Fun Practical Tips to overcome Loneliness | Loneliness to Strength | Drishti Sharma
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- I was dealing with loneliness for a really long time. I had a few friends but eventually I lost contact with them as well. I didn't have great connections with my family nor I had some cool cousins. I started spending time alone at home and it affected my mental health.
Eventually I learnt how to spend peaceful time by sitting in silence and embracing the journey of self love. In this video, I have shared a few of my practical tips that healed my to deal with loneliness. I hope they help you! Let me know in the comments if they did.
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Timestamps -
00:00 - Intro
00:31 - 1) Process of getting out of Victim Mindset
01:57 - 2) Learning how to Spend Time Alone
02:46 - How To Start Loving Yourself?
03:44 - 3) Picking up a New Hobby
04:29 - 4) Writing Love Letters to Yourself
05:21 - 5) Fulfill Promises you make to yourself
06:22 - Downsides of Practicing Self-Love
07:11 - Subscribe :)
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I enjoy being alone.. I do Yoga, gym.. I have a 9 hour work from home job, I spend time with pets, I don't even watch television.. life is beautiful and I am blessed.
How do you fill up in between times
@@ardramenon9797I don't know I am a right person to answer your question.. But I also working from home and fill my in between times by cooking, listening songs or thinking about my health - just thinking hmnn not started yet properly.. ❤
Any job work from home plz share kre🙏
@@ardramenon9797 Honestly there is no empty time, as once you start living a quality life, you will plan and optimize your entire day.
@@user-np2xn8rs6l nowadays a lot of IT companies offer work from home or hybrid model.. so it depends on your qualification.
There is a difference between loneliness and solitude. loneliness is boring whereas in solitude you can inspect your thoughts.- Sudha Murthy
I can second you.
Loneliness is removed only when u start accepting that u don't need any person to remove loneliness...
My takeaways are,
1. Dress Up for Yourself
2. Develop the Qualities you look upto in Your Friends or Life Partner (Try)
3. Fulfill the Promises you have to Yourself (Be Real)
My takeway:
1. Fullfil the promises you make to yourself
2. Write yourself the things you want to hear from others about you
if you are developing qualities which you want to see in your partner then on whom you try, doesn't it get fade after a week of practice ?
2😂right
How can each and every video of Drishti can be so much informative and so much content loaded.... I can't even think to avoid any video of Drishti now.....
Sooo true 100%%%
Cauz you think you don't have ability to solve your own problem and rely on others to solve it
That's true for sure!
V v true
@@JitendraGunawat true
I was staying with my friend and later she came into a relationship and she invited him to stay with us and he also started to living with us and this is where my journey of loneliness started because i am single and even not in a talking chatting phase . Though we three stay in the same house but i was all alone in my room i had no one to go for outing and my friend started behaving differently . I wanted to stay alone in rented house but i was scared at the same time cause i was kind of irresponsible and i have phasmophobia . I was suffocating there so, i decided to shift . Now , iam in my new room staying all alone , free from suffocation and toxic friends. Now iam happy that i took the best decision . Now i can do whatever i want and in my free time i just read books and do some DIY .
Meri problems drishti tak kaise chali jaati hai 😅😅 that's called connection . I still remember the first video I saw and then never missed. Dude, you have come too far.... That's what they say - you grow with your work gradually. That's the best feeling ever.
Yeah....I lost my dad in 2019
I lost my all friends ad they got married and eventually I loss my lonh term boyfriend because he was bored with me! Cousins are all settled and marriage and living their own happy life! And here I am all alone.... facing severe loneliness with immense amount of mental and psychological truma and unable to wake up from the bed!! Watching this video and crying.
From being a fun loving outgoing person to a dead lonely soul! The pain of this journey only can be understood by those who have gone through this!!!!
Btw thank you girl for real-talk❤❤
dont over think, just spend time with small plant nd nature...
I have been on solo dates with myself.
But just a word out there, if you see any solo daters around, let's say you see someone similar in a cafe, feel free to join in or share the table. You don't have to strike a conversation, just being there itself will make you and the other person feel like you belong❤❤❤
Being in relationship or being surrounded by 1000 friends is made to sound so cool that at times it’s turning cringy. This video is refreshing
I watched your video 3 days ago and loved the idea of solo date. As I am a Bengali, we are enjoying Durga Puja right now. So I thought about a solo pandal hopping around my neighborhood. Today I did this. It felt great. It's so so much better than going out with my toxic friends. I am feeling really really happy. Thank you so much for making this video.
Take lots of love ❤❤❤❤.
Isolation is a boon. Not many realise that. I always felt I don't belong to this world because my soul always craved genuine and real connections which I never had in family, friends, workplace etc. But believe me it takes some time to understand why you feel like that. Self improvement is very necessary in life and it definitely gets rewarded one day and at some point in your life, you understand all the reasons and get answers to all your questions. Then you also find a purpose in your life. Spirituality helps a lot in all that and makes you proud of who you are, and at the right time you meet your soul connections (relationships that make you feel happy satisfied and evolve you). Remember there's a reason why some people are like that.
Hi Simran! I’m going through a similar phase - if you are comfortable, would love to connect with you :)
Thank you Drishti,it really helped me out I am currently dealing with loneliness and I am a 14 yr old,to keep my self busy I started to read books,and I have also started writing a diary to share my thoughts and feelings. I follow you since a very long time and your videos really helped me❤
I like the fact that you add time stamps to each of your videos. Sign of a considerate, responsible, organized content creator. All the best!
Your personal experiences and insights are incredibly valuable. Loneliness is something many people struggle with, and your advice on connecting with others, embracing solitude, and practicing self-compassion is truly helpful.
How i deal with loneliness?
1)I write a diary.
Where i appreciate myself and I'll write tasks that I need to perform.
2) I'll cook special dish for myself.
And praise myself for the test.
3) I'll take care of my plants ☘️
4)I'll do yoga that busts my energy.
It's great to see her making these type of videos, which is helping everyone including herself!! Lots of love di 💕
A big thanks to you for making a video on this topic. I am on the same journey right now and the fact that you have overcome it and grown so beautiful give’s so much strength to people like us! 🌸
you are the person I was searching as my guide for lifeeeee! how you are giving so much helpful tips and understand it so well?? currently I am so much confused about my life i.e. my feeling and emotions basically and there is no one I can talk about
! your videos really helps,its like my big sister is guiding me for life! you are doing a really good job bro! your decision of being a content creator is great
Itni real aur relatable topics pe videoes aur woh bhi itni insightful..drishtii u r doing great work..a real influencer..just keep rocking ❤❤🎉🎉
Loved watching this video because it's always liberating to watch and listen to messages of self-love again. It's special when someone shares their own experience. Thank you for making this video. Thank you for nudging me to love myself a little more today. More power to you.💖
Your videos are like therapy to me and the fact u drop a video on that certain topic that I want to cope up with is so unreal
Hey... Just got this video randomly in my feed. And how amazingly you put your points out there. It really felt genuine. Keep up the good work! ❤
This is such a genuine video . I feel we all are somewhere lonely deep down and zindagi khud ke sath hi bitani hai ultimately. Thank you for such genuine advice .
Love and hugs
Thanks for this video.. I exactly feel the same and I feel sad that parents are not there to understand our loneliness. But these are great options for sure.
I can empathize with your perspective. I believe that in my quest to find happiness through others rather than within myself, I ended up losing some of my friends just due to my loneliness. But, now I understood the need for change and self-discovery. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
This video is so relatable to me.... I feel the way you are mentioning the things I have actually started doing this in my life few months back..... And I love myself and I come to understand myself in all capabilities
I needed this video so badly. Thank you so much Drishti. I am so so grateful that I found this video ♥️
Thank you Drishti and i felt that visual company from your words.
I'd like to highlight that by exclusively using the English language, your message has the potential to reach a broader audience than you might anticipate.
Your intro got me drishti. So relatable and your knowledge is beyond your age. Truly amazing
Thank you so much @drishtisharma. Because there was so much to learn from and that feeling of neglecting the way we feel burst into flames afterwards besides acknowledging, addressing and resolving that makes you feel a much stronger and better version of yourself ❤️
Few tips from my side I started travelling solo and made wonderful friends while staying in hostels . Start going to meet up and events in your city your social life will improve . Go for nature walk solo you will find peace and lot of other creatures as well .
By far the most relatable video !!
Whenever i feel lonely, I usually workout or take a nap.
I will make sure to include picking up a new hobby and fulfilling promises in my habits.
Thanks for the video !! Keep making such content 🔥🔥💯💯
Ya it's very relatable ! Loneliness hits very hard & sometimes it's very difficult to come out of that feeling.. But it's ok as it is a part of growing.. The video was very helpful ! Lots of ❤
This was lovely. And drishti you are such a gem of a human being!❤️
How can each and every video of drishti become totally relatable with me ....❤
You are doing a very good job dear, your content is really strong & very genuine. Lots of love & light to you❤
I love it how much genuine and true u are ...true inspiration...😊
Girl, you have no clue you have given the best tips ever... thank you so much❤.. this was very much needed
I was thinking about it and couldn't agree more to all the ways you presented to get out of this mindset . I personally opted many of the ways earlier and it really boosted me .. the one which is left is going on solo dates and I will definitely go out and will have new experiences with learnings ..by the whole process I will be moving ahead and getting towards my peace ✌️
Thankyou ma'am for your wonderful insights ❤
I thought, I am the only one who is facing this problem. But this video really give me positivity. Thanks for the video.
Self improvement phase is amazing. You learn new things about yourself and about others thought process.
you always touch deep questions in human life ? nobody talk about loneliness , I really apreciate your thoughts thank you so much.🙂
Thank You Drishti Didi You Have given me So many Reasons How to Fight Back to My Loneliness , Actually I am A student of 11th grade ...And was Fighting To this Loneliness, Thanks A lott Again !!
Thank you Drishti, you are really giving me a path to handle this life❤❤
I'm currently feeling so lonely and can't help myself at all ..i thought I'm the only girl on this universe but as I'm watching you saying this in audience I'm going to help myself .. thank you❤ ❤❤❤
Such a great video dristi !! Keep it up you are consistent. Same problem I was facing and you uploaded the video and solve my confusion.
I was scrolling through TH-cam and thought of watching this video! I was goin g through series of emotions, a roller coaster ride because of not having a single friend in my life, I was thinking am I the one with no friends at all or there are more human species and you proved me wrong, there are indeed more people like me with no friends! I think Universe wanted me to watch this video, It's not that easy to express this on TH-cam, takes a lot of courage! Kudos, keep up the good work, girl❤
Yes it's better to be alone than being with toxic people and ruining our own mental bealth
@@trishilaverma Exactly! I was so uncomfortable initially, just the thought of being alone scared me, but then when I was backstabbed and betrayed multiple times by "snakes" in form of friends, I realized I don't neef these serpents, better to enjoy my own company rather then being bitten by snakes again and again!
The quality of your content is increasing day by day. I can't afford to not watch any video of yours from now😊 thank you
Just sifted to hostel for my education. This is the first time I am all alone by myself and now I am realizing that I don't even know how to spend time with myself and all of these things are hitting me now.
Thank you so much for this video drishti got a lot of clarity through this video. I felt like my elder sister was speaking.
Very genuine and honest ideas. Thanks for spreading positive vibes to all
sending love, dristhi. it is really going help me as I have been struggling with the same issue as yours. more power to you lady.
Firstly thank you so much for sharing this, soo informative and doable task to keep ourselves happy. Really inspiring ❤✨
Such a powerful positivity🎉
Thanks for inspiring❤
Much love ❤❤
I think I have been in those situations and it feels extremely difficult for yourself to get back together. It was around 3-4 years back but now I am a person who can just travel alone, eat alone go anywhere wherever I want.
But since now I am married to the most beautiful person. I think he don't need to carry the baggage of me being alone in some situations.I learnt it at the right time. So now life is peace. I am at peace even if he is around me or not
I am double happy when he is around me but not sad or lonely when he is not.. I kind of tackle myself❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤Thank you. This channel is a saviour. You are helping ppl to not kill themselves. 💖🤗
Hy Drishti Recently watched the Glamup series & trust me it was the bestest series on your channel, pls do again something like this, lots of love to you❤
Hey Drishti, you are really doing an amazing job. This video of yours quite helpful for me. I have been lately feeling very lonely but you cheered me up. Thankyou so much
Drishti di is a blessing❤
Very honest talk and u really inspiring us and makes us happy and u reminding us our worth so much blessings for you and keep making us motivate and spreading happiness and positivity thanku ❤☺️🥰
Hey drishtii
Ur content is so practical nd relatable the way u put ur thoughts with ur Point of view nd give people positive vibes with own experiences it's worth 😊
Keep going nd create such content people like me needs more content creator like u soo my all blessings with u 👍
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Thank you Drishti.... Aisa laga ki ap meri hi kahani mujhe suna rahe ho..... Same aisa hi feel karta hun... But now I decided to change myself with ur help and ur instructions❤
Whenever i feel lonely in public i always try to talk to myself in mind and observe what is going on around me and try to motivate my self and the best escape for me from loneliness is doodling it really helps to forget the bad feelings about yourself and about others.
And thanks to you drishti, from you i have learned alot that how i can be the best partner to myself.❤️
Thank you Drishti.
I am feeling lonely since a long time. And then this video comes up with the same feeling.I will do the things that you have said.Thank you❤
Thankss Drishti Dii..You're Awesome..Your tips really help a lot..I would like to say You're the Best..💖💫
Just want to say Thank you Drishti 💫 you r an inspiration to many !!
Luv u dude ❣️
Also you forgot mentioning the most important role listening to good music can play in alleviating loneliness.🚶Walk in the nature, and if possible, adopting a female Indian dog from a dog shelter can do miracles. There are no more loyal, loving and adorable companions than dogs, far more genuine than humans.. 💓
finally a great video based on the topic. So relatable.
I have been doing almost all the things said by you. Glad to know that it actually works and I’m on right path. Thank you
Drishtiii you are just addingg to my life❤ thankyou ,much needed.Was feeling lonely😢
Thankyou drishti for this video,
Your content is too good and realistic 🤍
❤.. .🌼. ..❤
Heyyy Drishti....
Your videos not only assist🤸♀️ us in our work but also inspire and make it more pleasurable🥂.
Keep going 🏄♀️
Some time I feel that I am the only one who can't made friends.. but this is really helpful to mee
What a point, great!!. Yes, when people don't add value, it becomes difficult to be friends with them for a long period.😃
You are frank and realistic, hence I love watching your videos. Love from my end
Damnnn! Finally your videos have started coming on every Sunday! Proud of youuu.. keep going✨
Beautiful thoughts practically elaborated! Loved the video 😅
It's really a great video❤ I can completely relate to whatever you said. you are doing a great job !
I m lonely from 12 yrs n from 2 yrs i m in total isolation, no1 to talk, care, touch, no1 to meet, no friends, lost trust in any kind of relationship. Tried EVERYTHING to boost myself but now i m TOTALLY tired!!!
i love the idea of writing a letter to your future self i did it 3 months ago and the feeling was really amazing ☺
Informative. Direct. Understandable!
Beautifully explained ❤
All very very Brilliant ideas 💡 many thanks for sharing. Lots of Wishes on your beautiful journey! 🎉
Really this video is much needed now at this point of my life. I mean it is too much relatable.
And thankyou so much for your videos ....🎉🎉😊😊
Thank you drishtiji for this video, i feel same lonely with depression due to my family issue.
But key point from this video for me is self love atleast if you want to live your life just love yourself first❤now i just want to fight with my situation and want to comeback.and last,
Hope you always be happy 😃
omg you & your videos are totally superrbbbbbbb......i just have started watching your videos & they are really really helpful, knowledge worthy. Keep growing Dear❤❤.....i am starting my process too through little little things to make myself happy 🥰😊
Thank you for sharing such valuable information with soo much honesty 🥺
I think this is everyones story. Not all have the guts to express it.. Through this video i understood that its important to tske care of yourself, heal yourself and give that importance which we never did.
Mnay thanks Drishti for this video.😊
Dude i feel like watching your videos again and again especially these break up and moving on and self love videos
Hi Drishti.. I'm Ekta... This morning mujhe bahut loneliness feel ho raha tha...coz Single hoon... Friends kabhi zyada thhe hi nhi jo thhe unki shadiyan ho gai hain wo apne bachcho ke sath apni life mein busy hain aur ye sahi hai ki aap apne ander ki bahut si feelings ko apni family ke sath share nhi kr skte.. Toh bss abhi early morning hi aapki video dekhi aur bahut khushi hui aapko dekh kr aur jo aapne kaha wo sab sahi hai.. Humari khushi humse hi hoti hai kisi aur se nhi.. Khud ke liye kuchh krna sabse zyada important hota hai aur aapki inn sari tips ko yaad rakhne ki puri koshish rahegi aur agar kisi ke sath date pr nhi ja sakte toh khud ko le jao date pr.. So yeah main khud ko le jane wali hoon ek achhi si date pr N thanks so much yaar.. You are Amazing I hope meri tarh ye video sabke kaam aaye.. All the Best Dear!!
Remember, you are a soldier. You have fought till now and will have to continue fighting.
Never lose hope, and remember that someone is rooting for you.
Thank you so much for this video.. so much relatable.. love you!
Thisss video...this is sooo helpful.. thankyou soo much Drishti diii...this video is the answer to all my questions ❤
Yes I also feel in same way...... This made me feel so positive and a green symbol to my decision to stay with myself.
Dear Drishti sharma I just wanted to tell you, your videos are so knowledgeable thank you so much for sharing ur tips it helps alot please never stop making these types of videos, always stay happy. Love from Pakistan💕💕
Right NOW I'm suffering from these loneliness, thanks for the video🎉
Hey thank you so much for the self motivation for myself.your vlogs have help me for my better understanding of my day to day life.i want to be self motivated again to start my life journey which indeed your vlogs have helped me.and special thanks to you to keep myself busy into the hobbies you suggested 🙂
Hopefully i get back on the track with the help of your vlogs
Thank you so much once again 🙏😇
See you soon on your new vlog
I also wanted a friend like her who give good advice
Thanks a lot...it's my first time commenting on a video....to be honest, this morning only I was crying because I was feeling too lonely.....and this video came up
Thanks a lot .
Nice video it's really helpful and feeling good to see your consistency 👍