I enjoy being alone.. I do Yoga, gym.. I have a 9 hour work from home job, I spend time with pets, I don't even watch television.. life is beautiful and I am blessed.
@@ardramenon9797I don't know I am a right person to answer your question.. But I also working from home and fill my in between times by cooking, listening songs or thinking about my health - just thinking hmnn not started yet properly.. ❤
How can each and every video of Drishti can be so much informative and so much content loaded.... I can't even think to avoid any video of Drishti now.....
My takeaways are, 1. Dress Up for Yourself 2. Develop the Qualities you look upto in Your Friends or Life Partner (Try) 3. Fulfill the Promises you have to Yourself (Be Real)
Meri problems drishti tak kaise chali jaati hai 😅😅 that's called connection . I still remember the first video I saw and then never missed. Dude, you have come too far.... That's what they say - you grow with your work gradually. That's the best feeling ever.
I was staying with my friend and later she came into a relationship and she invited him to stay with us and he also started to living with us and this is where my journey of loneliness started because i am single and even not in a talking chatting phase . Though we three stay in the same house but i was all alone in my room i had no one to go for outing and my friend started behaving differently . I wanted to stay alone in rented house but i was scared at the same time cause i was kind of irresponsible and i have phasmophobia . I was suffocating there so, i decided to shift . Now , iam in my new room staying all alone , free from suffocation and toxic friends. Now iam happy that i took the best decision . Now i can do whatever i want and in my free time i just read books and do some DIY .
Yeah....I lost my dad in 2019 I lost my all friends ad they got married and eventually I loss my lonh term boyfriend because he was bored with me! Cousins are all settled and marriage and living their own happy life! And here I am all alone.... facing severe loneliness with immense amount of mental and psychological truma and unable to wake up from the bed!! Watching this video and crying. From being a fun loving outgoing person to a dead lonely soul! The pain of this journey only can be understood by those who have gone through this!!!! Btw thank you girl for real-talk❤❤
I watched your video 3 days ago and loved the idea of solo date. As I am a Bengali, we are enjoying Durga Puja right now. So I thought about a solo pandal hopping around my neighborhood. Today I did this. It felt great. It's so so much better than going out with my toxic friends. I am feeling really really happy. Thank you so much for making this video. Take lots of love ❤❤❤❤.
I have been on solo dates with myself. But just a word out there, if you see any solo daters around, let's say you see someone similar in a cafe, feel free to join in or share the table. You don't have to strike a conversation, just being there itself will make you and the other person feel like you belong❤❤❤
Isolation is a boon. Not many realise that. I always felt I don't belong to this world because my soul always craved genuine and real connections which I never had in family, friends, workplace etc. But believe me it takes some time to understand why you feel like that. Self improvement is very necessary in life and it definitely gets rewarded one day and at some point in your life, you understand all the reasons and get answers to all your questions. Then you also find a purpose in your life. Spirituality helps a lot in all that and makes you proud of who you are, and at the right time you meet your soul connections (relationships that make you feel happy satisfied and evolve you). Remember there's a reason why some people are like that.
Thank you Drishti,it really helped me out I am currently dealing with loneliness and I am a 14 yr old,to keep my self busy I started to read books,and I have also started writing a diary to share my thoughts and feelings. I follow you since a very long time and your videos really helped me❤
Your personal experiences and insights are incredibly valuable. Loneliness is something many people struggle with, and your advice on connecting with others, embracing solitude, and practicing self-compassion is truly helpful.
How i deal with loneliness? 1)I write a diary. Where i appreciate myself and I'll write tasks that I need to perform. 2) I'll cook special dish for myself. And praise myself for the test. 3) I'll take care of my plants ☘️ 4)I'll do yoga that busts my energy.
I was scrolling through TH-cam and thought of watching this video! I was goin g through series of emotions, a roller coaster ride because of not having a single friend in my life, I was thinking am I the one with no friends at all or there are more human species and you proved me wrong, there are indeed more people like me with no friends! I think Universe wanted me to watch this video, It's not that easy to express this on TH-cam, takes a lot of courage! Kudos, keep up the good work, girl❤
@@trishilaverma Exactly! I was so uncomfortable initially, just the thought of being alone scared me, but then when I was backstabbed and betrayed multiple times by "snakes" in form of friends, I realized I don't neef these serpents, better to enjoy my own company rather then being bitten by snakes again and again!
Loved watching this video because it's always liberating to watch and listen to messages of self-love again. It's special when someone shares their own experience. Thank you for making this video. Thank you for nudging me to love myself a little more today. More power to you.💖
Also you forgot mentioning the most important role listening to good music can play in alleviating loneliness.🚶Walk in the nature, and if possible, adopting a female Indian dog from a dog shelter can do miracles. There are no more loyal, loving and adorable companions than dogs, far more genuine than humans.. 💓
Thanks for this video.. I exactly feel the same and I feel sad that parents are not there to understand our loneliness. But these are great options for sure.
Thank You Drishti Didi You Have given me So many Reasons How to Fight Back to My Loneliness , Actually I am A student of 11th grade ...And was Fighting To this Loneliness, Thanks A lott Again !!
Few tips from my side I started travelling solo and made wonderful friends while staying in hostels . Start going to meet up and events in your city your social life will improve . Go for nature walk solo you will find peace and lot of other creatures as well .
I think I have been in those situations and it feels extremely difficult for yourself to get back together. It was around 3-4 years back but now I am a person who can just travel alone, eat alone go anywhere wherever I want. But since now I am married to the most beautiful person. I think he don't need to carry the baggage of me being alone in some situations.I learnt it at the right time. So now life is peace. I am at peace even if he is around me or not I am double happy when he is around me but not sad or lonely when he is not.. I kind of tackle myself❤
you are the person I was searching as my guide for lifeeeee! how you are giving so much helpful tips and understand it so well?? currently I am so much confused about my life i.e. my feeling and emotions basically and there is no one I can talk about ! your videos really helps,its like my big sister is guiding me for life! you are doing a really good job bro! your decision of being a content creator is great
I can empathize with your perspective. I believe that in my quest to find happiness through others rather than within myself, I ended up losing some of my friends just due to my loneliness. But, now I understood the need for change and self-discovery. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Ya it's very relatable ! Loneliness hits very hard & sometimes it's very difficult to come out of that feeling.. But it's ok as it is a part of growing.. The video was very helpful ! Lots of ❤
listening you is like reading a self help book..soo soo good, now i am getting ki my problems are not mine only maximum people are going through this .
I'm currently feeling so lonely and can't help myself at all ..i thought I'm the only girl on this universe but as I'm watching you saying this in audience I'm going to help myself .. thank you❤ ❤❤❤
I think this is everyones story. Not all have the guts to express it.. Through this video i understood that its important to tske care of yourself, heal yourself and give that importance which we never did. Mnay thanks Drishti for this video.😊
Another tip from my side talk with god which ever god you pray for start sharing each and everything with him if you are not spiritual then don’t worry you people believe in energies right just share everything with universe and loneliness is also a part of life its not life choose wisely 😊
This video is so relatable to me.... I feel the way you are mentioning the things I have actually started doing this in my life few months back..... And I love myself and I come to understand myself in all capabilities
This is such a genuine video . I feel we all are somewhere lonely deep down and zindagi khud ke sath hi bitani hai ultimately. Thank you for such genuine advice . Love and hugs
I m lonely from 12 yrs n from 2 yrs i m in total isolation, no1 to talk, care, touch, no1 to meet, no friends, lost trust in any kind of relationship. Tried EVERYTHING to boost myself but now i m TOTALLY tired!!!
My tips of loneliness & I love it 1 . dancing 2.looking forward the sky 3. Cooking 4. Drawing 5.singing a song 6.yoga 7.making fun jokes with my self 8.writing a diary 9.selfie time Mujhe pta hai koi believe nhi kre ga itna sara but me inme se kuch na kuch krtihu yr 2,3 months se😂❤
Thank you Drishti and i felt that visual company from your words. I'd like to highlight that by exclusively using the English language, your message has the potential to reach a broader audience than you might anticipate.
Just sifted to hostel for my education. This is the first time I am all alone by myself and now I am realizing that I don't even know how to spend time with myself and all of these things are hitting me now. Thank you so much for this video drishti got a lot of clarity through this video. I felt like my elder sister was speaking.
M kya shuru se krti hu apni loneliness ko dur krne k liye 1. Hobby.. mene is time mandala sikha khud hi bnati hu second planting .. overall mujhe khud pta chla ki mujhe kya psnd h 2. Yes I wrote so many letters to myself to make me feel good and worthy .. ki Don't worry I am with myself 3. I make a proper routine for daily including exercise,self study ,affirmation and meditation journal etc.. kbhi kbhi kuch na kuch reh Jata h but it's ok 4. Talking to myself😬..it's weird but yes m Esa krti hu ... everything is okk but the thing is I know ki mein creative hu m pdhai m bhi achi hu still I am not successful and at this age I am feeling guilty in myself that I am not doing anything jbki mere sath ki girls are doing so much well. What should I do?
Thanks a lot...it's my first time commenting on a video....to be honest, this morning only I was crying because I was feeling too lonely.....and this video came up Thanks a lot .
A big thanks to you for making a video on this topic. I am on the same journey right now and the fact that you have overcome it and grown so beautiful give’s so much strength to people like us! 🌸
When I feel loneliness I write letter to universe n tell him everything n after writing some pages I feel relaxed n ending my notes with gratitude it gives me positive energy for myself❤
@@learnerpageThe problem is that i have zero privacy at home, diary le kar baithungi kuch likhne toh sabko ajeeb lagega. Isliye phone par type karna easy lagta hai
Thank u Drishti for this video. My mother passed away recently and from that day I m feeling very lonely. But ur video has shown me a path to come out of it
How coincidental this is. I just clicked your how to improve your dressing sense video and you told about repeating clothes and now I came here and you are with that same top. I love repeating and having a sustainable fashion sense.
Remember, you are a soldier. You have fought till now and will have to continue fighting. Never lose hope, and remember that someone is rooting for you.
Actually I'm also going through something like this.. Like it's been a year and i improved so much .. But then this kinda thing also hit me that i have so many friends but i don't think they r giving me what I want and what is needed to me and to them, so I'm being with myself more.. Before writing I was feeling low.. But now I'm feeling relaxed.. Nowadays the internet is the best way to find geniuine people when no one in person 🥲. Like there r so many people in my life but I can't match with them... Here I can write 🫂💝and say thanku dhristi di for making this video sending u lots of love di 💜🤗
Thank you Ma'am for this crucial video. Your videos are really helping me to improve myself in life. My take aways are pursuing my hobby whenever I feel lonely and fulfilling my promises honestly to get strength. May God always bless you Ma'am.
Dressing up really helps to boost mood but many times people ask for whom you are dressed up which makes me think why can't one choose to do things for own self
Whenever i feel lonely in public i always try to talk to myself in mind and observe what is going on around me and try to motivate my self and the best escape for me from loneliness is doodling it really helps to forget the bad feelings about yourself and about others. And thanks to you drishti, from you i have learned alot that how i can be the best partner to myself.❤️
The question here is at the end of the day do you want to stay lonely. Yes we can remove the toxic friends, the unrelatable relatives and even get comfortable in our own company. But honestly we as human crave the social interaction. So then apart from all this shouldn’t we develop skills to bring in people into our lives?
Thank you Drishti.... Aisa laga ki ap meri hi kahani mujhe suna rahe ho..... Same aisa hi feel karta hun... But now I decided to change myself with ur help and ur instructions❤
All your suggestions are great, but we as humans need to speak with other humans, have interactions with them. All the above things you suggested are done solo, which is ok for a short time but one can't enjoy life alone without meaningful conversations/interactions.
I am also alone but I am so happy I can't explain you know that main khud ke liye pure din ka 2 hours nikalte hu apne sath bitane ke liye kud ko sjana kudh say baat kerna bhut acha lgta h
See, when you're lonely, you feel gloomy, you're in a bad company. Once you're in solitude, you are very confident (yet no over-confidence), you're on top of the world, you're in the best company. Last but not the least, you are self- awared, not like those 95% people who know least or nothing about them, even so, a whole biography of others.😊☺️🤗🤩So, stay happy, stay safe and keep the sportsman spirit alive!🎉
Dear Drishti sharma I just wanted to tell you, your videos are so knowledgeable thank you so much for sharing ur tips it helps alot please never stop making these types of videos, always stay happy. Love from Pakistan💕💕
So true I feel very lonely because I am doing my graduation online so I don't have any friends and my cousin are very busy in there life so I feel very alone but now I decided to be independent by going on solo dates and give time for myself and take care of my self. Thank you so much for this video ❤ it help me alot❤❤
Hy Drishti Recently watched the Glamup series & trust me it was the bestest series on your channel, pls do again something like this, lots of love to you❤
Hi Drishti.. I'm Ekta... This morning mujhe bahut loneliness feel ho raha tha...coz Single hoon... Friends kabhi zyada thhe hi nhi jo thhe unki shadiyan ho gai hain wo apne bachcho ke sath apni life mein busy hain aur ye sahi hai ki aap apne ander ki bahut si feelings ko apni family ke sath share nhi kr skte.. Toh bss abhi early morning hi aapki video dekhi aur bahut khushi hui aapko dekh kr aur jo aapne kaha wo sab sahi hai.. Humari khushi humse hi hoti hai kisi aur se nhi.. Khud ke liye kuchh krna sabse zyada important hota hai aur aapki inn sari tips ko yaad rakhne ki puri koshish rahegi aur agar kisi ke sath date pr nhi ja sakte toh khud ko le jao date pr.. So yeah main khud ko le jane wali hoon ek achhi si date pr N thanks so much yaar.. You are Amazing I hope meri tarh ye video sabke kaam aaye.. All the Best Dear!!
I was thinking about it and couldn't agree more to all the ways you presented to get out of this mindset . I personally opted many of the ways earlier and it really boosted me .. the one which is left is going on solo dates and I will definitely go out and will have new experiences with learnings ..by the whole process I will be moving ahead and getting towards my peace ✌️ Thankyou ma'am for your wonderful insights ❤
By far the most relatable video !! Whenever i feel lonely, I usually workout or take a nap. I will make sure to include picking up a new hobby and fulfilling promises in my habits. Thanks for the video !! Keep making such content 🔥🔥💯💯
I'm in a relationship for past 1.9yr nd main bohot uske uper depend ho gayi thi... slowly he started ignore me.... very bad....main literally uski call Messages ke liye usse Jake puchti thi .then mujhe laga ki main ab khud akela rehna sikh lungi....then i started doing household works ...main basss busy rehna chahti hu.... problems hoti hain but koshish jari hain❤
Although I love going to walk and theatre in solitude, the takeaway was writing a Love Letter and scheduling e-mail for myself... Also I am planning a solo trip very soon 🤍
I travellwd to my workplavw today after stayind at hokw for 3 months and i was crtijf ourlt of lonliness despite being 33 years old. You helped me feel better. So much gratitude and power to you. God sent you for me today
But jab bhi ye saari cheese krna shuru karti hu jaise achhe kapde phenna andr ek guilt hoti hai ki abhi tk paise kmana shuru nhi hue na hii koi career hai kaise mai achhe kapde phon sakti hu Mujhe normal kapdo mai hii reh kr mehnat krni chahiye taki baki life achhi ho ske phir bss circle chlra rehta hai
Hi drishti ma’m, I always love your TH-cam videos and I love how inspirational you are but I have a little suggestion for you, because your YT videos aren’t just spread round India but they’re going round the entire world I would advise for you to write English translation below while speaking in Hindi during your videos from now on that’s all. Lots of love from here ❤.
Akele rehne k dar se bohot sare log toxic sadistic gaslight karne vale logoko lifelong jelte hai. Aur vo selfish ho kar hamara fayda uthate hai. Ese selfish logo k sath rehne se achha hai ekbar himmat kar k akele raho better feel honga. U r honest aap iske fayde nuksaan sab bata rahe ho. But relationship vale to juth ka happy face le k ghumte hai.(not all) but bohot sare ese log hai jo andar se relationship mai tut chuke hote hai. Bahr fake smile.
Thank you so much @drishtisharma. Because there was so much to learn from and that feeling of neglecting the way we feel burst into flames afterwards besides acknowledging, addressing and resolving that makes you feel a much stronger and better version of yourself ❤️
Me too I completed my 12th on March 2021 it's been more 3 years now and I am at my home most of the time becouse I am taking online class for my CA prep 😭
Didi aapki ye video kitne logo ko help kiye honge kya hi bolu mai !! waise i would like to add ki thoda meditation bhi bohot help karega like proper meditation.😊😊 Stay happy everyone😊😊 Jai Shiv-Shakti
I just watched it while having my tea ant evening with a dairy noting down the points to actually apply them.. I felt good just by listening to these.. good thought ful words
I dance in front of the mirror and gain confidence ; I realize this will pass and I should not dwell upon the feeling for two long...I wash dishes as my therapy ...sounds stupid stuffs but yeah!!!!
I enjoy being alone.. I do Yoga, gym.. I have a 9 hour work from home job, I spend time with pets, I don't even watch television.. life is beautiful and I am blessed.
How do you fill up in between times
@@ardramenon9797I don't know I am a right person to answer your question.. But I also working from home and fill my in between times by cooking, listening songs or thinking about my health - just thinking hmnn not started yet properly.. ❤
Any job work from home plz share kre🙏
@@ardramenon9797 Honestly there is no empty time, as once you start living a quality life, you will plan and optimize your entire day.
@@VINITAcharan-t7w nowadays a lot of IT companies offer work from home or hybrid model.. so it depends on your qualification.
There is a difference between loneliness and solitude. loneliness is boring whereas in solitude you can inspect your thoughts.- Sudha Murthy
I can second you.
So true
How can each and every video of Drishti can be so much informative and so much content loaded.... I can't even think to avoid any video of Drishti now.....
Sooo true 100%%%
Cauz you think you don't have ability to solve your own problem and rely on others to solve it
That's true for sure!
V v true
@@JitendraGunawat true
My takeaways are,
1. Dress Up for Yourself
2. Develop the Qualities you look upto in Your Friends or Life Partner (Try)
3. Fulfill the Promises you have to Yourself (Be Real)
My takeway:
1. Fullfil the promises you make to yourself
2. Write yourself the things you want to hear from others about you
if you are developing qualities which you want to see in your partner then on whom you try, doesn't it get fade after a week of practice ?
2😂right
Loneliness is removed only when u start accepting that u don't need any person to remove loneliness...
Meri problems drishti tak kaise chali jaati hai 😅😅 that's called connection . I still remember the first video I saw and then never missed. Dude, you have come too far.... That's what they say - you grow with your work gradually. That's the best feeling ever.
I was staying with my friend and later she came into a relationship and she invited him to stay with us and he also started to living with us and this is where my journey of loneliness started because i am single and even not in a talking chatting phase . Though we three stay in the same house but i was all alone in my room i had no one to go for outing and my friend started behaving differently . I wanted to stay alone in rented house but i was scared at the same time cause i was kind of irresponsible and i have phasmophobia . I was suffocating there so, i decided to shift . Now , iam in my new room staying all alone , free from suffocation and toxic friends. Now iam happy that i took the best decision . Now i can do whatever i want and in my free time i just read books and do some DIY .
Yeah....I lost my dad in 2019
I lost my all friends ad they got married and eventually I loss my lonh term boyfriend because he was bored with me! Cousins are all settled and marriage and living their own happy life! And here I am all alone.... facing severe loneliness with immense amount of mental and psychological truma and unable to wake up from the bed!! Watching this video and crying.
From being a fun loving outgoing person to a dead lonely soul! The pain of this journey only can be understood by those who have gone through this!!!!
Btw thank you girl for real-talk❤❤
dont over think, just spend time with small plant nd nature...
Feeling this bad right now
Being in relationship or being surrounded by 1000 friends is made to sound so cool that at times it’s turning cringy. This video is refreshing
I watched your video 3 days ago and loved the idea of solo date. As I am a Bengali, we are enjoying Durga Puja right now. So I thought about a solo pandal hopping around my neighborhood. Today I did this. It felt great. It's so so much better than going out with my toxic friends. I am feeling really really happy. Thank you so much for making this video.
Take lots of love ❤❤❤❤.
I have been on solo dates with myself.
But just a word out there, if you see any solo daters around, let's say you see someone similar in a cafe, feel free to join in or share the table. You don't have to strike a conversation, just being there itself will make you and the other person feel like you belong❤❤❤
Isolation is a boon. Not many realise that. I always felt I don't belong to this world because my soul always craved genuine and real connections which I never had in family, friends, workplace etc. But believe me it takes some time to understand why you feel like that. Self improvement is very necessary in life and it definitely gets rewarded one day and at some point in your life, you understand all the reasons and get answers to all your questions. Then you also find a purpose in your life. Spirituality helps a lot in all that and makes you proud of who you are, and at the right time you meet your soul connections (relationships that make you feel happy satisfied and evolve you). Remember there's a reason why some people are like that.
Hi Simran! I’m going through a similar phase - if you are comfortable, would love to connect with you :)
Thank you Drishti,it really helped me out I am currently dealing with loneliness and I am a 14 yr old,to keep my self busy I started to read books,and I have also started writing a diary to share my thoughts and feelings. I follow you since a very long time and your videos really helped me❤
Your personal experiences and insights are incredibly valuable. Loneliness is something many people struggle with, and your advice on connecting with others, embracing solitude, and practicing self-compassion is truly helpful.
How i deal with loneliness?
1)I write a diary.
Where i appreciate myself and I'll write tasks that I need to perform.
2) I'll cook special dish for myself.
And praise myself for the test.
3) I'll take care of my plants ☘️
4)I'll do yoga that busts my energy.
I like the fact that you add time stamps to each of your videos. Sign of a considerate, responsible, organized content creator. All the best!
Itni real aur relatable topics pe videoes aur woh bhi itni insightful..drishtii u r doing great work..a real influencer..just keep rocking ❤❤🎉🎉
I was scrolling through TH-cam and thought of watching this video! I was goin g through series of emotions, a roller coaster ride because of not having a single friend in my life, I was thinking am I the one with no friends at all or there are more human species and you proved me wrong, there are indeed more people like me with no friends! I think Universe wanted me to watch this video, It's not that easy to express this on TH-cam, takes a lot of courage! Kudos, keep up the good work, girl❤
Yes it's better to be alone than being with toxic people and ruining our own mental bealth
@@trishilaverma Exactly! I was so uncomfortable initially, just the thought of being alone scared me, but then when I was backstabbed and betrayed multiple times by "snakes" in form of friends, I realized I don't neef these serpents, better to enjoy my own company rather then being bitten by snakes again and again!
It's great to see her making these type of videos, which is helping everyone including herself!! Lots of love di 💕
Loved watching this video because it's always liberating to watch and listen to messages of self-love again. It's special when someone shares their own experience. Thank you for making this video. Thank you for nudging me to love myself a little more today. More power to you.💖
Also you forgot mentioning the most important role listening to good music can play in alleviating loneliness.🚶Walk in the nature, and if possible, adopting a female Indian dog from a dog shelter can do miracles. There are no more loyal, loving and adorable companions than dogs, far more genuine than humans.. 💓
Thanks for this video.. I exactly feel the same and I feel sad that parents are not there to understand our loneliness. But these are great options for sure.
Thank You Drishti Didi You Have given me So many Reasons How to Fight Back to My Loneliness , Actually I am A student of 11th grade ...And was Fighting To this Loneliness, Thanks A lott Again !!
Few tips from my side I started travelling solo and made wonderful friends while staying in hostels . Start going to meet up and events in your city your social life will improve . Go for nature walk solo you will find peace and lot of other creatures as well .
I think I have been in those situations and it feels extremely difficult for yourself to get back together. It was around 3-4 years back but now I am a person who can just travel alone, eat alone go anywhere wherever I want.
But since now I am married to the most beautiful person. I think he don't need to carry the baggage of me being alone in some situations.I learnt it at the right time. So now life is peace. I am at peace even if he is around me or not
I am double happy when he is around me but not sad or lonely when he is not.. I kind of tackle myself❤
you are the person I was searching as my guide for lifeeeee! how you are giving so much helpful tips and understand it so well?? currently I am so much confused about my life i.e. my feeling and emotions basically and there is no one I can talk about
! your videos really helps,its like my big sister is guiding me for life! you are doing a really good job bro! your decision of being a content creator is great
I can empathize with your perspective. I believe that in my quest to find happiness through others rather than within myself, I ended up losing some of my friends just due to my loneliness. But, now I understood the need for change and self-discovery. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Ya it's very relatable ! Loneliness hits very hard & sometimes it's very difficult to come out of that feeling.. But it's ok as it is a part of growing.. The video was very helpful ! Lots of ❤
listening you is like reading a self help book..soo soo good, now i am getting ki my problems are not mine only maximum people are going through this .
I'm currently feeling so lonely and can't help myself at all ..i thought I'm the only girl on this universe but as I'm watching you saying this in audience I'm going to help myself .. thank you❤ ❤❤❤
I think this is everyones story. Not all have the guts to express it.. Through this video i understood that its important to tske care of yourself, heal yourself and give that importance which we never did.
Mnay thanks Drishti for this video.😊
Another tip from my side talk with god which ever god you pray for start sharing each and everything with him if you are not spiritual then don’t worry you people believe in energies right just share everything with universe and loneliness is also a part of life its not life choose wisely 😊
This video is so relatable to me.... I feel the way you are mentioning the things I have actually started doing this in my life few months back..... And I love myself and I come to understand myself in all capabilities
I thought, I am the only one who is facing this problem. But this video really give me positivity. Thanks for the video.
This is such a genuine video . I feel we all are somewhere lonely deep down and zindagi khud ke sath hi bitani hai ultimately. Thank you for such genuine advice .
Love and hugs
I m lonely from 12 yrs n from 2 yrs i m in total isolation, no1 to talk, care, touch, no1 to meet, no friends, lost trust in any kind of relationship. Tried EVERYTHING to boost myself but now i m TOTALLY tired!!!
Hey... Just got this video randomly in my feed. And how amazingly you put your points out there. It really felt genuine. Keep up the good work! ❤
My tips of loneliness & I love it
1 . dancing
2.looking forward the sky
3. Cooking
4. Drawing
5.singing a song
6.yoga
7.making fun jokes with my self
8.writing a diary
9.selfie time
Mujhe pta hai koi believe nhi kre ga itna sara but me inme se kuch na kuch krtihu yr 2,3 months se😂❤
i too
Thank you Drishti and i felt that visual company from your words.
I'd like to highlight that by exclusively using the English language, your message has the potential to reach a broader audience than you might anticipate.
Just sifted to hostel for my education. This is the first time I am all alone by myself and now I am realizing that I don't even know how to spend time with myself and all of these things are hitting me now.
Thank you so much for this video drishti got a lot of clarity through this video. I felt like my elder sister was speaking.
M kya shuru se krti hu apni loneliness ko dur krne k liye
1. Hobby.. mene is time mandala sikha khud hi bnati hu second planting .. overall mujhe khud pta chla ki mujhe kya psnd h
2. Yes I wrote so many letters to myself to make me feel good and worthy .. ki Don't worry I am with myself
3. I make a proper routine for daily including exercise,self study ,affirmation and meditation journal etc.. kbhi kbhi kuch na kuch reh Jata h but it's ok
4. Talking to myself😬..it's weird but yes m Esa krti hu
... everything is okk but the thing is I know ki mein creative hu m pdhai m bhi achi hu still I am not successful and at this age I am feeling guilty in myself that I am not doing anything jbki mere sath ki girls are doing so much well.
What should I do?
Thanks a lot...it's my first time commenting on a video....to be honest, this morning only I was crying because I was feeling too lonely.....and this video came up
Thanks a lot .
A big thanks to you for making a video on this topic. I am on the same journey right now and the fact that you have overcome it and grown so beautiful give’s so much strength to people like us! 🌸
Girl, you have no clue you have given the best tips ever... thank you so much❤.. this was very much needed
When I feel loneliness I write letter to universe n tell him everything n after writing some pages I feel relaxed n ending my notes with gratitude it gives me positive energy for myself❤
Yess.. and kbhi kuch bura feel ho na paper p letter likho or use jala do trust me bht Acha lgta h jese musibat khtm
@@learnerpageThe problem is that i have zero privacy at home, diary le kar baithungi kuch likhne toh sabko ajeeb lagega. Isliye phone par type karna easy lagta hai
you always touch deep questions in human life ? nobody talk about loneliness , I really apreciate your thoughts thank you so much.🙂
Some time I feel that I am the only one who can't made friends.. but this is really helpful to mee
Self improvement phase is amazing. You learn new things about yourself and about others thought process.
Thank u Drishti for this video. My mother passed away recently and from that day I m feeling very lonely. But ur video has shown me a path to come out of it
What happened to her
How coincidental this is. I just clicked your how to improve your dressing sense video and you told about repeating clothes and now I came here and you are with that same top. I love repeating and having a sustainable fashion sense.
Remember, you are a soldier. You have fought till now and will have to continue fighting.
Never lose hope, and remember that someone is rooting for you.
Yes I also feel in same way...... This made me feel so positive and a green symbol to my decision to stay with myself.
Actually I'm also going through something like this.. Like it's been a year and i improved so much .. But then this kinda thing also hit me that i have so many friends but i don't think they r giving me what I want and what is needed to me and to them, so I'm being with myself more.. Before writing I was feeling low.. But now I'm feeling relaxed.. Nowadays the internet is the best way to find geniuine people when no one in person 🥲. Like there r so many people in my life but I can't match with them... Here I can write 🫂💝and say thanku dhristi di for making this video sending u lots of love di 💜🤗
Thank you Ma'am for this crucial video. Your videos are really helping me to improve myself in life. My take aways are pursuing my hobby whenever I feel lonely and fulfilling my promises honestly to get strength. May God always bless you Ma'am.
Dressing up really helps to boost mood but many times people ask for whom you are dressed up which makes me think why can't one choose to do things for own self
Dude i feel like watching your videos again and again especially these break up and moving on and self love videos
Whenever i feel lonely in public i always try to talk to myself in mind and observe what is going on around me and try to motivate my self and the best escape for me from loneliness is doodling it really helps to forget the bad feelings about yourself and about others.
And thanks to you drishti, from you i have learned alot that how i can be the best partner to myself.❤️
The question here is at the end of the day do you want to stay lonely. Yes we can remove the toxic friends, the unrelatable relatives and even get comfortable in our own company. But honestly we as human crave the social interaction. So then apart from all this shouldn’t we develop skills to bring in people into our lives?
Ofcouse! But till the time you don't find friend, you need to learn how to be comfortable in stay happy alone🌸
Thank you Drishti.... Aisa laga ki ap meri hi kahani mujhe suna rahe ho..... Same aisa hi feel karta hun... But now I decided to change myself with ur help and ur instructions❤
All your suggestions are great, but we as humans need to speak with other humans, have interactions with them. All the above things you suggested are done solo, which is ok for a short time but one can't enjoy life alone without meaningful conversations/interactions.
I am also alone but I am so happy I can't explain you know that main khud ke liye pure din ka 2 hours nikalte hu apne sath bitane ke liye kud ko sjana kudh say baat kerna bhut acha lgta h
See, when you're lonely, you feel gloomy, you're in a bad company. Once you're in solitude, you are very confident (yet no over-confidence), you're on top of the world, you're in the best company. Last but not the least, you are self- awared, not like those 95% people who know least or nothing about them, even so, a whole biography of others.😊☺️🤗🤩So, stay happy, stay safe and keep the sportsman spirit alive!🎉
Dear Drishti sharma I just wanted to tell you, your videos are so knowledgeable thank you so much for sharing ur tips it helps alot please never stop making these types of videos, always stay happy. Love from Pakistan💕💕
The quality of your content is increasing day by day. I can't afford to not watch any video of yours from now😊 thank you
So true I feel very lonely because I am doing my graduation online so I don't have any friends and my cousin are very busy in there life so I feel very alone but now I decided to be independent by going on solo dates and give time for myself and take care of my self. Thank you so much for this video ❤ it help me alot❤❤
This video made my day best ever…thankyou so much dear❤feeling great after watching this…
Im glad it helped❤️
Hy Drishti Recently watched the Glamup series & trust me it was the bestest series on your channel, pls do again something like this, lots of love to you❤
I also have loneliness problems but now it's clear🙌thank you so much for your guidance 🤍
You are frank and realistic, hence I love watching your videos. Love from my end
Your videos are like therapy to me and the fact u drop a video on that certain topic that I want to cope up with is so unreal
starting of video , when u mentioned that no one near by you , no friends
so relatable
😢
i love the idea of writing a letter to your future self i did it 3 months ago and the feeling was really amazing ☺
Hi Drishti.. I'm Ekta... This morning mujhe bahut loneliness feel ho raha tha...coz Single hoon... Friends kabhi zyada thhe hi nhi jo thhe unki shadiyan ho gai hain wo apne bachcho ke sath apni life mein busy hain aur ye sahi hai ki aap apne ander ki bahut si feelings ko apni family ke sath share nhi kr skte.. Toh bss abhi early morning hi aapki video dekhi aur bahut khushi hui aapko dekh kr aur jo aapne kaha wo sab sahi hai.. Humari khushi humse hi hoti hai kisi aur se nhi.. Khud ke liye kuchh krna sabse zyada important hota hai aur aapki inn sari tips ko yaad rakhne ki puri koshish rahegi aur agar kisi ke sath date pr nhi ja sakte toh khud ko le jao date pr.. So yeah main khud ko le jane wali hoon ek achhi si date pr N thanks so much yaar.. You are Amazing I hope meri tarh ye video sabke kaam aaye.. All the Best Dear!!
I was thinking about it and couldn't agree more to all the ways you presented to get out of this mindset . I personally opted many of the ways earlier and it really boosted me .. the one which is left is going on solo dates and I will definitely go out and will have new experiences with learnings ..by the whole process I will be moving ahead and getting towards my peace ✌️
Thankyou ma'am for your wonderful insights ❤
By far the most relatable video !!
Whenever i feel lonely, I usually workout or take a nap.
I will make sure to include picking up a new hobby and fulfilling promises in my habits.
Thanks for the video !! Keep making such content 🔥🔥💯💯
I'm in a relationship for past 1.9yr nd main bohot uske uper depend ho gayi thi... slowly he started ignore me.... very bad....main literally uski call Messages ke liye usse Jake puchti thi .then mujhe laga ki main ab khud akela rehna sikh lungi....then i started doing household works ...main basss busy rehna chahti hu.... problems hoti hain but koshish jari hain❤
I needed this video so badly. Thank you so much Drishti. I am so so grateful that I found this video ♥️
How can each and every video of drishti become totally relatable with me ....❤
Although I love going to walk and theatre in solitude, the takeaway was writing a Love Letter and scheduling e-mail for myself... Also I am planning a solo trip very soon 🤍
You are doing a very good job dear, your content is really strong & very genuine. Lots of love & light to you❤
I travellwd to my workplavw today after stayind at hokw for 3 months and i was crtijf ourlt of lonliness despite being 33 years old. You helped me feel better. So much gratitude and power to you. God sent you for me today
It's me..
You don't know but you are my friend from now.
❤ From Pakistan 🇵🇰
But jab bhi ye saari cheese krna shuru karti hu jaise achhe kapde phenna andr ek guilt hoti hai ki abhi tk paise kmana shuru nhi hue na hii koi career hai kaise mai achhe kapde phon sakti hu
Mujhe normal kapdo mai hii reh kr mehnat krni chahiye taki baki life achhi ho ske phir bss circle chlra rehta hai
What a point, great!!. Yes, when people don't add value, it becomes difficult to be friends with them for a long period.😃
Saw an actually helpful video after a while. Thanks, and have a peaceful life ahead ❤
Glad it helped!❤️
❤.. .🌼. ..❤
Heyyy Drishti....
Your videos not only assist🤸♀️ us in our work but also inspire and make it more pleasurable🥂.
Keep going 🏄♀️
Hi drishti ma’m, I always love your TH-cam videos and I love how inspirational you are but I have a little suggestion for you, because your YT videos aren’t just spread round India but they’re going round the entire world I would advise for you to write English translation below while speaking in Hindi during your videos from now on that’s all. Lots of love from here ❤.
Thank you Drishti, you are really giving me a path to handle this life❤❤
Mai to apna loneliness ko bht jyada enjoy krti hu...lv u jindgi ❤
Akele rehne k dar se bohot sare log toxic sadistic gaslight karne vale logoko lifelong jelte hai. Aur vo selfish ho kar hamara fayda uthate hai. Ese selfish logo k sath rehne se achha hai ekbar himmat kar k akele raho better feel honga. U r honest aap iske fayde nuksaan sab bata rahe ho. But relationship vale to juth ka happy face le k ghumte hai.(not all) but bohot sare ese log hai jo andar se relationship mai tut chuke hote hai. Bahr fake smile.
Yes I also want to enjoy with myself, &want to be happy 😊
Thankss Drishti Dii..You're Awesome..Your tips really help a lot..I would like to say You're the Best..💖💫
Thank you so much @drishtisharma. Because there was so much to learn from and that feeling of neglecting the way we feel burst into flames afterwards besides acknowledging, addressing and resolving that makes you feel a much stronger and better version of yourself ❤️
Last four years se Ghar par hi hu 😢😭 dipression me hu didi plz gimmi advice...😭😭😭😭😭😭
Me too I completed my 12th on March 2021 it's been more 3 years now and I am at my home most of the time becouse I am taking online class for my CA prep 😭
Didi aapki ye video kitne logo ko help kiye honge kya hi bolu mai !! waise i would like to add ki thoda meditation bhi bohot help karega like proper meditation.😊😊 Stay happy everyone😊😊 Jai Shiv-Shakti
Right NOW I'm suffering from these loneliness, thanks for the video🎉
I just watched it while having my tea ant evening with a dairy noting down the points to actually apply them.. I felt good just by listening to these.. good thought ful words
If drishti is reading this please reply me how to be normal in this awkward situation 😞😞
Your intro got me drishti. So relatable and your knowledge is beyond your age. Truly amazing
I dance in front of the mirror and gain confidence ; I realize this will pass and I should not dwell upon the feeling for two long...I wash dishes as my therapy ...sounds stupid stuffs but yeah!!!!