Can a Marriage Survive Infidelity? Powerful Story of Hope | The Noble Marriage
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- Rusty and Heather Bryant were high school sweethearts who married in 1996. In 2011, Heather confessed to being unfaithful. The unexpected confession of betrayal threatened to end their 15 years of marriage, but God had other plans. Shortly after her confession, Heather experienced an encounter with God that launched the couple on a journey to save their marriage. Their healing took place over the course of several years through counseling, mentors, retreats, and a life changing marriage intensive. Rusty and Heather now have a passion for helping marriages, especially couples in crisis. Because their own marriage crisis was very public, they are able to use their story as a platform to give hope to all marriages.
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Thank you guys, I needed to hear this. I need help, I pray that I can start healing soon. I just don't know what to do. I thank God for Jesus because I can't even imagine dealing with this situation without Him. Thank you Jesus. Please keep doing what you guys are doing. You have given me hope.
Thank you for this comment and for watching this video.
I pray that God will heal your heart and that His Will be done in your life.
Yes grieving the a big part! Yes My husband came home 2 1/2 months ago . He was talking with a woman far away (thank God) online -emotional affair. It was all God that got him out of that- he repented and sorrowful! However now I’m going through some triggers? Like a delayed reaction- like if he says something about his life last summer? I think ugh when he was talking to her! It just comes out of the blue! Even triggers that come just like an arrow- out of no where! So please pray for me! I need Gods healing! ❤
I adore Heather and Rusty's testimony. They have given me so much hope for mine. The Holy Spirit gave me the word restoration. My whole life has changed now that I am chasing Jesus. I am leaning on Him heavily through my storm. Even though I miss my husband and desire restoration more than anything, I'm thankful for this pain because now I've met Jesus ❤️
Satan cannot have my marriage. My husband is a gift from God and I'm praying every day that he will seek the face of Jesus.
We adore them also.
Thanks for the comment. We are praying over this and that Gods will be done.
@@TheNobleMarriage also your testimony was beautiful as well! Jesus is showing me that He can restore the completely broken. I'm praying so hard He will come to my rescue.
Wow! Thank you so much for the kind words! We will be praying for you and your husband. What an awesome testimony you have - keep chasing Jesus!
That husband is going to be sorry, once a cheater, always a cheater, she will break h is heart again, I feel bad for him and the kids.@@TheNobleMarriage
I understand what Heather means about doing it all over again in order to find Jesus. But honestly I don’t think I would ever put my wife through all the pain I caused her to find Jesus. Don’t get me wrong I love Jesus, but I don’t think I could ever see the pain that’s ingrained in my mind from seeing my wife so hurt. But I do understand. Thank you for sharing this testimony.
Totally: I look back at my past also and I think I am so grateful I’ve been able to walk through that and on the other side and learned and let go of so much.
And if there were a possibility to go back, I would be a better decision maker and avoid hurting so many people around me because of my choices.
Thank you for sharing
Hello there!! Thank you for joining us for this video!
Thank you to Rusty and Heather
I am being so encouraged by your podcasts. Thank you for what you guys do!
As I am listening to this couple story when he says that God told him that he had permission to leave but God was asking him to stay, I had to pause as I began crying because years ago God told me the same exactly thing with almost those same words! I’ve been believing for restoration for 10 years. I believe God is just about to do a miracle for my marriage and family and his words reminded me of what God asked of me and I know He will be faithful save my husband and restore my marriage. God bless you abundantly ❤
We are praying and believing with you!
Amen! Thanks Rusty and Heather for praying over them! God bless you guys.
Hey, thank you for posting this vulnerable post. We come into agreement and pray for a restoring of your marriage and that Gods will be done in your hearts and lives in Jesus name.
My husband left me 8 months ago (well I put him out) for a younger woman after 35 years of marriage. I just couldn’t put up with his behavior anymore. I still love him and I am heart broken. We were together more than half our lives and I thought it would be forever🥲The whole family and our 31 year old son are just so shocked at what he’s doing. It’s just not him at all but he seems to be totally bewitched from this other woman. I hope and pray that god leads him back home where he belongs.
Yes. The enemy is real and is like a roaring lion. He has come to steal, kill and destroy.
I’m so sorry to hear this. We pray for healing in both of your hearts and open eyes, ears, hearts and minds in this.
hey, I don't usually comment on stuff like this. But I was like your husband back in 2009-2011. God supernaturally visited me back in 2011 causing me to completely stopped cheating. My marriage didn't survive, we actually broke up and got divorce in 2023, but not because of me. I'm a 100% strong Christian since my visitation with Jesus, my ex is the one now that left God. Crazy. She was a strong christian, I was a cheater. Now I'm the strong Christian and she left God and us. But God is in control. Anyway, God can change your husband's heart. God did it to me and I'm a great redeemed Godly man, great father and I love Jesus. So keep praying. Anything is possible with God. Blessings!
This is really what you need for your marriage the Love of God and forgiving each other . God forgive your sin so your husband his role of forgiving , and now your marriage is better than before . Just don’t go back sort of sin
Thanks for watching and for sharing this
Beautiful!
Thank you!
Praying that my wife has a supernatural experience, and God draws her back to him and then back to our marriage. I hope she wakes up and realizes she already has all her dreams right in front of her. I love 0:21 her and will continue stand for her.
Amen, we come in agreement with this prayer and pray that God brings your wife back and restores your marriage and hearts! Thank you for watching and continuing to follow along!
Great story...
Glad you enjoyed it
Thank you for watching!
I've seen hundreds and hundreds of testimonies. When is it going to be my turn I'm gonna be standing longer than my marriage lasted. Starting to think it's not worth it. I need Help
I pray for peace over you and I pray for Gods will to be done in your heart and life.
My wife out me out for financial reasons, and parentimg differences, and communication issues. I find these stories to be very difficult because I did not cheat, I was working hard at least I think I was at being a good and even better man, both of us are believers but yet she has put me iut and blocked me on the phone and on all socail media. I am standing and oraying daily for my marriage though. Please pray with me for total restoration of my marriage. Iiss my wife so much.
I want to thank you for sharing vulnerably. I pray for both you and your spouses eyes, ears, hearts, and minds to be open to the Spirit of Truth and that any veil of the evil one will be removed in the name of Jesus. Amen.
I come into agreement with you. Amen .
Thank you for sharing your heart. I’m so sorry you are experiencing such deep pain. I pray for peace over your heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Amen.
18:27 MY WHY, for standing
I hope my husbands life changes forever
Amen! Praying for your husband and that God rescues his heart!
I appreciate people who will share and try to give hope to others going through this. Stories of grace and forgiveness are important. However, these stories are almost completely lacking in any conversation about how the betrayer demonstrated remorse to their wounded partner and worked to rebuild trust. People need to hear that part because there is no real healing and a much longer road to forgiveness and health without it. If interviewees can’t express that, and interviewers won’t ask, how much repentance has really taken place? Some of these stories feel like a betrayed party showing remarkable grace and everyone celebrating that as healthy Christian recovery without any real demonstration of remorse by the betrayed for the hurt caused. Just a lot of talk about the slippery slope into sin and then grace shows up and how wonderful that is and God’s power. Videos that address the rebuilding part would be a lot more realistic, helpful and hopeful.
Thank you for sharing this comment. This is just one story of many we have on our channel. We have an entire series that talks about what the betrayer needs to do to earn trust back in the relationship and it’s a powerful series. I’ll put a link here for you. Please check out and subscribe to our channel. Every week we release more videos to help both the betrayed and betrayer move forward in a healthy, God honoring way. I encourage you to not make judgments based on 1 story and how God led them to share. In this video, This couple has a powerful testimony and are now serving God and helping other couples heal. This is a powerful testimonial that they did do the work needed for both hearts to heal. It breaks my heart to see so many harsh comments about their story when this is only a portion of what they went through. Thank you for watching and continuing your own healing from the pain you’ve experienced in your marriage!
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@@TheNobleMarriage the content you develop deals with this aspect. My point is that none of the interviewees address it in any significant way and it isn’t asked. It leaves a false impression of recovery from this type of betrayal when real couples, many of whom minister to others, skip from the betrayal, to discovery, to forgiveness like it’s a linear path and you never hear them mention the path from regret to remorse to rebuilding trust. If I were a betrayed spouse looking for hope from these interviews, I would conclude that almost no betrayer understands the importance of demonstrating their remorse. They simply want forgiveness to alleviate their guilt so they can talk about how beautiful second chances are. This is true of almost every Christian couple I’ve heard give these testimonies. It’s not judgmental to say true remorse from the offending spouse is an important part of healing and that if you watch an entire series of “real couple” videos and it’s barely mentioned, that is a problem. The claim that true and deep healing without it doesn’t ring true. And if their heart was to truly help restore people’s relationships you would think they would mention one of the key elements if they themselves understood how critical it was. As a Christian, and someone whose parent’s marriage was impacted by this mess, I can tell you having testimonies that address this aspect would help many couples. Too many just blame sin (true, but no accountability for their role), talk a little about how they drifted from God during that time, then discovery and tears, then forgiveness and a little speech about how the betrayer is worthy of love and isn’t defined by their past. Queue the worship band and alter call so Jesus can save their marriage. The betrayed party’s experience, and the betraying party’s role in helping them recover, is never mentioned or, if it is, it’s a bit part in the overall drama. So, the content you develop is good but these interviewees leave a lot to be desired, at least from the perspective of the betrayed party.
@@matthartsook2147I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We are going live on TH-cam Wednesday because of this question and we will address it then!
We AGREE WITH YOU 100%
Praise God for you opening our eyes to this!
Thank you for such a detailed comment! It’s obvious and yet wasn’t that obvious to me.
@@matthartsook2147 thank you again. This is the video we made after your comment. th-cam.com/users/liveLkibYcf2D8Y?si=0-nFlxH79TP72OjI
God will restore my marriage I don’t want to help people after I get through what I’m going through after everything happens and my marriage is completely restore
I should throw in there and then either one of us have actually cheated
I’m praying for full restoration in your marriage and both your individual lives as well. One thing I know is that God loves to write stories He can be seen in so he gets all the credit. And the power of the testimony is so great. Thank you for watching and sharing.
How does a man get past the intrusive thoughts of his wife being with the other man?! How do you not constantly visualize him doing things to and with her?! I can only assume he was part of their church circle now you have to see his face on a regular basis?!
Thank you for this comment and your vulnerability.
I’m so sorry you are experiencing this.
However it is a normal experience where the enemy has a playground with our minds.
I pray Gods supernatural peace over your thoughts and mind in Christ Jesus.
(Philippians 4:6-7)
Also pray this prayer out loud. It helps. Over and over
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No one can. That’s why this is so heinous. The highest disrespect to him and he still has to live it and put on a smiley face
Having a memory is a not the enemy. These videos never seem to address the importance of trustworthiness, humility and a demonstrated change of heart from the betrayer. Healing the relationship and moving past those triggers requires humility, consistency, and dedication over time from the betraying party. Empathy, warmth, and dedication are incredibly healing. Without those, the betrayed part has a much more difficult path to forgiveness. Yet these videos spend so much time talking about the power of sin and forgiveness, and almost no time on what the betrayer needs to do to help heal the wound they’ve created. That’s a huge gap.
What marriage intensive
I believe they went to Hope Restored Intensive. We also have intensives that are for lasting healing. You can check out more about it here: thenoblemarriage.com/marriage-intensives
No remorse on her part at all….
thank you for your comment. I imagine you have experienced some pain and trauma similar to this couples story. I pray that you find the healing you deserve and that God will restore your heart! This story is a powerful story of healing and I assure you she has a lot of remorse from the pain she caused and has done the work to heal her marriage. I pray you experience the same!
She still doesn't respect him, it's all about (from her mouth) I, I I, me, me, me. Her talking was 90% to his %10. She never took accountability. She never considered the impact it made on her husband. She never addressed his pain. You can tell just by looking in his eyes that he's still broken. She even said that she would do it all over again, just to find Jesus. Well, clearly she hasn't found Him, because it's still all about her, and if she had in fact found Him, then the very thought of doing it again would appal and disgust her. But no, its all about her. She never addressed his pain, nor does she stop talking over him. Her disrespect for her husband is the very reason why she cheated in the first place. If she didn't get caught would she have stopped? No. Definitely not, because it was all about her, and her husband didn't matter until she needed healing. So instead, her husband's pain and hurt was put on the back burner and invalidated, to once again meet her needs, to the point where even now she sees no wrong in it, and that she's the victim. What about her husband? You can see his pain. You can see how much he loves her, but that he was never given the right, nor the grace to heal properly because it was all about her, and still is. Very sad indeed.
I see what you’re talking about when they speak only about themselves and how their betrayal caused so much embarrassment and shame to themselves it becomes obvious there’s no repentance for deeply hurting the husband and if their infidelity wasn’t DISCOVERED the betrayal would have likely continued. The reason she “sat through it” with him was that she wanted to keep the family together for the kids and out of pride. Someone PLEASE tell me how this type of situation plays out!
I also see what you're saying. The hurt in his eyes breaks my heart and it's as if she doesn't even notice. ??? Cheaters are super selfish people who think of themselves and dismiss the future impact, living in the now moment. It's very fortunate people like these couples have so much family and support around them. Most of us struggling don't have that. It's a lonely road to walk with doubt and despair. No wonder people want to kill themselves. I completely understand... poor souls. I'm glad God restored these couples lives. My heart breaks for those of us who are less fortunate 💔... please Jesus help us too.
Its been 11 years, she cant be still grovelling, she said she realised that what she had done was a sin against God, how much more repentant than that should she be?
When she said I, I, I, was where she was owning up to her part in falling into the affair , i havent heard her give a single excuse except that she went into sin.
She even says when she looks back she is appalled, at the 52nd minute i havent heard her once speak over him.
If he has forgiven her, shouldnt we all?
Same old same old story. Married young had kids quickly life is tough , husband busy bla bla bla. Another guy’s 🍌 was just so good she had to try it.
He’s there for the kids and most of the church is not helpful. Those who advised him to leave were right. 11 years on he still has triggers. Should have left her if he had the money and resources. Kids are older now he has no obligations to stay with her. He can stay we can all say what an excellent guy he is. Buts that’s it. Just that.
Thank you for sharing where you are and how this is impacted you. It’s important to know that this video is not the whole story and they have a beautiful relationship and marriage now. They have done the hard work to heal and honor God through their mistakes in the past. I am sorry for what you have been through and my encouragement is to keep watching our channel. It is FULL of great videos to help individuals heal from the pain of unfaithfulness. We are in a series right now that is our background story and how unfaithfulness even begins. It goes far deeper than this couples story in this video. I’ll post the link below and pray you receive the healing God died on the cross for you to have!
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I am sorry, but Heather cheating is unforgivable.he should divorce her, and keep her away from his family, A cheating woman is beneath contempt
Thank you for sharing your perspective. However I respectfully don’t agree. After being married to someone who was unfaithful, restoring our marriage has been the best thing for both of our lives. Jesus is a miracle worker and he loves using broken people who have walked this road to help others get the healing they deserve too. Heather was transformed by Jesus in a moments time and her marriage has been completely restored to even better than it was before. I’ve had the same experience in my own marriage. Betrayal is what SAVED my marriage. Not everyone learns their lesson and has a wake up call, but those that do, they live a life of passion, transparency and openness. This is what makes it beautiful on the other side of restoration.
Amen. The same. Takes work and no self justification. Hard work no one wants to do or accept, easy to call it. But it has it responsibilty from the cheater to do much more than expected without expecting
You wouldn't say that if it was the other way around 🙄
Men cheat for sex, it is wrong, but that is the reason. Women cheat at an emotional level, they intentionally want to hurt others because of their “feelings “, their cheating is at a deeper more cruel level @@starrangel0
If you believe a cheating wife can change, then you are a fool. A cheating wife is beyond disgusting @@TheNobleMarriage
I wish you well, I truly do. But an adulterous woman will not change her ways. I pray for you and your family. When she betrays you again, don’t say I didn’t warn you.
Thank you for sharing