I have listened to OnlyFans girls saying that they can take down their channel and content whenever they want. They don’t understand that the internet is forever.
They also don't understand that their content isn't JUST on OF. Porn addicts will share content from behind paywalls with their friends who will share it with other friends. There's no such thing as "just taking your channel down and it's all gone". Somewhere on a video hosting service or private forum, it's probably still available.
@@greywolf7577society is accepting of sex for it’s intended purpose, reproduction. But it shouldn’t be normalised in day-to-day stuff like it’s becoming. It’s sad that even children can’t avoid sexualised content when they’re not even searching for it.
@@greywolf7577 accepting of sex in what context? It's not a straightforward act. We have dozens of bodily/neurological mechanisms in place that alter us when we have sex with someone. Women more so than men when it's casual sex cause it elicits oxytocin which their system is so attuned to and uses to bond to their female friends and their babies. To be able to have a good robust relationship with a husband or partner and then also be tolerant to their children, friends and family a woman needs that oxytocin system in place and EVERY casual sexual encounter helps destroy the pleasant oxytocin response by the woman having to ignore the oxytocin high associated with this fella and walk away from him, delete his phone number and move onto the next f-Boy Her life will become empty and messed up, if her own infant is placed on her chest at birth the baby will feel connection and the woman will have trained herself to feel nothing and her first feeling about that baby is just as likely to be annoyance or disgust. We should never accept a culture of casual sex. There IS no casual sex really, all sex is serious
Interesting that the mother was supportive until she stopped giving her money. Was the mother thinking that she was a pimp & entitled to her money? Pretty sick.
Not all mothers are good. My own mother is toxic and only cares about money. Lots of parents to child stars act the same way. Large amounts of money can bring out the worst in people
I watched porn from the age of 12 to 26... When i decided to makes changes in my life i began by stoping porn and getting out there to start a social life outside of the web. By 27, met a lovely woman after being single all my life, by 28 we were married, owned a house and had a liltle one on the way. Still happily married now with 2 boys and stopping porn was one of the most impactful changes to better my life.
It's been hard for me, I truly desire the beautiful and wonderful connection with someone someday, been trying to quit (plus I know it's such a red flag/turn off for women if a watches porn) I will say today will be the last and next week I find myself at it again slippin' up again and again. It's pathetic at this point! 😔😢
@@yggnggv3519 Though I don't have personal experience with addiction, I would start by reading "The Porn Myth" by Matt Fradd. There are a lot of resources out there, you just need to lean into them and take it day by day. Wish you the best.
As I hear this, it kind of reminds me of what my high school coach told my class: "Being a professional athlete, especially in hockey, football, and rugby, is not all its cracked up to be. You are one wrong move away from a life-altering injury, and it can type-cast you for the rest of your life, without many people taking you seriously. If you go into professional sports, make sure you are ready for the bad, dark side of it." i think that, combined with Hollywood acting, modelling, and this topic, all have one thing in common: people only see the upside to them, and never see the dark side of the industries until that side hits them in the face. We need to address this issue and help people understand both sides of the industry they want to get in to.
I will respectfully disagree with you, if you give your all into trying to become a professional athlete and fail, with that work ethic you have no improved your body, learn team, and getting over adversity, which can easily translate into any other endeavor you choose after.
I see what you’re trying to say but let’s be clear… trying to be an athlete and it’s dangers is GALAXIES different than porn and it’s dangerous (life threatening in numerous ways)!
A lot of sports-brained mouth-breathers get soo upset when a modern gladiator is injured, and it ends their carrer. They mourn for a person that earns more money in a year than I will make in my lifetime, yet they don't bat an eye at human trafficking. Your coach was wise. "Live by the sword, die by the sword."
I'd disagree on sports. Famous athletes aren't really typecast or unable to further their careers if they get hurt. I'd say that warning should be heeded for the entertainment industry though. The vast majority of musicians, actors etc. are nothing more than puppets for the big wigs and will be exploited for their gain and then toss them aside. A ton of professional athletes find life long careers afterwards because of their work ethic and discipline. Not all, still have to be smart obviously
@@geometerfpv2804literally, there’s a portajohn in Twentynine Palms with her name affectionately scribbled in 3rd place on the Beat-the-Heat roster. I know dudes who circulated her content and praised her as a goddess while they were on ship. She single-handedly maintained troop morale during OEF, bro 😭
She cant stop now… once your in it, you need to keep earning your money. She’s shared her advice, that is for young people considering this career path to avoid it, but it would be extremely difficult for her herself to leave the industry because her reputation has already been shattered. Take mia khalifa and lana rhoades for example, they are never hopping back into a 9-5 without being judged or hopping back into a normal life
@@aerusjokaire5292 heheh, nope. Sure you wouldn't love your daughter, but you wouldn't run from responsibility like that. Children aren't that simple, to be thrown out at 18yo
@@aerusjokaire5292your duties don’t end when they’re 18 only your legal obligations. You shouldn’t be reliant on the government to tell you what you should do for your child. Parenting isn’t just about providing, it also includes offering guidance and that never ends
My mother used to run a legal brothel. Sex work ruins peoples lives, their mental health, their sense of self and it is NOT a road to go down. Anyone that tells you it's a feminist statement or that it's legitimate work is lying. Even if you somehow can get out it, it is a secret that becomes a lie that you can never get away from. You will quickly learn that people will say that they can overlook your past, but the truth is they will judge you and you will get tired of it. It will make your life and relationships infinitely more difficult.
All the other replies are missing your point. Sorry your family has found out those hard lessons first hand. Hope you're able to build something for yourself that is free of that shadow.
I know... only MEN should be objectified... need heavy lifting? Find a man, Have a need for security guards to be cut down yo show how powerful 2 attractive beautiful women fight? Dont even give their roll a name. Toss them in matching suits and call them grunt 1-7... Wait theres 10? Who cares? Well only list 7 in the end credits.. And yet KILL BILL was Anita Starkands example before the UN on hollywood objectifying women as sexual objects... in the scene she referenced. 10 men were objectified as props to be killed to set the stage for the women's boss fight... How many men in Saving Private Ryan were hired to die on screen? Why are there ~782 men being objectified and slaughtered for every fenale to suffer the same fate? Men are objectified too... but feminists are the worst objectifiers, which is why most of them are Democrats. Party of Hypocrisy.
Literally every celebrity's job nowadays. They're a product, a logo. And a lot of them sell their souls daily to stay within the circle. Very weird. Even Bret. Her channel is full of absolute crap, she just talks about any BS to keep her channel going.
@@raineetoneme No. As an employee, I'm not the product, I'm creating the product. Has the line become so blurred you can't tell which is the worker and which is the product?
The number of women I've talked to who say porn nearly destroyed their marriage is staggering. Almost all of my mom friends said their husbands came into their marriage with a porn addiction. It's so sad. I'm thankful my husband and I addressed that problem early on, were on the same page, and decided to cut it out of our lives. I was MUCH more addicted than he was, as I was introduced to it super young. But our relationship is so strong now and I praise God for that! I continue to pray for all the couple's out there struggling with this. I know firsthand how hard it is to overcome that addiction, but also how necessary and freeing it is.
@@personnesenki4521wow this is so true. U hear people talking about men all the time being addicted but so do women, I’ve always had problems stopping because it was just so accessible on my phone
I'm addicted to and I've been working Getting away from it for years and damn it,and it hard to fight the In the pulses.and that why I not even go to try and date or marry.
Two things: 1.Your husband still looks at porn but is also still really loving and good to you so he sees no reason to bother you with telling you about it, and why should he? 2. If a woman loves 50 Shades of Gray Novels and enjoys a little personal vibrator or dildo session from time to time, does that make her a porn addict? 🤔 Most men I know would not stigmatize or be angry at their wives for using a vibrator, and reading 50 shades of Grey as long as they were still sexually active with them and good and respectful to them. The truth is women are just way too overly sensitive about the issue and do not have a realistic or fair view of what it is really like to be a man.
I remember a guy i was in a training class with told us that his wife was on OF. He was acting proud and feminist, like it made him look good because he wasnt bothered and she made a lot of money. It actually did the opposite. Did not make him or his wife look cool, he actually seemed like a simp, and now everyone he worked with knew that other guys were looking at the mother of his child on the internet, and he was ok with it 😬 its delusion
I was surprised to find out even girls I know have OnlyFans pages. It’s really sad to see the ones who have genuinely deluded themselves into thinking it’s some power move, and that only “misogynists” and “incels” disapprove.
@@mammasrose5525 Literally, "incel" is an abbreviation for involuntarily celibate. In culture, an incel is a young virginal male who is either angry at all of womenkind because none are willing to have pre-marital sex with him, or a more mature male who simply can't find a decent woman to court.
@@SanchoPanza-wg5xfWell the term incel is used for that first definition. A “high value” male is a man who gets girls jumping on him but focuses on his own success.
@SanchoPanza-wg5xf i am inclined to believe that the label is also self-adopted. It isn't merely that someone matches those criteria, but that they also match the criteria of having adopted the label. I think that there are lots of men who would choose to be in a relationship if they could find one who do not find this a cause for grievance.
Yes... But also very, very hypocritical of him if he himself still continues to consume porn, so... That would make it super screwed up, in my opinion... 🤷🏻♀️
@alycatgf you're assuming he does. Just because it's more acceptable in the eyes of people in society today doesn't mean that everyone watches it. Some people still have morals and values that don't align with watching porn and that's a good thing.
I’m surprised this part isn’t mentioned more in the comments. I feel like that’s probably the real reason she lost her mom, she stopped giving her money.
yep and that probably a lot of porn star's parents. they're "ok with it" because of the money but most likely hate it. who in their right mind would actually be ok with their child doing porn
@@mrconfusion87so you hate when women consensually post themselves, but you love when they are nonconsensually shared? It seems like the issue lies with men’s rpey views around seggs
Your transition into a sponsor ad is EPIC.. Nothing but smooth lines and never skipping a beat. I agree with your stance on this video, porn should be banned.
I'm a recovering addict myself. I'm thankful for how impactful your content is for young people, Brett. This generation MUST BE kept away from that online poison. You do good work.
Porn is detrimental to men's and women's health. It depletes essential gender specific hormones. I was there. It's not good in any way, not mentally, physically or spiritually.
Yea porn has so many negative consequences, it’s just not worth it. However, that doesn’t mean I would cut my daughter off b/c I’m embarrassed to be seen with her.
@@AlbinoWhiteGuy No, that's exactly what you do. If your 'daughter' chooses to take the life YOU gave her and waste it away and refuse to change when she becomes an ADULT, then you owe her absolutely nothing. Parent or not. You've done your job and at sometime you have to understand that the relationship will only be toxic and hurtful. Better to separate than continually torture yourself.
“My mom just said do whatever you want she supports me.” This is why fathers are so important for daughters. Men understand the harsh reality of the decision their daughter is making and will try to help her not go that route.
Yeah cant trust women with this sort of thing. A very natural but imoral impulse women face is to push others to do what they have done so that they cannot be excluded for what they've done.
@@aerusjokaire5292 I agree with you so I’m not sure what you’re fighting with me about lol… where did I say a father should chain his daughter up and not let her live her life?
As a Millennial man, I wish that porn had not been normalized during my teenage years and young adulthood. I wish that I had never seen it. And it shouldn't be so easily to get on computers and cell phones.
@@mae2759 I purchased all of my porn. My collection is over 200 hours non stop. It was the best thing I've ever done for my romantic life. I can be, and am, way more picky than before. I only have sex with women who take care of themselves now, meaning, no fat women, no tattoos, no druggies, nobody unattractive, nobody with pubic hair, nobody with armpit hair, and the list goes on. I'm way happier than I was when I was trying to get everything from sex. That's a slow road to nowhere.
This is the main problem with porn it became too easy to get and the race to the bottom of depravity in search of more engagement. "Porn" has existed for millennia because of the desires of men but it used to be images or literature which were erotic. Now it is about usage and humiliation. I also believe there is a "baseline" set as you grow up - in my youth girly mags were the norm, I prefer just looking at naked women but if you are growing up now there are no limits to what you can access and it is helping destroy the man+woman dynamic. Also I've never had any problem dealing with women as human beings because I understand that porn is not real, no matter the actors reactions and words.
It is not just porn. I have this same feeling about social media and just having your face out there. I think it is an incredibly dangerous thing to do and should not be done. What people online can do with the information you share on platforms is incredibly dangerous.
100% yes. I’ve learned my lesson. Randomly, years ago I started getting like 10+ fb friend requests and messages asking about hooking up and how much I cost everyday for about a month. Long story short I found out a new coworker that I accepted on fb decided to screenshot my profile and posted it on a weird app telling everyone to hit their friend up on fb for $20 favors if you know what I mean.. as soon as I figured that out I changed my name and pic, removed all the ppl on my fb that I barely knew or don’t talk to anymore. I don’t post or upload pics, and I refuse to share anything of or about my kid. I’m grateful I was never the type to really share personal info, I’ve only ever shared my current city and the college I attended. These creeps could’ve stalked me had I not been that type of person. But I stopped updating my city and I refuse to share where I work or worked. I don’t add ppl until I’ve known them for a while. social media is so dangerous. Anyone can pretend to be you or act like they’re your bff and make up stupid stories that can potentially put your life in danger.. it’s so important to be careful what info you put out there and who your okay with sharing that info with.
I agree it’s a safety concern however it has positives to it as it can be a means for making money out of being creative as opposed to doing a boring 9-5 job that pays too little in today’s economy. Sad thing is nowadays the algorithm on social media sites like Instagram, just push whoever’s physically attractive over whoever’s most creative, talented or funny.
@@StanChunghaOrGoHome positives are gained via the negatives of sacrificing privacy and dignity even if the dignity component is not valued by the girl but is the future dignity of a prospective life long devoted romantic partner People are paying for micro humiliations that these girls temporarily are immature enough to see as flattery and glory
Yep women are as addicted to the validation of social media just as men are with porn. Both can be managed with some moderation. I think if a person is having trouble get rid of either one or both if it's causing that much a headache
I was classmates with RIley. And the moment she ended up on the internet, her entire social circle dissolved. And she went from a pretty nerdy girl with a bit of mystique, to a piece of meat you can pull up with a google search. I would catch her on occasion from time to time at my job and I would just pretend I have no idea who she was as did she with me. I wouldnt wish her life on anyone I know. Hope youre doing okay if you're reading this - It's nothing personal - I just knew what you'd be dealing with long before you were going through it.
She did not become a piece of meat, that's disgusting, and that label only comes from judgmental bigots. She is an actress. It's really no different from Julia Roberts playing an escort, except it attracts more bigots.
My dad constantly says that they're going for the young and they want to separate children from their parents. This video (along with many, MANY others) is just validating his point. The only reason this job is being called "empowering" and being made to sound like a wonderful job is to separate children from their parents. The younger you desensitize them - the younger you make them consumers who are wholly bought in to your product - the more permanent the damage is and the harder it is to undo it. It's much harder to fix something than it is to break it, *especially* when what you're breaking is interpersonal relationships. They're coming for the kids. The only reason they're calling this empowering is to desensitize us all and make young people fall into this horrible, *horrible* trap.
My mom was a true feminist in the 70s. An athlete, she fought for women's sports, she joined the marines and became rhe first female mechanic to lead a crew working on jets, then went to tackle corporate America in the 80s and succeed without sucking a dick. I'm 2003 she said to me and my brother "im not raising my sons to be treated like ATMs!" 21 years ago she said that and here we are today. My feminist mother, has never been more disgusted in women. She used to say terrible shit to her 4 sons like "men are stupid." "Men arnt shit!" She hasn't said anything like that in almost 15 years! Now she protects us a lot. Me, she doesn't need to worry about but my brother, she will NOT support him if he's with a woman she cannot vet. Wish I could have a family and protect them the same. This society has made life for men impossible while brainwashing the women to be worker bee whores.
So the onlyfans girl complains of being seen as an object but is oblivious of the fact she sees her simps as nothing but ATM’s. She’s just as bad as they are.
dude even average onlyfans models make 30k a month. the top earners make 1-2 million a month. its about working 4-10 years and not having to worry about finances, and living comfortable financially free lives.
@@marcusaurilius1488 I'm not against sex work. I have a niece that does it. That said, averages are very misleading. 90%+ of OF workers make less than the average McDonald's employee. It is the top earners that do make that much, that scew that average, which further entices young girls to think they will be making 30k a month. It simply isn't the reality. It's the same as when people say average life expectancy during the middle ages was 30-35. That's because of infant mortality. If you made it to adulthood and didn't fight in a war, you had a decent chance of living nearly as long as we do now. 'Averages' are not the whole truth, and most of the time leave lots of important context and information out.
@@SoilToSoul i am telling ya people are free to make choices in life. judging someone is just programming by likely religion to try to control someone and also get them into victimization programming. religion has been doing it for centuries. someone is going to save you. its how the cia controls and breaks people also with victimization and saviour programming. torture someone for hours and then give them some food and show a bit of kindness and act like a friend. too many people want to play god coming from a religious background. how do you know that person isn't meant to go through those experiences to become the person they are meant to be. people have regrets regardless of if they are in porn or not.
Porn affects both men and women a lot, but it attacks us more. I had an addiction from probably 13 to 27. No lie, i felt like quitting porn was harder than drugs for me.
Unfortunately the reality is, hindsight is 20/20. The money can be very alluring in the beginning. But the reality of the souls destroying work only becomes clearer after the years go by. There is absolutely nothing wrong with waking up to this fact after some time and it’s necessary for women like her to speak out and warn off you her women. She’s doing other women a huge service to teach them the truth!
a lot of people don't understand that anything you put on the internet can't be really taken down or deleted because it's saved up in databases, if you delete or take down your channel the data in that channel is already saved up on a database somewhere, you just lose your access to that database and that database will always have backup databases.
@@trollking99 Yeah it's definitely more this type than database backed up database. Beyonce making a funny face is on the internet forever but not your avg OF. Anyone who thinks there's all these databases holding everything is pretty naive.
i have a program that downloads every youtube video I've favorited or liked. I was so tired of people delisting shit, so know nothing i want to see can be deleted
@@phyzzx I get it, I really do. But you would be surprised what is actually indexed and stored somewhere by someone forever. There's a market for OnlyFans leaks, too. People have an incentive to save it, leak it, and share it because it's inherently valuable to a group of people. In the context of OF content, there is a good chance that it is saved *somewhere* for a long period of time if not for the conceivable future
As a father, this breaks my heart, i make sure everyday that my daughter knows how much i love her, i wouldn't imagine how it is to be ashamed of been seen around your own family.
She made her choice and has to deal with the consequences, BUT being so ashamed you can't be around your own daughter? That's more on him, in my opinion
Im 37, i had the world, my parents where always there for me, we had a very cushy lifestyle. It was the "american dream" the white picked fence, the golden retriever, church every sunday. i had it all as a child and into my teen years, when i was 14 i ended up hanging around a group of people, the age between me and them was 5 years. They where 18/19/20 i was introduced to oxy by these people. I was able to hide my addiction till i was 17, 4 weeks before my 18th birthday, a friend (whom im very good friends with to this day) went to the principal at our school and told her everything. I remeber at the time being forced into a rehab facility, and at the time i hated my friend and my family for it. As an adult at 37, im so happy my friend and parents took the action they did. I honestly dont think id be here today of it wasnt for the action they took.
@@georgejrivera3388 - Lots of people have it all, they just lack appreciation for it. You have family and friends who love you. It doesn’t get much more, “all” than that. Glad you kicked it…
yeah, my brother developed a crushing addiction to pill's. It caused him a lot of financial issues. He'd lie about when he's on one, but next moment he'll just collapse and sort of seize up. It was really like that super quick 'I told you so moments'. When he had a baby, boy did he sober tf up quick.
I understand why, actions have consequences. It doesn’t negate the pain of those consequences. I’m not blaming her dad, it is her fault, but it still is a heartbreaking reality that she made for herself
Watching this after reading the news three p-stars recently died and another is in critical condition after an alleged drug overdose while she was in rehab. It's a dirty, exploitative business that's rife with drug use and ugliness. As far as Riley Reid... This reminds me of an episode of the '90s sitcom "Family Matters." The son, Eddie, is upset because he's a virgin and his friends are clowning him about it. He then appears eager to sleep around, as to change his friends' opinions of him. He talks to his sister, Laura, about it. She says not to feel that bad, because she's a virgin too. He (basically) says, "You're supposed to be a virgin, you're my sister." She retorts with something along the lines of, "Well, think about that. All those girls you want to sleep with are other peoples' sisters."
I tried to tell a girl I care about for a long time a lot of this as lovingly as I could. But the thing is she has to make the decisions herself so she unfortunately blocked me and all I can really do is pray for her.
@devanov3103 Would you mind sharing with the class whatever you're smoking? It's like you made up some backstory in your head and got upset at your own made-up story. "Annoying zealots get blocked" is wild.
@devanov3103 hey man! It sounds like you are hurting about something. Would you prefer a person caring about you OR a person not caring about you? Simple question, but weighty to understand. Stay soft when looking out for your fellow man!
And because if you can encourage other people to make the same mistakes as you, it makes you feel better about having made those mistakes in the first place. Because if so many people are doing it, it can't be all bad, right...?
lol that must be the reason women encourage other women to be obese with the "fat liberation" movement. Or for women to sterilize themselves with hormone treatments and surgeries.
Most people of today wont look at her story and think, 'damn, you should have known better'. No, most of the people today will look at this and say: "Your family are bigots for not accepting you as you are." Accountability doesnt exist in their minds.
Someone asserting that Riley's parents should still be willing to find a way to spend time with her isn't a push away from accountability. Her dad, if he had some grace and mercy, would still be willing to at least get coffee with his child... Jesus hung out with prostitutes all the time. But the self-righteous nature of some Christians makes them unChristlike unfortunately.
To any lady reading this. When OF was more popular, I wasn’t online and not aware of what the site was. My husband also was very naive and not on that side of the internet. We made an OF to post my crochet tutorial videos, my husband advertised it on various platforms without explicitly mentioning crochet. We just assumed it was mostly craft tutorials, journalists behind a paywall etc. I for one month got a total of $90 work of subscriptions. OF sent me an email I was in the top 30% of OF pages earnings. At just $90 a month. Everyone canceled and didn’t renew and then I learned it was taken over as a porn site so I closed my crocheting tutorial OF but still not many make that much money only the rich ones are a few you see online who are paid to advertise it. The more users and payments coming in means more money for OF. someone will subscribe but you won’t be buying a house in a few months
It really seems these numbers are poorly communicated. 👍 But when I hear about the US and ppl having multiple jobs, I can understand that women in this case try to make any money they can get on OF. 😕
Years ago, a representative in my state suggested a “sin” tax on porn to help with budget a shortfall. The tax would be on all pornographic material/media and strip clubs. When he got back to his office, there almost 2000 protesters and lobbyists waiting for him…all within the time he made the suggestion to the time he got back to his office which was about two hours. He ended up losing his seat the next election. The thing is, he wasn’t trying to ban porn, but tax it. I say all this to say, the people behind the porn industry are not to be underestimated. It’s gonna take an act of GOD to get rid of it.
Of course, even if all the mental stress and addiction, etc. didn't exist. It is still an industry they don't care for the individual, they don't care for you ... And with OF for example being a transnational industry you wouldn't believe what Kind of an impact it has on politics and the Economy ...
So he wanted to add a tax on something already taxed (shooting location rental income is taxed, camera gear rental is taxed, paying the performers is taxed, paying the crew is taxed and selling the recording is taxed) instead of say, suggest churches lose their tax exempt status and the budget shortfall is gone.. But nah, rules for thee and not for me right? I don't think he should have been removed, but his suggestion was rightfully trampled in the dirt.
I’m 24 and completely agree. What scares me is that when the media and pop culture was promoting sex work and promiscuity, I saw friends and acquaintances around me starting to fall for these lies. One of my high school friends has an OnlyFans account and that shocked me. I am fortunate enough to have been raised by good supportive parents that taught me good values. I’m not religious but I definitely know right from wrong. I’m now at the age where I’m starting to think about my further kids and family and it is truly scary to think about how much I’ll have to do to protect my future daughters from the lies and influences of the social media, while also not stripping away their freedom to go online… it’s a worrying thought
If I had kids today in the states, I'd probably be behind bars. I watched how my brothers struggled to protect his kids from society and the left and it drained him to pain. I'm...not a pacifist so I know what'd I'd do without any hesitation. It's so sad that the fear of society corrupting your children is what's stopping most. Man, I was raised by my parents to be a father and husband and im so disappointed ill never get that because there's simply to much against me doing it. Best to just keep my head lowered and mind my own.
Why? Keep them off the Internet as long as possible, so they don't need it in their lives. As a person born before the Internet era - I can assure you, a person can manage without this crap. Yes it's convenient, but I can easily find things to do in the real world to keep me busy and entertained. And I absolutely hate social media, and don't understand the compulsion of modern day folk to constantly be on it.
But why is creating an OnlyFans account not "good values"? It seems like too many people hate sex work just because sexuality is demonized. Sex isn't evil. It's literally the reason why humans exist in the first place.
@@agiksf.8998 it’s easy enough say keep them off the internet. But as a Gen Z, I also see how important it is to know how to navigate technology. There is little to no jobs that don’t require you to go online. I guess my concern is striking a balance of making sure kids don’t become iPad babies while also making sure they keep up to date with technological advances and society. Pop culture may have its detrimental sides but it is also necessary to be socially aware of what’s going on as a young person to assimilate with one’s peers and make friends, otherwise you get bullied, and kids can be cruel. Again, I don’t have kids yet, and although I have taught kids from kindergarten up to high school, my views are just theoretical atm
Great video! This needs to be said more often. "There is no rewind; there is no going back." It all comes down to choices, and people need to understand the consequences before they make choices.
Most of the negative experiences porn actresses experience come from other people rather than the porn itself. If society was more accepting of porn, then porn actresses wouldn't be judged for it. We as a society need to stop being so hateful toward people in porn.
Seeing one of these videos damaged my life for a few months. I was very young. And I now realize the sickening truth. This industry does not care about life and children. The despicable truth is they attack kids with their content because they are most vulnerable. Breaks my heart.❤️
I'm tired of everything we suffer being blamed on things or objects, it's us that is the problem. We as a specie's need to grow up and bring more self accountability back.
I have struggled with porn addiction for at least a decade. I am engaged now, and have had to work very hard to get away from it. I had to get a blocker on my phone bc it is so easy to access, and I had no control. It is a terrible cycle of self loathing and depression. Feeling terrible after watching it, never wanting to do it again, then the next night the urge hits and it feels unstoppable. It is possible though. No matter how uncomfortable it is, talk to someone. Not a therapist who doesn’t give a shit about you, a friend who has your best interest at heart.
So she says she can't imagine having a child ... later has a child. Complains about how her career choice strains her interpersonal relationships and her familial connections ... makes no move to quit the industry and do something worthwhile. This is the same woman who bragged that in her teen years she forced herself on her date in a movie theatre and has had no negative consequences impact her as a result. A man saying this would have lost his livelihood and likely been jailed. She deserves no sympathy.
She says she is in pain, because the world is judging her. And you are the perfect example of that. You are one of those guys judging other people. She didnt said, she regrets doing porn, she regrets all the shit that comes with that. What society is doing to her, only because she is open about her sexuality. Its so wrong what all of you here are writing. You basicly are the reason, why she is ashamed.
She is complaining about bigots around her. She is saying she had to choose between her freedom or be submitted by bigots. And she is sadly saying it was not worth it. probably she didn't think people was such bigots, now she thinks she should have given in to their blackmail, and now it's late to go back, she can only keep what she has left: her freedom.
As an addict fighting this addiction, I can't agree more. I was exposed to this at a very young age and it has since distorted my subconscious intimacy. I have to literally reprogram my brain to break what porn has done. I commend Riley for speaking out on the not so sunny side of the industry and discouraging others to enter it.
Too much of almost anything we human can expose ourselves to, can be bad for you.. The same with food, exercising, and TV. But recognising your reality and accepting it, can help you take the first steps to what is deemed better. That is not always easy
Denmark has freed pornography.. so shops everywhere sell it.. there are commercials with bare breasts on public busses. And no one is troubled by it.. So perhaps the cure is like the Danes do.. ignoring it, even when it is so prevalent because it looses the dangerous or secretive factor. The taboo is gone
I worked with a lovely woman many years ago. She was very quiet, dressed super modestly. She was always very kind to me. I was the invisible intern at the time and she was so encouraging. This woman was not the only woman in the office, but it was obvious that no one respected her and she got passed over for promotions all the time. I never understood what the deal was but I was a full time student working just assumed it was some kind of office politics I didn't understand since I was just the intern. I found out after I left the job that she had been a stripper in our small town years prior, like in her college years, and everybody her same age in the office knew it and it colored how she was seen. It sucks that doing that for a few years in college was still coloring how people were treating her literally years later. How do you ever get away from it?
These people think they are better than others, they forget thar if they do something wrong, they will need mercy and empathy too. They forget that people can change their lifestyle and can regret the thins they did wrong. I hope the people who love her can help her and talk to the ones who make fun of her. This is not nice, she's a human, and she has the right of regreting her actions and she deserves respect, because she changed her life and we are all equal. Help her with good words and defend her. Be a good friend, she may feel better and loved.
The people running the office are the problem, not the stripper, who changed your career to do something more “respectable” they are the ones in the wrong for not respecting her.
This is an excellent example of why society needs to be more accepting of sex work, not less. The stripper shouldn't be punished for her past career choice. She isn't a bad person and people need to stop judging her for her past job.
@@greywolf7577 sex work is not right. But judging her is not right too. The only thing the people need to do is respect. But respect doesn’t mean you need to agree with what she does. Respect is a way of showing the other you’re not better than anyone.
She's staying in that industry bc who the hell else is going to take her. Gotta feel bad for people like her who have been conned into this hellish industry
@greywolf7577 it's not about demonising sex, It's about exploitation of both men and women, Actresses are on drugs as well as the men, People watching it get addicted to it, Huge contribution to low self esteem and depression, Men and women looking at each other as sexual objects, it's terrible
In every literal sense of the word, she f-ed around and is now finding out. It is a heart breaking situation for anyone to be in, but it is also directly related to her own choices which does temper a lot of sympathy.
What a great role model she would be if she quit forever and used the rest of her life as an example, for other young women who were tricked, how great life is not engaging in that industry. I was trapped viewing p0rn my entire teens and 20s. I now always preach against that poison, especially to young men.
Is there a shortage of letters on the internet or are you just an insensitive clod? Surely you agree that Mrs. Cooper deserves to have her given name capitalized.
I find it sad however they usually are told over and over and they all say well I don’t want kids anyways. Yet then later, they do. The worst story I have heard was the porn star whose teenage son either tried to commit or did commit suicide:/ because of the constant harassment from his peers from his friends.
When women say that, they don’t really mean it. Only about 10% of women truly don’t want children and are not going to make good mothers. 90% of women do want to have children but society has bullied them into thinking that career and money are more important than a husband and family. They are told it’s better to slave away for a corporation than to build and grow their own family and generational legacy.
This is a good example of how it isn't porn that is the problem, but rather society's hatred of porn. If society was more accepting of porn, then the boy would have never been harassed for his mother's job.
@@greywolf7577Why should people be accepting of a sick, depraved, perverted industry? Would you accept your child being in the industry? If you say yes then you are sick in the head.
That would be like saying "professional football players can't do any other job because they didn't learn any marketable skills while playing" If ex-football players can find jobs, then ex-porn stars can too.@@earthstar7534
Imagine selling your dignity, letting any kids get bullied into the grave, undermine any partner, make family time awkward.. all for the sake of money.
I actually really appreciate Riley for being grown & honest enough to tell young girls this story, Instead of lying to everyone claiming it’s “empowering” while in reality those girls know damn well it’s damaging to their lives.
@@user-jh7yr6cb2o which points to the ultimate reality. At the end of the day, there is always somebody who will wife them up and as long as they can live the lifestyle they want…it doesn’t matter including the people they hurt by doing it. There is nothing free in this life. There is always going to be a cost. She got what she wanted but she didn’t account for how much it would cost her. Same for the men that do this too.
Dude, it's literally just sex and pictures of people. It's weird how seeing a human body without clothes is so shocking to people when clothing is artificial and not part of the human body. How did something so natural like sex become so demonized by society?
@@greywolf7577 the sex part isn’t the problem, that’s natural. It’s replacing ACTUAL sex and the pursuit of real relationships with WATCHING a virtual, fake mockery of it. It’s proven that pornography addiction quite literally hinders your ability to form relationships.
I'd believe it if jews weren't responsible for early thriving of the porn industry. Just check out the names of early producers, CEOs of studios, magazines, pornstars and sex toys companies.
@@greywolf7577sex isn't demonised, fucking many other people for money and attention , whilst the watchers become addicted is. Many ppl become addicted to watching it, Porn addiction is massive, Leads to men and women having low self esteem, adds massively to depression, It truly is awful, Not sexually liberating,
her net worth is apparently 12-18 million. there’s literally no way she could have earned that doing honest work. gotta love how she gets to sit on that pile of cash and still play the victim.
I was a cocktail waitress at a strip club in my twenties. They tried to get me to dance, but it just wasn’t ok deep down in my bones. I worked the day shift and made great money being the only waitress on the floor in a huge place. Just being in that dark environment after six months was soul sucking. I was only serving drinks and I kept going back for six months at a time bc the money was great. I have seen it all. I am so glad I never danced. I can only imagine what that being up on the internet forever would do to you.
Good for you for having a God given moral code and saying no 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I use to teach pole dance and while it’s not a strip club I saw some really perverse and demonic things happening to some of the woman who became more and more Influenced getting deeper and deeper into it and completely changing who they were under the guise of “empowerment”. I admit that although I never danced or started an OF I too fell for the “empowerment” of the sport. A lot of woman also seek pole dancing as a way to heal from traumas but only things of the spirit such as Jesus can truly heal. At least that’s how it was for me. Once I found Jesus I had no desire to teach or be involved in that world ever again.
@@coonhound_pharoah when the pole is left and right versus up and down, you have SO many more options. Sorry for your ignorance and I hope that helps you thinkadink clearer!
It has destroyed face to face interactions. Many guys no longer willing to take the chance of rejection when they can just slide into a girl's dms and set up a meeting/date. Because who cares if you get rejected online
@@ζεζτζεζ it still is the worst thing to happen to realtionships. fuck tinder, bumble and hinge. approaching women in real life, like our parents used to in the good old days rocks, its the way to go.
@user-xb9fv9xk6n Actually, what you're saying is that "you" met a girl who you are currently dating on there. You didn't, nor can you substantiate the notion that "its working out for a lot of people". You dont even know if its worked out for you because she's still just some girl you're dating. Not a life partner, yet. Statistically speaking, its not.
No amount of money can fix the fact that, for the entirety of the rest of your life, people will be able to see you get used and abused in some of the most horrific ways. Especially when it comes to people like Reid and that other girl who said she had to eat throwup out of a dog bowl. The more famous and successful you are, the harder it is to escape and hide. Everywhere you go, every where you're seen people will point, stare, make fun off etc and you'll also have to deal with all the creeps and "fans" .. it's mind boggling that there are people trying to convince young girls that this is empowering etc. Just a few days ago I saw a short in which one of the young OF models was kinda telling people how much she regretted having done OF and that the internet is full of her pictures and she can't get rid of them because most of them are hosted abroad etc and on illicit sites. So a current OF model at the same table kinda starts making fun of her insisting "of course you can just delete it. I have lawyers, they told me so!"
This is a good example of how it isn't porn that's the problem, but rather society's hatred of porn that is the problem. If society was more accepting of porn, then no one would need to delete the photos off the internet because no one would care about them. We as a society are too judgmental.
As a former OF maker, I will add I did not make this choice lightly, and I did not make this choice alone either, I was incredibly pressured by my former partner to do it. That being said, I do NOT recommend doing this line of work ever. I truly feel like it completely ruined me as a person for many reasons. In the beginning it felt right, and great that empowering feeling described in this video until it didn't anymore. Now, I feel disgusted about myself every day, I feel used by everyone who participated in supporting me with it, I don't look at myself the same anymore. It really changes you as a woman. I don't even feel comfortable in my own skin. I'm currently in therapy for many reasons, this being one of them and I'm trying to work through the awful thoughts I have about myself, and hoping one day I'll see myself as something more. You really can't take any of it back either, you are out there forever even if you delete every platform, I promise you someone has your most intimate pictures or videos of you still, and you quite literally can't do anything about it < this part eats at me everyday. Just don't do this, you can be successful in so many other ways.
Your comment shows how the problem isn't porn, but rather society's reaction to it. You were taught to be disgusted by sexuality when in reality sexuality is a normal part of life. If society were more accepting of sexuality, then having naked pictures of you out there would be no worse than having your yearbook photo out there. You were taught to feel used, when in reality it was a job just like being a lawyer or a construction worker is a job. Construction workers don't feel used or say "He was just using me to build his house". So why should OnlyFans makers think such things?
@greywolf7577 although this may be true in some ways, if you want to look at it that way, but porn degrades women every single day. Yes, sexuality is a normal thing, but it should also be a private thing. Whats wrong with society, is it makes women think this is the only thing they could be good at because we got the body parts to show. Being a lawyer, doctor, police officer, etc.. would be a much more rewarding, beneficial job than being an amature porn star in so many ways. Both porn and society are the problem. Because porn stars make doing porn look fun and rewarding when, in all reality, I'm sure those women are being completely degraded and abused behind the scenes. Society feeds into it by projecting this fake image that doing porn can make you rich and feel good about yourself when really it does neither, and if maybe it does for a while I promise you most of those women will eventually feel like me about it when the time comes.
Everyone has done things wrong. You must forgive yourself, it’s okay. The fact that you know better now and feel shame for doing that means deep down that isn’t who you are. You’re meant for so much better, do not be discouraged.
I have heard of multiple 🌽 actresses who have either decided to end it or ODed these past couple months. It’s so sad, and I feel for them and their families. 💔
The problem is unfortunately not just the nakedness in this industry. Also, of course, the false "wisdom" today about this is if we teach or force every parent to be absolutely accepting then they can go into the industry and nothing will come of it.
@@rievaulxlucienne1176 You're trolling with that comment. Learn what Honor and Respect is. When you do that profession, you don't have these great virtues
You're lumping three very different things together here. No one is demanding abortion be celebrated. Most pro-choicers would call abortion a tragedy for the individual who has to make that hard choice.
Once, my mother told me to model to make money for her, so she could live comfortably. I told her no, because its dangerous and can lead to other unsavory things, like porn and sex trafficking. She said that was fine too, and it would make even more money.
@@rollofthed4742Not a cap at all. My mother is and was a drug addict and severe alcoholic, that gave herself to absolute degeneracy, and my father was even worse and is now dead, as a result of his actions. My parents were exceedingly evil, abusive and caused me immense suffering and handicaps I can never convey with any justice. Just because it seems extreme to you, doesn't mean it's not real. It proves two things. You're either a troll that likes to devalue people's experiences to make them agitated, or you had a privileged enough life, that you can't understand how this could be real.
Shes not just shaming herself she's shaming her entire family. Imagine being her father when this got out. His peers at work all looking at his daughter on the hub. I cannot imagine the disgusting he feels towards her. She nervously giggles to cover her pain.
"Dude, you're a failure... I mean, you know what's you daughter doing?" People usually assume a father could lead his kids to a prosperous and respectful future, not this... What could be said? Karma
This is sad, I first wanted to become a sex worker when I was 14 and then four years later when I turn 18 I did become a sex worker briefly. I wish that I could take that back, I didn't make a lot of money and the stress of the potential of someone finding out was awful. I'm now 25, a Christian woman, a wife and a mom; thank God I found my way out.
Christians are supposed to be loving, but a lot of Christians are "holier than thou". In the Bible, Jesus would eat with prostitutes while the Pharisees judged him, but you have modern day Christians judging women who have OnlyFans. They don't seem to realize that they are the modern day Pharisees.
The fact that men are throwing money at her so they can sit alone in the dark with their tallywacker in hand is deeply unsettling. They constantly need more and more to get that fix. My heart breaks for the consumers and for all the lost and confused folks involved. This industry is the devil's playground.
you are assuming its just men. end of the day they likely live a more comfortable life than you cuz even average onlyfan models can make 30k a month. the top earners make 1-2 million a month. they can get financially free in 5-10 years and live better lives than 85 percent of people who grind out blue collar jobs they hate and have to worry about rent, mortgage, medical insurance, university costs for kids, and retirement. look at amouranth onlyfans model and twitch streamer. her parents are religious but were fine with her doing porn cuz she was making 1 million a month. she has a big house, nice car, 4-5 gas stations and is financially free and doesnt have to work if she doesnt want to now, and she isnt even 30.
Relax.. there's also something for the mommies too. Women holds parties, where they buy toys from a extremely wide selection. It is also very rarely young men and women, that visits swinger clubs and/or strip clubs. Look at it objectively. Some people have strange and bizarre fantasies, that they perhaps never want to live out or know would be a crime... Then portrayed images, cartoons or naughty stories are the perfect medicine. It would be more scary, if those fantasies are not just in the minds of people
As someone who previously had a partner who has a porn addiction, I can attest that it indirectly destroys a relationship. My morals and values were no longer aligning with his and it resulted in my boundaries being crossed multiple times. More relationships would be healthier if porn didn't exist.
I've never been good with expressing my opinions through words so I'm really glad someone out there (Brett) is able to convey this message so eloquently
As a recovering addict, I wish the stuff just didn’t exist. Wish I never saw the stuff all those years ago. Keep the faith and keep up the good fight my fellow addicts.
That’s like wishing you were born without balls. It’s not the internet’s fault you like looking at women, it’s societies fault for making you feel awful about something you honestly can’t help doing.
This video made me delete my onlyfans account for good. Realizing what I was supporting and how it was effecting me I couldn’t in good conscience keep it open
Thank you for sharing your insightful views with us. It's never easy broaching sensitive topics with others, but you bring fresh perspective and creativity to the discussion table. It's disheartening that people cannot grasp the far-reaching consequences of their indulgence in porn, drugs, and other destructive habits. I feel compassion towards those who are suffering for taking part in porn media and indecent exposure. A way to make quick cash will never bring true happiness. These people are on their path now. They need to sort out their lives and decide what is best for them. These industries will suck the life out of you for their personal gain. It's not worth sacrificing your heart and soul for.
Being a porn actress doesn't mean "sacrificing your heart and soul" any more than being a construction worker does. It's a job like any other. I wish people weren't so judgmental about sex. They don't realize that they are the ones causing misery for porn actresses, not the porn itself.
Democrats 2024: “Change your gender, be a sex worker, do crimes” Republicans 2024: “Have a 2 parents household, raise your kids to have good values, do not commit crimes and participate in society”
@@bennyboy776 I can't remember what that term means. I know that cats in the wild only get whatever vegetation their prey has eaten. But dogs will eat more vegetation. I have to say, I am not a dog expert. I had one when I was a kid and we put table.scraps on our hunting dogs' kibble and then we had a house dog later. What I did learn then is that you should avoid food with dyes. I have had cats for 40 years and know a lot more about them. I just don't think that adding a supplement will transform kibble if kibble is intrinsically bad. I will do more research when or if I get a dog. I really want one!
Crusty old Gen X here, I grew up well before the internet, before everything said or done was recorded. I remember in the 80's when portable video cameras were becoming available, though they made crappy quality recordings and were very expensive. I figured this easy recording was bad news, and it's worse than I thought possible.
I don’t know why, but I find it fascinating how people can be told something is going to happen repeatedly, those people going through with it, claiming it’s great and it’s those who warned them who are the problem, and then turn around and say “yeah, it was exactly like that, but how could I have known, I’m the victim here”.
It's weird to think that in the US you have to be 21 to drink alcohol, but you can be 18 to make and view adult content. Maybe as a start, bump that up to 21 as well. I don't think that teenagers are mature enough to make those kinds of life long decisions, and they are easy prey to get trapped into that system once they get caught.
@@mr.s9783 I don't disagree, but it is never going to happen in one go. I think that chipping a way at it to make it gradually more difficult is a reasonable goal.
There was this one OF girl that shared a free few month trial for her channel. So i was like you know what lets see whats it all about. Everything is locked behind pay wall, but i dont really care. What struck me is the fact that shes literally sending all her subs promotions to other girls and 70% of the time the text says "She just turned 18" daily. You look on her profile and apparantely she really did turn 18. A very sad world we live in.
not really, at 18 she probably earns more than a person with a masters degree from a university. she works a good 10 years, she will have a house a car and be financially free. remember during covid when 85 percent of people were dependent on covid cheques? she was probably making 30-60k a month if not more. if she ends up being a top model on onlyfans she can make 1-2 million a month.
@@marcusaurilius1488You're pretty optimistic in these assumptions lol. A lot of statistical evidence substantiates the very real lack of "get rich quick" schemes in life. Also not even considering the quality of life she would live.
@@emalinedickinson7492 look these girls that do it full time i guarantee you make more money than min wage jobs. the ones that dont are just doing it on the side after their day job. unless you willing to support these people, just shut the fawk up with your self righteousness.
You hit the nail on the head with every point! I hope this gets through to your young audience and makes a positive impact on them/ their behaviour. Keep up the good work!
Maybe one day we'll get over the need for porn, but there's so much of it on the internet that it'll take years for people to rewire their brains to avoid porn.
Rich families know their family tree for 10, 15 or 20 generations. And their family heritage is considerable. When I was young, most normal families knew at least 5 generations : grandchildren, children, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents. But nowadays, this has been reduced to 1 generation: children cut ties with their parents and grandparents and will not have children nor grandchildren. They will have no family heritage and will not be able to create and continue a family tradition. A society of slaves.
Mood. I repaired the gap for me, but to be honest I wouldnt trust my children with them. (only 1 half tho). I think it is mostly because most families have so much added stress. The "normal" middle class is disappearing (at least here), others are just trying to get by. It is very hard to focus on your family and technology isn't helping one bit.
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm I think the comment is about how people are being separated and atomized. One person is a lot weaker than say a family. If people have no group identity, no support system then they are pretty weak. White people are being pushed to abandon their heritage because it's divide and conquer.
That's one part of destroying societies, together with ancestor-shaming. If we're not allowed to be proud of heritage and history, it's done on purpose
@@DavidZ4-gg3dmThe family unit is the bedrock of civilization and the smallest form of government there is. People generally put their families before government. Destroy the family and everyone belongs to the state. Karl Marx said that for communism to succeed, the family needs to be destroyed. The early feminists said the same thing.
Mia Khalifa did something similar. She left porn, demonized the hell out of it.....and then recently went back into it. These women are TRAPPED in that life.
@@Aireck174 what, thats news. I knew her activities recently but not that recent. One of the earlier stars from Riley era. Wow. She returned 2wice almost and now she returned to creator herself, reminds me of dahlia sky , anastasia knight n others
4:34 "And she chooses to stay...it makes no sense." It totally does. Her entire dilemma is that she has destroyed any alternative path--she burned those bridges long ago. In her view, she's made her bed and now she's lying in it. It's so very, very sad. There is hope, if she'd seek it.
No they would just conveniently dismiss feminism as a thing and marry some dude they don’t love. They already play pretend so it wouldn’t be that much of a stretch.
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I have listened to OnlyFans girls saying that they can take down their channel and content whenever they want. They don’t understand that the internet is forever.
If we as a society were more accepting of sex, then it wouldn't matter if the pictures stayed up because no one would care.
@@greywolf7577 ok coomer
They also don't understand that their content isn't JUST on OF. Porn addicts will share content from behind paywalls with their friends who will share it with other friends. There's no such thing as "just taking your channel down and it's all gone". Somewhere on a video hosting service or private forum, it's probably still available.
@@greywolf7577society is accepting of sex for it’s intended purpose, reproduction. But it shouldn’t be normalised in day-to-day stuff like it’s becoming. It’s sad that even children can’t avoid sexualised content when they’re not even searching for it.
@@greywolf7577 accepting of sex in what context?
It's not a straightforward act. We have dozens of bodily/neurological mechanisms in place that alter us when we have sex with someone. Women more so than men when it's casual sex cause it elicits oxytocin which their system is so attuned to and uses to bond to their female friends and their babies.
To be able to have a good robust relationship with a husband or partner and then also be tolerant to their children, friends and family a woman needs that oxytocin system in place and EVERY casual sexual encounter helps destroy the pleasant oxytocin response by the woman having to ignore the oxytocin high associated with this fella and walk away from him, delete his phone number and move onto the next f-Boy
Her life will become empty and messed up, if her own infant is placed on her chest at birth the baby will feel connection and the woman will have trained herself to feel nothing and her first feeling about that baby is just as likely to be annoyance or disgust.
We should never accept a culture of casual sex. There IS no casual sex really, all sex is serious
Interesting that the mother was supportive until she stopped giving her money. Was the mother thinking that she was a pimp & entitled to her money? Pretty sick.
Really common in the entertainment industry
It's usually a mother who gives the encouragement
@@pinakidutta2885 I'm not sure about that. Some dads are pure pos.
@@lisapop5219 yes they are but this kind of thing generally happens more with mothers then father
Not all mothers are good. My own mother is toxic and only cares about money. Lots of parents to child stars act the same way. Large amounts of money can bring out the worst in people
I watched porn from the age of 12 to 26... When i decided to makes changes in my life i began by stoping porn and getting out there to start a social life outside of the web.
By 27, met a lovely woman after being single all my life, by 28 we were married, owned a house and had a liltle one on the way.
Still happily married now with 2 boys and stopping porn was one of the most impactful changes to better my life.
It's been hard for me, I truly desire the beautiful and wonderful connection with someone someday, been trying to quit (plus I know it's such a red flag/turn off for women if a watches porn) I will say today will be the last and next week I find myself at it again slippin' up again and again. It's pathetic at this point! 😔😢
How do you stop It
@@yggnggv3519 Though I don't have personal experience with addiction, I would start by reading "The Porn Myth" by Matt Fradd. There are a lot of resources out there, you just need to lean into them and take it day by day. Wish you the best.
@@yggnggv3519 Through will and strength of character.
@@yggnggv3519do y’all believe in God?
I mean, who better to get help from than the Creator of the World?
I used to be stuck and God has helped me out.
As I hear this, it kind of reminds me of what my high school coach told my class: "Being a professional athlete, especially in hockey, football, and rugby, is not all its cracked up to be. You are one wrong move away from a life-altering injury, and it can type-cast you for the rest of your life, without many people taking you seriously. If you go into professional sports, make sure you are ready for the bad, dark side of it." i think that, combined with Hollywood acting, modelling, and this topic, all have one thing in common: people only see the upside to them, and never see the dark side of the industries until that side hits them in the face. We need to address this issue and help people understand both sides of the industry they want to get in to.
I will respectfully disagree with you, if you give your all into trying to become a professional athlete and fail, with that work ethic you have no improved your body, learn team, and getting over adversity, which can easily translate into any other endeavor you choose after.
Indeed I'm trying to become TH-camr, it's really hard actually but that the side of it
I see what you’re trying to say but let’s be clear… trying to be an athlete and it’s dangers is GALAXIES different than porn and it’s dangerous (life threatening in numerous ways)!
A lot of sports-brained mouth-breathers get soo upset when a modern gladiator is injured, and it ends their carrer. They mourn for a person that earns more money in a year than I will make in my lifetime, yet they don't bat an eye at human trafficking. Your coach was wise. "Live by the sword, die by the sword."
I'd disagree on sports. Famous athletes aren't really typecast or unable to further their careers if they get hurt. I'd say that warning should be heeded for the entertainment industry though. The vast majority of musicians, actors etc. are nothing more than puppets for the big wigs and will be exploited for their gain and then toss them aside. A ton of professional athletes find life long careers afterwards because of their work ethic and discipline. Not all, still have to be smart obviously
This is the same girl that posted a pic of her ass on Twitter and said “my asshole makes more than your mother.” She’s still doing it.
She can't stop now, what else could she do? She is tier 1 famous.
@@geometerfpv2804she can stop whenever she wants
@@geometerfpv2804literally, there’s a portajohn in Twentynine Palms with her name affectionately scribbled in 3rd place on the Beat-the-Heat roster. I know dudes who circulated her content and praised her as a goddess while they were on ship. She single-handedly maintained troop morale during OEF, bro 😭
That's why you should never feel bad when these people cry their crocodile tears.
She cant stop now… once your in it, you need to keep earning your money. She’s shared her advice, that is for young people considering this career path to avoid it, but it would be extremely difficult for her herself to leave the industry because her reputation has already been shattered. Take mia khalifa and lana rhoades for example, they are never hopping back into a 9-5 without being judged or hopping back into a normal life
"My mom was supportive in the beginning, she sort of let me do whatever...." - that's not supportive, that's abstaining from your role as a parent.
I would call that: enabling.
And when she set boundaries and stopped giving her mom money their relationship got toxic. Mother of decade winner for sure.
Not when you're 19 and making adult decisions.
@@aerusjokaire5292 heheh, nope. Sure you wouldn't love your daughter, but you wouldn't run from responsibility like that.
Children aren't that simple, to be thrown out at 18yo
@@aerusjokaire5292your duties don’t end when they’re 18 only your legal obligations. You shouldn’t be reliant on the government to tell you what you should do for your child. Parenting isn’t just about providing, it also includes offering guidance and that never ends
My mother used to run a legal brothel. Sex work ruins peoples lives, their mental health, their sense of self and it is NOT a road to go down. Anyone that tells you it's a feminist statement or that it's legitimate work is lying. Even if you somehow can get out it, it is a secret that becomes a lie that you can never get away from. You will quickly learn that people will say that they can overlook your past, but the truth is they will judge you and you will get tired of it. It will make your life and relationships infinitely more difficult.
Prostitution*** Saying "sex work" validates it. Call it what it is
I like to refer to them as "ladies of the night."
She run a place in Moundhouse?
Sex work isn't a thing that's as stuipd as saying there's more then 2 genders
All the other replies are missing your point. Sorry your family has found out those hard lessons first hand. Hope you're able to build something for yourself that is free of that shadow.
I will never understand how turning yourself into a product that others can buy is "empowering". It's literally the opposite.
I know... only MEN should be objectified... need heavy lifting? Find a man, Have a need for security guards to be cut down yo show how powerful 2 attractive beautiful women fight? Dont even give their roll a name. Toss them in matching suits and call them grunt 1-7... Wait theres 10? Who cares? Well only list 7 in the end credits.. And yet KILL BILL was Anita Starkands example before the UN on hollywood objectifying women as sexual objects... in the scene she referenced. 10 men were objectified as props to be killed to set the stage for the women's boss fight...
How many men in Saving Private Ryan were hired to die on screen? Why are there ~782 men being objectified and slaughtered for every fenale to suffer the same fate?
Men are objectified too... but feminists are the worst objectifiers, which is why most of them are Democrats. Party of Hypocrisy.
FOR REAL !
Literally every celebrity's job nowadays. They're a product, a logo. And a lot of them sell their souls daily to stay within the circle. Very weird. Even Bret. Her channel is full of absolute crap, she just talks about any BS to keep her channel going.
That's called a job. You are literally a product, selling yourself to an employer for money.
@@raineetoneme No. As an employee, I'm not the product, I'm creating the product. Has the line become so blurred you can't tell which is the worker and which is the product?
"People treated me like an object"
What a shocker, considering you treated YOURSELF as an object...
When you turn yourself into a commodity, you get treated like one. These girls will never learn though.
Insert wiping tears with money meme here.
Abused Child PTSD is a mental illness.
@user-bt5qt9pp4xyeah but it’s kinda blatant in this industry. Women are nothing but receptacles.
Those things need to be made an example of... Stop the ek0w.
The number of women I've talked to who say porn nearly destroyed their marriage is staggering. Almost all of my mom friends said their husbands came into their marriage with a porn addiction. It's so sad. I'm thankful my husband and I addressed that problem early on, were on the same page, and decided to cut it out of our lives. I was MUCH more addicted than he was, as I was introduced to it super young. But our relationship is so strong now and I praise God for that! I continue to pray for all the couple's out there struggling with this. I know firsthand how hard it is to overcome that addiction, but also how necessary and freeing it is.
It's the hardest addiction to break because it so accessible. At least with drugs or alcohol there's an extra step to get it, but not with pr0n.
@@personnesenki4521wow this is so true. U hear people talking about men all the time being addicted but so do women, I’ve always had problems stopping because it was just so accessible on my phone
I'm addicted to and I've been working Getting away from it for years and damn it,and it hard to fight the In the pulses.and that why I not even go to try and date or marry.
@@Superbatmanbro Prayed for you. Jesus delivers so many from this addiction.
Two things:
1.Your husband still looks at porn but is also still really loving and good to you so he sees no reason to bother you with telling you about it, and why should he?
2. If a woman loves 50 Shades of Gray Novels and enjoys a little personal vibrator or dildo session from time to time, does that make her a porn addict? 🤔
Most men I know would not stigmatize or be angry at their wives for using a vibrator, and reading 50 shades of Grey as long as they were still sexually active with them and good and respectful to them. The truth is women are just way too overly sensitive about the issue and do not have a realistic or fair view of what it is really like to be a man.
I remember a guy i was in a training class with told us that his wife was on OF. He was acting proud and feminist, like it made him look good because he wasnt bothered and she made a lot of money. It actually did the opposite. Did not make him or his wife look cool, he actually seemed like a simp, and now everyone he worked with knew that other guys were looking at the mother of his child on the internet, and he was ok with it 😬 its delusion
That is so sad
Damn that’s sad.. what’s her OF??
@@edicreynaga5368 I was expecting someone to ask. ha ha ha
how can you whore around but judge ppl for doing OF@@edicreynaga5368
While he rolls in money, you are calling people simps.
I was surprised to find out even girls I know have OnlyFans pages. It’s really sad to see the ones who have genuinely deluded themselves into thinking it’s some power move, and that only “misogynists” and “incels” disapprove.
What even IS an incel?
@@mammasrose5525 Literally, "incel" is an abbreviation for involuntarily celibate. In culture, an incel is a young virginal male who is either angry at all of womenkind because none are willing to have pre-marital sex with him, or a more mature male who simply can't find a decent woman to court.
@@SanchoPanza-wg5xfWell the term incel is used for that first definition. A “high value” male is a man who gets girls jumping on him but focuses on his own success.
That’s the lie that’s being told to women. The media promotes this. Men get lied too, just differently, but at the end the lies work. It’s so sad.
@SanchoPanza-wg5xf i am inclined to believe that the label is also self-adopted. It isn't merely that someone matches those criteria, but that they also match the criteria of having adopted the label. I think that there are lots of men who would choose to be in a relationship if they could find one who do not find this a cause for grievance.
“I don’t want it be seen with you in public” gotta be one of the hardest things in the world for a father to say to his daughter
* inserts Brazilian Phonk *
Yes... But also very, very hypocritical of him if he himself still continues to consume porn, so... That would make it super screwed up, in my opinion... 🤷🏻♀️
@alycatgf you're assuming he does. Just because it's more acceptable in the eyes of people in society today doesn't mean that everyone watches it. Some people still have morals and values that don't align with watching porn and that's a good thing.
@@alycatgf he should be cancelled
Then don't say it. What kind of a father cares more about the opinion of others than about his own child?
Not only is it messed up her mom encouraged her to do it. Her mom wanted her money and stopped talking to her when the money stopped coming in.
I’m surprised this part isn’t mentioned more in the comments. I feel like that’s probably the real reason she lost her mom, she stopped giving her money.
yep and that probably a lot of porn star's parents. they're "ok with it" because of the money but most likely hate it. who in their right mind would actually be ok with their child doing porn
Messed up family makes messed up kids
you got alot of messed up things in the world, like alot of pastors and priests abusing boys and girls also.
@@layth6857I'm not allowed to speculate on who would be ok with it because any label I can think of would break youtube's community guidelines
Hard to comprehend the mind of a woman who can post her photos on OF and then complain that she is being "objectified".
Pretty sure someone that can't handle computation such as 1 + 1 would be defined as retarded.
Whatever you do, NEVER purchase porn! Just let it get leaked (they ALWAYS do)! 🤣🤣🤣
Nothing to understand about a 304
@@mrconfusion87so you hate when women consensually post themselves, but you love when they are nonconsensually shared? It seems like the issue lies with men’s rpey views around seggs
Lmfao so true
Your transition into a sponsor ad is EPIC.. Nothing but smooth lines and never skipping a beat. I agree with your stance on this video, porn should be banned.
The world would be such a better place without porn, and I’m saying this as a former porn addict.
Would it? It's happened to exist since the time we were able to talk and record our thoughts on cave walls
@@prodigalbrockI didn’t know cavemen had smartphones & dvd players 😂
No
same
What helped you to overcome the addiction?
I'm a recovering addict myself. I'm thankful for how impactful your content is for young people, Brett. This generation MUST BE kept away from that online poison. You do good work.
Bruh, and harm their health?
@@jimmcneal5292what are you talking about? P*rn is what harms your health,not abstaining from it. 🙄🤦♀️
Porn is detrimental to men's and women's health. It depletes essential gender specific hormones. I was there. It's not good in any way, not mentally, physically or spiritually.
Why did you get addicted in the first place? I never had that problem.
@@NyssaOwenseasy for someone with no sex drive to say
A classic example of your actions having consequences
Bingo
Yea porn has so many negative consequences, it’s just not worth it. However, that doesn’t mean I would cut my daughter off b/c I’m embarrassed to be seen with her.
she's supper succesful, recently got married and have a kid and she's beloved by millions
@@tatiabril-k4hLoved by millions? Are you sure you confusing adulation with love? I very much doubt that up to 20 people love her.
@@AlbinoWhiteGuy No, that's exactly what you do. If your 'daughter' chooses to take the life YOU gave her and waste it away and refuse to change when she becomes an ADULT, then you owe her absolutely nothing. Parent or not. You've done your job and at sometime you have to understand that the relationship will only be toxic and hurtful. Better to separate than continually torture yourself.
“My mom just said do whatever you want she supports me.” This is why fathers are so important for daughters. Men understand the harsh reality of the decision their daughter is making and will try to help her not go that route.
Yeah cant trust women with this sort of thing. A very natural but imoral impulse women face is to push others to do what they have done so that they cannot be excluded for what they've done.
Not really.
@@aerusjokaire5292 Having a choice is fine. Not every single option is a good choice to make though.
@@aerusjokaire5292Your tears too, lmao
@@aerusjokaire5292 I agree with you so I’m not sure what you’re fighting with me about lol… where did I say a father should chain his daughter up and not let her live her life?
As a Millennial man, I wish that porn had not been normalized during my teenage years and young adulthood. I wish that I had never seen it. And it shouldn't be so easily to get on computers and cell phones.
100%
One of the worst things that's ever happened to me was when I found out that porn was now free on the internet.
@@mae2759 I purchased all of my porn. My collection is over 200 hours non stop. It was the best thing I've ever done for my romantic life. I can be, and am, way more picky than before. I only have sex with women who take care of themselves now, meaning, no fat women, no tattoos, no druggies, nobody unattractive, nobody with pubic hair, nobody with armpit hair, and the list goes on. I'm way happier than I was when I was trying to get everything from sex. That's a slow road to nowhere.
This is the main problem with porn it became too easy to get and the race to the bottom of depravity in search of more engagement. "Porn" has existed for millennia because of the desires of men but it used to be images or literature which were erotic. Now it is about usage and humiliation. I also believe there is a "baseline" set as you grow up - in my youth girly mags were the norm, I prefer just looking at naked women but if you are growing up now there are no limits to what you can access and it is helping destroy the man+woman dynamic. Also I've never had any problem dealing with women as human beings because I understand that porn is not real, no matter the actors reactions and words.
@@EndertheWeek It used to be actual slavery.
It is not just porn. I have this same feeling about social media and just having your face out there. I think it is an incredibly dangerous thing to do and should not be done. What people online can do with the information you share on platforms is incredibly dangerous.
100% yes. I’ve learned my lesson. Randomly, years ago I started getting like 10+ fb friend requests and messages asking about hooking up and how much I cost everyday for about a month. Long story short I found out a new coworker that I accepted on fb decided to screenshot my profile and posted it on a weird app telling everyone to hit their friend up on fb for $20 favors if you know what I mean.. as soon as I figured that out I changed my name and pic, removed all the ppl on my fb that I barely knew or don’t talk to anymore. I don’t post or upload pics, and I refuse to share anything of or about my kid. I’m grateful I was never the type to really share personal info, I’ve only ever shared my current city and the college I attended. These creeps could’ve stalked me had I not been that type of person. But I stopped updating my city and I refuse to share where I work or worked. I don’t add ppl until I’ve known them for a while. social media is so dangerous. Anyone can pretend to be you or act like they’re your bff and make up stupid stories that can potentially put your life in danger.. it’s so important to be careful what info you put out there and who your okay with sharing that info with.
Spot on there I think.
Both hijack vital reward systems the body has and break capacity for relationship and attention
Right? And all the smart women won’t have a giant social media following and presence you have to pay attention people.
I agree it’s a safety concern however it has positives to it as it can be a means for making money out of being creative as opposed to doing a boring 9-5 job that pays too little in today’s economy. Sad thing is nowadays the algorithm on social media sites like Instagram, just push whoever’s physically attractive over whoever’s most creative, talented or funny.
@@StanChunghaOrGoHome positives are gained via the negatives of sacrificing privacy and dignity even if the dignity component is not valued by the girl but is the future dignity of a prospective life long devoted romantic partner
People are paying for micro humiliations that these girls temporarily are immature enough to see as flattery and glory
I feel that way about social media, if it went away no one would miss it.
Yep women are as addicted to the validation of social media just as men are with porn. Both can be managed with some moderation. I think if a person is having trouble get rid of either one or both if it's causing that much a headache
I was classmates with RIley. And the moment she ended up on the internet, her entire social circle dissolved. And she went from a pretty nerdy girl with a bit of mystique, to a piece of meat you can pull up with a google search. I would catch her on occasion from time to time at my job and I would just pretend I have no idea who she was as did she with me. I wouldnt wish her life on anyone I know. Hope youre doing okay if you're reading this - It's nothing personal - I just knew what you'd be dealing with long before you were going through it.
She did not become a piece of meat, that's disgusting, and that label only comes from judgmental bigots. She is an actress. It's really no different from Julia Roberts playing an escort, except it attracts more bigots.
Why did she chose porn?
@@mikeydoodle143Ease and or attention most likely.
@@mikeydoodle143 properly money
@@mikeydoodle143 80% of the time chicks go for the money
the rest is divided between attention, fame, daddy issues and a weird vision of sexuality
My dad constantly says that they're going for the young and they want to separate children from their parents. This video (along with many, MANY others) is just validating his point. The only reason this job is being called "empowering" and being made to sound like a wonderful job is to separate children from their parents. The younger you desensitize them - the younger you make them consumers who are wholly bought in to your product - the more permanent the damage is and the harder it is to undo it. It's much harder to fix something than it is to break it, *especially* when what you're breaking is interpersonal relationships. They're coming for the kids. The only reason they're calling this empowering is to desensitize us all and make young people fall into this horrible, *horrible* trap.
I can 100% agree on it being harder to repair something than to break it. Sometimes it even feels impossible.
My mom was a true feminist in the 70s. An athlete, she fought for women's sports, she joined the marines and became rhe first female mechanic to lead a crew working on jets, then went to tackle corporate America in the 80s and succeed without sucking a dick.
I'm 2003 she said to me and my brother "im not raising my sons to be treated like ATMs!"
21 years ago she said that and here we are today. My feminist mother, has never been more disgusted in women. She used to say terrible shit to her 4 sons like "men are stupid." "Men arnt shit!"
She hasn't said anything like that in almost 15 years! Now she protects us a lot. Me, she doesn't need to worry about but my brother, she will NOT support him if he's with a woman she cannot vet. Wish I could have a family and protect them the same. This society has made life for men impossible while brainwashing the women to be worker bee whores.
My Dad says this same thing especially when talking about Trans children. It's a pipeline to p0rn and trafficking
Your dad is a smart man, my dad says the exact same thing!! It took me until now at 22 to realize it.
That’s such a good point
So the onlyfans girl complains of being seen as an object but is oblivious of the fact she sees her simps as nothing but ATM’s. She’s just as bad as they are.
Not to mention she's objectifying herself.
dude even average onlyfans models make 30k a month. the top earners make 1-2 million a month. its about working 4-10 years and not having to worry about finances, and living comfortable financially free lives.
@@marcusaurilius1488 I'm not against sex work. I have a niece that does it. That said, averages are very misleading. 90%+ of OF workers make less than the average McDonald's employee. It is the top earners that do make that much, that scew that average, which further entices young girls to think they will be making 30k a month. It simply isn't the reality. It's the same as when people say average life expectancy during the middle ages was 30-35. That's because of infant mortality. If you made it to adulthood and didn't fight in a war, you had a decent chance of living nearly as long as we do now. 'Averages' are not the whole truth, and most of the time leave lots of important context and information out.
@@SoilToSoul i am telling ya people are free to make choices in life. judging someone is just programming by likely religion to try to control someone and also get them into victimization programming. religion has been doing it for centuries. someone is going to save you. its how the cia controls and breaks people also with victimization and saviour programming. torture someone for hours and then give them some food and show a bit of kindness and act like a friend.
too many people want to play god coming from a religious background. how do you know that person isn't meant to go through those experiences to become the person they are meant to be.
people have regrets regardless of if they are in porn or not.
@@SoilToSoul" sex work". So whoring? Stop with the euphemisms
Porn affects both men and women a lot, but it attacks us more. I had an addiction from probably 13 to 27. No lie, i felt like quitting porn was harder than drugs for me.
For the most successful adult cinema star of our time to say she regrets it after making MILLIONS, says it all.
Thats the part that bugs the most
Goes to show money alone doesn't make people respect you it's how you earned it all does
Only because she’s disrespected. All that money, and zero status
Broads need stoicism
Unfortunately the reality is, hindsight is 20/20. The money can be very alluring in the beginning. But the reality of the souls destroying work only becomes clearer after the years go by. There is absolutely nothing wrong with waking up to this fact after some time and it’s necessary for women like her to speak out and warn off you her women. She’s doing other women a huge service to teach them the truth!
a lot of people don't understand that anything you put on the internet can't be really taken down or deleted because it's saved up in databases, if you delete or take down your channel the data in that channel is already saved up on a database somewhere, you just lose your access to that database and that database will always have backup databases.
Not just that, people can download content to their own devices and re-upload anywhere, anytime.
@@trollking99 Yeah it's definitely more this type than database backed up database. Beyonce making a funny face is on the internet forever but not your avg OF. Anyone who thinks there's all these databases holding everything is pretty naive.
@@phyzzx Agreed. People don't realize that storage costs money, and it's not infinite or free or even feasible to maintain forever.
i have a program that downloads every youtube video I've favorited or liked.
I was so tired of people delisting shit, so know nothing i want to see can be deleted
@@phyzzx I get it, I really do. But you would be surprised what is actually indexed and stored somewhere by someone forever. There's a market for OnlyFans leaks, too. People have an incentive to save it, leak it, and share it because it's inherently valuable to a group of people. In the context of OF content, there is a good chance that it is saved *somewhere* for a long period of time if not for the conceivable future
As a father, this breaks my heart, i make sure everyday that my daughter knows how much i love her, i wouldn't imagine how it is to be ashamed of been seen around your own family.
She made her choice and has to deal with the consequences, BUT being so ashamed you can't be around your own daughter? That's more on him, in my opinion
@@jessemiller3108 I don't know, and i hope i never have to be on his shoes.
you should look up a woman named *sexxy red* she's the new face of womanhood and a lot of young black girls look up to her for all the wrong reasons.
but at the same time you didn't mind watching other daughters naked. hypocrite
@@the_micksjudging by your couple of comments, you are a strong father and your daughter will grow up with self-respect.
Twilight episode when that guy dies and thinks he is in heaven as all his desires are granted….eventually he realizes that he was in hell.
Im 37, i had the world, my parents where always there for me, we had a very cushy lifestyle. It was the "american dream" the white picked fence, the golden retriever, church every sunday. i had it all as a child and into my teen years, when i was 14 i ended up hanging around a group of people, the age between me and them was 5 years. They where 18/19/20 i was introduced to oxy by these people. I was able to hide my addiction till i was 17, 4 weeks before my 18th birthday, a friend (whom im very good friends with to this day) went to the principal at our school and told her everything. I remeber at the time being forced into a rehab facility, and at the time i hated my friend and my family for it. As an adult at 37, im so happy my friend and parents took the action they did. I honestly dont think id be here today of it wasnt for the action they took.
I shared this because of addiction, you can seem like.your at the top of the world and.think.you have it all, but nobody ever has it "all "
@@aerusjokaire5292 bro, a LOT of pornstars have drug addictions or they use drugs as a subsidiary to help produce their content.
@@georgejrivera3388 - Lots of people have it all, they just lack appreciation for it.
You have family and friends who love you. It doesn’t get much more, “all” than that.
Glad you kicked it…
@@georgejrivera3388that’s a really great message! I’m happy you are doing well and you are surrounded by lovely people who care!
yeah, my brother developed a crushing addiction to pill's. It caused him a lot of financial issues. He'd lie about when he's on one, but next moment he'll just collapse and sort of seize up. It was really like that super quick 'I told you so moments'. When he had a baby, boy did he sober tf up quick.
The line about her dad not wanting to be seen with her is heartbreaking.
alot of this is because shes insanely famous. Like maybe the most famous pornstar ever. She will be recognized everywhere she goes.
People recognize her for her work what parent wants their child to have strangers walk up and recognize them?
If you had a daughter would you want her to have done what she’s done?
I understand why, actions have consequences. It doesn’t negate the pain of those consequences. I’m not blaming her dad, it is her fault, but it still is a heartbreaking reality that she made for herself
Watching this after reading the news three p-stars recently died and another is in critical condition after an alleged drug overdose while she was in rehab. It's a dirty, exploitative business that's rife with drug use and ugliness.
As far as Riley Reid... This reminds me of an episode of the '90s sitcom "Family Matters." The son, Eddie, is upset because he's a virgin and his friends are clowning him about it. He then appears eager to sleep around, as to change his friends' opinions of him. He talks to his sister, Laura, about it. She says not to feel that bad, because she's a virgin too.
He (basically) says, "You're supposed to be a virgin, you're my sister." She retorts with something along the lines of, "Well, think about that. All those girls you want to sleep with are other peoples' sisters."
Its a breath of fresh air finding your channel. Hope your channel grows 100x.
I tried to tell a girl I care about for a long time a lot of this as lovingly as I could. But the thing is she has to make the decisions herself so she unfortunately blocked me and all I can really do is pray for her.
Just don't take her back
Unfortunately? Dude, why would you want to be with a person like that?
@devanov3103 youre either 🎣 or 🤡
@devanov3103 Would you mind sharing with the class whatever you're smoking? It's like you made up some backstory in your head and got upset at your own made-up story.
"Annoying zealots get blocked" is wild.
@devanov3103 hey man! It sounds like you are hurting about something. Would you prefer a person caring about you OR a person not caring about you?
Simple question, but weighty to understand.
Stay soft when looking out for your fellow man!
It will always be encouraged by women to other women because it removes competition for mates from the pool
And because if you can encourage other people to make the same mistakes as you, it makes you feel better about having made those mistakes in the first place. Because if so many people are doing it, it can't be all bad, right...?
Bingo
Bingo! And this is how the Matriarchy is run.
lol that must be the reason women encourage other women to be obese with the "fat liberation" movement. Or for women to sterilize themselves with hormone treatments and surgeries.
Heehaw
Most people of today wont look at her story and think, 'damn, you should have known better'. No, most of the people today will look at this and say: "Your family are bigots for not accepting you as you are." Accountability doesnt exist in their minds.
she still does porn dude. she has an OF and I believe films with her husband. accountability and her family being trash, aren't mutually inclusive.
Someone asserting that Riley's parents should still be willing to find a way to spend time with her isn't a push away from accountability. Her dad, if he had some grace and mercy, would still be willing to at least get coffee with his child... Jesus hung out with prostitutes all the time. But the self-righteous nature of some Christians makes them unChristlike unfortunately.
I was thinking the exact same thing while watching this video
So sad how true that is.
Are you saying most people are wrong?
gotta love how she’s talking about it with a sweater that says
*Has Anybody Seen My Pants*
To any lady reading this. When OF was more popular, I wasn’t online and not aware of what the site was. My husband also was very naive and not on that side of the internet. We made an OF to post my crochet tutorial videos, my husband advertised it on various platforms without explicitly mentioning crochet. We just assumed it was mostly craft tutorials, journalists behind a paywall etc. I for one month got a total of $90 work of subscriptions. OF sent me an email I was in the top 30% of OF pages earnings. At just $90 a month. Everyone canceled and didn’t renew and then I learned it was taken over as a porn site so I closed my crocheting tutorial OF but still not many make that much money only the rich ones are a few you see online who are paid to advertise it. The more users and payments coming in means more money for OF. someone will subscribe but you won’t be buying a house in a few months
It really seems these numbers are poorly communicated. 👍
But when I hear about the US and ppl having multiple jobs, I can understand that women in this case try to make any money they can get on OF. 😕
Sad part is OF was created for things like that, it wasn't made for porn but thats what is made the most money on there
Years ago, a representative in my state suggested a “sin” tax on porn to help with budget a shortfall. The tax would be on all pornographic material/media and strip clubs. When he got back to his office, there almost 2000 protesters and lobbyists waiting for him…all within the time he made the suggestion to the time he got back to his office which was about two hours. He ended up losing his seat the next election. The thing is, he wasn’t trying to ban porn, but tax it. I say all this to say, the people behind the porn industry are not to be underestimated. It’s gonna take an act of GOD to get rid of it.
Of course, even if all the mental stress and addiction, etc. didn't exist. It is still an industry they don't care for the individual, they don't care for you ...
And with OF for example being a transnational industry you wouldn't believe what Kind of an impact it has on politics and the Economy ...
Strong Jewish lobby
FUCK ALL TAXES. smh....
So he wanted to add a tax on something already taxed (shooting location rental income is taxed, camera gear rental is taxed, paying the performers is taxed, paying the crew is taxed and selling the recording is taxed) instead of say, suggest churches lose their tax exempt status and the budget shortfall is gone.. But nah, rules for thee and not for me right? I don't think he should have been removed, but his suggestion was rightfully trampled in the dirt.
What a nonsense proposition. Taxing churches isn't going to fix society. Making it harder for this crappy industry to ruin lives absolutely will.
I’m 24 and completely agree. What scares me is that when the media and pop culture was promoting sex work and promiscuity, I saw friends and acquaintances around me starting to fall for these lies. One of my high school friends has an OnlyFans account and that shocked me.
I am fortunate enough to have been raised by good supportive parents that taught me good values. I’m not religious but I definitely know right from wrong.
I’m now at the age where I’m starting to think about my further kids and family and it is truly scary to think about how much I’ll have to do to protect my future daughters from the lies and influences of the social media, while also not stripping away their freedom to go online… it’s a worrying thought
If I had kids today in the states, I'd probably be behind bars. I watched how my brothers struggled to protect his kids from society and the left and it drained him to pain. I'm...not a pacifist so I know what'd I'd do without any hesitation. It's so sad that the fear of society corrupting your children is what's stopping most. Man, I was raised by my parents to be a father and husband and im so disappointed ill never get that because there's simply to much against me doing it. Best to just keep my head lowered and mind my own.
Why? Keep them off the Internet as long as possible, so they don't need it in their lives.
As a person born before the Internet era - I can assure you, a person can manage without this crap. Yes it's convenient, but I can easily find things to do in the real world to keep me busy and entertained. And I absolutely hate social media, and don't understand the compulsion of modern day folk to constantly be on it.
But why is creating an OnlyFans account not "good values"? It seems like too many people hate sex work just because sexuality is demonized. Sex isn't evil. It's literally the reason why humans exist in the first place.
stfu you missing the point@@greywolf7577
@@agiksf.8998 it’s easy enough say keep them off the internet. But as a Gen Z, I also see how important it is to know how to navigate technology. There is little to no jobs that don’t require you to go online. I guess my concern is striking a balance of making sure kids don’t become iPad babies while also making sure they keep up to date with technological advances and society. Pop culture may have its detrimental sides but it is also necessary to be socially aware of what’s going on as a young person to assimilate with one’s peers and make friends, otherwise you get bullied, and kids can be cruel.
Again, I don’t have kids yet, and although I have taught kids from kindergarten up to high school, my views are just theoretical atm
Great video! This needs to be said more often. "There is no rewind; there is no going back." It all comes down to choices, and people need to understand the consequences before they make choices.
Most of the negative experiences porn actresses experience come from other people rather than the porn itself. If society was more accepting of porn, then porn actresses wouldn't be judged for it. We as a society need to stop being so hateful toward people in porn.
@@greywolf7577 We as a society need to stop being so hateful toward people with abused child PTSD.
Seeing one of these videos damaged my life for a few months. I was very young. And I now realize the sickening truth.
This industry does not care about life and children. The despicable truth is they attack kids with their content because they are most vulnerable.
Breaks my heart.❤️
I'm tired of everything we suffer being blamed on things or objects, it's us that is the problem. We as a specie's need to grow up and bring more self accountability back.
Totally agree. People need to start owning up.
Blame the Jews
Blame the Jews
The JeWs are to blame for the porn industry
@@username8644men need to start owning up to their exploitation of women lol
I have struggled with porn addiction for at least a decade. I am engaged now, and have had to work very hard to get away from it. I had to get a blocker on my phone bc it is so easy to access, and I had no control. It is a terrible cycle of self loathing and depression. Feeling terrible after watching it, never wanting to do it again, then the next night the urge hits and it feels unstoppable. It is possible though. No matter how uncomfortable it is, talk to someone. Not a therapist who doesn’t give a shit about you, a friend who has your best interest at heart.
You need Jesus bro
So she says she can't imagine having a child ... later has a child.
Complains about how her career choice strains her interpersonal relationships and her familial connections ... makes no move to quit the industry and do something worthwhile.
This is the same woman who bragged that in her teen years she forced herself on her date in a movie theatre and has had no negative consequences impact her as a result. A man saying this would have lost his livelihood and likely been jailed.
She deserves no sympathy.
I was thinking the same thing. She has a kid, got married and made a lot of money.
She's still making major coin from her pn personna, so yeah
She says she is in pain, because the world is judging her. And you are the perfect example of that. You are one of those guys judging other people. She didnt said, she regrets doing porn, she regrets all the shit that comes with that. What society is doing to her, only because she is open about her sexuality. Its so wrong what all of you here are writing. You basicly are the reason, why she is ashamed.
Was going to mention her bragging about forcing herself on her date and saying he was visibly not into it. She should be in jail.
She is complaining about bigots around her. She is saying she had to choose between her freedom or be submitted by bigots. And she is sadly saying it was not worth it. probably she didn't think people was such bigots, now she thinks she should have given in to their blackmail, and now it's late to go back, she can only keep what she has left: her freedom.
From Teen Vogue straight into Ruffgreens, NO segue at all, just BAM! Loved it, ROFLMMFAO! 😄
As an addict fighting this addiction, I can't agree more. I was exposed to this at a very young age and it has since distorted my subconscious intimacy. I have to literally reprogram my brain to break what porn has done. I commend Riley for speaking out on the not so sunny side of the industry and discouraging others to enter it.
Too much of almost anything we human can expose ourselves to, can be bad for you..
The same with food, exercising, and TV.
But recognising your reality and accepting it, can help you take the first steps to what is deemed better.
That is not always easy
Yeah it’s definitely not good being exposed to it so young i agree.
Denmark has freed pornography.. so shops everywhere sell it.. there are commercials with bare breasts on public busses.
And no one is troubled by it..
So perhaps the cure is like the Danes do.. ignoring it, even when it is so prevalent because it looses the dangerous or secretive factor. The taboo is gone
Shes full of shit lmao. She did that to promote her name. It's an advertisement. Look at her shirt during that interview lmfao
Arguably the best thing to be "addicted" to though it doesn't make sense to call it an addiction
I worked with a lovely woman many years ago. She was very quiet, dressed super modestly. She was always very kind to me. I was the invisible intern at the time and she was so encouraging. This woman was not the only woman in the office, but it was obvious that no one respected her and she got passed over for promotions all the time. I never understood what the deal was but I was a full time student working just assumed it was some kind of office politics I didn't understand since I was just the intern. I found out after I left the job that she had been a stripper in our small town years prior, like in her college years, and everybody her same age in the office knew it and it colored how she was seen. It sucks that doing that for a few years in college was still coloring how people were treating her literally years later. How do you ever get away from it?
These people think they are better than others, they forget thar if they do something wrong, they will need mercy and empathy too. They forget that people can change their lifestyle and can regret the thins they did wrong.
I hope the people who love her can help her and talk to the ones who make fun of her. This is not nice, she's a human, and she has the right of regreting her actions and she deserves respect, because she changed her life and we are all equal. Help her with good words and defend her. Be a good friend, she may feel better and loved.
The people running the office are the problem, not the stripper, who changed your career to do something more “respectable” they are the ones in the wrong for not respecting her.
This is an excellent example of why society needs to be more accepting of sex work, not less. The stripper shouldn't be punished for her past career choice. She isn't a bad person and people need to stop judging her for her past job.
@@greywolf7577 Nuh-uh. Judgеmеnt of such "career" choices should never cease. Society will never accept those kinds of wоmеn.
@@greywolf7577 sex work is not right. But judging her is not right too. The only thing the people need to do is respect. But respect doesn’t mean you need to agree with what she does. Respect is a way of showing the other you’re not better than anyone.
My past doesn't matter is the biggest lie modern women believe in.
Do you watch corn? If so why should any woman care what you think?
She's staying in that industry bc who the hell else is going to take her. Gotta feel bad for people like her who have been conned into this hellish industry
She's getting pretty long in the tooth though. She'd better be investing her money for retirement.
@@SanchoPanza-wg5xfShe's still physically attractive and could likely continue for a couple more decades minimum.
No self-respect, no decency, no self-control, no belief in a higher purpose, no belief in virtue. This encourages all of that
Why do you hate sex so much? A porn actress can have self respect if we as a society don't demonize sex.
@greywolf7577 it's not about demonising sex,
It's about exploitation of both men and women,
Actresses are on drugs as well as the men,
People watching it get addicted to it,
Huge contribution to low self esteem and depression,
Men and women looking at each other as sexual objects, it's terrible
Completely agree,
girl you cannot have self respect and put your body out there for the whole world to see@@greywolf7577
@@greywolf7577Ok, Satan.
Wow....this is so SAD! I live for my family and my wife's family I can't imagine living without them and their support....😵💫
In every literal sense of the word, she f-ed around and is now finding out. It is a heart breaking situation for anyone to be in, but it is also directly related to her own choices which does temper a lot of sympathy.
What a great role model she would be if she quit forever and used the rest of her life as an example, for other young women who were tricked, how great life is not engaging in that industry.
I was trapped viewing p0rn my entire teens and 20s. I now always preach against that poison, especially to young men.
Great video brett. I agree and props to her for making good choices in support of having a healthy relationship
Is there a shortage of letters on the internet or are you just an insensitive clod? Surely you agree that Mrs. Cooper deserves to have her given name capitalized.
“Porn sucks. I regret ever getting into the industry” while also wearing a sweater that says “Has anybody seen my pants”
OKAY
Agreed, though I do want that sweatshirt.
they all BS
I'm sure she's regretting it, but at this point she can't stop. You can't change the past
She probably filmed a scene right afterwards
@@nolifeking9441 She's got enough money to live off of dividends if she wanted if she invested the money.
I find it sad however they usually are told over and over and they all say well I don’t want kids anyways. Yet then later, they do.
The worst story I have heard was the porn star whose teenage son either tried to commit or did commit suicide:/ because of the constant harassment from his peers from his friends.
This is so sad 🥺
When women say that, they don’t really mean it. Only about 10% of women truly don’t want children and are not going to make good mothers. 90% of women do want to have children but society has bullied them into thinking that career and money are more important than a husband and family. They are told it’s better to slave away for a corporation than to build and grow their own family and generational legacy.
This is a good example of how it isn't porn that is the problem, but rather society's hatred of porn. If society was more accepting of porn, then the boy would have never been harassed for his mother's job.
@@greywolf7577Why should people be accepting of a sick, depraved, perverted industry? Would you accept your child being in the industry? If you say yes then you are sick in the head.
@@greywolf7577 bro porn is bad for you. its been proven its strips away mental acuity in both MEN AND WOMEN, we should not try to make porn accepted
These stars constantly flip between regrets and resuming career. Have seen it multiple times by multiple stars who were born in early 90s
Because there's nothing left after you do it. You can't really go straight.
Mia Riley Lana dani aj. All in same boat
@@iamme25yago Tell me you don't understand the female orgasm without telling me you don't understand the female orgasm.
That would be like saying "professional football players can't do any other job because they didn't learn any marketable skills while playing" If ex-football players can find jobs, then ex-porn stars can too.@@earthstar7534
generally bc the lifestyle is addicting for them bc the fast money
Imagine selling your dignity, letting any kids get bullied into the grave, undermine any partner, make family time awkward.. all for the sake of money.
I actually really appreciate Riley for being grown & honest enough to tell young girls this story, Instead of lying to everyone claiming it’s “empowering” while in reality those girls know damn well it’s damaging to their lives.
she is acting LOL
she made that video from the solitude of her multi million dollar house boo fucking hoo
Shes wearing a shirt saying "has anyone seen my pants?" Shes full of shit and did it for publicity
Strangely enough she is married with a child now
@@user-jh7yr6cb2o which points to the ultimate reality. At the end of the day, there is always somebody who will wife them up and as long as they can live the lifestyle they want…it doesn’t matter including the people they hurt by doing it. There is nothing free in this life. There is always going to be a cost. She got what she wanted but she didn’t account for how much it would cost her. Same for the men that do this too.
Talk about an almost 30 year stranglehold. Still trying to work past it and feel like it will be a daily struggle until I either die or go blind
You are absolutely right about this. Pornography is one of the worst things that has ever happened to our society.
Dude, it's literally just sex and pictures of people. It's weird how seeing a human body without clothes is so shocking to people when clothing is artificial and not part of the human body. How did something so natural like sex become so demonized by society?
@@greywolf7577 the sex part isn’t the problem, that’s natural. It’s replacing ACTUAL sex and the pursuit of real relationships with WATCHING a virtual, fake mockery of it. It’s proven that pornography addiction quite literally hinders your ability to form relationships.
I'd believe it if jews weren't responsible for early thriving of the porn industry. Just check out the names of early producers, CEOs of studios, magazines, pornstars and sex toys companies.
Completely agree,
As a bloke I've watched so so much of it,
It rotted my self esteem and added to my depression
@@greywolf7577sex isn't demonised, fucking many other people for money and attention , whilst the watchers become addicted is.
Many ppl become addicted to watching it,
Porn addiction is massive,
Leads to men and women having low self esteem, adds massively to depression,
It truly is awful,
Not sexually liberating,
Fantastic episode. More of these to save humanity
her net worth is apparently 12-18 million. there’s literally no way she could have earned that doing honest work. gotta love how she gets to sit on that pile of cash and still play the victim.
Thank you!
Are you mad at capitalism? She was paid for services rendered
I was a cocktail waitress at a strip club in my twenties. They tried to get me to dance, but it just wasn’t ok deep down in my bones. I worked the day shift and made great money being the only waitress on the floor in a huge place. Just being in that dark environment after six months was soul sucking. I was only serving drinks and I kept going back for six months at a time bc the money was great. I have seen it all. I am so glad I never danced. I can only imagine what that being up on the internet forever would do to you.
Good for you for having a God given moral code and saying no 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I use to teach pole dance and while it’s not a strip club I saw some really perverse and demonic things happening to some of the woman who became more and more Influenced getting deeper and deeper into it and completely changing who they were under the guise of “empowerment”. I admit that although I never danced or started an OF I too fell for the “empowerment” of the sport. A lot of woman also seek pole dancing as a way to heal from traumas but only things of the spirit such as Jesus can truly heal. At least that’s how it was for me. Once I found Jesus I had no desire to teach or be involved in that world ever again.
@@AshtasticAcrobat Can't pole dancing be a good workout? Or is it purely sexual?
Asking as someone who literally doesn't know.
@@coonhound_pharoah when the pole is left and right versus up and down, you have SO many more options. Sorry for your ignorance and I hope that helps you thinkadink clearer!
@@AshtasticAcrobat Good share!
It is fine if you didn't want to strip, but don't demonize those that did.
Online dating is the worst thing to happen to relationships
It has destroyed face to face interactions. Many guys no longer willing to take the chance of rejection when they can just slide into a girl's dms and set up a meeting/date. Because who cares if you get rejected online
met my girlfriend because of online dating
@@ζεζτζεζ it still is the worst thing to happen to realtionships. fuck tinder, bumble and hinge. approaching women in real life, like our parents used to in the good old days rocks, its the way to go.
@@escapedelatinoamerica3480 if thats your take, thats okay. im just saying that its been working out for a lot of people
@user-xb9fv9xk6n Actually, what you're saying is that "you" met a girl who you are currently dating on there. You didn't, nor can you substantiate the notion that "its working out for a lot of people". You dont even know if its worked out for you because she's still just some girl you're dating. Not a life partner, yet. Statistically speaking, its not.
No amount of money can fix the fact that, for the entirety of the rest of your life, people will be able to see you get used and abused in some of the most horrific ways. Especially when it comes to people like Reid and that other girl who said she had to eat throwup out of a dog bowl. The more famous and successful you are, the harder it is to escape and hide. Everywhere you go, every where you're seen people will point, stare, make fun off etc and you'll also have to deal with all the creeps and "fans" .. it's mind boggling that there are people trying to convince young girls that this is empowering etc. Just a few days ago I saw a short in which one of the young OF models was kinda telling people how much she regretted having done OF and that the internet is full of her pictures and she can't get rid of them because most of them are hosted abroad etc and on illicit sites. So a current OF model at the same table kinda starts making fun of her insisting "of course you can just delete it. I have lawyers, they told me so!"
This is a good example of how it isn't porn that's the problem, but rather society's hatred of porn that is the problem. If society was more accepting of porn, then no one would need to delete the photos off the internet because no one would care about them. We as a society are too judgmental.
As a former OF maker, I will add I did not make this choice lightly, and I did not make this choice alone either, I was incredibly pressured by my former partner to do it.
That being said, I do NOT recommend doing this line of work ever. I truly feel like it completely ruined me as a person for many reasons. In the beginning it felt right, and great that empowering feeling described in this video until it didn't anymore.
Now, I feel disgusted about myself every day, I feel used by everyone who participated in supporting me with it, I don't look at myself the same anymore. It really changes you as a woman. I don't even feel comfortable in my own skin.
I'm currently in therapy for many reasons, this being one of them and I'm trying to work through the awful thoughts I have about myself, and hoping one day I'll see myself as something more.
You really can't take any of it back either, you are out there forever even if you delete every platform, I promise you someone has your most intimate pictures or videos of you still, and you quite literally can't do anything about it < this part eats at me everyday.
Just don't do this, you can be successful in so many other ways.
Your comment shows how the problem isn't porn, but rather society's reaction to it. You were taught to be disgusted by sexuality when in reality sexuality is a normal part of life. If society were more accepting of sexuality, then having naked pictures of you out there would be no worse than having your yearbook photo out there.
You were taught to feel used, when in reality it was a job just like being a lawyer or a construction worker is a job. Construction workers don't feel used or say "He was just using me to build his house". So why should OnlyFans makers think such things?
Sorry.
Hope time heals
I have a lot of your content still on my hard drive. Can't wait for you to come back
@greywolf7577 although this may be true in some ways, if you want to look at it that way, but porn degrades women every single day. Yes, sexuality is a normal thing, but it should also be a private thing.
Whats wrong with society, is it makes women think this is the only thing they could be good at because we got the body parts to show. Being a lawyer, doctor, police officer, etc.. would be a much more rewarding, beneficial job than being an amature porn star in so many ways.
Both porn and society are the problem. Because porn stars make doing porn look fun and rewarding when, in all reality, I'm sure those women are being completely degraded and abused behind the scenes. Society feeds into it by projecting this fake image that doing porn can make you rich and feel good about yourself when really it does neither, and if maybe it does for a while I promise you most of those women will eventually feel like me about it when the time comes.
Everyone has done things wrong. You must forgive yourself, it’s okay. The fact that you know better now and feel shame for doing that means deep down that isn’t who you are. You’re meant for so much better, do not be discouraged.
I have heard of multiple 🌽 actresses who have either decided to end it or ODed these past couple months. It’s so sad, and I feel for them and their families. 💔
its called cleaning out the gene pool of TRASH.
Yes It is sad I also saw the Boeing Whistleblower who ended it as well so sad people would do that to them selves
@@James-dl5bhbased
The problem is unfortunately not just the nakedness in this industry. Also, of course, the false "wisdom" today about this is if we teach or force every parent to be absolutely accepting then they can go into the industry and nothing will come of it.
I remember being told I was sexist and insecure when I said women doing sex work isn’t a good thing…welp🤷🏽♂️🤣
They were right.
@@rievaulxlucienne1176
You're trolling with that comment. Learn what Honor and Respect is. When you do that profession, you don't have these great virtues
@@rievaulxlucienne1176 We keep talking about self-expression and empowerment. What about virtue, humility, self-respect?
@@rievaulxlucienne1176 would you like it if your mother was a sex worker?
well does that mean its not a bad thing for guys to do sex work?
its a bad thing for men or women....
Porn, abortions, transitioning
All these things where people demand that their choice is celebrated is all one big cope
Yup, like most of today's 1st world problems it comes to demanding from the world to accept whatever self-harm bullshit you want to hang on to.
The lies of Satan have power, but nowhere near the power of Christ Jesus.
@@georgesaliba8876Jesus was black... More like brown and would have destroyed the concept of America (Us).
I have no problem w abortions lol tf should they be forced to have a baby and then make the man who didn’t want it pay child support
You're lumping three very different things together here. No one is demanding abortion be celebrated. Most pro-choicers would call abortion a tragedy for the individual who has to make that hard choice.
Once, my mother told me to model to make money for her, so she could live comfortably. I told her no, because its dangerous and can lead to other unsavory things, like porn and sex trafficking. She said that was fine too, and it would make even more money.
That's actually evil. Don't ever surrender yourself.
How broke was your mom that she was willing to pimp you out?
Cap
@@rollofthed4742Not a cap at all. My mother is and was a drug addict and severe alcoholic, that gave herself to absolute degeneracy, and my father was even worse and is now dead, as a result of his actions. My parents were exceedingly evil, abusive and caused me immense suffering and handicaps I can never convey with any justice.
Just because it seems extreme to you, doesn't mean it's not real. It proves two things. You're either a troll that likes to devalue people's experiences to make them agitated, or you had a privileged enough life, that you can't understand how this could be real.
@@harsh3948Not at all. Just selfish and a dumb drunk.
That ruffgreens segway was so good i had to replay it twice and listened to the first ad since i purchased youtube premium years ago lol
Actions have consequences....
My thoughts exactly. Hopefully the next generation of women realize this generation's mistake.
True. But hearing that her own father won't see her in public. That's horrible.
No sympathy for her
actions have causations...
@@iamme25yago That logic doesn't make sense.
Shes not just shaming herself she's shaming her entire family.
Imagine being her father when this got out. His peers at work all looking at his daughter on the hub.
I cannot imagine the disgusting he feels towards her.
She nervously giggles to cover her pain.
I'd disown and never talk to again regardless of apologies.
ohhh dude her father's friends know her all too well.
"Dude, you're a failure... I mean, you know what's you daughter doing?"
People usually assume a father could lead his kids to a prosperous and respectful future, not this...
What could be said? Karma
This is sad, I first wanted to become a sex worker when I was 14 and then four years later when I turn 18 I did become a sex worker briefly. I wish that I could take that back, I didn't make a lot of money and the stress of the potential of someone finding out was awful. I'm now 25, a Christian woman, a wife and a mom; thank God I found my way out.
I applaud you, and I hope you are met with compassion.
You sound like a typical woman.
Based on your profile picture, I could have told you it wouldn't work out
Christians are supposed to be loving, but a lot of Christians are "holier than thou". In the Bible, Jesus would eat with prostitutes while the Pharisees judged him, but you have modern day Christians judging women who have OnlyFans. They don't seem to realize that they are the modern day Pharisees.
@@hhjhj393You sound like an everyday involuntarily celibate.
The fact that men are throwing money at her so they can sit alone in the dark with their tallywacker in hand is deeply unsettling. They constantly need more and more to get that fix. My heart breaks for the consumers and for all the lost and confused folks involved. This industry is the devil's playground.
you are assuming its just men. end of the day they likely live a more comfortable life than you cuz even average onlyfan models can make 30k a month. the top earners make 1-2 million a month. they can get financially free in 5-10 years and live better lives than 85 percent of people who grind out blue collar jobs they hate and have to worry about rent, mortgage, medical insurance, university costs for kids, and retirement.
look at amouranth onlyfans model and twitch streamer. her parents are religious but were fine with her doing porn cuz she was making 1 million a month. she has a big house, nice car, 4-5 gas stations and is financially free and doesnt have to work if she doesnt want to now, and she isnt even 30.
Tallywacker 🤣 I've never seen it called that before hahaha
Relax.. there's also something for the mommies too.
Women holds parties, where they buy toys from a extremely wide selection.
It is also very rarely young men and women, that visits swinger clubs and/or strip clubs.
Look at it objectively.
Some people have strange and bizarre fantasies, that they perhaps never want to live out or know would be a crime...
Then portrayed images, cartoons or naughty stories are the perfect medicine.
It would be more scary, if those fantasies are not just in the minds of people
so you just realized sex sells now?
Women are using their toys while still feeling resentful
As someone who previously had a partner who has a porn addiction, I can attest that it indirectly destroys a relationship. My morals and values were no longer aligning with his and it resulted in my boundaries being crossed multiple times. More relationships would be healthier if porn didn't exist.
Alcohol kills a lot more people than porn, but I don't see people saying alcohol shouldn't exist.
just say your addicted to pron and move on because why are you under every comemnt section@@greywolf7577
@@greywolf7577Well now you have. Alcohol, along with other drugs, shouldn't exist.
Tobacco, alcohol & sex are the 3 pillars of what runs our society and we all think it's normal.
I've never been good with expressing my opinions through words so I'm really glad someone out there (Brett) is able to convey this message so eloquently
As a recovering addict, I wish the stuff just didn’t exist. Wish I never saw the stuff all those years ago.
Keep the faith and keep up the good fight my fellow addicts.
exactly.
Are you still addicted or not? If no, stop calling yourself an addict. If yes, call yourself an addict. Speak clearly.
That’s like wishing you were born without balls. It’s not the internet’s fault you like looking at women, it’s societies fault for making you feel awful about something you honestly can’t help doing.
Alcohol kills far more people than porn, but I don't hear people saying alcohol shouldn't exist.
@@greywolf7577its different. Some alcoholics I know were able to stop drinking but found stopping porn was harder.
I like that the title of the article had every single word capitalized. Nice Work.
This video made me delete my onlyfans account for good. Realizing what I was supporting and how it was effecting me I couldn’t in good conscience keep it open
Dog you paid for nudes? With money? Lmao that's embarrassing, imagine not getting them for free wtf.
Good one, I hope you stick to avoiding it
Thank you for sharing your insightful views with us. It's never easy broaching sensitive topics with others, but you bring fresh perspective and creativity to the discussion table. It's disheartening that people cannot grasp the far-reaching consequences of their indulgence in porn, drugs, and other destructive habits. I feel compassion towards those who are suffering for taking part in porn media and indecent exposure. A way to make quick cash will never bring true happiness. These people are on their path now. They need to sort out their lives and decide what is best for them. These industries will suck the life out of you for their personal gain. It's not worth sacrificing your heart and soul for.
Being a porn actress doesn't mean "sacrificing your heart and soul" any more than being a construction worker does. It's a job like any other. I wish people weren't so judgmental about sex. They don't realize that they are the ones causing misery for porn actresses, not the porn itself.
Hearing brett say the phrase 'ran through' gave me chills. Must go to the Bible.
You think God hates sex?
@@greywolf7577 quite fond of it I imagine, but I try to separate Brett from my fiendish mental palace of debauchery ;)
this video should be spread to the world... 1.5 millions for this video is not enough...
Democrats 2024: “Change your gender, be a sex worker, do crimes”
Republicans 2024: “Have a 2 parents household, raise your kids to have good values, do not commit crimes and participate in society”
Democrats have always been shitty people, with shitty values
@@gaminghedgehog6384 well yeah, back in the day they wanted slaves so democrats were always screwed in their heads
Haha, seriously though 😐
And for some reason the one that wants you to have a strong fmaily foundation are the "Fascists" lmaoooo
Whoa, lookout, looks like we have an extremist here! Normal values?! Unacceptable.
You can always add vegetables to your dog's kibble. Just check what vegetables are safe.
“My family disowns me”
“Add veggies to your dog’s kibble”
I give my dog lots of carrots. I think the only thing you can't give them is garlic.
And onions aren’t good for them too I think
Dogs are obligate carnivores.
@@bennyboy776 I can't remember what that term means. I know that cats in the wild only get whatever vegetation their prey has eaten. But dogs will eat more vegetation. I have to say, I am not a dog expert. I had one when I was a kid and we put table.scraps on our hunting dogs' kibble and then we had a house dog later. What I did learn then is that you should avoid food with dyes. I have had cats for 40 years and know a lot more about them. I just don't think that adding a supplement will transform kibble if kibble is intrinsically bad. I will do more research when or if I get a dog. I really want one!
Crusty old Gen X here, I grew up well before the internet, before everything said or done was recorded. I remember in the 80's when portable video cameras were becoming available, though they made crappy quality recordings and were very expensive. I figured this easy recording was bad news, and it's worse than I thought possible.
Great content. Been off it for a year and what a difference
I don’t know why, but I find it fascinating how people can be told something is going to happen repeatedly, those people going through with it, claiming it’s great and it’s those who warned them who are the problem, and then turn around and say “yeah, it was exactly like that, but how could I have known, I’m the victim here”.
It's weird to think that in the US you have to be 21 to drink alcohol, but you can be 18 to make and view adult content. Maybe as a start, bump that up to 21 as well. I don't think that teenagers are mature enough to make those kinds of life long decisions, and they are easy prey to get trapped into that system once they get caught.
They let people vote at 18, which could be argued is more dangerous
Make porn illegal. It’s just prostitution with extra steps
@@mr.s9783 I don't disagree, but it is never going to happen in one go. I think that chipping a way at it to make it gradually more difficult is a reasonable goal.
@@ravenlord4 Push for the extreme and the chipping away comes naturally.
The reality is that there is no effective minimum age for viewing porn. Preteen kids are exposed to this stuff on the Internet. It is monstrous.
There was this one OF girl that shared a free few month trial for her channel. So i was like you know what lets see whats it all about. Everything is locked behind pay wall, but i dont really care. What struck me is the fact that shes literally sending all her subs promotions to other girls and 70% of the time the text says "She just turned 18" daily.
You look on her profile and apparantely she really did turn 18.
A very sad world we live in.
not really, at 18 she probably earns more than a person with a masters degree from a university. she works a good 10 years, she will have a house a car and be financially free. remember during covid when 85 percent of people were dependent on covid cheques? she was probably making 30-60k a month if not more. if she ends up being a top model on onlyfans she can make 1-2 million a month.
@@marcusaurilius1488 Is the only thing you can consider money? There's plenty of ways to make money in the world without selling your soul.
@@marcusaurilius1488
What a world 😅
@@marcusaurilius1488You're pretty optimistic in these assumptions lol. A lot of statistical evidence substantiates the very real lack of "get rich quick" schemes in life. Also not even considering the quality of life she would live.
@@emalinedickinson7492 look these girls that do it full time i guarantee you make more money than min wage jobs. the ones that dont are just doing it on the side after their day job.
unless you willing to support these people, just shut the fawk up with your self righteousness.
The depths of damage it does to a man and his soul is truly devastating. Stop now brothers! It's not worth it!
You hit the nail on the head with every point! I hope this gets through to your young audience and makes a positive impact on them/ their behaviour. Keep up the good work!
Maybe one day we'll get over the need for porn, but there's so much of it on the internet that it'll take years for people to rewire their brains to avoid porn.
Rich families know their family tree for 10, 15 or 20 generations. And their family heritage is considerable.
When I was young, most normal families knew at least 5 generations : grandchildren, children, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents.
But nowadays, this has been reduced to 1 generation: children cut ties with their parents and grandparents and will not have children nor grandchildren. They will have no family heritage and will not be able to create and continue a family tradition. A society of slaves.
How does not having kids make people slaves?
Mood. I repaired the gap for me, but to be honest I wouldnt trust my children with them. (only 1 half tho). I think it is mostly because most families have so much added stress. The "normal" middle class is disappearing (at least here), others are just trying to get by. It is very hard to focus on your family and technology isn't helping one bit.
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm I think the comment is about how people are being separated and atomized. One person is a lot weaker than say a family. If people have no group identity, no support system then they are pretty weak.
White people are being pushed to abandon their heritage because it's divide and conquer.
That's one part of destroying societies, together with ancestor-shaming. If we're not allowed to be proud of heritage and history, it's done on purpose
@@DavidZ4-gg3dmThe family unit is the bedrock of civilization and the smallest form of government there is. People generally put their families before government. Destroy the family and everyone belongs to the state. Karl Marx said that for communism to succeed, the family needs to be destroyed. The early feminists said the same thing.
Mia Khalifa did something similar.
She left porn, demonized the hell out of it.....and then recently went back into it. These women are TRAPPED in that life.
True friend
And there's also that thing with her face mask and dog shit....ewww
Kagney Linn Karter recently deleted herself and I think she was similar. Got out off it but then went back and ended it all.
@@3miL_2012what?
@@Aireck174 what, thats news. I knew her activities recently but not that recent. One of the earlier stars from Riley era. Wow. She returned 2wice almost and now she returned to creator herself, reminds me of dahlia sky , anastasia knight n others
4:34 "And she chooses to stay...it makes no sense." It totally does. Her entire dilemma is that she has destroyed any alternative path--she burned those bridges long ago. In her view, she's made her bed and now she's lying in it. It's so very, very sad. There is hope, if she'd seek it.
if porn/OF disappeared today, tomorrow the female homelessness rates would skyrocket
The guys who watch them would surely take them in
@@Blondie472for a month or 2 until they realize oh this person is awful
true, millions of American women are selling it on onlyfans
No they would just conveniently dismiss feminism as a thing and marry some dude they don’t love. They already play pretend so it wouldn’t be that much of a stretch.
Death rates too. I read an article recently about a famous porn actress named Kagney Linn Karter who ate a shotgun in February of this year.