My Wife or My Girlfriend Dr. Phil You Decide

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  • Melvin says he is torn between his wife of eight years, Rachel, and his girlfriend of two years, Chantelle, and he wants Dr. Phil to help him decide whom he should choose. Tension builds when the women meet face to face for the first time. Will Dr. Phil help Melvin with his choice -- or will someone else make the decision for him? (2213022RR)
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  • @heavenleeangeltalk8471
    @heavenleeangeltalk8471 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +205

    Believe this, Your soulmate will NOT be found in someone else's husband!!!!

    • @sonyasanders9108
      @sonyasanders9108 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Truth. God does not give you someone's spouse.

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Exactly!

    • @sandralittle2138
      @sandralittle2138 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So right!

    • @meghanwilliams4295
      @meghanwilliams4295 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      And your marriage won't be successful if your husband wants to be in someone else's arms.

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@meghanwilliams4295 exactly!

  • @colleenandrews3720
    @colleenandrews3720 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +97

    Wife should walk away and never look back.

  • @StrawberryJam806
    @StrawberryJam806 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +283

    Imagine fighting over this dude lmao

    • @Jackmcars12
      @Jackmcars12 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      😂😂

    • @rsimmons41407
      @rsimmons41407 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      Definition of rock bottom

    • @terrylancey5451
      @terrylancey5451 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Right!

    • @80ladyjay78
      @80ladyjay78 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      😂

    • @nessae354
      @nessae354 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Imagine choosing to ruin your life for Chantal over your wife

  • @Annsunshine30
    @Annsunshine30 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    He called himself loyal and faithful......................

    • @EileenThompson-cq8nd
      @EileenThompson-cq8nd 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right??! Why didn’t Dr Phil call him out on that.

    • @christyhunter4362
      @christyhunter4362 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Most cheaters are liars too.

  • @trijntjejacoba
    @trijntjejacoba 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    I never understand why two women fight for a man who proves to be unfaithful.
    What a disgrace

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I completely agree with you it is absolutely baffling to me.

    • @KellyThutwa
      @KellyThutwa 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I agree with you, this is WHAT THEY CALL DESPERATION in both of the women!

  • @marilynoliver5965
    @marilynoliver5965 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +83

    Women why???? Why such low self-esteem to allow this waiting for him to decide.

    • @Ninnjette-
      @Ninnjette- 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Thank you!! Why do women fight over garbage?

    • @jennypham3998
      @jennypham3998 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Ninnjette-😂

  • @nessae354
    @nessae354 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +101

    Chantal and Melvin are perfect for each other. Theyre both foul and selfish. Let them be together and sit back and wait for him to cheat on her too and her to cheat on him with another married man. Chantal doesn't get any sympathy. She chose this.

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    A player like this dude isn’t worth the energy 😢

  • @suemcdermott2947
    @suemcdermott2947 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +81

    You dont meet a husband on a christian dating site, he just finds kind needy women he can use.

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Melvin only cares about Melvin.

  • @LisaFerguson-lw8il
    @LisaFerguson-lw8il 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    I began dating a divorced man. He was so caring and fun to be with. It was by pure accident that I discovered he was still married. I dug deeply and found that he was not just married, he had 3 children, and was living with his wife & family when he wasn't in another city, where I lived. I called his wife, apologising to her for the time I spent with him. She & I became and remain good friends. As a woman, I'm never going to steal a man.

    • @murdahmammiez
      @murdahmammiez 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Please tell me she left him?

  • @user-bo1bw7jw4o
    @user-bo1bw7jw4o 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    Ugh, never chase a man! The second a dude is interested in someone else, you bounce! I had a guy that tried that on me once, he dumped me for my friend and then tried to come back, I laughed in his face. I could never be attracted to him again.

    • @thomaspierce1230
      @thomaspierce1230 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Same for women

    • @sarahalderman3126
      @sarahalderman3126 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Exactly!

    • @sarahalderman3126
      @sarahalderman3126 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@thomaspierce1230uh yes, of course it applies to women, a woman wrote it.😂

  • @truleekemp5768
    @truleekemp5768 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    He wants shantell pls leave him honey

  • @rolondabrown1233
    @rolondabrown1233 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The wife ain’t playing with a full deck

  • @christinebrument6851
    @christinebrument6851 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Hes cheating and yet she's still sleeping with him.. wheres your self respect.?

  • @Melissa-xz8ss
    @Melissa-xz8ss 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    That man is a child

  • @JeanetteSullivan1
    @JeanetteSullivan1 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Does Rachel even consider that he could be bringing STDs home to her?? That is GROSS!! What woman would ever want a man like that. He's disgusting!

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Life is just way too short for any of this drama!

  • @8213apice
    @8213apice 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    How can you let go of a man that’s committed to another woman? He wasn’t yours anyways.

  • @patimastbrook5278
    @patimastbrook5278 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Let her have him … he doesn’t deserve you

  • @fabiwilliams4644
    @fabiwilliams4644 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    I don't know why women consistently blame the other woman. He's to blame not her. At least have the dignity to proudly walk away & take back your power

  • @calgal5752
    @calgal5752 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Why would anybody want this dude???

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This man is not stopping anything

  • @wrenh5046
    @wrenh5046 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Why do I feel like he still wouldn’t marry Chantal even if him and his wife were divorced 💀

  • @taychanel
    @taychanel 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Let him go.

  • @trashpanda3837
    @trashpanda3837 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Wooow the way he ran over to his homewrecker when he got his feelings hurt. 🐮

  • @danniifan3115
    @danniifan3115 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    From one bald bloke to another cracked me up!

  • @shirleyscott8879
    @shirleyscott8879 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If I were either of these women, I would be gone

  • @IkaneishaJenkins
    @IkaneishaJenkins 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    whew, he isn't attractive, wealthy or emotionally intelligent, what are these ladies fighting over?? Not saying wealth matters but sheesh, this guy isn't WORTH it lol

  • @dianewaynewood4477
    @dianewaynewood4477 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    You married him after knowing him for six weeks? Lady, you have issues that you need to deal with before you make any decisions about being in a relationship.

  • @Jackmcars12
    @Jackmcars12 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Narcissist

    • @cancandoit
      @cancandoit 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He also has schizophrenia, is a convicted felon. Probably some other serious mental health stuff going on.

  • @gina-mj6wu
    @gina-mj6wu 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Divorce is the key🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @truleekemp5768
    @truleekemp5768 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    I feel so bad for her smh i hope she finds the strength to move on from him and find better because she deserves better

  • @Melissa-xz8ss
    @Melissa-xz8ss 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    "Sometimes you have to make up your mind,
    Say yes to one and let the other one ride"

    • @alanaadams7440
      @alanaadams7440 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Did you ever have to make up your mind

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alanaadams7440we have all had to make decisions. I made a decision to leave my cheating husband.

  • @kathconserv
    @kathconserv 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This stupid frown on Melvin’s face is annoying.

  • @alonteprince826
    @alonteprince826 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE GOTTA LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

  • @juliehofer1940
    @juliehofer1940 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Correct. Why doesn’t she make the decision.

  • @fannyfroeschl
    @fannyfroeschl 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Fighting? Get some dignity for heaven's sake!
    Over him? WTF?

  • @AkitaLover1013
    @AkitaLover1013 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    This guy wanted an excuse to cheat and he took it! If it wasn't her it would have been someone else! He was looking to cheat!

  • @carmelstainsby57
    @carmelstainsby57 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Did i just come across the twilight zone😅😅😅😅😅

  • @pauladouglas9891
    @pauladouglas9891 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I wonder what happened in their marriage that they separated in the first place. Oh, just found he is on drugs too.

  • @nancymorris995
    @nancymorris995 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The whole Pick me!! Pick me!! thing is beyond my comprehension.

  • @RebeccaEdwards-pt4or
    @RebeccaEdwards-pt4or 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just wow...why question!??

  • @nellabrown6190
    @nellabrown6190 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Melvin has a very odd affect. He's frighting.

  • @ScoobyHashSnacks420
    @ScoobyHashSnacks420 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    If he’ll do it with you, he’ll do it to you.

  • @contactam1753
    @contactam1753 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The face of the wife when she heard he say yes! I think she would want let him miserable.. better they seperate they re nit good for each other

  • @Patricia-pq4jq
    @Patricia-pq4jq 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Melvin needs to go

  • @da---536
    @da---536 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    who does he go to when he is broke? wife

  • @browneyes2100
    @browneyes2100 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Well he has a type.
    Needy & not self loving.

  • @mollyscot1563
    @mollyscot1563 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +110

    I love that the wife is blaming the gf not her husband. Wake up.

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      I was just going to say that Melvin needs to leave Chantel alone. I hate when wives have misplaced anger. I had a husband who cheated on me and I didn’t blame the other woman. My ex broke his vows to me, she didn’t.

    • @michmor6221
      @michmor6221 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      ​@grammar4341 My thoughts exactly, agree 1000%

    • @emmacollins4858
      @emmacollins4858 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      They’re both to blame. He has a wife and she knows he has a wife. Both of their morals are in the gutter.

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      They're both at fault. Not equal he's worse but she has responsibility in this too

    • @alannatodd7183
      @alannatodd7183 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I was also cheated on by my first husband. Why a person who is unhappy in their marriage chooses to cheat as a solution is beyond me. Yes I take partial blame, but the fact that he didn't make an effort to let me know how he felt about the marriage and wasn't man enough to say it wasn't working before he cheated was a huge sign the marriage wasn't worth saving. I also have no respect for the other person who chooses to step in when a marriage isn't totally dissolved. Fun fact, his relationship may have lasted a year or so, but I'm going on 20 years with my second husband and he is still alone.

  • @whitneyrenepaige4321
    @whitneyrenepaige4321 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Chantal and Melvin deserve each other.

  • @eilenekellogg-ki2br
    @eilenekellogg-ki2br 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Co dependment.

  • @torrimills1915
    @torrimills1915 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Ol Melvin ain't worth it honey😂😂

  • @Nahugodia
    @Nahugodia 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The answer is in his behaviour. Move on

  • @thecongenital3035
    @thecongenital3035 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Doormats but wont leave and wont tell him to leave her alone.

  • @ArkansasSquaw
    @ArkansasSquaw 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Girl, you deserve better than this....

  • @specialkay4329
    @specialkay4329 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ugh! I betchu he would go nuts if wifey had a boyfriend. I would see too, if I were her.

  • @mrssunnyface
    @mrssunnyface 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    If he cheats he’s a loser. I would of left him in 2 seconds

  • @Little_Toy_Soldier
    @Little_Toy_Soldier 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Didn't she mention in the very beginning that he was playing both of them, and yet here she is solely blaming the girlfriend for his responsibility of being a husband? make it make sense.

  • @pdig2963
    @pdig2963 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    And that's what we're fighting over 🤢

  • @ree305
    @ree305 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Wow 😮..when the prize is a "Jack in the box"🙃

  • @jackiehendricks4941
    @jackiehendricks4941 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    He's such a drama queen, lol.

  • @Jkaye13
    @Jkaye13 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    'If my wife doesn't want to continue our relationship, l want her to tell me..'. So what you want is to play both women at the same time.. what a louse! They both need to drop you!!

  • @meghanwilliams4295
    @meghanwilliams4295 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Because NO.

  • @sueturner5541
    @sueturner5541 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He wants his cake and eat it x

  • @trashpanda3837
    @trashpanda3837 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    What a self absorbed drama queen. He's too bad of an actor to believe he's the main character.

  • @narcdetester2102
    @narcdetester2102 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a creep, are these ladies mad?

  • @MyRandomThoughts305
    @MyRandomThoughts305 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wife needs to be mad at her husband... not the other woman. He made vows not the other woman.

  • @sandimccracken2781
    @sandimccracken2781 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    If he has anything to do with that BIG MAMA, he’ll never be faithful to anyone.

  • @maryhirsch7170
    @maryhirsch7170 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    Once a cheater, always a cheater!

  • @melaniewantsabeer243
    @melaniewantsabeer243 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Where is the disgust for the husband? Pick me girl is upset he's a Dawg and yet she still made herself a fool

  • @LAStars-sratS
    @LAStars-sratS 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    He just wants tail and the women lack self esteem.

  • @rhondawilliams8155
    @rhondawilliams8155 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Are these grownups or kids?

  • @loriwood8468
    @loriwood8468 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    RUN! It NEVER works out once you find out someone is cheating. I speak from experience.

  • @gm-wv2yt
    @gm-wv2yt 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Phil always says he doesn’t judge people - watch this tape and tell me he isn’t judging this guy lol

  • @user-sd1sz1lb2e
    @user-sd1sz1lb2e 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Say bye bye.

  • @user-lk6oc2vj6m
    @user-lk6oc2vj6m 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Remember, if Melvin can have an affair, then anyone can

  • @suepost9026
    @suepost9026 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I don feel sorry for her at all. She is such a fool. Look at all he's done, yet she kept going back with him. Why would she want him. He has issues, but man, so does she.

  • @jac3271
    @jac3271 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    They bandy around the term “love” but it appears neither know what real love is! It’s some kind of perverse obsession. The wife should leave immediately.

  • @juliehofer1940
    @juliehofer1940 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This is ridiculous

  • @darladexter5443
    @darladexter5443 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Weak !! All 3 of them 😫

  • @hannahrachelxo2281
    @hannahrachelxo2281 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I wonder where they are now

  • @steveleon4295
    @steveleon4295 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    me too!

  • @user-qv2hq4df4p
    @user-qv2hq4df4p 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lady move on

  • @alc4ever24
    @alc4ever24 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Awe. I feel very bad for rachel. She can do so much better. She's a nice looking lady and deserves respect. Just a thought; my granny told me NEVER to call a man when youre dating. You always wait for them to contact you. It worked on my now husband. A woman asking a man to marry her is doomed for failure.

  • @user-po1ln6jr4l
    @user-po1ln6jr4l 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I am gay and I found my husband on a Christian dating site.

    • @terriconnelly931
      @terriconnelly931 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Sounds right

    • @vandafielden6552
      @vandafielden6552 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @user-polln6jr41
      Of course there are genuine Christians, he was NOT one look at all the really IMPORTANT things he omitted to tell his wife, such as his Criminal Past, Drug Use his Diagnosis etc etc.
      Real Christian's would never lie like that.

    • @user-po1ln6jr4l
      @user-po1ln6jr4l 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@vandafielden6552 I come from a Christian family and you know what what's the most religious ones are the biggest cons. The atheist ones in my family are the normal ones and the Christians the ones that go to church all the time are the thieves . The Apple doesn't fall far from the tree

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Says the man who makes a statement that "Religion is the root of all evil"?!?!?! Interesting comment that you make on this video that you found your husband on a Christian dating website but I see you make a comment on another video saying that religion is the root of all evil, okay 🙄

  • @rc3wondere
    @rc3wondere 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nah this can't be real 😅

  • @tessiebernstein1648
    @tessiebernstein1648 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Dr.Phil 🤠 the wife deserves what she is treated 🤡 I am married 47yrs and I told my husband if he doesn't love me anymore HE IS CERTAINLY FREE to go where he is happy 🥰

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      My husband and I had both been cheated on in our previous marriages. This is the second marriage for both of us. We promised each other that if we found someone else that we couldn’t do without, we would get a divorce rather than cheat. That was over 27 years ago. We remain faithful to each other.

    • @cancandoit
      @cancandoit 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No. She doesn't deserve this, but she doesn't realize that she deserves better.

  • @hazelsoca4577
    @hazelsoca4577 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You dont know someone in 6 weeks.. Geesh, do a background check on people.. A Christian website doesn't mean you are getting a faithful or decent partner.. You have to watch that person to see how their live their life, how they treat others, their family, etc...smh!

  • @casechow
    @casechow 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    ...is this a parody?? You have got to be kidding me.

  • @ivylinrolle8020
    @ivylinrolle8020 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This evil 😈 is like a ship without a sail ⛵️

  • @KB-nl9vu
    @KB-nl9vu 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a joke this Melvin is!!! 🤣🤣

  • @cherylhaugen1897
    @cherylhaugen1897 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This man is still a child! What he needs is a “mother” figure!

  • @kristin5322
    @kristin5322 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The wifes face when he took the help, it was like she was mad he was leaving to get help. Very telling.

  • @Sarah3984
    @Sarah3984 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Are there no other men left in the world?

  • @GoldenBuddah1972
    @GoldenBuddah1972 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    DO NOT FIGHT OVER THIS LOSER. HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. I’m sorry, honey. PLEASE move on! You deserve better! And it’s appalling that he faults you! Run like your hair is on fire!

  • @theirishcailin333
    @theirishcailin333 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Im only 1 minute in and seriously, what is wrong with some women. Have they no self respect because he certainly has none for them!!

  • @keba171
    @keba171 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Woman come on we can do better than this .....😢this is embarrassing

  • @kazzakoala
    @kazzakoala 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Walk away and hold your head high. You deserve to be the only one. It’s not his decision. It’s your decision. He’s blaming her for him having an affair. If your marriage is rocky and you leave the home for any reason, you go to a relatives house. Go to a friends house. It’s no excuse to be a cheating dog. That’s on you when you do that.

  • @H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI
    @H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Y'all ought to be ashamed of yourselves! This man is SLOW he has schizophrenia THIS DRAMA WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR LIFE!!!!!!