Trying to conceal their own bad behavior.

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  • @pragmaticpoet
    @pragmaticpoet 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    He makes you feel obligated to give him the benefit of the doubt INSTEAD OF CLEARLY EARNING TRUST!!!!!

  • @WithALightHeart
    @WithALightHeart 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    a need for control indicates a lack of courage, and a lack of courage breeds a need for control

    • @Kryonsmommy
      @Kryonsmommy 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      People underestimate the power of leadership and guidance and opt for dominance and control that they’re actually piss poor at .

    • @HolisticHealing77
      @HolisticHealing77 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      When you're in a leadership role, if it's a natural gift, it flows easy to you. No control constraining and contorting the narrative to fit the reality you demand. Good points, all.

    • @tokiosessions
      @tokiosessions 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Okk; we hear ya, Baby Yoda

    • @WithALightHeart
      @WithALightHeart 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@tokiosessions mfkn wish i was that cute

  • @crptnite
    @crptnite 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    No. Integrity means owning your own choices. A Partner who lacks integrity wouldn't be acceptable to me.

  • @Divinesacredwisdom
    @Divinesacredwisdom 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Very spot on. I have closed this karmic cycle. I have forgiven him. Our soul contract is null and void. It’s over.

  • @marlenemckenzie9185
    @marlenemckenzie9185 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    You described him like you knew him for a lifetime. Yes,I believe spirit intervened and took him out of my life. Thank you, you are a very good reader.

  • @user-j7t8u
    @user-j7t8u 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Lies by omission ... the worst

    • @ninak5124
      @ninak5124 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It's excruciating! Im still learning these lessons, ugh! Im 63 years old, i must be ? Slow?

    • @blaquemoonmajesty33
      @blaquemoonmajesty33 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ninak5124your not slow. It’s the programming from your childhood era. I’m working through the same. As is my mom she’s just a couple years older then you. She has found more peace in her own company. I know her psyche has been through sooo much.
      I do wish for you and her and all us keepers of the womb rediscover we are the one. 🫶🏽❤ make the year of the snake the 9 the year to shed everything that makes us feel lack and return to the rightful position of heir of the new earth. Sit head high crown straight with your crown chakra blossoming.

  • @laurabenjamin260
    @laurabenjamin260 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Huge narc..moving on.. live and learn!

  • @lisawboyle7963
    @lisawboyle7963 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Yes gurl...nailed it! There are two side to his nature ...a liar and a cheat. Boy bye...

  • @ninak5124
    @ninak5124 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Im not taking a cheater back into my life, betrayal and zero accountability, gross

  • @MazeratiMel
    @MazeratiMel 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    He's very much so building a legacy of disappointment. Sad story at his age.

  • @tabithal6703
    @tabithal6703 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I dont know how one woman can articulate I'm such an insanely profound way constantly. I am always blow away by your mind. I just like to listen to you rltalk. Always take away nuggets that have me thinking for days. Thank you

    • @sach-l3e
      @sach-l3e 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ditto 🙌❣️😇

  • @7thsealangelAnandana
    @7thsealangelAnandana 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wait a minute. He JUST figured out I’ve been loyal to him the whole time ? Wow …

  • @minella4105
    @minella4105 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You said it right the first time. Outlook on life. He uses everyone. Might care a little bit for some care a little more for others, but at this point in time he is very selfish. His inner child desperately needs healing.

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    No responsibility for his state of mind

  • @pragmaticpoet
    @pragmaticpoet 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    They triigger attachment than destabilize that attachment... the misogny driven apologies is about the wrecking ball of destabilizing women who are succeedung or are reearning their secure attachment.. this waa completely shown to me, I got receipts

  • @Makloubalover
    @Makloubalover 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s so funny how you start out the reading sympathetic to him and snowed by his manipulation and by the end you’re like wow this guy is a total piece of shit 🤣🤣🤣 I feel this has happened in multiple readings. Thanks Jess and happy new year!!

  • @ChosenCharmedEarthBabe
    @ChosenCharmedEarthBabe 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank u 4 this msg! 🫶🏼
    He only hurts for like 5 minutes. He has known me over 20 years & didn’t even ask me if what he heard was true or not. I helped him raise his son & grand kids. He should have known better. He’s a VERY WEAK narcissistic pathological liar. I do NOT feel safe w/him. He NEVER protects me so it doesn’t matter how he feels or what he says. It’s irrelevant bc his actions ALWAYS contradict his words. I’m just DONE. I know that God broke my heart to correct my vision so it’s all good. God has straight plucked me out of bad situations & this is just another 1.
    I’m GRATEFUL!🙏🏼🫶🏼

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Who ever he mirrors off He blames for unrealistic and imagines she is doing what HE IS DOING

  • @DirtyMoney-Lanier
    @DirtyMoney-Lanier 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was the most accurate account of my last...shitshowship. 😂 You're a very gifted reader. Happy New Year!🎉😭🤷😇

  • @Meesh_Andromeda
    @Meesh_Andromeda 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The way Jess is out here serving facts and truth for the collective is a true gift. I'm here listening to her describe my situation to a T while sipping coffee. Thank you for sharing your talent and magic with the world. ❤🙏🏽❤

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He mirrors himself on women

  • @amydeschampe8077
    @amydeschampe8077 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I make my ex listen to Jess EVERYDAY!! Lmao she's talking directly to him and he hates it. Hahaha he hates to hear what she's gotta say and I ove it. She knows me!! And him!!! I feel so special! 😂

  • @Blb477
    @Blb477 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The shining. I have the shining. The bright spotlight on his behavior was too much for him. He ran and hid.

  • @duchessdelarue5983
    @duchessdelarue5983 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He really did fool me. He told me lies from the moment we met so I never really knew him. It’s ironic he wouldn’t recognize another liar when he himself is such an expert at it. I think I was the only true and real person in his life and that’s who he chose to betray.

  • @HolisticHealing77
    @HolisticHealing77 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I have forgiven myself for his betrayal. He needs to learn his lesson from betraying me and move fwd going our separate ways. The soul tie has been cut. It is no longer in this life time. 👑✨🌌🤍🌘

  • @pragmaticpoet
    @pragmaticpoet 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    He always wants a guaranteed outcome for himself = terrified of rejection, doesn't give a single fuk of what another person wants, makes bi-lateral decisions... oh these people are aleays in motion serving their arrogance, its amazing the activity that goes into defending stagnancy

    • @Bahia-h8d
      @Bahia-h8d 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Brilliantly said.

  • @kathouseboutique1116
    @kathouseboutique1116 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks!

  • @jasmine333-h6i
    @jasmine333-h6i 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    *everything* you said is true. the bottom line is what you said in yesterday’s reading: it’s how he did what he did. he didn’t have to be so cruel. i’m grateful for god sending the final heart break. put the nail in the coffin. up until that point i was overlooking that he blocked a career opportunity from me. my very bad. believe me, never again will i ever do that for any man or person, if done it for family. also in yesterday’s reading, that was the point at which i accepted that he wasn’t going to change.if he really wants to make amends, he should get me back the opportunity that he blocked or pay me what i missed. bc ive been struggling financially. and i now fully understand that giving our positive energy to another brings them good luck. i’d been bringing him good luck and he squandered it. if he wants to be a man, he should make amends, expecting nothing in return from me, and accepting that i never want to see him again. he isn’t serious about his life. one of the last times i saw him, i saw that in him, like a kid in high school. what he showed me when we met was completely different. and as soon as he felt i betrayed him, he spiraled into immature monster man mode - because he could. honestly, i still can’t believe that he was supposed to be a high level soul mate. and all those other people who were involved have no class, they think they do, but they don’t. yesterday, i cried my final tears over this man and have let this go completely. it’s the worst soul mate experience ive had to date. i never want to see him again. thanks always for the great reading and insights. 🙏🤍

  • @Cinnamon00-z8c
    @Cinnamon00-z8c 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    spirits really done impossible when it comes to blocking him off from my energy. I guess he's really a threat for my safety, I do understand their point. I've got no plans to take him back

  • @KellyLuttrell-e4d
    @KellyLuttrell-e4d 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I learned all this by intuition we've not ever met two years my assessment skills are crazy I can read people through texting now it's a trip

  • @Aurorawave520
    @Aurorawave520 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was so devastating to have found out that he's on the DL. I just couldn't deal with that. He is a semi-popular public figure. Believe me, the lies and manipulation are strong with him. There are two faces. The one he reveals to the public and then there's the truth.

  • @pragmaticpoet
    @pragmaticpoet 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Whi cares what he does, its between him and God...
    There is a point were there is no room to reEarn Trust

  • @bradhayescamoman9348
    @bradhayescamoman9348 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Narcissist don't take responsibility or accountability for anything & is sad really.. Doomed for a miserable life existence of alone & stagnation meanwhile others will move forward & expansion of life & success!

  • @menowandforever6419
    @menowandforever6419 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I needed to hear this. You have no idea! Except apparently you do 🤕. My heart is so broken, but yes the divine finally interfered to show me what I suspected and needed to see

    • @jesspucketttarot
      @jesspucketttarot  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sending you strength and love. 💜

  • @mikellaavery
    @mikellaavery 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I want to thank you so much for shining the light for me to be able to see the truth. Please keep doing what you're doing and using your God given gifts!

  • @Mary-790-c6x
    @Mary-790-c6x 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This person was the most sneaky the most unapologetic and would have the proof in his face and still try make it make it my fault as well as he wouldn’t step up and be responsible and work and support us it would take a whole 360 for me to even consider it ….. childlike behavior

  • @bettymarker6078
    @bettymarker6078 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m not talking a cheater back into my life betrayal and zero accountability moving on live and learn our relationship was a big mistake will never never happen

  • @williamquercia7250
    @williamquercia7250 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I knew the whole 2 years that everyone involved was being lied to so no one would care for me.
    typical for a True CHOSEN to be treated....Their Loss...

  • @vvteufelvvsemperfi6965
    @vvteufelvvsemperfi6965 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Lost Me at He!

  • @MzDeeDeeC
    @MzDeeDeeC 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂😂😂 Jess you are amazing! I had this conversation with this a$$ this morning LOLLL I’m dying with laughter 😂 told him he’s a liar! Says one thing and does another 😂 omitting the truth is lying! Lolssss! Thank you 🙏🏽 I am good ❤ I am a divine goddess and will not be taken down by the dark. I’m so grateful for the major lessons I learnt. I have been asking God 🙏🏽❤️ and I am grateful be like you said “he’s just so good at getting away with it” in that sneaky sly voice, damnnnn! Lol

  • @PhatPatty
    @PhatPatty 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Blown a way right now

  • @MrAndersJensen
    @MrAndersJensen วันที่ผ่านมา

    That was bang on. Thank you 🙏

  • @deanaderrick3474
    @deanaderrick3474 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I thank you so much. I burst into tears in the middle because this is me and it's gone in forever, since we were teenagers. It is over now. Omission is the exact method. All you say is the truth, from God too. That's when it got me cause it was God's message for me. ❤

  • @Bahia-h8d
    @Bahia-h8d 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Trust is irrelevant by this point. Doesn't make anyone else trustworthy . There is no relationship between trusting and someone and their behavior or the outcome of their actions , or the choices they make. I accept being alone, I embrace it . That is the only safety I have had .The lizard has two sides, indeed . Evil and more evil.

  • @bettymarker6078
    @bettymarker6078 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Trust is gone

  • @FeliSigagu
    @FeliSigagu 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Spotcon. Thank you for the confirmation and insights. I closed the cycle. Waiting on God for the right serious person. 😊

  • @jaimeeduren1857
    @jaimeeduren1857 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Agree another beautiful reading. I couldn’t agree more!!

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He must work on himself

  • @Stargazers909
    @Stargazers909 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Damn damn damn this is so on fire 🔥. Such a spot on reading! I needed this, every bit of it and it’s fire. Thank you! 🙏🏻

  • @HansKlok-q8e
    @HansKlok-q8e 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nee ik hoef niemand zijn excuses meer. Die tijd ben ik voorbij. Wil dat iedereen mijn leven verlaat!

  • @PatienceLoveWinzzzz
    @PatienceLoveWinzzzz 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s between him and God …. We moving on ❤

  • @jodocherty5108
    @jodocherty5108 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is CRAZY ACCURATE JESS. he had an affair I hope to god he didn’t get her pregnant

  • @motherofsamson
    @motherofsamson 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you
    Yes God showed me
    So good at hiding and lying through ommission

  • @Melinda-xq5do
    @Melinda-xq5do 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My love language is not received by gift given

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But he has an excuse for everything also blames other for defending themselves

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He has No empathy for women

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He is not my job to fix

  • @sherwoodregan
    @sherwoodregan 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Jess. Thank you for giving me peace about what has happened in my life. I very much appreciate you and all you share with us- including sharing your healthy relationship, your very special gifts, your dedication, you’re humour, your beautiful healing essence. I hope 2025 is wonderful for you. Ox

    • @jesspucketttarot
      @jesspucketttarot  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Aww, thank you so much! 🩵🩷

  • @anonyme-ici
    @anonyme-ici 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    just the titles !!! many thanks

  • @mcostales6592
    @mcostales6592 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Seriously I prayed to God and asked if "he is not for me to take him away

  •  8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    He got away with things. Until the day that he didn't . Does he really believe he was going to get away with carrying on a secret sexually inappropriate relationship with my teenage daughter? For over a decade while at the time we were all living in the same house. With our three younger sons

  • @nika21nika89
    @nika21nika89 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Heartbreak from God? Abuse?
    Not my deity. Guides? Not my guides. Like she would want the new person....She is fine.

  • @TheEmpressss444
    @TheEmpressss444 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No more chances. You made your bed baby 🤍

  • @vedideaysenaltunay5641
    @vedideaysenaltunay5641 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girl you areeee just amaziiiingg❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm not putting blame but this is what happened to me with him

  • @awakenedempire1442
    @awakenedempire1442 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow resonating

  • @Cinnamon00-z8c
    @Cinnamon00-z8c 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you only know how much I affirmed to avoid any spiritual contract towards this guy in next life 😂😭😂 and yes my future spouse's strength is one of my most primary req. and he's not at it. May he not come back forever and his house of horror's 😂🎉🎉

  • @morgancottingham9887
    @morgancottingham9887 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jess is da best!!!!❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What do you do when people believe their own lies ?

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you want a relationship with me There has to be honesty I can't build on lies I don't think anyone can Sad situation

  • @AmyYoung-l3w
    @AmyYoung-l3w วันที่ผ่านมา

    I dont want to control anyone but myself and my behavoierr im can i will i am

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Infidelity I'm not a glutton for punishment I can't get involved with Not with these circumstances

  • @Angel-rt1sn
    @Angel-rt1sn 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very accurate reading, his secretly bi- sexual ...I caught him out ...I was very heart broken...I am not interested in being with someone I cannot trust who is not loyal to me...I invested 5 years I to this connection and was very badly abused in this relationship and now I see him as a Karmic...❤💯🔥🎯⚖️👑🔑

  • @shelbystone8122
    @shelbystone8122 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t want an egoic dude playing God in my life to control who I am allowed to welcome, and I’m sure that nobody else does, either. Take your hands off the wheel, please, and let me breathe and live in my own truths, regardless of your intrusions and opinions.

  • @LL-mw1zu
    @LL-mw1zu 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yep

  • @amberlight558
    @amberlight558 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is Daniel to a T
    My ex. Never again.

  • @kittymancy
    @kittymancy 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    23:50

  • @NiN477
    @NiN477 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen

  • @tatOOdLady19
    @tatOOdLady19 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There are differences between a narcissist and someone on the autistic spectrum. That's only benefit of the doubt I'm willing to give him. He must have an understanding of Jungian psychology because he's written about the Empryean. Well aware that there's two sides of his nature, it's all over his birth chart. And he's ruled by schmegs. But he's a male DF, and there's an imbalance spiritually. Asthetics yes but he's bypassing. And a chemical imbalance too. His biggest problem? Is how he seeks out DOPAMINE. A recovered heroin addict, and THAT was by the Grace of GOD, and putting ppl into his life to intervene. But he only replaced one addiction for another. And another. And another.until he added layer upon layer of EGO. So he better get on the stick, and take that refresher crash course. Allow that EGO (edge out God) to die, look into holistic approaches to medicine AND in the spirit. And FFS watch the podcasts about DOPAMINE. Get that shit under control. I'm not perfect, my dopamine comes from cigarettes but I'm not hurting anyone else...am I. Go hermit like I did. Shut out the distractions like I did. He's addicted to drama too. Get a fuckin divorce on the 3d like I divorced him in the spirit. There's my laundry list for ya Johnny. You're 2 years going on 3 behind schedule. But you're not doing it for me. Because you can't come where I'm going. You knew back in 98 that the only one who could save you...was you. So...get to work. Because if you can't become a version of your authentic self, or at least Try do the shadow work? Then what's left to say. He'd say you want me to give everything up for you and to that I'd say No. Give it all up for You.

  • @Faith-gr8ig
    @Faith-gr8ig 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    If You Drink From Every Cup Handed To You
    You Won't Know Who Poisoned You 🤔
    FreeWill Is A GodGiven Gift
    Use it
    Lose It
    Or Let Others Abuse It
    You Are Still Held Accountability
    All Actions & Non Actions
    Have Consequences
    Be Wise Clean Up Your Lies 🤔
    Step Up Or Step Aside
    😉 🙏 ♥ XX ⚖ 10 10 🌟 🕯 🌹 🔹 ☯ 🕊 🔥 🖋

  • @SlatherBird
    @SlatherBird 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @judesmith4941
    @judesmith4941 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💕 ☮️🕊️🛐love peace healing prayers. Door🚪 locked shut🧱

  • @WithALightHeart
    @WithALightHeart 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    yeeeeeup

  • @janhirahara9001
    @janhirahara9001 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🎈🎊HappyNewYear🎊🎈 🫡Ty 🙏♥️♥️♥️🌹Jess🌹💐🔮🦄☮️💜💜💜💯❣️

  • @KellyLuttrell-e4d
    @KellyLuttrell-e4d 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    L🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @getoffmypage1111
    @getoffmypage1111 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mannnnnnnnnnn

  • @saraseavin7240
    @saraseavin7240 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    At leaat i got a warning this time