Please share your friendship breakup story. Consider this as a non-judgmental space to share anything you want. I will try to help you in any way I can❣
Yes the most painful experience in my life till now. Nothing special , suddenly she got a new friend more favorable, and forgot me, forgot our 5 years of friendship , now I am my best friend.
Hi Drishti ! This is Khushi from Kolkata. I've started watching your videos this year only. And I'm glad that I've started. So, I would like to talk about this video. Can't tell you how much I relate to you on this topic. Like even I've had bad schooling experience. I've also faced the same problem as yours of not having friends, struggled to make friends. And I'm also from ICSE board and honestly the students and teachers were so obsessed with speaking English. I felt so judged. Even they used to highlight smallest of the grammatical mistakes so harshly as if one has done something wrong. I have the worst schooling experience. And regarding friendships, I've made two friends in my 11th grade. I really used to enjoy being around them. But one of them has broken our friendship in 2021 and the one whom I called my best friend also left me this year. I was so so sad that I even cried that day. I tried approaching her many times but she was not interested to be with me. So yeah it ended. I think the reason why it has got ended is that there was a lot of communication gaps and misunderstandings. Also she wasn't ready to sort out things so I left it. Well I never ever imagined that this 6 year long friendship will going to end someday. As this friendship got over. I've started developing trust issues with my partner. It was tough. And I understand what you said that when you have no friends and one of the person suddenly appears in your life and you start giving so much importance to that person. I completely relates to you. I'm working on it currently. I don't want to be like that. It's okay if there are less people in my life. I try to focus on my self right now. Hope you'll going to read this❤🌙✨️
My only flaw is - I got too much attached to someone who even show me some respect, Lesson - Remember, everyone is Temporary, every single friend give you a lesson..!! You just need to grow..... Love this video!!
To me it's so relatable right now. I've always had an uneven past about friendships. I've always been left out. And as usual recently I've been through a friendship breakup. Which is so hurtful yet there is no one to trust and share them!! But compared to the past this time I've reacted it to maturely. Without begging them to stay I've let them go. There's still this empty space that does hurt. So I can relate to this a lot. Thanks to you for talking about this 🥹❤️
It is so so relatable! People won't talk about it. They don't get it. They might think that such things don't hurt. Nope, seeing a close dear friend leave sucks. It stings. It hurts. It just breaks you down to nothing. I could relate to it at a completely different level. Thanks for this one!
My story is that I am a person who’s available to everyone and help everyone I could but later I got to know the people I’m with speak to me when they need anything In my 18 years of life I’ve been searching for a true friend There’s no one I could say that he or she is my friend Now I’m at peace not thinking about anyone But sometimes when I see my so called friend I feel sad of not having anyone in my life to share my problems Ofcourse one thing I’m happy about is my family They support me in my tough times
I used to think I'm the only one who's unlucky in friendship from childhood till college is feels really depression when you don't have anyone by your side 😔 I can understand your feelings
hit and trial method use karo, dosti ka hath badane me aur sir par bithane me farak hota hai. stay being kind to people, that is good for your ethics system itself. but know when to stop. or how much one should be available to someone, understand difference between being respectful and loosing self respect and maintain that difference. dunia me har sher ka sava sher hai, learn from that. accept it and move on.
Par ye jitni asan dikhti hai utna hai nhi ..Jab aapka koi dost nahi hota toh taqlif toh hoti hai ..Upar se Jab aap iske bawjood kise se attach ho gaye Freind samjh ke aur samne wali ne naye dost banake aapko complete ignore aur mistreat kare..
Upar se aap ek aisi situation mein ho jahan unlogon ke baareinmein kisi se kuch share nahi kar sakte..Aur woh log naye logon ke saath dosto karke khush hai aur aap abhi bhi wahi stuck ho..Ki woh log aapko mistreat kyun kar rahe hain ?
Dristi..... I really can't express my gratitude towards you ❤.। I am a introvert and because of your videos I amm trying to make new friends and becoming more confident may God always always bless u dear❤
My story is about my 9-year friendship breakup. I can't say her real name, so I’ll call her Neha. Neha was my ex-best friend. We were best friends from class 2 to class 10. I spent my whole school life with her, and she took care of me too. However, things changed after the class 10 board exams We were a group of four friends. I won’t take the real names of the other girls either, so I’ll call them Priya and Diya. Priya and Diya sat together, and Neha and I sat together because only two girls could sit on one bench. We four were very close, sharing secrets with each other. Though we had fights occasionally, we always fixed things and became good friends again. It felt like we were inseparable. While we had other friends, the four of us were the closest. After class 10, things started changing. Neha and I joined the same tuition. One day, our tuition teacher said, “Boys’ friendships are more genuine than girls’ friendships.” I proudly disagreed and gave my friendship with Neha as an example. But within a year, we were no longer as close as before. Neha used to come to my home for tuition, and our dads were good friends. After class 10, all four of us-Neha, Priya, Diya, and I-chose the same academic stream. However, Priya and Diya’s friendship became less close, and the bond between them started to fade. Priya then targeted my friendship with Neha. Priya first tried to manipulate me by saying bad things about Neha and backbiting about her. However, I didn’t let her words affect my friendship with Neha. When she failed to break us apart, she used the same tactic with Neha, who was easily influenced. Neha became closer to Priya and started distancing herself from me. Priya would often call Neha, and the next day at school, Neha would tell me how much they talked, just to make me jealous. Over time, Neha stopped sitting with me. Initially, she would sit with me for 2-3 periods, but then she’d move to sit with Priya. I felt left out and hurt. Meanwhile, Diya made a new friend and began sitting with her. I was often left alone. The three of them-Priya, Neha, Diya and Diya’s new friend-started hanging out together without informing me. One day, they told me about their plan to go out and invited me too. I was so happy because my strict parents had allowed me to go. However, they didn’t follow up with me to confirm my plans. I waited all day, thinking they’d ask me, but they didn’t. The next morning, at 11 AM, I decided to text them. Their reply shattered me: “We already went. We’ll go with you some other day.” I felt so hurt and left out. Seeing their status and insta stories made it worse. I couldn’t believe Neha, who was once my closest friend, could treat me this way. She even insulted me one day, which hurt me even more. One day, they invited me to hang out again. I went, but Priya and Neha made me feel left out once more. Then the pandemic started. By class 12, my bond with p had slightly improved, but it was nowhere near what it used to be. Meanwhile, Priya and Neha became best friends, and Neha-my once-best friend-felt like a stranger. After class 12, Priya, Neha, and I ended up in the same college, even though I didn’t want to. My parents decided I should study there. During our college years, Priya and I started becoming closer. She put effort into our friendship, and we grew stronger. However, my friendship with Neha remained awkward. Priya maintained good relationships with both of us but still prioritized Neha over me during college. Towards the end of college, Neha betrayed Priya. She talked badly about Priya to her boyfriend, and Priya found out and many more ... Their friendship ended, and they both got their karma. And god saved from a b**** like neha so God removed neha from my life before and priya also got what she deserve...and I am happy that priya broke my and neha friendship because neha is a bitch Now, Priya and I are best friends. She values our friendship above everything else. She learned her lesson, and we’ve both grown from the experience. I hold no grudges because Priya did the right thing by breaking my friendship with Neha. In the end, we both realized Neha was toxic. Now, Priya is someone I can count on for anything. And yes I forgot about Diya she joined another college in different city we are still goods friend but due to distance we don't talk daily but bond is still the same.
@@turkishentertainment5309 Same, it will be tough too. But if someone is putting efforts and valuing and respecting the friendship its ok to give them another chance.
@@004shrijanabasyal yes now she changed a lot and she is like my sister now ..every relationship either it's friendship or any romantic relationship there is ups and downs but if they changed and putting efforts then giving them an another change is okay ..although we are small at that time we were teenager now I am 21 completed my degree too.
Drishti Sharma ❌ Blessings ✅ Because its also hard for you to open up with your feelings in front of camera. Reminding or crossing over past memories to share your learnings to other fellow who actually need it. Thats truely great. ❤
i used to think that i m the only one facing this. i searched about it but noticed that nobody is talking about this shit. but man you r so nice to talk about it
Wow that version wala example made me understand why i behave in a certain way when I'm with my friend and why i get irritated when some irritating person comes in front of me yess this will surely useful for me to be that good version of my self which i get into when I'm alone thank you drishti di
i love your content , i usually end my friendship from my side when i get to know that they are not interested in me they don't want to talk to me , after staying together all the time when i need them or want they understand my feeling , they just ignore me and this ignorance kills me from inside as i gave my 100% i fight from everyone from them leave my work do their work first and listen to there feeling try to heal them give me time ,, and at the end i writing these thing here to heal myself its strange feeling knowing that you have no one how can listen to you but i find my way i tell everything to my krishna and they never judge me they help me a lot in my hard time they send someone to help me and from this i can say that do what you feel for other do your best god will give you the best
Hello Drishti, I am really amazed to see someone talking about this thing in such a deep and profound manner. I also share a similar journey and set of challenges. It really touched me especially when you shared your experience during your high school and college. It takes guts to share without thinking about how would it sound. Thankfully, I can say I'm not the only one who has been through this. It feels really good to get know people who are/have been through this phase even virtually if not in-person. I would love to talk and share mine more if I ever get a chance to attend one of your meetup events and get a chance to meet you. Your content is awesome and genuine. Keep it up!
Drishti i became so emotional after watching this video that I couldn't even continue after the first part. I will try to watch it today after a month gap I guess. You are a great soul. You motivate many people like me whose plane is about to take off but is struggling in the runway.
This video come in my feed While I'm trying t figure out to move on from my friendship I have given my 3 years to this person always put my 100% efforts Always tere for that person This person always treated me according the situation and mood My best friend betrayed me before Than I trust this person again for friendship But now I have realised that friendship is not made for me , I'm alone happy And jab rassi wali baat ki Di ne toh maine feel Kiya ki exactly I was the person who is holding everything thing And wanted to keep this person with me But life never stops and this video really helped me ❤❤
Thankyou for bringing out a video on this topic. From teenage to adulthood, I have faced many friendship breakups. Apki yeh video dekhte hue puri timeline aa gyi mere samne kab mene kisi k lie kya kia. I analysed my patterns and found ki mai logo k lie unke need se jyada help krti hu and unke hurtful behaviour ko call out nhi krti taki unko bura nhi lage. Bhut recently mene yeh realise kia ki one of the reason for it was ki mujhe lagta tha ki I AM DEPENDENT on them but once I started going out alone their void is gone.
My lovely drishti don't worry I am your friend.....❤️ Mai easily mahsoos kar rahi thi is vidio aapka dard and I know friendship break-ups humko kitna week bana dete hain and sometimes strong bhi drishti I just wanna say you are my friend...... And Han mujhe wo version wala part bhut sahi laga ....😊 Lot's of love and friendship from my side 💖
I was recently going through this phase and I just saw your video which just healed me like no other can.. your videos always motivate me to be confident and know my self worth..you're truly a very good influencer for me everytime I feel low I just watch your videos to come out of overthinking..thanks Drishti for sharing such a valuable content and helping healing others 💗☺..looking forward for more such valuable contents 💗
Drishti you are truly a Bestttttt mentor, gudiance, a friend ,a therapist a whole good book ... Bolte hai na " ek acha saathi pura puskatlaya hota hai... This is relatable 💯% to you! You put every effort to make the besttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt video to get the besttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt output results & you did it for sure! Congo dear! This is absolutely relatable to everyone in their phase of life ! May you always reach the pinnacle of success ❤🎉😊 if you truly admire my comment then please reply . Loads of love and hugs 🤗 & if other audience 's likes my point of view 🙌💞✨
Although I haven't undergone such breakup till date but I must say surely anyone can really understand what she wants to communicate as this I guess is relatable to everyone ❤❤❤❤
healing journey❤ Was Having zero friends since school and (relatable with boards change) now depending on only one was makeing my healing painful but your video helped me❤ really thank you mam❤
I can feel the heaviness of your heart and soul from your words while you were narrating your childhood experiences , and I salute 🫡 you for this as it takes guts to be this much confident sharing and addressing your owm vulnerabilities
Hii Drishti !! Aapne jo version wali baat boli na usse main bahut ache se connect kar paya and vo baat sunte hi maine ye realise ki yara actually ye baat kitni sahi hai .. and Particularly mujhe khud ka vo version sabse best lagta hai jab main use particular person ke saath me hota hun .. but Maine ye realise nhi kiya tha ... So thankyou .. That Point is so Logical and specially I feel that it's very true.. Thanks
"Such a heartfelt and insightful video! Thank you for sharing your story and breaking down the healing process so clearly. The tips on acceptance, self-reflection, and learning to let go really resonated with me. Your advice on finding new friends through shared interests and staying curious is inspiring. Excited for your new friendship venture-wishing you all the best!" Thank you Drishti ❤
didi thank u so much , timing of this video was perfect for me,,,,,hm but ache dost the 3 sal se ..but eventually kl sb khtm hogya....mere life k sbse ache moments uske sth rhe h pichle 3 saal m...but sb khtm hogya ......phr v I pray ki bhgwan uske life m bhut se happy moments de .......I think hm sth m perfect hote agr ego km aur patience thoda aur hota hm dono m......ek learning ye h ki emotionally bht Jada attached mt hona kisi se ....kyu ki wo jb chor k jayega to pain v utna hi Hota h.........
Hii Drishti, watched a couple of your TH-cam content, just felt so connected with the simplicity in your talks, such a calm composure, a very strong girl. Best wishes in anything you do, keep expressing yourself in the similar way, you won't be alone, not just friends, you will have a community around people like you. Would love to meet you in person sometime
You are really the best thoughtful person!! Your comprehensive approach and adding a personal touch to it is so on point.. amazed by your creativity and work! Keep going! You deserve more love and support.. 💖
I also feel I relate to your this video.And I realized I am just 18 but at the same time I see people who have groups or a best friend at least and I could never maintain even one friendship but now I feel I am so positive about my life and relationships with people .I am also normal and I can share my emotions on pages,family members and watch people like you ❤I have been on safe space now rather than fake people, so called friends, the values were never same and now I can say I will protect my energy,make good relations and let go wrong people.❤❤thankyou dristi sisterr i am always glad that i found you and best video so far for us teens 😊🫶🏻🙌🏻
oh my god its so relatable😭😭😭😭 drishti di thank u for this video i am healing from the friendship breakup from 3 year now thank u so much god blesss you💖🤍
I would like to tell one thing , Drishti you are my favourite content creator seriously , I am glad that I follow you. So my story is there was a boy who was my first friend ever since nursery grade , and we used to be together everywhere whether it be school , tuition, cricket academy and every hangout whatsoever. Then when we were in class 9 both of us became friends with a friend group (tuition) where we all used to hangout together. However suddenly after school ended , all of them , all of them started excluding me out of their plans , their birthday parties , their meet ups. We were all in a whatsapp group where they used to send their groups pics , selfies with each other and I was not a part of any of their pics or plans. My best friend, who was my oldest friend , someone who once upon a time used to fight against everyone for me , started replacing me . He didn't care whether I was there in the plans or not even though I was always into plans in which he is there. It was so hard for me to believe that how time changes some people . "Jin yaro ke bina waqt beeta nahi tha , aaj beete hue waqt mei un yaaro se baat bhi nahi hoti"
For me I found a friend who was female we were really good friends, we were colleagues. She really helped me when I gone through breakup of 7 years of relationship. Since she helped me then I got really stayed attached to her and started having expectations from her(talking, meeting, sharing things). Lately when she changed her job and started to date someone i felt like an option (same way my gf treated me the entire relationship). When expectations didnt meet i thought all women are same, she treated me very badly at the end of the friendship and me feel guilty about the breakup and stressed about me being weak and not able to move on from breakup. So ya this is the story. And drishti you have helped me a lot when ever I feel very low and clueless about my relationship I watch your break-up video and feel that comfort by the end of video. Thank you❤
@@lifeschool6493 she helped you to heal so move on with your healed self...don't take any guilt of wat happened ..as it was meant to happen..so move on
This afternoon i was thinking to update all my social profiles to remove the ppl who no longer serve me in my life journey now n spot on your video came
you always shares valuable knowledge with us . on the positive side , i would like to share negative aspect of being a good listener........when you try to being a good listener after sometime other person starts using u as a dumping ground of their negative and shitty thoughts which drains out your positive energy. i do not know anybody will either resonate with me here or not but this is the lesson which i have learnt recently.
@@sitarakumari984 yes indeed, this was me in school. I later realise that I had become agony aunt of people. In college I stopped doing this and I also realised that most people are only looking to have a good time around others and very few people are genuinely concerned about our well being.
Tq so much dii ❤ I need this right now I had one close friend but now we are not talking but we are in same class.She misunderstood me by listening other people. Now iam totally broken 💔 friendship breakup hurts too much😢
For the first i can truly connect with someone's words makes me feel that i'm listening my own stories from the past also seeing someone who has gone through same shit as you makes me feel connected and comfortable lots of love drishti ❤
Didi mera situation bikul apke jaisa tha mujhe bhi friends banane main bahut problem hue hai aaj tak or main bahut introvert hun mujhe logon se baat karne main bhi dar sa lagta hai kaihn kuch galat na bole dun but ab main nhi darungi . Or sach main didi aap meri bahut help kr rahe ho self improvement main .. or life changing process main .. thank you so much didi ❤ love you ..... ❣️
Thank u for making this video ...didi this is my personal honest request form my very own side to do a video which motivates us in life n through thick n thins in everyone's life.......make sure u make it I'm eagerly waiting sis lots of love ..❤
I am commenting without watching your full video......bcz I can relate with you....same case happened with me when I was in school and now I am in college but i dont have a single freind neither i want to make.... Literally i can understand what you felt when you were recording this video....your groan voice showed that😢
Mai pahle dosti me door Matt bn jati thi yaar bht efforts dalti aur paise kharchti pr mai na bht jyada innocent thi. Mera koi bf bhi nhi tha, shayad isliye aise log jinko new new bf gf banana pasand hote h or jinko innocence pasand nhi ati sab chhod k chala jata h. Fir mujhe aisa bf mila jisne mujhe khud se pyar krna dikhaya khud ka door Matt bano kisi aur ka nhi...ab mai usi k sath complete feel krti hu 6sal ho gya aur dosti gya bhaad me...usi k karan maine distraction se dur ho kr study pr dhyan diya aur ab gvt lecturer hu bht khush hu. Kam log h life me pr best log h
I can relate to this so much. I can write a whole book about it. I have gone through so much. Like I have known my best friend for 10 years and now we are going to get separated in 3 months because of different schools. It will be hard for both of us get out of it. I have lost many friends and were very loyal with me. But because of geographical issues it didn't happen for long. Thankyou didi for this video ❤
Please share your friendship breakup story. Consider this as a non-judgmental space to share anything you want. I will try to help you in any way I can❣
Can't come i means
Sometimes Baate mulakate bhi nhi hogi?
Totally cut off?
Yes the most painful experience in my life till now. Nothing special , suddenly she got a new friend more favorable, and forgot me, forgot our 5 years of friendship , now I am my best friend.
Hi Drishti ! This is Khushi from Kolkata. I've started watching your videos this year only. And I'm glad that I've started.
So, I would like to talk about this video. Can't tell you how much I relate to you on this topic. Like even I've had bad schooling experience. I've also faced the same problem as yours of not having friends, struggled to make friends. And I'm also from ICSE board and honestly the students and teachers were so obsessed with speaking English. I felt so judged. Even they used to highlight smallest of the grammatical mistakes so harshly as if one has done something wrong. I have the worst schooling experience.
And regarding friendships, I've made two friends in my 11th grade. I really used to enjoy being around them. But one of them has broken our friendship in 2021 and the one whom I called my best friend also left me this year. I was so so sad that I even cried that day. I tried approaching her many times but she was not interested to be with me. So yeah it ended. I think the reason why it has got ended is that there was a lot of communication gaps and misunderstandings. Also she wasn't ready to sort out things so I left it. Well I never ever imagined that this 6 year long friendship will going to end someday. As this friendship got over. I've started developing trust issues with my partner. It was tough.
And I understand what you said that when you have no friends and one of the person suddenly appears in your life and you start giving so much importance to that person. I completely relates to you. I'm working on it currently. I don't want to be like that. It's okay if there are less people in my life. I try to focus on my self right now.
Hope you'll going to read this❤🌙✨️
@@drishtiispeaks thanks 👍 mam
Very helpful for me ❤😊
Being alone is actually blessing .... It is a right time to learn about yourself
@@SwagataShelar True.
Aese kehena ..easy he ..but aese rehe na .. possible Nehi hoo Raha he 😢
Actually and it ukw gives time to focus on your studies
@@simranpal2550 thik he ..baki kese ??
@@SwagataShelar yes right now I'm too
My only flaw is - I got too much attached to someone who even show me some respect,
Lesson - Remember, everyone is Temporary, every single friend give you a lesson..!! You just need to grow.....
Love this video!!
@@Drawit-2306 us bro us finally got someone who got those issues 🥺
I can feel this 😢😢
DRISHTI SHARMA❌ THERAPY ✅
@@TaruneditsXD True.
I also agree
So True ❤
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Friendship breakup is really hurt 🙂✨
To me it's so relatable right now. I've always had an uneven past about friendships. I've always been left out. And as usual recently I've been through a friendship breakup. Which is so hurtful yet there is no one to trust and share them!! But compared to the past this time I've reacted it to maturely. Without begging them to stay I've let them go. There's still this empty space that does hurt. So I can relate to this a lot. Thanks to you for talking about this 🥹❤️
I can understand how hard it would have been for you but it's amazing to see the way you're handling it with so much maturity!
Totally relatable 😅..leaned,hurt and yet let go😊
When she said “ Apne hi version se pyar ho gaya ".❤
this video came coincidentally as im going through a friendship breakup
Thank you so much drishti! Appreciate it sm!
Hope this helps!
It is so so relatable! People won't talk about it. They don't get it. They might think that such things don't hurt. Nope, seeing a close dear friend leave sucks. It stings. It hurts. It just breaks you down to nothing. I could relate to it at a completely different level. Thanks for this one!
@16:44 apne hi is version se pyar ho gaya. Rightly said. ❤
Yaa it hits hard ❤
My story is that I am a person who’s available to everyone and help everyone I could but later I got to know the people I’m with speak to me when they need anything
In my 18 years of life I’ve been searching for a true friend
There’s no one I could say that he or she is my friend
Now I’m at peace not thinking about anyone
But sometimes when I see my so called friend I feel sad of not having anyone in my life to share my problems
Ofcourse one thing I’m happy about is my family
They support me in my tough times
I used to think I'm the only one who's unlucky in friendship from childhood till college is feels really depression when you don't have anyone by your side 😔 I can understand your feelings
Jnab zindagi hai ... Itna to bhagwan bhi nhi sochte honge likhne se pehle 😂... Stay light
hit and trial method use karo, dosti ka hath badane me aur sir par bithane me farak hota hai. stay being kind to people, that is good for your ethics system itself. but know when to stop. or how much one should be available to someone, understand difference between being respectful and loosing self respect and maintain that difference.
dunia me har sher ka sava sher hai, learn from that. accept it and move on.
Par ye jitni asan dikhti hai utna hai nhi ..Jab aapka koi dost nahi hota toh taqlif toh hoti hai ..Upar se Jab aap iske bawjood kise se attach ho gaye Freind samjh ke aur samne wali ne naye dost banake aapko complete ignore aur mistreat kare..
Upar se aap ek aisi situation mein ho jahan unlogon ke baareinmein kisi se kuch share nahi kar sakte..Aur woh log naye logon ke saath dosto karke khush hai aur aap abhi bhi wahi stuck ho..Ki woh log aapko mistreat kyun kar rahe hain ?
I realised I had attachment issues but I m healing from it now ☺️
@@nandita_tanya14 good nandita👍🏼
Pahli baar aiisa lg rha hai jaise koi mere baare mein hi baat kr rha hai
Thank you di
Dristi..... I really can't express my gratitude towards you ❤.। I am a introvert and because of your videos I amm trying to make new friends and becoming more confident may God always always bless u dear❤
My story is about my 9-year friendship breakup. I can't say her real name, so I’ll call her Neha. Neha was my ex-best friend. We were best friends from class 2 to class 10. I spent my whole school life with her, and she took care of me too. However, things changed after the class 10 board exams
We were a group of four friends. I won’t take the real names of the other girls either, so I’ll call them Priya and Diya. Priya and Diya sat together, and Neha and I sat together because only two girls could sit on one bench. We four were very close, sharing secrets with each other. Though we had fights occasionally, we always fixed things and became good friends again. It felt like we were inseparable. While we had other friends, the four of us were the closest.
After class 10, things started changing. Neha and I joined the same tuition. One day, our tuition teacher said, “Boys’ friendships are more genuine than girls’ friendships.” I proudly disagreed and gave my friendship with Neha as an example. But within a year, we were no longer as close as before.
Neha used to come to my home for tuition, and our dads were good friends. After class 10, all four of us-Neha, Priya, Diya, and I-chose the same academic stream. However, Priya and Diya’s friendship became less close, and the bond between them started to fade. Priya then targeted my friendship with Neha.
Priya first tried to manipulate me by saying bad things about Neha and backbiting about her. However, I didn’t let her words affect my friendship with Neha. When she failed to break us apart, she used the same tactic with Neha, who was easily influenced. Neha became closer to Priya and started distancing herself from me.
Priya would often call Neha, and the next day at school, Neha would tell me how much they talked, just to make me jealous. Over time, Neha stopped sitting with me. Initially, she would sit with me for 2-3 periods, but then she’d move to sit with Priya. I felt left out and hurt. Meanwhile, Diya made a new friend and began sitting with her. I was often left alone.
The three of them-Priya, Neha, Diya and Diya’s new friend-started hanging out together without informing me. One day, they told me about their plan to go out and invited me too. I was so happy because my strict parents had allowed me to go. However, they didn’t follow up with me to confirm my plans. I waited all day, thinking they’d ask me, but they didn’t. The next morning, at 11 AM, I decided to text them. Their reply shattered me: “We already went. We’ll go with you some other day.”
I felt so hurt and left out. Seeing their status and insta stories made it worse. I couldn’t believe Neha, who was once my closest friend, could treat me this way. She even insulted me one day, which hurt me even more.
One day, they invited me to hang out again. I went, but Priya and Neha made me feel left out once more. Then the pandemic started. By class 12, my bond with p had slightly improved, but it was nowhere near what it used to be. Meanwhile, Priya and Neha became best friends, and Neha-my once-best friend-felt like a stranger.
After class 12, Priya, Neha, and I ended up in the same college, even though I didn’t want to. My parents decided I should study there. During our college years, Priya and I started becoming closer. She put effort into our friendship, and we grew stronger. However, my friendship with Neha remained awkward. Priya maintained good relationships with both of us but still prioritized Neha over me during college.
Towards the end of college, Neha betrayed Priya. She talked badly about Priya to her boyfriend, and Priya found out and many more ... Their friendship ended, and they both got their karma. And god saved from a b**** like neha so God removed neha from my life before and priya also got what she deserve...and I am happy that priya broke my and neha friendship because neha is a bitch
Now, Priya and I are best friends. She values our friendship above everything else. She learned her lesson, and we’ve both grown from the experience. I hold no grudges because Priya did the right thing by breaking my friendship with Neha. In the end, we both realized Neha was toxic. Now, Priya is someone I can count on for anything. And yes I forgot about Diya she joined another college in different city we are still goods friend but due to distance we don't talk daily but bond is still the same.
Waoo!! I would never be best friend with somebody like Priya again. But if you both are sincere then it's fine. ❤
@@turkishentertainment5309 Same, it will be tough too. But if someone is putting efforts and valuing and respecting the friendship its ok to give them another chance.
@@004shrijanabasyal yes now she changed a lot and she is like my sister now ..every relationship either it's friendship or any romantic relationship there is ups and downs but if they changed and putting efforts then giving them an another change is okay ..although we are small at that time we were teenager now I am 21 completed my degree too.
@@turkishentertainment5309 yess but life is all about 2nd chance and if people learn their mistake and making efforts then its fine 😇
Feels like as if someone is telling my story even the class is same when it all started happening.....
Drishti Sharma ❌ Blessings ✅
Because its also hard for you to open up with your feelings in front of camera. Reminding or crossing over past memories to share your learnings to other fellow who actually need it. Thats truely great. ❤
i used to think that i m the only one facing this. i searched about it but noticed that nobody is talking about this shit. but man you r so nice to talk about it
I'll just say two things - your video reached me at the right time, and thank you for making such a video!
Wow that version wala example made me understand why i behave in a certain way when I'm with my friend and why i get irritated when some irritating person comes in front of me yess this will surely useful for me to be that good version of my self which i get into when I'm alone thank you drishti di
i love your content , i usually end my friendship from my side when i get to know that they are not interested in me they don't want to talk to me , after staying together all the time when i need them or want they understand my feeling , they just ignore me and this ignorance kills me from inside as i gave my 100% i fight from everyone from them leave my work do their work first and listen to there feeling try to heal them give me time ,, and at the end i writing these thing here to heal myself its strange feeling knowing that you have no one how can listen to you but i find my way i tell everything to my krishna and they never judge me they help me a lot in my hard time they send someone to help me and from this i can say that do what you feel for other do your best god will give you the best
Thank you I needed to hear this now , iam carrying my broken heart . Or haan rona aa raha h. Thank you for normalizing this phase
Di आपको नमन है मेरा। संघर्षपूर्ण तो सबका जीवन है पर जो उन चुनौतियों से जूझना सिखाए वो ही सच्चा मित्र है।
She is one of the heart touching content creators.
Much appreciated ❤
Your videos felt very personal
I'm feeling so light after watching this. Literally i got tears. Thank you so much❤
Hello Drishti, I am really amazed to see someone talking about this thing in such a deep and profound manner. I also share a similar journey and set of challenges. It really touched me especially when you shared your experience during your high school and college. It takes guts to share without thinking about how would it sound. Thankfully, I can say I'm not the only one who has been through this. It feels really good to get know people who are/have been through this phase even virtually if not in-person. I would love to talk and share mine more if I ever get a chance to attend one of your meetup events and get a chance to meet you. Your content is awesome and genuine. Keep it up!
Omg.. Every word of your is so powerful and relatable it goes deep in my heart and your videos timing is so perfect for me 👍❤
Drishti i became so emotional after watching this video that I couldn't even continue after the first part. I will try to watch it today after a month gap I guess. You are a great soul. You motivate many people like me whose plane is about to take off but is struggling in the runway.
This video come in my feed
While I'm trying t figure out to move on from my friendship
I have given my 3 years to this person always put my 100% efforts
Always tere for that person
This person always treated me according the situation and mood
My best friend betrayed me before
Than I trust this person again for friendship
But now I have realised that friendship is not made for me , I'm alone happy
And jab rassi wali baat ki Di ne toh maine feel Kiya ki exactly I was the person who is holding everything thing
And wanted to keep this person with me
But life never stops and this video really helped me ❤❤
Thankyou for bringing out a video on this topic. From teenage to adulthood, I have faced many friendship breakups. Apki yeh video dekhte hue puri timeline aa gyi mere samne kab mene kisi k lie kya kia. I analysed my patterns and found ki mai logo k lie unke need se jyada help krti hu and unke hurtful behaviour ko call out nhi krti taki unko bura nhi lage. Bhut recently mene yeh realise kia ki one of the reason for it was ki mujhe lagta tha ki I AM DEPENDENT on them but once I started going out alone their void is gone.
My lovely drishti don't worry I am your friend.....❤️ Mai easily mahsoos kar rahi thi is vidio aapka dard and I know friendship break-ups humko kitna week bana dete hain and sometimes strong bhi drishti I just wanna say you are my friend......
And Han mujhe wo version wala part bhut sahi laga ....😊
Lot's of love and friendship from my side 💖
I was recently going through this phase and I just saw your video which just healed me like no other can.. your videos always motivate me to be confident and know my self worth..you're truly a very good influencer for me everytime I feel low I just watch your videos to come out of overthinking..thanks Drishti for sharing such a valuable content and helping healing others 💗☺..looking forward for more such valuable contents 💗
Drishti you are truly a Bestttttt mentor, gudiance, a friend ,a therapist a whole good book ... Bolte hai na " ek acha saathi pura puskatlaya hota hai... This is relatable 💯% to you! You put every effort to make the besttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt video to get the besttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt output results & you did it for sure! Congo dear! This is absolutely relatable to everyone in their phase of life ! May you always reach the pinnacle of success ❤🎉😊 if you truly admire my comment then please reply . Loads of love and hugs 🤗 & if other audience 's likes my point of view 🙌💞✨
Are yaar aap dil chuu lete ho .... It completely resonates.
Highly Highly Relatable with me Drishti...Aisa lag rha tha jaise koi meri story suna rha ho...i really like this video ❤❤
You are my therapist...i really wanted to heal so badly
Although I haven't undergone such breakup till date but I must say surely anyone can really understand what she wants to communicate as this I guess is relatable to everyone ❤❤❤❤
I wish i had her as a friend irl 😭❤
Really amazing video..🥺💗 so helpful and your words are pure bliss..✨🤍keep shining & thankyou for this much needed video..🌻💌
🤧so emotional video....
Drishti Tumne jo version wala topic bataya wo actually me samajh aa gaya yrr❤️😌🌈
healing journey❤
Was Having zero friends since school and (relatable with boards change) now depending on only one was makeing my healing painful but your video helped me❤ really thank you mam❤
Your like the elder sister i never had, Thank you 💛
i needed it soo much.... things hurt soo muchhh... cried so much still cry everyday.
Everything u said felt soo true
I can feel the heaviness of your heart and soul from your words while you were narrating your childhood experiences , and I salute 🫡 you for this as it takes guts to be this much confident sharing and addressing your owm vulnerabilities
Hii Drishti !! Aapne jo version wali baat boli na usse main bahut ache se connect kar paya and vo baat sunte hi maine ye realise ki yara actually ye baat kitni sahi hai .. and Particularly mujhe khud ka vo version sabse best lagta hai jab main use particular person ke saath me hota hun .. but Maine ye realise nhi kiya tha ... So thankyou .. That Point is so Logical and specially I feel that it's very true.. Thanks
"Such a heartfelt and insightful video! Thank you for sharing your story and breaking down the healing process so clearly. The tips on acceptance, self-reflection, and learning to let go really resonated with me. Your advice on finding new friends through shared interests and staying curious is inspiring. Excited for your new friendship venture-wishing you all the best!"
Thank you Drishti ❤
didi thank u so much , timing of this video was perfect for me,,,,,hm but ache dost the 3 sal se ..but eventually kl sb khtm hogya....mere life k sbse ache moments uske sth rhe h pichle 3 saal m...but sb khtm hogya ......phr v I pray ki bhgwan uske life m bhut se happy moments de .......I think hm sth m perfect hote agr ego km aur patience thoda aur hota hm dono m......ek learning ye h ki emotionally bht Jada attached mt hona kisi se ....kyu ki wo jb chor k jayega to pain v utna hi Hota h.........
Hii Drishti, watched a couple of your TH-cam content, just felt so connected with the simplicity in your talks, such a calm composure, a very strong girl. Best wishes in anything you do, keep expressing yourself in the similar way, you won't be alone, not just friends, you will have a community around people like you. Would love to meet you in person sometime
Thank you so much Drishti! You are the only creator who talked about this openly & in detail, i really needed this!
You are really the best thoughtful person!! Your comprehensive approach and adding a personal touch to it is so on point.. amazed by your creativity and work! Keep going! You deserve more love and support.. 💖
Thankgod I got this video ❤❤ I m into friendship breakups since 2 years now 😢 thanks a lot for making this video
I also feel I relate to your this video.And I realized I am just 18 but at the same time I see people who have groups or a best friend at least and I could never maintain even one friendship but now I feel I am so positive about my life and relationships with people .I am also normal and I can share my emotions on pages,family members and watch people like you ❤I have been on safe space now rather than fake people, so called friends, the values were never same and now I can say I will protect my energy,make good relations and let go wrong people.❤❤thankyou dristi sisterr i am always glad that i found you and best video so far for us teens 😊🫶🏻🙌🏻
Drishti I really love that moulding your versions !
Drishti, your words felt like a comforting blanket on a person freezing in the cold.
Thank you so much ❤
oh my god its so relatable😭😭😭😭 drishti di thank u for this video i am healing from the friendship breakup from 3 year now thank u so much god blesss you💖🤍
Diiii thank U sooo much for this video!!!!!
❤❤❤
Love u ✨️
0:32 🫂Cried after listening to u...
Love u di.. Needed it
I would like to tell one thing , Drishti you are my favourite content creator seriously , I am glad that I follow you. So my story is there was a boy who was my first friend ever since nursery grade , and we used to be together everywhere whether it be school , tuition, cricket academy and every hangout whatsoever. Then when we were in class 9 both of us became friends with a friend group (tuition) where we all used to hangout together. However suddenly after school ended , all of them , all of them started excluding me out of their plans , their birthday parties , their meet ups. We were all in a whatsapp group where they used to send their groups pics , selfies with each other and I was not a part of any of their pics or plans. My best friend, who was my oldest friend , someone who once upon a time used to fight against everyone for me , started replacing me . He didn't care whether I was there in the plans or not even though I was always into plans in which he is there. It was so hard for me to believe that how time changes some people . "Jin yaro ke bina waqt beeta nahi tha , aaj beete hue waqt mei un yaaro se baat bhi nahi hoti"
For me I found a friend who was female we were really good friends, we were colleagues. She really helped me when I gone through breakup of 7 years of relationship.
Since she helped me then I got really stayed attached to her and started having expectations from her(talking, meeting, sharing things).
Lately when she changed her job and started to date someone i felt like an option (same way my gf treated me the entire relationship).
When expectations didnt meet i thought all women are same, she treated me very badly at the end of the friendship and me feel guilty about the breakup and stressed about me being weak and not able to move on from breakup. So ya this is the story.
And drishti you have helped me a lot when ever I feel very low and clueless about my relationship I watch your break-up video and feel that comfort by the end of video. Thank you❤
@@lifeschool6493 she helped you to heal so move on with your healed self...don't take any guilt of wat happened ..as it was meant to happen..so move on
This afternoon i was thinking to update all my social profiles to remove the ppl who no longer serve me in my life journey now n spot on your video came
Much needed one❤
This video is like a hug and assurance ❤
you always shares valuable knowledge with us . on the positive side , i would like to share negative aspect of being a good listener........when you try to being a good listener after sometime other person starts using u as a dumping ground of their negative and shitty thoughts which drains out your positive energy. i do not know anybody will either resonate with me here or not but this is the lesson which i have learnt recently.
@@sitarakumari984 yes indeed, this was me in school. I later realise that I had become agony aunt of people. In college I stopped doing this and I also realised that most people are only looking to have a good time around others and very few people are genuinely concerned about our well being.
Most Underrated Topic ❤ loved and hard Relate but again enter into spirituality ❤
Your every word is relatable 🥲... thank you so much for talking about this. I genuinely love your content Drishti di❤
just want to say u made 100% sense to me.. i absolutely related to each word and i have been doing same thing... glad to know that m on right way .
Tq so much dii ❤ I need this right now I had one close friend but now we are not talking but we are in same class.She misunderstood me by listening other people. Now iam totally broken 💔 friendship breakup hurts too much😢
totally relatable DI....KEEP MAKING such videos💗💗
Love from Shristi to Drishti ❤🥰 your content are so relatable ....fav always 😊
Hi Drishti ..
What you said in this video is very related
You are the best person
You are the best creator
From many failures we become the best
Sahi time pe video mil gaya didi.
Thank you for guiding so accurately
🙃🙃🙃👏
For the first i can truly connect with someone's words makes me feel that i'm listening my own stories from the past also seeing someone who has gone through same shit as you makes me feel connected and comfortable lots of love drishti ❤
I have gone through this phase. Now I don’t feel anything or miss anyone. I just loveeee being with myself.
You are really very good in your work you give us such a nice advice on everything ❤❤
This video is quite important for me❤ thanku so much for making this kind of vdo😊 it's quite relatable 😢
Didi mera situation bikul apke jaisa tha mujhe bhi friends banane main bahut problem hue hai aaj tak or main bahut introvert hun mujhe logon se baat karne main bhi dar sa lagta hai kaihn kuch galat na bole dun but ab main nhi darungi . Or sach main didi aap meri bahut help kr rahe ho self improvement main .. or life changing process main .. thank you so much didi ❤ love you ..... ❣️
Thank you dhi......💫
Really wanted this one help at this fake and gen z generation 😌
Thank u for making this video ...didi this is my personal honest request form my very own side to do a video which motivates us in life n through thick n thins in everyone's life.......make sure u make it I'm eagerly waiting sis lots of love ..❤
So beautifully put into words❤
I am commenting without watching your full video......bcz I can relate with you....same case happened with me when I was in school and now I am in college but i dont have a single freind neither i want to make....
Literally i can understand what you felt when you were recording this video....your groan voice showed that😢
Thanks for saying that if you don't have it now, you will have it eventually some time after...
0:12 hug to every one
@@karangoyal1699 awwww
@@Dishaa0501 how many you loose ?
@karangoyal1699 🤣🤣
THIS VIDEO GAVE ME A DEEP INSIGHT INTO MY PROBLEM. THANK YOU SO MUCH☺
8:55 thank you soo much this video means a lot to me. Thank you universe thank you lord shiva 🙏🏻
Thankyou..I was really needing this today to remind me of myself! Thankyou 🫶✨
i cried ,u r therapist❤
Thank you for the version theory ❤ now I won't feel bad for loosing those favourite friends
17:27 the best concept i learned.
I got a new point of view to see my things 🙌
Thank you so much di 🙏
It's so relatable for me. Recently I have been through a friendship break with my best friend
I would love to have a friend like you in my life.
After watching this video, I felt a little better and this video is like a glow up for me because my friendship has just spoiled.
Thank you Drushti 🫡
I love to watch your videos.... I am learning always something new. Love you❤
The rule didi... Superbb amazing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ same.. The best logical one!
I want a best friend who has the same mentality as you😊❤
Mai pahle dosti me door Matt bn jati thi yaar bht efforts dalti aur paise kharchti pr mai na bht jyada innocent thi. Mera koi bf bhi nhi tha, shayad isliye aise log jinko new new bf gf banana pasand hote h or jinko innocence pasand nhi ati sab chhod k chala jata h. Fir mujhe aisa bf mila jisne mujhe khud se pyar krna dikhaya khud ka door Matt bano kisi aur ka nhi...ab mai usi k sath complete feel krti hu 6sal ho gya aur dosti gya bhaad me...usi k karan maine distraction se dur ho kr study pr dhyan diya aur ab gvt lecturer hu bht khush hu. Kam log h life me pr best log h
Aap lecturer ho college me???
aap kitni umar me ban gayi
.
Plz bta dena mujhe thoda sa janna hai
Perfect video on perfect time 😊
in lession 4 apki baato ne meri aakhe khol di didi. you are right. lots of love and respect to you
I can relate to this so much. I can write a whole book about it. I have gone through so much. Like I have known my best friend for 10 years and now we are going to get separated in 3 months because of different schools. It will be hard for both of us get out of it. I have lost many friends and were very loyal with me. But because of geographical issues it didn't happen for long.
Thankyou didi for this video ❤
Great video ❤❤❤