend ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love this video, especially since I'm In a new season of my life. Deep breathing is something I started to do as well but I didn't realize why and how much it helped in my day-to-day life. ❤️

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amazing!!! 🥰 & yes, deep breathing is powerful!

  • @AnnaBelise
    @AnnaBelise ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God brought this much needed video to me at the perfect time. Thank you sis! ❤🙏🏽

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen sis 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @JoyMumford
    @JoyMumford ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Such an encouraging video, as always! ❤ Focusing on the present moment is so important! Thank you for sharing, and congrats on passing 100K! 🎉🎈

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for watching love! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. And thank you 🥰♥️

  • @vidhichoudhary7498
    @vidhichoudhary7498 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cannot tell you how relatable it feels. You are like a free therapist to me girlllll

  • @aldonaweber48
    @aldonaweber48 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just love YOU ❤ Thank you for your content !!!!!!!

  • @keenastew
    @keenastew ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m not sure if you ever feel burn out but bestie I’m gonna need you to fight through them bc I neeed your videos to keep coming consistently!

  • @avieshaaugustus3260
    @avieshaaugustus3260 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So Imformative and straight forward , love the video ❤

  • @nyaa610
    @nyaa610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. You definitely said a lot. Thank you so much!

  • @Memkoh
    @Memkoh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love it! Thanks for the tips. I've been looking into stoicism and it's so different from what I thought it was (in a beneficial way) so this is very much in line with it and I had to click. As always, you break down every point nicely, actionable. One thing I need to incorporate more of is celebrating small wins. You look really great in this video btw, hair pulled back.

  • @laurieneza
    @laurieneza ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks you so much for this video, you just explain everything that I needed to hear on how to deal with my unstable emotions.

  • @ChristineBalarezo
    @ChristineBalarezo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was just what I needed to hear ❤ Persist through the emotional fluctuations of life. If I feel off I tend to follow that emotion down a rabbit hole 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ No more 🙌🏼 Thank you Montelle ❤

  • @nxdiagxrcia
    @nxdiagxrcia ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *please make a podcast* montelle !!

  • @sicilcaney5818
    @sicilcaney5818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really needed this one today. Thanks sis.

  • @victoriathebrown3094
    @victoriathebrown3094 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I ❤️ your content! Keep going👍🏾

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you love ♥️

  • @AnnaGrace603
    @AnnaGrace603 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You glow ❤

  • @bonisilengiba8379
    @bonisilengiba8379 ปีที่แล้ว

    I bless the day I came across one your video my life changed I'm a better person than I was

  • @parlowgems
    @parlowgems ปีที่แล้ว

    Good mature advice for growth. I especially like how you said to focus on what are the positives and the solutions.

  • @Her-Diariess
    @Her-Diariess ปีที่แล้ว

    Some life nuggets right here! Much love for you🥰😍

  • @carly.alethia4533
    @carly.alethia4533 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is really helpful, because I struggle with this a lot, so thank you!

  • @mompreneurlife
    @mompreneurlife ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤ I still need this right now! Thank you❤

  • @grannyronna
    @grannyronna ปีที่แล้ว

    Do not allow your emotions to control you; it should be the other way around. Thanks for the video!

  • @Theewolfegirl
    @Theewolfegirl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this guidance it’s very much what I needed!❤

  • @Newparadigmsales
    @Newparadigmsales ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m here for this. YES!

  • @kristenpotter377
    @kristenpotter377 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this video. I appreciate this so much. Keep it up, you are amazing.

  • @sophielily2015
    @sophielily2015 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u SO much! I was able to relate so much. I took so many notes on this video. Really appreciate what you’re doing 🤓.

  • @ieshadierra
    @ieshadierra ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this topic! The book Master Your Emotions is a game changer as well 😊

  • @Penelope_kc
    @Penelope_kc ปีที่แล้ว

    I highly appreciate the subtitles.

  • @jojothemojo
    @jojothemojo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you🤗

  • @anissascorner
    @anissascorner ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations to you ❤️❤️!!!

  • @Copolia
    @Copolia ปีที่แล้ว

    Very powerful video. Thank you

  • @tanyamaquet
    @tanyamaquet ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Xodeladelamore
    @Xodeladelamore ปีที่แล้ว

    Just in time for me. Thankss!!😂❤

  • @bxfinestladiie
    @bxfinestladiie ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @k.4th1een
    @k.4th1een ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you ❤

  • @eunae6655
    @eunae6655 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Much needed content 🤎
    God bless you queen ✨️

  • @Omotayo.Adeyemi
    @Omotayo.Adeyemi ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was definitely for me🙂❤

  • @sunvavachi
    @sunvavachi ปีที่แล้ว

    Really good video!

  • @Ama-un4fo
    @Ama-un4fo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Montelle, i was wondering how you view pretending you are okay vs telling what is happening inside. I noticed you mentioned that mental toughness is not showing it on the outside, but I kind of disagree with that. I think you are allowed to show it, but you should not stay in it. Otherwise you will walk around with a load of things going on and it will weigh you down eventually.
    Im curious to see what your thoughts are❤ liked the video

  • @elisa.piccoli
    @elisa.piccoli ปีที่แล้ว

    queen👑

  • @cherrierice9997
    @cherrierice9997 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this ❤

  • @tahanalovee
    @tahanalovee ปีที่แล้ว

    omg yesss this is me but i need a break and hug lol omg !

  • @DAC2254
    @DAC2254 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have a beautiful smile 😍 😊

  • @OrimoladeElizabeth-ly8sh
    @OrimoladeElizabeth-ly8sh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Montelle looked like you were Speaking about me

  • @courtneyoneillviolin
    @courtneyoneillviolin ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @albumvlogs6281
    @albumvlogs6281 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice blogs brow....💗❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @leejr9999
    @leejr9999 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @tapannayak3503
    @tapannayak3503 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so sorry

  • @sophielily2015
    @sophielily2015 ปีที่แล้ว

    🩵🩵🩵

  • @lydirxx
    @lydirxx ปีที่แล้ว

    The fact that im 13 and watching this just feels weird

  • @gamelylo
    @gamelylo ปีที่แล้ว

    Waaay too many ads in one video... I'm out!

    • @MontelleBee
      @MontelleBee  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How many? I don’t manually insert the ads so I wasn’t aware of this!

  • @thaliaf0804
    @thaliaf0804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg saw this at the right time almost quit my job but but someone told me not act of emotion and now this 🫶🏼

  • @OrimoladeElizabeth-ly8sh
    @OrimoladeElizabeth-ly8sh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Montelle looked like you were Speaking about me

  • @iheonugoodness06
    @iheonugoodness06 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤