How exactly is it the banks fault ! There needs to be more personal responsibility from these so-called victims of romance fraud - if you willingly send someone you have just met online £20,000 you have no one to blame but yourself.
@@Mel87ybut how is it anything to do with the bank? Dating app for not checking him?? Plus taking personal responsibility. He should be forced to pay her back. Garnishee his wages.
If your walking through a town centre and a random stranger comes up to you asking for money would you pull out your Purse a hand it over so why hand it to a total stranger
How do these people fall for it; if someone borrows a small amount, don't lend more till it's been repaid and some kind of trust built, not just keep giving till into the thousands with a promise of the implausible! 'A borrower nor a lender be'
@@Based_Stuhlinger Define an "Ordinary man" this guy looks very "ordinary" to me. Also, she clearly doesn't have high standards because she's giving her money away! If you have high standards you don't let men treat you like this, and you also treat yourself with respect.
Why is everyone victim blaming? Clearly, a lack of empathy from viewers who may have not been scammed. She was clearly manipulated and used. He took advantage of her kind nature and emotional state. The real blame should be on the fraudster and the police should be involved to hold him accountable.
All these perfect people in the comments who never made a mistake in their life. If you can’t be taken advantage of it’s because you had a good childhood. Stop shaming those who didn’t.
How exactly is it the banks fault ! There needs to be more personal responsibility from these so-called victims of romance fraud - if you willingly send someone you have just met online £20,000 you have no one to blame but yourself.
Because it was fraud
@@Mel87ybut how is it anything to do with the bank? Dating app for not checking him?? Plus taking personal responsibility. He should be forced to pay her back. Garnishee his wages.
Probably because the banks have more money than sense lol
Lol 🤣 what a joke. The bank has an insurance policy for the love scammed now
Exactly
To give all that money to someone you have never met is insane.
Absolutely
They did meet
They did meet, they were meeting eachother for months before all this
So she won't take any accountability?
If you go on Dating Sites and chat with someone who starts talking about money early on. Thats a red flag
For sure !
Exactly
Duh
One rule you should always stick to is, don’t give anyone more than you can afford and never expect it back.
She is not a victim
*She must accept some blame!*
Every man who has been divorced be like its cost me more than 20000£!!
Victim ? More of a fool … what a muppet
I wish she was more eloquent & offered more detail. She was just saying “erm” every sec 😅
There's a man doing this to my elderly mother right now, and even she realises it's her fault.
How is it fraud, she gave him money so it’s a gift
😂😂
Victim! I don't think so. Nobody made her do it!!!
Pathetic
Sorry why why would you give these people money! I am sick and need money please !😢😢😢
If your walking through a town centre and a random stranger comes up to you asking for money would you pull out your Purse a hand it over so why hand it to a total stranger
How do these people fall for it; if someone borrows a small amount, don't lend more till it's been repaid and some kind of trust built, not just keep giving till into the thousands with a promise of the implausible!
'A borrower nor a lender be'
Bank payed her back 20k i bet.
If not at least its not like 200k like the other woman
Here we go again oh look at me I'm a victim it's the banks fault I met a waste man online
She is a pretty intelligent woman. Not a victim at all
Nigerian.
Where was the scam? He asked and she handed over her money, silly woman.
Funny how we never ask why these women get finesses when they go for the top 1% of guys only to get swindled for their stupidly high standards.
Top 1% ? You're kidding right 😂😂
You haven’t got high standards in the first place if you get scammed like this !
@@melinmove I mean the people posing as such not the person behind the catfish. If they went for ordinary men this probably wouldn't have happened.
@@Based_Stuhlinger Define an "Ordinary man" this guy looks very "ordinary" to me. Also, she clearly doesn't have high standards because she's giving her money away! If you have high standards you don't let men treat you like this, and you also treat yourself with respect.
@@MyFrankieee Exactly
Rofl.... people still use the internet to hook up?
I do feel bad for this woman but people are terrible judges of character nowadays
I don't get it I know for a fact know one would that to me I wouldn't part with £2
So basically she is naive and gullible, yet she is crying wolf and not taking any responsibility herself, laughable.
yikees!
Why is everyone victim blaming? Clearly, a lack of empathy from viewers who may have not been scammed. She was clearly manipulated and used. He took advantage of her kind nature and emotional state. The real blame should be on the fraudster and the police should be involved to hold him accountable.
All these perfect people in the comments who never made a mistake in their life. If you can’t be taken advantage of it’s because you had a good childhood. Stop shaming those who didn’t.