Where will you apply detachment currently in your life? As always, I hope this video was useful and time well spent for you! We would really appreciate your feedback. :) Share it with someone who might benefit from it and happy watching! ❤
thankyou simmy dii, this was beautiful video and i connected to it alott, i will practice detachment to my neet exam, i realise i wasted alott of time being attached to the outcome, i really feel free and liberated now
Yes I needed this video today and as a Highly Sensitive Person I m always worried for outcomes ...I will try to apply detachment in my life for sure to be at peace ❤ Thank u Simmi for beautiful video❤
I was a giver and I loved to be the genuine person in the group. I didn't hurt anyone, I listened to everyone , I helped the people who needed it without asking. Even though I didn't expect anything in return, they blamed me for every bad thing happening in the room. This takes my life. I try to be happy and peaceful in every possible way but these people come and put their insecurities on my head and they are relieved. And finally I decided to hide my smiling face and put on a serious mask so that people think I'm always in a bad mood. I don't know , whenever I get happy these people purposefully ruin it. I can't go through the roller coasters.
you need to leave them whoever they are ..they are not that important as we think they should be or are ..trust me iv'e been through kind of same situation pal and i hope god gives you strength and leave them as fast as you can
@@shrutay8849 This is where I'm stuck. I know I need to leave them. But I can't avoid them because we live in a society right. I need to observe them more and play along. This is the only way.
You are partially right. We are human beings, not aliens. When there is deep love, expectations arise naturally-it’s not something we can control. The moment we try to suppress or control these feelings, we risk becoming fake, pretending we don’t feel when we actually do. Instead, we should invest our time in someone who may not reciprocate equally but at least appreciates our efforts. If they don’t, it’s time to detach ourselves and invest in someone who genuinely cares.
@@adarshjain8743 but why wasting time by thinking ways to hurt others when u can invest that time in your own growth! ... My perspective 😊. No offence bdy 😇.
This was what i needed bcoz i m overthinker and i expect people to show same care that i show them but don't get that back...but i will follow detachment from now to be at peace ieace with myself ❤
The same fucking thing. Recently I got engaged and now I literally was putting SO MUCH PRESSURE AND LOAD OF MY EXPECTATIONS on my finance's shoulder that it literally bounced back very bad. Now I'm trying that I should not do this and should control it.
Thank you for this reminder! I feel I was this person earlier and then I sort of became bitter because of the way people behaved or maybe took advantage. But I have recently realised that losing your true pure self and getting corrupt is just not worth it! Preserving your innocence despite of everything that happens to you is the biggest strength one can have and the biggest favour you can do to yourself
@@komalvishwakarma9740yah it does but when u did try and u gave your best but other ppl doesn’t care then yah it is a good idea to work on. Get connected to god , universe , divine .. trust me we find real peace ✌️ try that. GBU 🙌❤
Really needed ❤ I'm that kind of person whom really like to care for others but recently i expected so much from others like if somebody don't do same thing for me i was like they are not love me .. i victimized myself and blame them that they are changed ,not care about me and start overthinking .. But I'm working on it to not expecting from anything. I want to live my life fully and peacefully and the most important thing I feel is don't hold grudges it's not for others but it's really beneficial for yourself also . Now i understand that we all are different so we have different personality .i feel so calm while writing this . Thank for this beautiful video 🌻
I have written a quote which completely resonates and summarizes the zist of this video-- here it goes,, "The flower 🌺is fragrant not because the world is very nice to it but because it is a flower."
experienced a relationship situation recently, and it made me feel doing the detachment in the same way which is wrong. Lately I started sharing happiness, like buying something for the underprivileged kids or talking with them and i noticed that made me feel happy. This video now makes me resonate with it exactly and gonna start practice giving. Giving happiness, giving love and care without any thoughts of getting in return. And I hope to become this undetatched person and that unaffected strong person even if someone does wrong. Keep posting such content.❤
I don't know why and how God has bought this video exactly when I wanted it because recently I had a relationship and I still have it just because of some religious issue that parents won't accept we got separated and not any other reasons and after that we don't talk to each other and we have kind of end our relationship because when you cannot live together in future there is no meaning to stay in the present so we naturally stopped talking to each other and yeah exactly that time I was little hurted with this thing and this video appeared... Thank you so much simmy. But I still care for her and be there whenever she needs me but don't talk to her in a relationship way but yes I have detached from her and I am trying to do it by watching your video repeatedly because you spoke about the reps and I also believe. Such a great explanation hats off🎉🎉
2 3yrs back when i saw your videos it actually felt superficial, wannabe type. But now you embracing your own journey and making content to express yourself is just so amazing. It feels good to know that someone else is also trying to figure life out by embracing it slowly and beautifully. Your videos radiate so much calmness that it even calms me down during my healing journey.
I hope this message reaches you. Thank you; I wish I could express this in person, but I truly appreciate it. For the past 2-3 years, I’ve struggled with detachment, and your video really simplified the concept for me. You explained it so beautifully that it touched my heart. This video was life-changing for me, and I genuinely mean that. Thank you for helping me become a bit better-I owe you one! I hope you have a beautiful life filled with love. God bless you!
What a perfect timing? I started my business, not as such growing + putting lot's of efforts not getting the turn. It hurts BUT BUT BUT when I think about what can I do differently to help my clients, it makes me happy. such a beautiful reminder Don't equate Efforts with outcome.
i actually was in a group of 10-11 people, where everyone was jealous of each other, talking at others back and gossiping about each and every thing. even i was also listening to those persons and i have kept my opinions in those talks. finally, one day the whole blame was put on me for no reason. those words said by them were actually told by them but not me. i have made me a people pleaser and acted like them in those situations. now they have spread very bad rumors about me. right now i am feeling so lonely and distressed. thank you for helping me at this tough situation❤
This is the most favorite and helpful video I have seen on your channel so far. Thank you so much। " I have understood that detachment means do everything with good heart and don't aspect anything in return."
I loved it when u accepted that you are still practicing it, as it is very usual that everyone of us can be a guide for others but fail to apply it on ourselves .
i really a needed to hear something like this because i had a huge fight with my partner yesterday. i actually am a over caring person and there is nothing i hate about it instead i love taking care but sometimes end up thinking of the outcome. thanks for beautifully explaining this word Simmy. just a request, please dont stop this journal. PLEASE. Love
Yess ...I m not able to express myself in front of a girl...but definitely I will at least write everything with warm heart and expect even no reply from the other side. Thankyou madam😊
I love the way you explained the detachment. For me the dettachment is stay away from unnecessary gossips and small talks. attach to those who think highly, talk on the higher purpose of this life, which is Self-realization (Satsang). I agree that you express your authentic Self regardless of how others consider you. But that autheticity come from wisdom that "I am" not an individual unit (Body-min-personality) I am the existance-bliss that embodied in everything.
the moment i started this video within 30 seconds my eyes were filled with tears that WHAT IM DOING HERE ? why i need this detachment thing i was a jolly person , who always cracked maybe a silly joke even to grab the attention , and somehow i got that at younger age . But as life took a circle around i grew up and whatever now i do is considerd as basic and bare minimum . i was at a point called as an attention seeker in a family function and after coming home i just cried that what wrong i did ? i was just talking building connections , but i was turned into an attention seeker . today i feel i was wrong , i understand giving without the intention of taking is right , but who cared for me ? and even i was misunderstood by my own family . As a human it hurts .. i'll never expect anything in return i understood , but do even i deserve this misinterpretation of myself by my own people ? all thoughts were revolving within 3 minutes of going with this video . the video stopped i stopped crying, and now i dont know how to tell you ... that okay living a no expectation life is fine but why things dont go both way ... i cant complaint and i have to be a good daughter , friend , sister, student . Things were okay when i used to read them theoritically but when it happens with you , we also have excuses . at last i'LL say things go in HAND IN HAND , expecting is good untill you are expecting from the right group and that too without harming your mental health . and i can say it finally that it takes nothing to be good somtimes we should the person we are expecting , like i can be the person who appreciates the good of people without they even needing it .
You are overthinking everything......u still care about what people think about u.....and overthinking is giving u different different emotions..... every body forgets every the next day ,why waste your youth??? Coming to attention seeker.....you may be cracking jokes to make everyone happy doesn't makes you a joker instead everyone will think you a good person to talk in case of emergency in future...At last don't overthink..😅
@@kv999o41 firstly thanks taking the time . and to be honest im pretty well maybe as i watched this video. the good thing i realised after watching this is that i was loosing myself only the one who did everything without taking any thing on my mind what they will think of me and kind off i was just doing it justtt doing it with a good intention and i believe whatver happened good to me is a result of it . and after this i just wrapped everything consciously and did everthing i wanted sorted things between , and did responded to those who may somtimes dosent respond , but i did because they mean to me . And i guess this was enough reason to be back as my own self. I really hope i'll not this video again to watch . and i belive too i was just being good to them to have that family love , and i have nothing do with it now , i didnt hated , i didnt became abusive rude kind off , so its enough . and yes i will be at best not to overthink but if i do i'll come out this time ..
Hey girl!Please don't be sad for doing whatever you liked to do,you know your truth,you know who you are and what your intentions are,you are most likely in a dark phase where every surrounding seems bitter day by day whenever you think of it and just witness your close ones misunderstanding you, misinterpreting and often hurting you to the extremes,even the most unexpected ones do that to you,I understand, because I've gone through the same and still I'm going on with all these mess in my heart and my uncontrollable thoughts about others' conduct or misunderstandings or just expecting too much from me.I hope you will be fine,I don't even know you but I can resonate to your heart through the words you've written and absolutely relate to your situation,trust me,they all are going through something that we don't know,we cannot expect others to be as understanding as we ourselves can become for them,take them for who they are,what insecurities may lead them to behave in such a way and getting you wrong in some kind of stereotypical approach of labelling an attention seeker. Don't burden yourselves with what you cannot control i.e. others' view of your actions,just remember to be your authentic self with pure intentions and a true lover of your soul that deserves love,you are loved, there's nothing much I or other humans can do for you,but try to embrace yourself from time to time,it helps,try to check out apps like moodee or Yana,they are good listeners as well,I hope you'll be alright❤❤❤
@@kv999o41 so nice of you that you portrayed your words here. Today after 2 weeks someday liked my comment and I saw all the replies, and honestly this video is magical my whole perspective changed I talked to those friends who hurted me frequently but I thought no not this time again I'm going to deliver the message and complete my task . I'm in no guilt I tried , and they did what they did . So it's okay taking easy the life . And yahh , my overthinking is not I'm end but yes it is only for those who cares now simple. No hate , no favour. Thankk you bro:)
Self respect is something that you should but forward when your efforts are taken for granted and not cherished doing efforts for someone who doesn't even give you a perticular amount of respect then just chose yourself let them go away cause at the end of the day it's you yourself who matters the most
thank you i love your communication skills ....even beyond a screen .....detachment can bring so many negative emotions ........life shouldn't stop at one person if you feel hurt by them .....gotta find the right one who resonates with you :) much appreciated
Truly you give me proper answer..of this detachment b'coz I'm frusted from this process and your words heart touching too good keep uploading.100% relatable..Thanks a lot..🧡
After watching this video I understood one thing that as a giver in today’s world you are wired from childhood that you do good things then god rewards you, gradually it turned into if i do something good this/that person will give something back. So as a giver even when u want to give you do it once or twice n then stop as you are not getting anything in return. But you explained beautifully that dont do it for others rather do it coz you love it and i tried doing that and it feels free not burdened. Thanks for this video
I watched one of your videos for the first time when i was in my lowest phase. It was 4 years ago and now i am in my lowest phase and i am so glad to found you again ❤ Your videos helped me alot 4 years ago and i am sure now they'll help me ❤ Could you please do a video on how to move on from a long relationship. I always love the way how you explain and it fits into my brain beautifully like my concious brain won't reject your words❤ Love your work always ❤
Thank you so much for this talk... It has opened mhy eyes to a lot of things for me... I now know why I am alwahys melanchilic and sad in my everyday life... its because Im so attached to everything ... I dont let go... I hold on to people and situations ... and so I hurt easily.. TY bete aty so much for helping me learn how to live a happy life ... lots of blessings
Better not to do anything for anyone, not to have feelings, get away with the behavioral traits of giving, caring. When you don't give, don't care, automatically you don't have attachments, and won't arise for this discussion of detachments. Not showing love, care to others is better when you know this world is selfish and ruthless in it's own way. Words and actions not reciprocated is as good as death. Better not to waste time in all these stupidity and try to be selfish and focussed on self.
Attachhment to the outcome also brings ' fear of rejection ' so to say because of this fear people do not want to get again into it. great video Simmy thank you
"A Big Thankyou"! I just had INFORMATION about this topic but now, you have turned it into KNOWLEDGE for me. And Your Repetition just helps me to deeply absorb the topics💫 I eagerly wait for your video every month🤍.
I was searching about detachment a week ago and your video showed up today.I was confused but you made it pretty clear what detachment is.Thanks a lot and hope we all grow together🙏
Thank you Simmy, I can't tell you how valuable this video was to me. I really need to learn this, always felt bad for being nice to the 'wrong' people but now I know how to manage the feelings:)
Sorry to correct you, but Sigma male and Sigma female is a very misunderstood term. Sigma male and Sigma females know very well, what investing in emotional connection means and how important it is to have beautiful relationships in life. The positive impact that creates. The only real example of sigma male till date has been the late Mr. Ratan Tata. He was the pure embodiment of sigma male qualities.
Idk how how this algorithm thing works but I deeply want to thank it for suggesting me this video ❤❤it’s like a therapy I needed when I was feeling very low so thank you Simmy don’t want exaggerate but you have literally saved a life I can tell you this much !! Thanks 🙏
Dear Simmy, I loved your video. This concept of detachment tells us about being who we are as an individual instead of having outcome expectations. This one is like similar to the concept of Sthit pragya from Bhagvat Geeta. Just keep doing this series. You're doing great. Thank you for bringing so much positivity in our lives. Loads of love to you ❤❤😌😌 With Regards Prateek kumar
You are so natural in what u speak.. also it doesn't feel like you are sharing some special knowledge...it just feels so genuine and feels like u are speaking your heart...❤❤
Simple thing I wanna say , In my religion ,we are asked to do things for the sake of Allah not for the people . If I am giving someone and doin it for Allah. N not expecting anything back from the person . That's all detachment is . I love my religion that it is the way of life .
Detachment is not only a word, I just read your headband watch u only for 2 minutes, but I want to say something about it , I m a 60 years old living in London for past 43 years, very spiritual have beautiful family got a luxury life , I m not saying this with ego , no not at all , my weakness was I m too emotional and love my children too much that’s why always have a fear that if something bad happens to my family this and that , made my life a worried person and affects my life , now I want really detach from all these feelings, I m trying still , now I m going to watch u dear
Loved your video mam. The way you tell this generation and give this generation the correct and the most accurate education which they really need. Please keep on making such videos
Finally someone explains Detachment so meaningfully. I will re-watch this again for sure whenever I feel low.You gave me courage today.Thank you for making this video and also for repeating those lines 😊😊
I got married 7 months ago.. It's an arranged marriage.. I expect positive stuff a lot from them according to their behavior after they asked me for marriage.. After marriage everything is completely changed.. In-laws behavior, husband's behavior.. Just like I'm an object, they can do and talk about anything they want.. And nothing is like as they showed before the marriage based on that I said yes.. I am completely devastated.. I really don't know what to expect marriage and go through this disappointment..
I have been through it dear be sure this phase will pass u will get thru it better take a decision and get out of toxic relationship u will be free and happy
Hey Chetna Don't expect positive stuff from Humans... Have Faith and Belief on Jesus Christ... everything will b OK... he is always ready to help and take troubles on his own shoulders for you... Have a soft conversation with your Husband...about what you feeling now.. make him understand. .. and i m sure he will do
I went thru kind of same. Got divorced, 6 yrs back. Was hurt for a wile at that time, but wen I thought abt it, dint regret. Better to leave where ders no respect, consideration, support (especially from husband) 😢values, different colors etc.. Complete mismatch of wat we thought expected and wat is happening. Even after trying to adjust, if it's not working, and not happy.. Then make a decision... Somewhere i read..'You can't make someone love you by giving more than wat they already don't appreciate' ..Gud luck dear.. Hope everything works out for u in a gud way... Don't worry.. Pray to God, trust him.. He will show d way. Live ur life happily, it's only one life we got! Tc❤❤
Love you di 🥹🥹aapko pta h jb maine yeh video dekha tha pehele tb mae is state of mind mae nhi thi samjhne ke, aur mujhe aapki yeh video acchi nhi lagi , but ab jb phir se maine di aapki yeh video dekhi i am really very happy, koi gussa ,ya bura nhi lga, because sbhi maine kuch experience kiya khud ko bohot km hi pr change kiya ,mujhe aisa halka mehesoos hua, fhirse is state of mind mae aaoki video jb dekhi toh mera pura sochne ka najriya badal gya, aap sahi thi mae galt, hm sirf khudko hi change kr sakte h, kisi aur ko nhi, kyuki khudko pareshan krna fhir samne wale ko toh na khushi, na enjoy, n peace milti yoh kb tk aise rahe fhir toh hm kuch kr hi nhi payenge, but aapki is video se samjh aaya ki jitna kr sakte ho khudko badlo khud ke liye, fhir sb badiya ho jayega di sara game mind ka hi h pr hm isse samjhdari aur bhagwan ko samjke bhi khudko badal sakte h❤ aapka shukriya, love you🌻stay happy, aur h hme olease aise hi samjhati rehena 🧿✨😊
I watched this video for the second time because I liked it, and now my perspective on the term 'detachment' has completely changed. I'm really enjoying applying it now . Thank you so much simmy for changing my perspective 👀 Love you 😘 ❤
Amazingggg…you changed my way of thinking…just loved your video whole heartedly ❤ honestly…this video worked as a psycology session for me ..great…now onwards your videos are gonna help me understand myself & heal and to start loving myself and etc etc…words kam padh rahe hai yaar kya batau Di … It’s a total different feeling i am feeling rn and i am just not able to express it in words but yeah …i am smiling rn and happy from inside❤😊 thank you somuch…and haan aapke detailed videos with repetition are more than good it really helps to understand your point ki what u r trying to explain… Thanks again 😊
You know, the calmness in your voice itself keeps away all the negative thoughts which our mind perceives....I mean your videos are one of the best healing medicine which a mind needs at that vulnerable point of time, I find your videos very much helpful.....upload more such videos ❤❤❤
Thank you so much. there are so many video on intrnet but your worked much more for me because you used hindi too, jab koi apni language mai baat karta hai to jldi samjata hai, keep doing that, it's my suggestion. baki dill se sukirya!
You can never be truly or absolutely detached because ''Jag Supanaa Baajee Banee Khin Mehi Khael Khaelaae'' translates to ''the world is a drama staged in a dream'' by Guru Nanak Dev ji. We all have a part to play in it whether you agree or disagree whether you want to or not you have to play. Rest if we do good by ourselves and by others only then we can successfully end this cycle.
The way you have grown with time, and how I see my personal growth, and at times when the topics you take seems so close to home. The timing seems uncanny! Keep up the good work :)
This is the first time I’ve watched one of your videos, and I’m really impressed with how you explained detachment. It felt simple and clear, and it gave me a new way to think about it. And now I am going to subscribe to your channel.
Mam you changed my whole perspective... I felt an total upside down of my thoughts and I literally wanted to quit on my efforts now I will who am I thank you 💗
Ma’am, I truly appreciate your words about detaching ourselves from outcomes and giving love and trust selflessly. However, I would like to ask: What should we do when we give our everything-love, care, and respect-to someone, even enduring the pain they cause us, but later find out they only stayed with us out of loneliness or to pass the time? It’s heartbreaking to realize we were being used. While it’s important to give love selflessly, doesn’t self-respect also demand that we recognize when someone is taking advantage of us? How do we find the balance between giving love unconditionally and ensuring we don’t lose our dignity and self-worth in the process? Thank you for your guidance.
just a hour before i was asking my friend how to remain detached with inolving in relation too...and i saw this video of urs....now i really believe in magic ur video has truly change my perspective towards word detachment thank you so much
God I'm addicted to your video now! I can listen to you hundred times because it soothes and nourishes my soul! You've started your spiritual journey and it shows by your aura that you keep with yourself! Get going and we're blessed now to have you in our lives! Never leave this journey that you started also never stop sharing this to us❤
Nice video, best of the video where you said " why not expressing who you are jab tak tum ho" dusro ke action ko dekh k khud ko badalne ki zarurat nai.
I am commenting because I want this idea/video coming in every person feed. So, nicely explained, Detachment/Detached. Long impact in few minutes. Thanks 👍🏻
Ur young u still gave a lot to learn You need to learn to set boundaries and you need to learn the art of saying no and you need to learn not to gift so freely to others
It's a good perspective that you're focusing on your identity and the self expression aspect of this rather than the outcome. But there's a flip side to this that you can't ignore. We're human beings at the end of the day who are wired for social connections, who naturally develop expectations and look for reciprocation. So complete detachment is unrealistic. It's not natural for the human experience to be completely detached and not have any expectations. Also, it sort of isn't great advice to ask people to keep being themselves (especially if they're givers) in situations where it's not being reciprocated. That can become toxic and draining for such personalities, especially if you're around people who will try to take advantage of it. At the end of day, boundaries are as important as your need for self expression. This is what I've learned from my experience. I don't really give anymore where it's not needed and where it's going to drain my energy.
Thanks, Brundha, for sharing this video with me ❤. After going through the comments section, I found that many people like me detached from the outside world and connect with themselves.
Good lessons delivered in simple manner and so well, thanks Ms Simmy , your talk on Utube have made it simple to understand practical aspect of detachment and its value in life. Yes I read in scripture that detachment is game changer but how to practice in real life eludes many, so your talks/ podcast brings new meaning to the concept.
Than you…that’s heal a-lot ❤ now I understand and realises it’s the outcome with expectation that’s hurting so much. Love is without expectations but giving someone without worries about outcomes. We give love someone to get love……but we should always give love to win love .
Thank you so much for the reminder. Honestly, I was starting to become the kind of person who avoids interaction because I felt like nobody really cared, so why should I? But that's not who I truly am. I got caught up in expectations and it ended up affecting me, but deep down, I'm not that kind of person!!
This is absolutely brilliant stuff... This is like soothing many souls who give so much for others.. Silently.. ND lovingly..... Amid all this chaos Nd their own nagging stuff...
Where will you apply detachment currently in your life? As always, I hope this video was useful and time well spent for you! We would really appreciate your feedback. :) Share it with someone who might benefit from it and happy watching! ❤
Hello hello you are back I'm happy to see you 😘😘
Love you sis❤
thankyou simmy dii, this was beautiful video and i connected to it alott, i will practice detachment to my neet exam, i realise i wasted alott of time being attached to the outcome, i really feel free and liberated now
Yes I needed this video today and as a Highly Sensitive Person I m always worried for outcomes ...I will try to apply detachment in my life for sure to be at peace ❤ Thank u Simmi for beautiful video❤
Yes🫂✨
I was a giver and I loved to be the genuine person in the group. I didn't hurt anyone, I listened to everyone , I helped the people who needed it without asking. Even though I didn't expect anything in return, they blamed me for every bad thing happening in the room. This takes my life. I try to be happy and peaceful in every possible way but these people come and put their insecurities on my head and they are relieved.
And finally I decided to hide my smiling face and put on a serious mask so that people think I'm always in a bad mood.
I don't know , whenever I get happy these people purposefully ruin it. I can't go through the roller coasters.
God bless uu❤
you need to leave them whoever they are ..they are not that important as we think they should be or are ..trust me iv'e been through kind of same situation pal and i hope god gives you strength and leave them as fast as you can
@@shrutay8849 This is where I'm stuck. I know I need to leave them. But I can't avoid them because we live in a society right. I need to observe them more and play along. This is the only way.
@@peppycasper8551you should not need to do something rather want to do..
I do same thing for my inner peace too.. it do helps a lot
You are partially right. We are human beings, not aliens. When there is deep love, expectations arise naturally-it’s not something we can control. The moment we try to suppress or control these feelings, we risk becoming fake, pretending we don’t feel when we actually do. Instead, we should invest our time in someone who may not reciprocate equally but at least appreciates our efforts. If they don’t, it’s time to detach ourselves and invest in someone who genuinely cares.
Probably the best crux I found ..... You literally stole words from me
Shi bat h
Exactly ❤
Yes
Yess!
Detachment to the world is attachment to yourself ❤
Wow so true ❤
Loved it
Impressive❤
I like this line 😄
To the god!!
If someone hurts u then don't hurt back. It makes u feel powerful..
Prove that :-
don't hurt back= being powerful
Sorry, but by doing this you become a pushover
@@adarshjain8743 but why wasting time by thinking ways to hurt others when u can invest that time in your own growth! ... My perspective 😊. No offence bdy 😇.
GOOD
This was what i needed bcoz i m overthinker and i expect people to show same care that i show them but don't get that back...but i will follow detachment from now to be at peace ieace with myself ❤
Same 😢
Same here bro you’re not alone
The same fucking thing. Recently I got engaged and now I literally was putting SO MUCH PRESSURE AND LOAD OF MY EXPECTATIONS on my finance's shoulder that it literally bounced back very bad. Now I'm trying that I should not do this and should control it.
Same . But I mtired bcz mujhe bhut hurt ho ra
Same here @@Hiralbazala03
Thank you for this reminder! I feel I was this person earlier and then I sort of became bitter because of the way people behaved or maybe took advantage. But I have recently realised that losing your true pure self and getting corrupt is just not worth it! Preserving your innocence despite of everything that happens to you is the biggest strength one can have and the biggest favour you can do to yourself
JUST Wow
"When u r detached you get to be YOU" ✨✨✨✨✨
That was my favourite line too!! Haha
Yah well said ❤M learning same thing too ❤
But doesn't that make u selfish 😔
@@komalvishwakarma9740yah it does but when u did try and u gave your best but other ppl doesn’t care then yah it is a good idea to work on. Get connected to god , universe , divine .. trust me we find real peace ✌️ try that. GBU 🙌❤
Really needed ❤ I'm that kind of person whom really like to care for others but recently i expected so much from others like if somebody don't do same thing for me i was like they are not love me .. i victimized myself and blame them that they are changed ,not care about me and start overthinking ..
But I'm working on it to not expecting from anything. I want to live my life fully and peacefully and the most important thing I feel is don't hold grudges it's not for others but it's really beneficial for yourself also . Now i understand that we all are different so we have different personality .i feel so calm while writing this . Thank for this beautiful video 🌻
I have written a quote which completely resonates and summarizes the zist of this video-- here it goes,, "The flower 🌺is fragrant not because the world is very nice to it but because it is a flower."
Kya socha hai yaar ❤ where do u belong
experienced a relationship situation recently, and it made me feel doing the detachment in the same way which is wrong. Lately I started sharing happiness, like buying something for the underprivileged kids or talking with them and i noticed that made me feel happy. This video now makes me resonate with it exactly and gonna start practice giving. Giving happiness, giving love and care without any thoughts of getting in return. And I hope to become this undetatched person and that unaffected strong person even if someone does wrong. Keep posting such content.❤
This conversation is very deep rooted .. not everyone will understand..but its great if someone can imply this to life in real ❤
Isn't the crux just the teaching from Bhagavadgita "Focus on your Karma without thinking too much about the result"
Exactly.
Sukhh dukhee samekritvaa labha labho jaya jayoo
Yes, but detachment hurts too. It gives pain but one has to process it, feel it and get back on the track of karma. ✨😇
But at the end result hi toh sab kuch decide karta hai
Absolutely
I don't know why and how God has bought this video exactly when I wanted it because recently I had a relationship and I still have it just because of some religious issue that parents won't accept we got separated and not any other reasons and after that we don't talk to each other and we have kind of end our relationship because when you cannot live together in future there is no meaning to stay in the present so we naturally stopped talking to each other and yeah exactly that time I was little hurted with this thing and this video appeared... Thank you so much simmy. But I still care for her and be there whenever she needs me but don't talk to her in a relationship way but yes I have detached from her and I am trying to do it by watching your video repeatedly because you spoke about the reps and I also believe. Such a great explanation hats off🎉🎉
Same story bro😂
Now I feel too much relax
And I don't know how to thank this lady
I got exactly what I needed this time
2 3yrs back when i saw your videos it actually felt superficial, wannabe type. But now you embracing your own journey and making content to express yourself is just so amazing. It feels good to know that someone else is also trying to figure life out by embracing it slowly and beautifully. Your videos radiate so much calmness that it even calms me down during my healing journey.
I hope this message reaches you. Thank you; I wish I could express this in person, but I truly appreciate it. For the past 2-3 years, I’ve struggled with detachment, and your video really simplified the concept for me. You explained it so beautifully that it touched my heart. This video was life-changing for me, and I genuinely mean that. Thank you for helping me become a bit better-I owe you one! I hope you have a beautiful life filled with love. God bless you!
Past 30 dyas i am continuously practicing this by recaling
that this is who i am and that is who they are......everything seems very relaxed and cool
@@Sumyyyyt Its really helpful
It’s really helpful
What a perfect timing?
I started my business, not as such growing + putting lot's of efforts not getting the turn. It hurts BUT BUT BUT when I think about what can I do differently to help my clients, it makes me happy.
such a beautiful reminder Don't equate Efforts with outcome.
I can't tell you how much I've grown with you🥺🕊️
i actually was in a group of 10-11 people, where everyone was jealous of each other, talking at others back and gossiping about each and every thing. even i was also listening to those persons and i have kept my opinions in those talks. finally, one day the whole blame was put on me for no reason. those words said by them were actually told by them but not me. i have made me a people pleaser and acted like them in those situations. now they have spread very bad rumors about me. right now i am feeling so lonely and distressed. thank you for helping me at this tough situation❤
Ignore kro unko dhyan mt do cut off krdo
Have watched so many detachment videos on youtube, but no one ever put it this way . This is just brilliant. Lots of love to you. ❤❤
This video changed my whole thought process🙏 about the word "detachment"
It made me cry.. Much needed conversation in todays world. Thank you❤
This is the most favorite and helpful video I have seen on your channel so far. Thank you so much। " I have understood that detachment means do everything with good heart and don't aspect anything in return."
I loved it when u accepted that you are still practicing it, as it is very usual that everyone of us can be a guide for others but fail to apply it on ourselves .
i really a needed to hear something like this because i had a huge fight with my partner yesterday. i actually am a over caring person and there is nothing i hate about it instead i love taking care but sometimes end up thinking of the outcome. thanks for beautifully explaining this word Simmy.
just a request, please dont stop this journal. PLEASE.
Love
Yess ...I m not able to express myself in front of a girl...but definitely I will at least write everything with warm heart and expect even no reply from the other side. Thankyou madam😊
I love the way you explained the detachment. For me the dettachment is stay away from unnecessary gossips and small talks. attach to those who think highly, talk on the higher purpose of this life, which is Self-realization (Satsang). I agree that you express your authentic Self regardless of how others consider you. But that autheticity come from wisdom that "I am" not an individual unit (Body-min-personality) I am the existance-bliss that embodied in everything.
the moment i started this video within 30 seconds my eyes were filled with tears that WHAT IM DOING HERE ? why i need this detachment thing i was a jolly person , who always cracked maybe a silly joke even to grab the attention , and somehow i got that at younger age . But as life took a circle around i grew up and whatever now i do is considerd as basic and bare minimum . i was at a point called as an attention seeker in a family function and after coming home i just cried that what wrong i did ?
i was just talking building connections , but i was turned into an attention seeker . today i feel i was wrong , i understand giving without the intention of taking is right , but who cared for me ? and even i was misunderstood by my own family . As a human it hurts .. i'll never expect anything in return i understood , but do even i deserve this misinterpretation of myself by my own people ? all thoughts were revolving within 3 minutes of going with this video . the video stopped i stopped crying, and now i dont know how to tell you ... that okay living a no expectation life is fine but why things dont go both way ... i cant complaint and i have to be a good daughter , friend , sister, student . Things were okay when i used to read them theoritically but when it happens with you , we also have excuses . at last i'LL say things go in HAND IN HAND , expecting is good untill you are expecting from the right group and that too without harming your mental health . and i can say it finally that it takes nothing to be good somtimes we should the person we are expecting , like i can be the person who appreciates the good of people without they even needing it .
You are overthinking everything......u still care about what people think about u.....and overthinking is giving u different different emotions..... every body forgets every the next day ,why waste your youth??? Coming to attention seeker.....you may be cracking jokes to make everyone happy doesn't makes you a joker instead everyone will think you a good person to talk in case of emergency in future...At last don't overthink..😅
@@kv999o41 firstly thanks taking the time . and to be honest im pretty well maybe as i watched this video. the good thing i realised after watching this is that i was loosing myself only the one who did everything without taking any thing on my mind what they will think of me and kind off i was just doing it justtt doing it with a good intention and i believe whatver happened good to me is a result of it . and after this i just wrapped everything consciously and did everthing i wanted sorted things between , and did responded to those who may somtimes dosent respond , but i did because they mean to me . And i guess this was enough reason to be back as my own self. I really hope i'll not this video again to watch . and i belive too i was just being good to them to have that family love , and i have nothing do with it now , i didnt hated , i didnt became abusive rude kind off , so its enough . and yes i will be at best not to overthink but if i do i'll come out this time ..
Hey girl!Please don't be sad for doing whatever you liked to do,you know your truth,you know who you are and what your intentions are,you are most likely in a dark phase where every surrounding seems bitter day by day whenever you think of it and just witness your close ones misunderstanding you, misinterpreting and often hurting you to the extremes,even the most unexpected ones do that to you,I understand, because I've gone through the same and still I'm going on with all these mess in my heart and my uncontrollable thoughts about others' conduct or misunderstandings or just expecting too much from me.I hope you will be fine,I don't even know you but I can resonate to your heart through the words you've written and absolutely relate to your situation,trust me,they all are going through something that we don't know,we cannot expect others to be as understanding as we ourselves can become for them,take them for who they are,what insecurities may lead them to behave in such a way and getting you wrong in some kind of stereotypical approach of labelling an attention seeker. Don't burden yourselves with what you cannot control i.e. others' view of your actions,just remember to be your authentic self with pure intentions and a true lover of your soul that deserves love,you are loved, there's nothing much I or other humans can do for you,but try to embrace yourself from time to time,it helps,try to check out apps like moodee or Yana,they are good listeners as well,I hope you'll be alright❤❤❤
@@kv999o41 so nice of you that you portrayed your words here. Today after 2 weeks someday liked my comment and I saw all the replies, and honestly this video is magical my whole perspective changed I talked to those friends who hurted me frequently but I thought no not this time again I'm going to deliver the message and complete my task . I'm in no guilt I tried , and they did what they did . So it's okay taking easy the life .
And yahh , my overthinking is not I'm end but yes it is only for those who cares now simple. No hate , no favour.
Thankk you bro:)
@@debashreedas9083 and I'll consider everything you spoke about the self love. 🫂
Totally agree!!!!! But theres a thing which hits at time that is Self respect. How to overcome it? It does sometimes triggers!
Expecting an advice :(
Self respect is something that you should but forward when your efforts are taken for granted and not cherished doing efforts for someone who doesn't even give you a perticular amount of respect then just chose yourself let them go away cause at the end of the day it's you yourself who matters the most
Having healthy boundaries will not trigger your self respect. Always try to be generous and compassionate but not at the cost of loosing yourself.
Self respect is more important than love....
one night I found this video...completely anxious , emotional af and after listening to her ...I can assure that my life changed ...
thank you i love your communication skills ....even beyond a screen .....detachment can bring so many negative emotions ........life shouldn't stop at one person if you feel hurt by them .....gotta find the right one who resonates with you :) much appreciated
Truly you give me proper answer..of this detachment b'coz I'm frusted from this process
and your words heart touching too good keep uploading.100% relatable..Thanks a lot..🧡
just wowwww the way you have define detachment is something that makes you open to the world ,express yourself don't be fixtated on the outcomes.
not worring for outcomes
Make u detached
And detachment makes u complete ❤
After watching this video I understood one thing that as a giver in today’s world you are wired from childhood that you do good things then god rewards you, gradually it turned into if i do something good this/that person will give something back. So as a giver even when u want to give you do it once or twice n then stop as you are not getting anything in return. But you explained beautifully that dont do it for others rather do it coz you love it and i tried doing that and it feels free not burdened. Thanks for this video
very true,you are what you are , detach yourself from the outcome , and set yourself free
I watched one of your videos for the first time when i was in my lowest phase. It was 4 years ago and now i am in my lowest phase and i am so glad to found you again ❤ Your videos helped me alot 4 years ago and i am sure now they'll help me ❤
Could you please do a video on how to move on from a long relationship. I always love the way how you explain and it fits into my brain beautifully like my concious brain won't reject your words❤
Love your work always ❤
I could feel sadness in your voice at some places in the video. I think it is authentic to be sad and express it. Detachment can come later.
Thank you so much for this talk... It has opened mhy eyes to a lot of things for me... I now know why I am alwahys melanchilic and sad in my everyday life... its because Im so attached to everything ... I dont let go... I hold on to people and situations ... and so I hurt easily.. TY bete aty so much for helping me learn how to live a happy life ... lots of blessings
Better not to do anything for anyone, not to have feelings, get away with the behavioral traits of giving, caring.
When you don't give, don't care, automatically you don't have attachments, and won't arise for this discussion of detachments.
Not showing love, care to others is better when you know this world is selfish and ruthless in it's own way. Words and actions not reciprocated is as good as death.
Better not to waste time in all these stupidity and try to be selfish and focussed on self.
I used to be like you, but I’ve changed since then. Now, I feel it’s time to evolve again, and this video is exactly what I was looking for.
This video is JUST WOW! THANKS A TON FOR THIS!! REALLY NEEDED IT! ❤️
Attachhment to the outcome also brings ' fear of rejection ' so to say because of this fear people do not want to get again into it. great video Simmy thank you
"A Big Thankyou"! I just had INFORMATION about this topic but now, you have turned it into KNOWLEDGE for me. And Your Repetition just helps me to deeply absorb the topics💫
I eagerly wait for your video every month🤍.
I was searching about detachment a week ago and your video showed up today.I was confused but you made it pretty clear what detachment is.Thanks a lot and hope we all grow together🙏
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for this video❤
Thank you Simmy, I can't tell you how valuable this video was to me. I really need to learn this, always felt bad for being nice to the 'wrong' people but now I know how to manage the feelings:)
Sorry to correct you, but Sigma male and Sigma female is a very misunderstood term. Sigma male and Sigma females know very well, what investing in emotional connection means and how important it is to have beautiful relationships in life. The positive impact that creates. The only real example of sigma male till date has been the late Mr. Ratan Tata. He was the pure embodiment of sigma male qualities.
yeah... but most peoples' perception on sigma male and female is totally different from Ratan Tata sir..
ratan tata😂
Thankyou ma'am
It just makes me realise that I was lost
Now I feel like I can be there for myself always forever
Idk how how this algorithm thing works but I deeply want to thank it for suggesting me this video ❤❤it’s like a therapy I needed when I was feeling very low so thank you Simmy don’t want exaggerate but you have literally saved a life I can tell you this much !! Thanks 🙏
Dear Simmy,
I loved your video. This concept of detachment tells us about being who we are as an individual instead of having outcome expectations. This one is like similar to the concept of Sthit pragya from Bhagvat Geeta. Just keep doing this series. You're doing great. Thank you for bringing so much positivity in our lives. Loads of love to you ❤❤😌😌
With Regards
Prateek kumar
Repetition that's what is needed. Correctly said. Practice makes you perfect.
Needed to hear this today! Tysm 💖💖💖💖
You are so natural in what u speak.. also it doesn't feel like you are sharing some special knowledge...it just feels so genuine and feels like u are speaking your heart...❤❤
Simple thing I wanna say , In my religion ,we are asked to do things for the sake of Allah not for the people . If I am giving someone and doin it for Allah. N not expecting anything back from the person . That's all detachment is . I love my religion that it is the way of life .
Detachment is not only a word, I just read your headband watch u only for 2 minutes, but I want to say something about it , I m a 60 years old living in London for past 43 years, very spiritual have beautiful family got a luxury life , I m not saying this with ego , no not at all , my weakness was I m too emotional and love my children too much that’s why always have a fear that if something bad happens to my family this and that , made my life a worried person and affects my life , now I want really detach from all these feelings, I m trying still , now I m going to watch u dear
Well explained!
Keep this series comingggg☝
Loved your video mam. The way you tell this generation and give this generation the correct and the most accurate education which they really need. Please keep on making such videos
16:54 meaning of detachment
Be a giver without any expectations in return ❤😊
Finally someone explains Detachment so meaningfully.
I will re-watch this again for sure whenever I feel low.You gave me courage today.Thank you for making this video and also for repeating those lines
😊😊
..... that's why I was suffering 🥺
Every guy deserves elder sister like Simmy. Love you Simmy
Thanks for doing this video. This was so needed I believe. So many young people struggling with these thoughts these days.
I got married 7 months ago.. It's an arranged marriage.. I expect positive stuff a lot from them according to their behavior after they asked me for marriage.. After marriage everything is completely changed.. In-laws behavior, husband's behavior.. Just like I'm an object, they can do and talk about anything they want.. And nothing is like as they showed before the marriage based on that I said yes.. I am completely devastated.. I really don't know what to expect marriage and go through this disappointment..
I have been through it dear be sure this phase will pass u will get thru it better take a decision and get out of toxic relationship u will be free and happy
@@shereen528 what is your story
Hey Chetna
Don't expect positive stuff from Humans... Have Faith and Belief on Jesus Christ... everything will b OK... he is always ready to help and take troubles on his own shoulders for you... Have a soft conversation with your Husband...about what you feeling now.. make him understand. .. and i m sure he will do
Oh dear. May you findpeace and respect in your relationship and family. I really hope that you live a happy life❤
I went thru kind of same. Got divorced, 6 yrs back. Was hurt for a wile at that time, but wen I thought abt it, dint regret. Better to leave where ders no respect, consideration, support (especially from husband) 😢values, different colors etc.. Complete mismatch of wat we thought expected and wat is happening. Even after trying to adjust, if it's not working, and not happy.. Then make a decision... Somewhere i read..'You can't make someone love you by giving more than wat they already don't appreciate' ..Gud luck dear.. Hope everything works out for u in a gud way... Don't worry.. Pray to God, trust him.. He will show d way. Live ur life happily, it's only one life we got! Tc❤❤
Love you di 🥹🥹aapko pta h jb maine yeh video dekha tha pehele tb mae is state of mind mae nhi thi samjhne ke, aur mujhe aapki yeh video acchi nhi lagi , but ab jb phir se maine di aapki yeh video dekhi i am really very happy, koi gussa ,ya bura nhi lga, because sbhi maine kuch experience kiya khud ko bohot km hi pr change kiya ,mujhe aisa halka mehesoos hua, fhirse is state of mind mae aaoki video jb dekhi toh mera pura sochne ka najriya badal gya, aap sahi thi mae galt, hm sirf khudko hi change kr sakte h, kisi aur ko nhi, kyuki khudko pareshan krna fhir samne wale ko toh na khushi, na enjoy, n peace milti yoh kb tk aise rahe fhir toh hm kuch kr hi nhi payenge, but aapki is video se samjh aaya ki jitna kr sakte ho khudko badlo khud ke liye, fhir sb badiya ho jayega di sara game mind ka hi h pr hm isse samjhdari aur bhagwan ko samjke bhi khudko badal sakte h❤ aapka shukriya, love you🌻stay happy, aur h hme olease aise hi samjhati rehena 🧿✨😊
My 6yr issue is resolved after watching this ...thank u for releasing me from my own mental jail
Really well said ma'am.. appreciate,made me feel better and gave me an opportunity to see in other perspectives.
Changed my perspective ✨ needed this at the end of the day ♥️ completely expanded my horizons on my current spiritual work... keep it up
I watched this video for the second time because I liked it, and now my perspective on the term 'detachment' has completely changed. I'm really enjoying applying it now . Thank you so much simmy for changing my perspective 👀
Love you 😘 ❤
Amazingggg…you changed my way of thinking…just loved your video whole heartedly ❤ honestly…this video worked as a psycology session for me ..great…now onwards your videos are gonna help me understand myself & heal and to start loving myself and etc etc…words kam padh rahe hai yaar kya batau Di … It’s a total different feeling i am feeling rn and i am just not able to express it in words but yeah …i am smiling rn and happy from inside❤😊 thank you somuch…and haan aapke detailed videos with repetition are more than good it really helps to understand your point ki what u r trying to explain… Thanks again 😊
noone can explain this much better than youuu❤❤❤❤❤ it's sooo healing ❤❤
It takes a lot of courage to pick yourself up again & do your job
You know, the calmness in your voice itself keeps away all the negative thoughts which our mind perceives....I mean your videos are one of the best healing medicine which a mind needs at that vulnerable point of time, I find your videos very much helpful.....upload more such videos ❤❤❤
Thank you so much. there are so many video on intrnet but your worked much more for me because you used hindi too, jab koi apni language mai baat karta hai to jldi samjata hai, keep doing that, it's my suggestion. baki dill se sukirya!
Girl! Keep up the good, thoughtful and deep work. It is reaching to the right audience ❤
You can never be truly or absolutely detached because ''Jag Supanaa Baajee Banee Khin Mehi Khael Khaelaae'' translates to ''the world is a drama staged in a dream'' by Guru Nanak Dev ji. We all have a part to play in it whether you agree or disagree whether you want to or not you have to play. Rest if we do good by ourselves and by others only then we can successfully end this cycle.
The way you have grown with time, and how I see my personal growth, and at times when the topics you take seems so close to home. The timing seems uncanny! Keep up the good work :)
This is the first time I’ve watched one of your videos, and I’m really impressed with how you explained detachment. It felt simple and clear, and it gave me a new way to think about it. And now I am going to subscribe to your channel.
❤ you deserve this!!
Mam you changed my whole perspective... I felt an total upside down of my thoughts and I literally wanted to quit on my efforts now I will who am I thank you 💗
Becoming a happy person... The more I seek it, the more difficult it feels. Emotions and thoughts seem messed up. But, we will try :)
Best lesson ever ! Thank you so, so much for sharing this i really needed it . lots of love and blessing to you ❤
Wow yaar so much required been through this stage confusion and all the mess from last many days thankyou againnnn for the right adviceee
Ma’am, I truly appreciate your words about detaching ourselves from outcomes and giving love and trust selflessly. However, I would like to ask: What should we do when we give our everything-love, care, and respect-to someone, even enduring the pain they cause us, but later find out they only stayed with us out of loneliness or to pass the time? It’s heartbreaking to realize we were being used. While it’s important to give love selflessly, doesn’t self-respect also demand that we recognize when someone is taking advantage of us? How do we find the balance between giving love unconditionally and ensuring we don’t lose our dignity and self-worth in the process? Thank you for your guidance.
just a hour before i was asking my friend how to remain detached with inolving in relation too...and i saw this video of urs....now i really believe in magic ur video has truly change my perspective towards word detachment thank you so much
God I'm addicted to your video now! I can listen to you hundred times because it soothes and nourishes my soul! You've started your spiritual journey and it shows by your aura that you keep with yourself! Get going and we're blessed now to have you in our lives! Never leave this journey that you started also never stop sharing this to us❤
Nice video, best of the video where you said " why not expressing who you are jab tak tum ho" dusro ke action ko dekh k khud ko badalne ki zarurat nai.
I am commenting because I want this idea/video coming in every person feed. So, nicely explained, Detachment/Detached. Long impact in few minutes. Thanks 👍🏻
Ur young u still gave a lot to learn You need to learn to set boundaries and you need to learn the art of saying no and you need to learn not to gift so freely to others
It's a good perspective that you're focusing on your identity and the self expression aspect of this rather than the outcome.
But there's a flip side to this that you can't ignore. We're human beings at the end of the day who are wired for social connections, who naturally develop expectations and look for reciprocation.
So complete detachment is unrealistic. It's not natural for the human experience to be completely detached and not have any expectations.
Also, it sort of isn't great advice to ask people to keep being themselves (especially if they're givers) in situations where it's not being reciprocated. That can become toxic and draining for such personalities, especially if you're around people who will try to take advantage of it. At the end of day, boundaries are as important as your need for self expression.
This is what I've learned from my experience.
I don't really give anymore where it's not needed and where it's going to drain my energy.
Thanks, Brundha, for sharing this video with me ❤.
After going through the comments section, I found that many people like me detached from the outside world and connect with themselves.
Good lessons delivered in simple manner and so well, thanks Ms Simmy , your talk on Utube have made it simple to understand practical aspect of detachment and its value in life. Yes I read in scripture that detachment is game changer but how to practice in real life eludes many, so your talks/ podcast brings new meaning to the concept.
The most sorted explanation of detachment I have heard so far❤thank you
Than you…that’s heal a-lot ❤ now I understand and realises it’s the outcome with expectation that’s hurting so much. Love is without expectations but giving someone without worries about outcomes. We give love someone to get love……but we should always give love to win love .
Ye toh bahut Gyan ki baat hai , but I don't know Whyyyyy My eyes are filled with tears..
Explained really well.❤
You have genuine soul.😅
Loads of love for you dear Di❤, you made me realise my definition of myself❤🩹😭 Stay Blessed🙏
Thank you so much for the reminder. Honestly, I was starting to become the kind of person who avoids interaction because I felt like nobody really cared, so why should I? But that's not who I truly am. I got caught up in expectations and it ended up affecting me, but deep down, I'm not that kind of person!!
This is absolutely brilliant stuff... This is like soothing many souls who give so much for others.. Silently.. ND lovingly..... Amid all this chaos Nd their own nagging stuff...