The Frameworks That Will Make You Irresistible
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ม.ค. 2025
- In this clip from The Diary of a CEO, I discuss the frameworks that will make you irresistible.
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define those two with examples
I don't think so you are either mature or wise
Its a wannabe conudrum
While in TIKTOK.. obeserve what they do.
Yes I wish I had this available to me growing up.
But the most important thing is that they learn themselves more so then their environment becomes you create ur environment from what’s inside.
Trust is not about good or bad things, it's about predictable outcomes. I like it.
Trust is based on a consistency of behavior.
Trust is always about good things. It is the knowledge that's about predictable outcomes. You know that a particular person will do a bad thing. You don't trust that people will do a bad thing.
@@aloksrivastava7938No this is just the way your brain has come to associate the word. You can trust that someone will let you down. The definition is completely ambiguous, just not often used in that way.
That’s why DMX said you trust a snake to be a snake. Trust people to be who they are!
she says... "he doesn't look like a spy, he looks like a yoga instructor"
That’s the point…
@@reillynadler296 hair makes you look trustworthy
@@mistrzYiso baldies are untrustworthy?
@@brynna77 yes🤣🤣
Thatswhy hes perfect spy
Fascinating, so all these years pizza was exerting influence on me and not persuasion. I think you're another genius sir
Now i know y our boss in the past spends time with us 1 week team vacation sometimes. They gained our trust and now they influence us to obey them. Fascinating thought!
It’s insane how I’ve been doing this stuff innately and he has a framework for it. Dope.
Sure bud
I've been watching you for a while now I love this show, absorbing all I can. I relate to so much of what you're topics are and rebuilding my life from ground zero from a literal shed.
This is one of the best videos on persuasion and influence that I have watched. A summary of all the best stuff in such a short span of time. Totally killed it. Hope it doesn't kill my influence in the relationships using this information😅
I love how Andy circles back to what he’s talking about with how active persuasion becomes passive influence.
This makes sense on a general base, like what they teach you when you lack in specific trait; of second nature for whatever you fancy. Now when you can read a person, place, thing by one look.. that's the one, boom!
Either you got it or you don't no matter what they teach behind closed doors.
For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden".
Why for women?
Yet another book to 'copy and paste' behavior from. Disallowing women to find true personality traits. That's the problem today. Everyone wants to be "just like that person" but more often enough it won't work.
@@jt.8144THANK YOU! No actual realness anymore
@@jt.8144Exactly. People are better off inquiring of themselves and developing their true self. Well said 👏
Dont waste your time ladies
Being predictable is a good way to build trust.
Being predictable is also a good way to lose a woman’s interest and even break up with you because of it.
being predictable is boring.
@@SolReaver That may be the excuse but it's really her unresolved issues driving her to self-sabotage. Women looking to start a family usually want someone they can count on.
@@luddity I’ve never met a woman who doesn’t want someone they can count on. However, I don’t think that you’re aware of the fact that 80% of the women in the USA are under at least one form of medication for a mental/emotional disorder. Which is kinda scary for a man to consider, even though a woman may say that she wants a family & be attractive enough for a man to fall for her charms but according to the statistics, chances are she may not be mentally/emotionally healthy enough to be a good mother.
Getting What You Want: Everyday Spy's Guide To - sounds like the title of a good book and possibly series.
Anytime your using some one you will lose something in the process
Law of nature
So don’t use ppl
Magnetic presence achieved - Habit10x principles aligned with these frameworks.
8:42 ... "Trust [...] just means a predictable outcome".
I disagree.
Just as with persuasion and influence (0:37), there are subtle but significant differences with trust and predictability.
Hmmm interesting new guy who I won’t avoid lol. Time to go view more of his content, thought provoking.
This guy is a recruiting tool for the CIA. They even got him dressed up in that hair that does not go with his sociopathic eyes at all 😂.
The guy gives lesson just about anything. From war to politics and now seduction. If you talk confidently you can say basically anything and people listen carefully. Well there 's a lesson I learned
its cIa spy
Small channel here, let’s connect everyone! Love your video, thank you for providing examples about these processes. ❤
Thanks ANDREW you have done your research WELL! keep sharing the BLESSINGS to EVERYONE!
Thank you so much
I love that mug!
Shockingly, this lesson conjured so many mixed feelings in me. Mostly anxiety touched with a little bit of sadness. Am I touched in the head? 😅
This is assuming people are logical , which they are not , we are emotional animals backed up by reasons , justifications.
what about the influence of the unconscious maybe we like or trust someone because they unconsciously remind us of someone a parent or teacher for example.
we can also like someone until we get to know them just as an example.
It can work both ways, also it's not black and white when we are dealing with humans there are so many variables not all humans fear changes people fear bad changes few people would mind the change of winning the lottery .
As humans we don't always fear changes we fear the perception of bad changes.
Again nothing is black and white other than we tend to avoid pain and move towards pleasures but even that is subjective.
Pain can be pleasure and to much pleasure can bring pain to much certainty can crave uncertainty.
Familiarity creates predictions and we tend to trust things we think are predictable. Trust is only as good as the last agreement followed through.
No. Men are logical, women are emotional.
@@TheWorkshop190No read thinking fast and slow.
Men are more logical but still emotional justified by logic.
Andrew you've been on point with many subjects 👏
Once I fell inlove with a person because of this. He just kept on appearing, coming for a massage, he was not beautiful not ugly, very normal but with good social skills, not rich not poor, friendly, we talked, he was there when I needed something and even though I felt no attraction at the beginning, he was kind of THERE... like, this made him trustworthy at the end. Even if a little weird detail happened at the very beginning of we knowing each other: I was giving him the massage which he had booked and he kind of said to himself, like if he was thinking out loud, "I don't know but...I don't think you are dangerous..." and I heard it but didn't say anything, pretended not to have noticed, but yes noticed and to tell the truth I was a bit disgusted and thought "Why... why should I be? No, dude I am NOT dangerous and I deserve an explanation!"... but for years I didn't say anything. Later on when things turned sour because he started playing around and being unreliable as soon as he noticed I was inlove, I threw this incident to his face. I told him I remember you said this that day and so I thought someone had told you I am dangerous and this is why you had said it. Of course he answered that I was crazy and argumented that he could not work for any organization because "Look at the way I look! I look completely normal I am no superman no good physique!" and he really emphasized on the physique and why that justified he not being a part of any intelligence group. Yes, I could have been wrong but the phrase "I don't tink you are dangerous..." in that thoughtful tone of voice is not a very normal thing to say to someone on a first encounter, it never happened to me. I told this to a friend later on and he said ignore him, he is just a psychopath profile guy, he says dumb shit to play games... Anyway, that period was a very dark one for me, uf, I am so glad I will never go back to such a dark period, now everything is just moving forward since many years. And what I have learned from this is that even though a person seems trustworthy because of apparent reliability there can still be surprises at the end.
What a story
There's always a hint at the very beginning.
Tf are u on about
The details you shared about this were fantastic. Hold on to this
Bro wrote a novel
This video has a flashing suggestion, "ship for a flat rate"... Andrew, you should check on that.
But no matter what, there is always a power dynamic in the relationship?? Right??
Simplistic.
Aaaand now i kind of understand my influence.
Andrew, man, I bet you would a fun guy to play ultimate Frisbee with
@@WillAyy_R i laughed. so on point, the ultimate Frisbee partner 💯
It sounds like you're describing trust as a lack of uncertainty
I love how he mentions soccer before football lol... Real recognize real
Robert green had the best book on that
Very logical. Its just a science.
Its behaviour
Science is method to understand reality
Not reality itself
If something new we want to avoid it? New can be very exciting. Why avoid it?
How does it applies to ALL people?
Where's the irresistible part? I don't trust anyone i don't like. In your face, Andrew!
makes a lot of sense
You Persuade To Gain Influence
This is so worthfull informations
Wtf is he talking about
😂😂 Right?!
Russian nesting doll subframeworks. What's not to understand?
Exactly a whole bunch of none sense. He is making simple common sense stuff complicated and ppl are falling for it smh
He's talking about constipation and having to take a Dua Lupa
If u don’t got the brain power to understand just say that. Because I understand clearly
Thanks bud I wish I only wish my Spanish expertise could help and make me useful!..
Andrew, thanks for sharing Lucy with us.We missed her, while you were on assignment.🖖🖖
Honestly at this point in my life, the only way I'll ever see a man or a woman romantically is if I pay money for it. 🤣😭
Want to go on a date
When
Chinese woman have mastered this.. ask UK Jeremy Chunt and Mitch McConnell from US. They don’t marry a normal bloke
What do you mean they don't marry a normal bloke?
@ a white guy who is an average Joe
Click bait title.
storming, norming performing
Truth
SO HOW COME I KNOW SO MUCH
Bullshit on the 1st one of avoiding someone when you first meet em when you like that person
I see his mouth moving but his voice sounds just like Joe Rogan.
Change the title to how to build trust
A former CIA asset is just out in spotlight…
That guy likes to listen to himself and avoid getting to the ducking point
if you are good looking and rich no issues, don’t need all this knowledge
Amazing.
For all the men out there, I would strongly suggest u invest on your mental health because... whew
Koreans call it jeong
you did what ? to who ? for how many cookies ?
As a PSYOP practitioner, I can 100% tell you this guy knows NOTHING about what he’s talking about.
Andrew has an important mission, give him until June and you’ll see what I meant.
Please explain
That's the most vague prediction ever.. I also believe there will be an extraordinary thing that happens in 2025.. That way I'm never wrong and I can get internet points too 😂😂😂
💧🍄💧
Not like me and you. On a date.
The way he explains this is very confusing. Be clear in your message.
Lmao Influence is what you have once you persuade
What's funny? Its true
Forget seduction... Tell me abt ur hair routine
Real Jason Bourne type stuff.
I do women. Not men
😂
No you don’t. You fantasize about men on your couch.
clickbait thumbnael?
Boring blathering banal click bait.
Trust is GOOD. Knowing a bad persons behavior does not make them a good or loving person.
Can I now predict that your future videos will be dry click bait?
Dude. Way too much technical blah blah. Get to the point, do details after.
Either that or title is clickbait
I will show you irrisistable
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Dont listens puppets…..😂
What? He is talking about knowing someone and calling it trusting someone. Those are two completely different things. Who falls for this nonsense.
How does this have anything to do with seduction? Clickbait sucks.
Blablablablabla....This is bullshit.....you can spend all the time you want with people and share things, that won't make you irresistible ! This guy is selling you dreams...like most TH-camrs. He is good to tell stories, and hypnotize you with its narrative, that's all...
you lack “game”. that’s why it went over your head
@@SLIMMIKETV you are so smart...
Andrew, what you’re talking about you have no actual concept or understanding on. This is all speculation and isn’t factual. You don’t know yourself and how to get what you want out of relationships and life.
you gets no hoes 😂
His hand gestures made me stop watching
This bloke uses a whole lot of words to say a whole lot of nothing
Whys yt keep shoving a cia liar down my throat?
Clickbaiy
any books on that to make me my gf
Anytime your using some one you will lose something in the process
Law of nature
So don’t use ppl