As someone who has experienced the detrimental effects of living in a toxic family household and being in a relationship with a narcissistic spouse, I can attest to the profound impact it has had on my well-being. It takes immense strength and self-awareness to see through the facade of a narcissist and acknowledge their toxic behaviors. This realization has been a pivotal moment in my journey of personal growth and healing. I am committed to prioritizing my mental and emotional health, seeking support, and setting firm boundaries to create a healthier and more fulfilling life for myself. Though this path may be challenging, I firmly believe that I deserve to live in an environment that fosters love, respect, and genuine connection.
Yes what you say in your comment is absolute Truth, I had very similar journey,,you will get through this ,we become our own Best Friend, rewiring templates and things from childhood,,,Stay Blessed always,,🙏🙏🌺🌼✨✨❤️
Like you, I had the double whammy. Narc parents and narc ex wife , oh and my brother turned out to be a narc too, so maybe it's triple in my case , especially since he abused me too.
I just had this huge realization that I came from an abnormal family who emotionally neglected me growing up! I feel so sickk after this realization, my family set me up for a damagedd life!! Actually it is not about the narcissists, they are just symptoms of our validation seeking that we have been desperately seeking subconsciously!! A tragedyy!!
A walking apology!! That was me!! I apologized to her for her being mean to me. What a dumbass I was. And I actually miss her. Narcissistic abuse should be punishable by law.
That shows your good heart! Of course you miss her,grief takes time and your feelings would have been genuine,but I understand how you feel about apologising,as we love to please people,when our own self love and boundaries were more important! Safety first! If you don’t take care of 0:16 yourself,you are not able to care for others in the right way!
There’s a book - ‘Splitting - protecting yourself when divorcing someone with borderline or narcissistic personality disorder’. Also videos Rebecca Z@ung legal expert. What to expect and tactics. Good luck.🌸
They can spin things out for a long time, keeping the relationship confusing, but once they know that you have figured it out, they can suddenly be gone in a flash. 😮
Exactly what happened In my situation. Discarded when I started trusting my Intuition and stopped allowing my husband to gaslight me. He's moved on to the secretary from his work. The divorce process had only begun
I starting to see us being fooled into a narc relationship is a symptom of our abnormal childhood. It is actually not about them, it is about our upbringing! Our parents are the ones who really failed us by neglecting us growing up!!
@@zullmiramajid475sadly our parents could not give what they themselves didn’t have! Forgiveness sets us free to heal and let the toxic past go,as you recognise it and work through the pain and trauma! New beginnings allow us to drop off the old and embrace and navigate the future with a different understanding,insight and discernment,through doing the work on ourselves,to become better,not bitter! The best is yet to come and we have learned how to detect good from evil and make better choices for our own wellbeing!❤️
@zullmiramajid475 My parents failed me for sure, and from the look of it, his parents did even more damage than mine. The difference is that I don't want to pass that along to others in life, and he clearly doesn't care and instead thinks the whole world owes him.
Our parents failed us, we were growing up neglected that's why we fell for narcs, everything has a reason behind, this is much deeper than just being caught off guard....
Yes you see the mask that was instaled in the love bomb… you see them trough this colored classes…. You are in the fog… many of as are in the daily fog too… so to Wake up is hard but to stay real is the way to survive and rescue humanity!
Please remember that the narc is only a person. They arent "the one", "your soulmate", etc. Do not put them on that pedestal they so desperately crave. Take away that power by seeing who they are as Andrew describes! I am a week and a half in. Left my narc at long last. i am starting to regain myself. For those who are wanting to leave, this is your sign! It can be done!
I’m steering clear of low hanging fruit. I am now my main priority after years of being low woman on the totem pole. My energy is back, my strength is back, mental clarity emotional health is back, my physical health is on the uptick and I feel better than I have since forever.
Great video Andrew. When I was in the narcissistic relationship I was blinded by my love for him , and fooled by the narcissist. He always had the answer in order to keep me in the relationship. The lies were endless. Now that I'm out of the relationship I finally see the monster that he really is. I know for a fact that he will never change and anything that comes out of his mouth is a lie. Thank God I'm out of that relationship and free to learn and grow. Thank you Andrew for the video and thank you everyone for your kind words.
I've been blamed for being nassistic but I spent most my life being abandoned and codependent. So what's the best way to not accept being blamed for what you know isn't true. Blocking my daughter was my only option in this case. But she still thinks I'm the nassistic Parent! So very unfair when all I've done is give everything even money and now healing she says you've never changed in all the Healing. So I blocked her. I'm beginning to question her as a nassistic character now? I know I'm an empath and I used to be Co dependant and Healing has been a 3 year journey removing myself from toxic people until I ended up in isolation looking at my needs. Finally I love who I am and live in peace but get blamed for Not being accountable so my daughter says! No matter what I do or say she pounces. She even blames me for thinking she's toxic and I've never told her what I think of her, I've just not taken on the bait.
...and we have a choice. We cannot control the world or people in it. You can only accept these things exactly how they are. With acceptance comes healing and making the decision to take control of your life. Thank you again Andrew, have a nice evening! ❤🙏🌧
Why I choose tomlive a deliberate life ...even if it means letting others go to take their own path..just not with me I have my own ..we each as well.. Keeping the faith and simply 'being'is very important - too much conditioning and control isn't good for anyone ..please guide the Children Amen 🙏❤🫒
We victims actually are the same vuctims of emotional neglect from our parents! I analyzed my whole situation on how I fell preyed to an extreme narcissist and had a failed marriage, and all the attributes such as ignoring the red flags and seeking validation from an unloving person, no warnings from my parents and went ahead with a disrespectful marriage, and even after divorce seeing how my family didn't support me and my child and I had to keep doing everything to cope with my divorce process, I came to the conclusion that I came from an abnormal family who didn't really parent me but just had me for the sake of community demand and cultural norm to have offsprings. It made me furious!! On the flip side, I now know how to parent my kid and fix this defect from my family tree! We are lucky that now we have the education! This is a life saving education!
The narcissist who attacked me was my female primary care physician. With one email, I got her and ALL her flying monkeys hogtied. Next comes my complaint to the medical board.
Hello Andrew and everyone. You nailed it! The actions don't match the words, and when sadness bestows around us, the EMOTIONLESS EYES stand out, and it's frightening! They are not who they appear to be. I saw ENOUGH IN 5 years! He reminded me of a Vampire toward the end. When you suffer they are happy! Thank God i had the strength to leave him. ANOTHER GREAT TOPIC ANDREW ❤❤
Narcs are so evil, it is impossible to explain it to a normal person. Trying to inform a normal person how very evil and wicked a mark is, is like trying to explain Shakespeare to a dog. Just like it's not the dogs fault that it doesn't understand Shakespeare,vsobit is not the average, normal person's fault that they can not comprehend the depths of evil in a narcissist
These individuals have such a profound impact on someomes health, mental state and self-esteem. It is such a blessing from god to wake up to what has been happening . I went through years of scapegoating.. left my country without employment but will little savings. I walked by faith and you discover there is good people out there. The damage they have done was going unnoticed for years . Think about THAT for a minute!! If you can, gotta get out. Cut contact .. god will show you who they are with time. Thanks Andrew
As an oldie here within my marriage and friendships ( not knowing about narcissism way back then ) I always felt that I was just existing or a candle that only flickered with not much light left deep within you know that it’s not a healthy relationship nothing ever changes in these relationships they get worse over time . Get yourself out of these relationships you should never just exist for another put yourself first you truly will experience what life has to offer & it’s beautiful being myself today 🙏💕
We come 🥇🥈🥉my goal is to stack money up and to get my own place and to file a lot of restraining order papers on my toxic narcissistic sociopath family because I AM DONE!
When I finally saw the narcissist for WHO HE IS ....I was first enveloped with FEAR and a sense of loss. I finally understood what this person was capable of, and it woke me up from the delusion that he could change. I couldn't wait to get away from this person but I knew that I needed to maintain a calm demeaner and take responsible and healthy action. Once we see the narc for who they are we must take action to leave or the discard will eventually happen , or we well exist in a prison guarded by our fears, our delusional hope for the unattainable and our inability to act while in the cycle of abuse. Blessings to all! NAMASTE ❤
When you realize!!!! 😜When your gut tells you to leave and the divorce and everything after, is unbeleavable cruel, and a decade later you lern from Andrew and others what happens to you…. That, positive said, is a big light ball moment and all makes sense… and the “thing” has a name and you can heal!!!!!!!
Allowing ourselves to see others and the world as they are, not how we wish they would be, is when a person can begin to heal and grow like never before. Thank you for the excellent work, Andrew, much respect.
This is a great message!! It’s really easy to look the other way and it’s when they provide you with a sense of false hope that you end up staying a lot longer than you should.
@@danielle1103 Exactly, narcissists can sense when we start to see through their facade, and that's when they love bomb, and lure empaths back in for more abuse. If someone yearns to punish others, then they're toxic and need to be denied access to our valuable good energy:)
The very sight of my narcissistic ex-friend actually turns my stomach because I now know their looks are only skin deep. Looks are an accident of birth. The personality and soul are important.
💯true, they are so insidious. They will only blame shift their bad behavior onto you, they feel entitled to be doing what they do to you, with no remorse. Namaste🙏❤🙌
Your message was very apt for me today, Andrew. My daughter and her friend went off to camp yesterday and my ex came to pick her up. Usually, I do not even go to the door to see her off, but I did yesterday, without thinking. And there it was, this giant shiny red and juicy looking apple, in all it's glory, loading the boot of the car with her things. I had not gazed on the apple tree for months and in a split second there it was in front of me. Thankfully, your words saved me, Andrew. I had to remind myself of the painful truth that inside this beautiful looking shiny red apple, it was rotten to the core; to bite into it maggots would spill out. I was saved by this truth, but it was a hard truth to swallow. It still breaks my heart. 💔
When I found this knowledge, the initial stages fueled some resentment I was clearly conned. After months, the resentment disappears and I'm left with more gratitude and a compass for rest of this life's journey. I feel extremely lucky for this education with so many navigational tools to live a better life.
I think we have always seen the truth. But did not want to accept the truth. To face the true reality of how things really are. Imagine all that time that we have wasted. Great video Andrew❤❤😊😊❤❤
It was hard to accept that people you love could be so devious cruel and manipulative,when you wanted to believe the best! Sad but glad my eyes were opened but I have learned a lot,and will use my knowledge to help others if they are open to reality!
Everything said in this video is so true! No contact & blocking is the key to leaving the narcissist fog, breaking the trauma bond and finally seeing the narcissist for who they really are. It's amazing how when i was married to this narcissist I stopped doing things I enjoyed and was available for him 24/7...someone who disappeared, would give me silent treatment, lie, cheat, steal. Rotten fruit for sure.
Great video. Andrew. I got virtually nothing in my divorce, but I survived. It wasn't easy, but I got through it. I am no longer angry about what I endured, and I have accepted my part in the choices I made that landed me in the position of toxic and narcissistic abusive relationships that I have been in. It's taken me years to heal, but I still carry mental scars that tend to well up inside me, especially when I am not feeling well. But I am kinder and gentler with myself instead of self condemnation and self berating. Forgiving oneself isn't easy, but it is necessary to heal and stop listening to the negative voices.
Read a lot of your past comments and what you went through was tough, tough tough. I'm glad you found all that strength. Your comments are like the many lights on the runway that help guide these souls to a safe landing.👍🛬
It definitely gets better after you are away from them... At first it hurts a lot, but stay strong, keep praying, ask God for his strength, and within time it gets so much better. If I were in a tunnel right now I'd be walking right at the tunnels end into the warm light. Feels so good!!
Narcissistic abuse she had mentioned the bullying, the abuse, when he grabbed her heart just like that and tore it out of her, throw it in the wall, stuck his dirty words into her as she fell moaning in pain, nothing physical no bruises, but she stopped talking and people approached her with: "you don't say much do you". /Annie
I had a psychiatric patient who would look others in the eyes and say, "You're no good, you never were, and you never will be!" Rotten to the core would have fit perfectly with that..... I always wondered who had affected him so profoundly that this became his mantra. Probably a narcissist.
It's been two weeks since the narcissist hasn't called me and I went to my doctor's today and she said that I've been losing a lot of weight and my blood pressure is good
After continuous bricks fell on my head....I could no longer deny that this person that I had knitted myself to...WAS A SELF CENTERED EGOTISTICAL BRAT...that only wanted me being their personal patsy. No more, no way, no how. Thanks for the life lesson.....BYE NARC!!! 🎀😘
Thank you Andrew.. the last part was especially useful.. I relate to it .. the apple analogy was good.. I personally don’t like to eat fruits.. I’m not good at picking them.. just like I wasn’t good at picking the narc 😂 I like vegetables more.. i do look at the narc differently now.. the more knowledge I get the more I dislike them and see their true colours and fakeness.. im glad you made it safely out of the rain (saw some previous comments confirming this).. I hope there wasn’t lightening .. lightening is scary.. wishing you and the community a good night ❤🌙🌹
Whew. Unbelievably helpful for me right now. I just got a massive shock that a friend IS a narcissist. All this time I had ignored the signs. Damn, these people are very good at hiding their true selves. Going no contact as best I can.
I cannot believe it took me 36 year to fully realize who this person really was and they would never change,the sheer look of contemp and evil I saw after he realized i was not taking him back this time both scared me and gave me strength,I was in the minority as far as the divorce went I got the house because he wanted to look good to his adult children and everyone else,found out he had been hiding money and had a girlfriend so that helped me get the house.
Thank you Andrew for this important message😎. The analogy of the rotten Apple is exact🍎. The evil against us trying to destroy us🙅 Thanks for encouraging us to keep walking to healing from the Narc 🎭 into a beautiful life of abundant blessings and Beautiful light🌺😎🌹🙌🙏
Everything you said Andrew is true. Once you see them for who they are, you can not unsee it and it is a scary sight. It becomes physically impossible to stay in their vicinity. The mere thought of meeting them makes me feel sick.
Both of my ex narcs did exactly that, they took everything from me taking me to bankruptcy. Years and I am still trying to recover. But eventually they will get what they deserve. They will age and then they will die alone.
In my case it wasn't that I couldn't see it, it was simply that I could not accept that someone could be that empty and heartless inside. Eventually the truth bombs overcame the love bombs, the pain won over the hope that there was good inside her. Not everyone is like us...
As shocking as it was to see his mask slip during the marriage, the divorce was what really revealed who he was. He is continually revealing his true self to me and anyone who is willing to pay attention -- but I'm probably the only one noticing. He quickly found new supply and she is likely still under his spell, years later. I hope for her sake she wakes up soon.
Wow that apple analogy is soooooo true. I remember biting into a pear I picked from the tree from my back yard, there was a worm in it. Of course I was grossed out. And really was careful ever since. I'm steering clear of narcs ever since in the same way
I am in the great State of Arizona now. Let it rain! :) I remember my long ago ex husband saying "Nancy you are the only one that sees me that way." - Not really! Gotta go.
Perfect example of gaslighting! 😵💫 I can feel that ‘knocked off balance’ feeling you would have had when he said that. (Before the Narc knowledge) So glad you made it out. ❤
For 23 years in tears lying to my self staying for sake of kids glory to god one year and half the peace i got and mental healnes u cant imagine he left me when neded him most him and his new saply wa sending me vidios that the wa enjoing vacation and paty pictures laughing at me while in hospital bed wht no one to pay my bil of hospital 4 thausand dolar only my families and friends raise the money i have no parents til now cant walk properly cant work staying at home wht my kids my kids a trauma tise seing me in pain he cost me tank u warious and coach andrew
The rotten apple analogy sums the narcissist up so well. That’s what the survivors of this insidious abuse must see and believe. It’s the truth and the truth must be believed in order to stay no contact and properly heal. Thanks so much for your wisdom Andrew.
Yes. Everything. Including your health. He was smarter as he has no real emotions. That, in itself, is their power. As they are not really human. They are robots, who actually don't understand love. No, they never evolve. It is so sad. One of my children , my daughter, has become a narcissist herself. Although young adults can be narcissistic, which is actually somewhat normal.....they are rejoicing in their own splendor. However, if they have no empathy , normal human compassion it is toxic. "For he that has no love, God does not love." It becomes a downward cycle. It will repeat in every relationship. I have extended myself to her ad infinitum...... I can no longer engage as it brought me to a very bad place emotionally. Also, from hearing parabels of "The Prodical Son"....I understand that even God doesn't want me to position myself like this. Anyone, that dishonours you to an intolerable level, simply does not deserve to be in your life....no matter the cost.....per RC Blakes. Thank you so much for speaking and listening. God Bless You. ....
My adult son is still dealing with having his narc mother assassinate my character before he would go to elementary school. I mean, who does that??? Oh yes, a narcissist. Meanwhile, I spent hours trying to heal the emotional wounds she dealt out to our kids, and doing everything I could to keep our family strong and healthy. At least he and I have a great relationship and he sees the light. So unfortunate.
Andrews face ha 🤣 makes me laugh , when lifes not that funny !! thought I was over this Narcissit path ,fell into a trapp I took a job as a cleaner, turned into a slave,the narc took a 4 week holiday ,I was left with a ugly poisenous spider bite ,no money ,I thought the person was self-centred just did nt recognise the Narcissit, the bite woke me out of the fog I was out of there in 2 month My Narcissit Didn't see it coming, the discard ,to busy planning to use me again for underpaid profit and labour!!! 😢 yes sadly still enough damage done !!!
We All deserve Better.....But We are Hardened Emotionally by Them...Our Only Hope is a Return to Compassion and Empathy that makes US Human Again (Profound that They Damage US Morally/Mentally that Bad) but WE ARE SUPER EMPATHS to Have Survived...Our Compassion NEVER DIES......God Bless Sabian
I was blinded to the fact I always said if he didn’t love me he wouldn’t do the things he did that helped me . Then when he wouldn’t talk to me and was telling me lies and cheating on me i always said if he loved me he wouldn’t do that. Then he would love bomb me with gifts and I didn’t trust my thinking although my intuition was always telling me. When he stayed with lower levels of people than I was accustomed to I couldn’t believe he chose them over me I forgive myself Andrew for not trusting myself in the very beginning when I started to question and he turned my words all around. I am speaking now with the knowledge and the wisdom through the experience and I know my feelings do matter and my energy is no longer being stolen from me❤.
Just think of it: They put you aside like trash, you never existed for them (I am loughing right now, but actually it is damn serious). Can a loving person do Parental Alienation? I could really throw up . Despite all this shit I find myself praying for her, cause at least she is the mother of my children. I wished everyhting could be reversed, I feel like in a bad film.
Thanks Andrew... I began to see the shallowness before the end of the friendship then the true rot when it was over, learning this was explosive, sickeningly so. Moving on I have become enlightened. I am still in shock that these people live among us!
I make sure I keep well away from them now as I can recognise them and find them disgusting and contemptible and also pathetic...... Andrew, I was so worried during the video with thunder and lightning and you sitting so near that albeit beautiful tree....I was so scared of it being struck...Never been glad before for the end of your video🙏☔️⚡️❤️
A. I somehow found your channel by mistake when u started. I had just found utube, and it went on from there. How I wished that I had been given your knowledge many years before. I survived very much alone before that, with the Dharma teachings and pure transmissions from geshes in person from 3 monasteries. They were all Gelugpa. But it wasn't until your teachings that I finally was really educated about the clinical narc. We are all so lucky to have utube with the content they provide. I only watch about 2 hrs at night and then switch to listening to the Dharma in the dark as I go to sleep. I can only advise that if you can find a meaningful subject of any kind that u listen to before sleep, in the dark it might change your life for the better.
Thank you for the Ram Das content. I will watch and listen. I came across sleep meditations on you tube - Jason Stephenson, Michael Sealey. These have really helped with quality sleep and calming my nervous system. There are ones for anxiety, overwhelm, etc. Also The Mindful movement. Heal while you sleep. Hope this is also of use to other survivors on this channel. ❤
Hi Andrew, i love the apple comparison. 🎯🎯 because when i found him out it really felt like i had taken a bite in a rotten apple. And when i analysed the years i had spent with him i could taste the rotten apple again. Great video Andrew as always. Have a lovely evening sheltered from the big storm in your beautiful NC. 😊❤️💜
I mean… I just don’t even have anything to add to this, Andrew… you NAILED IT!!! 💯💯💯☝️ Hope you’re enjoying that thunderstorm… it’s WAYYY hot and dry here! Have a WONDERFUL rest of the day! Thank you for this message! Love you! 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗🌹💋🌹💋🌹😇
🎉 Looking back now I'm out and healed from the life sucking vampire I used to think he was so handsome now I see him as evil and not good looking even his eyes changed colour the last time I seen him . He will be forever evil in my eyes 🎉❤
Fantastic video, Andrew! Thank you for this One! Great analogies, as always. That's how I felt about the Ex. He was a handsome dude but inside, toxic, manipulative, abusive, sick, hurtful, mean, jealous, insecure, pathological liar, secretive, and just a dark soul. If he even has a soul. They use their looks and charm to draw you in but, you see them for what they really are. Love the analogies in this one. They really are rotten to the core. I actually told the ex he was rotten to the core! He didnt have much of a response.
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The narcissist believes that they have never done any wrong! 🤷🏼♀️🙈😬 They block and ignore their consience 😱😬🙈
As someone who has experienced the detrimental effects of living in a toxic family household and being in a relationship with a narcissistic spouse, I can attest to the profound impact it has had on my well-being. It takes immense strength and self-awareness to see through the facade of a narcissist and acknowledge their toxic behaviors. This realization has been a pivotal moment in my journey of personal growth and healing. I am committed to prioritizing my mental and emotional health, seeking support, and setting firm boundaries to create a healthier and more fulfilling life for myself. Though this path may be challenging, I firmly believe that I deserve to live in an environment that fosters love, respect, and genuine connection.
Thank you for sharing this insight 😌🙌🙏
Yes what you say in your comment is absolute Truth, I had very similar journey,,you will get through this ,we become our own Best Friend, rewiring templates and things from childhood,,,Stay Blessed always,,🙏🙏🌺🌼✨✨❤️
Like you, I had the double whammy. Narc parents and narc ex wife , oh and my brother turned out to be a narc too, so maybe it's triple in my case , especially since he abused me too.
@@billbates5475Sending ❤️and healing vibes your way.
I just had this huge realization that I came from an abnormal family who emotionally neglected me growing up! I feel so sickk after this realization, my family set me up for a damagedd life!! Actually it is not about the narcissists, they are just symptoms of our validation seeking that we have been desperately seeking subconsciously!! A tragedyy!!
No longer a victim but a survivor ❤
The narcissistic discard is a blessing. Let them go their own way!
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God bless everyone here. Don't let this world turn your heart cold. Fight the good fight.♡
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Absolut worth it!!!
Yes! The most beautiful apple can be stuffed full of poison ! 🤦♀️
And a warm welcome to all the new subscribers here ,,, ❤️❤️❤️✨✨
A walking apology!! That was me!! I apologized to her for her being mean to me. What a dumbass I was. And I actually miss her. Narcissistic abuse should be punishable by law.
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But guess what, YOU WOKE UP. HOPEFULLY YOU LEFT HER. None of us knew that these demons existed In human form.
I was apologizing for things I didn't do.
Weird. Hang in there.
@@soja2634 I did and I'm never looking back
That shows your good heart! Of course you miss her,grief takes time and your feelings would have been genuine,but I understand how you feel about apologising,as we love to please people,when our own self love and boundaries were more important! Safety first! If you don’t take care of 0:16 yourself,you are not able to care for others in the right way!
I don't associate with toxic, frivolous, narcissistic people. I also don't walk with fools. I walk ALONE...
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you Andrew! 😊 🖐💥
The divorce process has just started for me....Gonna need my Strength. Good Luck Everyone ❤ These people are brutal
Hang in there.
They are tricky devils 😈
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@@Donnahodgins thanks🙏🤍
There’s a book - ‘Splitting - protecting yourself when divorcing someone with borderline or narcissistic personality disorder’. Also videos Rebecca Z@ung legal expert. What to expect and tactics. Good luck.🌸
They can spin things out for a long time, keeping the relationship confusing, but once they know that you have figured it out, they can suddenly be gone in a flash. 😮
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Exactly what happened In my situation. Discarded when I started trusting my Intuition and stopped allowing my husband to gaslight me. He's moved on to the secretary from his work. The divorce process had only begun
I starting to see us being fooled into a narc relationship is a symptom of our abnormal childhood. It is actually not about them, it is about our upbringing! Our parents are the ones who really failed us by neglecting us growing up!!
@@zullmiramajid475sadly our parents could not give what they themselves didn’t have! Forgiveness sets us free to heal and let the toxic past go,as you recognise it and work through the pain and trauma! New beginnings allow us to drop off the old and embrace and navigate the future with a different understanding,insight and discernment,through doing the work on ourselves,to become better,not bitter! The best is yet to come and we have learned how to detect good from evil and make better choices for our own wellbeing!❤️
@zullmiramajid475 My parents failed me for sure, and from the look of it, his parents did even more damage than mine. The difference is that I don't want to pass that along to others in life, and he clearly doesn't care and instead thinks the whole world owes him.
Bottom line, the victim of a narcissist is caught off guard. If I only knew then, what I have learned. The pain I would have been spared!
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Our parents failed us, we were growing up neglected that's why we fell for narcs, everything has a reason behind, this is much deeper than just being caught off guard....
It's very difficult to see the monster even when they say extremely hurtful things. . . you don't see the monster immediately 😞
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Yes you see the mask that was instaled in the love bomb… you see them trough this colored classes…. You are in the fog… many of as are in the daily fog too… so to Wake up is hard but to stay real is the way to survive and rescue humanity!
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙂♥️
Non-repentant is a very good term for narcissists!
And VERY relative to this subject.
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Please remember that the narc is only a person. They arent "the one", "your soulmate", etc. Do not put them on that pedestal they so desperately crave. Take away that power by seeing who they are as Andrew describes!
I am a week and a half in. Left my narc at long last. i am starting to regain myself. For those who are wanting to leave, this is your sign! It can be done!
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Exactly what I went thru.. ended up with nothing left to give.
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I’m steering clear of low hanging fruit. I am now my main priority after years of being low woman on the totem pole. My energy is back, my strength is back, mental clarity emotional health is back, my physical health is on the uptick and I feel better than I have since forever.
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Me too!!! It feels so good not to be used anymore!
Great analogy about the apple. Its a terrible shock when you first realise who they are.
It's traumatising.
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So true!!!!!!!
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......Enduring.......Realizing.....Suffering.......Learning......Changing thru Strength.....
Awesome wormy apple depiction of "narc at their core" 😂😅😂
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Great video Andrew. When I was in the narcissistic relationship I was blinded by my love for him , and fooled by the narcissist. He always had the answer in order to keep me in the relationship. The lies were endless. Now that I'm out of the relationship I finally see the monster that he really is. I know for a fact that he will never change and anything that comes out of his mouth is a lie. Thank God I'm out of that relationship and free to learn and grow. Thank you Andrew for the video and thank you everyone for your kind words.
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Be blessed, Carlos. Wonderful hopes for you always!
I've been blamed for being nassistic but I spent most my life being abandoned and codependent. So what's the best way to not accept being blamed for what you know isn't true. Blocking my daughter was my only option in this case. But she still thinks I'm the nassistic Parent! So very unfair when all I've done is give everything even money and now healing she says you've never changed in all the Healing. So I blocked her. I'm beginning to question her as a nassistic character now? I know I'm an empath and I used to be Co dependant and Healing has been a 3 year journey removing myself from toxic people until I ended up in isolation looking at my needs. Finally I love who I am and live in peace but get blamed for Not being accountable so my daughter says! No matter what I do or say she pounces.
She even blames me for thinking she's toxic and I've never told her what I think of her, I've just not taken on the bait.
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"you're lips are movin'" 🎶
...and we have a choice. We cannot control the world or people in it. You can only accept these things exactly how they are.
With acceptance comes healing and making the decision to take control of your life.
Thank you again Andrew, have a nice evening! ❤🙏🌧
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Why I choose tomlive a deliberate life ...even if it means letting others go to take their own path..just not with me I have my own ..we each as well.. Keeping the faith and simply 'being'is very important - too much conditioning and control isn't good for anyone ..please guide the Children Amen 🙏❤🫒
We victims actually are the same vuctims of emotional neglect from our parents! I analyzed my whole situation on how I fell preyed to an extreme narcissist and had a failed marriage, and all the attributes such as ignoring the red flags and seeking validation from an unloving person, no warnings from my parents and went ahead with a disrespectful marriage, and even after divorce seeing how my family didn't support me and my child and I had to keep doing everything to cope with my divorce process, I came to the conclusion that I came from an abnormal family who didn't really parent me but just had me for the sake of community demand and cultural norm to have offsprings. It made me furious!! On the flip side, I now know how to parent my kid and fix this defect from my family tree! We are lucky that now we have the education! This is a life saving education!
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❤❤ 💯 same. I'm so glad I found this channel
@@csingle25 this chanel is a God sent to provide us with clues!!
Very Happy to acknowledge your growth. 🙏🙋
@@kimgordon3695 thank you! Yes this is a growth indeed, now I am matured and content after unraveling the truth!!
The narcissist who attacked me was my female primary care physician. With one email, I got her and ALL her flying monkeys hogtied.
Next comes my complaint to the medical board.
Hello Andrew and everyone. You nailed it! The actions don't match the words, and when sadness bestows around us, the EMOTIONLESS EYES stand out, and it's frightening! They are not who they appear to be. I saw ENOUGH IN 5 years! He reminded me of a Vampire toward the end. When you suffer they are happy!
Thank God i had the strength to leave him. ANOTHER GREAT TOPIC ANDREW ❤❤
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Hi Jann, i love your message my friend. Hope you are well and having a great day! ❤❤❤🤗🙏
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My friend. Marie France. I am not feeling well 🥺🙏🖐❤️
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Yes. When you suffer they enjoy it. Heartless and cruel behaviour. ❤
Narcs are so evil, it is impossible to explain it to a normal person. Trying to inform a normal person how very evil and wicked a mark is, is like trying to explain Shakespeare to a dog.
Just like it's not the dogs fault that it doesn't understand Shakespeare,vsobit is not the average, normal person's fault that they can not comprehend the depths of evil in a narcissist
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So well said. 🦮😳😵💫😄
These individuals have such a profound impact on someomes health, mental state and self-esteem. It is such a blessing from god to wake up to what has been happening .
I went through years of scapegoating.. left my country without employment but will little savings. I walked by faith and you discover there is good people out there.
The damage they have done was going unnoticed for years . Think about THAT for a minute!! If you can, gotta get out. Cut contact .. god will show you who they are with time. Thanks Andrew
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As an oldie here within my marriage and friendships ( not knowing about narcissism way back then ) I always felt that I was just existing or a candle that only flickered with not much light left deep within you know that it’s not a healthy relationship nothing ever changes in these relationships they get worse over time . Get yourself out of these relationships you should never just exist for another put yourself first you truly will experience what life has to offer & it’s beautiful being myself today 🙏💕
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Yep. 😢
He did that to me Sunday night. Trying to make me doubt myself. I noticed it right away. Nothing passing by this Super Empath.
I call the narcissist plastic fruit. I actually wrote a poem about it. 🍎
We come 🥇🥈🥉my goal is to stack money up and to get my own place and to file a lot of restraining order papers on my toxic narcissistic sociopath family because I AM DONE!
When I finally saw the narcissist for WHO HE IS ....I was first enveloped with FEAR and a sense of loss. I finally understood what this person was capable of, and it woke me up from the delusion that he could change. I couldn't wait to get away from this person but I knew that I needed to maintain a calm demeaner and take responsible and healthy action. Once we see the narc for who they are we must take action to leave or the discard will eventually happen , or we well exist in a prison guarded by our fears, our delusional hope for the unattainable and our inability to act while in the cycle of abuse. Blessings to all! NAMASTE ❤
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When you realize!!!! 😜When your gut tells you to leave and the divorce and everything after, is unbeleavable cruel, and a decade later you lern from Andrew and others what happens to you…. That, positive said, is a big light ball moment and all makes sense… and the “thing” has a name and you can heal!!!!!!!
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Allowing ourselves to see others and the world as they are, not how we wish they would be, is when a person can begin to heal and grow like never before. Thank you for the excellent work, Andrew, much respect.
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This is a great message!! It’s really easy to look the other way and it’s when they provide you with a sense of false hope that you end up staying a lot longer than you should.
@@danielle1103 Exactly, narcissists can sense when we start to see through their facade, and that's when they love bomb, and lure empaths back in for more abuse. If someone yearns to punish others, then they're toxic and need to be denied access to our valuable good energy:)
The thief comes only to steal, lie and destroy; I have come that you may have life more abundantly. John 10:10
Great powerful teaching Andrew!😍
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The very sight of my narcissistic ex-friend actually turns my stomach because I now know their looks are only skin deep. Looks are an accident of birth. The personality and soul are important.
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They never take responsibility for anything they do.
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Your message was very apt for me today, Andrew. My daughter and her friend went off to camp yesterday and my ex came to pick her up. Usually, I do not even go to the door to see her off, but I did yesterday, without thinking. And there it was, this giant shiny red and juicy looking apple, in all it's glory, loading the boot of the car with her things. I had not gazed on the apple tree for months and in a split second there it was in front of me. Thankfully, your words saved me, Andrew. I had to remind myself of the painful truth that inside this beautiful looking shiny red apple, it was rotten to the core; to bite into it maggots would spill out. I was saved by this truth, but it was a hard truth to swallow. It still breaks my heart. 💔
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5:40 Boom. Right on the money.
When I found this knowledge, the initial stages fueled some resentment I was clearly conned. After months, the resentment disappears and I'm left with more gratitude and a compass for rest of this life's journey. I feel extremely lucky for this education with so many navigational tools to live a better life.
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I think we have always seen the truth. But did not want to accept the truth. To face the true reality of how things really are. Imagine all that time that we have wasted. Great video Andrew❤❤😊😊❤❤
Certainly knew something wasn't right, but it took a long time to see it was just a toxic personality type at work. 😮
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Your welcome
It was hard to accept that people you love could be so devious cruel and manipulative,when you wanted to believe the best! Sad but glad my eyes were opened but I have learned a lot,and will use my knowledge to help others if they are open to reality!
Amen to that.
The road goes on forever their lies never end.
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Everything said in this video is so true! No contact & blocking is the key to leaving the narcissist fog, breaking the trauma bond and finally seeing the narcissist for who they really are. It's amazing how when i was married to this narcissist I stopped doing things I enjoyed and was available for him 24/7...someone who disappeared, would give me silent treatment, lie, cheat, steal. Rotten fruit for sure.
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Great video. Andrew. I got virtually nothing in my divorce, but I survived. It wasn't easy, but I got through it. I am no longer angry about what I endured, and I have accepted my part in the choices I made that landed me in the position of toxic and narcissistic abusive relationships that I have been in. It's taken me years to heal, but I still carry mental scars that tend to well up inside me, especially when I am not feeling well. But I am kinder and gentler with myself instead of self condemnation and self berating. Forgiving oneself isn't easy, but it is necessary to heal and stop listening to the negative voices.
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Read a lot of your past comments and what you went through was tough, tough tough.
I'm glad you found all that strength. Your comments are like the many lights on the runway
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you, Andrew 😊
@jhavajoe3792 Thank you. I hope that my testimony of my experiences will help others 🙏
Mary you nailed it right there dear sister 🙏🏼🌹
It definitely gets better after you are away from them... At first it hurts a lot, but stay strong, keep praying, ask God for his strength, and within time it gets so much better. If I were in a tunnel right now I'd be walking right at the tunnels end into the warm light. Feels so good!!
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she had mentioned the bullying, the abuse, when he grabbed her heart just like that and tore it out of her, throw it in the wall, stuck his dirty words into her as she fell moaning in pain, nothing physical no bruises, but she stopped talking and people approached her with:
"you don't say much do you". /Annie
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Don’t LOOK!
The truth could burn our eyes.
Don’t take a second look, or risk being turned into a pillar of salt.
I had a psychiatric patient who would look others in the eyes and say, "You're no good, you never were, and you never will be!" Rotten to the core would have fit perfectly with that..... I always wondered who had affected him so profoundly that this became his mantra. Probably a narcissist.
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Probably repeating what a parent or parents told him...🤔
@@gigigogo41 Sadly, that could be thd source. How horrible.
Love the sound of the thunder in the background...
The more I listen to you.. the more I become aware..❤
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It's been two weeks since the narcissist hasn't called me and I went to my doctor's today and she said that I've been losing a lot of weight and my blood pressure is good
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After continuous bricks fell on my head....I could no longer deny that this person that I had knitted myself to...WAS A SELF CENTERED EGOTISTICAL BRAT...that only wanted me being their personal patsy.
No more, no way, no how. Thanks for the life lesson.....BYE NARC!!! 🎀😘
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Yeah, more insidious than those kids in "Village of the Damned."
Thank you Andrew.. the last part was especially useful.. I relate to it .. the apple analogy was good.. I personally don’t like to eat fruits.. I’m not good at picking them.. just like I wasn’t good at picking the narc 😂 I like vegetables more.. i do look at the narc differently now.. the more knowledge I get the more I dislike them and see their true colours and fakeness.. im glad you made it safely out of the rain (saw some previous comments confirming this).. I hope there wasn’t lightening .. lightening is scary.. wishing you and the community a good night ❤🌙🌹
Hi Andrew and every warrior here I do hope you are all keeping well✨✨❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hello there Flower! ❤❤❤Hope you’re having a GREAT day!!!🤗❤️🤗❤️😇🌷🌺🌸🌼🪻☀️✌️🫶💪😁
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@@flowerpower4944 G’night Flower! Sleep well!!! Sweet dreams! 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗🥱😴😴😴
Hi Flower!🌻
Whew. Unbelievably helpful for me right now. I just got a massive shock that a friend IS a narcissist. All this time I had ignored the signs. Damn, these people are very good at hiding their true selves. Going no contact as best I can.
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I cannot believe it took me 36 year to fully realize who this person really was and they would never change,the sheer look of contemp and evil I saw after he realized i was not taking him back this time both scared me and gave me strength,I was in the minority as far as the divorce went I got the house because he wanted to look good to his adult children and everyone else,found out he had been hiding money and had a girlfriend so that helped me get the house.
Thank you Andrew for this important message😎. The analogy of the rotten Apple is exact🍎. The evil against us trying to destroy us🙅 Thanks for encouraging us to keep walking to healing from the Narc 🎭 into a beautiful life of abundant blessings and Beautiful light🌺😎🌹🙌🙏
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Everything you said Andrew is true. Once you see them for who they are, you can not unsee it and it is a scary sight. It becomes physically impossible to stay in their vicinity. The mere thought of meeting them makes me feel sick.
Both of my ex narcs did exactly that, they took everything from me taking me to bankruptcy. Years and I am still trying to recover. But eventually they will get what they deserve. They will age and then they will die alone.
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Andrew ..... you are my Hero. You and I both survived these types of Relationships.
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Funny how you see things clearly and it all falls into place once you hear the words, narcissist and empath.
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💯✌️. Removing the mask will bring clarity.
In my case it wasn't that I couldn't see it, it was simply that I could not accept that someone could be that empty and heartless inside.
Eventually the truth bombs overcame the love bombs, the pain won over the hope that there was good inside her.
Not everyone is like us...
As shocking as it was to see his mask slip during the marriage, the divorce was what really revealed who he was. He is continually revealing his true self to me and anyone who is willing to pay attention -- but I'm probably the only one noticing. He quickly found new supply and she is likely still under his spell, years later. I hope for her sake she wakes up soon.
Thank you Andrew, love you back and God bless you too. I appreciate your honesty and insight. ❤🙏
Wow that apple analogy is soooooo true. I remember biting into a pear I picked from the tree from my back yard, there was a worm in it. Of course I was grossed out. And really was careful ever since. I'm steering clear of narcs ever since in the same way
I am in the great State of Arizona now. Let it rain! :) I remember my long ago ex husband saying "Nancy you are the only one that sees me that way." - Not really! Gotta go.
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Perfect example of gaslighting! 😵💫 I can feel that ‘knocked off balance’ feeling you would have had when he said that. (Before the Narc knowledge) So glad you made it out. ❤
For 23 years in tears lying to my self staying for sake of kids glory to god one year and half the peace i got and mental healnes u cant imagine he left me when neded him most him and his new saply wa sending me vidios that the wa enjoing vacation and paty pictures laughing at me while in hospital bed wht no one to pay my bil of hospital 4 thausand dolar only my families and friends raise the money i have no parents til now cant walk properly cant work staying at home wht my kids my kids a trauma tise seing me in pain he cost me tank u warious and coach andrew
Maggoty inside best description.
The rotten apple analogy sums the narcissist up so well. That’s what the survivors of this insidious abuse must see and believe. It’s the truth and the truth must be believed in order to stay no contact and properly heal. Thanks so much for your wisdom Andrew.
Yes.
Everything.
Including your health.
He was smarter as he has no real emotions.
That, in itself, is their power.
As they are not really human.
They are robots, who actually don't understand love.
No, they never evolve.
It is so sad.
One of my children , my daughter,
has become a narcissist herself.
Although young adults can be narcissistic, which is actually somewhat normal.....they are rejoicing in their own splendor.
However, if they have no empathy ,
normal human compassion it is toxic.
"For he that has no love,
God does not love."
It becomes a downward cycle.
It will repeat in every relationship.
I have extended myself to her ad infinitum......
I can no longer engage as it brought me to a very bad place emotionally.
Also, from hearing parabels of "The Prodical Son"....I understand that even God doesn't want me to position myself like this.
Anyone, that dishonours you to an intolerable level, simply does not deserve to be in your life....no matter the cost.....per RC Blakes.
Thank you so much for speaking and listening.
God Bless You.
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My adult son is still dealing with having his narc mother assassinate my character before he would go to elementary school. I mean, who does that??? Oh yes, a narcissist. Meanwhile, I spent hours trying to heal the emotional wounds she dealt out to our kids, and doing everything I could to keep our family strong and healthy. At least he and I have a great relationship and he sees the light. So unfortunate.
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Andrews face ha 🤣 makes me laugh , when lifes not that funny !! thought I was over this Narcissit path ,fell into a trapp
I took a job as a cleaner, turned into a slave,the narc took a 4 week holiday ,I was left with a ugly poisenous spider bite ,no money ,I thought the person was self-centred just did nt recognise the Narcissit, the bite woke me out of the fog
I was out of there in 2 month
My Narcissit Didn't see it coming, the discard ,to busy planning to use me again for underpaid profit and labour!!!
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damage done !!!
We All deserve Better.....But We are Hardened Emotionally by Them...Our Only Hope is a Return to Compassion and Empathy that makes US Human Again (Profound that They Damage US Morally/Mentally that Bad) but WE ARE SUPER EMPATHS to Have Survived...Our Compassion NEVER DIES......God Bless Sabian
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I was blinded to the fact I always said if he didn’t love me he wouldn’t do the things he did that helped me . Then when he wouldn’t talk to me and was telling me lies and cheating on me i always said if he loved me he wouldn’t do that. Then he would love bomb me with gifts and I didn’t trust my thinking although my intuition was always telling me. When he stayed with lower levels of people than I was accustomed to I couldn’t believe he chose them over me I forgive myself Andrew for not trusting myself in the very beginning when I started to question and he turned my words all around. I am speaking now with the knowledge and the wisdom through the experience and I know my feelings do matter and my energy is no longer being stolen from me❤.
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Just think of it: They put you aside like trash, you never existed for them (I am loughing right now, but actually it is damn serious). Can a loving person do Parental Alienation? I could really throw up . Despite all this shit I find myself praying for her, cause at least she is the mother of my children. I wished everyhting could be reversed, I feel like in a bad film.
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YEP, A GOOD Apple can't make a BAD Apple GOOOOOD !!!🍎
Thanks Andrew... I began to see the shallowness before the end of the friendship then the true rot when it was over, learning this was explosive, sickeningly so. Moving on I have become enlightened.
I am still in shock that these people live among us!
Yes, YES, YES right on point Again !
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Andrew - not only love the verbal content but GASP! Those wonderful rolls of thunder. Namaste 🧎🏼♀️🙏🏼
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I make sure I keep well away from them now as I can recognise them and find them disgusting and contemptible and also pathetic......
Andrew, I was so worried during the video with thunder and lightning and you sitting so near that albeit beautiful tree....I was so scared of it being struck...Never been glad before for the end of your video🙏☔️⚡️❤️
Your apple analogy made me laugh out loud. 🍎
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Almost everything you said today I experienced with my exhusband.
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One year it was so dry that the apples on the tree were hollow. The bees and wasps had cleaned out their centers. That's my hollow siblings.
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Thank you Andrew. You've been an enormous help to me over the past couple of years.
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A. I somehow found your channel by mistake when u started. I had just found utube, and it went on from there. How I wished that I had been given your knowledge many years before. I survived very much alone before that, with the Dharma teachings and pure transmissions from geshes in person from 3 monasteries. They were all Gelugpa. But it wasn't until your teachings that I finally was really educated about the clinical narc. We are all so lucky to have utube with the content they provide. I only watch about 2 hrs at night and then switch to listening to the Dharma in the dark as I go to sleep. I can only advise that if you can find a meaningful subject of any kind that u listen to before sleep, in the dark it might change your life for the better.
So much Ram Dass, so little time. Find your jewel.
Thank you for the Ram Das content. I will watch and listen. I came across sleep meditations on you tube - Jason Stephenson, Michael Sealey. These have really helped with quality sleep and calming my nervous system. There are ones for anxiety, overwhelm, etc. Also The Mindful movement. Heal while you sleep. Hope this is also of use to other survivors on this channel. ❤
What a wonderful way for you to go to sleep.
Thank you, Andrew, excellent topic, we all need reminders of what they truly are at their core, why would you love a maggot👏👏👏👏
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Hi Andrew, i love the apple comparison. 🎯🎯 because when i found him out it really felt like i had taken a bite in a rotten apple. And when i analysed the years i had spent with him i could taste the rotten apple again. Great video Andrew as always. Have a lovely evening sheltered from the big storm in your beautiful NC. 😊❤️💜
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I mean… I just don’t even have anything to add to this, Andrew… you NAILED IT!!! 💯💯💯☝️ Hope you’re enjoying that thunderstorm… it’s WAYYY hot and dry here! Have a WONDERFUL rest of the day! Thank you for this message! Love you! 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗🌹💋🌹💋🌹😇
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🎉 Looking back now I'm out and healed from the life sucking vampire I used to think he was so handsome now I see him as evil and not good looking even his eyes changed colour the last time I seen him . He will be forever evil in my eyes 🎉❤
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Andrew you stole my heart 8 months ago when I found your channel. I'm a different person today! Thank you
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You’re so right about everything. How can I escape from this,my life was ruined! 14:15
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God bless you. ❤
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Thanks, Andrew!!
Good angle, as usual!!
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Thank you NARCDAILY 🙏
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you Sir.... Truly... for everything 🙏
Fantastic video, Andrew! Thank you for this One! Great analogies, as always. That's how I felt about the Ex. He was a handsome dude but inside, toxic, manipulative, abusive, sick, hurtful, mean, jealous, insecure, pathological liar, secretive, and just a dark soul. If he even has a soul. They use their looks and charm to draw you in but, you see them for what they really are. Love the analogies in this one. They really are rotten to the core. I actually told the ex he was rotten to the core! He didnt have much of a response.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You're welcome. Thank you, too!
Great analogy of the apple Andrew. Namaste
Vampires are real. ☹️👹
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