The Pain of a spouse leaving....But promise comes after
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- Pain happens when we are face to deal with a spouse who is leaving or has already left the home. Yes, there are days where we ball and cry and feel like we are all alone and no one understands. Well first let me tell you tat you are not by yourself and next, after some time has passed there is promise on the other side if you allow God to handle it.. Let's dive in to todays discussion.
We all hope say , "till death due us part", but what happens when the winds come, the storm grows and the water becomes a tsunami? Well, that is even a better time to trust God and depend on him in all things....
The challenges do come and we must all be able to find the thing that keeps us bound together as one. After all we promised before God, not just the people, but God and only him is it our job to please. While yes we wait for the prodical to come home, do we also allow God in his fulness to father us along the way.
Be encouraged..
An UnCommon Love
More available resources and links to help your stand...
link from the Restoration Marriage Ministries podcast where we were asked to be guests.
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"WOP" Woman of Purpose link (Adrienne is guest speaker)
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Also, from the prodical side, there is a series of "Restoration of a man" on the imdealingwith podcast. This is where Shon quickly and transparently goes through the process of leaving home and God returning him back to the fold.
The links for "Restoration of a Man" series on ImDealingWith
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I've been through this "PAIN!"..my husband made another family with his mistress and I ended up divorcing him..but I still continued to stand! For some reason I couldn't shake the love I had for him! I was charged by God to continue to pray, fast and seek him on my ex husband behalf! 🤦🏾♀️😅🙌🏾now I know the reason why,and it wasn't just for him but also for me! Hallelujah!! We remarried and have been together 17yrs & counting!!!🙌🏾 I know this is the will of God concerning this marriage! I'm stronger than ever, due to this process!!
Yes, yes.... It may be a process, BUT GOD... 💯
Wow!!
Amen! Amen! Amen! To God be the glory!
Wooooaaaaw! This is so much encouraging for me
I identify with your story 8 years standing while my spouse left me for the other woman and their 2 children divorced now 2 years he filed i still wish to reconcile I pray daily but still not movement from him to come home other woman finances his every whim. After 26 years I just can't walk away from wanting restoration
My husband, Rakesh walked away on November 12,2022. He has already filed for divorce and doesn’t want to reconcile. He is an unbeliever but I am standing and not letting the enemy win. I am standing on Ezekiel 36:26-27. Please keep us in your prayers.
Praying!
Communication was a huge factor in our marriage breaking, and God Communication is GOING to be the reason we get restored!
Same here!! 🙏
Same😔
Amen!
Thank you for this! I found this video because I am a stander. My husband left and he’s dealing with his own issues. Please keep me in prayer
I cried everyday for my marriage to restore and my husband to go bk to God...right now he's with the ow...who have him under a spell...it so painful but I know God will restore what was taken from me even better than before...because I trust for everything..and God promises are true 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Let Pray for each Other, my husband is under a Spell to 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🛡⚔🥾🎯
I’m sorry for your pain. I understand. Praying for you. Your husband is coming home I declare and decree in Jesus name
Time, rest in Jesus, bless you my beautiful sister.
Amen! I stand in agreement with you.
It is so WONDERFUL to hear someone finally teaching the truth about the permanence of marriage until death. Thank you.
Amem !God word is true concerning marriage it's for life 1 man 1 woman to death do us part !
🔥🔥🔥 c’mon and tell the truth about the permanence of marriage!!!! The Lord gave me 1 Corinthians 7:11 very early on and made it clear he would never give me another spouse for as long as my husband lived! So much goodness in this whole message love how you said what is seen now is only TEMPORARY!!!! 2 Corinthians 4:18 we need to focus on what’s eternal!
“But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband. But if she does leave him, let her remain single or else be reconciled to him. And the husband must not leave his wife.”
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 NLT
Yhaaaaaz sis, yhaaaaaz.... Thank you so much for your continued support... Keep us in prayer as we continue to pray for you.
Amen those that left gonna get God curse because it's written on 1 Corinthians 7:10 stay blessed
This is crazy! I have a prayer book I read with Scripture and I always read it and this just recently stood out to me. I feel God highlighted what is seen is temporary, what is unseen lasts forever and that came with the understanding that when HE fixes it it will be forever! What we tried to do all these years without Him first will be fixed only by Him. Awesome!
Amen, I am still standing Supernaturally for the restoration of my marriage. I'm 1 year and 2months in my stand. I trust God! Ed and Wumi will be restored in Jesus name!
BEAUTIFULLY BROKEN AND RESTORED!🙌🏽 I love this because you all have done the work to serve as vessels for GOD’s divine healing to be displayed. May your love for HIM and one another continue to shine bright through your sharing of your story. GOD bless you both. May HE continue to help you grow and serve. Big hugs! Much love.
I can relate to this pain. I asked God what did he want me to do and he would never tell me to stop standing for marriage. He told to keep being a woman of God and to keep being his wife. I’m still standing. It’s painful but I’m still standing
Keep Standing I am standing with you 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
👰👰👰👰My marriage can be restore and heal with forgiveness and LOVE covers ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
Amen! While standing for my marriage (a second time) it has brought me closer to Jesus. He is my first love & I can love my husband sacrificial just like Jesus loves us. This is all for His Glory!! I am waiting for my suddenly In Jesus Name! 🙌🙌 Thank you both…This is so worth it and my stand pleases The Lord. 💛
Standing is excruciating at times. It’s especially hard when they come and go and God tells you to continue to pray for them. Glad to see and hear your restoration story! 🙏🏾💗
Prayers for my unsaved spouse who left a year ago and has now decided to move on with someone else. Need some believers to stand in agreement with me for his salvation. Thank you! Love your testimony and fire. it was super encouraging and exactly what I needed to hear.
Keep standing my friend! There's lots of standing groups on facebook, as well as other websites with standing resources. My wife started an affair and divorced me to chase another man, TWICE, but I will stand forever!
Can you make a video where hubby explains that process of realizing he still loved/missed wife and how and when he began to come down from the illusion that the counterfeit was not really what he thought he wanted.
Hmm now that's a thought.. 😁
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Is this video something you would recommend I send to my husband? I gave sent him other things abd he would promise to read them and let me know. But I don't think he even listened to or read them. There is an OW who he moved in with the day he left. That was 13 months ago. I've been standing for that time, at least. I also thought he wS going through a mid-life crisis. He would not talk to me about anything that was on his mind. In 2020 I told him that he doesn't have to tell me what is going on with him but to know that I am I have enough live to see us through this.
Every time I try to talk about us, he seems further away. So I decided to go silent and let God answer. If ge emails me, I answer. If I email him, he answers, unless it has to do with us or him. Then he just ignores me.
Sorry for the typos. I can't seem to find edit to correct them. Hopefully you understand what I mean wherever a typo occurred.
This was definitely CONFIRMATION of what I was talking about yesterday and what I have been feeling!! God will speak to us and get a message across any way he can! That small still voice! I heard and hear you Lord! Loud and clear! I will continue to “Be Still” because, I know that you are God!! Have your way with my marriage, me as an individual and with my husband as an individual! Do your “New Thing” Lord and fill me up while you are preparing US. In Jesus Mighty Name, Amen!
Thank you guys so much I really appreciate your testimony and Godly advice… I as a husband that is standing will keep standing and I told God not only do I want my wife back because of her presence and time and intimacy and all the things that come with marriage .. but God there are a lot of women that are standing for there marriages and you barley see men , God you need more men out here also to show others how to stand ..so I ask the lord to send me as a man to also help standers that are husbands and of course I can help wife’s too .. I’ve already started my TH-cam channel and to encourage others while I’m still in this showing God I have faith that I know he will come through but thank you all and I can’t wait for me and my wife to tell our testimony together like you two have done 🙏🏿👍🏿
Amen I pray God open up doors for you to tell your testimony and allow you to build a ministry for men to stand because they need it also. The grass is not greener on the other side. It truly is a lie from the enemy. Praying God fulfill you desire and restore your marriage as I know He will.
Hey Curtis, let's link up soon and do a podcast (youtube) where we both can put on our channels. There are many men standing as well that need an outlet. My personal is "Imdealingwith" here and on every podcast platform.. Reach out to me on the Imdealingwith IG, FB or via email @imdealingwith@gmail.com. I believe this could be epic..Lokk forward to hearing from you.
There are MANY men standing my brother, but in typical fashion we don't express it as much as or female counterparts (unfortunately). The pain is real and very uncomfortable, I'm praying that bitterness doesn't take root and that I remain in the fight instead.
Hi Curtis, how are you doing? and are you still on the battlefield standing? God Bless you.
I pray and hope my husband will come to his senses 😢 he’s filed and think’s exactly what your saying and I believe it can be fixed
Marriage is for life and if it doesn't work out one has to remain single or reconcile. It's a lost biblical truth But even Jesus said " many will not except it." Blessings to you💕👊
Love covers a multitude of sins! Love keeps no record of wrong doing! My family is healed and restored in Jesus name
I THANK YOU….
I just bowed and prayed as you prayed. It’s been 4 months… I think he’s about to come home now. But not sure.
Praying God will Humble him…
Jesus is about to come and take his people home!
He is back home
I wanted to come home I knew God put all those feelings in my heart but he still didn’t wanted me back… I know I mess up leaving and talking to someone else but I snap out of it and wanted my family. Pray for my family for restoration please. The enemy is busy with marriages…
I have been through this so much with my husband. He has mental illness and keeps going through this cycle. Every time he has left God connects me to a ministry of standers so I know that God wants me to continue to stand for his soul. It's painful but I ask God to give me the grace to go through it
The Lord completely delivered me from very debilitating mental illness. Completely. Does your husband know Christ. If so, there's hope.
Excellent words of encouragement
@@danilaroche1156 ,he is backslidden and has connected to the Muslim community and now is living this lie. He has connected with another woman through this dec deception. It's very painful
Hello, I wanted to share i too have experienced my husband leaving for 10 months, as of recently he called and we have been talking for almost a week. He has shared the exact reasons for leaving such as your husband, basically saying he was checked out, where do we rebuild recover from here, he wants to see me next week
The most important thing is to listen and only respond to the statements or questions. The next thing is to enjoy the moment and not have so many questions that would cause him to retreat. Last but not least but first, pray for direction and peace during this process. Enjoy the time and we will be praying for you.. 🙏
OMG!!! My husband left Sept 24! I can so relate to this video!! Please pray for my husband!
Stand strong...🙏
Please pray for my Marriage to be restored. Y’all are definitely an inspiration to me.
Coming back because this still helps me ❤❤❤❤❤
Amen! My fiancé has hardened his heart and said we are done, but I feel him wavering. I am praying, standing and working on myself to be a changed woman no matter what happens. I’m going to stand, though, bc I feel God calling me to even though everyone says it’s not worth it. Hallelujah ❤
Love Love how y’all are ministering and it’s refreshing to see a couple that came out! I envision my wife and I doing this!! Expecting great things!
My husband has been gone for almost 1y r and it is our 2yr anniversary the end of August. I am standing on all of God promises for restoration in my marriage, my husband is dating another woman and women. I am hurting so bad, please pray for me.
Awsome!Preach the permanence of marriage God's word is true.I love everything thats been said.There is nothing to Hard for God. Yes a husband is the umbrella for the family Awesome !God's heart is reconciliation Awesome testimony
These messages and videos are so encouraging. I'm husband who's been standing 9months. My wife is still in the house but we have been disconnected. She is threatening to move out soon because I wont leave. She has said numerous times I'm not in love with you anymore and don't want this marriage. But I know there is another man. She claims he has nothing to do with us not being together. I'm still leaning in God's promises. Even though she has stop going to church. I'm still going and believing that God will still do what he says he will. I'm full persuaded what he has promised he will perform it.
REPLAY 🔥 exactly 💯 👌 🤣 🙌 i didn't take of my relationship with my husband and listen to my husband my king❤ LORD heal my king heart❤ replay 2024
Your analogy of the grass with marriage is So powerful. Preach………….
I used to tell my beloved we were on the same team. I wasn’t his enemy. I don’t think there was anything that made him madder. After that, I just communicated that to God. Still believing in a miracle in this.
Thank You so Much. My Husband (Still Married) left 14 Months ago. Divorce will be coming up in a few months. He was still living with us for 2 years separated in the house. He was done, even when he was still living with me and the 2 girls... He never changed his mind. Left and broke all communication with us.. His Girls is 16 and 18 No contact. No visits no phone calls. WE recently discover he moved in with a other lady and her kids. Doing all the stuff with them and not with US or his Girls. So Yes I have stand for MY marriage But don't have confirmation that God will restore of even want us together. The damage is so big.. But God will help me maybe sent me someone .. All my friends are divorce. They say there is life after divorce. I don't know of any of my friends marriage that have being restored..
We will reach out to you... Email us at anuncommonlove@gmail.com or DM on our IG @anuncommonlove2021
I Appreciate you two very much. Thank you for sharing your story ☺️
God bless you both ❤
I bless your marriage, i'm standing Ford My wife, it's been almost 5 years, i got deported to México, and that contributed to destroite My marriage, please pray for me so i can get My residence and come back to California, i'm in México now and mi familia is i'm California. It's been so hard 🙏🌷🌷🌷🌺🌺
Demand the release of the captivity of your husband from Babylon
Amen he will return in Jesus name I pray amen 🙏🏼
He will Return Soon ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
This is confirmation! Thank you for your obedience!
I am still standing firm after almost 5 years. God’s gonna do it.
💞💞💞💞💞LOVE COVERS♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
14:37 it is too much at this point. It doesn’t seem worth it anymore, BUT GOD. I’M STILL GOING
I just found out my wife is having an affair so I asked her to either stop and start working on our marriage or leave yesterday. She said she will be out in 30 days. I told her that one day I hope she changes her mind because I am willing to be all in. It breaks my heart, but I really do hope she chooses to come home one day because I love her unconditionally.
Good video. I’m a standing husband. My wife is who “left” and filed for divorce. I dealt with hearing separation and divorce just about every other week. It sucks because she also entered another relationship before we divorced and had this at first emotional affair when we were trying to work on things well now I know it was just me trying on my own. Tough because she talks about all the time of her relationship with God and how much she prays but to me obviously she doesn’t trust God and not reading God word as her actions shows it’s her will first and not Gods. I resonate with sometimes God get us here so we can turn to him. During this time I’ve been urgent in growing my relationship with God and growing in Christ. I love my wife and forgive her and I know I’m not free of fault I have my own faults and got bitter in marriage because I felt I constantly was forgiving but my wife would never forgive me for what I thought the smallest of things. I believe still God will restore my family. We both came from broken homes and my children and children children will not experience the same…in Jesus name.
Stay encouraged and know you are not alone, God is going to get the glory out of this. Remember he knows our end from the beginning, all we have to do is trust him in it all and go through, not stay in bit go through. "For faith is the substance of things hoped and the evidence of things not seen" watch him work..We are here for you🙏
@@anuncommonlove1112 thank you 🙏🏾
Do pray for me n ma gf help us reconcile n renew our love with God she told me that there is no more love for her but I don’t believe her I know that God is testing me n please do pray for her dads health .Amen
My husband never left his parents. He wanted their approval more than Gods approval.
We divorced as my husband and his parents wanted a divorce. I would not bow to my husbands parents. I only serve one God. The living God and my husbsnds served his parents. They served divorce papers on me happily. No care, no concious but they still call themselves Christians. We cannot change peoples free will. I am dvorced not because I wanted it but my husband and his parents wanted it
Be encouraged and continue to trust the Lord.. 🙏
My story is similar to yours my husband is more into his family i meant blood relationship and call themselves born-again Christians. We stay with his parents. His parents decides every aspects of our lives God doesn't have any place in their home but yes night time we have a family prayer time but they are much into worldly ways. My husband was working in a different state me and our child were staying in my parents house when he came back he came to take us due to the mental torture of my in-laws i didn't go with him to my in-laws house. They forced him to divorce me and now we are in the process of divorce our Church asked us to live seperately from his parents home but he doesn't want it. I told him my marriage is a covenant and I won't divorce as the law in India is different I have to contest it. I am standing and fighting for my marriage I believed in God twice he decided to divorce me and in both time he had accidents this is the 2nd time. He is begging me to divorce mutually. Asking prayers for marriage restoration...
I am grateful for this testimony. This kept coming up in my feed. I heard your restoration story last summer and it brought me to tears of joy. You have the same wedding date as we do. Standing with an in home is a tormenting experience. But God 🥹 talks to me every day. This post is His continued conversation with me. Thank You for being here and present for all of us journeying to restoration. The Spirit of God is definitely upon you two, to proclaim good tidings to the meek, He hath sent you to bind up the broken-hearted. I am so thankful to God for his mighty hand and grace and mercy on our families. I am thankful to God for ending the rebellion that is going on world wide. The movement to stand is already opening the eyes of many people and spiritual leaders that are able to counsel broken families. This ministry is an encouragement to us all. Blessings and praise to our Creator for you two and your restored covenant
Bless you... Stay encouraged🙏
My husband left today but I’m at peace because I did all I could to make it work. I have a child from a previous relationship and share no kids together. This is his second time leaving and I don’t want to continue this pattern. I release him to God and want Gods will to be done. He has unforgiveness towards me, pride, arrogance. He specifically told me his mother will always come before me. When is enough enough? How can I stand for my marriage when he’s not trying and he don’t want it? It’s exhausting
Please include my marriage and family in your prayers. Thank you
Great job on your channel keep up the good work. Your testimony is very encouraging and it's giving me strength to stand.
What do you do why your spouse says “ it’s to much God? That blew me away! All I could say was” well, praise the lord. The moment I told my H that God is my life, it’s my lifestyle he cheated a few weeks later. Talk about Warfare!
The Bible says, "no weapon formed against me shall prosper", it didn't say they won't be formed, just that it won't prosper. The enemy would have you think that you've been left alone, by yourself, discouraged and to the point you throw in the towel. "the blood of Jesus against him"... Continue to trust God and stay encouraged, you are definitely not alone.. God has you.. 🙏
Thank you! This is so heavy, but I know it’s worth it.
Hallelujah! 🙌 I’m all kinds of fired up! I’ve been standing for 12 years & I’ve been claiming the promises from the word of the Lord and especially been standing on Ezekiel 36 as that’s the promises the Lord has given me and I’m watching those promises unfold in my dear prodigal husband’s life and it’s so exciting to stand back & watch the Lord move in His time & in His way!
Thank you dear people for sharing your story & giving hope to those who have lost hope. I believe God is making beauty out of our ashes and one day soon the Lord will use our story to bring Him glory. I can’t wait!!! 🙏❤️🙌🙌
Wow 12 years!?? God is good
I am a stander my husband and i have been married for almost 13 yrs we have no kids together he brings that up his heart is so hardened towards me is there still hope i need a answer help me 16:01
Admitting to your faults is real. I'm a standard and I'm yet standing. Pride has a hold of some of our spouses. Yes I keep saying that I am not my husband's enemy. In fact I am the one who loves you more than you're ever know,.praying on your behalf.. I am waiting, prepared and praying because whatever it is has to be broken and killed.
My husband left 4 months ago and move on I am Pregnant with our 5th child this is so painful and the length scares me so much. we were together for 16yrs I cant even believe this is my life right now
"having done all to stand, stand" Be encouraged and know you are not alone.. If you need to talk, use our IG or email us..
Be blessed 🙏
I remarried, he did not. I wish I new about standing before we divorced. 😢
Feels like I messed up my life.
Trust God, but once you know and understand what the Bible says, we are accountable to what we know moving forward...."Shall we stay in sin, God forbid"
We wish you Gods blessings in your next step...
What pain an adult causes the whole family.i cant even believe it all. Its how the upbringing was too. For the kids its too painful. To live on this earth is painful.
It is the price we pay when getting outside of Gods will and we begin to effect other people from within and without the relationship. Thanks be to God that he always provides a way of escape through repentance, turning from our wrongful acts and relying solely on him (God).
I definitely have hardened my heart toward my spouse, and I have always been the one throwing in the towel and walking away; causing pain to our son, and spouse as well. It’s definitely selfish motives, just wanting “peace,” but God has said it’s not good for man to be alone. I have a God ordained covenant created, but me walking away would make me a Wayward woman. My love and trust for God is the reason why I stay because he’s asked me too. Plus God has asked me to trust him during our process of healing and restoration. Not walking away truly is hard, because the majority of the time I just don’t want to be bothered with family life. Honestly, it’s not even the fact that I want another man, I truly just want peace. I have been feeling overwhelmed with starting a new business, managing family life, creating products, writing a book, working to supplement income for myself, and there’s never anytime for me to just not be busy. My partner and I have a bad past history which makes me not really be able to fully be vulnerable, but since God has asked me to trust him to fix it, and to remain open towards my fiancé, I am doing so now, but it’s hard.
Thanks for sharing so much truth! You bring so much hope and speak life. I’m standing for salvation and restoration for my marriage.
Thank you so much for the encouragement, your words are blessing for me. I was needing all this information. You are glorifying God with your kind work.
I am waiting for my wife to fully surrender to the Lord and seek his will. Praying for restoration
Hello beautiful man and woman of God! I'm seeing this video two years later as I'm the one standing for my marriage. I wanted to thank you both for sharing and being transparent about your marriage. This video has given me confirmation that I am on the right track. Thank you so much for allowing God to use your story to encourage us in our journey. God bless you both!!! ❤
Pain doesn’t last for ever thank you so much for your words your testimony God is using you to comfort the heart of us standers keep those videos coming pray for my prodigal and for me our anniversary is 7-2-2005 God is working I believe it
May GOD bless you and yours. May HE continue to give you the strength to endure and patiently go through the process. I pray your marriage is restored. May the Lord’s will be done in your life. Take care.
I love how y’all hold to the truth of Gods word! Remarriage is adultery! Separate or reconcile ❤️ God bless your marriage!
My husband now has a gf.should i still stand? Can god still reconcile us?
Thank you for writing in, you already know our story and if God can do it for us, he can most certainly do it for you. All we have to do is remain faithful to God and trust him.
Wow, to God be the Glory you guys are amazing and beautiful, I myself standing for the marriage and standing on God's promises, seeing you guys testimony just gives me confirmation knowing God is going to do it for me and everyone else that is standing, and it's so true that God works through people like you Guys and what you have been through just to confirm his word. So I am believing and receiving.. You guys be bless and God bless you. 🙏🏽🙌🏽
I had pain daily. I felt like part of me was missing. I was attached to him. I had to cleanse my soul from the pain. It has been crazy hard. My husband seems to be thriving, so that of course hurts as well.
And that is the trick of the enemy telling you to move on..."grass is not greener on the other side" trust me it is a cloud of smoke and mirage ...
I needed this. Powerful.
It's a tearing of the flesh, very painful
If I’m not married to him, but I hold on, I never was married in front of god - but I feel he is the one (I’m from inside not able to move, I feel he is my husband) - does god hear my prayers, does he want us to stay as a family (I was married before but not in church, he too and the father of my children died, he was great to my children, they love him) but he is constantly running and hoping the grass is greener elsewhere, he comes back again and again, he is caring so much pain inside from former relationships … does god hear me, have I the right to pray for us like he is my husband …
But in truth, you are single till married. Until you both have gone before the Lord he can do whatever he wants especially if he is not walking with the Lord. Know that sometimes we get a glimpse of what God is trying to shield us from, yet if we walk into it blindly thinking this man or woman is going to change, one will be in for a hard road ahead.
Trust God and him only shall he lead you .🙏
This is my second marriage and my husband left. I'm my to let him go since we should not have been married? I wasn't aware that I was committing adultery when I married him.
What has God asked you to do? The word of God is what each of us have to line up to. God's word gives us Biblical instruction as to how we should live, walk, love, communicate and deal with heartbreak as it relates to marriage. Sometimes we make choices BC (Before Christ) and we didn't know, but after we have been exposed to the truth we are then judged by what we do know. Seek God, ask him for direction in this next season and I guarantee he will answer 🙏
Thank you both for sharing your testimony, I am a stander my husband walked out saying he didn't want to be married anymore,the pain the hurt it was so devastating, at one time I didn't think I could go through it BUT GOD, he is such an awesome God, I really had no ideal concerning marriage restoration& how God could restore my marraige, I begin looking at you tube and I saw it was many, many more spouses that are standing for their marriages,after listening to you and other stander its hope for me& my husband, I keep trusting God that we will be sharing our testimony soon. ❤️
I can’t say thank you enough for sharing your testimony. It wasn’t by accident that I came across this video. It was a confirmation. I needed to hear these words.Blessing and love to your union and ministry. Much ❤️
Do you know of a spouse that abandoned his wife and child for over one year without any communication at all. He is living with another woman whom he says is the best thing that ever happened to him. He says he’s so happy. But completely walked away from our child is the most difficult because they were so close.
There have been quite a few here in the comments going through very similar things.. Just know you are not alone and God has the last say.. Stay strong in these uncertain times.. 🙏
@@anuncommonlove1112 Thank you thank you &amen
I said alot of hurt for things God was dealing with me I had a lot of hurt from my childhood weed porn diction but give my life fully to the lord and it seems like the lord want me to have one on one time with him I've have my son full time she is gone my heart breaks but God is my strength so thankful for the time with him love him for strength he giving me
Let the peace of God comfort, build up and restore you in this season..
Stay strong and be encouraged. 🙏
I wished my husband will think to come back to God and to his family.
Continue to stand in the gap o
n his behalf and trust the hand of God.
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I'm all smiles because I just love this couple
My Husband and I are fine but I love these videos
Thank you for sharing.
Yes I’m waiting on my husband to come home … and yes I have socks waiting for him lots of new socks … I haven’t heard from him for over a year 😞.
⚔⚔🛡🛡🛡🛡💥💥💥Amen water your own grass, you have truly BLESS Me, your own marriage need maintenance 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Replay on labor Day 2023
I am currently going through this with husband. He has detached emotionally. It’s been really hard. I am trusting and standing for my marriage.
Having done all to stand, stand.....Trust God and continue to be a light to your husband. Love covers a multitude of faults, cover him and stay encouraged.
@@anuncommonlove1112 Amén 🙏 thank you
My covenant husband came home June 8th, I was out of town and didn’t know. Hes home but not restored. It’s been a lot of triggers that remind me of what separated us before
I’m praying the court case with me and OW is dropped. Court on Monday July 1st. He was home with me and our 3 children Christmas morning when she called on FaceTime out of town at his parents house. I lost it before I knew it and violated my order but never threaten her. She’s made stuff up, filed and order against me playing victim and now I have to go to court smh 7 months later this has been drawn out
@uncommon love - thank you for your prayers. Case was dismissed
Yet he’s still seeing her and now acting like we roommates
When does the Netflix end @anuncommonlove
Thank you for writing in. Always Gods timing, our jobs is to be ready, quickened, restored and renewed in mind heart and spirit ready for our spouses. With God first place, nothing is impossible, trust him.
Thank you so much for giving us hope through your story. Am a young married lady for 4years now, ( no kids)my husband walked out of our marriage 2 months ago. The pain of rejection is so unbearable, my relationship with God is stifled - why would God do this to me am his child. Sometimes i want to keep standing, believing God / having faith for his return, but most times when i think about the hurt and pain i just don't want him anymore. But as a genuine child of God I need God to help my unbelief to believe for his return. Thanks again for sharing.
God loves when we our honest with him and to ourselves. As many say one thing then do another. Honesty requires each of us to look in the mirror at ourselves and say what must I do...? Not anyone else but me, what is the requirement God is looking for out of me. Where do I accell and fall short, what am I strong for in my belief and also my unbelief. God is going to honor your honesty and faithfulness trust him through it all...we will be praying for you.
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My husband is a narcissist, so there’s been a lot of confusion concerning my stand , but he confirmed me to do it , it’s been 5 years now since I been standing , very weary, ready to call the quits, he recently told me he had a girlfriend, and now he’s telling me he moving , I’m so hurt and broken , sometimes I feel God loves men more , they go out and do them , we forgive and take them back and it’s not right , I know I’m rambling but I guess I’m still hurt😢
I don’t understand how he can just up and leave me with heart failure, lost our 4 month old , broken heart and 2 little girls , no income anything …
I agree that it’s tough to leave, he waited for house arrest to leave
My husband was never really attached to our kids
I have really enjoyed your videos. Please pray for me. I just found out yesterday that my wife is now dating someone. We have been separated six months and this has really devastated me. I feel so hurt but am holding on and standing.
Stand strong Rafael and we will stand and pray for you as you go through this process. The key is to go through with shakey knees and all, but go through.. Be blessed 🙏
I pray that God brings this message to my husband. 🙏🏼You both described exactly what’s going on in my marriage right now. I’m feeling weak because his heart is ice cold. He has his own place now and hardly comes around to see the kids. I keep praying for revelation, strength, wisdom and peace. This week has been tough because I was feeling angry and wanted him to hurt like I was. I am in constant prayer on a daily basis but it seems like I’m going to have to step it up. As much as I am tired, I believe and trust in our Mighty Father. I know that he is working and will unravel his plan in his time.
Thank you again for your honesty and testimony. Truly encouraging. God bless you!
Your testimony has been the most reliable to my stand. Praise God for restoration of your marriage, God is faithful to complete what He started. Thank you for sharing both sides, I always wonder if my husband goes through anything. 🙏❤️🙌🏼
I am curious if you had stories of prodigal spouses who leave and come back after the divorce but the other spouse doesn't want reconciliation and now the prodigal is now the stander.
Yes quite a few... 🙏
Amen!!!!
Thank you Jesus!
God bless you brother and sister in Christ! I’m standing, almost there!!!
Pray for me please, I want to continue with Jesus!!!
Thank you. I feel so helpless. My husband left 2 months ago. I pushed him away emotionally and now that God is working with me and I can feel the healing and my failures he doesn’t trust that I’ve changed. He continuously asked me “ why now? Where was this before?” So I keep praying that his heart heals and that he fully forgives me and we reconcile. The pain is real! I have 3 little ones that are suffering. Pray for our family please.
Thank you for sharing your story, God is going to do it for you....Continue to trust God through it all, trust him even when the storms age and doesn't look good at all. Pray for your husband in spite of himself and allow humility to reside in and through you.. We will be in prayer with you in this season. Be blessed..
Im in the same boat
Amen!!!
Please pray for me!! I got married in October 2021 and less than a month later, I was the one to leave and go to a whole other state. I left because there was abuse of drugs and I thought I could deal with the fighting and arguing since we got married, but I knew I couldn't deal. So for six months I've been away from my new husband. I love him very much and all I want is for our marriage to be restored and for him to be substance free. I'm standing and I'm the one who left!!!!
Be encouraged, stay stro g, prayers going up.. 🙏
Yard Work need maintenance Every Two WEEKS 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥
Amen. This word was on point for me.
Thank you guys so much.
Powerful
Amen Amen
Thank you for this encouragement. God is good and faithful! 🙏💕
Yes. It's ok to make a mistake. It's ok to go home. God can heal what looks impossible. As a wife, not having that covering is so hard. ❤